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Dear Linda ikeji,I am a fan of our blog, and I often visit your blog.
Please Linda, I need your readers’ advice on my indecisive situation over two girls currently in my life.
The story is this: I travelled to UK in 2003 to study Medicine and Surgery, at a top UK university. While I was in first year, I met this British born Nigerian girl; she is from a very wealthy family. The girl is full of intelligence; she graduated as the best medical student.
After our graduation, she asked which area I would like to specialise. I told her, I just want to be a GP, and work in any small General Practice office in London. As for her, she wanted to be a Surgeon or Anaesthesiologist. We pursued our aspirations, and now she is indeed a Surgeon and I work as a GP in a local GP Medical centre.
Since two years ago, our relationship has been going town hill, my GF does not do normal things she use to do to look prettier; She has stopped doing her hair, she is always at the hospital, and she has put on weight a lot because she stopped exercising. I even spent £2,000 to install all sorts of gym equipments in a spare room at our house, yet she won’t exercise.
Here is where the story got awkward; five months ago, I was at my office a Brazilian single mum came in with her daughter. Her beauty is incomparable. Her ass is something from outside this planet. I checked her daughter and found out she had influenza, after prescribing medications for her; I could not control myself, I asked the lady for her number. We started texting each other, she told me she is a divorcee, and she also has no job. Her sources of income are jobseekers allowance and child benefit. Yet, I found myself felling for her. She has learnt how to cook Nigerian Soup via youtube just to impress me.
I am confused. At the moment, I love the Brazilian girl, but she has no career. My girlfriend has a career but she doesn’t know how to cook, and she is not half pretty as the Brazilian girl. If I were to brake-up with my girlfriend, we will surely have a legal battle on who would have a lion share over our £550,000 house. But the property is not what bothers me at the moment. What bothers me is to make the right choice. Sex with the Brazilian girl is a dynamite..
Attached here is the back view picture of the Brazilian girl; she took this photo when she went to her country on a holiday. I sent the photo on a UK based blog requesting for an advice, people were busy downloading and uploading the photo on their facebook instead of giving me an advice. Based on our ages, i am 29years old; my gf is 27 years old. The Brazilian lady is 30 years old. What would you do if you were in by situation?
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You should stay with your gf, if she doesn't know how to cool and her weight is outta control those are things you should talk to her about. Those are just minor issues that can be solved.
As for your Brazilian chick, she's looking for someone to take care of her and her daughter aka she's a gold digger. She has no substance to offer you accept sex and a yansh that will soon deflate. Please think with the right head
ya just a confused human being... ismh, so cos yaff seen big yansh nw, ya nt thinking right again.
Men I tell you what...I will go with the Brazilian girl. It is a carnal decision though but these days who cares...my happiness...life is too short to hang unto a less rewarding affair.
u are a greedy man...who wants to eat his cake and have it....
I suggest u leave both or @least try make ur old r/ship work.u re only infatuated by d Brazilian girl cos u re sooo in2 her beauty & soon u'll get tired & want a life! She may b a gold digger.make ur gf kno dat if she doesn't change u'll leave her.
The Brazilian girl’s behind is amazing! Try talking to your surgeon babe to step up her game.
Chai see backass! Its obvious dat dis is lust,u ar just after d body. U can discuss d problem u av wit ur girl.let ur understand shes goin out of shape am sure she will adjust.btw follow ur heart gbam.
I will drop by later to read pple 's dishonest opinion.
You are a doctor and you can't spell breakup. (brake is the word you used) Now that's off my chest.
You seem to have lost your way. And I am sure your girlfriend at home is working hard at being a doctor and not doing the small things like hair etc. I do understand they are important. But building a long term career is slightly more important than that.
Seeing as you are already having sex with the dynamite lady, what exactly as you asking for?
Do you want us to agree with you and say you should go for the Brazilian lady? BTW, it's a small world. I bet your girlfriend would have found out by now.
I was going to launch into abuse but a lot more people would do that. A word is enough for the wise. I can't believe that a man as educated as you say you, can be so fickle. But hey!
My response to you is simple, you are in lust, not love. You better tell your girlfriend you want her to fix herself up, because to tell you the truth- the brazilian woman most likely wants you because of you are doctor and what you can provide her with. I will tell you to search your heart and use your brain. Sounds like you thinking with your dick instead of your brain. Its sad you have already cheated. Physical beauty does not last forever. And believe me I would not blame the nigerian girl if she comes after full force. Btw you know its a form of malpractice that you applied there, you can be sued if the hospital finds out. Second the Brazilian woman can always so for sexual harassment if she doesnt get what she wants, her words against yours. My advice is end it with the gf if you dont love her anymore, and move on, dont continue cheating on her. As a surgeon myself I know how hard it is to make time for myself or even my fiancee, to the extent that we currently taking a breake from eachother,as to reevaluate if truly he can handle a life of me not always being at home, but trying to make a life for us. Good luck.
First of all, I'm really starting to wonder if you truly are a physician because I would think that you would know better and be sensible enough not to put the babes pic on all these online sites for "advice"...how do you think she'd feel if she ever found out.
Next, I'm sure you aware that it is totally unethical for a physician to break the professional relationship that exists between them and their patient by asking for her number and texting each other and especially publicly proclaiming about how her behind is...Hope you realize that if this gets out you can be suspended and possible lose your medical license because this is simply UNprofessional. Are you really willing to lose ALL you've worked hard for over a piece of "ass" that you're not even sure is real sef (bcuz that thing looks suspect, lol) and a pretty face??? Abeg don't let LUST of the flesh destroy your destiny, I wanna believe that you're better than that.
Plus, I smell some gold digging tendencies here but I might be wrong but just be careful sha...My advice to you is to COMMUNICATE better with your significant other and tell her how these changes in her looks, availability and behavior really make you feel. Tell her that as a man, you do need her attention every now and then and yes it's understandable that she's a Surgeon but any woman that has Wisdom/Common Sense would try to keep her home in order first before career chases her man away. I would suggest that you say these words calmly and in an understanding manner so she doesn't get defensive but still make sure that your concerns are carried across appropriately. That's all, wish you all the best.
Such class-ass!That ass must have inspired d word asstonutt!oh sorry what were we supposed to give advice on again??*places bb against wall n grabs baby oil*
I personally do not think you love either woman, and this is why:
Your first girl is very smart and hardworking, most likely translating to financial success. Your love for her was probably about the fact that she is a strong woman who can hold her own and you ignored the fact that she can't cook. So when her beauty starts to fade, because you didn't love the person inside her (a.k.a inner beauty), your feelings for her are fading also.
Now the second girl: Very beautiful, can cook, great sex, but has nothing strong going for herself and has a son. So now you think the grass is greener on the other side. But let me ask you this: If she got into a fatal accident that deformed her body and face, paralyzed her and left her bedridden( which means no sex and no cooking..lol) WOULD YOU STILL WANT HER? ....Probably not, beacause once again you don't love what's inside her but you are more blinded by the physical and mortal benefits.
I may be wrong, but in reading your story, not once did hear you say anything about their personalities or how great any of them are as a person.
CONCLUSION: When you truly love someone, nothing can keep you away and you will never imagine your life without that person. If you loved your current girl, you might have been temporarily distracted by the second girl, but you will NEVER EVER consider leaving her!!! Because she will be able to fill a void that no beauty, sex, cooking or any other attribute can fill....So stop wasting her time. You asking this question clearly shows how you feel about her.
As for the second girl, every thing may seem great right now...the grass always looks greener on the other side because the grass on the other side has shit(poop..aka manure) on it. So you may go on to chose her, but because you loved her for all the wrong reasons, you still won't be satisfied. Secondly, the God given soul mate for you can NEVER be the person you cheat with!!...try it and let us know years later how you end up!!
BUTTOM LINE: Leave both girls alone!! Learn to love a woman for her true inner beauty. The day you learn how to do that,you will never ever be confused.
God's blessings.
Relationship matter get as e be,dis is why divorce is everywhere bcos people date for beauty n money wise,if you can date or marry for Personality you will see d difference. So pls stick to ur medical gf and work on her. Be creative not destructive.
