Ayodeji was a student of the National Open University, Lagos and an ex-student of CMS Grammar school. There's never an excuse for suicide. May his soul rest in peace.
Tuesday, 5 June 2012
Young man hangs self after saying goodbye on Facebook
Ayodeji was a student of the National Open University, Lagos and an ex-student of CMS Grammar school. There's never an excuse for suicide. May his soul rest in peace.
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Oya na his own.we aLl have our own stress. so I should start fryin beans or wat. Let him go meet lucifer. Mumu
Sigh! May his soul RIP
The meaning of his FaceBook farewell message should be found out. What was he referring to? What the they say about him?
Requiescat In Pace.
Ds z lyk d 2nd tym m hearn sth lyk ds. Na wa o.....fins r hapnin sha. God! Tk ctrl.
Bad decision. R.I.P
Amen oooo...chaiiii, y na? Never an excuse for suicide oooo
tHIS BITCH ASS IS NOT A GRAMMARIAN, WE STAND, STRIFE AND FIGHT. WE ALWAYS SEE TO THE END. ON AND ON. FOUNDERS DAY TOMORROW.
There are plenty of excuses for suicide...
People who mess up big time can take the honorable way out and end it all... Goebbels, Hitler, Et. al...
Am suprised to see this news here,he stays a few streets away from my house,heard his family is absolutely devastated right now! Its really sad hope u rests in peace
What? Since when did Nigerians start acting like white people that commit suicide because of what people say about them?
Linda are u sure this guy is dead? he had activity on his facebook 2hours ago.
What did they say about him?
Linda , you are so ignorant. Causes of suicide include depressive illnesses, adjustment reactions, acute stress reactions as well as psychosis and psychotic-like illnesses. there is an interplay of neurochemicals leading to unfortunate situations. Your role on your blog should be to alert people regarding mental health and encourage treatment ranging from counselling, psychotherapy as well as medical treatment. That is why it is studied as a science just like physical illnesses are.With appropriation of evidenced based treatment, people get better in many cases and other structures may be put in place to help stabilisation e.g spiritual awareness,CBT, DBT etc.Look at PET imaging of Dopamine receptors of those who have attempted suicide( if you know what i mean). My Sister, for Nigeria to move forward economically and academically every one should educate themselves a little more than the basics .
The Devil has finally found tenancy in Nigeria. What the heck did they say about him in school that prompted this suicidal move? I'm curious and would really like to know. Worse case scenario they probably called him gay. Hen hen so what's the biggy. This is so reminiscent of the gay boy situation who was video taped having sex with his gay partner in his college dorm in New Jersey. Thereafter, said his goodbyes on FB and jumped into the Hudson River.
The Devil has finally found tenancy in Nigeria. What the heck did they say about him in school that prompted this suicidal move? I'm curious and would really like to know. Worse case scenario they probably called him gay. Hen hen so what's the biggy. This is so reminiscent of the gay boy situation who was video taped having sex with his gay partner in his college dorm in New Jersey. Thereafter, said his goodbyes on FB and jumped into the Hudson River.
huh! I do NOT believe this! Where is the autopsy report? I knew this guy from my former church and this is totally not him!
May your soul RIP...God knows the truth.
-Phoebe.
lord have mercy.
Dr. knw t al! Wahz d insult 4? Fool!
Sharrap dia, university of google psychiatrist. So what has linda done to provoke this ur rant and for u to call her ignorant. I can see u are suffering from pressire of thought, kolomental
And u linda if u no post my comment thunder faya dat ya flat nyash
young man just said good bye...God save his soul.
with all dis depressing news everywhere, maybe all of us shuld consider suicide. He shuld have tried to talk to sm1 instead of facebook.
