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Monday 2 January 2017

'Marriage isn't supposed to be a battle field, protect your kids by making the right discussion' - Tonto Dikeh advices ladies

Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh Churchill, took to Instagram to react to the report of a woman who was beaten and stabbed in her private parts by her husband, for allegedly cheating on him with a teenage boy. She wrote:
"This is all too confusing. Where is it in the Bible that says it's ok to beatup your spouse? How long do we keep forgiving and living a lie all in the name of our children.
The SAME children if not removed from an abusive environment will grow up to be the Abuser THEMselves. A man who hits a woman today has over time watched it happen before. It could never be a first time event half the time. Protect your Children by making the right discussion for them. Marriage isn't supposed to be a battle field and even if it were, Men pick someone your own size..
How long do we keep look and listening to society telling us how to live our lives? Same society that would blame you tomorrow if something tragic happens. Society please be kind to women, give us the respect, care and protection we deserve..
MEN WOULD YOU LOVE TO SEE YOUR MOTHERS OR SISTERS BE TREATED THIS WAY??? THEN WHY DO IT TO US?? Listen it absolutely doesn't matter what a woman does to you,you have various options to walk away. Not pose like a boxer in a ring with mayweather..
A man who truly loves his wife won't dare lay a finger on her.There are so many ways to resolve marital conflicts and violence does no good...
#SAYNOTODOMESTICVIOLENCE
#Lovesometimesisneverenough #Amotherspain #Godtakethewheels #Jesusourcomforter #Teachuswhatsrightforourchildren #OnlyWeakmenbeat"

37 comments:

Unknown said...

well said my dear

Zalon kay said...

yes tontolet for once your speaking truth.

Ohiren Erimiakhena said...

Hmm...advice indeed!..how would she feel or react if her husband cheats on her with a teenage girl?.

Unknown said...

True talk!TONTO MY SISTER DON TURN TO MARRIAGE COUNSELOR IN HER MARRIAGE OF 1 YEAR AND HMMM WELL WATCH UR OWN HUSBAND o HE MAY NOT BE BEATING U IN UR BODY BUT MIGHT BE BEATING U BY FUCKING OTHER BITCHES OUT THEIR SO KEEP UR COUNSELING FOR NOW IS TOO EARLY FOR U. All that tonto said here is noting but the truth freeborn don't have much to say but all he can say is this,if u are u find ur self in abusive marriage work out for ur life don't use ur children as an excuse because THE SAME CHILDREN WILL GROW TOMORROW WITH THE abusive LIFE SO WORK OUT FOR UR CHILDREN'S SAFETY AND UR OWN too.
She that have ear make she hear unless ur eye na plastic rice.

























#sad indeed

Unknown said...

True talk!TONTO MY SISTER DON TURN TO MARRIAGE COUNSELOR IN HER MARRIAGE OF 1 YEAR AND HMMM WELL WATCH UR OWN HUSBAND o HE MAY NOT BE BEATING U IN UR BODY BUT MIGHT BE BEATING U BY FUCKING OTHER BITCHES OUT THEIR SO KEEP UR COUNSELING FOR NOW IS TOO EARLY FOR U. All that tonto said here is noting but the truth freeborn don't have much to say but all he can say is this,if u are u find ur self in abusive marriage work out for ur life don't use ur children as an excuse because THE SAME CHILDREN WILL GROW TOMORROW WITH THE abusive LIFE SO WORK OUT FOR UR CHILDREN'S SAFETY AND UR OWN too.
She that have ear make she hear unless ur eye na plastic rice.

























#sad indeed

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Good one Mrs Churchill


Long Live LIB

Unknown said...

adviser
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

Women of YESTERYEARS were MUCH BETTER DISCIPLINED than the TYPES we see today that they own themselves because they have gone to "SCHOOL"!!!
Don't we see how MANNERLESS they behave or speak???

Anonymous said...

TONTO ,THANK YOU. BUT PLEASE,WRITE ALSO ABOUT THE WOMAN WHO STABBED HER HUSBAND TO DEATH ON XMAS DAY.


ANDY

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

It is well


...merited happiness

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daboski said...

Thank you Tonto Dike Churchill.

Unknown said...

Tontoh is right 100%...

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

She has said it all, some are so wicked.

Carina Kikelomo Jacob said...

