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Wednesday, October 10, 2012

'My husband was always beating and maltreating me' - TV presenter, Juliet Ojukwu

Juliet Ojukwu is a former Soundcity presenter, actress and model. In September 2011, Juliet met US based Chima Ojukwu and within a week, they were engaged. Less than three weeks after they met, Juliet and Chima had their introduction - on the 29th of September 2011, which was followed by a traditional wedding on Oct 4th. The white wedding was scheduled to take place in January in the US but it never held. A few months later, Juliet changed her FB status from married to single. After months of keeping mum about what really happened, Juliet gave an interview recently revealing that her marriage ended a while back after just a few months. What she said after the cut...


"We parted ways over irreconcilable differences. We were incompatible. At a point, being in the marriage became life threatening. If I was still in it, my enemy may have been dead by now, all in the name of trying to make it work and to avoid what people will say. I had to cancel the wedding in America because here in Nigeria where my family and his family are, there were verbal and domestic abuse. Going to a foreign land where I knew no one would have been worse. So, there was no need for the American wedding since it was already failing in Nigeria."
Chima's friends alleged that Juliet cancelled the wedding not because she was abused in the short-lived marriage but because she found out Chima wasn't as rich as he claimed. Juliet says the allegation is completely false.

I didn't marry him for money and I don't know where people got that perception from. Maybe because I am an attractive lady, people assume I will only date for money but that's not true. What matters to me is love. If I was going to get married because of money, I would have been married to other men far richer than Chima long ago. But I turned down a lot of offers because I wanted to love and be loved. I am comfortable with the money I make from my job, so money wasn't the deciding factor in that marriage.

169 comments:

Anonymous said...

too bad, a man that beats a woman is NOT A REAL MAN

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BLOGLORD said...

the whole thing was a rush-rush from the word GO!
Nne, thank God u took a walk rather than die in the name of 'MRS' when its obviously not working.
Women should shun abusive relationships and speak out rather than die in silence.
all the best!

Mena UkodoisReady said...

May you find true love! This prayer extends to people praying for it

Olivia said...

How sensible was it to run to the altar in such a short period of meeting the guy? Was she actually hurting that bad for love?

I cant wrap my head around her stupidity. That it why it is called a marriage! You take time to know the person because you live together forever! She was clearly desperate. Not impressed.

Anonymous said...

Thank God for you, it is hard to survive a verbally, emotional and physically abusive marriage. May God bless you with a kind and good man. I wish you well and thank God you were strong and bold enough to take the decision to leave.

Anonymous said...

Chin up girl ! Which ever way the bottom line is that your happy...THATS ALL THAT MATTERS

Anonymous said...

Akuko mbe ekwu!

U are not after money and the "american dream" yet U GOT ENGAGED TO A MAN U BARELY KNOW WITHIN A WEEK!
Total madness!

And sweety, u aint that "attractive" biko. U aint ugly either, but not as attractive as u think. U turned down plenty marriage offers from rich men mgbo!
Lol...i bet chima is one of those cab drivers here that go home to marry one of those desperate girls in naija so she can come here and do nursing and become his atm. LOL! AfroCandy fell for that bait and when she came over here and saw what she got her self into she ran away from the dude and even ran mad(see her videos on youtube).


All u these naija girls that keep falling prey for guys with "money" or even the ones with real money sef(see Chima onyeaso) una go use leg enter doom one day in the name of marrying "well".

BLOGLORD said...

Its only loosers that beat women. Don't even know if my initial comment went thru

Str8FrmDaHips said...

oh yeah not interested in money..why engage within a week then??..anyway no reason to hit her tho..

GaMuGaZa said...

Choi within a month and all this sparks flew .. Choi !!!

ladies be careful ooo not all boys from abroad are as rich as they flaunt ooo

Dr. Rukevwe said...

I don't mean to sound judgemental, but I don't know why my generation seem not to value patience before marriage. Why the rush these days??? It doesn't appear as though we understand that marriage is meant to be a LIFE-LONG commitment and not some contractual arrangement. I always tell all who care to listen that though love is fundamental to marital success its not the only factor needed. For instance, no matter how much you love someone, if you both ain't compatible (e.g. if he/she doesn't see your importance in achieving his/her life goals), its only a matter of time before you call it quits.

Its my earnest prayer that our youths would commit more time seeking God's face not only in their relationships but also in their entire lives, before taking any action. Believe me, it pays, both on the short and long run!

Anonymous said...

This is what you get when you marry without knowing someone for long. Idiotic no-brain skank.

@8th_1nder said...

Okay. You guys got engaged A WEEK after you met? ONE WEEK? Okay.

Anonymous said...

abi she want green card. she lucky say the man no kill am. mscheww.

Anonymous said...

Is this a joke or what? You were looking for love, and u found it in a guy you met in just ONE WEEK!!! Buhahahahahahahaha HILARITY RELOADED!!! Choi. Lindi thanks for making me laugh my ass off.

