A piece of advise from a LIB reader...made me laugh a little...lol. Read below...
Hey you! yes you. You've lost your virginity to a guy for reasons best known to you. Now the guy has left you. (you cry for some time and stopped). You met another guy and the guy requested for sex, you still went ahead to give him. He later dumped you. And it goes on like that. Each guy you meet you keep allowing him to sleep with you.
My question to you is: How many guys are going to sleep with you before you get married? Your husband that is supposed to meet the thing chacha (brand new) will now meet esha (yoruba name for rotten).
For those who are still virgins, I give you two thumps up! If any guy comes around demanding for sex and you tell him to wait till you guys get married and he says no he cant wait, please let him go. After all God is not in support of sex before marriage, so he will provide a good man.
That also goes to those who have lost their virginity. You've made that mistake once and let that be once and for all.
Ladies......please wake up and wise up!
Please Linda help me post this, for the sake of spirituality and morality please.
256 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 256 of 256Way to go darling! I kept myself till marriage too and its d best decision I ever made. My hubby worships me and he trusts me 1001%. So keep it up, it pay
Anon 11.35 why u dey vex? Abi na u write this one? U r so pained coz she hit d nail on d head kpam! Retired commercial sex worker...lmfao!!!!
This post is flawed on so many levels. It assumes only men demand 4 sex b4 marraige-I ave met many women who 'demanded' sex 4rm me. It assumes only men dump women-I ave been dumped by women(infact, the first was the my 1st sexual encounter'. It assumes every man wants 2 marry a virgin-most men(even. Priests) prefer a woman wit (some if not a lot) of sexual experience. Virginity is admirable but doesn't guarantee 'marraigeability' or marital bliss...are we 2 assume ALL virgins are well-mannered, good cooks and home keepers. The writer puts very little thought in da article and does ALL of us a dis-service.
Waat about d man u will marry? His is own thing chacha? Mumu talk
Everybody body saying tell them tell them... who are those doing it... this sound like a cry from a broken heart
Good response
My like for u just developed for dis ur comment.
Ur husband na virgin ni?
You and your family members are all goats, why is it paining you?
Get the fuck off my comment idiot!
Born by mistake like you.
If don't understand english go back to school.
LWKMD! Trust liberz,they must surely conter d advice.bt my own is any one who dosnt buy these thoughtz av been banged severaly by diff dicks..esp liberz like;Tolu anon comparin kim k,na guilty conscience dey worry dem,FUCKIN FUCKERZ,WIT A FUCKING PROBLEM!
Gbam! Biko women want tear rubber men too!
You made sense
Good article I must say. But I don't think being a virgin makes you a perfect wife, that's why we have God's grace, I've seen virgins who ended up with the wrong men, when a man loves you, he loves you, nobody cares if you're still a virgin or not. Just be decent , and if you've been sleeping around , make a turn around and you'll be doing the right thing. We all make mistakes so don't criticize those who aint virgins, if a guy wants a virgin , he should be a virgin, otherwise what about those girls he slept with? Remember every bitch was once a virgin,,, its part of life. Let's just be real, ur decency, and character is the main deal here not your virginity. Those who are still virgins don't be deceived, keep ur virginity till u are ready (I mean with the right person) .
Good response..... best comment ever!!
Some comments are annoying. .The writer only said what needs to be said, it's a choice....The most important thing we shuld uphold is the fact that it is a sin and the name is called fornication if we dint realize that...and for the ladies that just typed bullshit, keep sleeping with almost all the guys that comes to you and stand their to claim equal right with the men also.take heed and close that borehole already.have some pride to yourself and dignity, no matter what this teenagers that are guys comment here, a real man ready for maraige wants a decent girl not national cake.
Some comments are annoying. .The writer only said what needs to be said, it's a choice....The most important thing we shuld uphold is the fact that it is a sin and the name is called fornication if we dint realize that...and for the ladies that just typed bullshit, keep sleeping with almost all the guys that comes to you and stand their to claim equal right with the men also.take heed and close that borehole already.have some pride to yourself and dignity, no matter what this teenagers that are guys comment here, a real man ready for maraige wants a decent girl not national cake.
hmmmm.... naaaaaa.... moving on
Igwe Adaobi, you English has improved. Ekene diri chukwu.
Is not easy sha..let's try and zip up girls
You have no right to judge anybody. Rather than coming out to pass a message you only came to condemn. What right do you have to condemn anybody?
Skeleton looking for a way to warm your way into female hearts? Playing the sentimental game? A woman has no reason to sleep with any man she's not married to. Period! I'm a guy who has slept with more than 30 as you rightly said, so don't think I'm trying to be holy. No. It doesn't also mean we shouldn't say the truth. We all know we shouldn't be having pre-marital sex. I still feel guilty after sex. I can only ask God for forgiveness. Self deceit is the worse form of deceit. And for your info, God created women in a very special but delicate way. Women always take the brunt of the aftermath of sex. I implore every girl on this page to stop offering us their bodies until we put a ring on their finger. Stop it! If you refuse us sex, we may insult you, but the bottom line is that we will respect you thereafter.
