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Friday, 27 September 2013

Oprah Winfrey says she'll leave this earth as a 'never married' woman

Billionaire talk show legend and actress Oprah Winfrey 59, has been dating Stedman Graham, 62, since 1986. That's 27 years - longer than a lot of marriages. Oprah said in an interview recently that although she considered marriage after she attended Tina Turner's wedding in Switzerland in July, she's pretty sure she will leave the world as a woman who 'never got married'

When asked if she would leave earth as a “never-married” woman, Oprah made her feelings very clear. “Yes,” she told Access Hollywood. “Yeah, I think that’s my final answer.”
“I think that it’s interesting that you would ask it because I thought about it again at Tina Turner’s wedding. Because Tina was like, ‘Oprah, you need to do this. You need to do it.’ I was just thinking, ‘Well, OK, would things really be different?’ And no, I don’t think so. If you ever interviewed him (Stedman), he would tell you that had we married, we would not be together today, because he’s a traditional man and this is a very untraditional relationship.”
Oprah also explained that she couldn’t be a wife because the word holds responsibilities she doesn’t feel capable of handling.

192 comments:

Jessica Ani said...

Bad decision

Anonymous said...

Wow!


Memiee

Anonymous said...

Woah wat a decision.nwaiz oprah its left to u nobdy will force u

elo tasha said...

Bcos she dont want to belong to the list of divorced marriages or what?...27years of dating is as good as being married to the person bcos you do what married couples do!!

Skelewu babe said...

hoeK

joy george said...

Good for her

Mich said...

I TOTALLY agree with all she said.

"Never Wed Your Lady For Marriage Is Love's Greatest Enemy".

Anonymous said...

Onukwu, wiv all the money you could have arranged a child for yourself even if you don't want to be married. Instead you are busy raising dogs.

Anonymous said...

Its all upto both of dem. They wear d shoes

fly guy said...

linda i can see ur mentor is encouraging u

Anonymous said...

Who cares? Another misleading example from adults who should no better. Very selfish indeed.
Uche

Chikaka said...

Come out Madam.

APHRODITE said...

Aint nobody bizness! Its her life nd her choice! She can't av kids anymore b4, so wahs d point? ¯\..(•͡.̮ •͡ )../¯

Anonymous said...

Like seriously?...

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BONARIO NNAGS said...

Whatever rocks her boat.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Cute G said...

Well she's being sincere.Bt hey woman"U re not d 1st woman to remain unmarried"andd again,WE DON'T GIVE A HOOT!!

laraba garba said...

Am behind u

Anonymous said...

For her pocket

mallam musa said...

who frikn fuckn cares. THE ONLY HAUSA MAN DAT BLOGS

Chinedu Mgbemena said...

she wouldn't be the first

Anonymous said...

True talk oprah.....marriage is not easy...involve a lot of stress....inlaw wahala....d man will not treat d wife like shit cos he has paid d bride price...d only beauty is d children.....I wish I have so much money,- cud prefer to b single than married....tired of my marriage already...

Psychotic bitch said...

Whatever granny. Get a child

Kinwayne Lance said...

hahaha,sum pple jst 1 die with living a mark for dis world

bbm 23491053 said...

So why complainig then. Die unmarried, that's your choice. At we were young, girls choose. Now we are older, men choose. Ladies be prayful, honest and loving, so we men will choose to put you as a wife, not a girl friend. Cheers. Engr Emy

KOK The News Hunter said...

Erm over to her

kenny jay said...

dats oprah......

rossy said...

Marriage is not compulsory naa, let her rest....

White Gardenia said...

Too bad.Though she can still change her mind.

jbankzE said...

Gud fr u coz na btw u nd ur God

Anonymous said...

Marriage ιѕ a great deal of job. ℓ̊ do not blame her though.

Anonymous said...

Linda, she is your 'role model' abi? Anyway Oprah, what u have not experienced u don't miss.

eye jay said...

Never expecting her to get married.... Live as so pleases u.. Great woman

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm! Dese women, wen they get $ơ̴̴͡ wild they cant cope wt marriage responsibilities

Anonymous said...

did Oprah get a nose job??? Madam Linda post ma comment ooo

Anonymous said...

We have heard.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmn... I see...

Niyi Daramola said...

Photo Of The Day: What Are They Doing???

Anonymous said...

