Dear LIB readers: Can't get the image of my ex **** out of my head
From a female LIB reader
I have been married for 3years with a child, love my husband, he is the
kind of man any woman can hope for, spoils and pampers me like a guy
asking a girl out for the first time (we are happy). But I think I love
my ex more, we broke up because he lies too much to me and any guy that
lies to you is not serious or doesn't love you (my theory), but we
remained friends, the kind of friend that you can tell anything no
matter how weird. We were chatting about 2 days ago and we got emotional
that he sent me a picture of his penis and I almost jumped out of
my skin. Since then I have not been able to sleep, work or do anything
without seeing that image and longing for it, I so much want to be with
him but I am married. What should I do? Please don't insult me, I need
honest answer cause I can't talk to anybody about it.
I don't know if some people that comment on this blog reason with their anus coz I know a lot of u here aren't beta! It is easier for us all to sit and criticise the lady in question forgetting that at one point or the other, we all find ourselves in awkward situations...we should give constructive advice rather than insults! In situations like this, seeking for advice anonymously is better coz u don't know the friend or relative u can talk to and won't betray u or even find the courage to discuss it with them! Having said that, I will advice the lady in question to cut all forms of communication with him. Like most people ve pointed out, he is just out to ruin ur home. Think of ur loving husband and kid, are you ready to give them up for few minutes of pleasure? Is it worth it? Remember to pray too
You are just on point. You don't remain dat kind of friend with your ex dear! Stop and ask yourself why he sent such a pic to you?? To sleep with you and destroy your home that's why! And guess what, he will leave your arse thereafter and you alone will have to pick the pieces! Please love your hawt hubby back, give him some good loving and raunchy sex and thanj your God for all you got and lastlt delete that guy permanently!
Iyawo face your husband oh. Leave your ex and let your ex leave you. You ex no get nothing to lose and trust guys, he would happy fuck you and tell you he misses you. Na when yaw a gas that you go know say he is born liar. Teach you husband how you want to be fucked. And let him give u what your ex gives u. If he can't, tell him to buy u vibrator and add it to your sex life. Delete all contact from that lair oh before your husband read and find out you are the one asking for help here.
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Please, don't ruin the good life you have going for you. Please. I'm begging you with every and any thing you hold dear. Please. It will only end in regret. Please. Cut off every communication with that ex. Biko. Please. You won't find a good man like your husband ever again, your children will hate you and you will be miserable if you even chat with that man again (and yes, I'm swearing for you). We all miss our exes at one point or another or think of the could haves but there's should be a time to draw the line. Na so e dey start small small. Next is "come and see me" and you know what will happen when you do because you will go. Please, sell your blackberry if possible. Please.
I guess your husband penis isn't big enough that's why you almost jump out of your skin on seeing your ex's penis. Well that's your fault, after 3yrs with you your husband's penis is still small enough for you to think of another then you have to sit up; give him BJ and hot sex 24/7 cos that's the natural way for a penis to get bigger. Don't be a fool to throw away water cos of wine.
Na we dey use our hand cause problems for ourselves and later we go dey find help
You know, as humans we should have principles guiding our life, we should have values, because that's the only way we live life with less hitches, when you are married there should be boundaries, there should be a "No" to some things, why would a married person be having an intimate discussion with an outside, worse still your ex? And also going as far as sharing nude with that person or accepting nude pics from that person, when you are married there are somethings that you don't tolerate
My advice to you is this, there is something called self control, the same God that created that sexual urge in you, also created self control in you, if you have sex with him now, you will continue having sex with him, you need to talk to yourself, and tell yourself this is not right and you need to stop chatting with that guy, break any link you have with him, and most importantly, you need to pray hard
There is good news for you, time is the ultimate healer, if you cut all links with him, and work on yourself and your self control, and also pray, with time every taught of having sex with him will vanish, and you have conquered! May you be a conqueror in Jesus name. Amen!!!
The beginning of your problem is keeping touch with a significant ex. The sooner you cut off connections with him, the better for you, cos at the rate you are going you will soon lose everything.
i am trying very hard not to insult you just like you pleaded but i think you getting away without an insult would be injustice. You getting into a conversation with your ex that resulted in him sending you a pic of his penis is ludicrous, i am sure you also sent him a private part of yours in exchange but you refuse to mention that here. Eitherways, my advice to you is that you should delete that devils advocate you call your ex who intends to replace your joy with sorrow from your life and empty the thrash can forever. let him be dead, buried, decayed and forgotten to you.
Hmmmmmmm! If u know wats good for u, better forget ur past(ur ex) and focus on ur present (ur husband and kid) can't u think? Anything dat made him ur ex means he was neva good for u..so pls be WISE!
this is exactly what sex before marriage leads u to (d deed has been done anyways). babe abeg consider the future of your child; do u value few minutes pleasure wit your ex or a peaceful home for your child's moral development? Any answer to dis question will either make or mare u. so the choice is yours.
i am trying very hard not to insult you just like you pleaded but i think you getting away without an insult would be injustice. You getting into a conversation with your ex that resulted in him sending you a pic of his penis is ludicrous, i am sure you also sent him a private part of yours in exchange but you refuse to mention that here. Eitherways, my advice to you is that you should delete that devils advocate you call your ex who intends to replace your joy with sorrow from your life and empty the thrash can forever. let him be dead, buried, decayed and forgotten to you.
Anon 7:42pm..she said no insults but advice!!typical nigerian!must u call her names?are u perfect?linda is giving lame people voice on her blog!come out and don't hide under disguise as anon!share ur own pathetic story let's hear!
well all said and done.. i hope u will still read this advice from me. let analyse it this way. 1. list all the good qualities u love in ur loving husband vs the qualities u love in ur ex. 2. list wat u dont like in ur husband vs wat u dont like in ur ex. weigh them if u can score them on grade of 1-10. den total it. if ur husband penis is as big as ur ex cos i its obvious dat is the case here. manage it. cos after 3rd child that prick will not move u again neither ur husband's. the no matter how young you're now. bcos ur libido will drop.
and both ur ex and ur husband will remain if not increasing self. However, if u dont delete his number u can change urs cos i n=knw u still memorize his number. have sex regularly wit ur husband and leave d idiot to go. cos once he have u, and u hubby get a wind of it u will be divoce b4 u even re-marry that is if ur ex will marry u. and no man just want to jump into divoice lady. but if u refuse to u will regret it, u will nt be loved again and u will suffer it til u die and u wil wish u had not done it. bt noting wil change the clock. so be wise. study ur bible (proverbs) if u hid to this positive suggestions u wil be happy forever, but if u dont that ex wil die and leave u. den who wil send u penis from heaven ... i beliv u know d answer..
If you are a Christian, pray to God for strength of mind. Delete that rubbish from your phone. Change your phone number if you can afford to do so. Do not save his number in your new line. Delete his number and chats/ messages from your phone. Pray constantly about it to God. The feeling will gradually go away. Just pray. Look for work to do. If you are not a Christian, look for an activity to immerse your days in, at least for one month. You seem to be too idle.
You are having an affair and cheating on your hubby. It may not be physical....yet but its an emotional affair . Would your hubby be happy if he knew you were still in contact with your ex? Can you honestly show him the contents of your chats and texts? If no, then you already know you're in the wrong. Its called emotional affair. Stop all contacts, lose his contact info immediately and invest all the extra time, energy and efforts you've been spending cheating in your marriage. You have a good man and you know it so why spoil it? This is the first I've read in a long time about a girl having a good man cos its always the reverse. So make ammends or let him go cos he deserves better.
Stay away and stop every form of communcation.If u fall. he will "hit that" and tell his friends...while u loose the love and trust of a good man=your husband
girl u are married to a man who i am sure loves you like crazy so plz do not jeopardize ur marriage for sm ex who may even be wit sm1 else and please if evrytime you cm in contact wit him bothers you then please delete him from evry social network, ur phone and do ur best to avoid him
Young lady pls run away from dat guy..he's out there to destroy ur marriage I bet u he knows what he's doing. .plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz distance urself away from him.biko and u idiots insulting her is dat wat u are suppose to do?
Delete him 4rm ur bbm contact,facebook contact,twitter contact,instagram n ur hrt 2!!!! Ur husband dose not deserve dis treatment 4rm u pls!!!! N as 4 ur ex,he dos'nt ♡ u he just wants 2 f**k u,dat's all
Trifling thats what you are. Women like you give dogs a bad name. You have a husband who loves and adores you. You have a child together&your ex is what you are drooling over. My conclusion: you are retarded. Shege yarinya!
Yes, I will insult you. What kind of advice do you want? Linda Ikeji Blog has now become a play ground for MARRIED WOMEN WITH ROTTEN HEAD. Fuck off from here!!! I pray your husband get to see that RUBBISH in your phone. You will surely get what will come your way.
