From a female LIB reader
I am 18 years old and in my second year in a private university. I started having sex when I turned 16 after leaving secondary school and I have had four sexual partners so far. I dated 2 of the boys while the other 2 were just flings. Recently I confided in a friend the number of men I've been with and I later saw text exchanges between her and another mutual friend of ours laughing at me and criticizing me. They called me all sorts of names including wayward and loose. I've been with only four men, is that too much for a girl my age? I thought it was the norm so why are my friends condemning me and passing the info around?
Four sexual partners at 18? That's waaaay too much! My opinion. What do you guys think?
619 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 600 of 619 Newer› Newest»Babes it isn't only u o. I'm 22 nd I've slept with like 13 guys nd I'm just in my 2nd year! Yes I luv sex bt I feel terrible abt al dz figures. I'm nt a nympho bt my bfs just dnt last! And d ones that care,I never giv dem d chance,either I'm cheating or I find dem unsatisfacctory. I dnt knw wt to do. Some tyms I tell mysef I won't v sex bt wen I'm alone wit a guy I like,it only takes us to be alone in a good place to get me moaning like d bitch dt I am. I'm just a whore.I hate mysef for dis. Edith
Yes oo,i first saw a pen is at 18,got scared n didn't try sex till I was 21plus. 4 is too much, don't date any man for a while till u re matured,at least 21,not all guys who re matured wud want to take you seriously too,so don't have dt idea n fall stupidly,I pray God grants wisdom to discern.
Over 22 men already and u say u r not a prostitute and not cheap. Are you a learner???
4 men that's too much,wat might come of Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ when U̶̲̥̅̊r 20,that means uncountable.
I got married at 26 as a virgin. I have been married for 25 years now.4 men at 18 years makes me-speechless!
sweet i must say its much cut down a bit ok not trying to criticise u o i have been a victm of dat.just try ok
My dear, just relax don't allow anyone make you feel you are the worst person in the world
When I first met my wife, she told me she has only slept with 5 men, but after some years of marriage, and a prophet told me to tell me wife to tell me all her secrets, she later opened up and said she has slept with 19 men before me.
Please never believe any woman, they never say the truth, most Nigeria ajebutter children, were either disvirgined by their driver, the brother friends, neighbour etc, so they will never count all these men in their areas,
If a woman tell you 5, please times it by 4, it will be 20 men, they will never never tell a man the exact figure, so men don't be fooled.
If you are very smart, you will know a pussy that have been used in a rough manner
My dear, just relax don't allow anyone make you feel you are the worst person in the world
When I first met my wife, she told me she has only slept with 5 men, but after some years of marriage, and a prophet told me to tell me wife to tell me all her secrets, she later opened up and said she has slept with 19 men before me.
Please never believe any woman, they never say the truth, most Nigeria ajebutter children, were either disvirgined by their driver, the brother friends, neighbour etc, so they will never count all these men in their areas,
If a woman tell you 5, please times it by 4, it will be 20 men, they will never never tell a man the exact figure, so men don't be fooled.
If you are very smart, you will know a pussy that have been used in a rough manner
It's too much ooo!!! Pls don't end up like me cos am 24 and I've had 16 partners!
post d comment..you hypocrite!!!!!!!!!!!!
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bitch, you a whore,i'm 19 and havent seen a pussy physically, not proud of it but i'll soon see sha! you still a whore
Annonymous 5:13 pm...the girl with the high school lover.
Bukky is that you?
4 different Penis @ 18 already?!! Hahaha, I can assure you that if you continue this way, by the time you're 25 years, your toto go open mouth dey laugh !!!!!!!!!!
God bless you jare
Am 23 nd I lost ma. Virginity @ 19 nd Ave slept wwiv abt 22 guys since den, not proud of it but life goes on nd now am getttin married soon. Lol nd. I told ma man dat Ave neen wiv just 4 guyz
im quite sure you are familiar wiv d word hacking or rather hacking down your site..mnnnnnn..looking like a credible option 2 me!!!!!!!!!!!lets go there!!!!bitch
Oh please stop spitting the self-righteousness
Too much darling. (1) Don't tell anyone. Keep it to yourself. Friends are bad.(2) Pray to God for forgiveness. (3) Abstain going forward. No sex before marriage.
Guys can be very wicked. They use and dump. Or things may just not work out. And you don't want to sleep with too many guys before marriage. Besides, it's a sin. Hold out for that special one who you may not meet till your mid-twenties. For now, concentrate on your studies and achieve your dreams!!
