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Thursday, July 11, 2013

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A situation arose in a family, the man earns N250,000 a month and the wife earns N350,000 a month and they work in the same company. One of them has to leave the job because it's the company's new policy that couples will no more be tolerated. Who do you think should leave the job with effective reasons?

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Anonymous said...

The man na...

Dil

Bootylycious diva said...

The woman should,the man is suppose to be the head of the family.

annabel ada said...

Seriously 100k is a whole lot of money to push away just like that.

Anonymous said...

D husband of course

Anonymous said...

Wife shuld leave bcos d man I̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ d head of d family.

Anonymous said...

It better for the man to leave for the sake of love, except the woman decide to. A man with a good heart makes her wife happy

Anonymous said...

D man should leave

herbee3 said...

The man should leave now,its a matter of additional 100k in d family

Anonymous said...

Definitely the husband shud leave!! Money always come first

Anonymous said...

Man leaves ........ Provided there is love. Love means sacrifice.

This is turning to another thing. Where two elephants fight....... I Hope
DR FIBROID

Anonymous said...

The wife should leave tho she earns more but if he doesn't get a job in future she would disregard and disrespect him

TOLUWALASHE'S BOO said...

This ain't no tough question.
The woman of course.
Fuck the 100k difference.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

hmmm difficult to say,but I think the husband.
coz loosing a hundred thousand coz of sentiment,will appear penny wise pound foolish. so in their best economic interest the husband should go.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA330

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

The man should be the bread winner, the man should stay, there is a higher possibility of her getting another job as a lady.

Anonymous said...

I think the man should leave cos he earns lesser

Anonymous said...

In this economy, husband and wife should both look for jobs. Whoever finds a job should leave. If they make it about "man" and "woman" and who earns more, a man shd be working blah blah blah then they are both stupid. Either way, to go from a combined income of 600k to 350 or 250 is a great loss so if neither finds a job the man should leave. It calls for common sense.

ogbongeblog.com said...

na woman go go o make she no use money take insult man o

Anonymous said...

The one that earns 350,000 should continue.i mean, He earns higher and his salary alone can give them a comfortable life. My opinion thou

Apple said...

If he is the type of man that is not threatened by his wife's success, he can even tell his wife to stay while he looks for another job, if he is the jealous type then the wife should leave and go look for another job, why? well, of what use is all that money if there is no peace in the family?....It really depends on the man.

Anonymous said...

It depends on the type of family or relationship, naija man no go ever gree.

Anonymous said...

The man should leave the job because he earns lower than the woman. He also should not stress his wife, he should search for another job.

Anonymous said...

The wife should leave

Anonymous said...

I feel the man shud stay back and continue as d HOH,I beliv wit time he wud get to d wifes level. While d woman Shud seek a new job bcoz,speaking outtah xperience,women re more favourable in d labour market.

Gistyinka Blog said...

this is sorry case ooo...

Anonymous said...

The man gotta go

Anonymous said...

Hmm..its hard o but I think d woman shld leave otherwise dat house no go contain both of them o. Dats if d man doesn't get anoda job sha..1st to comment

Anonymous said...

The man should leave the company

Anonymous said...

The husband cos he's earning lesser than d wife...

Anonymous said...

Having discussed as a family unit, the man should leave the job. Reasons:
1. He is the head of the house, the warrior, the provider, the ultimate man. Its his duty to source for and toil d earth for finance.
2. He promised, in his marriage vows, to protect and cater for her. Thus keeping her in the job is a means of ensuring dat
3. With her wages, the family can get going while the man pursues other frontiers in a bid to be a conqueror.
Am a man and dis is what it should be.
St.N

Anonymous said...

I think d man should quit. Although it won't be easyam

elonna odimegwu said...

The man should leave is for his own good

Anonymous said...

The man should put his ego aside and leave

Anonymous said...

d guy shld leave cos he earns less dan his wife.

St.N said...