This one is a simple answer now, if u don't care about you £550k mortgage with your Britico-Naija babe go for the Brazilian chic now. Mehn, I know that ass is confusing my judgement but damn it! I'm sticking to her *final answer*
lol! This story is a lie!! lol how can a graduate write brake-up .... hahahaha Linda Ikeji!!
Men sha , u can still fix ur galfrd,sit her down and talk some senses to her brains . 2 me, it seems ur mind is made up with da brazillian gf. Fingers still crossed....waiting 4 more comments .
you say you are a Doctor right and you are seeking for relationship advice from blog to blog I don't think you are okay..don"t you have close friends,a mother,a father ,Pastor,imam or since you are in uk a couples therapist ..you just want to show us your babes kardashian behind... you are not serious.....please linda spare us all this crappy stories
Honestly, whoever makes you happy I would say. I don't understand why your current GF won't take care of herself, not just to impress u but for her own darn self. What will she do when you guys get married?
As for your Brazilian bombshell you are only lusting after her cause ur GF is acting like a slob (sorry for sounding harsh)and as a jobless person she has enough time on her hands to learn every Nigerian dish on youtube. I hope you know that you will become her ATM machine once you pick her (something you are probably not used to) and if you are to break up (correct spelling) she may be desperate and try to milk you since she's kinda broke so just make sure she's not that type of person. Her big behind and dynamite explosions will not be on your mind if that ever happens.
Concluding notes: My fellow ladies biko try to take care of yourselves. Don't be too comfortable...you have to keep the flames alive or this other girl will :'(
Brov,this seems to me more like lust not love but i don't know how long you've known her.things change and people do.You should try confiding more in your girlfriend and know what the problem is. The ball is in ur court.
Brov,this seems to me more like lust not love but i don't know how long you've known her.things change and people do.You should try confiding more in your girlfriend and know what the problem is. The ball is in ur court.
U sure shld go 4 ur first gf, if d brazilian could leave her first hubby, then she wil eventualy dump u 2 someday, as 4 ur gf i luv d passion she has 4 her fellow human 2 save lives @ d expense of even her luks, leave her & u wil die unhappy
But i dont believe dis story cos i hav seen dis pic all over d net since last week even on bb. D poster use got dis pic to flaunt his own ego.
You are just carried away by her body. Sex alone is not enough to keep a relationship going. You and your girlfriend have worked together to achieve whatever you have both achieved together I believe. I know you have put in some effort in encouraging her to keep fit.Let her understand the need for her to keep in shape, you should encourage her. Have you found out if there's anything really wrong somewhere that has made her to stop keeping her appearance fly? Encourage your girl to improve in the kitchen. If you are a good cook yourself, you could teach her to be a better cook.Don't get carried away by some booty? Relationships that work are those both partners are committed to and are both ready to work at. I believe you and your girl can work things out. I just think you are just carried away by the Brazilian's big ass and the sex you are getting from her.The Brazilian will of course do anything to keep you na, she is desperate. She is on benefits, she has a daughter and you appear to be financially stable.
This one looks like lust. Let him follow her. When the girl is ready to walk away she will disappear and will not be traceable. With Nigerians, at least you know where to find someone's parents even if it's in the village!
Brazilians are very popular for butt implants. Walk their streets and you wonder why they all have nice backsides & small waists. Cheap surgery!
All I can say is that....follow ur heart
Dis ikebe no go put u for trouble o! On a serious noten I think you're just infatuated with the brazilian lady. Kapish!
Okay dat ass is distracting,and am a gal #nohomo, but I fink u shld stick wiff d gal dat makes u happy, but guy? Its either a typographical error cos ur english aint dat clean 4 sum1 who studied medicine in d UK
You can't be a Yoruba boy, those ones are trained to be able to separate wife from side dish. You will soon learn the true meaning of all that glitters is not gold and why she is a single woman with no job on welfare after you leave your girlfriend for her, that is if your girlfriend does not wise up and leave you first. Why is she divorced, single and on welfare and yet so damn beautiful? Is her ex really that much of a fool, maybe you should find out before making a decision, you may be surprised to find out that her ex has downgraded physically and upgraded personality wise. You will tire of sex and then what, where's the ambition and drive, will she challenge you to move up in your career? I may be wrong though and maybe I'm being quick to pass judgment, which I try not to do most times, but I will leave you with this much: "All that glitters is not gold"
My brother this is a reeeeh dilemma mehn.
Sorry oh! I kent hep you!
Lez go Brazilia!
JESOX CHOI,LOL WAT A WAY TO ASK FOR AN ADVICE WEN U VE A PIX OF SUCH BUMBUM ATTACHED, ITS SO OBVIOUS THATS WAT U R ATTRACTED TO ABEG GO SIDOWN JOR. ITS NOW U KNW UR GF HAS PUT ON WEIGHT CONFUSED DUDE
It was not clear from your emssage whether you are already married to your Nigerian doctor girlfriend, or you guys just co-habitate.
If you are not married, please go Brazillian if that is what your heart wants.
If you are already married to the Nigerian babe however, I don't have a solution to proffer. You are probably entangled for life.
Linda, am sorry this story no fly at all. This guy is not a medical doctor. Someone who schooled in a top uk university to study medicine would not speak such crass english. smh .
Is this a real issue or just someone throwing a story out there.
Here goes..
after sex then what next. it wears off after a while and you will be stuck with an undeveloped mind with a dropping butt because gravity it going to take its course.
Obviously, your in-home girl friend doesn't know how you feel (really) and something has made her lose interest in taking care of herself. You might want to find out what the issue is. maybe she has given up because you relationship has not developed beyond both of you having you cake and eating it.
This tell you something about yourself, you are going to cheat on anybody you get married to unless, you start practicing some discipline. Secondly, if it is not weight gain of your partner it will be something else. So start looking within to figure out your problem. thirdly, if your partner's weight gain is a turn off (it can be a real problem), then let her know so she can make an informed decision.
forth, I don tire to dey talk.
Idiot. You're not half as smart as you claim to be. Pschew. Moving on...
I really hope its nt dat a** dat u ar attracted 2. I'll rather suggest u try 2 talk tins out wit ur 1st friend. Bt even if u wil follow d brazilian, check her xter very wel. Bt dat a*s henn, hmmm
Sounds like a tall tale O. Since u r already having sex with the brazillian, I suppose u already made your choice.
Whats important to you at the moment? that should define your next course of action. Clearly the brazillian's backside has got u in a trance.
But like I said, thats a really tall tale.
abeg,commot its the gunshing that wants to kill you.your gf is busy building a future and you are busy scoping bakasi.smh! if you really like big bakasi buy brazilian pant for your girlfriend after all karen igho wears them. oloshi
My brother, keep running, run and never look back. that Brazilian ass u saw will not last forever u will get tired of it and u will find out that u don't love her. better stick to ur Nigerian woman, at least both of u r from the same country home. pls forget that ass u saw, there is nothing there at all. it is obvious that u dont love the Brazilian lady. though that ass is wicked with NAFDAC number but the content will expire, It will make ur boy to have a standing ovation when u dont expect
GO FOR THE BRAZILIAN JAREEEEEEE......
MY GUY NO MISS YOUR LUCK OH
i guess this is just for laughs right, cos if not this is very disappointing. First and foremost are u sure u studied medicine cos u sure need to go back to school to learn how to spell. for your question dude get ur head out of the clouds and start thinking with ur heart and head not the snake between ur legs. u know what is real but u just too stupid to see it. i guess u want a liability not an independent woman such a fool.
Hmmm! Dilemma indeed...I believe ur story though I dont believe d girl in d pix is d girl in ur story, I'd say, follow ur heart.
chei! omo mehnnnnn!!! this has got to really think twice ooo.... damnnnn!! that back is soooo tempting. whew! *sweating*. okay here is it; infatuation get so rosy at fist, with everyone trying to watch their back and playing perfect. my candid question is: are you sure this new woman wont be worse-off? try to test her in several ways including her patience and see her real person, then you will see the true beauty. it's not bad when you're choosing between two, but use wisdom.