No dear,ur on track..........lol
watched you demon, try 2 take down my alma mata for d past 5 years...although, your reward in hell is certain...we will like 2 reward your site physically....*think slowly &
Way,way too much gal what where you thinking,jst slow donw and stop telling your friends things it's your private life not there's,*wink*
Aahhhhhh!!!! i'm 21 and i've kissed 4 boys. i feel guilty about it. but ur case is making me feel like a nun. *dies*
you are way too young for that, abeg focus on your studies and get married. cos at the rate you are going, you'll soon lose count at age 25
Isn't dis funny, .... as long as u hv slept wit more than one man, there is no difference btw u nd a lady who has slept with 14 or more dudes. So y'all making noise abt sleeping wit only 3 @ wateva age.... Shut up.... Most of ur mates are still virgins nd u r here making noise...
My dear 18 Years friend.... Stay away frm sex and , let d 4 guys b ur numba till u get married... Sex outside marriage is a deadly act... Surrender it to God lest it becomes a habit nd destroys u.....
God bless you!.
this is a trick question, right? im sure u already knew the answer b4 u asked it.......iv got nothing more t say t u
U pple sud stop critizising babcock as whole,talk to the lady,babcock is producing d best student in d world and well regonised institution in d world.ika to se loba a ge,I pray dat very soon my chilren will be among d babcock student,ran tie agborodun.
U pple sud stop critizising babcock as whole,talk to the lady,babcock is producing d best student in d world and well regonised institution in d world.ika to se loba a ge,I pray dat very soon my chilren will be among d babcock student,ran tie agborodun.
Having a wonderful home(husband and great kids) is every woman's desire @
We didn't ask for comparison.
abeg nothing bad..she should just keep things like that to herself to avoid criticism
You or anyone else indulging in such risky behavior is on a sure path to self destruction. How? By wearing out your immune system because a woman's body through a process of identification, registers a man's sperm in her body. And when a new man strolls through the door, the immune system must start all over again to identify and register the new interloper. And according to Dr. Jamal Al-Din Ibrahim, a professor of toxicology, California University "when the woman reaches her thirties or forties, after 15 years of sex, she begins to develop breast and uterine cancer... the sexual contacts cause the woman's immune system to CRASH or WEAKEN. See www.shelkyermami.com
18 years is not bad having sex with four men cause i have been having sex with 3 to 4 mean when i was 14years
hi
I think its a bit much my dear and you should put the breaks on for a while to re assess your criteria for men. i agree that at this rate you would have slept with about 12-13 guys by the time you are 26. give your self time to develop your self confidence because i seriously think your having sex with 4 guys is a reflection of how view you self worth. Focus on school and developing yourself that would be more productive. Giving in to guys will not preserve your relationship with them. To those beginning there comments with praising themselves for preserving their virginity this my message to you.
1. to those under 21: Don't brag you have not begun the journey. Brag when you are 30, unmarried, and still a virgin. then we will build monument.
2. to those between 22-30. you should not brag you in this group know the pressure a girl faces, you should give her productive advice
3. to those married in mid 20s: you don't even have a clue what we are talking about so shut up and face your marriage. you ought give advice like mums, aunts, or big sisters and not insult the girl for asking a question thats on practically every teenagers mind.
4. to those over 30, unmarried and still virgin. first kudos, secondly if you insult this girl you are just insensitive.
this is a social issue and our reaction to it would not stop under age girls from sex it will only make them keep mute. THINK NIGERIAN LADIES.
I hope you're not too heartbroken by all the nasty comments above before you get to read mine. See... One thing I've learnt is that you shouldn't let yourself be enslaved by societal norms, religious pressures, or even family. If you sent this same email to a blogger in the states or lets not even go far, Zaire, Congo, South Africa or even EGypt abeg that's too far Cameroon or Ghana. The blogger may not even have published it, cuz it's not a story. All I'm saying is, you are a free human what if you were born in these other places, open your mind, expand your thinking, don't be enslaved by the society you were born into cuz it's only a matter of migration and all these people's comments will base. I'm also 18
I got disvirgined at 20yrs . After my 1st n 2nd bfrds broke my heart,omo I gave very tough , nd I lost my emotions wen it comes rship. If I I like a guy I fuck him d way I want until I get tired. Anyways dat was den, wen I was like 23 to 25yrs.(Horny n active age) Now I tired of dat .so I don't even get excited again wen it comes to guys.....
AIDS is real... Keep yourself busy with your books and thought of how to Live responsibly as a woman.
I don't wish you bad, but many have died through HIV. To you sisi Linda, your biological clock is ticking...get married so you can earn more respect.
Vickydarl or vickysugar or "vicky" 2 b precised,we need ur help here ooo.dis is ur area of specialization...#team_nymphomaniacs
4 my own opinion:
I
Tink
I
Need
Ur
Numb.
Lemme b ur nex f*ck!
*kalloy*
My dear....4 is much o....im 23 and ive only had one guy who deflowered me up till now....well just take it easy sha....who am i to judge u!?
I'm 25yrs n i ve slept wt 21guys, I neva planned 4 it. I'm not even a prostitute, neither am I cheap too. I ve gone thru series of heartbrK while trYin to make a rship work... Now I don't even sleep stil wt any guy cos I'm tired of dem breakin my heart. So if I ever get horny,I jst masturbate( once in a blue moon) ,I ve decided I ve to marry b4 I ever sleep wt anoda guy in my life!