Having discussed as a family unit, the man should leave the job. Reasons:
1. He is the head of the house, the warrior, the provider, the ultimate man. Its his duty to source for and toil d earth for finance.
2. He promised, in his marriage vows, to protect and cater for her. Thus keeping her in the job is a means of ensuring dat
3. With her wages, the family can get going while the man pursues other frontiers in a bid to be a conqueror.
Am a man and dis is what it should be.

elonna odimegwu said...

The man should leave...its for his own good...

Anonymous said...

the man should leave coz 100k is not a small money oo... And as man he can easily run around for some oda business

Gift said...

I think is the wife

Hajjo said...

Within the Nigerian society, please the woman should jeje leave if she knows she has nosy inlaws. Coz tomorrow now it will not be that she stayed coz she is being paid more....u know wat i mean.
Truth is there is no defintie answer sha but I feel that N100k should not be a deciding factor for who should stay or leave. Lerrus be honest,wat can N100k do for you in Lag or Abj. The deciding factor should have more substance like.....I dunno; guys help me out if you feel wat I'm saying.

Muhammad Pharook Umar said...

Naturally, looking at their both income, its easy to say, the Man should be the sacrificial lamp. But, here the reason why I would suggest otherwise and it has nothing to do with my gender. The man is suppose to be the bread winner of the house, becoming the House-man (like House-wife) would really punture his pride and ego, moreso, you and I know that men suck at such job of housekeeping.
Similarly, the women has you would agree a better placed to manage the decline in revenue to the house than the guy, her feminine instinct could spark off a mearger business idea that she engage in to support the man's effort. And perhaps this could also be a blessing for the family in disguise has she can now have enough time to norture and tend to the family.

Anonymous said...

The spouse who will not be rising any higher in their position at that company should find another job.

Anonymous said...

both of them should leave the job.....last to comment

ojo adetayo said...

I think the man should resign since the salary of the wife is greater than that of the husband.

Anonymous said...

D wife of course bc if d hus becomes jobless she will no no peace again in d home

Anonymous said...

The man....cos he earn less

Anonymous said...

The man shd leave of course! At the end of the day, the family survives on money, not the man's ego. Most likely he'll get a higher package when joining another company.

Anonymous said...

The wife shld leave cos she must been saving some money for future she can set up a business.... Dat can help...lin lin post my comment ooo

Anonymous said...

The lady shld....
No reason

Anonymous said...

Its not something hard,there will be a family meeting and both party will bear the effect . The wife's salary is #100,000 higher than that of the husband so she'll continue with the job because 100k na big moni .lol. and her salary shall be divided every month using ratio 7 : 5 .She takes #204,166 and her husband takes #145,833 pending when he'll get another job . And if he gets a job that pays him less thand #250k a month,both his salary and that of the wife will be added up every month and divided with thesame ratio or I'll PERSONALLY fire both of the from my company .lol

Anonymous said...

its simple, if there is UNDERSTANDING between the couple then the husband should leave the place for the wife and look for another job somewhere else. ONLY if there is UNDERSTANDING. If no understanding then the wife should find something else doing

ade baptista said...

D wife can leave....cos dis difference is nt much

Steve said...

Firstly,the issue should be discussed by both couple.
And if i may suggest, the woman should rather resign so that the man would be able to carry out his God-given responsibility of providing for both the wife and the entire family.
On the other hand side, the man should resign if he stands a better chance of getting employment somewhere else.
The bottom-line is, the man`s ability to provide for the family should not be denied him.
I rest my case.

Anonymous said...

The lady should.
No reason.
And yes I'm a lady as well

Anonymous said...

If there is love and understanding the Husband should quit the Job cos the wife earns more! And get a job elsewhere.

Anonymous said...

The husband should leave since the wife earns more and it might not b so easy for the wife to secured a new job since she is married.
Also cos of sexual harrasment that might wanna come with the job offer.

ms k said...

The man should step down, Reason: Nigeria Economy needs lot of money to survive pls. 100k difference is a lot.,besides who employs married women dis day? It wil b easier for a man to get a job.

Escada said...

I would say the man, not because I'm a feminist but because, it is possible for him to ask for a higher salary in another organisation and be at par or even higher than his wife, salary wise. However, if it's the lady, she'll command a even higher salary and increase the difference btw their salarues giving room for animosity and the likes!