Women like Oprah know that marriage is not for them not because of the responsibilites and problems that eventually lead to Divorce, but because she knows herself very well. She will cheat on him ( that's if she hasn't already started). The only reason he's still hanging on to her is because she's one of the most powerful woman in the World. No reasonable man will waste his years without an issue if she's not considerate. Its the God's honest truth.

Anonymous said...

an she help oder ppl marriages....dats pathetic...

okeadesuyi said...

Www.okeadesuyi.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Well thats her way, and a lot of people will subscribe to it... She has gotten to a level where she feels submission is not useful to her, but she has a soul-mate. I think if the soul-mate moved on in search of a traditional life, her perspective will be changed.. But I guess the problem is the soul-mate, who is sulking up to her, and acting a fool in this relationship.

Like someone said, for every relationship to work, someone has to act a fool. That is what Oprah's partner is anyway.. a fool, dimming his own wishes and desire for an apparently choleric and strong willed woman who doesn't send him one bit.

Anonymous said...

Linda, you still got enough time. Your husband is on the way.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm oma shee o,d devil is a deceiver o, wen she no b norms.

sandra felix said...

Weird

DON BABA CEEJAY said...

My dear if its the best for you then no p....its better as u are married to your job than 1 useless man.....2916d807

Ash baby said...

Being in a r/ship dat Long also count as being married so I don't c d diff and I don't really care if she eventually get married,as long as she's happy wit him dats all dat matas.

BLOGLORD said...

Hmnnn....but they do everything married couples do right??

Each to his/her own. On the last day every man go give I'm on account before God.

Why and why they did this and did nor do that. Everyone will be answerable

Anonymous said...

Here's hoping Linda isnt having any ideas!

Anonymous said...

Oshi o da n'le pako.......make she no marry NA she God go blame...........iranu of d highest order

Anonymous said...

Oprah would have gotten married. The only reason she is not married is because she does not want to get married to her kind (color). Remember when she was growing up she lived with a white man and thought he would marry her but the man dumped her and got married to a white woman. Then she opted for steadman and steadman is .... you know.

Anonymous said...

And yet she and Stedman were once engaged to be married. They've never explained why they broke the engagement but remained together.

uzoma anaemeje said...

Oprah would have gotten married. The only reason she is not married is because she thought all Black men are below her. She does not want to get married to a Black man. At a time she lived with a white man whom she thought would marry her but the white man dumped her and got married to a white woman. Then she hooked up to Steadman and you know Steadman is ....you know.

precheygift@gmail.com said...

Such a handsome man when he was young and Oprah has a nose job.well that's her own cup of tea beside it is not a history so many have ended up that way.marriage is a good thing one need to give it a shot her choice anyways

Yours Truly Blog said...

Different strokes for different folks

Namdy said...

Good 4 her.

Anonymous said...

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Ify Ejim said...

It's her life nd she is living it. Don't luv her any less............ my role model of life.

Anonymous said...

ehhn she should leave naa, dem dey beg shit make e smell? she ain't even that relevant no more.

Anonymous said...

Nawah o

Anonymous said...

Dats her own business btw, evryone has got issues! But ds oyinbo pple ar nt well sha, so dat black pet dog is her baby? Atleast she shld have tried 2 hav a child, evn if its one.

Anonymous said...

toksyb

Who Crares........abeg linda unto d next

Anonymous said...

ok, we don hear

Sane Mind said...

She is surely not the first,,so whatever she does is none of my biz,,,its her life anyway!

Anonymous said...

Oprah is not about what u can handle for there is no word like impossible. If u believe & have faith surely u will prosper. God said go into the world & multiply & subdue the earth, if u really do not want to get married then why sticking with a man in a relationship for this long? I don't have the right to judge u but get to legalize this relationship before u die in fornication.

Tuoyo Froggy said...

I support. :)

Anonymous said...

I really just want her to have a baby. or adopt (though not the same). Who is gonna inherit all that money….Gail's daughter?

Anonymous said...

Mumu woman.

tharnar said...

K oh...... Good for her

Anonymous said...

wish her well, if she thinks thats best for her. Goodluck

Anonymous said...

I totally feel her. We need to be honest with ourselves in life, not pandering to society's or people's ideas of how we should live

Od Wonder said...

She is not serious, she just want to make headlines.

Toby George said...

So technically dey r fuck mates...dts gud

Anonymous said...