You ar all mad,so far av slept wiv 53guys and am 22+.So wats d big deal.Beni Kuba frm Angola
See all their mouths!!!
None of u is worthy to cast stones at her
Ure a guy dat sleeps with not less Dan 10 girls in a year!
The following year unto d next one and u hav d mouth to say rubbish!
Just take it to d Lord in prayer datsall
Wat happens to all d girls uve had sexual relationship with? I don't need
If u define prostitution for me u wll see dat is not too much or u better still ask ur mother. Linder u better post dis or......
Naawaa for uooooooo
Naawaa for uooooooo
Baby pls don't tell ur friends things like that they do worse things but will only laugh at u. For me I don't think 4 is too much but pls Pls pls use protection!!!!
House gurl xup? U said not enuf continue?? ok nahh. I know U will have like 8 guyz buh when ur madam will catch. Hehehe
I got disvirgined at 20yrs . After my 1st n 2nd bfrds broke my heart,omo I gave very tough , nd I lost my emotions wen it comes rship. If I I like a guy I fuck him d way I want until I get tired. Anyways dat was den, wen I was like 23 to 25yrs.(Horny n active age) Now I tired of dat .so I don't even get excited again wen it comes to guys.....
Chinedu egwuenu I think u have low self esteem. What does it matter how many men she's slept with? So as ur prophet told u what will u do with it? Is she a bad wife? Pls check urself.
See advisers... Well, Am 30 dis year and I ve slept with 43 women so far. And Am not married yet. I really need a wife so that I can stop all dis bullshit.
So many hypocrites here,so many gals hv slept with over 20guyz in a month,so I don't thinks urs is 2much,just be careful on who u give ur treasure 2,and always use protection. Some guyz are not just worth the it
im 25 and not slept with one..abeg linda is 16 too much for a 26 yr old?
U sed it alll.....im still a virgin tho bet I must say..most people criticising ere r hypoctz* abeg just STFU! If u ain't a virgin nor married a virgin,the fact is dat Derz no much diff btw u and her. Abegi...damage has been done,whrz d advice she seeks??u guys r d problem cos in d sight of God, Weda u sleep wid 1 outside marriage or 100 sin is sin!
And u re about 2 graduate?! Babe stay in school and get schooled *hiss*
Why are you cheapening yourself. Do you not have value for yourself. No dignity or respect. Why are you giving it away. Little girl, sex is not common, it's special. It's like currency. See now yours has no value, just like Cedi, worst than naira and kobo. Shame who ever made you feel like you have no value. Begin to look at yourself differently . See yourself as a queen and yep shut the front door and the back one, if you are into that sort of depravity.
It depends on what you're aiming at. If it's the prestigious Guiness book, then you're way behind.
Why d name calling?
i am 18 too and in a private university, 1st thing we live in a pervert generation, all you messed up adults didnt do this shit, you think 4sex partners is bad, plss some 16 year olds have have more than 10, it might not be biblical tho, but who the fuck are you too judge, the bible says ''judge not, so ye may not be judged''.... if she wants too have a 100 plss get a life and dont judge the chick, most of you fucktards have had more than 20.. + most of all of you's children are worse than this adult who's speaking out.. fucking mind your business maine
Before u call her names,check ur spelling!!!
Na so...Special adviser 2 Linda on sexual matters!!! I hail oo
I appreciate u for telling d truth but I pity u. The rate at which u're going may ruin ur future. Pls stop or get in touch with me
o dear. dts a lot. try to av some self control. four in two yrs? nt gud.
You don't even know where she is...well luk at it dis way,if she lied about being a virgin then chances're she'll never give u dat pussy so that u neva find out she lied.'Wherever' maybe on top of a big cock fucking her steady
u guys can read cool news on vnolly.com
Amen sister!!!
Really?! And u re a what?
Its really sad and disheartening that most people are very judgmental and quick to curse out other people...
Babe,you are not a bad person, you just need some were to channel all your energy. like i said earlier, I started at 8yrs and slept with about 23 people before i got to 23yrs. now i'm 25 but for the past 2yrs, i've not been in a relationship neither have i had sex. Why? i took out time to rediscover myself, reconcile the old me with the present me. and i found out that i could do better...
but until you get to the point at which you could tell the difference between wants and needs? I'll advice you to use condom.
*Cheechee...