---AYOPEPPER
I will advice you and your gf go for counselling or do whatever to make it work. Your new found Brazilian lady is a divorcee, have you asked what led to her divorce? Don't let that 'ikebe' carry you away ooo.
Have been with my boyfriend since i was 18 years, and we've been together for about 6years now. At one point I wanted to cheat on him because I was finding him attractive (back then),and there was this white guy who really liked and find me attractive me and i was really attracted to him as well, but i thought to myself what if this guy doesnt treat me the same as my boyfriend so i decided to turned down the white guy. I said to my self look is one thing, but when a guy treats you like a queen is the most important thing in the world so I decided never to cheat on him. Up till now we are stronger than ever, and now I can't keep my eyes off him:) ( I have the dopest boyfriend on the planet) .so dude, think before u do something stupid that u will later regret in your life because look can always fade..xoxo
Well my advice for u is to sit ur gf and talk to her rather than falling for somelow life.marriage is not all about beauty and sex
Come on, be a grown up for once and act like a real man. Why on earth would you want to deny yourself the pleasure of that fine Brazilian booty? Forget the loyalty and commitment bull crap and enjoy life while it lasts. Rest assured that a woman will leave you if she finds someone else she would rather be with. Forget values and go for what you can touch and feel, because in the end those are the only things we can truly be sure of.
omo, that yash na die. No be your fault jare. Enjoy the Kongo while it lasts, but do not make the mistake and marry that babe o. You will surely regret it. it is sweet now, but wen you marry her, you will find out that all that gliters is not gold. Remember, you are not the first guy to behold that ass in her 30+ yrs. But my guy, i agree with you sha, that ass na fire. Chei!!!!!
"Advise is what you ask for when you already know what you want to do." So goes a saying. I only feel sorry for you that you've married a woman that prioritizes her career over her home. The Brazilian girl must go. She's great alright. But Your self-respect and vows are greater. Be strong for your wife's weaknesses and take her and yourself to a good psychologist/marriage counselor.
olosi, u wan because of tot abandon reality for unreality - haba - see d ikebe self, u be olojukokoro, say d truth u never loved ur Dr girlfriend from d start, otherwise there's no way one ass mama can steal ur heart away like that, dynamite ko, dynamountain ni, so who told u her ass is gonna be like this forever after giving u all ur kids? mmm am sorry for u, better sit ur gf down and tell her what u feel on how u can work out on ur relationship cause u just gonna run ur life down wt a brazilian without a future and a kid and after that she might even divorce u fast for d little change u have
Jeeeeez! Is this ass for real? Gosh! I don't want to believe this is someone's figure! Heheheee, my man, u r in hot soup. That said, u should discipline urself and know wats a priority for u. Sex is not everything. Very soon, that ass won't matter.wat u want in life in ur woman is wat wud matter. Look out for this in d 2 women and make ur choice. I don't think its that difficult, is it?
Onye apari...yeye man! If you were truly a medical doctor, you will know that the correct spelling is "breakup" and not "brakeup". Linda, please these true life stories are no longer funny at all.:(
jesox choiiiiiiii but dis guy must b a sick dude so coz of ass u want to leave ur gf na now u knw say she don add weight. dumbass guy. all d best ooooo
All i see is a man cheating on his girlfriend with a Brazilian butt, and trying to justify his affair by blaming his girlfriend. I think your problem is you, not your girlfriend. You have the cheating syndrome. Trust me, if you have the chance, you'd still go after another woman hotter than the Brazilian girl.
You're breaking two hearts. Choose who you love most(the one with most of the qualities you want in a woman) and let the other go. It's as simple as that.
PS- Develop an exercising routine suitable and convenient for you and your now-fat girlfriend. Then, work out together, gisting or joking while at it. That way, it becomes another fun way(both of you would be looking forward to) of hanging out with each other. This tip is if she's the one you truely love more. Goodluck.
Nkwa!! Egwu!!! Ogini Na Afio? Elebe Ukwu Egbue Ewu. Choi!!! Abeg make i ask o, na person dey chop this thing? Chai!!! (licking my lips). Some people are blessed o. Kai Menini!!!
Ol boy carry go no be your fault. enjoy o'jare.
Bro... If you truly love your GF and she truly loves you as well then she should be ready to make amendment. Going after the other girl is like running after worldly things and which will surly end with world...
I so badly want to insult you and call you all sort of names, but I will hold my peace.
If your g.friend probably had the same amount of surgery the Brazilian girl had she will be very pretty too.
When you have alot of free time on your hand you can afford to accomplish alot.
Sex with her is dynamite because she is new and she probably also wants to impress you.
As it is you are already cheating on her you might as well break it off if you are not in love her, She will learn from your relationship, find closure, heal and move on.
I also believe you want a g.friend/wife that has no career or a less demanding career than what you g.friend has going on.
I hope you can afford what you are looking for.
Look, Oga....you're dilemma is just a case of bad picking. There are millions of Nigerian girls out there with bigger arses who do not have to learn cooking via YouTube. They also have a job and trust us now, we don't dull when it comes to glamming up. This brazil woman has a child and no job. She ain't even trying. Because of big ass and sex you want to change your good luck to bad abi?
Oga, if you are truly a learned man, I trust you to know the answer to your problem. Good luck.
~ Menakaya's Baby.
Even me whn be gurl confuse!!!! Oh boi... Dis one pass me I swear over to d Ikeji Voltons they shld help yu or try to...
But this is nt fair, I don't ve yarsh and this gurl inherited 50pples ass... LEBEDE!!!!!! Eyes popping out O_O
Follow your heart boy
My broda!!! That A$$ no be small tin man fit miss o lol.... But on a more serious note... The keyword here is 'LOVE' if u luv this brasilian lady,go for her (but do a background check on her to know whether she feels the same way u feel 4 her and she no get 1 kin husband 4 brasil wey go soon con show, be SHARP/SMART my guy) Best of Lucks....pal
This gist is as fake as a $3 bill! The sender is obviously seeking attention, not advise.
Bubble butt is all I gotta say...I mean how would a man comment with this infront of him,although bros,you are an unfaithful lover,you ought to know this is what you get from marrying a carreer woman,or do I sense inferiority,cos its a general africa man problem,its not like she's cheated on you or sumn..Godson.
don't tell me nobody has commented on this post? take the ass, ditch the fat babe. lol. no seriously, think of the future and don't be short sighted. who loves you more? That's who you should be with. Adios!
Guy, my advice for you is to marry that single mom, she seems much more interested in the relationship then u current GF, so therefore your happy comes first before tht 550,000
My dear this is coming from a woman not a man.My brother all that glitters is not gold,she may be pretty and has all it takes.Well if alarm blow,hunger go wire ur ass.My dear stay with ur doctor babe let her know ur fears.To start with with all her beauty,why is she not with a stable man?hmmmm,looks like them dey drum for u for ya village.Me if i be man i would rather stay with a supportive woman,cos in this life something has to give.Not easy to be high up the career step then have time to do fine babe.
To me, this is not confusing, only that you have chosen to confuse yourself probably because you don't know what you are actually looking for in a woman.
the truth is, having spent some time with the both of them, you should have known which of them suites you and that apart, I also know that you would have a set of criteria which will determine if you can afford to establish or maintain a life long relationship with a particular lady or not, that also aside.
