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Wednesday 25 September 2013

Dear LIB readers: I've had sex with 4 men, is that too much for an 18 year old?

From a female LIB reader
I am 18 years old and in my second year in a private university. I started having sex when I turned 16 after leaving secondary school and I have had four sexual partners so far. I dated 2 of the boys while the other 2 were just flings. Recently I confided in a friend the number of men I've been with and I later saw text exchanges between her and another mutual friend of ours laughing at me and criticizing me. They called me all sorts of names including wayward and loose. I've been with only four men, is that too much for a girl my age? I thought it was the norm so why are my friends condemning me and passing the info around?
Four sexual partners at 18? That's waaaay too much! My opinion. What do you guys think?

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Anonymous said...

dey jonz 4 der

Anonymous said...

Youre in your early twenties and you have slept with two complete football teams...SHAME ON YOU!!!!! Do u go to church? What is in your bible.... premarital sex is a sin. You think its a thing of pride. This advice u have given her will just drive her to hell. Its a shame that u think being with over 22 men doesn't make u a prostitute.... if ur going to do it.. get paid at least!

Nutty J. said...

Linda, why are you using my picture and associating it with this kind of post?

Anonymous said...

considering ur age,i tink it z way 2much dear

Anonymous said...

I'm reading the comments but people are so judgemental even if she has sleep with 50 thousand men who cares? leave the girl alone as long as she is protecting herself. I'm sure most of you have sleep with a lot of people but are just afraid to tell it

Anonymous said...

I totally agree wt u...

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha,Bia Linda kpachara anya gi o

Anonymous said...

go to hell. miserable bastard. she don't know what she is getting into..devil in disguise.

Anonymous said...

Linda I know 18 is n adult but she is only a child, u sud not hav brought her here for dis follower finish the little that is left Of her self esteem

Anonymous said...

Linda Linda..Looking and tell your story with style...abeg whats d current coz u neva marry yet so how many don port n how many still wanna port before the tokunbo owner come

Anonymous said...

Well myopic kid like you, how can u be so judgmental. U sef need rehab, am,sure u are 19 and have slept,with 16 girls.

Unknown said...

My friend shut up..who asked u?

Unknown said...

My dear is too much HIV is real

Anonymous said...

Gal dat way too much 4 an 18 year old we are nt in usa or uk we are in africa and pls............dont tell ur frnds everythng cos dere is no one u can trust. Dere are no real frnds!!!!!?

Elsmama said...

my darling its too much oo try to take a break ... if not at this rate hian!

bi_demi said...

its all about you and how you want to live your life, because if they are 4 now, the number increases to 8 when you are 20...but if you feel its normal, thats really fine. watch the friends you tells stuff...you cant just open your mouth and say ecerything about yourself all in the name of friendship....

bi_demi said...

its all about you and how you want to live your life, because if they are 4 now, the number increases to 8 when you are 20...but if you feel its normal, thats really fine. watch the friends you tells stuff...you cant just open your mouth and say ecerything about yourself all in the name of friendship....

Helguera said...

If nah boy be sleep with 4woman at 18 wuna for say ei plenty?.Abeg wuna leave am.She was just exposed.at least she is honest.two guys per year its not a bad ratio.go girl.

Anonymous said...

Im grown man ok?. It's your body and your life. Be strong. Be confident. God bless you. Enjoy! .

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