How can any mother leave her 6 year old child alone with a houseboy? Continue reading...
PM News investigation revealed that while the girl’s parents were away at work, the houseboy allegedly grabbed his boss’ six-year old daughter (name withheld) pulled off her clothes and had carnal knowledge of her.
When Mr. and Mrs. Dopemu returned from work, they noticed their daughter’s unusual mood. They later discovered blood in her private part.
The matter was reported to the police at Bode Thomas Divisional Headquarters. Thompson was arrested and investigated.
In his confessional statement, the suspect allegedly wrote: “When both of us were at home alone, I saw her body naked. I was charged and emotionally carried away.
He was arraigned before a family court sitting at Tinubu, Lagos Island.
Source: PM News
114 comments:
What a wicked world.
A houseboy didn't work for me sha. They can clean yes but their disadvsoutweighs their advs. Mine was caught by my house girl peeping at her while taking her bath. And he was sacked immediately without any consideration. #endofstory
wonders shall neva end oh.God almighty will help us all amen.
Obong thomson..hmm, as u see her nakedness ur body come charge?..a 6yr old, pervert idiot..lesson to other career-pursuin parents..be watchfull
OH Lord have mercy, how careless can some parent be ehhhhhh, ewuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu, house boy shld be responsible for the male child while house girl for the female child if at all u av need of bring house boy at all
devil ooo
This is so so sad. I hope this baby won't be traumatized for for life.
So sorry 4 d little girl,while will any reasonable. Mother employ a houseboy @ home. if u don't trust u husband enough to get a female maid. u stay @ home and take care of ur children. than. Putting them thru this stress. VIVIEN
The parents are very stupid and should be jailed. Why would any1 get a houseboy to watch over a girl??? Why not a house girl. Am yet to be a mother and it scares the hell out of me to leave my child in the care of another person. I know at some point I would need a nanny but God help me that nanny would be watched like a hawk even when am not around
One word, eKwensu!!!
As in house boy? As in she hired a houseboy for her daughter? She clearly is an unwise woman and will has ruined the life of her daughter because of the stupidity. Haba! Houseboy? Houseboy? *whistling Omawunmi's "If you ask me"*
God hv mercy. My advice 2 all male is dat we should hv self control n discipline 2 avoid all sorts of tempt. N 2 parents pls secure ur children.
The Evil men do nowadays,surprises even d Devil.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
linda i know you may not post this the parents are big fools why would you employ a boy that old and live you daughter with him anyway if she where my child he will be DEAD
liinda DID U PUBLISH THE NAME OF THE PARENT........ isnt that againt your professional ethics
OMG!!! I'm crying here..its sooo sad! A male house help? not even a female?for a six year old girl?:( and He's not even d brother of d husband or wife,a mere stranger...I imagine d guilt d parents must be feeling but more dan anything,I feel sad for d young girl who's lost her innocence and forced to b an adult when she should b playing with toys and enjoying her childhood. Smh
This guy should rot in jail! This just brings memories and I don't know how guys who defile little children that are so young they are not even teenagers yet live with themselves!I don't know. God pls protect the little ones all over the world who can't defend themselves cos even when we try,u r still d only one who can protect. Amen
The houseboy must go to jail
I feel sorry 4 d little child, but I tink we all sud b careful of d helps we open our homes to be it house boy or girl,bcos dey can all cause havoc if nt watched properly.
It's really sad that dis happened,...
But wat breaks my heart even more is the fact that everyone is clamouring on d houseBOY factor...
Pls no one shld b naive even as a girl, I was abused by 2 girls web I was younger, a house girl and an older cousin.
So we shld b careful about d 2.
househelps wahala too much oo...the one that my mum kept here constantly beats my grand mother everytime...what does she do sef open gate, mop the floor,turn the gen on/off, go to school and eat all the food that full d house. if not that im not standby in d house no use of househelps...thank God my mum is sending her packing next month whoop whoop
Why did u have/need a houseboy and a housegirl? *no beef intended*
jst smh.