Pls my dear sis pray to GOD to see u through d temptation cos I. See it as temptation,moreso always go near ur husband regularly so dat u wil erazer dat mentality of ur EX penis is getin out ur skin.
Well am sorry but no big diff btwn u n the woman sharing her mind......all is adultery....if u jad completely cut contacts with ur ex, u wouldnt be in love. You cannot say u love him n ur hubby....marriage is deeper than we all think tho....look at this critically
It reminds me that line in Kanye West lyrics: "one good girl worth a thousand bitches" You know something - you are not just a good girl, and your thought is like that of a bitche!
sounds soooo tempting, but your are married ..let your ex go! doing it one time would lead to more complications, please dont destroy your happy home for a old time fling.. whatever urges you are having take it out on your husband ..
I think you should appreciate what you have now. Understand what you have now and know that it is not something you can always get. Try to stop communicating with your ex. He probably knows you are happy and wants to mess it up. Use your head. Good Luck!
Call your Husband into your room,Play Original Sin and you guys should have good sex over and over and over and over again, you will sure get over the Wussy of a guy
Dumb question! U know ur right from ur left, u know wat to do, d simple truth is dat "u is a whore bitch". Dat sounds bad bt wen a married woman is spewing dis much trash she is a whore!
OMG looool this is way too funny. Okay to be serious madam, please CUT OFF ANY kind of communication you have with him. Its hard but its for the best! And delete his p***s picture if you still have it. He's a devil messenger and wants to ruin your happy marriage. Do NOT give him the space, the next thing he will ask you is your own privates pic and later he will ask for you to meet up at a hotel/his house. A word is enough for the wise.. take heed.
THIS IS WHY WOMEN GET A BAD RAP...HE SENT U PICS OF HIS SMALL BOY MANHOOD WHICH U HAVE SEEN BEFORE AND U ARE LOSING UR MIND....U SHLD BE THOROUGHLY ASHAMED OF URSELF./..HE HIMSELF IS EVIL AND A NARCISSISIT..THAT IS EXACLTLY HOW HE SEES YOU AND HAS OBJECTIFIED U TO BE ONLY USEFUL IN THE BEDROOM AND U ARE LOSING SLEEP..HOPE UR HUSBAND SEES THIS AND DUMPS UR SORRY BEHIND...I MARRIED MY HUSBAND BCOS HE IS A DECENT HARDWORKING CONSIDERATE AND LOVING MAN AND NO MAN OR STUPID PICTURE FROM AN UNRULY TRIFLING EX WILL MAKE ME LEAVE HIM...AND ON THE OTHER HAND FOR UR EX TO SEND U THAT PIC MEANS HE IS A LOSER SIMPLE AND SHORT END OF EXPLANATION.....GET ON UR KNEES AND ASK GOD TO DELIVER U FROM DEBAUCHERY AND LASCIVIOUSNESS AND WHOREMONGERY..AND THANK GOD FOR A DECENT HUSBAND...CHILDISH WORLDLY GIRL WITH NO COMMON SENSE!!
Ex is not sex but expired relationship, so why do you want to go back! Even dogs don't go back eating their vomit. Be wise. The fuck will last for hours and the guilty forever . Carry your Kokoro eyes from his Kokoro .Foolish girl !
Am married bt never went true such cos my hubby was a beta friend nd a beta guy in all aspect dan my ex but I hv a friend who went tru same tin .her ex was a very nice young cute guy frm a very gud home bt she could nt wait 4 him 2 marry her nd went 2 marry sum1 dat even me dat is her friend knw's dat her ex hv a beta future dan her husband,d only tin was dat d husband is older nd richer...so nw she hv done anytin possible 2 mk d marriage wk bt no show cos d standard she is cumin frm is 1million times beta dan where she is nw.she told me dat she regrets nt been patient bt can't do anytin abt it nw.dat her good ex is nw doing well 4 himself.I advise lady's 2 b patient and marry d good man.never u marry only 4 money ,mk sure dat oda tins r in order 2...sorry dear bt u hv 2 live wit it
Well am not gonna go for the blame game now. I've got some options for you to try out. 1. Go to your ex, have the best time ever with him in pleasurable, delightful, rough and raw sex then once your done come home and face the disaster you've caused in your home. 2. Go meet your husband, fuck him like you've never done, suck his dick dry, ride his dick like a cowgirl. After that this pleasurable moment tell him your problem, he is a good man, he would provide a means to keep to your dick standard or sex standard
Well am not gonna go for the blame game now. I've got some options for you to try out. 1. Go to your ex, have the best time ever with him in pleasurable, delightful, rough and raw sex then once your done come home and face the disaster you've caused in your home. 2. Go meet your husband, fuck him like you've never done, suck his dick dry, ride his dick like a cowgirl. After that this pleasurable moment tell him your problem, he is a good man, he would provide a means to keep to your dick standard or sex standard
OK, THIS IS VERY SIMPLE, NO NEED TO BEAT AROUND THE BUSH WITH MY ADVICE...............................................
SIMPLY STAY AWAY FROM YOUR EX,
NO CALLS, NO CHATS, NO DATES, NO POLITE TALK, NO PICTURES, NO CHECKING UP ON HIM, NO NOTHING. STAY 100% AWAY FROM HIM. JUST CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. YOU DONT NEED TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF OR JUSTIFY YOUR ACTIONS TO HIM. YOU ARE MARRIED. YOU BELONG TO SOMEONE ELSE. YOUR EX JUST WANTS A PIECE OF YOU A*S WHICH HE IS OBVIOUSLY MISSING AND HE WANTS TO BREAK YOUR HOME. PLS, DONT ENCOURAGE HIM IN ANYWAY, IT IS ALREADY BAD ENOUGH THAT YOU ARE TELLING HIM ALL THE THINGS GOING ON IN YOUR MARITAL HOME. ITS TIME TO LIMIT THE DAMGE, CUT HIM OFF AND SAVE YOUR HOME.
ALSO, IF YOUR EX WASNT MAN ENOUGH TO TREAT YOU WELL AND PUT A RING ON YOUR FINGER WHIST YOU WHERE SINGLE AND AVAILABLE TO HIM. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT HE WOULD DO THE RIGHT THING NOW THAT YOU ARE MARRIED WITH A CHILD. ........THINK ABOUT THAT.
Stupid and foolish woman. U dnt wnt to b insulted? Sure wat u r doing dnt warrant insult rather it warrants u being thrown into d Lagoon. If u cnt get over it den send him yo pussy so e cn view yo hole too. Dats y I said d most foolish set of creature on earth is woman. Idiot, olochi, ewu, weey ere na dey worry u, oloribruku.
My dear go wash ur toto with H2SO4 and ur brain with HCL... Like MI said ashawo na ashawo no matter what u drive... But in your own case "no matter married or not married" as he don send u him prick na chuk ur fone for you obonte make u dey pleasure urself. I hope na 3310 u dey use cos dat one go vibrate well
Eh ya story that touches d heart.my one cent.leave ur lovely and stable home for mr dick.pls dont look back.PS can u post ur husbands no here for those who r looking for.women r out there praying and fasting for a good home.u av one and u want to throw it away.do we really need to advise u?really?.im married and av found myself engaging in flirtatious chats wth an ex once in a while but it never crosses my mind to leave my certainty for uncertainty.things we read here sef.nonsense!
Hw r we even sure she didn't send him a naked pix of her boobs /body too...anyway beta tink abt it seriously bcos he ll only use u n insult / threathen u abt it later... he his ur EX 4 a reason
Of course I'm going to insult you if you post this crap. What kind of nonsense is this? Why are still keeping communication with an ex that you still like? You're a very selfish woman and you're the type that will cheat on your husband tomorrow and I hope he sees you for the fraud that you are. How can you even want a guy that treated you like that. That your theory is not yours, it's common sense. You husband is the guy that loves you, am man that many girls are fervently praying for, treating you like that. You're so blesses already and you're still trying to taste something else. I can tell you it's going to be very bitter in your mouth. Please, if you still want your ex, tell your husband fast fast so better girls that will appreciate him and not be greedy can get him. Thank you
You deserve to be insulted so your f&%#ing disclaimer is bull. You are already an asshole for staying in touch with your ex and leaving the door open for him to send his penis pics. Going forward, now that you really know how you feel about him(or more specifically, his penis) leave him be and honor your vows. Be closer to God. Do more for your husband and family. All will be well.
My dear forget abt him,its a No go area for U.U re married already wat ar u lookin for?if u trully love ur husband as u sed plss delete d pix n all his Contact on ur phone n move on wit ur life.
