most def, not for anything bt for d kids who didn't plan to come to dis world and dey are still my children's siblings will threat den like my kids if d side chic permits sef.nothing new under d sun
Yes I will. These children don't have tobsuffer for their fathers mistake . they really had no hand in all this. Plus am comfortable for heavens sake, it won't hurt to help
Yes I will. These children don't have tobsuffer for their fathers mistake . they really had no hand in all this. Plus am comfortable for heavens sake, it won't hurt to help
Yea I ll cos dy are his children nd u can't let d sins of d father rub off d children cos also dy Neva asked 2 b born its ws d husband wandering dick dt brought dem 2 ds world so dy don't hv 2 suffer 1 bit.
I won't want the kids to suffer, so I would. Just enough to take the kids through tertiary education and feed them till they're able to stand on their own. It's up to her whatever she wants to do with the money, my conscience would be clear
In some cases, d man might have settled d second wife before his death, some men are like that, maybe he has bought her a house, put a huge amount in her acct & also established her, since he has d got to hide d woman from his wife so if I were his wife I would not give her anything unless if I can see anybody dat can prove to me that nothing has bn done for her, I will bcos of God & children consider giving her something.
I won't give the woman ten Naira wey get hole. If the man was caring and treated me well when he was alive, I will take care of the kids upkeep. If he was an idiot, all of them don loose be dat
No I won't leave any money for her, she knew he was married n leaving money for her kids she will just use it. Make she hustle. The least I can do is make pay for the kids education be cos of their father. But I ain't giving her shit.
honestly........ I won't do anything who do I want to fight since the man in question is dead........ I will ask them to stay with me for a while and after the money came through I will divide it into two......i can't be fighting the innocent kids.....
Yes I would even if not for her for the kids. Yes I would feel bad but we need to look at the future. Whether i like it or not the kids are his and they have a right to inherit their father, moreover, my conscience will be more at rest when I let them ve somethings from their dad's wealth.
For the sake of christianity, i will help the children get to University education level. Afterwards, they are on their own. My husband didnt tell to even help them before he died so i am doing it on my own.
see how people create problems for others!!...... Madam Side chick no know say oga sir don marry?.....why sleep with another woman's husband? I won't give her anything!!.......
i would set up a trust for the kids if i couldn't be certain that their mother would use the money for them. Its not their fault. They didn't ask to be born
The side chick herself won't see a penny coz she knowingly went with/for a married man. The kids however are innocent. I would pay their school fees directly to the school(up to uni) buy and give them things they need but never ever direct cash
But according to the story, the man didnt ask his wife to take care of his concubine and her children. He only confessed to his wife that they existed. For the concubine to have helped him financially, it means the woman if rich and is capable of taking care of her kids. So my dear i will enjoy the inherited money alone and take it as compensation for the cheating he cheated on me.
Linda, it will be difficult to get a honest answer bcos we are not in that position at d moment. However, I think that I would be very disappointed and mad with d other woman but after a long while, I may consider d children.just d kids o not their mother.
I will enjoy the money alone with my biological children. His concubine should take care of her children herself and suffer so that she will warn her children and everyone around her never to sleep with another man's wife and have outside children for him. If they ask why, she will tell them that it is the consequencies that she is suffering now. And in her next world, she will never have children secretly for another man's wife
YES! I would. It would kill me if I don't. Those kids didn't ask for all the drama and all. Ish happens in life so I will just find a way to forgive the dead husband, his side chick and their beautiful kids, and then move on my life, period! No time for holding on to nonsense.
It's my money, I will enjoy it with my own children alone. Next time the side chick will learn not to sleep with other people's husbands and even have children for them.
I will keep all the money for me and my children……. I won't cry for such a husband though. I won't mourn him i will immediately get myself one fine young man to take care of my good self.
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sincerely i will give them some money to take care of themselves, since am comfortable why should i be stingy or wicked about it, abeggg life continues jare, i will give them some money period.
sincerely i will give them some money to take care of themselves, since am comfortable why should i be stingy or wicked about it, abeggg life continues jare, i will give them some money period.
The children are not to blame, it's all the fault of the woman and my husband. I won't give her cash anyways before she will eat it. I will pay the children's school fees for as long as I can, pay into the school's account but the woman, let her pray she doesnt come close to me. shikena.
I will give out the money because of her two children and i will forgive her the deed has has been done already just for the children i will pity her because they belong to my late husband.