THIS YOUNG MAN COMPLAINED ON FACEBOOK ASKING PEOPLE TO GIVE HIM ADVICE ON HOW TO DEAL WITH HIS EDUCATIONAL STRESS!! HE RELIED ON A FRIEND SAYING HE IS HAVING SO MUCH DIFFICULTIES IN HIS ACADEMIC WORK AND THE WHOLE THING IS DEPRESSING HIM!! THIS GUY ASKED FOR HELP IN LOCAL FORUMS BUT I GUESS HE DIDNT GET ENOUGH HELP. PARENTS THIS DAYS DON'T HAVE AFFECTION OR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR CHILDREN; THAT IS WHY MANY NOW CONFIDE IN BLOGS FOR ADVICE; AT THE END O THE DAY; PEOPLE INSULT THEM AND THEIR CONDITION WHICH LEADS TO SUCH SUICIDE ACT..
Uche, thanks you just took the words out of my mouth!
Thank you Uche. God bless you for that piece. Sad, really sad
Doctor Uche,pls kindly set up a quack clinic to address future suicide victims n leave our dear Linda as ignorant as she is to face her blog u hear?she is ignorant n u a 'whole'doctor(u wish!)is wasting his time on her blog???r u not equally ignorant Doctor Uche? Mr ITK.
A lot of young people are suffering from all sorts of depression. We need to help as a caring society. Kind words, hugs and love go a loooong way in helping. You need to visit Yaba Left to see cases of depression. Not complete madness o, just depression. Lets make someone happy, can we? No hate words to people that need our help psychologically.
All of u that are busy thanking this quack doctor Uche are very funny sha.So if Linda is dt ignorant,wetin all of una ovasabi dey do for here i beg?NOTHING WHATSOEVER warrants suicide.Yes,i said it.I carry second as una say Linda carry last for lack of 'senselology'
LOL @ a suicide making the headlines in Nigeria. There are dozens of them daily in the US. Rarely makes the news except it's a particularly spectacular one or it's a celebrity.
You shouldn't call someone ignorant when you exhibit sever signs of it urself! Linda is saying the same thing dere is no excuse meaning that every problem deffs has a solution all you have to do is look for it, mental problems included. The guy in question was obviously not clinically depressed he was overwhelmed by shame which humans a wont to do once in a while. :)
Uche,I share same thoughts with you on this.
It's a shame he took his life and it sounds like schizophrenia but probably not caught on time before self harming.
It's heart wrenching all the same...condolences.
What's this ! Nigerian again! Its this trending now?
' This is so reminiscent of the gay boy situation who was video taped having sex with his gay partner in his college dorm in New Jersey. Thereafter, said his goodbyes on FB and jumped into the Hudson River.'
The callousness of this comment is amazing. First of all, this boy hadn't told anyone he was gay. He was still trying to deal with it when he was taped having sex. Even straight people in Nigeria would be rolling on the floor crying about shame if they were taped. Do you know anything about his background? Anything about where he came from or his thoughts? Be sitting on your high horse making dumbass assumptions. And you wonder why the rate of suicide is climbing. Maybe because instead of having someone to talk to they only have people to judge them, which is the only thing we know how to do in Nigeria. We're one of the most ignorant countries in the world and we wear it with pride. And then there's your comment about 'no biggy' about him being gay. Where the hell have you been sleeping? In a country that has made being gay illegal and where the biggest sinners can come to LIB and insult people because of their sexuality, it's no biggie if he said he was gay abi? Bloody hypocrite. Abeg park jo.
Which one be 'Go 90' again o
The annoying part is that the 153 would give anything to have the lives or say goodbye and someone is taking his own.
It is bad that depression is creeping in to our many problems. It would compound issues a lot
Lord have mercy! Going through his pictures on facebook,he seems to be a chorister. RIP
Lmao!!! U replier sef easy now !!! How u take noo d yansh flat like that lool
Really sad,Nigerians do not do sucide what is happening now.really pathetic .they should be lots of phsycologists now for them to start therapy sessions in schools and cities for people who need to talk to do so.which way nigeria.RIP
Kai yoruba boys can do absurd stuffs I swear
This guy had mental problem? Wetin dem say about him na? o ga o! RIP but seriously, parent should sit up and watch their wards closely
Lmao @ thunder fire dt ur flat nyash, thanks u made my nyt. Lol
Dont u think somebody might write those farewell on his behalf to cover his deed,they killed dat guy nd dey shud investigate d incident thorouly
Thanks @ Uche...ure d best in this..I think Linda shld try to be more professional by being neutral in all her posts..Do you knw what he was going through before commiting suicide? Do you knw how bad he must av felt about what he tlked about?? Its a psychological trauma nd thats why teaching people to overcome such feeling is learnt nd institutions..Well, I pray God forgives and count him worthy for a place in paradise...RIP boy..