Linda, BIKO NU. I hope u r not following Oprah's footsteps??

Anonymous said...

Wow. I actually taught she should be having grand kids at this time

osatuyi idowu said...

Life isn't measured by the number of breaths we take,but by the moments dat take our breath away.as long as oprah is happy,I think dat's all dat matters.love u winfrey.

b bangs said...

Bether for u ma darling so long as u are hgappy with ur self nd ur life, nd u dont feel lonly in anyway wats there in marriage anyways.

osatuyi idowu said...

Life isn't measured by the number of breaths we take,but by the moments dat take our breath away.as long as oprah is happy,I think dat's all dat matters.love u winfrey.

Anonymous said...

Marriage is not a must is ur choice if u r free 4rm burnin passion so be it no marriage in heaven everitin end here but hope u r not havin sexual relationship wit dis man if yes u r in big soup wit God biscos sex is 4 married pple not boy friend & girl friend

Anonymous said...

I like her 4that.she always speak her peace whether pipo accept it or not...oooih well!!!
Am in my 20s and i feel like marriage is not for me....kids yesLord, marriage...eeeeehhhhh i nid mo time.lol

great said...

Hmmmm. Well datz ur life. First to comment. Linda my creditooo

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Why I love Oprah?
She's downright down-to-earth and honest..
No playing to the gallery for her...
Many know they are not cut out for marriage..
But would rather choose to get married just to fit the norm and meet social expectations..
Sometimes this tends to spell their undoing...
Many people's prosperity is tied to their being single..
And they know it...
They know that marriage will spell the end to their financial success...
And yet they take the plunge and get burnt, of course..
Get married if you must; if you feel it is right and absolutely necessary..
And not just because you want to appear like the Joneses, even if it might not be in your best interest!

kendra said...

This just shows that marriage is not for Everyone , but I don't understand why she does not want kids.

Anonymous said...

Sooo Lindiway, na your mentor she be ba? See na Naija we dey o! Forget this her yarn, ur pple go finish u with yab! Lol.
TJ

Anonymous said...

*wink*......dah 1 don turn curse oh...

Anonymous said...

stupidity

Anonymous said...

Ok and you? Aunty linda? Cos u like marriage talk. Cheap gossip!

Anonymous said...

That's her headache..

Anonymous said...

"If its not broken don't fix it"

Anonymous said...

is dah nuptialphobia or wat? Na una saby

Anonymous said...

Na ur problem be dat. That what u get a feminist extremist.

Anonymous said...

Dats ur business!!! KUNZA CAPS

Anonymous said...

Vanity upon vanity all are wealth will be left behind and inherited by person that never work for it

Anonymous said...

With All Due Respect I Think Oprah Winfrey Is Insane How Can You Leave This World Without Marry Not To Talk Of Having Kids Perhaps Oprah Needs A Sociology

lolo said...

Not everyone in US has to marry but they all have Uncle Sam. Good for her.

Chigozirim said...

Ms Winfrey we thank God for you. Relationships mean a lot of different things to a lot of very different people.

Anonymous said...

Lol ur 2 old 4 marriage Oprah go n rest wif d LORD

Rough Diamond said...

Tanks oprah for being sincere again!
Marriage is not a do or die affair!
As long as u r happy with urself!

Anonymous said...

Good for her waiting concern fuel with bicycle see me see wahala o

kelly peter said...

Na she knw if she lik mak she no marry na her swag.. By d time she reach heaven angels go ask her where her wedding ring. Na dat time body go tel her..

EBELE OTUOKE said...

Her Choice....Ur choice in life wil make or mar u. I guess her own is right 4 her.
Click my name 4 freebies.

Anonymous said...

Fair enough. She has no obligation to...she is not Christian, Muslim or compelled to. She looks better now than in the 90s picture.....Doctor or gene?

wemimo adesemoye said...

Hmmm..oprah u re mi role model..i mean ur career n financial height..*smiles* but me I wan dy happily married with children oh..

Anonymous said...

First to coment....dassol

ibeakwadalam said...

Linda, make I be your own Steadman jor.

Anonymous said...

Whatever floats her boat...

ᶥᵗˢ Mz didi said...

As u like it Oprah!... Wow! 27yrs is such a long time! I wish u both love & happiness...#SuperWoman#RoleModel#ilove u

Anonymous said...

Not cool atalll

morientes bassey said...

