Saturday, February 16, 2013

Unbelievable! Read Femi Fani Kayode's piece on the Oskar Pistorius murder case

Former Minister of Aviation, Femi Fani Kayode, shared his thoughts on the Oskar Pistorius murder case. Oskar if you will all recall shot and killed his girlfriend, Reeva Steenkamp on Valentine's day. He has since been charged with premeditated murder even though he insists it was all an accident. 
Well Femi Fani Kayode kinda blamed the dead girl on provoking the double amputee athlete into a murderous rage. He said in his piece that Reeva was sent to Oskar by the devil to destroy him He referred to her as a Jezebel, Delilah, 'creature from the sea'...
As a woman, I'm appalled by this write up, which he has since deleted from his Facebook page. He's kinda blaming her for getting herself killed. Read it after the cut...
 
A Valentine Day's Tragedy for the Blade Runner - Written by Chief Femi Fani-Kayode)
"Oscar Pistorius, who is also known as ”the Blade Runner”, has shot his girlfriend to death on Valentine’s eve. This is such a tragedy. A man that is loved and respected by so many from all over the world has killed his beautiful young lover, who happens to be one of South Africa’s top models, in cold blood.
The initial “accidental-shooting burglar theory” has been dismissed by the South African police. According to the BBC there are speculations that there have been previous acts of domestic violence and altercations between the couple, that there was a terrible argument going on just before the shooting and that this is a straightforward case of cold-blooded murder probably as a consequence of high passion.
Whatever the the truth may be, all I can say is that this is a great tragedy and we need to be careful about the kind of women that we spend our time with. Any woman that stirs up your anger and constantly provokes your wrath ought to be avoided like a plague. It is those that bring peace and tranquility into our lives that we should cherish.
I have little doubt that Pistorius, who was a great achiever, a living icon, the greatest and best known African sportsman in world history and an absolute gentleman, was provoked into a murderous rage by his pretty little lover and that she played on his insecurities and inadequacies. These are the classic traits of the biblical “strange woman”- the destroyer of men’s dreams and destinies.
Only God knows who sent this creature from the sea into this great man’s life just to destroy it. For Pistorius it is all over. In one moment of blind rage he has lost everything and he has brought shame, disgrace, sorrow and infamy upon his name and that of his family. The blood he has shed will speak against him and his lineage forever. And all because of a sexy and pretty little model who the devil sent his way.
May the Lord deliver us all from the daughters of Jezebel, Delilah, Athalia and Yemoja".

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Anonymous said...

#GBAM

Anonymous said...

True

Anonymous said...

Don't mind Linda and her stupid blog biz! Always trying to bring devilish ladies together against societal norms and values! Dummies dt cannot extract a single point from an article!

Anonymous said...

I want to share these with u and I hope a lot of us can learn from this:
A Professor was teaching about Proverbs 15: 1.
He asked his students, 'why do we shout in anger? why do people shout at each other when they are upset?' The students thought for a while. One said, because we loose our calm. But why shout when the other person is just next to you?
Asked the professor. Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry?
The students gave some answers but none satisfied the Professor. Finally he explained, 'when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their hearts psychologically .
To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance. Then the Professor asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly. Why?
Because their hearts are psychologically close. The
distance between them is very close. The Professor continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They don't speak, only whisper and they even get closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper,they only look at each other and that's all..... So next time you shout on a loved one, know that you are creating distance between your heart and that persons heart. Proverbs 15:1 says a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Blessing

Awon Ti Yankee said...

All of you that agreed with this buffoon aka Anon 8:57 will be punished severely and be treated unjustly and hopefully, no one will feel sorry for you but would rather say you deserve it. That's all I'm praying for this Lenten season.

Awon Ti Yankee said...

@ Anon 9:08. Shut the fuck up dumb dumb!!

Kanyinsoolaa said...

But seriously, the argument here is not about if she loved him or not, if she cheated on him or not, if she was a gold digger or not!he question are:
Did he agree to go into a relationship wiv her?!
Did he kill her?! Yes!

He's an adult, he had/has the power of choice. Whether or not she loved him is not a question?!
so pls stop d pitying!

Awon Ti Yankee said...

@ Anon 9:04. Hopefully, your sister will piss someone off and get killed. When that happens, kindly feel sorry for your sister's killer and blame your sister for her own death.

nikky said...

This is a Wale Adenuga production. This is super story.

Aproko Naija said...

Yeah but dumbass, she didn't kill herself, otherwise it would have been called a suicide...olodo rapata. He KILLED her therefore he's been charged with MURDER! I think you are more IGNORANT than stupid. Ode.

Anonymous said...

I wonder why most of u r crucifying dis man(FFK),frm his write up he never said d chick deserved 2 die,he is just giving a candid point of view as an advice. As much we d guys love women and wanna be wit dem, some can be very very very terrible, it takes d grace of GOD 2 keep ur cool as a man. Let's quit judging and throwing daggers, it could happen 2 anybody. GOD help oscar.

Anonymous said...

You're an IDIOT! How do you know what happened?? Oscar himself said he was a difficult person to live with so why would you and stupid ffk judge her??

Awon ti Yankee said...

In English please!!!

Anonymous said...

Under no circumstances should he have pulled the trigger. I read somewhere else that she was sent to destroy him. He found out, they argued and boom, it all ended for her.

Anonymous said...

