"What's the big deal? People were just making a lot of noise about the whole issue as if we were having sex on the street. BBA Amplified house is for adults and whoever cannot 'suck it' up should not even be watching." Bhoke wrote on her Facebook page after being severely bashed by people for having sex with her BBA housemate, Ernest.
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Yea but there are no video cameras on the streets init....
IK
anon 4:59 spot on..idiot ni girl yen mehn
gosh!!!!! she rite...who doesnt have sex? dey are adults u knw...lin..if vin diesel ur idea man wer to b in bba...can u resist him...cough****hmmmm!
Disgrace of a woman, whats the big deal ehhh anuofia
She is useless for saying and she better shut that gutter stinking mouth that she is using to talk Tufiakwa we are AFRICANS and for her to show her ugly face and say this trash is beyond me. There are no cameras abi crap coming out of her useless mouth.
After they have useless themselves small time she would say she does not have a husband abi then she would remember the nonsense that she got up to silly thing.
DANIEL,I'D ADVISE YOU EDIT BEFORE POSTING..SHE RITE KO!! SHE MESSED UP BIG TIME,LETS SEE HOW SHE'D GO ON WIV HER CAREER AS A TV PERSONALITY.. HER FB STATUS SAYS 'LIFE GOES ON'..SMH..XOXO. MEAN GIRL
Bhoke u are just a big fucking bitch!!!! who has no common sense. u are a fool, an idiotic sex starved maniac. U have no shame.
Hear dis, it is none of our or let me say, my biz if u get fucked even by a dog on the street what is my biz is u couldn't control urself as to showing the world the big whore dat u are.
Is dat what BBA is meant for? for u to come and fuck around abi??? yeye tin.
Linda post dis comment or else i go chase u for ur dream. lol!!!
I have never watch BBA. And I still don't understand the goal, the message under this BBA show! Are they recruiting for adult movies or is it a competition of foolishness?
And whoever will come to say: "if it was white people, you won't have say anything"....let me tell you that whether you are White, Black, Green or Yellow, this kind of behavior is bad. Period!
the thing hole the girl e no know what to do again then to give out.......... omg... jezz
the thing hole the girl e no know what to do again then to give out.......... omg... jezz
lol this is soooo funny
shey u all enjoyed watching abi?
you ar sinmply foolish, even ur name sound meaningless,y do u have show the whole world how stupid u are.
Jay.
But err...who are we to judge her??? Anonymous A-Z u r not GOD o..
FOR GOD'S SAKE...
CAN'T COMMENTATORS ON THIS BLOG BE CIVIL...? MUST THEY USE FOUL, ABUSIVE AND GUTTER LANGUAGE TO DISAGREE WITH EACH OTHER.
LINDA, APPEAL TO THEM TO SHOW SOME DECENCY AND DECORUM IN THEIR LANGUAGE PLS. THIS IS GETTING OUT OF HAND.
its her life, pls leave her alone and stop criticizing her, most of u do worse things!
good cover,am sorry to say this but ur a disgrace to ur family and urself even the entire girls.what kind of name did u create for urself now? hisssssssssssssss
hopeless girl
Does Bhoke realize that even in the countries where BB originates, many many people are outraged when this sort of thing happens, they call for the show to be scrapped and rage that their children should not be subjected to viewing that. Really, its not a question of 'life goes on' etc, its really about decency, hometraining, self respect,consideration for country, family and yet unborn children, self control and a reasonable sense of shame.Bhoke will never live this down, this is what will define and follow her for ever. Yes people have sex, its neither shameful or wrong in the correct context, however so is defeacating and you wouldnt do that in public surely?
Does Bhoke realize that even in the countries where BB originates, many many people are outraged when this sort of thing happens, they call for the show to be scrapped and rage that their children should not be subjected to viewing that. Really, its not a question of 'life goes on' etc, its really about decency, hometraining, self respect,consideration for country, family and yet unborn children, self control and a reasonable sense of shame.Bhoke will never live this down, this is what will define and follow her for ever. Yes people have sex, its neither shameful or wrong in the correct context, however so is defeacating and you wouldnt do that in public surely?