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Na wa, the idiot shouldbe castrated oloshi oloriburuku. Useless calabar people. Bring their gals, they will rape ur husband, bring their boys they will rape ur daughters, smh and na dem b the best househelp o, na wetin dem born dem to com do b dat!
Hmmm I'm telin u,I will start by cutting off his miserable manhood. OMG I swear dwn his corpse wil nt b seen...My hubby shld com nd hear,wen I wil tel my hubby my brother inlaw can't wash my 4yrs old daughter's bom,he tels me I'm taking thins 2 seriously...pls ohhhh 2 all parents,pervet re everywhere,it cld be uncle,nephew,brother nd even husband....so pls I beg, ur daughter shld well lectured 2 avoid putin dem thru unecessary life time torture!
This is silly na, they r to blame! How would they employ a boy to watch over a girl child, a boy that old @ that... Its painful! I can only imagine how hurt that kid but be and will be forever! That stupid Thompson(akwaIbom boy)
Some parents are very careless with their children and just never learn, especially from the mistake of others.Why should you employ a houseboy when you have a daughter?? Putting hawk with chicks.Why couldn't they get an elderly nanny? Poor child.
I'm 22 now, 3years ago when i was 20, my parents brought a help (boy) to work as a salesboy @ my mom's shop,he lived with us... I think he was like 3years older than me and you won't believe what he was doing... He would masturbate and go to my room, get my panties and wipe his sperm and put in back in my pantcase... I kept throwing those undies away and wondering what d slimy thing was... I didn't speak... I suspected him but I didn't hav proof... One fateful day, I saw him leaving my room, I followed him, he had his hands in hsi pocket, I ordered him to empty his pocket and that was it!... I gave him a slap that alerted my parents and after serious flogging frm my dad and starvation for d whole day, plus staying outside till dark, he slept in d store for d nite and d next day, he was sent back home! That was really close cos I have a lil sister that was 12 @ that time and very fragile... ThankGod she was @ skool(boarding house) then... Its disgusting!
Now I know some parents r dumb!!!! Hw can u leave ur dota(poor child) wit a house boy!!?? Wit all d rappn goin on in dis country, dnt u listen 2 news or read d newspapers!? N nw u r shadin tears ova spilt milk!!*tscheew* Dat innocent gal will neva 4gv U!
I totally blame both parents especially the mother, with all the stories of child molestation flying around any reasonable parent will know better than to leave a young child (be it male or emale)with the opposite sex be it a house help or relation, most especially female children. Mothers PLSSSSSSS do not leave your daughters alone with any male counterpart, whoever it may be. things are happening dz days o. I dont knw if anyone saw that video of a young female househelp of about 12-15 molesting "practically havn sex" with a little boy who is not even up to 4yrs old in one local shaggy bathroom (the type u find in rural areas wr d bathroom is situated outside the house, built with zinc). That video was appaling, anyone who has seen it knws what i'm talkn abt. That little boy pratically was havn sex with the househelp based on what she has tot him. So parents PLSSSSSSSSS ur male children are not excluded from this as well. Parents who do not hv tym to take care of their kids themselves should exercise total precaution when dealing with domestic staff and even family members and friends. Put a hidden camera around your house and you will be surprised at events going on in your house. A word is enuf for the wise ooooo.
Hahaha good question....why would you need both? Such a tragedy for the parents tho I blame them. FleXy
Houseboy for boys or Housegirl for girls it does not matter. Boys molest boys and girl molest girls. God please protect this little girl and give her grace to live a normal life. Amen. Bonario said it all. God bless you all and May this New Month bring you peace, joy and all that your heart desires. AMEN!
When I was prob 3, my parents had a houseboy, he was never in charge of me, we had a house girl for that, plus I had a lot of my mom's siblings who lived with us, so they house was always busy. One day though, the house girl was elsewhere in the house, and he lured me to the boys quarters, think he mentioned I should come get sweet or something. Thank God before he could do anything, the house girl came and shouted. He was reported to my folks, and fired that day. We never had any male workers working after that.