Anonymous said...

The woman should leave the job as her husband should take care of her. Being a husband with no finance will severely dent your ego and a lot more.

Anonymous said...

This is where wisdom comes to play, I wud advice they sit down to talk,d immediate salary does not tell who has a better potential or chances of growth in the organisation,that should be considered.they should also think of who is better qualified and stand a better chance out there,if d man is better qualified he should resign and look for something else,however if they have kids the woman should resign if the job is time consuming so she can get a lesser paying job n still have more time for d family.its a difficult 1 but wisdom n humility should come to play here. I wish them well. Mykel

xtinexxx said...

In nigeria oh and yoruba pple will say the woman should be d one to resign coz she is the lady but dnt no about oda cultures

Ng said...

D woman shld go bc d husb is d head

Anonymous said...

The wife!

Babykingsway said...

The woman should leave! She earns more than the man which means she can afford to stay some months without a job until she gets a new one. Besides, the man has to be d provider and d woman should support. If the man stays at home, it could bruise his ego and the woman could loose respect for him

Babykingsway said...

The woman should leave! She earns more than the man which means she can afford to stay some months without a job until she gets a new one. Besides, the man has to be d provider and d woman should support. If the man stays at home, it could bruise his ego and the woman could loose respect for him

Anonymous said...

First I'll consider who has better growth prospects in the company and who has better chances of a good job outside. However, I'll leave the question of who to leave the Job to the couple involved.

Raphael Anagbado said...

The man should resign. The rationale thereto is because the wife's pay is higher; and also because, gone are the days a man is seen as the sole and/or main provider. Wives these days can also be either main, equal, somewhat equal or substancial provider, depending on her earning capacity.

Babykingsway said...

The woman should leave! She earns more than the man which means she can afford to stay some months without a job until she gets a new one. Besides, the man has to be d provider and d woman should support. If the man stays at home, it could bruise his ego and the woman could loose respect for him

Anonymous said...

its simple, if there is UNDERSTANDING between the couple then the husband should leave the place for the wife and look for another job somewhere else. ONLY if there is UNDERSTANDING. If no understanding then the wife should find something else doing

Anonymous said...

its simple, if there is UNDERSTANDING between the couple then the husband should leave the place for the wife and look for another job somewhere else. ONLY if there is UNDERSTANDING. If no understanding then the wife should find something else doing

Anonymous said...

D woman shld leave bcos d man is d head of d family,so his ego has 2 b protected.

Anonymous said...

The man...ASAP

Anonymous said...

The man, wen d wife gets paid, she'd pay him 100k as salary till he finds a job.
~D great anonymous!

Anonymous said...

The wife,bcos d man is d head of d house and is better for d woman to be idle dan d man,afterall na woman get kitchen lolz

Ng said...

Pls d woman shld leav so dt she can go n take care of her home n d children,also its more honourable for d woman to go than d man if she respects her husband,do u knw wht it means for a woman to be workin n d husb wil b @home baby sittin pls

Anonymous said...

Ideally I wud say d man. But realistically,men n dir ego. In dis dy of job scarcity d man can not play house. So 4 d sake of peace she shld go. We women r strong n resourceful. Just sayin...D Curious1

xtinexxx said...

Yoruba pple will say dat d woman should be d one to resign coz she is d lady no matter hw much she is paid...even if d woman is collectn one million while d man is collecting twenty thousand but dnt no about oda cultures oh

Anonymous said...

Ideally I wud say d man. But realistically,men n dir ego. In dis dy of job scarcity d man can not play house. So 4 d sake of peace she shld go. We women r strong n resourceful. Just sayin...D Curious1

Anonymous said...

wetin d man dey wait 4...abeg leave d company...d different btw d money is too much...

Anonymous said...

the best decision is for both of them to leave the company then start up a business with their savings.think that settles it....Lapxz 4rm aba.

Samdiran Alade said...

the woman of course, the man is the head of the family and must provide at all time.

Anonymous said...