Dat is her own business if she choose nt 2marry, she prefer hvin a boyfrd so dat she can b havin sex.

Anonymous said...

Why?? What will marriage contribute to her life apart from pain? Marriage benefits men, not women. She has achieved more than most married women will ever achieve. Men destroy marriages

Anonymous said...

Nobody wants you Engr Emy so go and sit down. Nobody is praying to be your wife

Anonymous said...

TA! Sharrap dere! Whr is it written in the bible that angels will ask for wedding ring? Liar!! Na by force to marry? Even Saint Paul did not recommend marriage but said if u nor fit hold bodi, then marry. Stop lying jor!

Anonymous said...

Looooolest.

curvy ZO said...

Ur gbagaun is makin u insane as well...hahahaa, is she d first? She won't b d last either...so many old cargoes in naija r unmarried..

Anonymous said...

Gud

Anonymous said...

you are such a clown

Anonymous said...

Nna dis ur comment is mean
... lol

Anonymous said...

Nothing in life is guaranteed apart from death. What is d guarantee dt the kids wont die before her, all one owes herself is to be happy, if having kids ll mk u happy then fine, but having kids cos of inheritance is absolutely silly cos d children myt die before u or even same day u die. E.g the only son of TFC, d Ayene's dat died in d dana crash and d list is endless.

Anonymous said...

You are a big fool. Arrange a child my ass. Oprah established a school in SA that gives the best education to young girls that don't paid 10kobo for anything. They sleep on sheets that u find in only 7 star hotels. You are the talking rubbish, what have you done for anybody? What are you done for even that bingo dog on your street? Be thr judging people that are changing lives all around the world. Ode Oshi

Push UP said...

That what her jazz man told her now...make she no marry and mke she no born pickn...rme

Anonymous said...

Are u married?? If u are not they there dey decive ursef no go find husband

Anonymous said...

Ode, sociology ke? Olodo

Anonymous said...

This woman must be an aetheist. She doesnt know God and doesnt read her bible. She can't even define her purpose of living. God commanded we shld multiply and be fruitful not only in our finances but also in our body. Arrogance and Marriage phobia dey worry dis woman. Suit urself #Spencer#

Anonymous said...

Perhaps you need an English teacher.

Anonymous said...

She is raising lots of kids, though she never adopted 1 for herself. She has a school in south Africa for girls, where she is responsible for their tuition. A school for the poor ones. And she sees them all as her kids. Plus all the good stuff she has done on her show. The lives she has helped & things she has given away. I think that is fair enuf. Some even more than what some people can do for their own child. God bless her.

Nuvi Honey said...

LMAO! U must be a student, cos u must have lots of time on ur hands to have typed the "helpful" post, and I'm sure u have done it many times and it worked.ASUU do and call off strike oooo

riri01 said...

I love her even more NW.

Anonymous said...

ezinwa ur so funny, love the post...

tally said...

Na she sabi,if she like make she marry if she like make she no marry...abeg I dey look 4 watin 2 chop

tahtahfoe said...

Lmfao....if only am that jobless

Anonymous said...

Wait shei wedding ring n d pass code ni. Smh 4 u

Tee Gold said...

That's her decision though...God help u ma'am

Anonymous said...

Which dogs is she raisingv with all the things she went through? Do you think it is easy for her to marry? Ode!

Anonymous said...

And how is she selfish eh?

Anonymous said...

Mehn that was harsh!

Anonymous said...

If she get pikin, no wahala then.



*PUFFS SMOKE

Anonymous said...

Bull ...

Anonymous said...

So how does wedding ring take you to heaven? May God give you sense sha.

Anonymous said...

Mehn that was harsh!

Anonymous said...

And how is she selfish eh?

Anonymous said...

Which dogs is she raisingv with all the things she went through? Do you think it is easy for her to marry? Ode!

Anonymous said...

Make it work and stop complaining!!b!

Black Girls Losing Weight said...

Oprah said the same thing when she was interviewed by Piers Morgan and i respect her decision. Oprah has impacted the lives of more children and the world in general than millions of women would ever dream of doing. She has sacrificed her own need for the good of the world. Think about all the charitable work she has and continues to do namely the leadership academy for girls in South Africa, the generous giveaways from cash, to cars, to houses to all the guests on the oprah show, $10 millions dollar after hurricane Katrina, the oprah winfrey scholarship to more than 400 young black men at morehouse college the most prestigious school for black boys in america to mention a few.