MEKA said...

Tahh!!!who dis one wan deceive,evn blind ,deaf n dumb man go knw say na money she go 4...evn 4 olden. Days,dem no do luv like dis one wey unda 1 week wey dem meet dey done dey engaged.wat made her accept d engagement,wil she say she knew evrytin abt him in unda a week???she shld tell her stories 2 almajiri children,i'm goin wit d guys frnds.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Hmmmm aunty u can fit lieoo,so under one week u found d love dat eluded u all dis while. Point of correction coz u're attractive people feel u need more money to maintain ur beauty. Beta soup na moni kill am.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Android said...

My dear no mind all those yeye igbo men in America. They believe they ae God's gift to women! Always walking around like the own shit!
Word of advice to any babe running to go and marry Obodo Oyibo husband, SHINE YA EYES!!! What they show u in Nigeria when they vist, is NOT who they are! They won't marry the babes with them there in the U.S coz they know those ones don't take rubbish and will finish them! So they come for Jew babes in naija! OPEN YA EYES b4 u marry!! If u are on ur way to marrying one, and u have doubts...better INVESTIGATE!!! There are crazy pple in the U.S!! i dont talk my own finish...

meanwhile, Linda baby..how far na?

Anonymous said...

U guys met within a week,got married within 3 weeks..what in the world did u expect,I mean ...come off it!...I know some people are lucky to find 'the one' at d drop of a hat,but girl with guys of nowadays,u v got to put ur brain to work

Anonymous said...

Divorce is really not an option. Reading through this at first made me wondered why the rush . Its boldly written, its all about the money. Check it na. The prospect of a white wedding in the state. She just couldn't resist.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmnn, na wa oo.. Engaged within a week!! Dats a new one...

Anonymous said...

If there was abuse, hen you were smart in walking. Keep you head high and chuck it down to a bad experience/dream. Nothing do you

Anonymous said...

No it wasn't money Hun, it must have been desperation! You were engaged that quickly? Did you even know his favorite food within that time?

Anonymous said...

Naija girls which kind marriage, you marry someone in just three weeks all because he lives in America. They think all that glitters is Gold.

Anonymous said...

Long throat no go let girls learn

Anonymous said...

sorry but i think she is lying to get sympathy, because she went after him for the money, the list of things she wanted for the white wedding was just too much, including things she wanted chima to do for her family, too expensive. And by the way by igbo tradition, juliet you are still marriedooooo, abi he drank the wine and paid your bride price, because your family has not returned the bride price and other things that was given. Please Linda learn not to just post anything on your site,please do your research and hear from both parties. She wanted a lifestyle chima couldnt provide and her reasoning that if she was in the usa that chima would abuse her physically is flawed, because if she doesnt know usa is not nigeria where men get away for it, the law here actually favors the woman in most domestic violence cases. So am sorry tell you this bleached out diva wanna be is lying through her teeth.imagine how fast she agreed to marry him just because she thought he was money bag. I beg tell another story.

ebeano said...

only looking at her sef u will know this girls in high test side,

Modupsy said...

Errr....engagement within a week....marriage in a month. I love stories abt love @ first sight....but its only common sense that u need to know who u re marrying b4 u say i do. You had it coming girl

Anonymous said...

What did she expect? Marrying some1 she barely

Anonymous said...

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwewww...who be dis ones again..nonsense and ingredients

Anonymous said...

She must tink she's khloe kardashian for marrying dat quick.. I hope next she takes her b4 jumping in2 marriage without knwin wat d person she's getin married to is capable of..-BeBe

Anonymous said...

It beats me how one can become engaged one week after courtship. People can be so stupid. It's either a marriage for money or papers. Girl, next time look before you leap.

mama ifu said...

That time table is a little ridiculous...but, I understand falling hopelessly in "love/lust".
Don't look back Julz baby; don't mind what any aunty or cousin or amebo says. You saved your own life. You live to love another day!

Anonymous said...

This story is false.....Juliet knows the truth of her failed marriage deep down in her heart.

Anonymous said...

This girl just wants to ruin her whole life by granting an interview...Choii juliet you know your unpure ways abi

Anonymous said...

O o ya o. Marriage. My dear,u're still married. Once a brideprice has bn paid on ur head,marriage don start. Other ceremony na to fulfill all righteousness. What were thinking going the khloe kardashian way? Courtship the xtian way(no sex) is very impt in a relationship

Anonymous said...

*what were you thinking going the khloe kardashian way?

Anonymous said...

i just believe wit fear...

Anonymous said...

Linda please is this True???.. http://babajidesalu.wordpress.com/2012/10/10/4-uniport-students-killed-breaking-news-ugonna-kelechi-obuzors-mum-has-died/

Anonymous said...