If I will advise you at all, I would have said that; when it comes to the issues of marriage, we don't have to be shortsighted I mean, we must see beyond the physical aspect of it, mind you, I am not saying that physique is not important but it should not be the ultimate. And for me, the fact that one is already working and the other one is not yet does not mean that the one who is working is more wiser or "authentic" than the other. Now listen, the fact that one is working does not make her a woman of prospect vice versal.
as far as am concerned, once I know that a lady has prospect and I can cope with her stature, not necessarily of any "figure" I think the problem is solve. A lady may have good stature or "figure" but lack manners and not even be congenial. so the point is that you need to strike the balance and that determines your choice and remember that there is Reality and there is Ideal, so in this matter, you don't need to be Ideal what you need in order to make the right choice is Reality because if you don't face the Reality, it will strike you, you 've got to be sincere with yourself and bear in mind that you are going to face the consequence of whatever choice you make also, if you are double or triple sure that you can't manage obesity, don't go for the type and let me quickly remind you that ladies are most likely to change stature no matter what type she is either Lepa or Orobo.
conclusively what I have been saying in summary is that you don't marry a woman because of her financial status because that might be a good ground for her to be feral or nonconformist and the fact that a lady is not reach does not depict she's going to be differential or acquiesce to you. lastly I will say, discover yourself and go for your type.
follow that ass mehnn!!
neva knew UK doctors made such wicked gbagauns....nyways dis doc is confused...shag d Brazilian hottie and sort ur issues with ur babe....
don't tell me nobody has commented on this post? take the ass, ditch the fat babe. lol. no seriously, think of the future and don't be short sighted. who loves you more? That's who you should be with. Adios!
when you find out which one of them you love for who they are not what they have then you have made the right choice
love is for who someone is
lust is foe what they have or can give you
i would totally support u marry and loose all ur hard earned money for the 'fine-good in bed-can cook-jobless-single mum-fine butt' babe....because ur mind is obviously made up..ur just looking for someone to tell you issokay *rolling eyeballs*
The both of them are certainly not wife matherials but if u ask me i'd say u fire on with the Brazillian that makes u happy and loads of fun but the littel u said about her means of income pops red light. There is 95% possibility she is a career gold digger and a Ho.
As for the workerholic spoilt brat; u are bound to have loads of problems with her either in the long or short run cos u dont find her attractive anymore and not homely. So dont even think about it.
My Advice is if u want all these qualities in one woman, beauty, intelligence,career, homemaking, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in bed: Guy, u need to come home here in Nigeria. Our girls are wonderful. Yes and i am one of them. I just wouldnt want the exposure else i wold have posted my number. good luck.
Ify.
ogbeni ma lo no ge re ma lo slow follow dis brazilian girls briefly.
Are u sure u are nt lusting afta dz bootilicious woman...cos smtyms closeness mataz in any relatnshp & u also rili nid 2 spend enuf tym 2geda b4 u cn ascertain wat u feel...wat if 2mao u see anoda woman wit a bigger ass & more appealing figure, will u also break up wif dz brazillian gal. I ll suggst u try & wrk tinz out wit ur gf 1st & iron it out clearly & wit luv b4 u decide ur nxt step...if it dsnt wrk,then u may proceed. God Bless u!
You are simply lusting after the lady because it all seems like you are attracted to her physique.Try to look beyond the lust you fell and you will definately see the true picture. I believe the new lady has made you to start seeing faults in ur girlfriend but remember you will sure look back in life and miss the tins about her that made you fall in love with her. Make the right choice bro.
Oh boy, d ball is in ur court.. First, Find out if u r truly in love with ds Brazilian girl and if she equally truly loves u and nt infatuatn... Second: with ur Naija babe, there's no liability as both of u have high paying jobs but at d long run if u think u r not happy wt her then pull out... It's true men r visual beings, they go by what they see, certainly ur Naija gf is not living up to d sexiness u want going by her adding weight and not exercising... If u still want a future wt d naija babe and u love her, then make her be who u want her to be... How abt characters btw d two women? Go for d one wt a better character...wish u all d best...
i feel you have more legit reasons to be with the brazillian compared to the other girl. At the same time, i feel you are just infactuated by the way the brazillain girl takes care of you by keeping herself fit, giving you good sex and taking that extra effort to make you a decent nigerian meal. You are in dire need of attention, i dont think you trully love her. Yo reasons for being with her are vague and will fade with time as soon as your other girl starts making extra effort.
This yansh na die oooooo although the story does not hold water.
27 and 29 as Resident doctors starting from 2003 , una fast oo. You sure so , when u con do Housemanship / FY . *****Cock and bullshit story ******. You forget some of the readers are also based in the uk and know the system .
Better talk true , na Next store shift you dey work and doing security at night . Why you no holiday with the brazillian girfriend, we know this type . Ibori con lie to us say he be rich man, later we heard na store e dey sell for london before
First and foremost, this story is not real ....lol.Pure fiction.Am just laughing.....I want you to know something dude- there are two types of women....the girlfriend type and of course, the wife type.You obviously know where both ladies belong.
In a real situation, you are carried away by the beautiful body and great sex...which is all good but doesn't lead to anywhere.I bet you, after one month of shagging this ass, and facing the array of men that will be chasing for the same ass, you will come to your senses, and realize that this type of ladies are not marriage friendly.
Your doctor lady is a goldmine...not in terms of her money but the fact that she is conservative, which is a strong ingredient/trait you must seek if you want to marry and remain married.She doesn't know how to cook? why must she cook when both of you as busy professionals can get yourselves an au pair?Or send her to go learn how to cook. I have never seen a female doctor raised in naija who doesn't know how to cook.
Like I said, this story is pure fiction.And if I have to choose,please give me a Medical professional who is down to earth,doesn't even know how to cook than this big yanshed babe wey all na water water....Writer, you are very stupid ooo....So because of dynamite Brazillian punani, you wan waste all that your papa sent you to do in London.Wetin PUNANI no go do for this world.
i feel you have more legit reasons to be with the Brazilian compared to the other girl. At the same time, i feel you are just infatuated by the way the Brazilian girl takes care of you by keeping herself fit, giving you good sex and taking that extra effort to make you a decent nigerian meal. You are in dire need of attention, i dont think you truly love her. Yo reasons for being with her are vague and will fade with time as soon as your other girl starts making extra effort.
I think Infatuation is your problem here. Have u find out why she divorced her husband. How are you sure she will stay with you?.
I think you should call your girlfriend, sit her down and talk things over with her. Her not exercising is as a result of her busy schedule.
Please be wise
Really I cant believe this bull.... this is the first time im going to comment on any site, but this story is just too stupid, why is it that men think with their Dicks and not their brains,he wants to leave his 1st girlfriend because of ass?? really?!Really?!REALLY?!!
I honestly doubt you qualified as a Doctor even for a nigerian, your english is appauling!!, you actually wrote exams and passed?
My advice, do whatever your dick tells you too, because at the end of the day its what you are going to do, and even if you stuck with your girlfriend, you would end up cheating on her.
Go and pray, ur confused. All that glitter is not gold ooo
That ass is rude though....like dayuummmmm...kilooddeeee( in chi gurls voice)
Leave ur girlfriend and follow the brazilian girl na. Which advise are u looking for again but try n find out Y she left her previous husband. Akata girls are not like Nigerian patient women o.
Laugh wan turn my bb to nokia torch o.........
Seriously? Have you talked to your 'GF' about her shape? You should do just that, let her know how you feel about the whole getting fat thing.
About your brazillian babe, i think your just lusting after her..... #oh! Boy eeee... See arse!# her arse is quite large i must say and probably that's why she's good in bed. Have you asked yourself why she's divorced? Mhen! You dont jump into things like that... Plz!
Above all, if your a christian, i think you should pray about it...... I rest my case.
Good luck!!!
Hahaha I can't stop laughing. Oh na backside he dey follow. From ur story I dnt think ure in love with da Brazilian gal. Ure just out for da sex.
Bullshit!! Some ppl do really have time on their hands. Mchew!!
Stay with ur gf shikina!!! Cos at d long run u will regret it, to start with its very obvious that's not her real ass, if she say she is jobless and don't have money, then were did she get d money for d implant?.... Do not be decieved by looks, ur gf can also cook if u teach her or actually explain well on how ur feel, am sure if u both sit down as a matured adult and discuss on how her present change is affecting u am sure she will understand,
Btwn can u imagine from a well educated girl to a divorcee, be well assured she's gonna divorce ur ass to and make u pay child support cos she will want to have a kid for u, looks are decieving my dear
First I'd try spell checK .....I don't think u need advice ur mind is made up. The only thing stopping you is her jobless state, if she got a job now I don't think we'd be having this same convo. You two deserve each other. You seem to be in love with her and her ass. Choose her you love her abi? (Love is for better for worse....job or no job) it sounds like you only luv ur surgeon gfs ambition ........ (I could say every relationship has its ups and sowns etc but youu are already cheating on her, not happy with her weight, appearance etc I don't know if u broached this subject with ur gf with sensitivity of course etc and tried to resolve the issues etc). To be honest with you. You just sound fickle. Oh well I'll try not to judge but its hard for me not to. So I will stop here and wish you goodluck with your choice.