Pea brain! So it's wrong to do it on the street abi? What's the difference between the street & the BB house? None! They both suffer from an acute lack of privacy olodo! Her statement disgraces her family further mcheeeew
Bhoke, Bhoke, Bhoke, O maa n te lo nuun. Hmmm. Tie ma ti ba o. Ok oo
the girl is just a prostitute, irritating maggot. can't u see how much shame u av brought 2 ur family? u cldnt hold urself just for few months , i pity ur future husband
Erm...I think she should have just kept it moving.
The deed is done...Next!!
I HATE when people make dumb excuses for the shameless, horrid, immoral things that people do! I don't care where you come from and how liberal you might want to call yourself, SHE WAS DEAD WRONG TO HAVE SEX ON NATIONAL TELEVISION and I don't give a rat's behind if no child was watching. As an adult, I watch tv to be entertained, I did not sign up to watch PORNGRAPHY!!!
Do Not Give ME This Stupid Excuse That We All Do It! Yes we all do it but we don't do it on TELEVISION! WE DO IT IN THE PRIVACY OF OUR BEDROOMS! WHEN YOU HAVE SEX FOR PUBLIC VIEWING, IT IS CALLED PORNOGRAPHY. AND if you are going to do that then BE UP FRONT ABOUT IT!!! Sign a contract and get paid for it like every legitimate porn star in California! Bhoke, find the eqivalent of the porn industry base in Africa, sign up so at least we know you ain't a dumb a$$ giving it up on tv to a strange dude at the OFF CHANCE that you MIGHT win 200K.
I want to hear Bhoke Egina stand before her parents, siblings, extended family and community as a whole and tell them to "suck it" ...well, you sure did do just that on TELEVISION ya dumb broad!
She get liver to dey tok o, dis wan threw away her shame since since dat na why she fit dey chook man for television.
Please tell your future husband (if you can find one at this point) and your children to "suck it" o!
You might be an adult but still have a responsibility to yourself, your family and your community, BHOKE! ALL THOSE SUPPORTING HER WOULD NOT DO IT THEMSELVES SO PLEASE STOP WITH THE COMMENTS!
Her comment saddens me, in the fact she doesn't know her wrong. Hopefully, friends or family will help her understand how inappropriate such behavior is when done publicly.
i swear i hate all u guys and your "holier than thou" attitude...cut the girl some slack abeg...she is a grown ass woman and she can do whatever she wants..so what if she had sex?..u guys are sayin there were cameras in the house...so what?...they covered themselves with the sheets...u guys are just disgusting...abeg free the babe jooo...we are all human
m sure u all watched,dint stop..wen u were done,u started insulting..dnt judge..
Haba Bhoke, u for don do this secretly for the sake of your future. Imagine after u married , give birth to a daughter and she presen this vedio of yours messing up with that idiot, how will u feel? Its not too let to sit and reconsider your ways. You are too preety and still lovely!
Who r dese pple saying leave her alone, n its her business......NO! Its no longer only her business since she chose to be stupid n so unkind to herself in d public domain...I didnt watch BBA until linda put up dat clip n I am glad i'm not watching this series....what d devil was dat about!!!!! How d hell cant a grown ass woman zip up till she reaches her house, dere's a reason why rships n sex related issues r considered to be a part of people's private lives, so please dont come on here n tell pple to mind their business......
She has a lot to be deeply ashamed of, n as surely as d sun rises n sets, she'll look back on this stupidity someday n wish she hadn't.....Don't be fooled women, the day wen we will totally be equal with men n compared in d same way, is still a millenium away! Abi has anyone mentioned d boy's name here since??
ACT RIGHT BIKO!!!!!
anybody wey never commit b4 mek him open e big mouth talk again.una never do d one wey pass her own? some of una don trowe pikin n even giv una babe money 4 abortion.abeg mek una kip quite.well dat one no min say i support her sha
this girl is not worse than those who watch BBA.
No sane,self respecting adult should be found watching that stuff.