This one na kokoroko,the day husband would lay his hands on me ........God help me .i would run, because I don't like to be domestically abused,my ex has raised his hands once ....trust me, I learnt how to shut up,but I was done.Sorry. Love.

Anonymous said...

'You didn't marry him for money but for love'..how can u love a man in less than a month you met him...young people nowadays really take marriage with levity...I think most are just attracted to the idea of a big 'owambe' wedding...

Anonymous said...

see this oluku that married for money. stupid girl. u wanna marry americana abi. taa gerrout!

African Sweetheart said...

wow

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Anonymous said...

Dopamine rush was her problem..how can you meet one and in less than a week una don dey marry...common...you never got to know him

Anonymous said...

what did she expect wen she dated him for less dan a week???or is it d US based dat made her fall in love??our girls are going for men simply bcos dey stay in the united states not even trying to find out what they do there.....

Anonymous said...

What was she expecting? You meet an Americana you barely know and jump into marriage before we could say jack. As you jumped in you jumped out. We dont want to know. Better luck next time and MEN better LOOK too. LINDA IF YOU LIKE POST MY COMMENT

goodie said...

Dats d tin wif ds sharp sharp tins,,meet 2day marry 2mrw..good she saw d handwriting early n ran b4 tiein nuptial knots...

Anonymous said...

the timeline of the romance is dizzying

BIBI said...

wot eva works 4 her afta all it's her life. dou de marriage arrangement in nigeria do not favour d women.

Anonymous said...

engaged after a week? the husband was just beating the sense into her cos apparently she had none!

Anonymous said...

Got engaged within how many weeks again? Ok.

otu ocha said...

please ask her to contact me, want to know if she can perform

clevadani said...

Get 2 knw people very well b4 u marry dem.dont rush into any marriage dats my advice 4 couples
if u are a Nigerian,u hav to visit dis page http://naijamustchange.blogspot.com/

Anonymous said...

Engaged within a week??? O ma ga o, and she says its not cuz of money, I laff at u

hotgirl said...

come o girl sharrap.
u are talking too much.u just had a failed marraige.go and rest,think about what went wrong and what u would have done differently.
u ust think ur attractive..stop decieving ur self,thats y u ended up with Chima in the ist place,bcos u heard obodo oyibo.u dont know pple here hussle for the money.

Anonymous said...

I dont need anybody to convince me, this is simply a case gold digging in the wrong mine. As in one week! Women sha! D problem is in d story itself we dnt have to go far b4 making our conclusion. We sincerely hope U̶̲̥̅̊'ve learnt ur lesson or better still confirm ur next target well b4 u do a day introduction.
....@seglon

baby cute said...

ooh seriously i v neva heard the name juliet ojukwu b4 lol! buh my say here is why will u get engaged to sm1 u just met in few weeks,dats where d problem started from, dey both dint know dereselves well...... wish u all the best, in ur next relationship make sure u pray and also take ur time to study him well, not saying it shd be up to a year oh!buh study him till u r convinced!

Anonymous said...

Mshewwwwww, rubbish who cares?

Anonymous said...

Wetin u ϑέɏ do wey go make am ϑέɏ beat u? U don talk ur own story now e come sweet, don't worry we go hear chima's own soon. Mshewwwww

Anonymous said...

This one does ∩ᴼt look like a wife material...

Anonymous said...

Clap for ur self madam.. Is that rain boot on ur legs?

Amarachukwu said...

U met a guy and was engaged within a week? I have nothing else to say.

Anonymous said...

Don't worry dear someone else is ready to take all the bullshit lol

Anonymous said...

Don't mind her she ran away from the marriage because she realized that there is ∩ᴼ aristo in US everybody pay his or her bails onye ara..

Anonymous said...

Must u tell the whole world about your life history this chick? Nobody care please..

Ada Yankee said...

See this guy, he lives in Colorado

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/561417_411785208858708_1205547568_n.jpg

https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/532521_411785812191981_186562591_n.jpg

https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/396862_411786698858559_75708038_n.jpg

I dont know either, was just curious. He appears to be engaged to another pretty little girl Adaobi Okeke.

Why is the Juliet girl answering Ojukwu sef if dem never marry.


Where do naija women find these type clowns in the US??? Geez!!! Grown man, almost my age, still trying to channel back his childhood, sagging and all.
So thankful to be married to my wonderful husband

chi said...

are you sure ma'am. Some girls can be greedy. So i hope you re saying. Also i hope u learnt ya lesson. Gettin engaged within a week n doing d tradition in less than 2months come on girl u guys barely knew each oda.so d next u wanna get hooked pls spend months being friends first. Fine u mite nt know in totality those few month bt at least some traits wud surface dt wud give u a clue or an insight into his personality.so bE WISE

Solution from Germany. said...