Now I know why God doesn't want us to have sex before marrying. It's so that temptations like this can be easily dismissed. Remember the laws to obey God are not just there for his own satisfaction. But to protect us from the feelings we get and the hurt we put others through. See all this feelings of desire and adultery you have now, you have already sinned in your heart. You are going to end up hurting your husband and children. Just for a brief moment of pleasure. Are you really that selfish and self centred. Best advise: delete the picture, and cut all contacts from him and face your husband and children. You have to be strong and overcome temptation you can't just be weak minded. Funny thing is your ex was the one that lied to you yet you want him back. Why is distraction always so alluring
Why is it that a lot of women nowadays are all having extramarital sex with husbands that are caring. They say they want caring yet long for liars and cheaters. Are they really that confused. If you know you'll be fooling around then stay single. Don't drag an innocent person into sin. That is selfishness. Anyways men listen. Only a wise woman builds her home. And the begining of wisdom is the fear of God.
Sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex. That's all people feeling marriage is all about now. That's the only thing we are all intrested in now. Why? Quench the desire of sex by having more. The world is now polluted. God help us all
You know when a God said thou shall not mention my name in vain. It was because of all this nonsense kinds of prayers. You tempted with sin and now you are asking God to do what. She should just remove herself from the situation. Stupid fellow.
If you love someone, why marry someone else. That is soooo selfish. Because you don't want to end up lonely. You obviously don't know what love means at allll. You are so selfish. Chai I can't believe I just read this
Some women are so evil, you confessed being married to a great man and you are still doing things behind his back?? And you don't want to be insulted?? I have no further words for you.
Don't insult her, a lot of people go thru ish like that er'day. A lot just don't say anything. Advice her. @Poster don't do it respect itself en of to walk away from ur past, it has nothing good to offer except that lying dick.
I would just tell you one simple fact ... whatever you saw in your husband for you to marry him is definitely not in your Ex .. so stick to that important fact you love about your husband , cause a lot of women are waiting to take your place, immediately you walk out of your marriage ... check the stats of single unmarried women looking for husband ... maybe then you would grow up ...
you are the kind of girl that I HATE...if u were married to that your ex and he treated u bad, u will want the husband u have now...can u just show respect for the good man u have and cut contact with your ex?he will destroy u..why deceive yourselves into saying "just friends"? it's so sad some of us women ehn...smh..girl get rid of that ex and focus on the amazing husband u have...a lot of women wish they had your kind of guy
IF UR HUSBAND'S THING IS SMALL WHY DID U MARRY HIM??? SINCE MANHOOD IS SO IMPORTANT TO U??? SAVE HIM THE AGONY??? OTHER WOMEN WAKE UP??? IF MANHOOD IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN AN HONORABLE HUSBAND THEN GO THAT WAY IF THAT IIS WHAT MAKES U TICK...DONT CRY FOUL LATER WHEN UR HUSBAND SHARES HIS KOKORO WITH OTHER WOMEN...
Dear Bonario, ever since I saw your picture, I stopped seeing the humour or intelligence in ur comments. You wld have done the both of us good by nt sending them. Sincerely, miss m
Lmao. The vex catch you well oh. "Abeg cut him loose. He is not a man.." has he been living in bondage? Is he a woman? Pls small small wt ur vex next time oh?
U as a faithful wife should not have anything emotional with other men. U alone can free itself from that demon u still see in ur head thinking is the penis pic he sent u. Free itself and ask God for forgiveness.God help u
All ya fake-ass commenters turned Justice Williams,fuck ya all. Giving dumb-ass advice like u better. Married whores screwing young Gs den coming up to "pope" others. Girl,u a just a human. Can't judge. One fine humans do is make mistakes. In all we are all humans. God guide n guard your steps.
My Dear, the honest truth still remains that you like the sex in your ex, but look at the bright side, you have a husband that cares and takes care of you. yet you think about jeopardizing that because of sex with your ex. he is only going to sleep with you BECAUSE he sees you looking much better without him than with him. now think about your new future family and think about the part time sex... you can't have both because you can't chase two rats at the same time.
MY Advice: since you can't get over his memories.. ignore any further contact with him and consider him as a failed contract.
You love him so much but you broke up due to his lies. Don't you know he is still using the same lies against your mosquito brain?
you claim to have the best man but your heart is lieing to him, which shows you are a better match with your liar ex.
You only love your husband for the material things but would flirt well if you have the opportunity.
You know know the truth, that is why you said pple shouldn't insult you. Keep holding on to your past (and call it friendship) when he achieves his aim of digging you as a public wife nd destroys your marriage and life, your eyes will clear.
A married woman receiving a mans dick picture? Chai as far as I am concerned you have already cheated,How are you going to convince anyone you have not slept with him if he discovers the picture.you will destroy your life if you continue on this path.Be satisfied with what you have, I'm talking from experience WAKE UP and do the right thing.A word is enough from the wise.
I'm positive you will soon imagine your husband's death. Likewise,imagine will be like having that life you crave for with your ex. And you will end up realizing what you are actually missing the most wonderful precious man you can ever have in your life (the one which you had wished dead).
(Advise from my wife) My Dear sister, don't even take a step of seeing him at all, because he will not just ruin your marriage, he will also ruin your life. Be very very careful of such people.
We are just saying devil... its we humans that are the devil. so be aware of the devils trap. it can hunt you to the grave. Please my sister God loves you so please get closer to him and thanks for voicing out... God is your strength.
That blatant lie men who say that have flaw in there character. My husband behaves just as this ladies hubby and I kiss the ground he walks on treat a real lady right and she will give you her kingdom check cleopatra and Marc Anthony .
of course u will get insults, what do u expect? for ur predicament.....don't buy ur clothes back from goodwill, there's a reason u got rid of it in d first place!
You are heading to destruction of your happily married life and in turn your ex-guy will neva see anything good in you, if your hubby should leave you cos he will believe you are promiscuity woman since you can do it for him while you are married and same you can do when he marries you. Stop to safe ur self from an unending sadness. from GETMORE
have been there an i know hard it is. expecially when the ex was ur first love. you just need to ask yourself an honest question. does all what you are doing is what you actually want for your life? if its not then you need to work very hard to stop your ex before he distroy you.
It is obvious that the guys must have been sharing pics for him to have the nerve to send a pix of his dick, the grass ain't greener on ur exs side, he Jst wants the thrill of the conquer, as a man I've been in that zone before. Jst stick to ur husband & encourage him to try moves that'll WAOH u in bed.
My dear, what we long for atimes is what would channel a chain of unhappiness and disgrace. What then u actualize your morbid desire, you go back to your husband? The posible consequence of your action may far surpass the act. Take a long walk from disdain. Your ex will ruin your life. Make not mistake, if you do it, you will pay for it severely
Pls fantasizing is normal. Its even healthy. But try not to act this fantasy out. Its a phase that will pass. Any person married for over 2yrs who has not once fantasized of someone else should pls cast the first stone. Hypocrites!!!
my honest opinion,u say ur ex boyfriend lies to u.what make u think that the image he sent to u is his.secondly what wrong as ur husband don't to u that u want to break his heart. what else do u want that he hasn't given to u. if u need sex that bad go to ur husband. don't destroy what u have for lies.delete the guy's number asap
my honest opinion,u say ur ex boyfriend lies to u.what make u think that the image he sent to u is his.secondly what wrong as ur husband don't to u that u want to break his heart. what else do u want that he hasn't given to u. if u need sex that bad go to ur husband. don't destroy what u have for lies.delete the guy's number asap
I went through a phase like this after I got married. The memories of the times I shared with my ex was so much alive. I used to think of him even while having sex with hubby. I just couldn't get him out of my head. But I prayed to God constantly about the situation I found myself. He delivered me. Those memories are not fresh anymore
My own is dt I dnt even see my husband to chat wit,he keeps late nite,every day and I hv no one to chat wit, so I chat wit my ex and pls dnt tell me I dnt look good dt iz why he keeps late nights.am a hot mum of 2kids.dt fucks my husband so well,bt I just realised he cheats for fun and wit his friends,
@Diamond Thank you for your post. Nigerians are so judgemental the poor lady is having PENIS BLUES and nobody said it will ever be like this. My own contribution is engage your husband in some sex games or role playing you enjoy and guide him all the time so that he can align with your sexuality.
Last but not the least marriage does not permanently remove memories of a past sexual relationship for those of you that think that getting married will solve all your sexual problems. The ball is in your court.
The size of the penis you saw is catching up with your feelings emotionally, torturing you because he gives you a good f**k better than your husband. My dear these things don't last. Stick to your husband who pampers you. It shows how much you are safe, But with the guy with big penis, you are doomed.
U can love once and love again, U might not know love, if you still living in infatuation. Sometimes we think infatuation is love, until we see Love itself.