@Uche i Can See That You Indeed have a Phd in STUPIDITY!, so, For Your Mind nw, you Have Made Sense with The Horse Crap You Have Said, and The Insult u Made at Linda Abi? *Clap For Yourself* #Oshisco, Trying to Form Educated. Mcheeew!
Hmm...so sad may his soul RIP nd may almighty GOD forgive him cos he has no right 2 take his lyf buh I can imagine wat he was going thru...am some 1 who often tyms ve d urge 2 commit suicide@any slight educational distress or emotional provocation such dat I c no reasons 2 continue living buh 4 d fear of almighty GOD who owns my lyf and surely have a purpose for it( so scary)..i think my problem is dat I ve low self esteem and I dont kno how 2 overcome dis...nid advice pls cos I seem nt 2 ve a sense of purpose 4 my lyf
Something is wrong somewhere. The name maureen eze was mentioned on dis guy's page ytd, maureen eze also died today. Looks like a lot of ppl are involved.
Lmfao@ anon 10:21pm
The tongue can b more dangerous dan the knife if used wrongly. Sometimes ppl just blab without thinking, nw wat they said about d young man made him take his life. Nt that his action is justified, everyone is talked about at some point in life. But we ought to watch our mouth sometimes or think before we speak. If ur words won't have any positive end, just short up.
No matter how bad accusations are,I can never ever think of suicide, dats rili crazy,I dnt feel sori 4 such pple ...You don't give life so don't take it..The reward is hell and I'm sure he is a Christian.
R u sure it was actuially suicide? Or someone wants to make it look like suicide?!
Pls try to βε̲̣̣̣̥ a lil bit nice in ur approach, ur comment is S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ uncalled for...its sad enuf dat †ђξ young man committed suicide, smh
Dis uche is juz a fool for calling linda ignorant, so linda wuld start lecturing everybody about all doz things u mentioned abi,ode like u,,u șђǺ, want to run ur mouth..smh for u
What is dis foolish long story abt? Wetin linda suppose do? Abeg go siddon inside gutter. Oversabi oshi
Depression, Anxiety are all mental health issues and any of these can lead to suicide. This didn't just start today, it seems like it cos now we have more access to information (thanks to the internet).
People have been committing suicide for various reasons since time in memorial...
With that said suicide isn't an option. The man clearly needed help which he didn't receive. Now he is gone.
I hope and pray he finds peace.
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Ehn oga/madam Uche so after this ur grammerlogy, you say there's an/are excuse(s) for suicide? Weldone o! Let me tell you again there is NO excuse for suicide!
Oh my God!!! I can relate to this cause I had a problem in school,that was so humilating, I was so depressed,but suicide was never an option.some people are not that strong,I had the support of my family,and a few real friends,the whole world sank on me,I felt like I would not make it through but I held my head up high
(•̩̩̩̩͡_•̩̩̩̩͡) and God saw me through!! He might not have had the kind of help I did. Suicide is never an option!!! Seek professional help or get a journal and write all your thoughts and anger in it.For whosoever is going through the same thing right now,the Lord is your strength and he can see you through!!
Uche (June 5, 2012 10:10 PM)
Your comment is extremely insightful.
One can only hope to read and learn more from a cadre of educated and objective caliber of commenters such as yourself...
ONOME says............
Uche has a very valid point.Depression is an illness like every other psychiatric illness especially the popular schizophrenia otherwise called "kolo" in Nigerian parlance. Linda,take it or leave it.
As for the anon 10;21pm lollllllllllllzzzzz.Nigerians;una no dey try ooo.The yabbings ehn na die!!"uni of google psychiatrist";"pressure of speech";Linda's flat yansh"lollllllllzzzzzz.Issokai!But you got me laughing sha.
Suicide is a strange thing I am hearing in Nigeria.God have mercy on us all.