Lwkmd.....jesus christ
My friend, to much of everything is bad. That ass is too much for one person alone. If i were u, I would run away from it. Its too much for u. Its bound to be shared between u and strangers if u neglect my advice and marry her.
Besides, I don't consider any girl with that kind of ass beautiful. I hate to deflate your bubble, your girl is not beautiful.
Meanwhile, I will advice you sit your nigerian gf down and talk things over with her. She may be currently overwhelmed with work and what have u, and neglects taking care of herself.
Finally, marriage is not about beauty, eventually, u will get tired of that and the sustainability of your marriage will now depend on other factors other than beauty.
It's the problem people encounter when sex comes into the picture, now i'm not sure which head is working (the big head or the little one). My advice? you found your way into it, FIND your way out of it!
Hey Brother I feel your story but you need to watch it! All that glitters is not Gold. The Brazilian Babe may look gorgeous and all that but in the next two years when you marry her and she moves into your comfy abode what's the guarantee that she won't bloat even bigger than an African Elephant?
What's the proof she isn't pretending now and out after your hard earned cash? The fact that she is brazilian those not exonerate her that she's free from the gold digger's LIST!
Mehn wake up no woman is perfect. Besides you are a nigerian man; what's the guarantee she's gonna want to continue to cope with your cultural needs like cooking nigerian menu. Even a dumb skull can always learn how to cook perfect meals with the aid of good teacher and lots of practice......
You said she is a divorcee with a child, its not a disease to be a single parent; in fact I love them but how well do you know her and the history surrounding her past life, marriage and divorce? What even got her to the U.K in the first instance. Forget Brazilian **ucks!
You claimed yourself to have been dating the nigerian babe since your med schools and she had the attributes you love then......I figure you at least must have dated her for nothing less than 4-5years.....which is good enough time to date someone before marriage. Now, why do you wanna throw that away like garbage because she has added weight.
If you truly love her like you claimed; forget the fact that you bought her £2,000 worth of gym equipment.....perhaps what she needs is your precious time to sit with her and encourage her while she's excersising. Nigerian Ladies love men who are prepared to encourage them all the way.... I know a lot of nigerian ladies that will starve themselves to death all in the name of dieting to keep fit just because of retaining their boyfriends attention.....some will even go on fasting to assist them spiritually so maybe it just YOUR TIME she needs.
I know Brazilian are one of the finest species these planet has to offer.......But forget the brazilian looks, ass, hair even the Sex; when the chips are down she is a liability; she's got no job and am sure you barely know her extended family very well, but this maybe different for the nigerian lady. I think you are just LUSTING over that Brazilian Babe......and she isn't worth your while....think of the home you and the naija babe had put together over these years and to just part away with these for a TOTAL STRANGER.....you just meet.
A word they say "Is enough for the WISE"
Well ur gf is a doctor am sure shez too busy for any of that, bt try n tell her hw u feel abt her physical appearence n if she doesnt improve then u cn leave her cos clearly u r really into the physical!! N u'll always complain so the sooner u leave, the better for both of u!
P.s for a doctor ur english is lil bad! Lol
Oh damn!!! Just when i was thinking of offering an advise to the young man in dillemma, i saw the ASS. Heehee...
Anyways, back to your issue, YOU ARE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO BOTH LADIES. Cause all you've said here has to do with, "over-weight this" "the Brazilian lady is more beautiful...sex with her was like a dynamite"...
By the way, i dont quite catch your story, you claim that she's your girlfirend, so how come she's entitled to your MULTI-thousand-POUND-House when she's not your wife.
I have little to offer you if your problem is whose ass u wanna f**k or who you wanna leave. You're obviously physically attracted to either or both of them, meaning even if your Girlfriend HITS-THE-GYM, slims down, makes her hair & even develops a SUPER-ASS, nothing will change cause as you earlier said "she's not even half as pretty as the Brazilian girl"...So i guess you've made your choice already, if you aint married, go for the ass since you're banging her already...#nuffsaid @willadebo
I have never posted any comment on this blog ever, but relationships must be well considered with a clear head not just beauty, but an informed knowledge of the Brazilian lady, count your cost! Can you father her child? Will you just have sex and rush out? Can you bring her home to mama? Have you prayed about it? Relationships sound casual but are a huge part of our lives, can't be erased and some decisions leave you clueless as much you sound justified. Get to know her well.
Be sure she will be decent and faithful and that you will be her only man when she is faced with pressure from other men. Why was she divorced? Ask her.
Will you only be proud of her body, but can't take her out with your friends! Do you have some common interest? Understand each others life values. If you can be a good step dad, then go ahead after all this questions are answered.
So lust won't play a huge role, this are two wonderful women's emotions. They both deserve the best.
Speak to your present girl friend, tell her you are considering letting the relationship go cos of her carelessness, see if she changes and tell her about the food or you can teach her, my dad taught my mum, today she is a champion cook. Before you date anyone, please pray! Pray! Pray for Gods wisdom and guidance, what we can't see, God can open our eyes or show us warning signs of danger.
byzantine.
sure you're not dying for this big ass.
For me, the both doesn't have the full quality of a good inamorata.
LOLOLOL.
I doubt this story is true sha.
Educated.. GP.. his English is rather.. well, worrisome.
Are you kidding me? Is this fiction or what?
A GP who spells break up as 'brake up' ...... Hmnnn
Please stick to your surgeon GF (SGF). My reasons:
1. you and your SGF have come a long way and are both career oriented and intellectually at per.
2. BGF might divorce(she's done it before and wont bate an eyelid to do it again)you and still get a lion share of your property - so why don't you take the risk with your SGF?
3.BGF got too many Baggage: a child from previous marriage, she has no job and probably never went to the University.
4. Dating is different from being married you might get bored of her ''dynamism''in bed sooner than you can ever imagine and just want a well-bred younger woman who has the social grace and intelligence necessary.
4. Have a heart-to-heart discussion with your SGF about making an effort concerning the relationship i.e. her appearance, learning how to cook, your feelings and whatever you are not doing right.
my 2 pence.
Arrrrgh God !! another one again !!
1st of all, why do these morons feel the need to continually state the level of their so called uneducated mindset as over qualify professionals from the uk, if they were so learned in there respective fields linda services as an agony aunt won't be needed in the first place.
I ain't no GP but i'm dead sure that part of the GMCs 2001 guidance strongly advises doctors against dating patients.(http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/5199756.stm)
This dude states thats his a GP and all that ...all i say is that if all the errors made by him in his email to you were made on a patients priscription slip, then a large number of his patient will presumably be dead.
Mr Cheating GP really needs NO reply as his a pervert rambling and lusting over an image he found online..
As for the rest, the wealth, house and £2k gym LOL ....
abeg "Omo Faaade di eh" (as 9ice will say)
Silly Donkey !!
Ermm..guy go and take ur GCSE's in english again..shooo!!!!
Serious issue...lols...still laughing...wait a min...lol...are you kidding me? Men will never sieze to amaze me.Come you do not need to ask,the decission is your.Choose one,your babe or big ikebe.Yeye human being...oshi!msheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.
uhhh...so because of salty water bom bom you don dey lose your cool? chill abeg and dont lose your destiny to a Brazilian chick...a ba ti ti e je wooo...oni mo nkan to mase pelu aye e mo...bcos believe you me Brazilian folks too get jazz as per awon yemoja worshipers...and she will turn you into her money machine, drain you, use your professional contacts to get on to the next big payday and dump you.
this one is very very big predicament!!!!!!!! The girls ass is huge!!!!!! but i will go with the brainy one.. ass cannot put food on the desk.. all you will be getting in future are complements from people, but you will be finished and washed out if you ever loose your job. At least, with the Nigerian girl, you will have a back up once anything happens to either of you.
this one is very very big predicament!!!!!!!! The girls ass is huge!!!!!! but i will go with the brainy one.. ass cannot put food on the desk.. all you will be getting in future are complements from people, but you will be finished and washed out if you ever loose your job. At least, with the Nigerian girl, you will have a back up once anything happens to either of you.