U worse passs dear. I guess u be whore
Hypocrites. Be judging. Na pesin whn talk im own out dem go knw. Most of us r worst!
its not too much love its just the way we africans see it to be i had sex with seven guys while i was 16 , girl whe u feel it u do it have fun...... but use condom
its not too much love its just the way we africans see it to be i had sex with seven guys while i was 16 , girl whe u feel it u do it have fun...... but use condom
Not bad...Had 5 sexual partners by that age..am a guy tho#seunlondon
Have u noticed that,the last set of people to comment r the most sensible and the " first to comment" and co are the dumbest critics eva....the hypocrytz* People dat r dumb and guilty r everly judgmental
U"re a confused girl. U advised her not to sleep with boys that have nothing to offer and also u gave instances of rich men that chased u and u didnt agree. Whether u sleep with 2 or 5 it does not matter, u remain a fornicator
Ok.. I've never left a comment on this blog before.. Well, I will today because we're in the same age bracket ( I just turned 19 recently) you said you need advice.. This is my own two cents.. Let me start by saying that I kinda feel the opposite of what you feel.. I'm 19, pretty and a virgin by choice. My dear, I won't judge you.. But from what you said you started having sex at 16.. That's kinda too young.. 4 men at 18 is a high figure.. I think you should just take a chill pill, news flash this is africa.. We have high morals here.. Having sex does not make you a slut.. Those people judging you must have done worse.. So don't be too hard on yourself.. Just remember that sex is a very spiritual thing.. You don't just have sex with anybody.. Just try and be smart ok, remember you're still young.. (P.s linda post my comment 😊)
Amanda..
U are a prostitute,a cheap one at that!give the young lady a good advice rather than letting her dwell in her ignorance!you've had 22men at early 20!u would have had 50 before u turn 50!c'mon you be NATIONAL CAKE?
If Ɣou tink its not much, who ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥A̶̲̥̅♏ i †o judge? Shakes head & stroll off
Hmm. I used to knw a girl exactly like yu. She was 18 when I met her and she 'told' me she hd bin wit just 3 at first, then it became 7 and later, she said 4. At 3, I could understand, but 4,5,6,7, ah ahn! Wetin???
K_K
Yea its much. All u fools talkin BS pls dont throw stones while living in glass house. U pipo r not saint either.
U are a fool...... Not all Babcock girls are stupid....... Am 20 n graduated from BU n am a virgin
I'm sure the idiot who wants to slap someone is worse oo, girls like you would probably have slept with 100men before marriage. What makes you feel you have the fucking right to judge her? Ode oshi. And been a Virgin doesn't make you a responsible lady or a wife material ok, that's for all the miss virgins
My friend,u don JONZ
Smooth
U no fine abeg
I was so innocent at your age. I still am!
God bless you for your comment. You have said it all?
My dear, I understand I did same cos I tot those people were for me, the last one I didn't ve sex till like 6months into the rlship cos I has promised myself that the next will be my husband, my sister for where immediately the man enter na story story, a girls life wud be better without men, date urself dats all.
22 men???? Woooooow!!! *lipsealed*
Men ur parents must be proud of u! Jeez 22down 10million to go, ur vagina must be a well by now. Ride on girl ur doing just fine
very soon u go become xpert, abeg stop oo b4 dat place slak 4ur future hussy.
@CHINEDU EGWEONWU, THATS TMI. WE DON'T NEED TO KNOW. PLEASE KEEP YOUR PRIVATE MATTERS PRIVATE. I HOPE THATS NOT YOUR REAL NAME. IF IT IS, EVERYTIME THE PEOPLE THAT KNOW YOU SEE YOUR WIFE, YOU CAN IMAGINE WHAT WILL BE GOING THROUGH THEIR MINDS.
Shut up jor....like ur a saint...u wey Fuck my papa..oponu
Na u talk better pass...thank u jare..all dese pple talking must've had way more..
ok....i`m a woman, i`m 29 and i`m married. i`ve had 4 sexual partners....that includes my husband.
on a first thought, i actually didnt think 4 was too much for an 18 year old but judging from my own sexual partners that that is waaaayyy too much.
But honestly,in hindsight, i wish i had exploited the sexual word wayyy more than i had b4 marriage (that is personal for me sha). my hubby is great in bed but honestly, i feel that when u are young then have your fun weather u are a man or women (PROTECT YOURSELF ALWAYS OBVIOUSLY) cuz once u are married, that should be it, stick with your partner.
I'm 24 tried losing it to a lover n the pain won't let me but cos his dick even tried enough to hurt I feel like a slut d@ his tip has been in me So abstinence saves u from fighting loads of abstract demons .masturbated a lot @ ur age tho, however keep a clean mind best way
Lol. 22 m'en in your 20s ? You are not cheap dear. You are for free. Keep up you charity organisation. Feed the needy too.
Better go and marry her. Before another man puts a ring on that 28year old virgin
Stupid advice. When she will get STDs you will tell her to "rule her world ability? Wicked soul
Only 4? Are you a learner?
We shall pray that God will give you the good sense to close your legs and get a job. Amen.
Please sit down somewhere. These things don't just happen. 4 men don't just happen. Every adult is responsible for their body and their actions. I'm sorry for your children and the advice you will provide.