Ideally I wud say d man. But realistically,men n dir ego. In dis dy of job scarcity d man can not play house. So 4 d sake of peace she shld go. We women r strong n resourceful. Just sayin...D Curious1

Anonymous said...

even though it would bruise his ego, definitely the man reason being that the woman earns more than him hence theres extra funds even if he quits

McQ said...

All things being equal(part being the man not a drunk, not a batterer),the lady should leave, except she's the head of the home.

Anonymous said...

the guy should leave he shuld forget abt his ego dey need d money more dan ever ryt now so whoever dat is earning higher shuld stay on d job. And wife plz be humble cus u dnt know 2moro but if he insists u leave den obey cus ure under him as d bible says den try n get smtin else. i bet u hv more qualification dan him for u to be earning higher so it will be easier for u to find smtin faster.

Anonymous said...

the woman should leave because he is her head.

Anonymous said...

The woman should resign. The man has to provide for his family. The woman can always get a job. Meanwhile u knw hw it is wth women wen they become bread winners. They tend to loose respect for there husbands.

Anonymous said...

The husband,

Anonymous said...

I believe the man should resign but he had better found a job already..

Anonymous said...

OK, let's be logical and reasonable here. The woman obviously earns more. We're in a modern day and age where either can be the breadwinner of the family.
The man should leave because the woman makes more money. However, that doesn't mean he'll go home to sit and relax his butt. I'd hope he'll be in search of another job?
They both have to come to a mutual understanding however, because I've seen/heard of situations whereby the husband becomes jealous of his working-class wife.
So yeah, let the husband leave.

C-Xtine

e bonto said...

D woman shd leave d job and get a good biz dat will alow her 2 take care of d home. D N100k difference is nothing compare 2 having a well kept home.

e bonto said...

D woman shd leave d job and get a good biz dat will alow her 2 take care of d home. D N100k difference is nothing compare 2 having a well kept home.

Paschal O said...

Linda, Big Problem o!!! Well the man should quit if (and only if) the wife agrees to take over most of the man's responsibilities in the house until he find another job.

Anonymous said...

The Wife ofcos, at one time there won't be money anymore and all she will need is d husband!!!


Tee

Anonymous said...

The wife should leave; i suggest cos many women are not to their hubby when it come to money issue even when it biblical
self.

Anonymous said...

See gobe.... the person with the best qualification and prospect to get another job faster should leave. And it must be an agreement btw both parties that who ever remains carries the responsibility of the family till the other person gets another job.

Anonymous said...

D woman shud leave.they cn manage d 250k d man earns monthly.once d man is out of a job,n d woman bcms d breadwinner in d family,his ego will b ruined.they'll start hvin issues and d woman may loose respect for her hubby.let her cut down her expenses n look for another job.

inspireify272b3120 said...

simple......i will willingly leave cos knowing wat am made of, and God's grace on my side,i will get some tin ASAP...or start somtin ASAP cos all dos years i worked for, were not in vain... would've saved enof.....beside will not stand my wife going round begging and passing tru alot cos of job...case closed..

Anonymous said...

See gobe.... the person with the best qualification and prospect to get another job faster should leave. And it must be an agreement btw both parties that who ever remains carries the responsibility of the family till the other person gets another job.

Idahosa Osayemwen said...

The woman

Anonymous said...

The woman should leave and look for work els wђ3Я3,cause no matter what she must be under her husband an not on top of him,no matter what the payment is.

Anonymous said...

Orisun things

Anonymous said...

Miss Jade said...
The Man of course !

Ajewole Sojjy said...

I believe the woman should leave irrespective of the fact that she earns more.. Its not right for the man leave at that point in time 'cos he's the head of the family and as such should not do everything possible to ensure that his family are happy. For the woman, she can always do other menial things to complement the man until another good job opening comes her way....(My Opinion)

Anonymous said...

Of cos, the guy should throw pride away and leave since the wife's salary is actually more

Anonymous said...

The Man of Course, Linda! :), is it not obvious that women are very powerful bread winners these days?

Anonymous said...

Ayo Adesanya alias Bisola must leave.

adaora said...