Niccur, tbh , you need to stick to your 27 yr old woman, obviously this brazilian woman z a distraction from the good u v, In the first instance why cheat on your woman, u have to let one go, but since you are still holdin on to your 27 yr old gurl, you are cause you still have feelings for her, as for the brazilian, its just the sex, and i tell you its like the brazilian hair, it will soon expire, she is giving you all the attention cause 1 she is jobless, and has enough time, and she, has no pride, since she is really below your status, but let her get a job, reverse will be the case, and as for your woman, why blame her, you took the career together, and it has led her to this path where she has to be busy with work, why dont you, create time, and talk to her, while she spend lil time in the gym, she cant cook? teach her how to cook, or you cook for her, u v embrace the european culture already where, people dont see this as a problem, keep it up with that. dont just let that big ass make you loose your gf!
your just a meal ticket for your brazilian chick, why doesn't she have something doing!!!!! she's got a good catch in you as a doc and of course she will learn to cook just to impress you. as a doc one would have thought u would be more understanding of ur gf career and why she has stopped trying to be beautiful, call her and tell her u have a serious problem with it and she might lose you. you brazilian chick looks wonderful but she wasn't born that way its all lipo and butt augmentation. if ur gf goes dat route she will look that good too. seems to me ur just attracted to the superficial so after that what else attracts u to this brazilian girl????? beauty isn't all to life especially not marriage. seems to me she is playing you she older and wiser,women are 5yrs smarter than their male counterpart of the same age , so dude ur just her meal ticket. u want to leave gold for gold platted really????? all dat glitters is not gold.
I forgot to add that are backside is not particularly appealing(probably cellulite ridden). I have seen really perky cheeks abeg.Team SGF :).
Sex with the Brazilian girl is a dynamite..
Freaking uneducated liar. Learn to write English Dr. GP. This story is some ish
Yes! Finally perfect ass I can wank off to!! Where my lube de? Make I first download the pick sure... What's that? My contribution to the guy's problem you ask? Make I CUM first...
damn!!!! brazilian babe straight up
guy better wise up... if u feel that the brazilian babe likes u and ur GF is tired of u.. then go for it.. dat babes ass is one in a million... dont dull....
guy better wise up... if u feel the brazilian babe likes u nd ur GF is not interested in u anymore then go for it.. that ass is one in a million.. dont dull it my brother...
Linda no kill me oooooooo! If my wife catch me ontop this story I am a finished man.
Brother man, I will tell you that you should stick with your current girlfriend and keep this Brazilian chic as a side kick. Sooner than later the sex would wear off and once she claims the prize all that cooking etc will no longer be a chore she will love to do, just as you are complaining about your main woman.
You would soon amass alot of wealth and by default can always get better looking girls if you want to keep playing away matches. The sex is great because it is asecret affair. Trust me once you have the liberty to get it unlimited times without scrutiny, it will no longer be something you hunger for.
She is a divorcee and won't mind divorcing your ass again if she needs to...ditto that! Hang in there with your naija woman they are priceless!! in the long run you would get attracted to her again, its a phase women go through once they have secure relationships.
I know I am gonna get crucified by all this Naija women and yes I am married!!!
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO.!!!!!!!
My broda forget about wat u see, think about wat u feel..she might look sexy, beautiful and bootylicious, but my broda wen it comes to a live partner all those things r not criteria. U need to marry a smart women, responsible and hard working not some gurl who carries big ass wit low brain every where...you said she has a daughter, bet that girl came from a man who was also lost as u are nw, and wen u marry her and u and ur pals r watchin TV don't be surprise dat some of ur so called pals will be gazing at ur wife ass.. Guy in the real world ass aint asset, sexy aint marriage..bro u need a wife not a tramp..you digg....convince ur dr babe to keep shape for u, explain to her dat she is losing her beauty and help her to look beautiful .....that's the fact bro..peace.....
that picture part just made me disbelieve this story, cos why would he be sending this pic to different sites? pple are even uploading it on FB etc. Has this brazillian mother not come across the pic or wateva? kai the story was interesting until the pic point jo.
if the story is real, I don't know what he should...shikena
Grow up and stop being so selfish. You cannot compare hours in GP land to hospital medicine.Being a medic is stressful. How can you compare the 8 hours you work in GP land with little or no on-call to a surgical job. Shame on yuou.You picked the easiest option by going into GP land. If you wanted a housewife then you should not have picked a fellow medic let alone an surgeon. That is your fault, because you knew which career path she was heading for If you want a housewife then you should not have married a fellow medic . Would you rather she gave up her career just to cater to your needs.
Secondly I would advice you to read the Good medical practice on dating patients.It is always wrong to have sexual relationships with your patients. You better be careful else you'll find yourself dragged before the GMC and you are at risk at being struck off.
You know the answer to the question you ask so do the right thing. Stop being so selfish.
it all about who you love, naija folks are always into how much u make, your family name etc - those things are not what make a happy home. Go with your heart, if it is Naija girl you love, don't try to change her, work with her on your needs. If you go with the brazilian girl, find out what she likes to do, she might be hampered by childcare fees to have a career, but she must have something do, they are like Nigerians using their sexuality to hold men down, but that gets old very quickly, so dig beyond the surface and don't lose everything you have worked so hard for.
Omo na wa o! I don't envy this guy meeen! He is in serious dilema ooo!! Lol! I wish you luck with whatever decision you make.
hmmm, linda linda yoy have come again. Any way mr doctor, this will not be the last lady with that kin bakasi that will come to your G.P, this may not be the last beautiful woman that will visit your G.P. is it all the beautiful women that come to your G.P that can cook nigerian food that you will follow.BETTER make up your mind on one.
my brother I no go blame you jare...the yansh reach to confuse person....Choi!
but speaking seriously, I think you need to speak with your original gf. it would seem that she is engrossed in her career thus oblivious of your "predicament". you guys have a reach history together and I believe you can make her what you want her to be...
besides, the Brazilian babe might just be seeking for security for herself and her kid. I doubt if she ll think twice before she walks away from you if things go south in future.
talk to your girl first and satisfy yourself that you be tried to bring her up to speed on how you feel about her rather dormant emotions.
there is more to life than fine ass and good looks.
all the best bro
Bullshit story!
I want the last 5mins of my life back. Eye dey pain me sef. *mscheeeeew*
o boy see barcadi, mehn bonk dis chic, n stop yarnin we all no u want 2 ...*mental pic saved
Shit, This guy is still asking questions!!!!!
i'm starting to believe these stories are fake. the spelling mistakes in this could not possibly be from a GP. and who sends a picture? i think people send these to get a good laugh ..can't be real
Okay to start with, u re a big COW. So it is "big ass" that is doing you abi? Do you really think beauty is only about the outward qualities.. It goes beyond dat honey. Moreover, it seems u re not even concerned with the character of the woman. All u care about is her "massive bum" Have you talked to ur girlfriend about the changes you need to see in her? Don't you think she would be willing to change to make the relationship work? But no, mumu dey dere dey snap Brazillian "bumbum" You say u like ur Girlfriend bcos she is intelligent, but now you like brazillian chick bcos she is fine(as if u won't meet finer chicks in life...ode)which one we go follow.All these are just lust You really don't know what you want. As a matter of fact u re not ready to settle down, u still wanna play around, and it's okay....but pls this is definitely not a dilemma. PS: Also, d fact dat u have cheated on ur Gf with the brazillian girl makes u a bigger COW #word. mtcheeewwww
This must be fake. Posting this pix makes it fake as are you allowed to post private pix without people knowing who you are. Plus the dilemma is so stupid. Long term girlfriend who has been there for you vs one night stand with welfare Ho. Mscheeew.
Ode doctor, first of all learn how to spell ....mumu!!!!!! N
This guy is a fool. Mscheeeeeeewwww
I smell B.S
I find it hard to believe this guy knows where London is let alone, study there..