Not just house boys, but careful of any adult males. One of my uncles' friends (his besto) used to always be over, and when I was about 6, he'd lure me to the back of the house to help him masturbate. He must have been 20 then. I remember him placing my hands around his penis, and even once having me put my mouth on it. This prob happened 3x, and thankfully thats where it stopped. I was much too young to understand what was going on, and God knows my uncle would have killed him, if he ever found out. The man even came with his fam to my wedding, I forgave him a long time go in my heart, as a child of God, had to. As an adult, I still have never told anyone, including my husband, but I do know, that my kids shall be completely watched over. I live in Yankee anyway and there is no house helps like we know in naija. I dont even feel comfortable having an aupair or live in nanny.
Also be care of having ladies take care of your younger sons too, known a case of a 10 yr old that used to play with a 3 yr old boy's penis.
useless perv ur body go charge well inside kirikiri prison
It's revolting, repulsive, nauseating & horrible...
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lol @ The Evil men do nowadays,surprises even d Devil. Obong thomson you are a pervert
Obong thomson, abeg tell me hw small pikin make ur tin charge? na only u get current for body? See head like car battery
Are u a woman, based in Lagos, married, working, with kids probably all under 6yrs old? Then u won't ask ds question. Rem, housegirl/boy cld mean anything from a paid staff to a family member whose education u r probably sponsoring
D parent of d child is b blamed.bt seriously speakin,D hus boy is wickedness.
Im not the one to bause people but i think thats the most stupid thing for the parents to do.In this age and time??with all these strange occurences around? common?even if he didnt defile her he could use her for money ritual...in fact id ont balme the boy cos lets just assume he sjust been totally sick from the beginning,i blame the parents who i believe are literate enough to be wise nad not as sick as the houseboy.Abeg #NEXT
poor girl...hope this doesn't affect her in the future. Career mothers please be careful
having house boys at home is very dangerous. when i was 14 i was nearly molested by the houseboy my parents employed in my sleep and it affected me psychologically. please parents should be careful
Such a wicked world.
Its sad, it doesn't have to be a houseboy. Parents are too trusting sometimes, it could be a cousin, uncle, driver that takes them to sch or even siblings. One just needs to be vigilant as a parent. There are many sick pervs that look so normal out there.
why is his eyes covered? u revelaed the victims name...so why isnt the perpetrator face revealed nah?
Keeping it real here....was sexually harrased by a female house girl when I was littlle...its a crazy world we live in right now, I'll watch over mine like a fierce hawk!
castrating things if he were in the middleast....i dont just get how attractive such a child would be to warrant his restless 'D'...they keep making we all look like monsters which we aint.... follow us @iAmhairs for inspirational tweets
I have a daughter, and the idea of leaving her alone with an adult male who isn't her dad or brother disgusts me . . . Be it cousin oh, uncle oh, e.t.c . . I'm not doing it! How can someone leave her daughter with a houseboy?
He was "charged and emotionally carried away" by the nakedness of a 6-YEAR OLD GIRL!
Which kain world be this nau???
Wow!clap for yourself
U r a clown
parents most especially mothers shld be careful.
Still thinking about the issue of raising children. It is really becoming a GREAT challenge here in Nigeria. If both parents do not work they may not be able to provide basic needs for their family which is sad, because Nigeria is very expensive almost no hope for the average earners.Unfortunately the county is irresponsibly and poorly governed and the citizens are sufferings of years of neglect of every sphere of the nation.However, the world that we live in has changed. Bringing up children is challenging you can have a houseboy, house girl, uncle and aunty staying with you remember they could be heterosexuals,bisexuals or homosexual. The Nigerians have now become highly sexualized even little children with the help of ignorant parents. The access the the internet without restrictions has created a lot of problems. It will be nice if the government can work with broadband providers and block some sites like they do in Saudi Arabia.The days of parent living their children or doing sleep over will have to be minimized.I feel people have to install CCTV in their homes. Another ugly thing that is popular is Husband raping their domestic maids.These maids are human beings treated like shit. Yet the wife brings in another made na wa oh! As a parent one has to be close to God for HIS guidance.They will all need to go for counselling and mother of father may have to become self employed. Oju mewa o toju eni.