No it's not too much, ride on when you get aids den u will remember God. Better go n watch Tyler Perry's movie " temptation". D gal slept with just one n had aids...
Honey, neva tell ur frnds stuff like dat.....it aint nobody's business but urs.
I am of d belief, if u ve to second guess ur actions......den it is most likely not sumtin u shld b doin. 4 at 18 is not a big deal, call it experience and dnt let none of ur fake ass frnds make u feel bad. U might jst want to take more tym before letting any guy get d cookie in d future.
It's s really sad to hear u say this, whether you are a male or female . am sure u are not twelve years old pple are trying to give good advice to someone who obviously needs one and u are here saying rubbish if she was ur child and u hear that she had slept with that number of men at that age how would you feel? We knw we are all not saints but st least some ppl can still change from bad ways with good advice
My dear 4 no be anything. Make it 18men at least. Anu ohia. If i do the maths well, 2 guys for each year, by the time you are 25, you must have slept with 18 men. Na waao. I can't judge you, but my advice is that you have more important things to focus on now, than men.
EDITH NA WAA FOR YOU. YOU NEED GOD'S INTERVENTION. IT IS NOT NORMAL, UNLESSS YOU ARE KEZIAH.
You want the truth.... JESUS
With all seriousness You are being possesd by evil spirits. Give your life to Christ to b delivered from this
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HEY PEEPS YOU GUYS ARE BEEN TOO JUDGMENTAL AT HER, 4 IS QUITE A NUMBER BUT REALLY THE WAY GIRLS ARE JUMPING AROUND THESE DAYS HER COUNT IS LOW. FOR THE FACT SHE HAS HAD FOUR NOW DOESN'T MEAN THE COUNT WILL KEEP GOING UP... ITS POSSIBLE SHE COULD CIRCULATE WITHIN THE NUMBER IN YEARS TO COME. 2 DATES AND 2 FLINGS ISN'T A BIG COUNT TO ME, BUT I WOULD ONLY ADVICE HER TO TAKE IT EASY SEX ISN'T AN ACHIEVEMENT, JUST FOCUS ON YOUR STUDIES GIRL... BUT SOME GIRLS ARE WRITING SHIT HERE THAT THEY ARE VIRGINS, BULLSHIT... VIRGINS OF NOWADAYS ARE THE BIG WHORES... THEY KEEP UNCOUNTABLE INTIMATE PARTNERS IN THE NAME OF VIRGINITY... THEY GET THEIR BREAST FONDLED AND THEIR ASSES LICKED... GET INVOLVED IN LESBIAN ACTS AND THEN COME OUT TO CLAIMS SAINTS... WHEN YOU COME HERE TO WRITE SHIT ABOUT YOU BEEN A VIRGIN ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION "HOW MANY MEN HAVE SEEN MY NAKEDNESS". ONE LOVE I'M OUT. DOCTORE
Story story... u will be shocked when u get down there
Don't mind dis if u listen 2 dis 1 u go turn slut at ur age most guys ur age range na sex dem dey find most don't knw ur worth get and older guy dat will cherish u nd treat u like a queen not a fuck body abeg reduce d number or beta still bone all of dem get some1 matured say 28-33yr mayb me I need a wify material ping me if u wish 2bb4d1f
Linda wetin i do u? Do u hate d truth that much? How come all ma replies re missing?
HYPOCRITES!
Must of you av done more dat @ 18 and u are critisesing here???? God is watching you
Dnt judge I had 21 and am 27 an accountant and i married d 21st guy n am lovin it. its wired but smx we end up mostly with d bad boys that want just 'it' so jst keep it calm n face ur studies, the bottom line is no guy worth it until he puts a ring on it.
We are all hypocrites ...most of us dah r reingning abuses on her have lost count. Some of us startd sex as early as 13yrs old. Having 4 sex partners at 18yrs old is nt out of this world. Every lady wanna av a boifrnd and if d guy sleeps wiv u and leave will u kill urself ?! Life goes on ...gurl jst enjoy urself ...have sex wiv any man u feel lik aving sex wiv. And repent when u marry. Som laydies even still av other men afta getting married wiv kidss ..so wot r we sayin here. ???
Its not too much dear,,continue before you are 25 you would have lost count and there will be no reason for you to be asking us this stupid question.
9c 1 dear.. Gurls cn pretend eh.. Doz frnd of hers mst hv done worst dan her self... My dear jst end it wif 4 b determind n strong n also involve God. U strtd it 2 early dts y. God cn do ll thngs ask hm 2 help u. He'l gladly do
U re a fool
I have a friend who at 20 had slept with 23 guys. No jokes.
my dear... The mistake u made was telling ur frnds. No1 is entitled to knw all u do cos some of them wld av done worse n wont say a thing. Some myt even b envious that u may av accomplished dt wch they r dreamin of or too scared to do. As for those condemnin her, let he who is without sin cast d first stone. Some of u come here and act all self righteous when ur very core is corrupt. Some ppl happen to love sex and a lot of it yl some ppl dont like it at all so know wat works for n know ow to get it. As long as u r happy y care wt odas think? Dazall!!!