Don't you have a life?
i mean a real life to live.
All of you insulting Bhoke of such promiscuous behavior... Point out yourselves if you've never done it in public before. Nigerians are just bunch of hypocritical judgmental idiots So all of you insulting Bhoke, haven't you guys had sex before? At the end of the day she prolly still has a better job than most of you just sitting in front of your computers and judging her. Whether or whether not you have sex there are ppl who have done worse than her.. So all ye commentators suck it UP!
The guy doesn't get the bashing, but she does. How cruel can you guys be.. I understand it is never going to be a double standard world, but sometimes the guys need the bashing
yehni djidji and chichi luv, u guys are great for ur comments, u spoke my mind and to add to dat, i wld say that bhoke is so shameless to even come up to defend her disgusting act. did u ask wat's d big deal? let me tell u since u are a dumn head, "camera" and "on national and international tv" dats d big deal, like chi said, go sign up for it so that we know u are a professional porn star. do i wonder wat ur family will think of u? hell no! i think for u to act dat way, u must either be a bastard or brought up in dat manner, dat's y u see no big deal in it, simple! anyways, i wish u wateva u wish ur self.
fuck dat! some1 tell dt moron to shut her dirty mouth....tokin boutit wasnt on d streets, but it was on cam (just as gud as mild pornography) BHOKE EGINA, ur biggest mistake dt has happen this year...get outta here
do pornstar shoot videos in d streets? its allways on camera in particular loation. so thers no much difference bt u n em! stupid
I'm a Tanzanian,honestly this gal is a disgrace and a slut! I guess she updated that status when she was still in SA,Coz yesterday when she jetted in TZ she was shaking and so scared of the press as they were anxiously waiting for her, she said her and ernest will take the responsibilities of their acts.unfortunately her 5minutes fame might vost her coz there is a high possibility that she might not be a presenter anymore as she is not a role Model.she has totally contradicted herself with what she said in her profile and what she ended up doing! Now she will never walk peacefully in the streets of Dar es salaam shameless gal. Karen told the gals categorically that the guys in the house are just using them period!! Now Ernest has moved on! When asked about him she had nothing to say!!
The big deal is fornication!! my dear you are not married to him therefore it is a sin which even makes it a bigger and the most biggest deal!!
how will her future husband (if she even gets married) and her kids and grandkids have to say about this? SHAME! and it's no one's business? she decided to make it everyone's business when she did it in NATIONAL TV! I'm sorry, but all of that for only 5 minutes of "pleasure"??? no wonder Ernest said he lost his virginity and used to sleep with a lot of prostitutes. i mean, it seems as if he can't keep it up for too long, one quick round and he is over and done with? LOL! Bhoke got USED and DUMPED. shameless thing. see what Karen was saynig? it's all starting to make sense now. even Nic and Kim are about to hit the rocks as Nic was only using Kim to play with her mind and because he is bored in that house. when will these females WAKE UP. i pity them sha.
20 years from now, Bhoke will only be remembered for having sex with a guy she barely knew, for 5 minutes, on national television. SHAME.
its a mans world sweetie..
the dude walks away smelling like roses:)
I thought bb was meant to be a family show..it appears there is no show on tv now that is safe for kids..what errant nonsense..these African ppl are worse than Nigerians...very very sexually immoral and loose...why shld bb air it anyway???..they shld have called them to order, and edited it out!!...all these perverted producers are also in on all these kinds of nonsense...Nija and Africa at large are immorally worse than the western world...
@ChichiLuv: Actually you DID sign up to watch her have sex.
By watching Big Brother you AGREED to view the contestants in the house at all and any time of the day and doing ANYTHING that they may be doing as recorded by the cameras of the house.
If you DID NOT agree, you would not have watched the show. It's really simple.
Stop trying to impose your own personal morals on others. Morality is relative. Just because you THINK something is immoral does not mean that it IS.
Morality is highly subjective and Bhoke is an ADULT and is therefore FREE to have sex where and when she likes, whether you like it or not.