D man shld luk 4 Job smwhre else ooo...@least d woman's salary can keep them until he gets one...

Anonymous said...

The man because the woman income is higher. The 100k extra from the woman,s salary can do a lot for the family.

Anonymous said...

The man for Sure.. we are in 2013

Anonymous said...

The man for Sure.. we are in 2013

Anonymous said...

In a situation like dis, the woman has to play was wise, allow the spirit of rationality to envelop d situation. There is one million reasons y d woman shud be d one 2 surrender for the man. But one important reason is d woman's happiness in d nearest future... Atime is better to play d fool and b happy forever.

Anonymous said...

The man ofcourse

Ajewole Sojjy said...

I beleive at this crucial point that the woman should leave reasons being that the Man is the head of the home and should leave up to that responsibility. The woman can do some menial job to complement the home until a better job offer comes her way....( My Opinion)

David said...

The wife should be the one to quit from that company because it's mainly the man's duty to make provisions of the family needs; without minding the fact that her monthly earning is greater than that of her husband. Besides, the man can still use his influence to secure her anther job somewhere else.

Anonymous said...

The wife shld leave de job it doesn't matter the amount she coollect

Anonymous said...

D woman should leave the company,women can't be trusted with money,she will insult d man when he gatz no job tomorrow...

Anonymous said...

The man jor,4 d wife to b earning 350 means she is in a higher rank so best for her to grow n Bsides 50k makes a difference n we don't leave in a man's world any more Wer the wife has to drop 4 d husband it don't work dat way anymore...

MAB said...

Of course d husband now, simple logic

tayo said...

The wife should leave the Job and search for another regardless of the salary volume.Initially it myt seem a good option for d husband to leave but if the husband doesn't get another Job soon enough,it cld cause chaos in that home.Understanding and mentality is needed here,Its pratically a decision btw both couples.But if I were in this situation,I wld quit the Job

mz lahra said...

I'll suggest d woman shld resign

Anonymous said...

The man jor,4 d wife to b earning 350 means she is in a higher rank so best for her to grow n Bsides 50k makes a difference n we don't live in a man's world any more Wer the wife has to drop 4 d husband it don't work dat way anymore...

Anonymous said...

Husband show resign after gettn a better job cos he collect lesser salary.

Bola Olagunju said...

Biko the husband should go and win bread somewhere else

Anonymous said...

Well, I am a woman & i resigned when I got married to my husband because his pay was like double mine & the company has this same policy. I have also seen a couple where the man resigned in that same company cos the wife's salary was almost twice his and there were children & fees to consider. Its not about ego & pride, its about what would make the family suffer the least while one party is unemployed.

Anonymous said...

The husband shd leave d job for the wife....man still have d strength to struggle n get anoda job.

Idahosa Osayemwen said...

The woman

Anonymous said...

Just passing

Anonymous said...

Well a man is the head of the house hold, the woman will have to leave the organisation and look for another job, that is after the couple have sat down and discussed the issue. They have to manage the man's resource that way.

Anonymous said...

Make d woman leave d job, cause if d man leaves n didn't get a job in time, the guy go see hell, cause women can be very funny.

Innocentia said...

This is a difficult one cos,for me,i can't stand my man being jobless n in this case,i don't know how long it ll take him to get another job. In the other hand 350k ll go a long way to support both of us till he finds something else but the ? is,can I stand him being jobless for awhile? I don't think so but God ll give me the grace to and you never know,he might get a better job. I think he ll be the one to leave his

Anonymous said...

well the man should resign since the lady earns higher, he should sacrifice and go into business or something.

nkaylicious said...

This is a no brainer. The guy should leave and look for another job.

Ariyike Sorinola said...

Before getting married dey shld both try n get oda jobs,whoever get d job first... Leaves d company. Its dt simple! cos I don't wanna believe dt dey didn't make plans b4 getting married...

Queen Bee said...

The wife of course should resign!
Cos its the duty of the man to provide for and protect his family.
The woman's role financially is just a plus!
If not of lately roles are beginning to change cos of high no of lazy men on the increase.

mary alao said...