Men that beat women should be ashamed of their selves. They have low mentality!!! They look for theor size and fight instead of hit women. If you are a man reading this and you beat women gay people are far better than you!

Shame on men!!!! Yeye dey smell


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Carina Kikelomo Jacob said...

Men that beat women should be ashamed of their selves. They have low mentality!!! They look for theor size and fight instead of hit women. If you are a man reading this and you beat women gay people are far better than you!

Shame on men!!!! Yeye dey smell


www.ckjacob.com

Unknown said...

You're right tontolet

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Oghenetega said...

Nice 1 Tonto...
Until they start prosecuting all of dem wife beater b4 they watch it..
They keep getting away with it

Anonymous said...

The culprits here are women themselves. They are the ones who hold other women down and then chant for their sons and brothers to beat their wives very well. Women are their own worst enemies.

Look at the US elections for instance. Many women who supported Donald Trump when you ask them why, they tell you they just don't like Hillary Clinton. Serioulsy, they "just don't like". That's how messed up many women are. They are too envious, too sad, too jealous, too pathetic, too angry to love their own kind. I guess years of brainwashing, suppression and oppression have made their self hate deeply ingrained, it can't be helped. Racism and sexism will be with us very long but sexism will last much longer because majority of the population negatively affected have the defeatist attitude thus help to promote it.

Anonymous said...

Advises**** are you not an English Graduate? Advise- verb .....Advice and Advise should not be used interchangeably.

Anonymous said...

Forward thinking people who want their children to be better must work hard to train their children right, boys and girls and strive to put them in the right environment so they mix with forward thinking people too because majority of the population would rather die than have women being treated any better. No matter what they are told, they will continue to cling to the beliefs the superiority of one being over the other, yet they resist racism even when it was clear the superiority in that area too.

princess said...

To To feeling super woman, when did she she married that she was advising women. Someone should be learning the ropes of marriage. Mtcheew!!

princess said...

To To feeling super woman, when did she she married that she was advising women. Someone should be learning the ropes of marriage. Mtcheew!!

princess said...

To To feeling super woman, when did she she married that she was advising women. Someone should be learning the ropes of marriage. Mtcheew!!

Anonymous said...

You a punk if you think she's not in the position to advise. Do you have to be married to know what is right? It's called common sense which some people lack including you. Pray for or buy a brain

Unknown said...

Rightly said









Lib addict#just passing#

Anonymous said...

Tonto, I agreed with you to some extended but we all need to honor marriage, when you are ready to start cheating on your significant other be prepared for the outcome.

Unknown said...

Thank you Tonto that is all I can say. And to wife beaters, peace will elude your lives.

Anonymous said...

Must every woman vote for hilary? Yout post is dumb. So because she is woman i should vote for her soley cos of that. You are so shallow. Yes women can be their worse enemies but when voting for a leader we should remove ethnic, gender sentiments and vote for a brighter future. That is what is keeping us stuck in this country. He is my brother so i want him as president.

Ella chandelli said...

Lol...abeg Tonto wetin be the name of this your cream..and this your highlight/contour nah die...

queenlizzy said...

It doesn't matter how long but how well @princess.

Anonymous said...

Is true my sister only weak men beats cherry

Anonymous said...

Who asked you Tonto?

Anonymous said...

Noonsense advice, till your husband cheat on you we go know your stand on this,,,
since you wanna cheat why married?
since you love your children so much why cheating on them?
do you know how much spiritual damage cheating wife bring inside her children life?
any good wife that love there children so much can never cheat but walk out from the marriage before
sleeping with another man,, even that young guy she slept or cheating with life has damage and is
only GOD can save him

Amina said...

Idiot.....how many times do u hear women beat up their husband for cheating,eh????...mkpi hausa...it's a very rare occurrence meanwhile,men cheat all the time and women are meant to forgive them.

Anonymous said...

Anon 14:36, where in that post did you see where the poster advocate women must vote for Hillary? Many of you need to go back to school. Since you cannot make reasonable deduction from statements. You use residual knowledge for every new situation you face.

FYI, what was pointed out was the fact that many women who voted against her didn't have any valid reasons except they just didn't like her, something common between ladies when they see other women for the first time and just conclude they just don't like them. If you don't find something wrong with that, something is very wrong with you. The uneccessary antagonism women fire at each other is pitiful.

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