Secondly, having sex in public is NOT pornography.
Pornography is the production of images depicting sex whether still or moving, and going by the most specific understood meaning of pornography, it is the DELIBERATE production of sexual images MEANT TO ELICIT sexual arousal in the VIEWER.
Bhoke was not having sex with the intention of exciting YOU. She had sex because she WANTED to have sex for her OWN pleasure.
The fact that it happened to be televised as a result of her location at the time is irrelevant.
Therefore, she was not producing pornography.
Finally, EVEN IF by some suspension of logic this whole thing could be termed "pornography", the producers of Big Brother Africa (and all the other Big Brother series) have ALWAYS made it EXCEEDINGLY CLEAR from the word go that Big Brother is a show that is meant for MATURE audiences ONLY and could very well involve strong language, violence, nudity and sexual situations.
It is then up to the viewer to decide whether or not they will watch the show based on this information.
Since you decided to watch the show in spite of knowing all this, please explain why you think you are justified in coming here to judge Bhoke.
Like majority of the people commenting on this post, you are being extremely hypocritical not to mention holding the utterly irrational expectation that somehow your personal ideas of what is moral and immoral should apply universally.
U guys are just makin noise , when them are showin where them are taking there bath stark naked and they also give them task for zeus 2 hold confidence big BOOBS in bath tub , is't not in public ? cos evreybody is wachin it in tv , we should not worry about dis cos BBA was encouragin sex 4 them . How would u put a goat and yam in d same room ? Are ur tellin me goat will not eat yam ? They continuous tellin u the show is for 18 , what are they insinuatin?
She's right about one thing. It's not by force to watch BBA. Even the video Linda put up, I had no business watching it and I didn't. I read the comments though and laughed at the hypocrisy.
Some people watched, commented that it aroused them then went on to abuse the girl.
He who has no sin should first throw a stone.
You guys are hypocrites! Check the ratings of BBA. Many people do not share the same view as most guys here. I enjoyed the whole thing. It makes the show lively. This is a reality show...not fakers show! The show is for adults and adults way of life. If you guys don't wanna see something like that...then go start up a reality shows for nuns, priests and eunuchs.
he who is wthout sin let him?her cast the first stone. you find it so easy to criticise people just cos you think you are beta dan them but notee dat in the presence of God nbo sin is bigger dan the oder. for dose arguing for the sake of morality dey did cover demselves and why did u even wacth it in d first place if u re dat moralistic?
Mud slinging...He that is without sin should first cast a stone at her (John 8 vs 7). Apparently this does not mean much to the many and beyond. While we should not condone any transgressions , we should not in our correction fall into the sin of feeling more superior than she is ... afterall many of us have sex while we are not married but have never gotten caught but still talk about it like it is right!!!!! Judge not so we would not be judged. I rest my case
Bhoke just carry ur gutter-stinking body away from d prying eyes of d public....u r a disgrace to womanhood...who doesnt do sex? yeah we all do but not wt cameras and infront of billions of viewers..pity dat idiot that wl marry ur sorry self if Ernest dumps u......onisekuse anofia
all of you should shut up unless you are a virgin and have not had sex
bloody hypocrites,stop judging
bhoke, since some people are supporting ur actions, pls carry go. watever dat comes out of it weda good or bad, u hv to live with it. you will live with your decisions.
Omo mehn she for don deny am say na only play-acting and it was to get attention. Even in "moralistic" Yoruba movies, dem dey do am now and she for don use that as boju boju. Haba, wetin she wan tell her kids and grandkids?
Sex is no respecta of age,colour or tribe...as earlier stated their are both adults,its a free world besides they r not Nigerians so dey aint morally upright...#JustsayingDou
There are clearly a lot of ignorant people on your blog Linda. You should do some brain testing before you allow people leave comments.
Not to condone what she did, but does she need this much hate? GOSSHHH!!!