Lots of people are very IGNORANT (yes, I said it) about suicide. May we never be in a place so low that we stop thinking rationally and see death as the only way out. Depression, schizophrenia etc are ILLNESSES that lead people to take their own lives. It really bothers me when people rain abuses on suicide victims. Not everybody has the right support systems. What we should be doing is seeking education and not displaying ignorance by thinking suicide victims wished a suicidal mindset on themselves. Suicide is horrible and is, of course, never the solution but most victims get to a point where they TRULY BELIEVE THEY HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE.
never a good reason. Dont let the enemy break you. When you are pushed to the wall, turn around and fight back. Dont take away your life. Life is and will always be sacred. How come people are quick to take life but cannot create one hair on man's head?
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Uche. Thank you. You are obviously educated unlike those who are insulting you. Debating with fools is pointless. #GOD SAVE NIGERIA.
I'm jus fed up! Wat is happening? Ha!
I just checked his fb page and this guy is posting comments from dead. His facebook friends are worried. he is calling people's name
I cant take it anymore. I dont want to end up a miserable and depressed person due to all these DEVASTATING news I have been hearing since Saturday. I have had enough. What could they have said about you Ayodeji? it can't pass that you had pre-marital sex, had sex for money, stole or you were caught with a man. I understand as someone who professes or is it professed Christ openly and confidently, these things may be as good as you dinning openly with the devil but those condeming you are not your maker and should not have pushed you to the edge. This is just so sad.
What did they say. I really want to know. You see what I say about people on all these blogs as well. Some of you are going to have the blood of people on your necks some day. Some people are extremely depressive and mentally ill/unstable. When you attack them, sometimes it is hard for them to handle it. We need to be careful with what we say. Bloggers particularly have been very brutal and ruthless but naija being the land of bring my next door neighbor down by any means necessary is just bothersome..ka sha ma rora. God is definitely going to pay everyone for the works of their hands
He probably is Homosexual and can't stand the stigma , hate and bashing from Nigerians...
@the gurlnxtdoor and anonymous10.21- go and learn your tenses and know what insults are and the difference from constructive criticism. You are part of the problem- nutcases we have in Nigeria. Can you even google and articulate what Uche wrote so intelligently- obviously he / she does have some knowledge and probably deals with such people. Suicide is not just a cultural problem, it is a human problem and in many cases a resultant effect from an illness. It is difficult and painful and right- thinking people would not commit suicide. Learn how to talk right. I agree with him or her that we all need to know more but I think you guys especially have to go back to school and hopefully a decent one! If you like call me names , at least I know you read my piece. The shame of it, what would unschooled people then say if people like you two with Internet access could sound ghetto-like
She that doesn't know and doesn't want to know that she doesn't know is dfoolnextdoor in d form of a female!
Are u sure, Linda?
.....that guy still post stories........
but he's been updating his FB page all day today? Them dey browse for yonder ni?
https://www.facebook.com/ayodeji.balogun1?sk=wall
U no try at all! NA Linda u dey yap like this
Sad.
Abeg oo!! Help me ask!!
Blog trolls that have nothing positive to say. Are you God? How dare you judge him for killing himself? Do you not read the bible? God does not think like you do. What yardstick are you using to determine the measure of His love for His children. You come here and write on what you do not know. Do you know how your own tomorrow will be? Instead of you to just ask Him for mercy knowing full well that our lives are in His hands.
He could have joined the dana airplane that crashed?
Aint u just a fool can't u respect d dead? Is dat wat dey taught u in ur so called grammer sch? Fool!!! Only God kws hw many decisions u av ran away 4m!!!! Oponu
His parents shld hav been a lot more observant,nowadays parents don't care about anything..I feel pity for him. He won't make it to heaven.May his soul rest in peace
@Uche; well said!
Uche thank you for your words of wisdom! Linda you should really think about what you say before you say it. If not...its not by force for you to say anything at all! Write the headline and leave it at that! You can be so insensitive at times!
Uche has said it all.... God bless you! May his soul RIP
May God punish 100tyms over! Insensitive fool! Do av any idea wat ppl go thru! Idiot
Uche, you are so dumb. Googler....Dumbo!@!!