Dis is wat happens wen u let d devil in, uv got a good man wen good men are so hard 2 find so pls dnt ruin ur marriage. Most pple get back 2 geda afta dey brk up but still end up brkin up cuz d reason dey broke up initially is still dere.dnt wreck ur happy ever afta only a few pple are priviledged 2 get 1 *******A-BELLE******
Madam or Miss,we all are Victims of this. It almost seem that Exs are more preferred than current ones. Biko, Try Try, the horny tots are normal... but begin to turn ur mind to ur buddy, its not easy. but start and cut off. or else u will be ready to go marry Mr good Dick and i wonder if he needs U or just ur Cuntilating Cunt.... Gbaaaa Oso. Nokia FMC tell u oooo.
My dear pls send me ur hussy's phone no and address, then go to ur ex and continue what you have started. I really want to hook up with ur kind of husband. To be very honest with you, if only i can locate ur husband right now, i will gladly snatch him away from you and bring him to notice, of ur relationship with ur ex lover. If possible make him see d pix he sent to you. I knw u must have sent ur pussy in return to him. I would make you lose ur husband for life so that you will learn to cherish God's special blessings in ur life. Ewu 10kobo
Cut all ties with your ex and focus on your family. Your ex is your past. Life with your husband is your future. Get a job or hobby to fill the time you're wasting on your ex.
you just have to let the image, emotion etc go, focus on other things and try not to let your thought go through that part, over time you will get over it
I was married and I had the same problem, now am divorce with a daughter, my husband lives in South Africa now......is not fun, I wish I could turn back the hands of time and the misery guy lives in the UK with his family, I wish he can chase his wife and marry me
Babe, I feel you.... No one has the right to judge you... No one... The fact is that this person used to be your man..but now your ex... It takes a lot of discipline to be able to quench that fire, that attachment to an ex, especially with whom you really had something going at a time... I, for one, love my woman to boot, but yet find it hard not to call at some of my exes, who are all too excited to have long chats with me... Trust they also call ever once in a while too... But I make the effort to keep it civil, because for me, once it is over it is indeed over...that is not to say that it didn't once occur where I and an ex got it really steamy... Thank God, however, we stopped short at going the whole hog... Now the issue is that your ex is taking advantage of you...he is taking advantage of the "ex-factor"... He knows that for a woman, whose button you used to push at will some time in the past, all it takes is yet another ounce of pressure and she is in bed with you helplessly... So don't give him the chance... He only wants to use you... And you might regret it if you allow him ride on your weakness... He ought to respect the fact that you are married...and give you a break... Please cut him off now! Grab your focus... Give your best to your husband who was man enough to marry you, and you won't regret it!
God must make u suffer for this advice. May the earth be rid of people like u o! And no my cussing u out isn't too much. Dear poster u can leave d marriage and fuck to your fill let's see where it takes u. Or u can delete a wicked ex who sends u provocative pics when he knows you're married o.
women and their fish brain, it obvious u like ur husband a lot and u dont love him. u have shown that u married for marrying sake and u aint getting enough action in de room. the ball is in ur court. i just wish ur husband will catch u 2
foolish hoe... even if he didnt send the pic of the penis, you have had it before and still want it.. its in y'll..go fuck him and tell your hubby he's the only one fucking that hell hole when you know he's not...liars
I guess i am so disappointed in most of the comments some people who call dem self OLD, some one in need of real help is tryin to get advices bt she gets insults instead.. my advice for you is just to stop contact with your ex and whenever the picture comes to mind get romantic with your husband so as to get it over with, never, never and never for any reason visit your ex, cos u wld end up regretting it...
Run for ur life, d devil want to use dis to destroy d happiness in ur marriage pls my sis is better u stop chatting wt dat deceiver and focus on ur hubby, if u try if devil ll laugh at u b wise, if chatting wt him ll destroy ur marriage cut it
firstly go back to God and confess ur sins. Secondly u cant make a man ur exboyfrnd ur best frnd wen u are married. Concerntrate more on ur hubby, hv more sex wit with think of him, tell him more tins, make him ur new best frnd and cut all comm wit ur ex cos ur hv already started committing adultery wit him.
If your husband doesnt do it well, teach him how you want it, if he is sluggish _ tell him you need fireworks in that department.learn to love your man's joystick...cheers
got emotional? first be true to yourself woman!! i don't know what you would want to get from this closeness. stop asking silly questions you know what to do. face your marriage squarely and stop toying with adultery
If u truely LOVE ur husband as u claimed, u wouldn't b tinkin of these ur fake Ex.Woman better ask God to guild u and stop thinking abt ur Ex,His d devil him self.
You should cut him off. That is the ultimate disrespect for you, your husband and your family. That was lust, not love, if he honestly loves and respects you, he wouldn't have approached the whole situation that way. He's your ex for a reason, cut him off or ruin yourself, your choice.
As a matter of fact, ur sound so loose and irresponsible. If I could ask what's d essence of u keeping constantbcommunications with ur ex to that extent. How would u feel if u find out ur hubby is doing such? Dts when ud say men ar wicked. U better cut off all communications with ur ex and concentrate on ur marital affairs odawise ud end up homeless. Olojukokoro, alainitelorun.
I think ur ex is part of your past now jst move on with your husband an ur lovely children thank God u are even married now life Goes on matter what enjoy ur matrimonial Home please..............When the pretty birds have flown, And you feel hurt and alone, Be strong and carry on, And remember that life goes on an belive Oluwa is involve my Dear
like you said he is a LIAR. he will lie to you until he destroys your home completely. if you like continue… to me you are already cheating on your husband because cheating is not just by sleeping with the guy, the fact that you're sharing your thoughts and being emotional with another man means you're already cheating on your husband. These are things that you are supposed to share with your life partner not some random stupid EX-lover. If you are not ready to destroy your home better know what is good for you and cut all contacts with that home WRECKER!!! And you are a very bad wife for doing this to someone that loves you with all honesty and think about your CHILD.
Firstly,since you are married,i think every contact with your ex should be cut off,particularly one who has a negative effect on you. Truly,you should cherish what you have with your husband and ask the holy spirit to help you overcome this temptation.It would ruin you.
Loose contact with him as soon as you can that is if you really wanna avoid him,........ besides why would you be sending and receiving nude pix with an ex....... Feelings hardly die
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I don't know if some people that comment on this blog reason with their anus coz I know a lot of u here aren't beta! It is easier for us all to sit and criticise the lady in question forgetting that at one point or the other, we all find ourselves in awkward situations...we should give constructive advice rather than insults! In situations like this, seeking for advice anonymously is better coz u don't know the friend or relative u can talk to and won't betray u or even find the courage to discuss it with them! Having said that, I will advice the lady in question to cut all forms of communication with him. Like most people ve pointed out, he is just out to ruin ur home. Think of ur loving husband and kid, are you ready to give them up for few minutes of pleasure? Is it worth it? Remember to pray too
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You are just on point. You don't remain dat kind of friend with your ex dear! Stop and ask yourself why he sent such a pic to you?? To sleep with you and destroy your home that's why! And guess what, he will leave your arse thereafter and you alone will have to pick the pieces! Please love your hawt hubby back, give him some good loving and raunchy sex and thanj your God for all you got and lastlt delete that guy permanently!
you have a good man, a good home and you want to throw all away because of a cheat and a liar!!!
Wow! You're already there....i doubt if any advice can stop you from doing what you already took decision on...
Iyawo face your husband oh. Leave your ex and let your ex leave you. You ex no get nothing to lose and trust guys, he would happy fuck you and tell you he misses you. Na when yaw a gas that you go know say he is born liar. Teach you husband how you want to be fucked. And let him give u what your ex gives u. If he can't, tell him to buy u vibrator and add it to your sex life. Delete all contact from that lair oh before your husband read and find out you are the one asking for help here.
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I rily wish I cud help buh u hav 2 tink seriously bout it before u act
Hmmm, that guy is a home breaker and you, lady, are a cheat.
Hmmmm
Please, don't ruin the good life you have going for you. Please. I'm begging you with every and any thing you hold dear. Please. It will only end in regret. Please. Cut off every communication with that ex. Biko. Please. You won't find a good man like your husband ever again, your children will hate you and you will be miserable if you even chat with that man again (and yes, I'm swearing for you). We all miss our exes at one point or another or think of the could haves but there's should be a time to draw the line. Na so e dey start small small. Next is "come and see me" and you know what will happen when you do because you will go. Please, sell your blackberry if possible. Please.
I guess your husband penis isn't big enough that's why you almost jump out of your skin on seeing your ex's penis. Well that's your fault, after 3yrs with you your husband's penis is still small enough for you to think of another then you have to sit up; give him BJ and hot sex 24/7 cos that's the natural way for a penis to get bigger. Don't be a fool to throw away water cos of wine.