Fascinating stuff. I find it interesting that some people find the idea of sleeping with someone on a show albeit rated for adults excusable. I live in the Diaspora so cannot say much about such programmes. However, my shock is to do with how Africans are able to sink so low in every aspect of their being all for the sake of a quick buck or 5mins of fame. This type of behaviour is not common with Asians or other non-whites. This tells me clearly that we as blacks have and always will have problems. We continue to fall for everything that is thrown at us via media etc and do not stand for anything. Pity!!!!!!!!!!!!
no one is claiming to be HOLY!!! but then those of u that are hailing her and saying people should mind dere biz ask urself is it rite???? wen people keep mum and nothing is said on issues like this, someone else would repeat the same act and from there immorality becomes a public and usual thing.
i think what hurts people is that she has that audacity to refute people's disapproving statement abt what she did. it would have been best if she did not say anything at all bcos these words she has said would hunt her for so long and God knws how long that would be.
i rather loved if she kept quiet than all the stuff she's saying on her fb page-bhoke egina for big brother amplified 2011
Sugarbelly, you MAY have signed up to watch porn but I repeat I did not. I am pretty sure the producers in show did not advice those two to get it on. Because there is a camera capturing life in a house full of young people that means said young people should lose their minds and truly reveal everything? It is STILL A SHOW even if it is reality based, they will eventually have to LEAVE that house and continue life amongst their family, peers, co-workers etc therefore everything they do in that house will be use to judge them whether they like it or not!
You are entitled to your analysis and I am entitled to mine. I am not imposing my morality on you on anyone, I didn't ask you to follow my moral code but I will state quite clearly what I think is morally wrong relative to my own personal determination. You can paint it anyway you want to paint, you can use all the euphemisms in the world, in my personal opinion that woman loss her moral compass when she had a sexual encounter on national tv. You don't have to agree with me, and I am glad you don't because that is what keeps things interesting here; however, I will continue to stand by my point!
Bhoke Egina is trying to save face by being flippant but what she did is shameful to herself, her family, community and women as a whole. This is not how a woman who is beautiful and seemingly intelligent acts.
Let's agree to disagree. I stay on my side of the line, you can stay on yours.
for God's sake why is everyone critizing bhoke as if we are all saints. the attrocities most of u commit wen it comes to sex is unspeakable.i hav seen guys who hav sex on d very first day they meet a lady, some dont even ask a lady for a date and next thing is to just hav sex. some so called girls will sleep with a man even if he has six wives. some even commit d deed rightin their boss office, sleep with friends and neighbours husbands. just becos there were no cameras watching does not make u a saint.
most ladies commit worst things wen it comes to sex so u hav no RIGHT to judge or insult bhoke. leave her to God and her conscience to judge her. judge yourselves people.
smh.....shes has no dignity and self respect.
Yes must ladies commit worst, But not for everyone to see. If you have a 15 or 16 years old child, would you be happy for that child to see that crap.l know where i stand. it shows we as nigerians have no values anymore if you think what she did is right.
what of the guy????why is everybody castigating her????
Linda,
Please respond to Daniel's comment (June 9, 2011 5:08PM).
Kindly highlight your position on this comment.
THATS HOW REALITY SHOW IS, SO SUCK IT UP PLP. SHE DID WHAT ANY OF US DO IN DAILY LIVING. GOOD JOB MA, AND LET US SUPPORT OUR FELLOWS INSTEAD OF KILLING THEIR TALENTS I MEAN ACTING TALENT. TANKS.
WHAT BHOKE DID IN PUBLIC IS BAD BUT WHAT EACH ONE OF YOU DO IN PRIVATE IS EVEN WORSE STOP JUDGING I BEG
someone said what we do in private is worst than what bhoke did in public well you said the key word "private" we do our own in private but she chose to do her own like a dog in heat so she should not complain that she is being talked about across the internet.
Leave the poor bhoke alone. Why insulting her?! Because she's a girl?! Why can't u also talk about Ernest behaviour?! Shut the hell up people. The world is for both men n women n if they done wrong they both should be bashed and not Bhoke alone. This shows how stupid u people are....get a life!!! Nxaaaaa
aaa you naija people stop playing inoccent abeg ooo leae this chick alone I go marry am
Sugerbelly I am so in love with you right now! I couldn't have said it better.