The world needs people like this in every generation that can light the earth and leave it better than they met it. Makes me wonder if women can attain such heights in marriage.

Marriage may not be her calling but changing the world definitely is.

Anonymous said...

Really Kelly Peter? The Angels in heaven ask women for their wedding rings before they enter heaven? Cool Story!

Anonymous said...

Abeg how e take concern 9ja

Anonymous said...

Not her fault na. I blame d puppy dog of a man who followed her like a dummy for almost thirty years eating money and raising dogs. He has wasted his life and reason for existence cos his only achievement is being Oprah's lover!

Chinonso Charles said...

Wow. So bad.

Make Naira Online

tosyngee said...

LMAO

Anonymous said...

U self get time observ al des ones!!!I shuld b more concern abt bn d first In GOD's Book of Mercy nt bn d first on Linda's freakin post!!

Anonymous said...

Watin concern me if she nor marry hissssssssssssssss........................

Anonymous said...

It's her choice and people should respect that.

ASHIYA said...

Hey

KashBanta said...

You go fear 'choose to put you as a wife' na... Very funny comment. Anyway, to each his own biko. If you like, don't carry your cross. Be following Oprah.

Anonymous said...

Good for you Oprah. Contentment is the Key. Marriage is not for everyone

Anonymous said...

=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) ezigbo onye nkuzi. Idikwa funny.

Anonymous said...

U freaking f*cking care. Dats why u commented. Next time, u better not comment if u don't care.

OlᵘwᵃDᵅᵐ!lᵒlᵃ said...

And what makes it bad?

pavour said...

Ups and downs of life.

JLicious C said...

Who's gonna inherit all the billions? #eyesrolling# I don't mind being adopted thou.

Rough Diamond said...

Funny u! @ ezinwa

Anonymous said...

SOMETIMES ALL THIS TALKSHOW HOST/BLOGGERS DON'T PRACTICE WHAT THEY PREACH INCLUDING LINDA .I KNOW YOU WILL NOT POST THIS ONE

Rough Diamond said...

Pele o @ anon 2:39

Rough Diamond said...

Ode pataki

Anonymous said...

i bet yall single ladies just got an O-gasm right now.smh

Rough Diamond said...

So does having a husband n children makes one's life whole?
On d judgement day all man for himself!
Perhaps u need a therapy for thinking dis way.

Anonymous said...

Make she go rest,she won't be the first to leave d earth without getting married. We are reading her story cuz she's a celeb. She for no dey nack na

Anonymous said...

U r a clown! Lol.

Anonymous said...

Tnk you Ezinwa.

Anonymous said...

Lool THIS IS A SIN AND A TABOO IN NIGERIA. HOW CAN YOU
LEAVE THIS EARTH WITHOUT MARRYING. OPRAH YOU ARE LUCKY YOU ARE NOT NIGERIAN. BECAUSE ACCORDING TO NIGERIANS EVEN IF YOU ARE A BILLIONAIRE, MARRIAGE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Seriously i'm married and i see no big deal in it.my husband who pretended to adore me b4 marriage talks down on me like i am worth nothing.honestly,i wish there was no sin like fornication and i wish i was born in a different country where marriage wasnt seen as a big deal i would have so loved to just be in a relationship but the difference is i would have kids because i love kids but not be under any man who doesnt treat me right because he feels he has married me and so can treat me like am nothing. Alot of married women in Nigeria feel this way so no need pretending.i meet women everyday at work,church,saloon,weddings,etc and it is the same old story from everyone of them.May God help us

Anonymous said...

If you have a problem with that, then kill yourself. Its that simple.

Anonymous said...

Looool"funny comments all the way . . .

Anonymous said...

Lmfaooooo.....dis is making me laugh seriously. just to be d first see struggle. lmfao

Anonymous said...

so funny! Thanks for the tip.

snowflix said...

Story that touches the ass! Mtcheeeeeew

Jehovanni♥ said...

Oprah! Oya stiill born one naaa! All ur money.........Chai!

Add me up on 24C148B8 To get oprah's hair.

Anonymous said...

I think dis is self centeredness becos of money,u don't want to marry and have ur own kids,Very funny world we live in,Well let her be or do wht she wants But "But time will come money will never be every thin or buy the space of a Child in her life.....