Linda u should stop being so judgmental, FFK neva laid any blame on d dead lady. You knw as well as I do dat dere r tons of terrible women out dere, we just pray GOD take dem far away frm us. I sympathise wit d family of d dead lady, and My heart goes out 2 pistorious, may GOD see him tru dis trying time.

Anonymous said...

nigerian men led by this femi kayode character are so stupid and self-righteous, it's unbelievable. The bible says "Thou shall not kill" and this man has killed so I don't know what you are defending. Strange woman ko. Instead of you to exercise some self control and ask God for grace and also lock your cock up you are blaming the woman. Backwards idiots. With all your education, you still manage to be as backward as possible. Idiots

Anonymous said...

So, this ex-aviation minister has been established to be not only a crook but a total moron as well, let's leave him to his pathetic fate. As for Oscar, he is known for his temper(had a case pending),and an alleged womaniser.make no mistake he has no insecurities the opposite in fact.we wait for the facts to unfold in court, maybe the truth will be revealed and finger-pointing and insults will end-no?

Anonymous said...

Wtf r u talking about. Too much gba gba gba gbi gbi ( gunshots) damn. Please use spell check next time . #justsaying

Anonymous said...

:::...One of the greatest mistake men make is to think that they can justify murder. I read Kayode's note, his advise should not be completely discarded. If you cannot handle it, you leave it, in another sense, let it go if you cannot handle it. However, men should stop trying to justify killing It doesn't matter who was killed.

Seyi D said...

i can assure you he is a wife batterer

Obinna Enemuo said...

This is just wrong. Please visit obinnaenemuo.blogspot.com and drop your comments. Thanks

fidelis said...

i completely agree with him. some women are devils i have one right now as my girlfriend and am so scared that she might make me act crazy some day but God forbid.

Anonymous said...

Give me a freaking break with the Oskar sympathizers. Dude lived in a gated community, had an alarm system, high walls, dogs, and was still afraid after all that? If you are that afraid after doing all of that, you may as well move to another place. I know disabled people who live in government housing in tough neighborhoods and are able to live without such fear. Dude is a psycho nutcase and it's a pity his girlfriend did not figure that out before.

Now he will go behind bars where he wont have to worry about armed men coming after him because he will already be in with them. So in the end he will be around the very people he feared most.

Anonymous said...

I see absolutely nothing wrong with Femi's position.Avoid people that provoke you, cos the are ready tools in the hands of the devil

Tush said...

It's my first time of commenting on your blog and must say that people are entitled to their views. However, FFK has got this right and one can't overemphasize the existence of Jezebel s. may God continue to guide n protect us all

abi omojola said...

This moronic fool is trying to draw up similarities here,comparing his messed up private life with what happeened to Oscar!So,because his HONEST igbo girlfriend sold him out to EFCC makes women betrayers.Coming from an embezzler,craddle snatcher and adulterer why am I surprised.And the morons who THINK they know and can interprete what this old fool is TRYING to say can follow him to the abyss for all I care...nonsense.

Anonymous said...

I didn't know that Fani Kayode is a beast in human nature, I jst feel sorry for you wife and kids. As for those LIBERS that are supporting this trash he wrote and are given excuses for murder, be very careful with what you say so that ur family will not fall victim to murder

Folashade said...

Y'all nid to remember,its Fani-Kayode! Always had and always will have diarrhea of d mouth! Bt finally finally, You have gone too far! I don't care if he deleted the statement! For thinking it in his heart, he is a monster!!! After now, we will be abusing Boko Haram but we are rily living in the midst of some terrible human beings!!! May God forgive ur soul,u piece of shit!!! D poor woman is dead! Dead, u ass! As u will be some day! Better get ready to defend ur self at heaven's gate! Desecreating the memory of d dead like dat! God punish u!!! Never knew her but May her soul rest in peace!its always so sad when such a young promising life gets cut short over preventable things!!! #hissing# stupido! Bastardo #feel like cursing him seriously in french!!!#

Anonymous said...

barbara irianan is stunning

Anonymous said...

This is nothing compare to what he wrote about President Obama. This guy is sick forever. Who is his pastor?

Anonymous said...

See this educated illiterate! to think that some females can or have actually dated this retard! In this modern day and era ,a so called former minister thinking and speaking in this manner!Is he also not supposed to be a qualified lawyer, calling people names and stigmatizing women......
God save Nigeria!

Anonymous said...

The point is in South Africa , it is common for residents to own guns for security reasons due to the high number of robbery incidents, infact there is a similar case where a dad mistakenly shot his daughter at night when she crept to his car to get something without his knowledge, he shot at the victim several times without the intention of killing his own daughter but someone who he thought was a burglar. May we never be either the victim nor the the accused of such circumstances IJN.So people like Fanny Kayode should stop analysing what is not...... mr jezebel and yemoja...

Anonymous said...

He's just a freaking beast

Mama said...

There is absolutely nothing wrong with what he said... and I am a woman. Why is the truth a bitter pill to swallow??

Anonymous said...

Maximus pls it's not fashionable to be stupid! Ha ha with your ugly face u are in support of killing a being like u! Do u hv a mother, sister or a daughter if somebody caught down their life like that will u blame it on provocation from their side? Why are u such a moron supporting FFK, is he fucking u or what? Pls take a moment to ask God for forgiveness for ur stupidity! I won't insult your intelligence by suggesting u really believe what u just said anyway too bad stupidity isn't painful! Am not surprise sha u are dumber than you look! Get well u disgruntled low life idiot

dammy said...