Are u devil's oga Abi he is ur Oga
Wicked man ๏̯͡๏
Trust me it take God 4 her nt 2 n plenty of talk 4m her parents.
The mother is as much at fault as the houseboy. I'm sorry to be so harsh but she deserves the condemnation. If a mother cannot or will not protect her little girl, who will. What was so wrong with Daycare? A child might be neglected there but they are hardly ever abused; thoughtless of to the extent of being raped! Her screams would be been heard and heeded long before penetration occured. I think this is a wake up call for other mothers! STOP EXPECTING STRANGERS TO CARE FOR YOUR CHILDREN FOR YOU! ALL STRANGERS ARE INTERESTED IN IS USING YOUR KIDS FOR WHAT THEY CAN GET!!! DO YOUR JOB AS A MOTHER OR PLEASE PLEASE DON'T HAVE KIDS!!!
i can not leave my daughter for my blood brother not to talk of a house boy, i have been molested by my step when growing up so i had experience ,,,,omosexy
Linda you are doing more harm than good , why should you publish the name of the family, na wa for una
Even house boy teaches your son to smoke weed,i dey tell you.. A friend told me it was their driver and houseboy that taught him to smoke..now the guy is a confirm smokaholic @ 40,he started smoking only @ 14 yrs of age..
We dint av any house boy, nor house girl, but had father's nephews and nieces in universities then, comin to live with us.... But an uncle disvirgined me wen I was 5.. Fingered,...me, plenty times, I. Was forced to watch him masturbate a lot...neva told a soul...am 23 now, am serving... He is alive and rich, married to a white, but will neva av d guts to talk to me or even communicate with me wen he's in nigeria......its calld Life......I hope one day I can tel my mum bout it...ile aye, ile asan...
it is a wa
Bonario abeg no kill me ooo!!!
Amen ooo!!!
Amen ooo!!!
Dey don't want to bring in housegirls so dat d girls don't snatch their husbands. U see now? What do u need a helper 4?
we are all complaining, the parents should quickly go and get preventive anti-HIV drugs for thier daughter befor it is 2 late. Yes, it is possible they should go to any HIV health clinic ,fast,and save d girl from any futurehealth trauma.
The woman is wrong for employing a male house keeper to watch over a girl, but their have to be laws protecting house keepers right, they are not prisoners nor r they your slavies, they get no breaks, they r not allow to have a social life, all day all night they r seating in the kitchen not allow to leave the employers house, unless they are going to the village for xmas, do you get treated like that at your office, they r also employ by u the same way your employer employ u, stop treating people like shit cause your situation is better than theirs. maybe if this house boy was allow to have a social life, he will be sleeping with another house keeper in the area or paying asewo. Ps
this guy nah devils first son sha
KaI, oh boy u for nor do this. Mothers, educate ur girls as early as possible that no body touch their their private area except mommy.
His prak needs 2 be cut out....buh wat wud u need a 20yrs old non working adult 4? To clean or cook? *sigh*
Anonymous said 5, 2012 11:35 AM
I gave him a slap that alerted my parents and after serious flogging frm my dad and starvation for d whole day, plus staying outside till dark, he slept in d store for d nite and d next day, he was sent back home!
not saying he was right to masturbate on your panties
this is what im talking about, the boy is your empoyee, what right do you guys have to treat him that way, can your father do that to you, how can a house keep have loyalty to you if you are weaked... things need to change, he works for your family hes not your slave, because someone is poor don't mean you have to do them wrong, your family are not doing him a favor nor is he doing your family a favor, he works for u providing a paid service..... if he did something wrong...fire him... ps
That is carelessness in the highest order on the part of the parents. With all the stories going on about child abuse. Why didn't they go for a female house help. They are even easier to find compared to male house helps. They should be blamed.