How can you be engaged with someone you don't even know. I think your friends are right in saying that you wanted to marry him because you think he has money. When you found out that there is no money there you decided to breakup the engagment. Your eye too open lol! I don't know what the guy see in you self.... Go dey look for d one wey get moni. Remember time is not in your side ooo.

Anonymous said...

Ok ooo

Anonymous said...

Gold-digger like you deserve worse,how could you meet someone and just because he lives in U.S,you just jumped into a marriage with him?

Craig David said...

U didn't marry him for money, but you did introduction three weeks after meeting him and then traditional marriage. And he is US-based. People like you do not know what love is and are just hypocrites. Now you now know what this so-called love has gotten you into. Not supporting the man anyway that is if your sotry is true. But men, you need to think carefully before making any decision. Dont do things cos others are doing it. Ojukokoro, anya-ukwu

Anonymous said...

Juliet I'll advise if you hv made up your mind Marriage is not do or die affair.But always luk before u leap.

Mervis said...

wt ws she thinking? getting engaged afta a wk of meeting him? does she tink real lyf is hollywood? mscthewwww

deczylet said...

Yh ,u lovd im, e threatened u ,es nt as rich as e claims, e did dis n she did dat n blahblah..we get it, now ur both divorced n movin on wid ur lyf..happy ending... Next pls!

Anonymous said...

THIS WOMAN DEY KRAZE!!! YOU MET SOMEONE AND YOU ALREADY ENGAGED THEM??? HE NEVA BEAT YOU WELL...HE NEEDS TO REMOVE ALL YOUR ORIGINAL TEETH MAKE YOU GO USE FAKE ONES!!! MUMU!!! NA THE MONEY WAN MAKE YOU MARRY AM! WHEN HE KNACK YOU "AKPAKO" YOU COME WAN RUN!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *OLOSHIIIIOUSS GIRL*

Anonymous said...

American husband...lol, all that glitters is not gold. Word for the wise

Anonymous said...

it happened so fast and it was bound to end just as fast. what did she want? a US kpali?

Blaxx12 said...

Being a person who have witnessed some of these nigerian marriages, I have to agree with Juliet and as well with Chima's friends. When a nigerian man travel to his village, he never admit that he has been in love with another he met in america, who may not be nigerian. But with pressures from his family, particularly ibo people, he succumbs to their request and marries. Unbeknownst to the woman, his heart belongs somewhere else and that can result in physical and mental abuse. Because no matter what she does, he is not in love with her.

Then on the other hand, nigerian women want to come to america. Most of the nigerian men who are earning their keep the legal way do not have sufficient cash to throw around. But when they travel to the village, with dollars being higher than naira, is party all the time, living la luca, giving the new wife a wrong image of their earning potentials. So when she gets to america, she come to realize, the bobo no get money...divorce is on the corner.

EX PLAYER said...

She really is a gold digger,this is the answer to your post in which you asked if long term relationship was the best,how do you accept a proposal in 1 week,and married in three weeks,this is laughable and it smacks of desperation,since she is not old,age approximately 25-27yrs,then it has to be the lure of visiting the USA[bragging rights]or the perceived money she thought lover boy has,since he did abracadabra with a few dollars.The easiest way to get a naija girl,give her a few Benjamin Franklin and she looses her senses,also when coming back to the country buy discounted $20-$50 perfumes,have some cheap ladies top,and also shoes of about $25-$50,handy,and you will make love to all the so called big chicks,their naivety is so unbecoming.Let this be a lesson to others.

Anonymous said...

shartap jor!!! Love gba kwa oku!
Engaged after just a week only for u to realize u guys were not compatible afterwards? Akuna!
You got carried away with the money he spent on you and you thought you ve entered heaven on earth.
You ve put a dent on your reputation cuz no sensible guy would want to come close anymore.
All these girls, if una see money una body go begin shake...

Anonymous said...

so you got married to a man within 2 months and you think in your wildest dream it will be successfull. you must be a fool.. how on earth do girls think.. if you were not after his money you were probably after something else but definately not LOVE.. Go to hell mehn..

Anonymous said...

wtf is she sef and how the eff is she relevant. and who in the fucking world gets engaged in one week? gold digger! u want to marry americana and get green card oshiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.thief.

Anonymous said...

Story for tortoise! You met a guy and within a week you were engaged to him,three weeks later you did introduction and five days later the Trad wedding, ahn han, who does that!!! And you are complaining he maltreated you, gosh, some women don't have any sense. Anything you saw in the relationship you deserved it. Ntoi!

cybog said...

Lmaoooooo, pls take your BS story to the birds. You met a guy and married him within few weeks, what did you even know about him, its hard to know things abt a guy u've dated for years not to talk of weeks, he could have been anything, a serial killer, ritualist or any other thing. Which yeye love be that, senseless love!

Pot Of Honey said...