@anonymous 10:12pm exactly my thoughts.....the way some people comment on this blog, you can tell they seem to have low IQ and are quite shallow. They abandoned the main message FFK was trying to pass across and focused on superficial things. If you guys like, go and marry a woman that'll bring out the worst in you, or a guy that'll bring out the mammy water in you, then you'll understand where he's coming from.And, may I also add, I'm a woman. And for those of you that think you can curse out people anyhow on blogs and then go to church on Sunday and start singing 'holy, holy, holy'...God is watching you.

Anonymous said...

Is this not the ROGUE minister, who might end up in jail anytime soon, oh pls ignore the MORON!

Anonymous said...

@OBYNO..so if your lover provokes you the next best thing is to stab or shoot the person, by the way where you at the crime scene, I hope you either shoot your loved one or your loved one shoots you in this journey of your hopeless life. You MORON!

Anonymous said...

@ANON 9:12
I take it you MUST be very UGLY. Sad!

Anonymous said...

A woman put his life in this situation Oskar in jail FEMI in jail. Murder and Fraud!

Anonymous said...

This Fani Kayode is a fool from hell.So bcos he thinks she is Jezebel, she should killed, why not break up with her and find somebody that is not Jezebel. May God allow his female relatives to be killed like these in Jesus Name and shot to pieces.

Anonymous said...

ffk has rights to his opinion and he made a clear distinction!...why r d women here ignoring dat? Are u a yemoja or delilah ni? The truth of d matter is mostly women don't knw wen dey really provokin...I really am not interested in d blade runner but definaty don't seems like a man that would take a "woman"s life but also....who knows?.......niyinugar says so

Anonymous said...

I believe u, someone dt wrote dt must be a heavy drug user.

Anonymous said...

I wonder why u guys should crucify somebody whose write up is advisory. If u like, go out with the lady that will bring out the madness in u.

Augustine Ogwo said...

How can such a main call himself CHIEF? He has a point but should have employed a more conservative approach. He was beginning to sound rude which is a recurring decimal in his life. God Bless LIBers and AustiNinjas

Augustine Ogwo
www.austinaija.com

Anonymous said...

Watch wat u type or (frowning@ ur comment) ..!hw is she a fool and what are u doing on a fool's blog? ..makes u a bigger ..I think u are wise enough to complete it

Anonymous said...

What is wrong with the article? Summary of it, is men beware?

Anonymous said...

Thank you for the advice. Feminist right pretenders una hear.

Anonymous said...

wow i really donot know what to say to you maximus. your level of reasoning gives me concern.
FYI my aunty has been married for twenty years to a man who is about 3yrs younger than her and they are very much in love.
Also that reeva "uttered some painful words'' does not justify his actions. i mean where is self control. why act under anger. This is why nigeria is the way it is, it is always the woman's fault when something bad happens. oh she shouldnt have uttered such words. How about oh he should have controlled his anger?




i was in a taxi the other day and my braids mistakenly touched a male passanger (according to him). You needed to see d way he shouted at me. i was stunned because prior to that i didnt know my hair touched him. i just ignored him, then he said he was going to slap me since i cannot say sorry. i just told him that he should go ahead but he should be sure of getting d same. The next thing taxi driver started supporting him. i was stunned oo. Two things tho i didnt apologise not after his attitude and i didnt let him walk over me. Hell i am human

Anonymous said...

see these ones. birds of the same feather na d same papa born them. y'all dont need me telling you who your papa is because any man that disreapexts a woman is a child of devil.
God is an impartial God.

Anonymous said...

What are some of you guys saying?? As far as am concerned, he's entitled to his Oppenion for heaven sake regardless of who he is.... UNA DE CALI TALK!!

ACHALAH!!

Anonymous said...

ok doormat.

Anonymous said...

my sister i avoid them oo.. tufia. me i know that i wouldnot keep quiet when im not okay with sth God forbid i express my views and then i am termed as disrespectful and then dealt with slaps. mbanu stay on your lane i stay on mine dat is d way it is.

Anonymous said...

I'm sure Linda's statement that 'she was appalled' made y'all comment negatively especially the ladies. His article is no bad, it was a good point although he was kinda harsh

Anonymous said...

what is wrong with this artickle for God sake? D man was not supporting d man or blame d woman, he only brought out a vital point that all of us should take serious when we want to choose our partners. Both of them end up in tragedy which could have been avoided, that was his point. Must u continue dating someone who always pushing u to d wall?

Anonymous said...

Maximus, I hope you're never in a situation like this though.
Its so easy to cross your legs and analyse when no one knows for certain what happened.
A little respect for the dead never hurt anyone.
If she provoked him so much, he should have left her and not killed her.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry o, but I agree with him. Na Jezebel, Yemoja & Kim K babes full everywhere. #beware

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry o, but I agree with him. Na Jezebel, Yemoja & Kim K babes full everywhere. #beware

Anonymous said...

For once I think FFK is right in his thoughts. All those band wagon commentators are either these Jezebel or Delilah kind of women. Is it not a fact that Delilah destroyed Samson? Was she not a woman? Women have been d downfall of most great men. I personally have an abusive wife. I am all of 6ft well built and all that. But because her job pays about three times mine, she always calls me Lazy n that I am doing nothing to improve my lot. D most painful thing she did was to refuse to pay our kids school fees wen I cldnt, saying it was not her duty. Whenever we have fights, she says such hurtful and unprintable things that if I don't control myself I cld just smash her head against a wall. Now d question is how do I cope with this for the rest of my life???? From my small corner of the world I know what a Jezebel woman can be like....it doesn't mean that there aren't great women like Ruth out there. Some people are just unlucky to be cursed with these kind of women.