ђã†̥ a stigma dis degenerate has planted in †ђξ gal's life!It's trauma-eliciting.m really sorry 4 †ђξ innocent gal.
Konji!!! Y e b sey na naija b Ūя̲̅ home?!#u b he-goat#
someone mentioned about getting a female maid instead if you dont trust your husband,but i tell you this today even the female maid is not a better option because there are cases of female sexually abusing innocent kids both male or female kids for that matter,nowadays that lesbianism have come to stay,the best will probably get a trusted family member,grand parents or some school or daycare rather than maids,its just a crazy world,even drivers have been found abusing young kids of their boss,God will help us.
@ 10:39am. Can't you read that it was culled from PM news???? Abi Linda talk say her neighbor told her in confidence?
No comment no make sense at all! What if the huband no be Otedollar or facrook? *sumbody pikin**
The government should ban families from having house maids/boys. It's a slavery mentality. No wonder parents no longer know how to parent, and have become so lazy, fat, bossy, arrogant and insensitive. Same goes to all the other Ibo business men that go to the villages to bring little boys to slave for them all in the name of teaching them the ropes of business.It's also slavery.
If you have kids, raise them and if you are busy, put them in Creches ....And if you must have a house help, employ and pay them accordingly. Don't bring in another person's child in the name of helping them out of poverty, to only use and exploit them. This action is barbaric and should be abolished.
Also, bride price should be abolished. There is no room for it in our today's world.
This boy deserves to rot in jail.... "charged and emotionally carried away" disgusting, randy perv. Only God can totally heal dis little girl of the trauma
I was sexually abused by my brodas friend wen i was 8yrs old!Parent ve to pay more than d usual attention to their kids and and pray for Gods protection. sexual abuse can come frm any body.Even house gal self go turn ur daughter to lesbian.I resigned frm my well paid job to take care of my newborn baby.It has happened to me and willnt wish my enemy baby to go thru wat i went thru.
Calabar boy for that matter!!..no age limit in Calabar..puzzled as to who committed the greater crime..the negligent parents or the peadophile!!
What's the logic in naming the parents but witholding the name of their 6yo daughter?? As they say in Law, you do not have to be named to be identified
God help us
Linda! poor professional ethics....you witheld name of the child but not the parents and where they reside. it wouldn't take a genius who is acquainted to the family to know which of the children was defiled.
Obong !!! D name sef na time bomb, akwa ibom peeps n dia sugar waist sef, may God help us.God will heal d girl. Amen
I really feel so sorry for the girl! Am actually in tears! Imagining the girl's screams! Omg am actually cryn
This kind of thing happens every day in Nigeria. Mothers beware. God help us.
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This guy na confirmed retard.ie bonario
Na only you be doctor sha? See ya nonsence naija mentality. Abeg drop tittle, abi u wan take am sell crayfish?
See ya long epistle.....
This local champ babe from benin
Na only you be doctor sha? See ya nonsence naija mentality. Abeg drop tittle, abi u wan take am sell crayfish?
1stly, u don't need a 20yr old person 4 a maid.
2ndly, men should be very careful on how we react 2 sexual arousal, how could he fall so cheaply 2 a 6yr old girl, God pls help our generation. Lord help d poor child and grant her peace
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha, u jst made my day. Lmfao
I sent this comment earlier but Im not too sure it got to you.Im sending it again to help younger parents. There is nothing new under the sky. These things have always been. I am a fifty year old mother and I remember when I was about 5-6 years old(in the late sixties),I had such an experience. My mother was a dressmaker and she engaged 2 male embroidery tailors whom she kept in the boys quarters at home. In addition,she had 2 grown up housegirls who were in the house with us so the house was quite busy. My mum was always away at Balogun market in her shop.She probably thought she had her home all under control.I recall the older embroidery tailor would call me to come for sweets or something like that, put me on his lap and run his fingers through my thigh to my pants. This happened a few times but luckily didnt go beyond that. I never told my mum or anyone until when I got married myself and started having kids. It got a point I was having to leave my kids in my mums care whilst working and had to tell her what had happened to me when I was a child. I didnt want her repeating the same carelessness she did with us. We were four girls!