U PUNK ASS IMMATURE BITCH! Cuz u live in ur own bubble does nt mean odas dnt av it tough! If u dnt av anythn sensible 2 say STFU! Oloshi forming gangsta, if u were in hs shoes u probably wld av jumped off 3rd mainland bridge long tym ago!
He was probably accused of being gay.
Thank you uche am so tired of Nigerians and their ignorance. Linda pray to GOD you never experience wanting to commit suicide. You just pissed me of big time with your ignorant and insensitive comment about no excuse for suicide rubbish
This is exactly what Linda just did and the rest of these people making comments why should what they say make him commit suicide too many Nigerians are frustrated. I keep saying it be your brothers keeper exercise patience and save a life. If you want to insult someone shut the fuck up be nice and tell them to seek help somewhere else with referral to a pastor doctor family. Save a life have a heart
@ Uche Thx a lot for ur comment. I was abt to say the same thing. Linda ur statements sometimes can be so insensitive, "there is never an excuse for suicide". Please educate yourself and stop feeling like you always have to take a stand on every topic in the world. You start to loose some credibility when you do that. There is never an excuse for ignorance.
Kay
It would amaze you if you went to any of the psychiatric hospitals and see the calibre of patients they have, from bank executives to children of the high and mighty. folks who had amazing jobs at oil companies to chicks who seemed to have dropped straight out of heaven's assembly line.mental illness is still a taboo in Nigeria and is no way a sign of end times like most ignorant people would say, but unfortunately because of cyber bullies who speak without being well informed,such people never get any help from fora like this.this guy was stressed into a state of depression and following that state are suicidal thoughts that if strong enough push them to actually do it.
I should know cos my genius uncle committed suicide when he was regarded as one of the best brains in this country and my family never talks about his depression cos it was caused by a failed relationship and secondly I hav been a doctor for over a decade.
Read Uche's comment below.U ll be more enlightened.Educate urself so u ll stp leaving idiotic,ignorant commts.
U guys judge too much!!! I'm nt sayin suicide ws d best way out..bt u dnt kno d kinda demons dt dis guy had to deal with dt he even tually decided dt his only way he cud av peace ws to take his life...like I said I dnt condone sud acts bt still dnt judge
@ Uche.
I couldnt help but laff at your so called intelligence.
just cos you are an ambitious nurse who can spell psychosis doesnt mean you should address Linda as ignorant.
Ignorant about causes of suicide...since you know so much about it...why dont you start a blog teaching us the many ways that people die....so we can be illumined.
which soul go rest in peace? Lai-lai, he is already in hell for taking his life - KC
God have mercy. May your soul find peace.
Now to you Uche. Linda is not ignorant. She has every right to express her opinion, after all, it's her blog. I dont think anybody in their right senses will come to her blog to find out the causes of sucidal behavious. Thats why google is your friend.
I honestly do not blame the person that called you "university of google psychiatrist". I am suspecting you know sooooo much about this because you have psychiatric issues yourself. Mchewwww. #itoosabi.
Dr. Uche, i think u wld ve made ur point better without insulting our darling Linda. Let this be ur first and last warning, i will not tolerate this nonsense again. On a lighter note, are u related to Hon. Patrick Obiaghagbon, ur grammer is of colossal incomprehensibilitio adetumun - KC
hmmmm......we could he have been accused of that warrants such drastic measures?
Uche God bless you. Nigerians are way too backward and ignorant. Show me anyone who in ordinary circumstances would want to take their life? Sometime life becomes too much of a burden and if your cries for help go unheeded, then only God can stop you from harming yourself. Linda pray that you never get to a point in your life where you don't want to live anymore then you'll find many reasons to end it.
Let's be more compassionate please. You cannot keep making ignorant statements without conducting some much needed research. Let us help those who need help as not everyone can be strong on their own
SO SAD....may his soul rest in peace.@Uche..u really said a lot of truth. People dont just wake up and decide to kill themselves.
It happens when they are wrongly accused of serious negative things, when they feel betrayed or stripped of their integrity, dignity or value
I am going through a similar situation.