Dis is very dificult, but I tink d wife should step down 4 d husband and go into business or look for another work.

Anonymous said...

*Linda/ tough scenerio.
If they have a joint account and have a healthy marriage, its easy to say the wife should keep her job. Otherwise it should be survival of the fittest

Anonymous said...

WHAT SORT OF STUPID COMPANY IS THAT? COUPLES WONT BE TOLERATED?? DID THEY APPLY FOR THE JOB TOGETHER? ABEG

fisfrank said...

obviously the one who is being paid the highest will be a senior staff than the lower pay, it might be the man who is being paid the highest or the woman cause we don't know who is being paid the highest or lowest, so i will suggest they both have a meeting and someone should step down for the other,if the man is being paid the highest i think the woman should step down and if the woman is being paid the highest the the woman should still step down and open a supermarket or something big for her self, cos if the man is always at home when he steps down, he becomes the house keeper of the house and won't have any say in the house anymore but the woman can be in her supermarket or boutique and go home to take of the kids. Or what do you think ?

Anonymous said...

I think the wife shd leave instead!looks like she got a upper hand in this job,prob meaning she has a higher qualification nd mayb xperience than her husband..She will end up getting another job by God's grace..i wish them well.

Chukwuka Chime said...

his wife should quit the job because it's mainly the responsibility of the man to make provisions of the family needs; her monthly earning is not much greater than that of the man's. Besides, the husband can still help her secure another job somewhere else.

Anonymous said...

If the wife leaves, the income of the family may not be sufficient. If the husband leaves, it will not be good cos he will be depending on his wife

Anonymous said...

I tink T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ man should leave cus T̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ wife earn more den him.

fisfrank said...

obviously the one who is been paid the highest will be a senior staff than the lower pay, it might be the man who is being paid the highest or the woman cause we don't know who is being paid the highest or lowest, so i will suggest they both have a meeting and someone should step down for the other,if the man is being paid the highest i think the woman should step down and if the woman is being paid the highest the the woman should still step down and open a supermarket or something big for her self, cos if the man is always at home when he steps down, he becomes the house keeper of the house and won't have any say in the house anymore but the woman can be in her supermarket or boutique and go home to take of the kids. Or what do you think ?

Yebo Stephen said...

The wife should leave, and I am not a chauvinist. If the husband leaves, it will cause problems, especially if the husband is the insecure type. The wife just has to sacrifice for the husband, so as to not crush his manly pride.
Basically, I think it's something about which the couple needs to talk over, and arrive at a mutual agreement.

LMB said...

If the husband were to be the higher earner, this would be a no brainer question. Its quite simple they have a hundred thousand reasons why the wife must stay employed. From a financial point of view, they go from having a joint income of 600k to 250 if the husband keeps his employment. Whereas they have 100k more if the wife keeps hers.
I will go with more any day, any emergency may arise. More is good.

Anonymous said...

From an arithmetic angle the husband should leave. However his pride will take a big blow, if he/they can look past that and the lady won't be an ass about supporting their home till he gets another job, no wahala.

clare balogun said...

In my own opinion the man should leave and find a better job

Anonymous said...

The woman should leave if #1 there wnt be financial pressure on the man and #2 if she prefers a happy home to a big income, because she staying wld affect the general ego of her husband.its natural.God created men to be the breadwinner, and he will be emasculated and fustrated. She shld honour her husband and leave, probably when she does, he will be promoted to her office and earn as much.

Anonymous said...

The wife shud quit

goodie said...

Chai... dis is tough oo.. i wud say d woman.. cos d man gets to say himself who shud drop.. a man shud and always b d bread winner of d home.. buh lin lin dis question na strong bone gan!

Anonymous said...

The wife. Because women are easily favored when it comes to job haunting. A man ego is seriously killed when he is jobless and can not take care of his responsibility as a man.

olivia said...

