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Tuesday, 9 August 2011

Why do straight women marry gay men?

 
You see a guy, he's flaming gay, yet some lady marries him. Is it that she doesn't know or she's in denial? What do you think? Please share your thoughts on this....

26 comments:

Anonymous said...

aint love supposed to be blind?

Anonymous said...

Denial and desperation

*ajalahtravel*

Madame Sting said...

Most likely in denial.

Galore said...

I have not done it......but i think Straight Women marry Gay Men due to affection or the Women are ignorant that the Man is a Gay or they know that,they dont hv to contend wt any woman fightin ova their Man(husband)...or this Women enjoy to fuck thru the Anus.....I have not done it......but i think Straight Women marry Gay Men due to affection or the Women are ignorant that the Man is a Gay or they know that,they dont hv to contend wt any woman fightin ova their Man(husband)...or this Women enjoy to fuck thru the Anus.....

Alicia says... said...

who cares what Jill Scott has to say. besides, what is the indication that he is gay? after all, he also agreed to marry her... so what. maybe thats her type. SHEESH.

Alicia says... said...

linda, im going to go and find you on twitter.

Anonymous said...

Not all feminine guy is gay. I dared one in my area..very skinny feminine guy like dat, he gave me the fuck of my life. I will never underestimate such guys again in my life-gay or not.

Adetutu said...

hehehehe. i laugh in bangladesh. i dated a gay guy once. didnt know he was gay until later, and waited for another 3months because i though he would change and kept praying. Na lie. had to jejely take my leave. Note: he isnt bi-sexual, gay. but needed a girlfriend to cover up for his family. I did really love him tha was why i waited a while. so some women could marry gay men because they love them and hope they'll change, or because they couldnt be bothered with it as long as they are getting action outside of the marriage. So many women in Nigeria are married to gay men, they cant get out of it now, it's too late.

Anonymous said...

She needs to ask Terry McMillan...

Anonymous said...

many gay guys are very nice and affectionate. trust me. i never liked them until i had a very very very close gay friend... in fact bless his heart

CLF said...

The Nigerian women that i know who are married to gay men, married them for the money!

Anonymous said...

The woman most likely be a lesbian onthe down low

sommie said...

As long as the gay guy is rich, ladies'll fall for him. If money grew on trees, ladies'll date monkeys. Love is TRASH...
girls love CASH...
(I know a rich gay guy married to a very pretty lady, so i know what i'm talkin 'bout). OK, ladies start hurlin ur abuses. lol

t said...

I like gay-ish men. They may not be gay but they're gentle, sensitive, communicate well, feed me, and generally are cool with me not trying to be my oga (which would never happen).
I'm in touch with my masculine side - like I can do money, power, and all that. Since I'm not completely girly, I don't need a completely man-ly man.
http://www.LIFELIB.blogspot.comI like gay-ish men. They may not be gay but they're gentle, sensitive, communicate well, feed me, and generally are cool with me not trying to be my oga (which would never happen).
I'm in touch with my masculine side - like I can do money, power, and all that. Since I'm not completely girly, I don't need a completely man-ly man.
http://www.LIFELIB.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Why do straight men marry bisexual women?

Adebola said...

Jill Scott talks alot of crap! If its not about why Black men are dating outside their race, then its something as ridiculous as this. Who would intentionally want to marry a Gay man? Ask yourself that Jill.

AngryNaijaMan said...

Linda u are now screening comments abi???

An effeminate man does not = gay man.....Linda has a lotta FEM acting men in her inner circle, so she should know better...abi are they GAY???

God is Love folks...so stop ur judgements

Anonymous said...

Linda, why the preoccupation with gay/Lesbian stories??? Is this really an issue as far as Nigeria is concerned?? Sincerely how many social gatherings IN NIGERIA (where i presume the bulk of your readers are from)would you find this topic being the subject of discussion??? Pls stop this covert highlighting of Gay/lesbian issues and stop trying to force it down our throats!!!

Noble said...

She married him because she probably thought her stank puss had converted him. Gay men are gay. No dey chase them!

oscar said...

With one Rangerover sport and a house at Leki the ladies will not give a hoot if he is Gay or not. Most ladies focuses on what you are than who you are.,,,,, If you are an accountant with chevron and you are the chairman of Gays in Nigeria, the ladies will rush you, but say you are straight and you are an okader rider they will run. however gay or no gay I still feel that their are more lesbians than Gays in this our Naija

Anonymous said...

Sommie, you are the bomb.

sola said...

Gay men.. straight women. Its like a party with a lifetime roommate abeg. He will cry and hold the tissues when they watch chic flicks, he probably will have good taste in clothing, they will shave their legs together and wear pink Pajamas. If he is rich....she don hammer abeg!

Im sure he wont mind her cheating, but if he turns her boyfriends gay..wahala dey.

gbo gbo bigz girlz said...

what can i say?.. love of money, low self-esteem,denial, desperation......

i just think its TRASH...

Dr. Udegbunam Chukwudi said...

In as much as it's hard to believe, not all effeminate guys are gay.

It could be an arranged wedding to please the folks of both parties.

Some chics no wan marry these days and marrying a gay guy is a way of living your life without wahala. "una wan force me marry abi? Ok. here you go, i don marry now".

Anonymous said...

LOL@ sola

Anonymous said...

lol@ Sola....


and Oscar - was actually looking for the 'like' button there...well said, bro

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