He should have talked to his family and church leaders. the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy but JESUS CHRIST comes to give life in abundance.....i personally feel the pain of this loss.
Shut up joor, mumu
Thank you Anon. June 5, 2012 10:27 PM. social media is not were to look for advice, consolation, or even worse friends. Humans need one on one inter relationships to survive. Scientists have warned that spending too much time on social media will eventually lead to a generation without interpersonal social skills bcos its easy to say anything anonymously but how well can you cope in public ? .
Omg.... Omg... Omg..... SMH.... May God the giver of Life forgive u, for taking the life u dint give urself!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel so bad for him..... Wow! If truly u were stressd cos of school and u took ur life! Double WOW!.. May God forgv U, which am sure u must have asked for b4 performing d act.... Nevertheless, u took a wrong step! A complete wrong turn... Pls no1 out deir shld do dis! It solves nothing! It causes some families everlasting sorrow..... Always think of the state ur family will be in, weneva u depart. GOD! I've suffered terrible depression... I mean a horrible one, I googled and saw diffrnt ways of coming out of depression... Initially it dint make sense.... So I prayed more and worked on a lot of things I saw... But I stil wasn't goin to end my life.. #SadMuch! R.I.P
i wonder what they would have said about him to warrant this. na wa o, these children are so feeble minded these days. i remember way back then in school, a lot of things both true and mostly untrue flew around about me and friends but those things made us stronger. kai, i feel sorry for this guy. did he kill somebody? i cannot imagine what happened.
There aint no honour in committing suicide. Only cowards commit suicide cos they don't have the balls to face the challenges of life. "If you have the nerve to commit the crime, you should have the same nerve to face the music"
And mind you, it is an unpardonable sin before God to commit suicide.
There is no rest in peace for you until God forgives you!
Uche d insult was uncessary and uncalled for.
Afta all Чυя grammer,,,dere Ȋ̝̊̅§ still no reason 4 one 2 b suicidal.......U av 2 fight 2 ovacome
Anyone who kills himself Ȋ̝̊̅§ A̷̷̴̐͠ disgrace....if d stress Ȋ̝̊̅§ too much,,den change Чυя location nd start A̷̷̴̐͠ new life where no one knos U.....its better off dan being died
When dere Ȋ̝̊̅§ LIFE,,,dere Ȋ̝̊̅§ HOPE!!
Mr Educator!!! Rubbish! Uncle/Aunty Sabi d talk!!
Linda post mine o!!
Uche, its rather unfortunate that you had to sound this way. I mean what is the insult for. please in as much as you think you know it all I think it is indecent for you to insult people the way you did. this is a public forum. May the young man's soul rest in peace.
when i start feeling good life men my brothers and sisters me must wait till the end of this life and i gho even still beg God for more...lolll this guy should be rejected from heaven sha cos wen u do things like dis you dont go to heaven thats what the bible said.
@ Uche, #realtalk. we tend to underplay depression in our society and other mental and psychological illnesses in this place. we turn everything to spirituality and condemn people based on our religious beliefs. Here we do not have any therapists or people to reach out to. theres medications that help people with this illness. I have suffered from depression since i was 13 and its something i battle with almost everyday. People just look at u and say "oh u have nasty mmood swings or ur very moody". well i wish i had someone to talk to that would really understand, cos sometimes, ur family, ur best friends, ur pastor, dont really understand. Ive had days so low ive contemplated ending it all and how i would do it and the only thing that gets me thru those days and keeps me grounded is my lovely daughter. i dont want to miss out on her life and i must admit my religious beliefs also play a vital role cos i believe its a sin and i wont see my mother again if i dont make heaven.
Fact still remains dpression is real and among us and we shud try and support people with it and not condemn people that lose their battle with this mental illness and take their own lives.
Uche dt is story. this is nija not uk. there are certain diseases we dnt suffer here. its a trick the devil.
Why are they devastated? Where were they when he was going thru stuvs? Suicide wasn't d best option. But this is a wake up call for many families. Many pple go thru hell n yet families don't care cos they feel once they've paid sch fees they've tried. Many pple are dying in silence evydy. Anywy, rip mr.