Anonymous said...

Do u av a father?..oloshi..

Anonymous said...

Chai!!! U r wicked o. Linda don't mind him jooor. U r a beautiful woman & u deserve d best, but sometimes, I think u need to chill on ur hardheld opinions

Anonymous said...

Chai!!! U r wicked o. Linda don't mind him jooor. U r a beautiful woman & u deserve d best, but sometimes, I think u need to chill on ur hardheld opinions

Anonymous said...

Best comment

Anonymous said...

This man has bin divorced more than once,there is saratu, yemisi and so on in his live. He talking from a bitter place. Most divorcees are. So don't blame him. His head is messed up right now. They are very insecure and bitter.no matter the rage, you let the woman go.if she stalks you,she is coming from an angry place,what is the law for. They weren't married. So work out

Anonymous said...

Maximus u are a blessing to ur family and mankind .. U remind me of Esther in the Bible with the well tot post

Yomslaw said...

@Fani Kayode. . . . . . . Bado!

Anonymous said...

Abeg don't mind all this evil bleached out evil women roaming around Lagos claiming Lady ..They know how foul their mouth is and they know they know how many men they have destroyed with their caustic mouth .. And all this follow follow men don't heed FFKs advise and pray for a woman who is able to calm storms in your life not one who conjure storms in your life

Anonymous said...

Femi Fani Kayode is delusional. The right place for him is a mental home.

Anonymous said...

Am not surprised about FFK's comment since he's a violent person as well. Please ask his ex-wives and his present girlfriend that lives with him( the one he sponsored to the uk for a masters degree). There was a day he actually beat her to a pulp and then took a sex tape he made without her consent and wanted to release it on the Internet . He's always high on drugs so don't be fooled by his holier than thou attitude.

Jesseballs said...

Hello

Anonymous said...

LINDA----BITTER TRUTH HAS BEEN SAID...NO MINCING WORDS.HE IS RIGHT IN ALL TRUE SENSE

Ada said...

For femi and all other anonymous humans if I can call you that, what happened to leaving the house if you think you are likely to loose your mind eh? May your daughters never upset their partners cause this is what they will get. Silly drug heads all of you

Jesseballs said...

Lets look at FFK's write up with objectivity! While i perceive a strong sense of irritation towards women, which may be borne out of personal experience, i also think he made sense. Any woman; it doesn't have to be ur girlfriend, wife or mother; just any woman that provokes u to rage should definitely be avoided like a plague. As humans, we cannot all air d same views as this is to say d least, a predominant characteristics in man. Only God, not even Reeva or Pistorius could have prevented this from happening. Things would definitely happen and we are by no means judges of events. No man should place himself in a position where he becomes a judge over another especially when he cannot establish with certainty, d root cause of any given matter. D broadness of d mind allows for assumptions and exhibition of emotions but we should, however, use this tool with caution and not assume or say things that would directly or indirectly work against us. I sincerely pray God intervenes in d Pistorius saga while we sit and await subsequent confessions and revelations. May God save us from evil men and women alike!

Anonymous said...

I saw "former minister of aviation" and I knew it would be rubbish. All I need to know is that someone in the government said it for it to be pure nonsense. And to that pitiable FOOL that implied that women deserve to be shot for nagging, I propose that men who cheat should be hung from their testicles while their tongues are cut out and stuffed up their assholes. Does that sound extreme? Well if you think about it, with surgery you may still get to live which is more than what this woman got. Useless human being

Efe said...

you are a big, big fool for the trash you posted .ffk was blaming the dead woman for what happend when he was not there to witness what went on. How wrong can he be. You come across from you posting like a woman beater. For you information women like linda would not put up for too long with the likes of you and ffk foolish men that think women are second class human being to them.

Jesseballs said...

Hello

Anonymous said...

I used to think the Fani Kayodes are brilliant but in Femi, I have seen their limitations.

Anonymous said...

OH MY GOD! IS THIS MAN EDUCATED? I DON'T MEAN GOING TO SCHOOL. I KNOW HE WENT TO SCHOOL AND OBTAINED SOME DEGREES BUT SINCERELY, IS FEMI FANI KAYODE EDUCATED? HE IS WORSE THAN AN ILLITERATE. I READ THE NONSENSE HE WROTE ON OBAMA BEING AND ANTI-CHRIST SOMETIME AGO AND NOW THIS! GOSH! A HEAVY PADLOCK OUGHT TO PUT IN THE MOUTH OF PEOPLE LIKE THIS AND LOCKED SO THAT CIVILIZED PEOPLE ARE SAVED FROM THEIR VENOM. AND TO BACK UP THE VENOM HE IS SPITING WITH A GARB OF RELIGION MAKES IT MOST ANNOYING AND SICKENING.

Diva said...

For some mannerless human animals who think they can comment on this blog to insult Linda, may u hug transformer. Linda is just sharing her views and a lot of people still agree with her not animals like Anonymous 8:58 PM that said 'linda u r a fool. Wht is wrng in wht he sd.' If u don't agree with her, tell her politely. If you are so frustrated, u can call ur girlfriends fools- leave Linda alone....mtchewwww

Anonymous said...