By the way, the average 18 yr old these days have body counts of upwards of 15men.
You are a whore
Half the people here are pretending. Ignore them, dont let their self righteous words get to u. Stop confiding in girls.. they always use ur secret against u. I'll advice u to take a break until u are more mature (20yrs), then u would know what u really want.
jesus just saw the babcock diss. im a babcock student and im a virgin o(im in my final year). people dont even believe im a virgin cause im outgoing and all of that but i have enough sense to know that most guys these days arent serious so im keeping myself for the man who will be worth it.
I can see the reason why many Nigeria women pussy's smell now like dead fish, please you people should always wash your pussy after sex, whether we come inside or not, the sweat in the skin can also cause smell, not on the sperm we pour inside
I can see the reason why many Nigeria women pussy's smell now like dead fish, please you people should always wash your pussy after sex, whether we come inside or not, the sweat in the skin can also cause smell, not on the sperm we pour inside
Your own small na, come my area make u see how 16 to 17 years old the share am for anyone that is available.
The way the world is these days is quite sad. Would have expected to see more helpful and inspiring comments to guide our youth, but it seems practically everyone here is already compromised by the notion that "if everyone else is doing it then its fine".
I don't know when Nigeria became the place where people treat sex as a casual act and ignore their moral indignation based on the fact that they do not want to admit that what their doing is wrong.
We are moving further away from what the standard used to be with regards to sexual immorality and it pains me that everyone is pretending as if the idea of an individual or a child for that matter having Sex at such a tender age is practically the norm.
I am sure a lot of you feel like you can get off by saying "be careful" and "God bless", yet that is of little significance to the fact that the young lady is being told that its fine to have sex but not with more than a certain number of partners.
Nobody prompting that she should have waited or that she should abstain from having sex until marriage, probably because we are all guilty of not following through with the same.
Nevertheless, I feel it doesn't matter if we all have, but we shouldn't continue to let the younger generations make the same mistakes we have. Its never too late to make a difference. Those that are in too deep would probably always fight against what is right, but at the very least I feel they should either give morally sound advise or hold their peace.
Lets change the world for the better not for the worse and if you feel alone doing so just know that every little bit of help counts to bettering our country or even the world. Because everyone else does it doesn't make it right everyone has a conscience I and I believe we were all given that for a reason. Nigerians are fond of copying all the negatives from the west whereas not retaining any of their strong points what so ever. Lets try and preserve the good we have left.
I'm not any different, but at least I believe that even if I cant keep my hands clean I shouldn't rub the dirt on the hands of others.
Lets clean up people.
And young lady your body is a temple meant for God and the one man he chooses to give that body to. You best preserve it.
Your own small na, come my area make u see how 16 to 17 years old the share am for anyone that is available.
Sexy mama you are useless for giving very dumb advice. I bet your Marriage will tear if its not already in tatters. lol
Good luck.
I just love you for been truthful..cos so many girls has done worst but will never admit and will come here opening their wide mouth..am 24 a guy and I have had sex with over 50girls..if the girls don't admit then am I having sex with a ghost..cos I know am also a fling to them
That's too much. I'm 20 and I'm still a virgin. Although i have the urge to lose my virginity i always for God's grace to pull me through such temptations. So stop it. Keep yourself for your husband. It's going to be difficult but you'll be fine. Don't talk to friends about it.
Ashawo!
just 4 huh?.
don't mind them you are still a virgin....
you are not supposed to have sex until u're married. What u're doing is called fornication so stop it and repent.
u be supermarket????!!!...haba!
Yes! It way too much 4 such age. But anoda fact is those u called friends are 2ruly not worth classifying friends. May b u should just let go off them. Just stay clear re find urself.
ITS BAD. STOP IT! YOU HAVE TO FIGHT THE URGE TO STOP. AND DON'T TELL FRIENDS. THEY'LL BREAK YOU!!!!
see ehn dont have sex if u are not ready to be a mother o. also dont have sex with someone who u dont see ur self spending the rest of ur life with. or someone who u dont want to be the father of ur children. its that simple. also AIDS is real o. lets all be careful. i know its not easy. im still trying to hold myself now. its more difficult when u have tasted it sef.
and to those judging her. im sure u are also committing one sin or the other.
Linda pls let ur next article be on numbers. "what's your number?"...hehehe. And u will break the ice by telling us how many men you have had. then we'll follow.
MAKE IT 5 WITH ME
Can I be number 5? Pls
all of una wey u dey say 4 too much....check urself before talking....most of u for don sleep with 52 men at 25.dear its much at your age thou...
Shut ur trap...28 n u aint married to her yet...n u saying u love her...rubbish
Hey Tisha 9ce write up, let get 2 no each oda...jst drop ur fbook username.