I didn't even see this b4 commenting above. Thanx to dis anon. Many Families don't have affection for their supposed loved ones. Take it or leave it, Nigeria is still in the stone age. The situation now is even worse cos there are lots of western cover ups, unlike the days of our fore fathers.
i just checked his facebook page and a lady picked and told me its true that he is their choir leader in church! the world is really a mystery1
Linda, how can you say there is no excuse for suicide , did you know what he was going through, did you know what was been said about him, do you know if his parents would have preferred him dead than what was to be revealed, please be more considerate with what you say on your blog, if only he had someone to support him through whatever the issue was, may his soul rest in peace, and seriously you need to consider some comments that are made on your blog regarding the dead, we all have suicidal tendencies but God will not allow us to experience what will make us take our lives, including you Linda
Lord!!!! Have mercy o
Thats really a good 1 uche..for d fact u don't av issues doesn't mean u r right,and d ignorant ones still ask how will d councelling foundadation opened by lasg help...smh*
Did someone say the honourable way? There's nothing honourable about taking your own life!
Linda, this is such a huge loss. the guy was very talented. I have taken pains 2 go through this guy's facebook wall from inception till date and he doesnt strike me as one who could do such but notwithstanding, kindly follow up this story 2 investigate the truth cos presently someone is making a mockery of his death by using his profile 2 post stuffs on facebook even after his demise. something is just not right about this. i am a lawyer and i know wat i am saying. if u read through his previous posts, u will notice that he writes in very good english but dis post about the END was written by someone who doesnt speak good english. please i beg u in God's name help d family by following up this story. this will also help other youths out there. God bless you mightily.
@Uche,...........and your point is??? Maybe you should try sleeping again and waking up on the right side of the bed. Pity, you are in a bad mood
He has Wizkid's names...
No watter wat u are facing dont take ur own life, its not worth it, life is full of different struggles and everyone has one problem or the other. RIP sha.
this guy was active about 8hrs ago on FB, wat could av happened? I think very wide wen it comes to sucide issue, but still couldnt figure out much for now. No matter what, we are not the owner of our lives. God knows better.
Ayodeji Balogun made mention of a name "Maureen eze"... He must definitely be passing msg across... I think people should start to reason about things surrounding that particular name...
@UCHE, YOU ARE A BIG FOOL. IF U WANT TO LECTURE ON THIS BLOG, FINE! BUT TO START INSULTING LINDA FOR JUST PUTTING UP A NEWS HERE, THEN YOU ,MUST BE IN A STATE OF LUNACY. I MEAN, YOU MUST BE RUNNING MAD. WHAT YOU JUST DID PORTRAYS YOU AS AN IDIOT. IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU SEE HERE, WHY NOT HAND YOURSELF TOO, MR. GOOGLE LECTURER.
This is a very sad. unfortunately he died before he could get help for what ever it was that was troubling him.
Is sad and very unfortunate that he could not get the required help before he killed himself.
Please what is Go 90?
Most people commit suicide because of the bad things that people say about them.
Worldwide, some people love to torment other people until they die or commit suicide. Bullying should be a criminal offense worldwide.
Not everyone can take all the rubbish and lies that people tell them and circulate. These wicked people are the ones that should have taken Dana Air and not innocent people.
I wished I knew this guy and convinced him not to take the suicide path.
i jus had to go thru his facebook profile...he's a xtian...i wonder...he's just a fool!!!.Noone and nothing is worth dying for!!!
BAD NEWS SELLS
it is so sad he had to choose that option.depression sucks.i personally would blame someone for taken his or her life till i experienced what it is to be depressed.you wont have joy in anything,you wont consider your parents.you wont be happy over your achievements.it takes the grace of GOD and that STRENGTH which when you are depressed becomes had to get .until you experience it you wont undertstand.i pray for anyone going through this that GOD in his infinte mercy give you that STRENGTH to live life again .i have learnt to let my words and actions make people happy .this has taught me a lot about life too
My advice to his family........
get hold of his phone. go thru his txts and recent calls. if you have access to letters or mails, check them..u may get some revealing information.