What this guy said is kinda true , and like they say the truth hurts . He isn't talking about all women , he said some . What he said about avoiding women who make u very angry that u forget that they r women (summary , not exact words ) is true . There r people who provoke others and he may have been provoked to the max . Let's actually think about it , this guy did have everything going for him .

Anonymous said...

Seems to me u reason through ur anus!am disgusted at ur comment.u have kids and definitely won't wish this on ur daughter!there's absolutely no justifiable excuse on earth for murder.u cant create a life pls don't take one.

Anonymous said...

U make perfect sense!

Doyinsola Folayan said...

When people are being biblical,its considered as ignorance.Am a woman but really,there are some strange women out there and he never said all women were strange and what oscar did was right.i don't see anything wrong in what he said o.

Anonymous said...

God bless you for your insight! FFK spoke from the perspective of one who has a spiritual insight into the how the devil uses human agents to destroy the destinies of other people! Too sad most people who castigate him for writing the article do not know where he is coming from.

Anonymous said...

sorry to say this but most people that read articles, sometimes don't take time out to understand the statements or in general lack the mental aptitude to understand or maybe it's just guilty conscience...This man has not referred to the feminine gender as a whole as destructive, he merely defended pistorius, knowing the kind of person he was and understanding the provocative nature of some people..i agree very much with what he has said and I understand his use of metaphors to describe the lady in this situation. ALOT and I re-iterate ALOT of ladies and some Men are like that these days.May God send the right kind of people our way everyday.

Holawalay Walex said...

I LOVE THIS POST, THE FEMI REALLY MADE SOME MAJOR POINT, I AM SO DISAPPOINTED IN ALOT OF PPLES COMMENT AGAINST FEMI'S WRITE UP...THO I M NOT REALLY SURPRISED, BECAUSE MOST OF THOSE THAT WENT AGAINST FEMI WRITE UP ARE LITTLE KID INSIDE AND HAVENT SEENLIFE... SO I M NOT REALLY SURPRISED... BUT FEMI U SAID WELL....MOST GURLS OUT THERE ARE DESTROYER IN ALL RAMIFICATION AND AS A STAR U NEED TO BE CAREFUL THE SEXY LADY U CHOOSE, ITS A GAME THAT HAPPEN TO THE GREATEST STARS IN UNITED STATES

Anonymous said...

Femi has just hinted he has a skeleton in his cupboard,he may actually have wife/woman beating personality hiding somewhere in him.it doesn't matter whatever a woman or somebody has done,a man shud learn to exert control on himself no matter what...

Anonymous said...

Mr Femi, not seeking too much attention in the media, abeg go rest!

Anonymous said...

U R AN IDIOT. U sound stupid and ignorant. If this is how u rationalize things, I feel sorry for ur daughter.

Anonymous said...

Thank you jare! Your head dey there omoluwabi!

Anonymous said...

Leleye's Comment is subject to Interpretation. If you have not been there you may not be able to relate with. this same case could have played out like this one:
sunnewsonline.com/new/cover/jealous-wife-kills-senators-aide/

Anonymous said...

Sha I don't blame kayode. Its facebook I blame. If not for facebook who wants to hear ur yeye opinon. Hisssss

Anonymous said...

Who are you to Judge him Linda.Freedom of speech and expression.

Anonymous said...

You all that made comments against Fani Kayode's state are all piece of shit,no brain at all,read over again,maybe you all didn't understand some of his English,I also very sure majority of the people who made the comments must be females,... This is a real thing and all what he said is true,this is an open site,we do not need to embarrass people on this site, Men please go through this again...
Any woman that stirs up your anger and constantly provokes your wrath ought to be avoided like a plague. It is those that bring peace and tranquility into our lives that we should cherish. (You guys,don't dull,if you are great people would look for a way to bring you down,and the greatest weapon of Destruction is women,
Look at this again guys,...

Only God knows who sent this creature from the sea into this great man’s life just to destroy it. For Pistorius it is all over. In one moment of blind rage he has lost everything and he has brought

shame, disgrace, sorrow and infamy upon his name and that of his family. The blood he has shed will speak against him and his lineage forever. And all because of a sexy and pretty little model

who the devil sent his way.
May the Lord deliver us all from the daughters of Jezebel, Delilah, Athalia and Yemoja".

Don't dull,na the best of the best thing him talk,

Folafoluwa said...

Considering FFK'S point of view... the girl probably provoked Oscar. She brought out the worst in him.

Nonsense!

So if someone insults you, the next sensible (or reasonable) action is to cock a gun and give 2 headshots and 2 other shots to support the headshots? Is this FFK mad?

Hear this criminal defending another criminal ooo! Wonders will never end in Nigeria.

Hear him talk as if he has lived with
Oscar before! Mtchewwwwww!!

Pls LIBers, don't ever forget that mental illness is on the rise and it has grades and levels.

FFK *IS* suffering from a rare form of neurosis. Trust me. Just analyze and scrutinize his sweetly-worded but senseless posts.

Anonymous said...

you ladies are angry because most of u are sent also to destroy men's lives and u are all exposed. Men should be careful and avoid women that provoke them to anger. Fani Kayode is right.

Ikenga Charles Ijioma said...