28yr old virgin??? Hahahahahahahaha! That's disrespectful
It's a wrong start. I know women who stayed with one man from 18 till 23... then they blew open went from one man through 25 men in a space of 3 years. Settled for one eventually, put mixed 5 other men in in the 3 year relationship with the 'one'. Then, got engaged and stayed with one for sometime. Then broke up. Got married and that was it. She is a preacher today.
I know a lady who started sex at age 14 and must have slept with over 500 men. This is no joke. I spent 3 months closely watching her and within a space of 3 week, she had been with over 18 men.
That is ladies... I know men that started fucking as teenagers. Eg one Ibok boy (Fake Unical staff quarters boy) mehn... Him and his twin brother fucked girls o. I would say before they turned 20 they must have fucked over 200... Abeg let us leave matter.
Sexual promisciuity is a sickness.
People forming here should go and sit down.
This girl experience tells us that there is need for youth reorientation about sex and social values. Most of us fell victim of this kind of experience in those days; thinking that was the norm.
Parents give good sex education to your wards.
Babe you're still young. Really it's not about numbers. It's about self respect and respecting your body too. Forget sin and religion. Your body really is a temple. You feel good about yourself when you honour your body and your soul and preserve them away from trash and disrespect. The men you are giving your body to do not respect you and they do not love you. Casual sex is an activity you can link to low self esteem. Think about it...if you value yourself highly, why would you give away your body for a one night stand?
If you find it difficult to control your libido, there are other options. Sex toys are a safe way to satisfy your sexual urges. The advantages of sex toys are: they are safe, STD free, no risk of pregnancy, and involves only you. No casual sex to put you at risk of STDs or jeopardise your reputation.
Whaaaaaaat??? Early 20s and you've slept with at least 22 men?? Linda, pls bring that story down and publish this one... That girl up there is a saint
***Twizzy***
Lmao!!!
I wonder if you are confessing this out of confusion or conviction, whatever, please ask God for the grace to stop here before you become a public toilet which is hardly without deadly infections. 4 men for an 18 years old girl is much, unless you intend to make a profession out of sex.
It is not the norm at all, your pride as a young girl is your virginity. You are permitted to have versatile experiences on almost anything, minus sex. Even some animals are faithful to one sexual partner. Your only gift to your hubby after your wedding night is your virginity which is the reason for dressing in white on your wedding day showing I am pure in and out. Sex before marriages is a sin, and how can sin be tagged norm? Hmmmm! We will surely get back to pure maidenhood. I am sure we will.
I will like to give you a special word, so please if you get to read this, call me on 08028640565 or mail me on nkechi.odebiyi@gmail. com. I have special interest on young ladies like you. I strongly believe you acted in ignorance, but believe me, you will be ok, if only you can stop here. Luv ya. Odebiyi
I feel happy when I read stuffs like ds. I got married at 29 n I was a virgin. Yeah, it can be done.
Awwwww so nice. U sure she's a virgin? Loll just pulling ur legs o.
I wonder if you are confessing this out of confusion or conviction, whatever, please ask God for the grace to stop here before you become a public toilet which is hardly without deadly infections. 4 men for an 18 years old girl is much, unless you intend to make a profession out of sex.
It is not the norm at all, your pride as a young girl is your virginity. You are permitted to have versatile experiences on almost anything, minus sex. Even some animals are faithful to one sexual partner. Your only gift to your hubby after your wedding night is your virginity which is the reason for dressing in white on your wedding day showing I am pure in and out. Sex before marriages is a sin, and how can sin be tagged norm? Hmmmm! We will surely get back to pure maidenhood. I am sure we will.
I will like to give you a special word, so please if you get to read this, call me on 08028640565 or mail me on nkechi.odebiyi@gmail. com. I have special interest on young ladies like you. I strongly believe you acted in ignorance, but believe me, you will be ok, if only you can stop here. Luv ya. Odebiyi
Lmao
I had only one guy at 18 but now am 31 and I have slept with about 30 men in total, so have many of the girls here forming Virgin or innocent.
sometyms i wonder on d way we measure tins...what number of men @what age wont be too much? if shes 25 and says she has slept with 40men nko?wt wld we say? babe use ur discretion u knw wts right from whats wrong.
Wow am so happy that Libers knows the truth. Sweetheart, pre-marital sex is wrong and its a sin before God,there's nothing as beautiful and wonderful as U keeping your virginity till when you're married. But my dear, even if everyone condems you,Jesus won't and He's the best and closet friend you can have (Proverbs 18 vs 24),even when you're down,go down on knees and pour your heart (1Peter 5 vs 7) to Him and trust me everything will be fine. He'll also help you to stop. JESUS LOVES U DEAR.
This looks like a common entrance maths question.
LIARS YOU ALL HAVE DONE WORSE. MY DEAR U NO BE DEVIL ATLEAST YOU HAVE REALISED YOUR MISTAKE LEAVE ALL THESE PRETENDERS.