Bullshit!!!
Oh and yeah lest I forget, since he loves her ass so much, let him marry the ass alone! Mscheeeeeewww
GO after Your Heart or Your Dick Man! Just pray your Balls don't get exploded with the Dynamic Dynamite Experience.
Free World it is...........Enjoy
Even the guys grammar is off! And so he uploaded the pic here on LIB so people would start talking about her backside too. Ode.
Men,this is realy a booty to behold.do not pass me by oh booty,
Vava vooooom,wowza.am a female medical doctor and i nomhow we are pressed for time,always working etc etc.my sincere advice to u is,if u csn cope with the single lady and her kid and u sincerely love her,pls forget the doctor,she will find her match in due time.
Linda! If you don't post this, I'll be pissed! Lemme point out the BS in the story. This crap belong in hints and not here.
BS no.1: you are so educated but can't spell right.
BS 2: ur gf is surgeon/anaes at the age of 27. At what age did she enter med school, 13? And she specialised at the age of 20 abi?. Ode
BS 3: u work in a local clinic and u aint married to her but u share a £550,000 house? In this same uk, where u see the money?
BS 4: you post a random pic of ass and say its ur hoe. Puhlease!
We don't care abt ur problem, feel free to jump in front of the train
I'm insulted with such stupidity.
You better post my comments!
This Ninja is so Pussy whipped its not even funny,dude *slaps him,wakeup* trust me in 1yr this body won't interest u after u've spent all your money,wait you said sex with her is Dynamite meaning you've cheated on your Girl.Ninja wakeup,my advice to you is to talk to your Gf,show her this girls pix,tell her why your Dick stepped out if she luves you,she will wakeup and do what she gotta do to keep her man trust me.your girl can't cook naija food the brazilian can't either.not that I am against real love but u aint inlove your are infatuated and inlust aka all you see is pussy and Ass *i am writing as a woman with body,color,ass,boobs and waist slimmer than a models but I can cook,although I don't clean I can and I can lay it down in the bedroom*i am youger than you,ur gf,ur wife but if a man wanted to leave his situation for Mine I personally will say no.Stick to your girl Mate
First That ass is a Lie..Its not real, besides brazilians are good at doin d butt enlargemnt nd boobs enlargement. I also feel u jst feel lik hearing what folks gon say, u AINT in NO situation..Goat!
Also and this GOES FOR ALL MEN, Don't let outer beauty deceive u, a woman dat doesn't have a big booty or big boobs shudnt be lukd as unequal. Appreciate wat u have in ur gurl dats gon be long term if u work thngz out rite..but ur Brazilian is a divorcee, she will eat ur money and Divorcee ur ass too! thats afta Leaving U with atlist One or Two Diseases. U are sha a cow. #okbye.
lol mr man i give u 3months ur love for brazillian lady will fade wat u hv is lust
O boy watch it ooo,this woman might be a transgender .Something hypes
"fake" about this ass.It is all your choice,a fake cheap Brazilian ass or "the love of your life",this is if you even love your gal.A strange woman's ass? O boy watch it ooo.Abeg tell yourself the truth.Msheeeeeeew!
Two things about this story slay me. 1) The heavy grammatical errors. 2) THAT ASS! WHAAATTTTT?!
Aww meeehhnn...me wan marry brazilian girl o...and i advise u 2 do d same
Linda you dey run out of jist or what?
These fairytales are so boring
OGA DOKITA, LETS FACE IT. WHAT YOU HAVE FOR THIS BRAZILIAN GIRL IS PHYSICAL. EVEN IF SHE WAS AN AIRHEAD OR BRAIN DEAD, WITH A BODY LIKE THAT, YOU WOULD STILL THINK YOU ARE 'IN LOVE'.
BROS, LET ME ABOUT THIS YOUR SPADE - YOU ARE IN LUST WITH THIS WOMAN! I BET YOU CAN'T EVEN HAVE AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION WITH HER AND I BET YOU ARE NOW HER PIGGY BANK SINCE SHE HAS NO JOB.
LISTEN TO ME, I KNOW SO MANY PEOPLE THAT ARE NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE BUT THEY HAVE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL SOULS YOU COULD EVER THINK OF. THIS IS SHORT TERM SO PLEASE STICK TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND. TALK TO HER AND TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER WEIGHT AND APPEARANCE. BEING A SURGEON IS NOT EASY (NA YAM!!!!), MY COUSIN IS ONE AND SHE BARELY HAS TIME TO EAT TALK LESS OF SLEEP. ITS A TASKING JOB BUT NEVERTHELESS, YOUR GIRLFRIEND SHOULD MAKE AN EFFORT TO LOOK AFTER HERSELF.
PLEASE NOTE, THE ONLY THING YOU LOVE ABOUT THIS GIRL IS THE EXPLOSIVE SEX AND I'M SORRY, THAT IS NOT ENOUGH TO HOLD A RELATIONSHIP.
LET HER GO.
Don't care about the story, I want that ass!
O' boy see nash!!!! Damn!
If I be you, i go give to ceaser wetin belong to ceaser... Marry your woman and allow her to spend all her time at the hospital while at the same time, allow the brazilian bombshell take care of other matters..
So the guy thought we won't download the picture and put it on facebook here? With an ass like that, the whole world got to see it.
I just got a new facebook profile picture
so na d ass wey u see na him dey turn your head? you ve gone far with your nigerian gf you cant just break up with her just cos she cant cook and has put on weight. you can teach her how to cook or hire someone to teach her. for d gym equipments you bought, try doing the exercise with her. pls all dt gliters is not gold.
Hello.... Young man are you mad or what, wasting your time seeking for advise!!! If you are not interested in this Brazilian bombshell anymore please i would be very happy to assist. my details - dodolagos@yahoo.co.uk
This is too funny. Big booty vs career. My only advice is THINK WITH YOUR BRAIN, NOT YOUR PENIS.
If i were in you situation, I would do the following:
1) Install spell check on my computer, before i consider "braking up" with anyone
2) I will try to be more creative, the story reads like a horribly thought out fantasy
3)I would not use idioms, unless i know what is actually being said..if not, my story will go "town hill" from there..
4) I guess since I'm "felling" for her and not falling, then this shouldn't be an issue
God bless you! :)
My days! Can't get over her body.
But common don't be silly, who are you really happier with?
Whether you like it or not, physical appearance seems to be a big deal for you. I won't blame you for that, and by the time people start calling you superficial, don't let it get to you. you already spent 2grand on gym equipment, tell her what you think about her new habit of not caring about her physical appearance.
You cheated, that's wrong. Please go and clear your head, I don't think you want a girlfriend, you just want a fuck buddy and trophy wife. You're not ready for a relationship. So I would say stick your Brazilian girl, and sex and play your whole damn life away. When you're serious, look for someone your heart wants and not sexiness.
And if you stick to your gf, because her family has money, you'll just find yourself cheating on her over and over again. And God may punish you for that.
o my, this babe will so make lib commenters to do ojoro today. My advice is: try n talk stfs out wt ur Nigerian gf. Her slacks mayb wats affecting ur judgment cos u may just be infatuatd by ds girl. All dsame, folow ur heart. Jst dont do wat u wnt lik sm1 to do 2u. TO THE BABE IN THE PICTURE: U re so endowed, enjoy ur load.
smh ... lust
My brother, all that glitter is not gold. That ass will sag someday and that sex may become stale. Will you jump at another ass by then?. Your love life seems confused, i cant fathom why you will buy a house with someone you arent married to.
There are deeper issues affectin your old relationship,sit the Doctor down and talk it over. If you cant solve it, then dont give her pains just find a way to free her and follow the Brazillian ass. Cheers
Well you cant loose with who u pick. Beauty isnt skin deep my friend. Anyhoos. If u pick the Nigerian girl, you have affluence and power from her side of the family. However if you pick the Brazillian girl, you not only have booty, but financial security. She can grow her hair, you cut and sell. After all you said she loves you
stick to ur lovely doc gf tinks of the future not the pleasure u will get tat will soon fed away lust !!!