Lynna Jade said...

God will heal you!

Anonymous said...

@linda,this woman case will never allowed you to marry oooooo..
na who will remember her if she one time goes?money goes,,life goes,,money go,,name in the write of those who like her can remember her birth day,,from swiss,we no bi enemy oooo

Sex and Relationships said...

Her decision seems to fulfill her, no matter what we might think or say.

Anonymous said...

Naija women...see as they gasped in droves because someone said she will not marry. All your theories na wash, this woman fends for more children than you can physically birth.. Half of you don't even really raise your babies right, grandma, tv and nannies are doing the work for you. O and all these men here shaking their heads...Biko comot. Go and examine those women you have slavishly put in your homes, if they had the choice...they'd be free from you too.

Everyone will not marry. It is not a sin. You na hear? One minded lot.

Anonymous said...

If you were as rich as Oprah, you may not want to marry. She had a difficult childhood and decided never to have kids too. She may have hated such kids because of all the nasty things done to her.

People are very selfish and judge other people by their own culture or religion. Oprah is not an African woman who is expected to marry at all costs. She is happier the way she is.

The money she has is too much that it would not finish even after she dies. The person who said money would finish and kids would be there does not know how rich Oprah is.

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Did I read some bastard on this thread bashing Oprah for declaring her independence from marriage as the best route to happiness for her?
In fact one of the assholes said Oprah doesn't know what she wants from life for taking the decision...
How big an imbecile could you ever be?
Some even say she doesn't read the Bible, that's why..
Hello...I doubt if you too have read your Bible well enough..
Let me come at you..
Oprah is rich, a billionaire at that!
But you are as broke as the melting ice cap in the Antarctica..
Oprah has been in one monogamous relationship for over 25 years...I guess yours haven't lasted 6 months...
I am even sure this arrangement will see Oprah's relationship with Stedman lasting another 30 years...
Tell me a relationship more stable, more successful as hers...
Oprah and Stedman love each other so much, looking deliciously cute their age, and smart to the hilt to know that what they share mustn't be sacrificed on the alter of marriage...it appears to me a mutual decision; so why cry more than the bereaved..
I am sure you are not that smart...
Tell you: the ultimate pursuit in live is happiness..
Not marriage..
If marriage won't give you happiness, why tolerate it?
Marriage is therefore only a means not an end...
2, You don't need marriage to have sex..
What you need to have sex is a mature genitalia, a willing partner, and perhaps love..
Period!
So, cut the crap and stop rushing into marriage thinking that's the only route to having sex...fetch your Bible and challenge me on this..I'm waiting..
All, we as saying, which Oprah is also telling you indirectly is: get married with clarity of mind and meaning...
Don't get me wrong...
Marriage is good, very good..
But get married for the right and not trifling reasons!

Anonymous said...

Stedman has been married before and has children from that relationship. Oprah had a child as a teenager that was delivered stillborn. These two aren't learners. They have the relationship and life they both want.

AGB said...

What makes it bad ma?

JU said...

MTCHEWWWWW......

Anonymous said...

What I have read so far is funny,especially from the married women,u say u don't see anyfin in marriage and ur husband looks down on u unlike before he married u,lyk seriously were u expecting d man 2 remain the same way throught out,and what even says ur not d one causing him 2 look down on u? Woman ur husband is d head,ur d neck the neck holds d head.instead of u coming here 2 complain abt ur marriage,pray 4 ur husbands,look for dat fin which went wrong and fix it if u cnt figure it out or handle it,get a marriage counselor instead of looking @ d man waiting for him 2 stay same tru out.woman ur d person holding ur marriage d way u handle it is d way it will be so stop complaining and layin blames on d man or calling him names,fix d problem.dis is an advice from a woman not a man.

Anonymous said...

I think dis lady's decision has sometin 2 do wit a spiritual husband who may hv made her dis successfull in life...

Anonymous said...

I love u so much for dis comment. Finally i ve seen smone dat shares same reasoning as me but most Nigerian women are brainwashed abt this marriage crap, dat is y alot are living in pain and sadness in d name of marriage n thr silly parents encourage them to stay. Finally it is better to be happily single than unhappily married!

Anonymous said...

You are an ignorant imbecile. Please go to school.

Anonymous said...

Oprah dey selfish look

Anonymous said...

Very insensitive comments, from someone so ignorant!!!

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