Hmmmmmm,i comment my reserve. Lol

plenty money said...

you want to set record and you got burnt. How will you meet and guy and got engaged in less than a month? Go hud transformer

Anonymous said...

sebi una desperate to marry. introduction after 3weeks? mumu
-newyorker

Anonymous said...

Both of dem are foolish, who gets engaged to a man she has known for only a week?

Anonymous said...

Next gist please

Anonymous said...

Tah! Will you sharap there! Silly bitch.You didn't marry him for his money.How can a sane lady marry a guy in less than a month of meeting him.Ole omo.I guess you found out the guy was just a cheap crook earning an average pay abroad.Thief.May Aluu people descend on you

Anonymous said...

I usually don't post comments on here but I am making an exception today.

You say you didn't marry for money yet you got engaged to a man only after knowing him a week????? Why wouldn't he domestically abuse you when you didn't take out the time to know each other. If you were 'actually in love' with him and lets assume it was a love at first sight type situation then you will still be married to him...... right?

I consider this as 'gold digging act gone wrong'. It was only after you got married to him you discovered he wasn't as rich and you decided to get your gold digging ass self out of the marriage.

Mchew...... Enuf said!

Anonymous said...

This is the same girl who used to date Adams of Soundcity and even Iyke Ogbonna of the first Amstel Malta reality show and one light skinned dude who manages Movida.
We all know Juliet, a major gold digger. She married Chima for his money and was always boasting about how she was going to change her pink car.
Recall your days of seeking recharge cards in Festac? And we all know what you did to clinch your Soundcity job!
#spits

Anonymous said...

Wht do u expect? Met nd got married in less dan a month! So she is tellin us she was sure d guy luvd her in 4days. Haba!!! Na money u wan chop, make we yarn fact.

Anonymous said...

If ur happy in your marriage....please take a walk. Marrige is not a do or die affair...

nnamdi said...

Nyc 1 chima, u no get wahala

nnamdi said...

Chima ur sharp , and u wud surely find love...

Anonymous said...

Comon who is Juliet fooling? Wat sort of luv will make a 9ja babe marry a guy from Yankee within 2 weeks of meeting him? d guy maybe a wife beater but the short period of d marriage negates dat as d reason. I want to believe there was more to dis. Let her show us evidence of d beatings, with camera phones she must ve pics. I rest my case Linda. For d record, I am a married man n I despise men who beat their wives of girlfriends.

Presh Ogu said...

Kudos to her, she really tried by breaking up with him before she becomes a corpse.

kcee said...

Thats what happens when you don't take time to know your partner. I mean why the rush. The ideal minimal period to date somebody before considering marriage is 2 yrs. Glad that she got her senses back and pulled out before it was too late. On the other hand who would want to beat and maltreat such beauty. Instead you drop her if you don't like her character.

Anonymous said...

If it were to be Kim Kardashian, Nigerians will bash her endlessly but here is a Nigerian lady divorcing after a few months...for justice to be served equally, pls Let d bashing begin...thx

Anonymous said...

linda, i think its her fault.....she was just too quick about the whole thing

Anonymous said...

She didn't look before she leaped.

oyekunle.b said...

See her yeye mouth, if no be because Õ̸̳͡f money then what? Hw can U̶̲̥̅̊ meet A̶̲̥̅ guy once and I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ less than one week U̶̲̥̅̊'re engage †̥☺ him I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ two weeks U̶̲̥̅̊ had traditional marriage with him, if no be money why †ђξ rush abag pack well make  see road.

oyekunle.b said...

See her yeye mouth, if no be because Õ̸̳͡f money then what? Hw can U̶̲̥̅̊ meet A̶̲̥̅ guy once and I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ less than one week U̶̲̥̅̊'re engage †̥☺ him I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ two weeks U̶̲̥̅̊ had traditional marriage with him, if no be money why †ђξ rush abag pack well make  see road.

SaytheTruth said...

Engaged after one week????? are you kidding me? Lord i'm speechless. were they drunk? that is scarily fast. #mindblown

Laura Awiaka said...

On the 6th line,do u mean Keeping "Num" ?

Anonymous said...

Naija women sha! How can you be engaged to a guy in just one week? Y'all probably didn't know each other's 2nd names.We really need to start counseling youths more on marriage

Ada said...

With all due respect, the lady met the guy and in a week got engaged and married in one month and she is lamenting at the abuse? Haven’t all the stories and lessons from others taught us better.
If she does not have the fear of God, she should have relied on common sense and wisdom to have studied the man first she met before embarking on a life with him. I shake my head…

Immaculate said...

MY DEAR YOU DO WELL, IS BETTER YOU DID NOT GO AHEAD FOR THE WHITE WEDDING, THIS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS GETTING TOO MUCH, I DON'T KNOW IF OUR MEN THESE DAYS ARE RIPE FOR MARRIAGE BEFORE GOING INTO IT, ANYWAY MY FELLOW WOMAN YOU HAVE YOUR LIFE TO LIVE, JUST BE VERY CAREFUL OK, LOVE YOU

Anonymous said...