Na we dey use our hand cause problems for ourselves and later we go dey find help
You know, as humans we should have principles guiding our life, we should have values, because that's the only way we live life with less hitches, when you are married there should be boundaries, there should be a "No" to some things, why would a married person be having an intimate discussion with an outside, worse still your ex? And also going as far as sharing nude with that person or accepting nude pics from that person, when you are married there are somethings that you don't tolerate
My advice to you is this, there is something called self control, the same God that created that sexual urge in you, also created self control in you, if you have sex with him now, you will continue having sex with him, you need to talk to yourself, and tell yourself this is not right and you need to stop chatting with that guy, break any link you have with him, and most importantly, you need to pray hard
There is good news for you, time is the ultimate healer, if you cut all links with him, and work on yourself and your self control, and also pray, with time every taught of having sex with him will vanish, and you have conquered! May you be a conqueror in Jesus name. Amen!!!
God bless you
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The beginning of your problem is keeping touch with a significant ex. The sooner you cut off connections with him, the better for you, cos at the rate you are going you will soon lose everything.
i am trying very hard not to insult you just like you pleaded but i think you getting away without an insult would be injustice. You getting into a conversation with your ex that resulted in him sending you a pic of his penis is ludicrous, i am sure you also sent him a private part of yours in exchange but you refuse to mention that here. Eitherways, my advice to you is that you should delete that devils advocate you call your ex who intends to replace your joy with sorrow from your life and empty the thrash can forever. let him be dead, buried, decayed and forgotten to you.
Hmmmmmmm! If u know wats good for u, better forget ur past(ur ex) and focus on ur present (ur husband and kid) can't u think? Anything dat made him ur ex means he was neva good for u..so pls be WISE!
this is exactly what sex before marriage leads u to (d deed has been done anyways). babe abeg consider the future of your child; do u value few minutes pleasure wit your ex or a peaceful home for your child's moral development? Any answer to dis question will either make or mare u. so the choice is yours.
i am trying very hard not to insult you just like you pleaded but i think you getting away without an insult would be injustice. You getting into a conversation with your ex that resulted in him sending you a pic of his penis is ludicrous, i am sure you also sent him a private part of yours in exchange but you refuse to mention that here. Eitherways, my advice to you is that you should delete that devils advocate you call your ex who intends to replace your joy with sorrow from your life and empty the thrash can forever. let him be dead, buried, decayed and forgotten to you.
Anon 7:42pm..she said no insults but advice!!typical nigerian!must u call her names?are u perfect?linda is giving lame people voice on her blog!come out and don't hide under disguise as anon!share ur own pathetic story let's hear!
well all said and done.. i hope u will still read this advice from me. let analyse it this way. 1. list all the good qualities u love in ur loving husband vs the qualities u love in ur ex. 2. list wat u dont like in ur husband vs wat u dont like in ur ex. weigh them if u can score them on grade of 1-10. den total it. if ur husband penis is as big as ur ex cos i its obvious dat is the case here. manage it. cos after 3rd child that prick will not move u again neither ur husband's. the no matter how young you're now. bcos ur libido will drop.
and both ur ex and ur husband will remain if not increasing self.
However, if u dont delete his number u can change urs cos i n=knw u still memorize his number. have sex regularly wit ur husband and leave d idiot to go. cos once he have u, and u hubby get a wind of it u will be divoce b4 u even re-marry that is if ur ex will marry u. and no man just want to jump into divoice lady.
but if u refuse to u will regret it, u will nt be loved again and u will suffer it til u die and u wil wish u had not done it. bt noting wil change the clock. so be wise. study ur bible (proverbs) if u hid to this positive suggestions u wil be happy forever, but if u dont that ex wil die and leave u. den who wil send u penis from heaven ... i beliv u know d answer..
Hoeish ways.... just listen to urself...cos of penis...u now love Ur ex more than Ur husband.
Good ques lol
I'm literally on the floor laughing.
Empty vessels make d loudest noise
you bare making a big mistake. the earlier u stop chatting with him, the better for you
you are making a big mistake. the earlier u stop chatting with him, the better for you
You'll regret it lady, end communication with him. You will end up losing both if care is not taken. He won't marry you.
Your husband is the best, concentrate on him. Pray.
If you are a Christian, pray to God for strength of mind. Delete that rubbish from your phone. Change your phone number if you can afford to do so. Do not save his number in your new line. Delete his number and chats/ messages from your phone. Pray constantly about it to God. The feeling will gradually go away. Just pray. Look for work to do. If you are not a Christian, look for an activity to immerse your days in, at least for one month. You seem to be too idle.
Pls watch Tyler Perry's Confessions of a marriage counselor. Then come back to reality oh selfish woman,
Pls madam delete his no sharp sharp nd tell him 2 stop calling u, his an evil guy, don't call him anymore, continue wit ur marriage dat is all.
You are having an affair and cheating on your hubby. It may not be physical....yet but its an emotional affair . Would your hubby be happy if he knew you were still in contact with your ex? Can you honestly show him the contents of your chats and texts? If no, then you already know you're in the wrong. Its called emotional affair. Stop all contacts, lose his contact info immediately and invest all the extra time, energy and efforts you've been spending cheating in your marriage.
You have a good man and you know it so why spoil it? This is the first I've read in a long time about a girl having a good man cos its always the reverse. So make ammends or let him go cos he deserves better.
"Sent a pic of his penis" - DOUCHE ALERT
Stay away and stop every form of communcation.If u fall. he will "hit that" and tell his friends...while u loose the love and trust of a good man=your husband
Lwkmd at d same time I'm Rotflmao
Best comment ever!!God bless ur good heart!
girl u are married to a man who i am sure loves you like crazy so plz do not jeopardize ur marriage for sm ex who may even be wit sm1 else and please if evrytime you cm in contact wit him bothers you then please delete him from evry social network, ur phone and do ur best to avoid him
Well said! My thought exactly
Mmm
I can relate with her story,although am not marrired yet. But dear poster you are a married woman so stay clear from your ex. Am out.
Ashawo !!!'
Young lady pls run away from dat guy..he's out there to destroy ur marriage I bet u he knows what he's doing. .plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz distance urself away from him.biko and u idiots insulting her is dat wat u are suppose to do?
ROTFL.... you guys are funny
Delete him 4rm ur bbm contact,facebook contact,twitter contact,instagram n ur hrt 2!!!! Ur husband dose not deserve dis treatment 4rm u pls!!!! N as 4 ur ex,he dos'nt ♡ u he just wants 2 f**k u,dat's all
Bonario and holy communion..lol
Trifling thats what you are. Women like you give dogs a bad name. You have a husband who loves and adores you. You have a child together&your ex is what you are drooling over. My conclusion: you are retarded. Shege yarinya!
ashawo kobo kobo
This is just it, thanks for this comment.
Yes, I will insult you. What kind of advice do you want? Linda Ikeji Blog has now become a play ground for MARRIED WOMEN WITH ROTTEN HEAD. Fuck off from here!!!
I pray your husband get to see that RUBBISH in your phone. You will surely get what will come your way.
You are a useless woman!
Shame on you!!!
I had same issue my dear. And I cut all contacts with him which has really helped me
Pls my dear sis pray to GOD to see u through d temptation cos I. See it as temptation,moreso always go near ur husband regularly so dat u wil erazer dat mentality of ur EX penis is getin out ur skin.
Well am sorry but no big diff btwn u n the woman sharing her mind......all is adultery....if u jad completely cut contacts with ur ex, u wouldnt be in love. You cannot say u love him n ur hubby....marriage is deeper than we all think tho....look at this critically
Forget him.
i think you are about to end your marriage. be careful
It reminds me that line in Kanye West lyrics: "one good girl worth a thousand bitches"
You know something - you are not just a good girl, and your thought is like that of a bitche!
Leave ur ex alone, someone dat did not consider to marry u. Face ur husband and let him be pls. Save ur marriage.
sounds soooo tempting, but your are married ..let your ex go! doing it one time would lead to more complications, please dont destroy your happy home for a old time fling.. whatever urges you are having take it out on your husband ..
Babe just know dat wat comes around,goes around. How would u feel if Ur husband is doing same? Plz do wat is right.
god help u
Cut off the chatting, let ur husband knw what's been going on (this might be diff) u'll feel berra and.......love and focus more on ur marriage!
You are right. No good will come out of it so why toy with fire?
The reason you're not with him now is the reason it will never work. Don't throw away your marriage for a dick pic.
I think you should appreciate what you have now. Understand what you have now and know that it is not something you can always get. Try to stop communicating with your ex. He probably knows you are happy and wants to mess it up. Use your head. Good Luck!
Mtcheeeewww... all ds gals dt won't leav ex alone! Smh 4 yhu ppl!!!
Call your Husband into your room,Play Original Sin and you guys should have good sex over and over and over and over again, you will sure get over the Wussy of a guy
Dumb question! U know ur right from ur left, u know wat to do, d simple truth is dat "u is a whore bitch". Dat sounds bad bt wen a married woman is spewing dis much trash she is a whore!
@Anonymous 7:49 PM. Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion. Drop your comment and buzz off!
Since you cant get it off your head, go and fuck it one more time. ANIMAL!!!