The man should leave n look 4 a place that might pay him higher than what his wife earns

Anonymous said...

obviously the one who is been paid the highest will be a senior staff than the lower pay, it might be the man who is being paid the highest or the woman cause we don't know who is being paid the highest or lowest, so i will suggest they both have a meeting and someone should step down for the other,if the man is being paid the highest i think the woman should step down and if the woman is being paid the highest the the woman should still step down and open a supermarket or something big for her self, cos if the man is always at home when he steps down, he becomes the house keeper of the house and won't have any say in the house anymore but the woman can be in her supermarket or boutique and go home to take of the kids. Or what do you think ?

Anonymous said...

His wife should quit the job because it's mainly the man's responsibility to make provisions of the family needs. Besides, he can still secure even better paying job for her. Her monthly earning is not much greater than that of the husband, if it were times two or more, it would have been the other way round.

Anonymous said...

The wife of course

Anonymous said...

the wife

sQo said...

The husband shld leave. No need to be stupid about this

Clifford Nze said...

Queen Linda, first of all I hope you're enjoying your vacation...Pls do oh, you've been working very hard. Then to your question, for obvious reasons and taken into consideration the nature of our economic situation, I think the man should leave the job for the wife who earns more and look for something elsewhere. It is usually more devastating for most women to leave a job they've put in so much to attain their present position/status, but a man can easily switch.

meme said...

Nawa ooo ,linda dis one na jamb question hahaha , everybody like money will say d man should resign cos d woman earns more but cos of d love n respect for the husband n been the head of the family d woman should resign oooo , except if d couple understand each other there is nothing wrong if d man resign oooooo

Anonymous said...

the man. This is a no-brainer

Anonymous said...

It's very simple just divorce and they will both be retained

Haryur said...

The man should leave the job and let his wife continues, I have multiple reasons for this, 1 of them is; Working in the same environment with your wife will expose all your challenges to your wife, nothing is new. secondly I think man has more tenacity to face the test of time with no job than a woman. If am to be the man, am gonna leave. Haryur says so via TablePhone

Anonymous said...

D lady shud quit cos she need 2take of her kids nd cook 4her husby! Although its gonna be painful!

Anonymous said...

L☺ː̗̀(=)))ː̖́☺L . They both have to brainstorm o cos money is needed for d upkeep of d family. The wife might leave if d 250k will b sufficient for the family monthly

Anonymous said...

If I be the guy I will leave the job oh. why should we now make N350k less instead of N250k less

Anonymous said...

If the family really needs the money, the husband should leave and let the wife stay since she earns more.

Anonymous said...

d man

Anonymous said...

Ds is a difficult decision b'cos is not ideal for either d man or d woman to be out of job considering d situation of things in our country, but d man should leave b,cos her wives pay is better than dt of her husband supposing their is a provision to get another job for him b,cos it is not good for d man to be out of job as d head of d family. I hope his wife will cooperate in d family spending. U know what i mean.

Anonymous said...

The man should leave the job.N100000

Towabs said...

I think the man should leave just because the woman earns more and it will go a longer way while he searches for another job. N100k more as opposed to the woman leaving

Anonymous said...

Ds is a difficult decision b'cos is not ideal for either d man or d woman to be out of job considering d situation of things in our country, but d man should leave b,cos her wives pay is better than dt of her husband supposing their is a provision to get another job for him b,cos it is not good for d man to be out of job as d head of d family. I hope his wife will cooperate in d family spending. U know what i mean.

Anonymous said...

The wife shud quit her job, this is bcos her duty is to take care of her family especially her kids. She need 2be there 4dem nd also cook 4her husby although dey need dat income but u can't ask d man 2quit! Its highly impossible to mk d man a stay-at-home dad!

Anonymous said...

of course the man, the woman makes more, plus if the man stays they would loose 100,000 naira. This is about what is best for the couple, i guess the ultimate decision is theirs. Goodluck

Anonymous said...

Emmmm??

Emmy said...

I think it's better the woman leaves b'cos she as a good qualification than the man that was why she earns more than him.. So it will be easy for her to get a better Job b'cos of her qualification

Anonymous said...

This would depend on a number of factors:- firstly, what are their respective roles, long term prospects for the different jobs i.e. promotion and where the role fits in with the long term goals of the company as some roles develop slowly but have better longer term prospects regardless of economic situation. When these have been looked at and discussed then they can decide based on informed choice as opposed to face value.