Let hope so

ann said...

She had the whole of one entire week to know him before they got engaged? I am so so shocked she didnt find out he was abusive in all that time

Anonymous said...

U'll surely get over it and will probably meet someone meant for u. A broken engagement is far better than divorce. Life is precious my dear..

MzChizzy said...

STFU! you obviously didn't marry him for love! who gets married barely after one month of meeting a person...ur retarded brain didn't tell u that a word called "COURTSHIP" exists in the dictionary yeah?...you're a disgrace to womanhood and the institution called MARRIAGE.

Anonymous said...

Nice one babes!! God will help you find love**

Anonymous said...

Igbo women and money. Even if na goat get money how dey like am, dem go marry goat.

Ola said...

Who be she?Go and sit down jor.just exaggerating on rubbish .

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Juliet tell the world d truth...ur hubby caught u in d act..dt was y he left u few weeks b4 u were suppose 2 relocate wit him...y didn't u mention d fact dt he gave u a car and bought generator 4 ur parents...was spoilin u wit money...return his car back 2 him..linda post my comment o

Anonymous said...

I dont support d idea of a man beatin a woman.... But how come women never tell d world wat dey actually did before a man decided to hit dem..... I dont think a man in his right senses will just wake up and start beatin up a woman for no reason...... No smoke without fire. Always blaming d reason for a divorce on men instead of accept ur own portion of blame for a failed marriage........ All d same... No man should hit a woman........just walk away from her sorry ass..... Danphilip

Anonymous said...

She got engaged to Chima cos she thought she will be eating money anyhow, was making crazy demands and all, driving his cars and her way no even pure, lagos undercover runs girl, I know Chima and his family personally, has been in the US almost all his life and believe me when I say Yankee life really enter Chima blood, can't say a word without adding "Shit" or "F**K*, Chima was barely 29yrs when he proposed to her, how did they meet, Chima was watching sound city on cable TV in the US, saw her, liked her, contacted the producers and traced her through TV o, came back to Naija, she saw him with all the diamond studs, tattoos and blinks plus hummer jeep and different types of cars he cruises around with and Vuallaaa, she accepted to marry him! Someone you bearly even knew. Chima has a 6yr old daughter from a previous relationship with a white girl and he's engaged to be married to another lady Adaobi and she accepts Chima's daughter like her own, and undergraduate of Madona university and is really crazy about his wife to be plus they've been dating for quite some time now and his family loves and accepts the new bride unlike Juliet, what Chima needs is a good wife that will calm him down from his yankee lifestyle not the one that's after his money alone. I pray his marriage to Adaobi Okeke lasts though cos Chima is a nut case but he's really a good guy. Here are links to Chima and Adaobi facebook page

http://m.facebook.com/chima.ojukwu.58?v=feed&refid=17

http://m.facebook.com/adaobi.okeke.568?v=feed&refid=17

Anonymous said...

hmmmm, i know a girl that got married in September and she is already out due to beatings at any slight opportunity even to flimsy reasons, are d men loosing their temper of looking for who to bully, na wa oh but seriously time will always tell that y u need to get to know each other, how u handle problems matter a lot, some divorce can be as a result of financial issue,not jst beatings, when u dont talk abt this things before marriage, u will see sugar inside the marriage.........one need to acquire wisdom and knowledge............rushing in and out of marriage isnt the best ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

ebeano said...

Igbo women and money may amadioha send u to afganistan,Tell me the tribe thier women don't like money? is it Yoruba girls who re running over married men to be second wife or benin girls who will even marry 100 years old white man for visa or Hausa girls who running over thier alhaji

Anonymous said...

all in the name of i want to be mrs xyz i think you see am now. not even dated for 1 yr and you were already alter bound nah wah ohh. thank goodness you see say the beating you no fit take

UJU said...

hahahaha...linda baby, thank u for making me laugh this morning. Juliet why on earth would u marry a guy so quick. are u not educated? dont u hear all these news and stories? *hiss*
u re not the only attractive lady in Naija,but among the desperado.Thank God u canceled the wedding if not , you will be one of our hot topics(abusive marriage) on LIB. abeg lili pass the mic joor.

juliet America dream

Anonymous said...


Ahan!!! Julie!!!
U didn't marry him because of money???
Abeg Abeg Abeg, na people wey no sabi you, you go dey tell this kind rubbish. Love in one week! You are lucky he wasn't a ritualist

Tieing a scandal around yourself to become famous...Cheap publicity If u asked me

Anonymous said...