I'M SORRY BUT THIS IS TRUELY ANNOYING......LIKE, REALLY?
OMG looool this is way too funny. Okay to be serious madam, please CUT OFF ANY kind of communication you have with him. Its hard but its for the best!
And delete his p***s picture if you still have it.
He's a devil messenger and wants to ruin your happy marriage. Do NOT give him the space, the next thing he will ask you is your own privates pic and later he will ask for you to meet up at a hotel/his house.
A word is enough for the wise.. take heed.
THIS IS WHY WOMEN GET A BAD RAP...HE SENT U PICS OF HIS SMALL BOY MANHOOD WHICH U HAVE SEEN BEFORE AND U ARE LOSING UR MIND....U SHLD BE THOROUGHLY ASHAMED OF URSELF./..HE HIMSELF IS EVIL AND A NARCISSISIT..THAT IS EXACLTLY HOW HE SEES YOU AND HAS OBJECTIFIED U TO BE ONLY USEFUL IN THE BEDROOM AND U ARE LOSING SLEEP..HOPE UR HUSBAND SEES THIS AND DUMPS UR SORRY BEHIND...I MARRIED MY HUSBAND BCOS HE IS A DECENT HARDWORKING CONSIDERATE AND LOVING MAN AND NO MAN OR STUPID PICTURE FROM AN UNRULY TRIFLING EX WILL MAKE ME LEAVE HIM...AND ON THE OTHER HAND FOR UR EX TO SEND U THAT PIC MEANS HE IS A LOSER SIMPLE AND SHORT END OF EXPLANATION.....GET ON UR KNEES AND ASK GOD TO DELIVER U FROM DEBAUCHERY AND LASCIVIOUSNESS AND WHOREMONGERY..AND THANK GOD FOR A DECENT HUSBAND...CHILDISH WORLDLY GIRL WITH NO COMMON SENSE!!
so your husband's d**k is not enough for you???break up then so u Cn be with your ex...
Dont do it please dont do it .."Drake's Voice" listen to drake hun and think about your Ex and you might eventually do it ..
Ex is not sex but expired relationship, so why do you want to go back! Even dogs don't go back eating their vomit. Be wise. The fuck will last for hours and the guilty forever . Carry your Kokoro eyes from his Kokoro .Foolish girl !
Stupid woman
Am married bt never went true such cos my hubby was a beta friend nd a beta guy in all aspect dan my ex but I hv a friend who went tru same tin .her ex was a very nice young cute guy frm a very gud home bt she could nt wait 4 him 2 marry her nd went 2 marry sum1 dat even me dat is her friend knw's dat her ex hv a beta future dan her husband,d only tin was dat d husband is older nd richer...so nw she hv done anytin possible 2 mk d marriage wk bt no show cos d standard she is cumin frm is 1million times beta dan where she is nw.she told me dat she regrets nt been patient bt can't do anytin abt it nw.dat her good ex is nw doing well 4 himself.I advise lady's 2 b patient and marry d good man.never u marry only 4 money ,mk sure dat oda tins r in order 2...sorry dear bt u hv 2 live wit it
u a bitch mehn!
Well am not gonna go for the blame game now. I've got some options for you to try out.
1. Go to your ex, have the best time ever with him in pleasurable, delightful, rough and raw sex then once your done come home and face the disaster you've caused in your home.
2. Go meet your husband, fuck him like you've never done, suck his dick dry, ride his dick like a cowgirl. After that this pleasurable moment tell him your problem, he is a good man, he would provide a means to keep to your dick standard or sex standard
Well am not gonna go for the blame game now. I've got some options for you to try out.
1. Go to your ex, have the best time ever with him in pleasurable, delightful, rough and raw sex then once your done come home and face the disaster you've caused in your home.
2. Go meet your husband, fuck him like you've never done, suck his dick dry, ride his dick like a cowgirl. After that this pleasurable moment tell him your problem, he is a good man, he would provide a means to keep to your dick standard or sex standard
I think u need malaria medicine after taking it u take valium sleeping tablet then go bed to sleep EWU
OK, THIS IS VERY SIMPLE, NO NEED TO BEAT AROUND THE BUSH WITH MY ADVICE...............................................
SIMPLY STAY AWAY FROM YOUR EX,
NO CALLS, NO CHATS, NO DATES, NO POLITE TALK, NO PICTURES, NO CHECKING UP ON HIM, NO NOTHING. STAY 100% AWAY FROM HIM. JUST CUT HIM OFF COMPLETELY. YOU DONT NEED TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF OR JUSTIFY YOUR ACTIONS TO HIM. YOU ARE MARRIED. YOU BELONG TO SOMEONE ELSE. YOUR EX JUST WANTS A PIECE OF YOU A*S WHICH HE IS OBVIOUSLY MISSING AND HE WANTS TO BREAK YOUR HOME. PLS, DONT ENCOURAGE HIM IN ANYWAY, IT IS ALREADY BAD ENOUGH THAT YOU ARE TELLING HIM ALL THE THINGS GOING ON IN YOUR MARITAL HOME. ITS TIME TO LIMIT THE DAMGE, CUT HIM OFF AND SAVE YOUR HOME.
ALSO, IF YOUR EX WASNT MAN ENOUGH TO TREAT YOU WELL AND PUT A RING ON YOUR FINGER WHIST YOU WHERE SINGLE AND AVAILABLE TO HIM. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT HE WOULD DO THE RIGHT THING NOW THAT YOU ARE MARRIED WITH A CHILD. ........THINK ABOUT THAT.
Stupid and foolish woman. U dnt wnt to b insulted? Sure wat u r doing dnt warrant insult rather it warrants u being thrown into d Lagoon. If u cnt get over it den send him yo pussy so e cn view yo hole too. Dats y I said d most foolish set of creature on earth is woman. Idiot, olochi, ewu, weey ere na dey worry u, oloribruku.
Mumu, na advise b dat?
My dear ur ex prick no go do u o na fanta bottle u need.
My dear go wash ur toto with H2SO4 and ur brain with HCL... Like MI said ashawo na ashawo no matter what u drive... But in your own case "no matter married or not married" as he don send u him prick na chuk ur fone for you obonte make u dey pleasure urself. I hope na 3310 u dey use cos dat one go vibrate well
Eh ya story that touches d heart.my one cent.leave ur lovely and stable home for mr dick.pls dont look back.PS can u post ur husbands no here for those who r looking for.women r out there praying and fasting for a good home.u av one and u want to throw it away.do we really need to advise u?really?.im married and av found myself engaging in flirtatious chats wth an ex once in a while but it never crosses my mind to leave my certainty for uncertainty.things we read here sef.nonsense!
Hw r we even sure she didn't send him a naked pix of her boobs /body too...anyway beta tink abt it seriously bcos he ll only use u n insult / threathen u abt it later... he his ur EX 4 a reason
OMG!! Can't stop laughing.
I love LIBers with a passion. With all the funny comments I read, no room for sorrows.
Of course I'm going to insult you if you post this crap. What kind of nonsense is this? Why are still keeping communication with an ex that you still like? You're a very selfish woman and you're the type that will cheat on your husband tomorrow and I hope he sees you for the fraud that you are. How can you even want a guy that treated you like that. That your theory is not yours, it's common sense. You husband is the guy that loves you, am man that many girls are fervently praying for, treating you like that. You're so blesses already and you're still trying to taste something else. I can tell you it's going to be very bitter in your mouth. Please, if you still want your ex, tell your husband fast fast so better girls that will appreciate him and not be greedy can get him. Thank you
ASHAWO BASTARD ABANAYAAA
You deserve to be insulted so your f&%#ing disclaimer is bull. You are already an asshole for staying in touch with your ex and leaving the door open for him to send his penis pics. Going forward, now that you really know how you feel about him(or more specifically, his penis) leave him be and honor your vows. Be closer to God. Do more for your husband and family. All will be well.
My dear forget abt him,its a No go area for U.U re married already wat ar u lookin for?if u trully love ur husband as u sed plss delete d pix n all his Contact on ur phone n move on wit ur life.
FDJ
Very nice n tru write up...thumbs up
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Now I know why God doesn't want us to have sex before marrying. It's so that temptations like this can be easily dismissed. Remember the laws to obey God are not just there for his own satisfaction. But to protect us from the feelings we get and the hurt we put others through. See all this feelings of desire and adultery you have now, you have already sinned in your heart. You are going to end up hurting your husband and children. Just for a brief moment of pleasure. Are you really that selfish and self centred. Best advise: delete the picture, and cut all contacts from him and face your husband and children. You have to be strong and overcome temptation you can't just be weak minded. Funny thing is your ex was the one that lied to you yet you want him back. Why is distraction always so alluring
Let your husband send you a picture of his penis. Case ended
Why is it that a lot of women nowadays are all having extramarital sex with husbands that are caring. They say they want caring yet long for liars and cheaters. Are they really that confused. If you know you'll be fooling around then stay single. Don't drag an innocent person into sin. That is selfishness. Anyways men listen. Only a wise woman builds her home. And the begining of wisdom is the fear of God.