@ Alicia since it is your belief and morals then why castigate someone else based on your "morals' isn't that unfair?
2 years from now there will be new gists and news people will forget her except her close friend, just like earlier scandals with previous BBA alumni (I am sure you guys can't even remember their names) so you guys should not take panadol on someone's headache.
Some people said she wont marry very funny! if am correct isn't Ofunneka married, I rememeber then different blog commenters spewing rubbish about the poor girl now she is married (in your face!)
You guys should chill abeg no one is perfect as long as you were not forced to watch the sex act please STUFU.
If you allow your children watch big brother then you are not fit to be a parent.
Uche.
sugarbelly..u are truly misinformed, and frankly quite ignorant..what do u mean by morality is relative??..u are trying to speak grammar u know nothing about...since when did having sex in the public glare not become porn..how delusional is that??
u probably think u are sounding modern..the westerners whom ppl like u so adore, worship, and emulate...will never show anything like this in such a public forum..in fact political correctness has hit a new high here in the US and u have to be careful about how things are said or depicted..so pls get a grip and stop sounding uninstructed..
SHE IS A BITCH......its okay to have sex but not on national television...did they even use protection?!!!! shady shady grl
BIG BROTHER should find a sex room wth no cameras for adults who want to relieve themselves...hahahhah
she dis apointed all tanzanians
MATAKO MATAKO MATAKOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YAKE BHOKE HANA ADAMU WALA KUITHAMINI NCHI YAKE ASULUBISHWE NA MULT CHOICE
all is well
so over this nonsense. i never thought i'd be one to side with bhoke but seriously whats the big deal? its happened many times before. and so over all of ya'll and your double standards. did bhoke have sex by herself? NO. but y'all are quick to chastise her but aren't saying anything about ernest. if you're going to criticize her, criticize her man as well. KHA
cut the chic some slack..... He without sin cast the first stone. Stop calling her names. Our beloved Halle berry did worse in monster ball.She won an oscar afterwards. Maria Sharapova has gone nude on playboy.She was in Roland Garros, last week. BBA is no different, its called entertainment and its not the first, it wont be the last. Getano did it too. So all this yeye girl hating, you guys do worse, sleeping with aomeones husband is worse than what she did
I read the comments and I see and understand everyone's point. I really do. But, I believe that it wasn't very ladylike or considerate to do that. It's been captured on film forever. It would be unfait for her future husband, children and offspring to get a hold of this. It would be very damaging. Also, this clip can prevent her from getting a job and/or husband. It wasn't smart. Sometimes, we have to supress our desires to protect ourselves, our future, our family and so on. As she said, life goes on but this too will go on following you.
Hellow guys,I have read all the comments and understood well,some saying tht what she did was ryt and majority saying wasn't right. Who am I to judge her,we all make mistakes at some points in life. Other mistakes can be turnishing our images in public. Bhoke's family has been watching the show since day 1 as they knew tht they have some1 over there,it was such a disgrace to her family,neighbourhood,where she Prays being it church or mosque,and her country at large. Whenn doing anything we'd better think of the consequences first. The choices tht we make in life makes us to be who we are, I was shocked to see an African girl doing such a thing in front of a T.V,that makes it public,where every1 could see it and the worse part is for her to justify her actions publicly again,what type of a person can't understand her mistake and keep telling people to suck it up??I pity her,poor girl. Anyways my Prayers are with her,I wish she could atleast make up with her God,cuz it's a shame.
Bhoke new interview.. she sounds like she's sayn nothing happened!!
http://imagazine-sporahshow.blogspot.com/2011/06/youve-had-your-say-now-bhoke-from-big.html
Leave her alone you people, She is not the first and she is not going to be the last. First time it was Abby from South Africa and Gaetano from Uganda. Abby is now married with a good guy with her two kids, she stays in Tanzania.
The second one was Tawana from Botswana and Munya from Zimbabwe.
Now Bhoke, and there will be another one. Chill out people.
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