LINDA!!!We are tired of all this "Agony Aunt" stuff!! Don't turn your blog into this!!Haba!
If you like, u can decide not to post my comment. *you've read it anyway*
marry her..at least u will be sure of having fyn children wit big asses...lmao
What nonsense! I would like you to know that what you feel for this brazilian lady is not love but lust. I f you know what is good for you, you will speak to your girlfriend about what you think she's doing wrong, go with her to the salon when you guys are free and what not. She doesn't know how to cook, fine then teach her the same way you taught your brazilian spice. Do not make the wrong decision just because of vain things. Anyone who tells you otherwise is leading you to the wrong direction. cheers
omo ye na sex be d koko way u dey see,well dis babe fine o but r u concerning settling down at d moment if so you have to weight both side if u 2 like d brazillian girl send her to school, to balance all that u need in a woman.
This story without a shadow of doubt is a big fat lie. Poster or requester for advice, go find a job. You are probably some 17 year old girl with nothing better to do with your time. I'll advice you to start a blog and start writing short stories.
Nonsense.
I'll leave my wife and go with d Brazilian. oh my God look at data ass!!
yoh...Nigerian men always make me experience 'confuse'. that is not a gbagaun by the way. moving on, my guy first u sure u r a doctor trained in the UK? ur english says otherwise.
Secondly, you sure u love your first girlfriend? cos all you seem to talk about are physical attributes, you have not once mentioned anything deep you like or dislike about both girls.
The first one, you complained you stopped liking her because she does not do her hair and she has added on weight...what attracted you to her in the first place? her slim fit figure? her long but fake hair?..she is a surgeon for crying out loud of course she will stop those things at a point, she is stressed.
Secondly, the second one, you are showing us her ass?! really? so when the ass sags and when she turns fat, you will become unsure too?
Guy, stop deceiving yourself, you don't love these girls, you lust them. Grow the fuck up! almost 30 as well. hiss.
-M.
Wat a stupid question 2 ask!!!!!!!!
Try and clean up your english first, but that ass na die!!
Money is not everything... U are a GP and U should over £200k so looking after Ur Brazilian girl and her daughter should not be a problem.
Dump your co Dr and move on with your life + age is a thing of the mind.
.. Abet all these SUper story scripts are getting too much,Kilode
If your fat babe nor get this kin backyard .... Pls,pls,pls .... Carry go
Mehn.......see ass
is this a joke? WTF
Abel all these super story scripts are getting too much ... Kilode!
choose your doctor girl and go for couples therapy.
Wow! This ass is to die for bt don't be so caught up wt the looks the personality also matters. Personally, the brazilian girl rocks so take it all the way.
Dang!!!check out dt bori. Mehn! U r in lala land. On a serious note tho, I wud advise that u don't get carried away by phy looks. Y don't u talk wit ur gf and tryna wrk tins out. Tell her ur complaints abt her looks et all. If she listens then move on wit her. If she doesn't then u can roll wit brazillian chic. Bt I can bet u, brazillian chic has so many oda guys on her case, doesn't have a job so mit even be using what she has to move ahead and mit lik u jst for d fact dt ur a cool doc wit mullah. I am nt implyin dt she mit be a ho but u don't knw her for so long n u knw ur chic so that my 2 cents. Be wise bruv.
Ozu
pls speak to your gf about it and am sure she will change. it is not right to leave her like this.
I think you are heading for trouble. Can I tell you that beauty come from within.
Now you see a brazilian divorcee, you are now finding fault in your girlfriend. Do you know why this brazilian lady is still not married despite her beauty.
To me, it seems you can just control yourself from on going.
I want you to use brain in this situation. You need to wake up from your deaming.
Let just say you are right that your GF has let go of her beauty, I can tell you that you can still turn things around if you really really love this lady.
You are a GP, why not introduce her to healthy eating and sport e.g. swimming which is good to tone your body.
By the way, this brazillian lady back side that you want to kill yourself for is implant.
Best of luck with what you decide.
U r an arsehole. Literarilly speaking.
Hi no 1, it seems you have no respect for your girlfriend because if you did you would not be sleeping around with another woman under her nose. 2,its as if the brazillian babe is just a sex toy to you because she is soo beautiful.You need to learn to exercise some patience with your girl because the truth is you are better off trying to settle with your girlfriend and let her know how you are truly feeling about the lack of physical attraction to her than leaving a stable relationship just because the other chick is good in bed. Exercise together with her,cook with her. Thats what real love is about,its never about convenience. Do that instead of taking advantage of the brazilian lady's beauty and lying to her as well. You are letting your dick do the talking and my guy that ish will not turn out to be pretty.
You sound like a confused idiot.
That's some phat azz..don't be a fool..keep banging her out but never leave wifey and never wife the Braxilian..cos babes are all the same..in time she woud be like wifey..why not ask Tuface..he teach u a thing or two about keeping a home in harmony..*winks*
Is dt not Kim kardashians.i no believe d story jare.
I'm so sorry to be telling u this but u r a stupid motherfucker! This is exactly d problem women have with men.u fell for d chicks ass and that's it. You are infactuated with her ass so u think you love her. That ass is soooo fucking fake! Brazilian women are knwon for their excessive plastic surgeries. Havve u tried talking to ur gal?? Sitting her down, to tell her u have a prob with d fact that she dosent take care of herself anymore. Have u tried encouraging her to excersice?? Urging her on?? Or u just bought d euipments and left it there?? Has it occured to u that she might be under so much stress at d hospital?? Maybe that's y she dosent care about things she used to anymore?? She can't cook. As u know, many woemn in d uk can't cook and don't want to so u either live with it or u don't. I'm so anggry wit u,if u were beside me,I would throw a bottle on ur head u stupid prick!! Ap
CHI
the QUESTION is...do you LOVE your GIRLFRIEND? if you do...
Stick with her. its the BETTER CHOICE in the LONG RUN
she is a BETTER option as a PARTNER, especially considering the UNEMPLOYED DIVORCEE with a CHILD
TALK to her about her things you want to CHANGE such as her WEIGHT, SEX, and other LIFESTYLE choices etc
MOMENTARY SEX isnt worth LONG-TERM LOVE
if ALL ELSE FAILS, and you CANT CONTROL YOUR MANHOOD, you can get ASS ON THE SIDE while KEEPING your RELATIONSHIP. just keep in ONLY PHYSICAL
Whoever sent this in is such an idiot. When people were lining up for brains you were marked absent.What a waste of my time.
Nonsense and ingredients
And I hope you know that doctors ara not allowed to date their patients! That's how it is in d UK. U r putting your carrier on d line just for an ass that's been molded by a plastic surgeon. If you are sick of ur gf like u claim and u are not bothered about loosing d house,tell her its over then face ur brazilian chic. I don't know y men give stupid excuses to validate their cheating ways. I'm raising my son not to be like men like u.
CHI
Na yoruba gals get dis kind of over size woh
this is no doctor,grammar poorly written and it takes longer than the 7yrs he used to study to be a full GP,click on this link[http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_long_does_it_take_to_become_a_doctor]stop posting all this phony stories,it really is annoying.Let them all get a life,if at 29yrs,he cant take a decision on his relationship,then he is a fool.
If a doctor wrote this rubbish then peoples lives are at stake
Aunty Linda, plssssssss post comments on time. I have been refreshing this page since I read the write up in the morning. It's late afternoon now, and I couldn't be bothered anymore. Just saying, maybe u should get an assistant to help you with posting comments or better still approve them using ur phone.
You really dont want to wiat till you have competitors. Just saying tho. Just a friendly note *Btw, I would recommend u take at least one business class, you'll really understand the importance of satisfying customers, in this case ur readers.*
Not that u arent too wonderful already. Thanks for all you do :-)
If u r rly a dr u shd know d ff
1: u dont prescribe meds for flu
2: u dont hv relatnships with ur patients - GMC regulations
3: dat pic is most likely off MTO
This story is boring *yawns* between, this guy should work on his english or Linda na you make the mistake? *raised eyebrow*
'Town-hill or down hill'
'brake-up or break-up'
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