Sex sex sex sex sex sex sex sex. That's all people feeling marriage is all about now. That's the only thing we are all intrested in now. Why? Quench the desire of sex by having more. The world is now polluted. God help us all
Olodo @anon 7:21
It's funny because the ones that are complicated are like that because they know that a lot of girls have become stupid and easy
Distance ursef from d guy to avoid bullshit..... So dat at d end of d day wen yawa go gas u won't say it is d work of d devil....
It's adultery not fornication. Which one come be FURNication. Nah who you dey fum for?
Distance ursef from d guy and delete is number. Stay out of trouble b4 yawa come gas. So u won't say it's d work of d devil
You are a standard bastard
You know when a God said thou shall not mention my name in vain. It was because of all this nonsense kinds of prayers. You tempted with sin and now you are asking God to do what. She should just remove herself from the situation. Stupid fellow.
Dami nah you be this
If you love someone, why marry someone else. That is soooo selfish. Because you don't want to end up lonely. You obviously don't know what love means at allll. You are so selfish. Chai I can't believe I just read this
Thank you. See what happens when you don't give your whole self to your husband.
Why are u so stupid though? So immature
Ashawo talk
Some women are so evil, you confessed being married to a great man and you are still doing things behind his back?? And you don't want to be insulted?? I have no further words for you.
Don't insult her, a lot of people go thru ish like that er'day. A lot just don't say anything. Advice her. @Poster don't do it respect itself en of to walk away from ur past, it has nothing good to offer except that lying dick.
Lolzzzzz...abeg make una no kill me with laugh for this blog oooo
I would just tell you one simple fact ... whatever you saw in your husband for you to marry him is definitely not in your Ex .. so stick to that important fact you love about your husband , cause a lot of women are waiting to take your place, immediately you walk out of your marriage ... check the stats of single unmarried women looking for husband ... maybe then you would grow up ...
girl, he lied to you again. he got that picture from google images
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you are the kind of girl that I HATE...if u were married to that your ex and he treated u bad, u will want the husband u have now...can u just show respect for the good man u have and cut contact with your ex?he will destroy u..why deceive yourselves into saying "just friends"? it's so sad some of us women ehn...smh..girl get rid of that ex and focus on the amazing husband u have...a lot of women wish they had your kind of guy
Choi I laugh in isuochi#hohoho#
You're a DIRTY woman! I spit on you!!!
Is dat how u fuck around
IF UR HUSBAND'S THING IS SMALL WHY DID U MARRY HIM??? SINCE MANHOOD IS SO IMPORTANT TO U??? SAVE HIM THE AGONY??? OTHER WOMEN WAKE UP??? IF MANHOOD IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN AN HONORABLE HUSBAND THEN GO THAT WAY IF THAT IIS WHAT MAKES U TICK...DONT CRY FOUL LATER WHEN UR HUSBAND SHARES HIS KOKORO WITH OTHER WOMEN...
Oga or madam, its adultery nt fornication coz shebis married. Miss m
Nwanyo !
Sleep over ur head. Miss m
Pray abt what kwa?! R u ok? Miss m
Supu! Gueeez, sili ex bullshit. O di egwu
Lmao @'dnt be stupid'. Ur comment cracked me up
Dear Bonario, ever since I saw your picture, I stopped seeing the humour or intelligence in ur comments. You wld have done the both of us good by nt sending them. Sincerely, miss m
Mbok, dnt generalize it ewu a.
Lmao. The vex catch you well oh. "Abeg cut him loose. He is not a man.." has he been living in bondage? Is he a woman? Pls small small wt ur vex next time oh?
Devil abaala ya. Mtchew. And u guys stop all these ' my two cents, my one dollar, my 10 kobo. Its becoming very annoying. Miss m
Madam pastor. Pray for her na. You wkd have given us all d names na. Manhood /penis/blokos/ dick. Ode!
Mumu, those r four words. Miss m
Its miss m btw
Hhahhahahahahahaha, linda okoye kwa. Lmaooooo. U abi ur brother don marry her rename her Okoye? Lmaoo. Ochi egbuo m. Miss m
Wth is this one speaking? Akata groupie. Mtchew
Miss m has come to stay
This Onyx, u seem to be an intelligent little man. I even prefer you to Bonario.
Have u seen her husbands dick before? Miss m
Keekwa nke wu hie fam bikonu? Nawa oh. Miss m
Cool story!
One of the best comments on LIB
U as a faithful wife should not have anything emotional with other men. U alone can free itself from that demon u still see in ur head thinking is the penis pic he sent u. Free itself and ask God for forgiveness.God help u
Woman u are such a fool. I hope ur husband chats with his ex and she sends him a nude pic.. so u'd know how it feels.
All ya fake-ass commenters turned Justice Williams,fuck ya all. Giving dumb-ass advice like u better. Married whores screwing young Gs den coming up to "pope" others. Girl,u a just a human. Can't judge. One fine humans do is make mistakes. In all we are all humans. God guide n guard your steps.
My Dear,
the honest truth still remains that you like the sex in your ex, but look at the bright side, you have a husband that cares and takes care of you. yet you think about jeopardizing that because of sex with your ex. he is only going to sleep with you BECAUSE he sees you looking much better without him than with him. now think about your new future family and think about the part time sex... you can't have both because you can't chase two rats at the same time.
MY Advice: since you can't get over his memories.. ignore any further contact with him and consider him as a failed contract.
You love him so much but you broke up due to his lies. Don't you know he is still using the same lies against your mosquito brain?
you claim to have the best man but your heart is lieing to him, which shows you are a better match with your liar ex.
You only love your husband for the material things but would flirt well if you have the opportunity.
You know know the truth, that is why you said pple shouldn't insult you. Keep holding on to your past (and call it friendship) when he achieves his aim of digging you as a public wife nd destroys your marriage and life, your eyes will clear.
A married woman receiving a mans dick picture? Chai as far as I am concerned you have already cheated,How are you going to convince anyone you have not slept with him if he discovers the picture.you will destroy your life if you continue on this path.Be satisfied with what you have, I'm talking from experience WAKE UP and do the right thing.A word is enough from the wise.
I'm positive you will soon imagine your husband's death. Likewise,imagine will be like having that life you crave for with your ex. And you will end up realizing what you are actually missing the most wonderful precious man you can ever have in your life (the one which you had wished dead).
(Advise from my wife) My Dear sister, don't even take a step of seeing him at all, because he will not just ruin your marriage, he will also ruin your life. Be very very careful of such people.
We are just saying devil... its we humans that are the devil. so be aware of the devils trap. it can hunt you to the grave. Please my sister God loves you so please get closer to him and thanks for voicing out... God is your strength.
If u ride it ehn!
Capt Planet
That blatant lie men who say that have flaw in there character. My husband behaves just as this ladies hubby and I kiss the ground he walks on treat a real lady right and she will give you her kingdom check cleopatra and Marc Anthony .
If u ride it ehn!
Capt Planet
of course u will get insults, what do u expect? for ur predicament.....don't buy ur clothes back from goodwill, there's a reason u got rid of it in d first place!
You are heading to destruction of your happily married life and in turn your ex-guy will neva see anything good in you, if your hubby should leave you cos he will believe you are promiscuity woman since you can do it for him while you are married and same you can do when he marries you. Stop to safe ur self from an unending sadness. from GETMORE
have been there an i know hard it is. expecially when the ex was ur first love. you just need to ask yourself an honest question. does all what you are doing is what you actually want for your life? if its not then you need to work very hard to stop your ex before he distroy you.
pls follow your mind. if you want,go get it.
It is obvious that the guys must have been sharing pics for him to have the nerve to send a pix of his dick, the grass ain't greener on ur exs side, he Jst wants the thrill of the conquer, as a man I've been in that zone before. Jst stick to ur husband & encourage him to try moves that'll WAOH u in bed.
Hahaha....
Wise words.
My dear, what we long for atimes is what would channel a chain of unhappiness and disgrace. What then u actualize your morbid desire, you go back to your husband? The posible consequence of your action may far surpass the act. Take a long walk from disdain. Your ex will ruin your life. Make not mistake, if you do it, you will pay for it severely
Pls fantasizing is normal. Its even healthy. But try not to act this fantasy out. Its a phase that will pass. Any person married for over 2yrs who has not once fantasized of someone else should pls cast the first stone. Hypocrites!!!