We know their story na. All them actresses, both yoruba and igbo, we no their stroy. There was a time when I dey unilag, I had this room mate whose elder sister was a strong runs girl. This happened a long time ago before them stephanie, ini, genny, rita, etc became soo popular. The sister went for a party where all the state governors and legislators came for. The sister and most of this actresses were there! And each big man took the girls to their suits one by one. We know them. Let them be deceiving themselves.

Anonymous said...

Later some people will say na yoruba men dey violent.... I laugh in pidgin! Na all nigerian men dey guilty..........and na our mama cause am! We have made the men from a young age to feel to superior to women! That's the problem!

Anonymous said...

Blah! Blah! Bull crap! What do you expect when you get hitched to a guy you barely know.

Anonymous said...

My dad met and married my mum in less than one week and dey are still married for more than 28yrs. Everything is God nd wisdom is def needed

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but where in this whole write up does she say
"'My husband was always beating and maltreating me"..????

Anonymous said...

I dont believe her story chaa chaa.

First of all, its clear she married him for money/american dreams.

Secondly, many babes like her who already set their mind on marrying a man for visa will go thru it no matter what and then when they come over here, they will leave him and find their own way....I have seen many cases of this. If she was desperate enough to marry in less than a month for visa/money, nothing would have stopped her from atleast using him to enter US; many of them so it. I honestly thing the guy left her, not the other way around.

Thirdly, and for the record, domestic violence in the US is a major deal, and the law usually always sides with the woman, so its uncommon to see men beating us women here.

Arowolo Hope said...

Some guyz enjoy beating ‘the salt of the earth‘,letz learn to show restraint even wen we‘re very angry.
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casey said...

What do u expect?,since u didn't court for long

Anonymous said...

Hahahahahahaha, fowl nyash don dey open. All these stupid people forget that lots of people read LIB so their dirty secrets arent secrets for long. Ojukokoro girl. Abeg park well.
Domestic abuse is a serious thing so stop using it to seek sympathy.

Anonymous said...

This chick is obviously a wuss! Linda no dey post this kin annoyin stories..I'm sure the guy just fucked the livin daylights out of her and told her to get lost...she deserves every slap, punch and body slam she got. Pass the mic....jooorr!

George O said...

I reckon

Anonymous said...

Guys don't jump to conclusion o, theres always 2 sides 2 a story....!

Anonymous said...

Pple meet pple and fall inlove that's why it is called love @ first sight. It could happen to ur sis' too all u judgemental FUCKS!!! The guy is obviously an asshole and hopeless gigolo, cuz she discontinued paying his child support d idiot beat her blue black and is currently engaged to another prey like her. Girls be warned and stop making Chima(a hopeless gigolo) popular

Anonymous said...

Julietttt! Julitettt! Juliettt! How many time I call u? So u can come out openly to say you werent after money when you know that so many people that live in Festac are fans of Linda Ikeji's blog. Ehen!

We know you well well, we no wan begin yan ur history for here o. But next time keep such nonsense to urself. Love in 2 weeks ko, hate in 5 years ni.

Anonymous said...

U are not after money and yet U GOT ENGAGED TO A MAN U BARELY KNOW WITHIN A WEEK! Total madness!
Na today? Girls like you, learn the hard way...
And sweety, u not that "attractive" biko and U aint ugly either, but not as attractive as u think. U turned down plenty marriage offers from young men who are still climbing the ladder.....abeg go rest, hope other girls will learn from ur actions

Anonymous said...

Na d money biko..ole
Nnah men

Anonymous said...

Their traditional marriage wasn't @ Oct,itz was Dec 29th....Pls who eva dat posted dis link shuld get d real info of sum1's private life before writting.....She has her life & knows all that happened,it is not everytin dat the world or people needs 2 knw,der are sumtins that she left unsaid,so pls tink well b4 u judge.......We are all Human...

chisom said...

linda post my comment oh! haba naw! everytime u neva post ppl's comments why? allow us tell dis gal some home truths.

Preyer said...

Oh Please! Chima is not a saint. Very cocky, americana-wannabe and arrogant bastard! I agree that he didn't respect her. Can you imagine that Chima posted of FB that he saw a pretty girl acting like she was all that in Nigeria. So he asked his driver to make sure he splashes dirty water on her just to humiliate her? Will you marry such a person?

Now to Juliet, you're one hell of a gold-digger! The chima I know is not marriageable. PERIOD! You saw the signs from the onset and you stupidly jumped in cos' of the money and cars. His parents are trying to help find a Nigerian woman to re-connect him with his roots and change his crazy lifestyle. What a waste of time! No decent Nigerian woman will marry a thug, wannabe gangsta .... That says a lot about you juliet. You're money hungry!!

Anonymous said...

@ anos 11.13 ur story is pure 100% I said that there is something about this chick, I just checked the chima guy and adaobi okeke fb now mennn, the chick dikwa hot ooo even the guy is not bad anyways but without been told u will know that he is a mother fucker... ℓ☺ℓ

Anonymous said...

