Female Nigerian
comedian, Esohe, in a video posted online, said to combat the trauma
suffered after being raped, the victim should always condition
her mind that she is having sex during an act of rape.
"My fellow women, there is something I want to discuss with you in oprivate, very personal. If life give you lemons, you make lemonade. If like shows you perpper, you make perppersoup. Now, if you see that they want to rape you, in my own opinion or thinking, just relax. Change that raping to rapport. Make something good come out of it.
Just enjoy it. Position yourself not to struggle so that they can beat you. Take it in your mind that you have done one night stand becase the kind of emotional problem and torture and breakdown that women will have psychologically after a rape incident, it is good to just condition your mind that you are having sex"she said
Watch the appalling video below...
51 comments:
Seriously! Is she for real?
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I've actually thought about this before.Though strange,but it can work wonders for the victim
The law ll use dat against d victims n call it consensual sex which means that offenders l l justice.
...itz not dat easy oh!!
Hahahahaha! Lols! After all, you have been doing it so what's the difference. All na sex. Even ashawo wey don swallow all sizes, come out say dem rape am. The only rape that should be recognised and punishable is rape of a virgin. Laugh away frustrations jare.
I must rape you tomorrow
Somehow I kind of agree with this woman solely for the interest of the victims this may not work for everyone but it could work for some people. But the perpetrators should never be allowed to go free. I advocate for death penalty for rapists. If caught in the act there should be no need to call the police administer instant justice to avoid court proceedings which is usually a waste of time.
Foolish woman. May you be raped idiot.
Let who have hear here
Just because you can allow anything and everything to invade you does not mean that everyone else can. Some people would rather die than be raped. The thought of an unwanted and most-likely disease-infested body merging with theirs is enough to make some vomit. For many, it is an UGLY INVASION whose stain millions of body-washing and brainwashing cannot remove. Apparently you don't seem to mind this stain or the ordeal itself.
That's how you feel but not everybody feels this way. Not everyone can just lie there and "relax" through such a horrid invasion.
Same thing goes for the "Holy holy" people out there. Same coin but different sides: Just because you can stop yourself from doing things like smoking, drugs, porn and fornicating and can "snap out of depression" in the bat of an eyelid does not mean that everyone else can. We often think these poor people want to continue their bad habits and depression but we have no idea how much they are trying to and would like to stop! They want to be set free from sin.
Only Christ sets free indeed.
I most definitely do not agree. Probably she may not have been in that position. And what if the rapist is as filthy, smelly and an obvious STD carrier. What are you gonna enjoy?
How can anyone in their right mind think it is ok to make such flimsy jokes about something so life shattering is beyond me. Dear Esohe please joke with yourself and yourself alone about this "Relax" matter. Rape is NEVER Trivial and should NEVER be depicted as Trivial!! This supposed joke is not even slightly amusing.. not even worthy of a sneeze... shame on you! You are nothing short of STUPID!! We await your apology for your senseless effort. Thanks
And, here it is. The attention this ignorant, foolish 'content provider' was out to achieve. This video is in the worst taste possible and I wonder want she was thinking to have recorded and then uploaded it. Thankfully, Instagram have pulled the video
Some Commendian will come out to say rubbish using Comedian name to cover. She should imagine herself being ganp rape and assume shes having sex with 7 men without prevention. People u dont know which of the diseases they are having
I think she kinda make some reasonable statement cos the assumption that it's a night stand will lessen that pain and trauma and in most cases the pleasure that the rapist derive is really that shout, struggle and pain they see from their victims. If she make it a regular thing for the rapist or make Him feel less He will not have the urge to continue. So I kinda agree with Her more so She might be talking from experience.
It's easy to say because you've never been a victim or why else would you open your mouth to give that demeaning advice. Imagine at a very tender age and a virgin, a robber comes to your house with your whole family around and then one of them despite your pleading takes you to another room with his gun to rape you. Are you saying as a young girl, am supposed to enjoy the rape in that situation??? You've got to be kidding me!!! please stay out of giving advice to rape victims if you've never been a victim yourself because you can NEVER know what it feels like!!!
It's easy to say because you've never been a victim or why else would you open your mouth to give that demeaning advice. Imagine at a very tender age and a virgin, a robber comes to your house with your whole family around and then one of them despite your pleading takes you to another room with his gun to rape you. Are you saying as a young girl, am supposed to enjoy the rape in that situation??? You've got to be kidding me!!! please stay out of giving advice to rape victims if you've never been a victim yourself because you can NEVER know what it feels like!!!
Yes imagine you're having sex...until she becomes d victim yeye woman. Dis pple sef
With this kind of statement, your career is DEAD on arrival.
What is with girls with this name "ESOHE". Edo girls pls try and have dignity in your vajayjay. I know one Esohe girl, that will not respect herself. Now this. Pls ladies ,no one prays for rape but be brave about it and don't be a coward.
That's not the best thing to say madam comedian, do you think every woman out there is sex-starved? Some are celibate, some knows sex is overrated, some see it as a thing of pride to keep holding on, so how will you say to relax and pretend the individual is having a one-night stand? I'm sure most who are sexually active won't subscribe to a one-night stand, talk less of pretending to have one with whom they may have at once trusted cos most rape issues are carried out by a known person, by your speech you're encouraging rape and that's as bad as committing the act itself. Have you ever been raped before? If not then you don't have the right to address any woman on what to do in the act. Please keep your opinion to yourself, there are some issues in life that can't be taken as a joke.