Stupid boy... Why won't you love her when your weak dick won't break the hymen still after 28 attempts.. I'm sure u are one chronic masturbating fool...sucks to be u right now...
Am 22 I slept with 8guys btw the the time I was 19 to 21. Its actually nt a good thing at all wish I came 2 my senses early enough. My friend its jst 4guys put a stop to it the earlier the better for you and pls stop telling ur so called friends about your life.
Babe why!!!!
My question is not just that you had with 4, but what do you enjoy in sex that one person can't give you....
Please stick to one, and dont ever compete with guys uhn!!!!
You're 19 in ur final year..in dis our Nigeria..oloshi..na y u be underage..u no suppose talk here sef..#stchew
Yes o this is Nigeria we have selective morals. Little girl I hope you are just as fast at reading as with your pursuit of sexual gratification. 1:3 HIV +. You've slept with 4. Do the maths. Why risk it.
Babes both you and your partner in progress that commented should try and focus. i understand that sex is sweet, but my little advice to you is to focus and stick to that one that will certisfy your feelings aswell uhn!!
Get over yourself
my dear, l married at d age of twenty seven, the third man lv had n my life was my husband today, so l advice u give urself a break n finish ur study before fugn ahead, although ur age now is tempting but ask God for his grace of overcoming it, let only prayer be ur guidance. Dat was how l succeeded. Prayer is d key, forget wot ur age mates, friends, d spoilt ones will tell u. Just achieve dis aim first, u will laugh at last n make a good home for urself. Cheers. Linda u ignored my first comment, pls stop dis attitude
may God have mercy.at ur age u cnt bost of being a virgin,sorry.
hey miss! its not ideal 4 a gurl of ur age, pipe down gurl.
It's too much. When you sleep with one, numbers may not matter, but sleeping with a new partner every month? Kai!
jst 4 withing 2yrs, my dear dt's too small, why not do it dis way, make it 4 guys per day, in month u will have hit 320 guys, within one year ur count will have increase to 1460 guys, with dis calculation u can enter Guinness book of record, den u take d trophy home to mama. mind U mke sure u keep record OF each guys.
Hahaha una d talk plenty, some gals of her age or even before dat age must v done like 10 or even pass, na talk una d talk, baby gal some of dem here d lie ooo... Lol
Rubbish
Yea right u visit the place and confirm please lie low
True talk Linda is a hypocrite
Ehn ehn its too little sef. Continue! When you're 28 give us a feedback on the current number.
Young lady,4 men at the age of 18! that is way too much. Exactly,why are you having sex in the first place? Have you ever stopped to think of it? No we must not scratch all itches,and being in love or lust is not enough reason either.
Just by the way,am 30 and proudly a virgin till i get married. And yes,am a virgin because my creator says so. :-)
its not gud enof
its not gud enof
He/she without sin should cast the first stone..May God protect us all
Honey, please get ur act together. Why exactly are you doing it? Trace d root and cut it off..
4men at 18 is not so bad. With the way young girls dey fuck these days.
Brainless piglet. Award winning imbecile. I bow at ur stupidity. #TeamBu.
Its not too much but if u go at that rate u may end up being a slut..... Just do u and be happy gal let no one make u feel ashamed most of this self righteous bitches have done worse.... Next keep U̶̲̥̅̊я shit to yourself gal we don't need to know how many dicks you've had
U tried self
Oscrambo
1,2,3,4 ur hole must be quite loose now..... ;)
@ 18 four is too much and that's because girls are supposed to fall and stay in love at such tender age with just one dude. BUT....... Come to my Neighbourhood here in PH and I'll show u, charlie I said I'll not only show you but also give one to you for confirmation then u will know that at 18, they've had like 32 guys and almost on daily bases. Hehehehehehehe. True Story.
This is super story!!!*singing*
I don't think it's much am an 18 year old boy and I've had like 10 different girls......just be protected and don't. Let it avoid your education......darzall....
I don't think it's much am an 18 year old boy and I've had like 10 different girls......just be protected and don't. Let it avoid your education......darzall....
Well dear don't make the mistake of thinking what you're looking for in a man is between their legs o. For your age 4 is way too much. Just chill be yourself look for someone that it will last forever with so you will have a good gist for your kids and grandkids. Don't let anyone judge you o believe me they have done worse and are too foolish to face it.
Even at 20 mi was still a virgin, now am 32 married with 3 kids and i only dated 3 guys before marriage. meanwhile i married at 25. i married the 3rd one and am still not happy that i gave myself to 3 guys before. my candid advice get serious next time and marry the guy instead of sleeping around.
R u competing with anybody, Relax naaa.... one guys every six months for the past two years..thumbs up baby gal, buh its too much ...lollz
dey no dey measure am abeg..continue wt d gud works
Dey jonz 4 der
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