Parents should be watchful. My husband who is 57 also has stories of housegirls who played with him when he was a kid. These things have always been.Male teachers with young female students,houseboys,housegirls,uncles,drivers,etc.. You CANNOT trust anyone with your kids. So please parents be watchful...
Dayumnn.That Shit crayy.
i think i'm going to have cameras everywhere in my house and police no on quick dial, this is just getting out of hand,only God knows what that child might be going through and the effect it will have on her
Mortifying!Thank God he was caught. Imagine if the mother was not observant enough to notice the blood, this would have continued and the young girl's life would have being totally ruined.If you are a man and you are guilty please always try to control your dicks if you can't go and masturbate somewhere and stop having sex with your helps or sexually abusing your females. Same goes for opp sex.
Emotionally charged @ d body of a 6yr old?? He could as well b running streets naked. Mad man!!!
Can't stop hurting, this story is so painful to read abt, and more painful is d fact dat so many kids hav gone thru/are still goin thru physical/emotional abuse. Pls parents let's be on the look out for these young ones. Anyone has d potential to molest ur little one, be it a man,woman,maid, cook,whoever.even close family members hav bin knwn to molest their nieces n nephews.
my issue is ... LINDA! WHY ARE HIS EYES BLOCKED!!WHAT IDENTITY ARE YOU HIDING? SHOULDNT SUCH PPLE BE EXPOSED? WHATS THE MESSAGE YOU ARE PASSING ACROSS... GOSH!
It is sad because he may have forced the girl. you should never force a girl to sleep with you. the first girl I slept with was three years old but she was even the one that initiated it.I didn't force her.
U dis Linda, don't u know u have been a journalist indirectly with dis blog. U say child's name withheld( I'm guessing due to her age) but Ghent gave d parents full name and address..duhhhhhh
Tell your kids whilst bathing them and washing their bums that noone is allowed to touch them there. Of course,this means you must go the extra to bathe your kid yourself! Else it will be all confusing to a child who has househelp/aunty/uncle bathing him or her sometimes/alltimes! Mothers,you do have a lot of work to do, Parenting comes with huge responsibilities and sacrifices.
My daughter was once molested by her teacher in school who happened to be a -wait for this-RCCG pastor!
It was a private school and this teacher was fond of calling my 9 year old daughter during break time under the pretext of giving her extra coaching. He would make her sit in front of his desk and under the desk start running his big toe up her legs into her pant. A few times this happened,my daughter finally summoned up courage to report the incident to me. I used to pick my kids home from school and would be together at home till they go to bed. I imagine this helped a lot to make them tell me things that happened in their daily lives. Anyway, all hell let lose afer this shocking revelation! I spoke privately to a few mothers who shockingly found out later that he was doing it to their own girls in the class also.Unfortunately,the schools proprietress became defensive probably trying to protect her schools image and Most of us simply removed our kids from that school when she failed to act responsibly in sacking the teacher.
Infact non is gud, both male n female. Cos d house girl can turn ur daugter to lesbain wen she is in d mood n same apply to d boy or rather d house girl can start harrasin d male child tellin him to suck her pussy cos hav seen such situation
Abi o! Devil himself must be in shock!
Help me as her o! She published their names and witheld their daughter's. What's the point? Wldnt their neighbors and family friends figure it out if they get to read this post?
She shoulda been sent packing the moment she placed her filthy hands on your grandma!
Really disgusting!!! Thank God you were observant!
Lmaooo!! Afi kirikiri na!
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