Ladies and Gentlemen,
What is actually disturbing here is that this generation lack spiritual insight. Kayode was talking spiritual and most of you are still meddling in this matter physically.The athlete could not have ordinarily shot his lover! He is a victim of a spiritual attack! Had he delivered himself from the power of anger,he couldn't have shot the woman;Even if he realized himself early,he has no business frolicking and indulging in alcohols so much as to loose his mind. That is his end. I agree totally with Femi Fani Kayode. And inasmuch as I'm not here to hold brief for Chief Femi Fani Kayode,(his media and public affairs managers know what to do)he is not a thief,no court has convicted him yet. So let us desist from hiding behind the screens of computers to insult people.

Anonymous said...

Don't really blame Femi, can't expect less from a former tenant of the famous Yaba psychiatric home.

Anonymous said...

Abi ooo

Babart said...

I think as much as you guys are crucifing FFK, lets take a moment and realize that a partner will either bring out the best or the worst in you. I pray I don't get involved with a woman that will bring out my worst side and flaws. Amen. It was indeed a tragegy for both.

Anonymous said...

i hope he says thesame thing when his daughter annoys her husband and he shoots her. u know its very easy to yan in another persons case.

Anonymous said...

Ghyyyy

Anonymous said...

Why now

Anonymous said...

Whyyy

Anonymous said...

Whyyy

Anonymous said...

Yes, your point taken.. But, is that point enough reason to take a life? The young man should have left the woman for another beauty. There are loads of other beautiful women out there that will love to date him. The mistake he made has destroyed him. THESE SHOULD BE A LESSON FOR US MEN. IF A MAN IS NOT HAPPY WITH HIS PARTNER, LEAVE HER. THERE ARE MANY OTHER WOMEN IN THE WORLD. NO POINT FIGHTING/BEATING THEM. JUST MOVE ON. WE DON'T OWN WOMEN. THEY'RE GOD'S CREATION. IF A RELATIONSHIP DOES NOT WORK, FIND ANOTHER ONE. THE PROCESS OF FINDING ANOTHER LOVE IS FUN. TRUST ME GUYS...

Anonymous said...

It is clear that Femi Kani Kayode is not having the best of marriage.He literally penned what he is passing through in his home on his FB page,merely replacing "me" with "Pistorius"

Anonymous said...

i'm disappointed in him

danexd said...

Femi Fani Kayode said it plainly as it is. Ladies.....tell urself the truth....i have seen a very gentle guy slowly turned to an aggressor by his wife. As a lady you choose who to be....either a daughter of jezeebel or Esther or Ruth or Sarah or Eve....ladies the choice is used.

Jaja said...

I knew the man is as useless as two left feet. I once had a twitter spat with him where he was arguing that Nazis were executing Jews because they killed Jesus Christ and not because of Hitler's hatred for them.

p said...

You and your husband are foolish. In western culture of which most southafricans embrace, age in relationships is not even an issue. You are a foolish couple

p said...

You and your husband are foolish. In western culture of which most southafricans embrace, age in relationships is not even an issue. You are a foolish couple

Anonymous said...

Why are you all shocked? This is coming from a wife beater. FFK beat his 2nd wife and mother of 3 of his daughters almost to the point death.The woman had to runaway. So any woman that is agreeing with his write up should go and have her head examined! What a dumb fool.

Anonymous said...

And this so called FFK has 4 daughters!I feel bad for them. I seriously feel bad for his offspring.Bible or no bible. How dare he blame this woman for her death. In this world, there are people that will provoke you, it is up to you to step away and remove yourself from the situation.The bible has acknowledged that there are wicked people in this world,does it mean that we should kill them? A woman is dead and this agbaya fool oshi is blaming the woman. Some people will use the bible to justify shit.Use your brains.

Anonymous said...

me sef blame the woman. how double amputee,,,2ly doubly go take kill able bodied pesin

Anonymous said...

Madam Maximus, you were not in the relationship, its totally wrong for you to make such assumptions
Even if she 'uttered some painful words' like you said he should just have ended the relationship.
Its so easy to sit here and speculate but always know that there's no justification for this. Please have some respect for the dead

Anonymous said...

Maximus I just can't deal with this theory of yours.

Anonymous said...

She's been modelling since she was 14, she's SA face of Avon, had a reality show for about 4 years so I'll have to fault your wild theory that she was with him for the money.
and even if she was a she devil, couldn't he just end things with her? He had to kill her instead and you can actually justify this?
Aunty maximus, na wa

DickTatOR said...

Yup,he sounds like a sandwich short of a picnic.

kingsley diala said...

noting much happened there to me.

www.kingsleydiala.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

...yet there r some element of truth in his write-up...

Anonymous said...

Guyz an ladies****seriously he's right.u don't have to curse him simply bcoz u r a woman

Anonymous said...

This Fani Kayode guy is taking himself too seriously and as such needs to be examined by doctors. First it was that Obama is an agent of 666 and now the poor late model. Obviously something is wrong with him. Please WATCH what next he will be uttering... it's gonna be insane!

Anonymous said...

Disgusting & illogical ramblings of a twisted mind. Linda did you say this man used to be the Nigerian minister for aviation?. Incredible! Those who appointed him must be even worse than himself, no wonder Nigeria is so prehistoric and barbaric; with this kind of creatures in power what do you expect, yet more of them still roam the corridors of power in this land. He bases his condemnation of Oscar Pistorius on what the Police think and say. Police statements do not matter, an accused person is considered innocent until proved guilty in a competent court. So its only the judge that has the last say on the fate of Oscar Pistorius. His reference to Reeva Steenkamp as a "creature from the sea" is just too sick to merit any comment.