Agent of Satan. Don't listen to this Satan girls. He's lying. Don't have sex until you are married. Say no to pre-marital sex! It is wrong. It is bad. It is a sin.
I'm not a virgin! I still have sex. But that doesn't mean we should shy away from the truth.
Made no sense
#Goodadvise
I just realized one thing today.....all the ladies attacking this guy are NOT VIRGINS. take it or leave it, this is sound advice. If you do not realize, men cannot help but demand for sex...but it beholds on the ladies to say YES or NO. Unfortunately, many ladies lack the ability to say NO.
Peeps just a post generates loads of hate speeches.. We hate ourselves shaa..
madam u that is posting are u chacha????????? park well
Best comment! 1000 likes...
Yea
Lol
Hmmm ma darling galfrnd! Wt ur posting is true though! But I wanna ask u dis simple questn? How mny guys out der are still virgins? Luk b4 u leap abeg. We all mk mistks in life, u won't blme some girls na, some are being raped. Well I de wish u well o
Nice post but the thing is,Giving or withholding the 'cookie' doesn't mean you're going to get wifed!
@1:16 thk u.today's parents ve a lot 2 do in bringing up deir children both sons and daughters.
We should teach our kids 2 b respectful 2 one anoda and most importantly 2 ve Self respect.
Whether u set or package,a man dat wants 2 cheat will cheat.
Like hubby will always say if you want 2 b faithful b faithful because u r faothful,dat because of a man.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE NON-VIRGIN VEEJAY GETS ITCHY, WETTY OR LUSTY?
I don't know why any man will desire to dis virgin a woman? I don't see the point in it. Actually, a woman whose only sexual partner is her husband is more likely to look outside and wonder what it's like with other men. She'll be sexually naive and hence more vulnerable. Supposing if the virgin wife discovers that she is frigid, prefers women or can only be satisfied by a man hung like a horse? That will be the end of that marriage. For me it was important that my wife was sexual ly compatible with me.
I can bet that Linda wrote this herself. kudos to you dear
I married my hubby a virgin,am enjoying my marriage, dis right up is the truth,wait for the right man,God blessed me with the best of all, very handsome and caring,I praise God. Na me be sexy wealth2
enough of all this making women appear to be second class citizen. the men should be cautioned too
This advice is really nice...
But don't blame it on guys alone, d world aint wat it used 2 be, some girls are so wild that they demand sex 4m men n if he doesn't do it they'll think it is incapable....#justsayin'
Yes you piece of shit. Idiot.
Listen people it's for your own good, if you ladies want go and spread it to the whole world that's your loss. That's why there are so many STD's going around. If us ladies learn to close our legs these men will not be going around bad mouthing us like the way they're doing,I remember back in the day a guy will be begging for a hug and a kiss forever he might not even get it, but now if they request for sex and we decline his response will be oh some of you African girls are too stiff let me go to someone else. Men don't value us as they use to thanks to you loosies out there.
Henry, it is your mother that disvirgined 50men.
Son of a prostitute, weren't you born in a brothel. Fool!
you ND your family of prostitutes.
That is why you're disfigured, because your mum tried aborting you.
This anonymous is big goat.
Born by mistake.
1million likes.
Lol
Don't mention my name again.
Why didn't she advice men, is it only women that will keep themselves? Why cant men be virgins too? Did bible say fornication is a sin for only women? Better live me out of this.
Most virgin girls are lesbians. Quote me anyday.
~D great anonymous!
IS HIS EGG PLANT UNTOUCHGED? IT HAS NOT SMELT OR TASTED BABE? SHUT UP JARE. VIRGIN WHAT WHAT
Well said
Lmao
THIS PERSON NEEDS A BIG SLAP FOR SAYONG SUCH NONSENSE
SO......ARE YOU SAYING A MAN CAN FUCK AROUND ABI? BUT A WOMAN SHOULD KEEP HERSELF FOR THE MAN WHO IS FUCKING AROUND?
AGEGIIII.....HAVE SEVERAL SEATS.....ROLLING MY BIG EYES.....RUBBISH UPON NONSENSE.
GOES TO SHOW....WOMEN ARE ENEMIES OF WOMEN. WE ARE OUR OWN WORST CRITICS.
YOU WILL NEVER HEAR A MAN WRITE SUCH ABOUT ANOTHER MAN....INSTEAD, THEY WILL HAIL EACH OTHER FOR ALL THE WOMEN THEY'VE BEDDED.
All of you that are hating are confirmed ashewo. Guilty conscience will kill you faster that all the diseases you will soon carry from opening nyash left, right and centre.
It's obvious this Adaobi is knocked out whore. Repent now or perish in immorality.
The devil will make immorality easy for you. Lindaikeji blog will fasten your heart to it. Kim K will tell prove to you that nudity is good for you but God will always call your heart unto a life of holiness. Don't allow evil post from this blog to make forget that there's eternity im heaven and hell. If you miss heaven you can't miss hell. Be guided, repent and be converted. Jesus is calling.
Well said
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