To all women and ladies out there who are passing through the trauma of rape and domestic violence, all social workers understand what you're passing through and emphasize with you and advice that you seek counseling and therapy before PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) sets in...
She must be high on cheap something. which kind stupid talk be this. If u have nothing to say why not keep quiet..
********************my feeling is neutral ***** I don't know what to think
Idiot. Address her message not the tribe.
I have survived ordeals that are emotionally painful through mind conditioning that eases the situation in truth but in this case it is dangerous to just chill and enjoy the sex because 70 percent of rapists kill after satisfying themselves in order for the victim not to live and testify against them. Should you relax and be enjoying sex with a person who may kill you at the end of the ordeal? No!
What to do is to be alert, if he is not armed then one should put up a fight. A woman recently saved herself by fighting back.If he is armed, don't put up a fight. Pretend like you are obeying his orders while alert and looking around for a dangerous weapon to use and defend yourself. A girl that was carrying knife in her bag for defense unfortunately entered a taxi and the driver being a rapist, stopped in a deserted place forcing her to give him BJ.She pretended as if she is going to obey him and ploughed the knife into his stomach severally and ran to the road and to safety. Fortunately motherfucker did not die but got serious injury. Alright I don't have the heart to plough a knife in someone's belly but one can actually defend oneself and overpower rapists if one tries. The way I move gallant gallant now,no man can dare think of holding me down to rape cause Imma fight and overpower you.I only encountered intending rapists on 3 occasions during my university days and GOD was there to carry me to safety. I never got raped and the glory is God's.
What this comedian is saying is.. if it's inevitable just sit back and let it go.. just a cautionary measure.
God punish you and your generation. It's very obvious you're a rapist. What an idiot. You're soooo lucky this is social media. Would have slapped your silly mouth
It is not so easy that way, please don't forget that such situation is usually come unprepared for, therefore one may or may not be able to be in control of how it goes.
My advise is that the victim should cooperate, calm and look for possible opportunity, if that fails to come then pray for divine mercy from above.
Woo on the rapist and their supporters
hnmmmm, what can i say? *omo de omogun, onpe lefo* May she not experience it i pray for her, its a terrible terrible experience sitting back and relax is the last thing that will come to your mind even days later you cant still relax SMH
-TX
Ignorance at play. Please no one should encourage or try to promote this lunacy. It's already a difficult task to discourage rape then an idiotic person, a woman for that matter comes out to say this nonsense? Don't you know you make it seem alright to rape women if they can just pretend it's cool. What is wrong with this generation na?
Gibberish, nonsensical statement coming out from a sex starved lady.
Rape is rape no matter how enjoyable the victim portray during the act. There are boundaries in certain things of life you don't make fun of. You don't just make a comic relief from victims of a heinous crime. I urge the comedian to apologies to victims of rape. She just crossed the boundary line. Does she really know that Rape is a sexual violence with severe physical and psychological life trauma? With devastating effects which can radically affect the course of the victims entire life? Does she even know that a rape victim also suffer and has the same scare like a knifed or stab victim? The scare never goes. Can she stay calm and enjoy when someone is knifing or stabbing her with a blade? She lacks brains.
Rape is rape no matter how enjoyable the victim portray during the act. There are boundaries in certain things of life you don't make fun of. You don't just make a comic relief from victims of a heinous crime. I urge the comedian to apologies to victims of rape. She just crossed the boundary line. Does she really know that Rape is a sexual violence with severe physical and psychological life trauma? With devastating effects which can radically affect the course of the victims entire life? Does she even know that a rape victim also suffer and has the same scare like a knifed or stab victim? The scare never goes. Can she stay calm and enjoy when someone is knifing or stabbing her with a blade? She lacks brains.
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You are the bigger idiot,guess you are one of them. I'm yet to see a modest one. Guess younare not excluded. Mtchewwe.
so, basically she is encouraging women to enjoy rape as a way to avoid the trauma? the lady is sex starved.
want to increase your penis size?
It's like saying when someone is physically attacking you, relax and condition your mind that it's pillow fight; it doesn't make sense! Your subconscious mind is on alert for fight, flee survival mode! It is only human to want to flee danger in order to survive. You are being attacked for Chris sakes, how can you relax and imagine a one night stand?
Enter your comment...she must be very stupid for such a careless statement
Ode na only headline U dey see?
Word!!
This lady should apologize to all women and be very careful of what she says.By this statement she encouraged the silly act and as well invites rapist for herself.
I can't believe this poor excuse of a woman said this. I feel sick. Hopefully when you get raped...or gang raped, condition your mind that you are having sex.
hahahahaha.....lol nice shaa
U are a fool read nd understand.God punish u too ,am a gal nd ave been raped too i get where shes coming frm,not every is that mentally strong tho .calm d fuck down b4 u comment
Dont mind pple quick to judge ave been raped before nd another attempted rape in the later case this technique worked for me i pretended lik i was succumbed and i overpowered the guys not once not twice .i tink of advicing gals to fo dis too buh world pple will eat me on arrival,guess she was tinking out loud wuld ave kept it to mysef or just giv this advice to someone close to me. Miss bee
Dont mind pple quick to judge ave been raped before nd another attempted rape in the later case this technique worked for me i pretended lik i was succumbed and i overpowered the guys not once not twice .i tink of advicing gals to fo dis too buh world pple will eat me on arrival,guess she was tinking out loud wuld ave kept it to mysef or just giv this advice to someone close to me. Miss bee
A very stupid comment from a stupid she goat!!!
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