Sick lady,u need deliverance
my honest opinion,u say ur ex boyfriend lies to u.what make u think that the image he sent to u is his.secondly what wrong as ur husband don't to u that u want to break his heart. what else do u want that he hasn't given to u. if u need sex that bad go to ur husband. don't destroy what u have for lies.delete the guy's number asap
my honest opinion,u say ur ex boyfriend lies to u.what make u think that the image he sent to u is his.secondly what wrong as ur husband don't to u that u want to break his heart. what else do u want that he hasn't given to u. if u need sex that bad go to ur husband. don't destroy what u have for lies.delete the guy's number asap
I went through a phase like this after I got married. The memories of the times I shared with my ex was so much alive. I used to think of him even while having sex with hubby. I just couldn't get him out of my head. But I prayed to God constantly about the situation I found myself. He delivered me. Those memories are not fresh anymore
Nice one God blesh u.
sweetie, plz stop chatting with him and concentrate on your loving hubby, God will help u
Babe, u are so reall God blesh u for this.d koko
Nice one God blesh u.
use your head and not your heart.
My own is dt I dnt even see my husband to chat wit,he keeps late nite,every day and I hv no one to chat wit, so I chat wit my ex and pls dnt tell me I dnt look good dt iz why he keeps late nights.am a hot mum of 2kids.dt fucks my husband so well,bt I just realised he cheats for fun and wit his friends,
@Diamond Thank you for your post. Nigerians are so judgemental the poor lady is having PENIS BLUES and nobody said it will ever be like this. My own contribution is engage your husband in some sex games or role playing you enjoy and guide him all the time so that he can align with your sexuality.
Last but not the least marriage does not permanently remove memories of a past sexual relationship for those of you that think that getting married will solve all your sexual problems. The ball is in your court.
The size of the penis you saw is catching up with your feelings emotionally, torturing you because he gives you a good f**k better than your husband. My dear these things don't last. Stick to your husband who pampers you. It shows how much you are safe, But with the guy with big penis, you are doomed.
U can love once and love again, U might not know love, if you still living in infatuation. Sometimes we think infatuation is love, until we see Love itself.
Dis is wat happens wen u let d devil in, uv got a good man wen good men are so hard 2 find so pls dnt ruin ur marriage. Most pple get back 2 geda afta dey brk up but still end up brkin up cuz d reason dey broke up initially is still dere.dnt wreck ur happy ever afta only a few pple are priviledged 2 get 1
*******A-BELLE******
Madam or Miss,we all are Victims of this. It almost seem that Exs are more preferred than current ones. Biko, Try Try, the horny tots are normal... but begin to turn ur mind to ur buddy, its not easy. but start and cut off. or else u will be ready to go marry Mr good Dick and i wonder if he needs U or just ur Cuntilating Cunt.... Gbaaaa Oso.
Nokia FMC tell u oooo.
My dear pls send me ur hussy's phone no and address, then go to ur ex and continue what you have started. I really want to hook up with ur kind of husband. To be very honest with you, if only i can locate ur husband right now, i will gladly snatch him away from you and bring him to notice, of ur relationship with ur ex lover. If possible make him see d pix he sent to you. I knw u must have sent ur pussy in return to him. I would make you lose ur husband for life so that you will learn to cherish God's special blessings in ur life. Ewu 10kobo
Cut all ties with your ex and focus on your family. Your ex is your past. Life with your husband is your future. Get a job or hobby to fill the time you're wasting on your ex.
you just have to let the image, emotion etc go, focus on other things and try not to let your thought go through that part, over time you will get over it
You're are a goat for this advice to a married woman concerning a real man and a liar... thunder fire u Dia!!!
I was married and I had the same problem, now am divorce with a daughter, my husband lives in South Africa now......is not fun, I wish I could turn back the hands of time and the misery guy lives in the UK with his family, I wish he can chase his wife and marry me
Babe, I feel you....
No one has the right to judge you...
No one...
The fact is that this person used to be your man..but now your ex...
It takes a lot of discipline to be able to quench that fire, that attachment to an ex, especially with whom you really had something going at a time...
I, for one, love my woman to boot, but yet find it hard not to call at some of my exes, who are all too excited to have long chats with me...
Trust they also call ever once in a while too...
But I make the effort to keep it civil, because for me, once it is over it is indeed over...that is not to say that it didn't once occur where I and an ex got it really steamy...
Thank God, however, we stopped short at going the whole hog...
Now the issue is that your ex is taking advantage of you...he is taking advantage of the "ex-factor"...
He knows that for a woman, whose button you used to push at will some time in the past, all it takes is yet another ounce of pressure and she is in bed with you helplessly...
So don't give him the chance...
He only wants to use you...
And you might regret it if you allow him ride on your weakness...
He ought to respect the fact that you are married...and give you a break...
Please cut him off now!
Grab your focus...
Give your best to your husband who was man enough to marry you, and you won't regret it!
God must make u suffer for this advice. May the earth be rid of people like u o! And no my cussing u out isn't too much.
Dear poster u can leave d marriage and fuck to your fill let's see where it takes u. Or u can delete a wicked ex who sends u provocative pics when he knows you're married o.
My advice for u jst delete dt dick of a picture nd focus on ur hubby nd save ur beautiful marriage ....*dats all* #Maraya says so#
My advice for u is ds jst delete dt dicky picture nd focus on ur hubby nd save ur beautiful marriage *dats all* #Maraya$ays#so#
My advice for u is ds jst delete dt dicky picture nd focus on ur hubby nd save ur beautiful marriage *dats all* #Maraya$ays#so#
women and their fish brain, it obvious u like ur husband a lot and u dont love him. u have shown that u married for marrying sake and u aint getting enough action in de room. the ball is in ur court. i just wish ur husband will catch u 2
foolish hoe... even if he didnt send the pic of the penis, you have had it before and still want it.. its in y'll..go fuck him and tell your hubby he's the only one fucking that hell hole when you know he's not...liars
I guess i am so disappointed in most of the comments some people who call dem self OLD, some one in need of real help is tryin to get advices bt she gets insults instead.. my advice for you is just to stop contact with your ex and whenever the picture comes to mind get romantic with your husband so as to get it over with, never, never and never for any reason visit your ex, cos u wld end up regretting it...
Run for ur life, d devil want to use dis to destroy d happiness in ur marriage pls my sis is better u stop chatting wt dat deceiver and focus on ur hubby, if u try if devil ll laugh at u b wise, if chatting wt him ll destroy ur marriage cut it
firstly go back to God and confess ur sins. Secondly u cant make a man ur exboyfrnd ur best frnd wen u are married. Concerntrate more on ur hubby, hv more sex wit with think of him, tell him more tins, make him ur new best frnd and cut all comm wit ur ex cos ur hv already started committing adultery wit him.
If your husband doesnt do it well, teach him how you want it, if he is sluggish _ tell him you need fireworks in that department.learn to love your man's joystick...cheers
got emotional? first be true to yourself woman!! i don't know what you would want to get from this closeness. stop asking silly questions you know what to do. face your marriage squarely and stop toying with adultery
If u truely LOVE ur husband as u claimed, u wouldn't b tinkin of these ur fake Ex.Woman better ask God to guild u and stop thinking abt ur Ex,His d devil him self.
You should cut him off. That is the ultimate disrespect for you, your husband and your family. That was lust, not love, if he honestly loves and respects you, he wouldn't have approached the whole situation that way. He's your ex for a reason, cut him off or ruin yourself, your choice.
As a matter of fact, ur sound so loose and irresponsible. If I could ask what's d essence of u keeping constantbcommunications with ur ex to that extent. How would u feel if u find out ur hubby is doing such? Dts when ud say men ar wicked. U better cut off all communications with ur ex and concentrate on ur marital affairs odawise ud end up homeless. Olojukokoro, alainitelorun.
SMH. THAT IS HOW YOU WILL SPOIL SOMETHING GOOD, LATER YOU WILL SAY ITS THE DEVIL THAT PUSHED YOU.
I think ur ex is part of your past now jst move on with your husband an ur lovely children thank God u are even married now life Goes on matter what enjoy ur matrimonial Home please..............When the pretty birds have flown, And you feel hurt and alone, Be strong and carry on, And remember that life goes on an belive Oluwa is involve my Dear
like you said he is a LIAR. he will lie to you until he destroys your home completely. if you like continue… to me you are already cheating on your husband because cheating is not just by sleeping with the guy, the fact that you're sharing your thoughts and being emotional with another man means you're already cheating on your husband. These are things that you are supposed to share with your life partner not some random stupid EX-lover. If you are not ready to destroy your home better know what is good for you and cut all contacts with that home WRECKER!!! And you are a very bad wife for doing this to someone that loves you with all honesty and think about your CHILD.
Firstly,since you are married,i think every contact with your ex should be cut off,particularly one who has a negative effect on you.
Truly,you should cherish what you have with your husband and ask the holy spirit to help you overcome this temptation.It would ruin you.
Loose contact with him as soon as you can that is if you really wanna avoid him,........ besides why would you be sending and receiving nude pix with an ex....... Feelings hardly die
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