Anonymous said...

D man of cuz,Bcuz he earns smaller n wit d wifes salary dey can live well.Linda u ve neva posted my comment b4

Anonymous said...

The man. Imagine if the woman became the bread winner and my guy finds it difficult to get another job..
For the woman to be earning 350k, it shows shes highly qualified. She might find another job. To be safe than sorry, the woman should step down. Come on have some respect for ya husband woman!!....Yinny

Bemi ginni said...

The guy should leave the job, it's not easy but the family would have more money(350k) compared to 250k if he eremains.

Anonymous said...

D woman

seno said...

That's a complicated issue,but its preferable d wife quits even tho she ends more

Anonymous said...

the woman should be the one to quit so that she can take care of the children and cook food for her husband,i dnt mind the amount the pay the husband ok.

staff said...

the man

Anonymous said...

d man joor

Debby Akinola said...

The husband should be the one to leave. Cos if d husband decides to stay,wat gives dem d asssurance dat the wife would get a higher salary in d new job she gets. So,to be on d safe side,the husband should be d one quitting since his pay is lesser.

Anonymous said...

Very personal. The husband & wife should sit together, analyse pros and cons of each scenario and make ana informed decision based on facts not culture or myths

Anonymous said...

The man shld quit and look out 4 anoder job dis applies only for families dt hav the fear of the Lord and true Love 4 eachother otherwise d lady m9t begin to act funny shld d man doesn't gt a job on time.

felly said...

l think the husband should step down since the wify earns more; the wife should support her Hubby with at least # 100000 every month till he get another lucrative job. IMO

leisure said...

Na d woman go stay abeg 100k difference no small thing ooo

Anonymous said...

The man of course bcos his pay is smaller.

nino jay said...

In my opinion I think the lady should quit because originally its the man's duty to provide for his house-hold,and again women will always bring up trouble at any slightest mistake made by her man because she is one working for their income.

Anonymous said...

The man shuld keep working cos its very difficult for men to stay without jobs. They will just ave to manage the 250k till the woman finds some oda work.God go help them sha.

Anonymous said...

Haba! D nigga should leave cos his income is lower Dan dat of his wife. #datsall#.. he should go get another J O B

Frances Diaries said...

The wife should leave, regardless the fact she earns more than him. She can open a business if she doesn't get another job.
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Anonymous said...

The woman should leave be cos the problems that will arise from the woman being the bread winner is worth more than the extra 100k.
Don't sell the peace of ur home for 100k extra. The woman can always get another job.

Anonymous said...

The man should quit only if an agreement can be reached that the woman will take the husband's responsibility till he secures a job..@I_am_Guan

Anonymous said...

The man shld pls leave bcuz he earns lower ıncome. Men are not worth the stress bcuz ıf d lady leaves d man wıll later rubbısh her and turn her to a pıece of rag.ım talkıng from experıence.ma husband lost hıs job afta we got marrıed and ı was d one footıng d bılls. Now he has a very good job and we both agreed for me to stop work, face d famıly and take care of d kıds.now he has a gırlfrıend dat he sees every weekend esp sats claımıng he has alot to corver on weends. He rants @ every slıghtest opportunıty.jst for me to send money to ma parenst, ı wıll have to gıve hım enuf notıce. Its so bad dat ı cant put evrytın ın prınts. The lady shld for no reason leave her job men are nt worth ıt and dats d truth

uzoma ofurum said...

The man should leave the job,since the wife has made more progress with her career.

Also at the man level he and his wife should work towards getting better alternative for the guy.

Anonymous said...

it is left for d man to decide on d basis of a xtain family,no 3rd party cus.but if is 4 d world,d woman shld leave cus it wil be easier 4 her 2 get anoda job dan d man.a woman is always a luck.

Anonymous said...

The man should leave. One, he is making less money and two, most men have a better chance of getting job in this society than women.

baby oku said...

D woman shld leave....d man cnt stay jobless cos he's d head of d family...

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