Anonymous said...

wow!!! was it really fani dat wrote ds?????? wow ! wow! wow!!!!....
am so dissapointed!!..i just lost al d respect av got for him!!

and he has a wife and daughter abi?? wat a shame!!

Anonymous said...

Nothing is wrong with Femi's write up. He has given his advice, is either you take it or leave it. Truth is bitter. His advice for men is to be careful about the kind of women they spend their time with, this is also applicable to women, they should be careful about the kind of man they keep. Any man/woman that gets provoke easily or gets you provoke always or those that can not controls their anger should be avoided not to be manage unless they can work on themselves. As far as I am concern, both destiny has been cut-short.

Anonymous said...

i am surprised that Femi Kayode still has time for facebook comments.I blame the EFCC for the shoody job in prosecuting him. if he is in jail for all the fraud he committed we would not be subjected to such jibberish. He should worry about his own issues and thank God that he is not a South African.

GrimReaper

Anonymous said...

yeyyyy

Anonymous said...

As usual the comments are more infuriating than the post. Nigerians are wicked human beings and we do not value life at all. How can people say he is making sense? By saying men can be provoked into a murderous rage he has said it is almost understandable that a human being was KILLED. Every time Linda has a new post about a man or woman killing their partner. How can that be okay? Anyway at least we know that this man is capable of killing his wife if she talks too much. Shior.

TruelyTopaz said...

pure ignorance just plain crazy...why would he write such..what about if the victim was his daughter or blood relative...would he then say she was jezebel/delilah abi men dont have sense to kno when their buttons r being pushed. why dont ppl jump in front of an oncoming vehicle...that is using the God given sense we were born with; likewise he could av restrained from killing his gf...why not walk out...there is no excuse for murder...non at all.

Anonymous said...

so mr femi if ur wife provoke u the next thing for you is to shot her in head?or if it happen to be ur daughter that was shoot are you going to give this kinda comment???ple think before you write we r talking about human life not an animal....so disappointed

Anonymous said...

The guy did a wrong thing that is why he is crying in court,he should have control is anger no matter what....shooting someone in d head cos u r tempt is wrong....mr femi should thinking before putting something on internet cos it travel fast.......we should all learn how to control ourselves not only @ home but in any place we find ourselves,mr femi didnt control himself before putting this on internet.....so disappointed

Sarra Habib said...

The statement is well said. She could be dead but there is a message in FKK's statement to the living- BE CAREFUL OF STRANGE WOMEN. They ruin anybody that's with them no matter the achievements. History is there for us all.

lekan owolabi said...

linda d man has goh point he aint sayn al women he is poitn out d strnge ones among ya. PAX VOBISCUM FANI-KAYODE

lekan owolabi said...

linda d man has goh point he aint sayn al women he is poitn out d strnge ones among ya. PAX VOBISCUM FANI-KAYODE

Anonymous said...

Fact is, we don't know what the truth is yet.
If what fani kayode said turns out to be what actually happened, then: women, stay away from a man that can't be a man even if you try to make him feel less than a man.
And men, stay away from a woman that you can't be a man around even if she tries to make you feel less than a man.
It's quite sad, but we tend to do unjustifiable things when slightly provoked. Best precaution would be just to avoid them
I guess fani kayode has spoken from an angle which he thinks is the truth (rather myopic in my opinion)

Anonymous said...

Whatever happened to individual opinions, can anyone help? And that the dead is gone means we should all mourn and never say a thing or two, even if it will help some? We can all be wrong fit in other people's lives but doesn't mean we are all sent to destroy them, though. Celebrities are men and women of like passion as we all are, nothing more or else about them. But those who tr to fake it, get to pay for an unbalanced life.
@iwugideon

Kasali Ademola said...

the main is mentally derailed, no need of wasting our precious time in reading his after thought comments, it is only in nigeria that a certified ex-mad man can become a minister, thanks to Old fool like Obasanjo who appoint him.

Theo said...

You have no doubt, Mr Kayode? You have no doubt! Really that's the best you can do? A woman is killed and you blame her for her own death because you consider the killer a world famous "greatest athlete". What is the matter with Nigerian men and the little value they have for women? I am totally shocked by his comments. But I just want you to know, Mr Femi Fani Kayode, no man has the right to take life and there is absolutely no excuse for doing so.
If you can excuse murder, I just wonder what your thoughts are on rape.

Anonymous said...

Linda it might seem offensive, but he is damn right some women can be beautifully devilish.

Woman speaking....

Solemn Concept said...

i really dont know y all the beef talk...as everybodi is seaking their views, im sure the dude is sumwhere not being bothered about all the crap you're all saying because if you take a good look at what he said...he was just stating his own 'OPINION'.he didnt go to CNN or BBC to announce the bull crap he said on FB...abeg make una free the BEAST joor

Anonymous said...

Always look at both sides of the story, i honestly see nothing wrong with Fani's comments....he is speaking his mind maybe from experience..you need to be married to/dating a rebellious or bad mouthing, disrespectful woman for you to know what provocation is......I think women take the piss sometimes with the whole leverage of men not hitting women....well....shouldn't there then be law that women shouldn't insult or provoke men if they know they dont have as much strength as men...men were blessed with strength women with their mouth to talk... same way a man should control his anger and not a hit a woman...i believe same also goes to a woman not to provoke or disrespect her man.....if this is followed i am sure we wont be getting all these abuse or killings!!....you all that are attacking Fani, let the men amongst you pray you dont meet or marry such ladies...ladies that blame him....i hope you are not like the disrespectful ladies (Check your self) or maybe you havent met such ladies!!!