@anonymous11.13, wow, you really know Chima to the bone, Juliet you know linda ikeji's reach has gone viral, everybody that knows anybody comes to this blog, if your way no pure, don't just say anything or bring yourself out cos people that know you well will tell the truth as it is either negative or positive, so if you have skeletons in your cupboard, please don't say nada. Linda you too much, I'm addicted to your blog, true stories

Anonymous said...

So,when did ur friend meet him that she's now engaged to him??? Hmmmmmmmmn!

Anonymous said...

Wetin bring Chima Onyeaso wey don dey seriously broke inside this ur comment now? Hope u re not rating him as a rich dude, cos he's becoming broke and selling off his properties in Canada.

Anonymous said...

Girls o. This one comot, another done jump in already. Any wife beater is scum as far as I am concerned. If someone can't make a sentence without cursing, do you need anyone to tell you which part of town he lives in America and what kind of job he does?
Next time, don't wait for a week Juliet, get married the next day k. If its true he was abusive, then its good you took to your heels which shows you are wise. So you knew exactly what u were doing when u married him so quickly and u know it wasn't because of love. No comment is better than cheap lies.

Anonymous said...

That was then, when men knew what it is to be a man and women played their role as wife and mother, not today. But like u said na God and wisdom sha.

Anonymous said...

He obviously came wife shopping. Which responsible and well to do man will come all the way from America to marry a girl in a week unless he has an ulterior motive which for guys frm america, is for u to come n work n pay his bills so they spend heavily to trap a nigerian girl that will come over and become his atm. Know someone that has been battered for years cos she stopped working to raise their kids. The guy will tell her point blank that he only married her to come and make money n pay off his debt in America.

Anonymous said...

anon 9:41 it was a mistake, i meant CHIMA ANYASO that allegedly beat up his wife which caused their 6month VERY PUBLICIZED AND LAVISH wedding to crash.
Apparently, Onyeka(his now ex) was his long time gf till he became involved with orji uzor kalu and kalu arranged for chima and his daughter to marry for business progress. He dumped onyeka and got engaged to neya(kalu's daughter)...but neya dumped him saying she didnt wanna be used for her father's business ambition. Well, Chima went right back to onyeka and she took him back after the humiliation....less than 6 months after their marriage, it crashed. And im sure he was beating her prior to the marriage sef cos her people are claiming that after the last beating chima kicked her out (all for asking questions about his cheating). Sigh. What some women will endure sha.

Linda e delete kwana postua ooo seriously. No let me start suspecting you o.lol.

Rosellar said...

From d guy's comments on her profile pix, I believe he's a mad somebody oooooo. You are mine! Mine! Mine! My own! My wife,,,,,,,,lol. Girl's pretty sha, looks lika she's now bleaching.

DIVA said...

i cant find my comment LINDA... I CAT BELIEVE THIS..OMG!!!! DO YOU CHOOSE WHAT COMMENT TO PUT ON HERE.. SAD FACE

Ella Abotsi said...

Just one side of the story.

Warri Girl said...

Mstweeee does this babe have sense so, how would you meet a guy and get engaged in less than a wek and in 3weeks time you guys are married. Its nobody's fault, she didn't look well before she leaped.

Anonymous said...

WHAT! I remember that Chima and Onyeka's wedding on BN. I still remember their engagement story join. It's a lie. WHAAT!!!

Edet said...

I have always wished you the best and hope to see you real soon, didn't expect an end to it.

C.Nnamani said...

Rush in and Rush out!!!!

This Marriage is just like "indomie preparation"

She could have married for money!! or maybe the Guy is abusive.

whichever way, marriage is for life.

Please go and make your marriage work.

http://topchronicles.blogspot.com

Kuldeep Randhawa said...

Thanks for sharing, lol..
green card through marriage

Anonymous said...

See you guys saying she got engaged in ONE WEEK. Do you think the guy didn't taste down below in LESS THAN ONE WEEK? I find that v disgusting.. I heard plenty Nigerians in America have HIV.

Anonymous said...

Marriage is not rushable.
You Rush in = You Rush Out.

koko said...

ur beautiful sha. but remember all that glitters... dont marry if ur not ready to.

Anonymous said...

The rush with which she entered leaves us with only one conclusion which is that she dashed into d marriage without counting the cost which is synonymous with an inordinate desire for wealth.

Anonymous said...

Eziokwu!!!Ladies should understand that marriage is not one of those visits we pay to our boyfriends on weekends. it is forever business, so take time out to know your partner and don't rush into it bkos all your friends are married or bkos of money. Money has wings, it could fly any time. Be warned.....one day now you will tell this one that bought a car for you loves sex and you have to leave him.

Anonymous said...

Post my comments mbok...do you hate me dis much? Lolz

Anonymous said...

Pls Linda....crying...publish my comments.

Nixz said...

smh

Nixz said...

smh