My goodness Linda, what kind of followers do you have here? Since when did calling one ignorant become an insult... Mind you I think you are one
@anonymous 9.46am, I commend you for sharing your suffering. Remember depression is an illness just like hypertension or diabetes and it is not your fault and nothing to be ashamed of . Please visit a psychiatrist for medication review and for referral for any psychotherapeutic interventions available in your community. Meanwhile well done for keeping positive.
To Uche... My colleague, I remember those days in medical school and our endeavours in Europe and North America... You always represent.... Well done! Nigerians WAKE UP!
And to you Linda... Traveling overseas more would probably help evolve your ability to think out of the box and inform your followers better
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Linda biko d boy never die ooo
Oy vey...Nigerians are so ignorant about mental health.
Girl, this is the most narrow minded thing I've read in a while. SMDH!
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dis is d third time in less dan 2months naija young undagraduate guyz are comiting suicide.1st d guy 4rm ebonyi state univ,d oda from unn and now dis.y are strange tins dat were b4 now foreign hapen to us ds days.pls ladies tel me dat we hav tougher skin dan to follow ds trend?
dis is the third time in less than 2months a naija undagraduate guy is comitting suicide.first it was a guy from ebonyi state university then dat unn guy and now this.indeed y are strange things that were b4 now foreign,happen to us these days,please ladies tell me we have tougher skin than to follow this trend?
Ignorance is not an insult..its same thing as not knowing any better..and in this context Linda wrote like someone oblivious to consequences of mental illness/depression..the world is changing we are changing..we are mimicking what the rest of the world is doing..get depressed..instead of seeking help with family..copy what happens in Europe/US..become an introvert and one day top yourself!!..which I must say is very unafrican and frowned upon..we tough people..we supposed to endure..but that was then!!
Wgere did this happen?
Is this now a fad?
Nigerians need to stop being tribalistic tho. i was just reading the news about the first lady some1 said "this igbo woman...." now here some1 is saying "youruba guys..." address the issue itself,forget where the person is from.
There are alot more suicide storied than we hear of,these are only few that make it to the news. i dont condone it. i only wish his soul has found the peace he so desperately desired on earth
its sad very bad act RIP
That Yeye doctor talks about depression and the likes but doesn't knw how to address people properly. Dear Dumb ass doctor get off ur high horse and not be so judgmental. I have chosen to address u this way because u asked for it. Couldn't u have educated us all and Linda without ur insulting choice of words. Abeg remove d log in your eye before...... U knw d rest
I am not a Linda fan or anything but she was just being practical there's no reason to commit suicide that's what apsychiatrist will say nah
i am suicidal, one day in my bathroom as i spoke to GOD. i was reminded of how JESUS wanted to die also due to his suffering. he said GOD let this cup pass me by if it is your will. this is what i say now, unlike before where i would say GOD i want to die, let me die i am tired, and thoughts of killing myself. another time as i cried in bed and read my bible i came across a passage that said the man who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates it will keep it for eternal life. this is for suicidal people like me. i have not asked for any ignorant comments here. if you are like me just say this when u are in that mental state dear GOD if its your will let this cup pass me by according to your will and not mine.
my brother AYODEJI BALOGUN you sent me a text before you did this to me,the text i will never forget in my life.which you said "THIS IS THE LAST TIME WE WILL TALK AND WILL NEVER TALK AGAIN BYEEE" i stiil love u but God love you most
Dis is so nt true.............i jst checkd his wall on FB he still postd tins on his wall.so wotz linda saying.dont wanna believe u carry fake gist Linda
we detected that somebody we don't know is working on is Facebook personal account. but God know what kill my brother because he is an icon. i still love you brother but God love you most.
Linda you are right on every news you post if any body don't believe you let the person go and check PM news paper of 5th of June 2012.
If its true,would like to hang him d second time.
I don't understand what people are complaining about regarding Linda's blog. Did i miss something? In summary she said the young man hung himself after posting the above information on facebook and injected himself with some kind of Chemical. So Uche, Y the abuse? She only said did "There's never an excuse for suicide": there are lots of treatment options, seek professional help, talk to someone, take your medications... and the person suggesting she should travel overseas to gain more exposure, shame on you.
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