Anonymous said...

I heard from a a family member of FFK that one of FFK's girlfriend made away with his N200m cash when he was Minister for aviation. So you can now understand his rage over women.

Anonymous said...

Na wah oo, this fani kayode man really goof o. What his write up indicate is a clear case of our Niaja Home video addict. I sorry for am

chipins said...

Sad coming from such a person who was even a former minister. May God save us in this country. I'm ashamed at his write up.

Anonymous said...

All you men or women giving pathetic excuses and supporting what that oloshi said, read my words carefully: IF YOU DO NOT LIKE WHERE YOU ARE MOVE!!!! YOU ARE NOT A TREE!!! dating an excuse for a human being doesn't mean you should kill them, if you have had enough leave! it is not by force to stay...You kill someone you are a MURDERER whether you are disabled, a superstar or a religious leader...mscheeeeewwww!!! All women beware of men with that crazy man's mentatlity before you end up in the mortuary while he blames the devil or other ogbanje's...anuofia, anu mpama, ozu ni yi *kmt*

sammyzeus said...

nah wah ooo 9ja una no dey read before una comment ???that man "Fani"is a well respected and educated man..he was not insultn any1 but sayn a simple truth that many of you knw...the sports man was wrong and he accepted that but behind close doors "fani" is sayn d lady is an angel of darkness who was sent to destroy d mans destiny which i support that motion..d rest is history..#singed out

Anonymous said...

i wish to appeal to the Fani Kayode family to pls put this man in Aro b4 he kills someone. he is obviously blaming the lady for her own violent death and this shows its something hes capable of doing. hes justifying Pistorius action. This is no joke pls. family members should rally round and put him in Aro b4 its too late.

Anonymous said...

Ok Femi, the lady that fleeced u was from the seabed abi? u weak moron. you love women so much u cant control urself, now u r saying they r mammy water. stop blaming other people for ur weaknesses. woman wrapper. mental man.

Anonymous said...

All of us saint Kayode Satan. Lets not loose the message in the heat of our blind arguments. Ladies be careful not to drive guys crazy. Guys avoid people that make you mad like a plague. Shooting 4 times was an act of madness trigger. It was triggered badly and all caution was thrown out. FFK don't be judgemental. Linda be very careful too

Jason Scot said...

Nice critic of such unreasonable remark by Fani Kayode. He must have thinking from the less sensitive rather intelligent portion of his brains. No ones life deserve to be taken by any. God created all to leave peacefully and flourish.

Anonymous said...

obviously you have murderous tendencies and should be avoided like a plague , you are no doubt a narrow minded egotistical bastard.it is quite shocking that you have these thoughts and u have the impetus to write it down for the public to see how ur sick mind works , provoke? you say? FOUR SHOTS! she even ran into the bathroom and it wasnt enough for the murdering scum ? you should be ashamed....

Anonymous said...

This is one of the main reasons why Africa and Nigeria in particular is not developing. We are too sentimental in our outlook and analysis of issues. We don't try to look beyond the known into the unknown.

This short piece written by maximus is so excellent I'm tempted to say it is flawless. Even a mad man needs to ne provoked before he acts or reacts. Don't we reason that it takes more than meets the eye for someone to shoot a fellow being at short range FOUR times - that's shows rage overtook him (justified or not) and he reacted out of a "brushed" ego.

Something more than we know happened and that "X theory" MUST be solved, leaving nothing out, before we can finally judge.

Omotayo said...

It is either Mr Femi Fani-Kayode is related to Oscar Pistorius or he worked in Oscar's house as a domestic help for him to have been able to know both parties very well, hence his description of the deceased.

mike uche said...

wuld u bliv that their ar tyms wen u get so angry wit a woman that if u had a gun u may shut her,but his mistak was avin a gun wen u can't control ur anger

Orange drugs said...

Why do we crucify a man who has said nothing but the truth. He advised us to beware of people that brings the beast out of us. It could be a man or a woman. Hence, no need for sentiment.

Anonymous said...

Pls let her go , you too must have provoked her, not all women are doormats, some speak for themselves. you must be stupid for attracting someone like that into your life.

Anonymous said...

Tragically for millions of girls and women, this misogynistic attitude is pervasive in Africa (I was born and grew up there). Whatever the reasons behind this particular crime, violence and discrimination against women are never deserved or excusable. Everybody is responsible for their own actions and should show respect for the lives and dignity of other human beings whatever their gender.

Mena UkodoisReady said...

Insensitive misogynist!

Anonymous said...

pls God didnt punish him with daughters biko

that said i dislike the very racist white south africans but ffk is very stupid with his statement

Anonymous said...

This FFK of a fool once insulted Gen Gowon for daring yo oppose Obasnjo's third term bid....The same Gowon who saved his father frm being killed by the coupist of 1966 at Dodan barracks.

Anonymous said...

What a fol you are to talk like that. You are a male chauvenist. Do you not know Oscar has a history which is not perfect. One of threatening people and also accused of letting a gun go off in a restaurant. You Fani go back to your cave and stay there.

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