For all we know, maybe the man was even lying that the woman was his source of his income so that the wife will pity them and help. Because if the woman was really the source of his income, he would have made provisions for the woman's children in his will or he would have opened accounts for her children. I wont give them anything unless the woman apologises to me and ask for my help.
To be absolutely sincere, bcs of d kind of person I am which is d fact dt I hate to c li2 children suffer Nd forgvs easily, I will give d side chick an amount dt will b Enof to take care of d children... But abeg if d chick na Yoruba Biko no try am ooo cs if na one of those desperate ones hmmmmm babalawo house no far frm dem own so quick turn usain both and run wt d mony no even try look bak.
Hmmmm..its a tough one but being the kind of person I am, I will sorry for the kids and give their some money to take care of them and that ends every communication with her...
It depends. If the "other woman" wasn't aware he had a wife, then for the sake of her kids, YES. But then, if she was aware and ok being a side click, then NO! .Not a penny will she see not to to even say touch....
Since I received his insurance money n d other woman was his primary source of livelihood, I''ll give her a reasonable amount to start up a business n get an apartment. Moreover what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul.
Hmmm!!! with all sincere heart, i will. i will give them $150k out of the $2.5m and dats about #32.5m. with that, they will definitely have a good life, if the woman is wise enough to invest it.
Neva,give ke...2 b honest ko possible I dnt knw dem,nd a side chick shuld knw she is dealing wit someone else husband,so she wuld av collected her own share b4 he passes,abi eno takia of am...seriously I wuld face my own life...biko linda na d truth ooo...
Would be so damn angry at first. But will give them some of the money but only in a way that, the children will be the only benefactors. The woman should get up her lazy arse and look for a job, the only source of income my foot. #myownonecent.
At first my anger I won't but after I have thought about it and my mum has spoken to me forever about GOD I trust her I will.....for the sake of the kids
Yes off course because how one looks into it those kids are still your step sons and daughter,mostly importantly you don't know what the future holds,those kids meant be of help to u or ur kids....we all pray for the betterment of everyone..
This is really hard but it all depends on how much love I have for my husband. and if the children are really suffering, I could start a business for the lady and that's all. His children are my children kind of.
So i have to pay her gratuity as well???........she should go and look for another host to feed on.....or run to her family....sorry, am nice but not that nice
She should have known her position......sidechick in life...side chick in death.......if at all God touch me...i will help d kids in their studies...i will pay direct to d school....she shld go and hustle
I will definitely give them,is not the children's fault to be born to a mistress,as far as d man accept is fault in terms of death,i will forgive them,cos his gone .I will do it for God and d children.
Honestly, if not for anything, but for the sake of the innocent kids who should not suffer because of their parents indecisiveness, I will give them some money from my insurance policy.
if i have children am nt giving her a dime bt if i dnt have children i'll give dem like 10%of d money and also she doesnt nid mony cos she was his source of income so y pity her,she has mony already.
I will probably put $100k in a trust for each child's University Education, if it is not used when they go to University, they can each access the money when they are 25yrs old. Then I will give their mother $200k immediately for their daily expenses and what eva they need. There is a clause she and her kids would get the above under some conditions. 1) The kids must do a DNA test to prove they are my husband's kids (if they are not his kids they must not use his last name and they would not be entitled to a dime). 2) She must not use my husband's name or last name for herself, or claim to be his wife and she must sign for herself and on behalf of her kids, that they would not come to me for more money or any favours. 3) They (herself and her kids) must not go to my kids later for anything at all. 4) All money given is a one time pay off as a favour to help her take care of the kids she had for my husband. 5) And I do not want a relationship with her or the kids.
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I will inherit the other kids too n their mom, they won't suffer while I enjoy God forbid, I forgive easily though so things like these don't cause me sleep. Wetin dey dis life .
Wit a heavy heart I will..bcos I could hv been in her situation too plus if my husband knew he would die dat day he would hv since added them to his will bcos if he could come out open to admit it to me he could hv still added them to the will witout telling me..so i,ll gv her smthing from it.
I honestly want 2 say I won't but knowing myself, my heart isn't that hard... I will do my best 2 ensure they don't suffer... doesn't mean they'll live like queens and kings tho
now the comment I want to make is not for; 1)those who didn,t know a man was married and impregnanted by the man, 2)people raped and got pregnant in process, 3) people deceived, engaged by man in a serious relationship or married etc, in summary people whose pregnancy is not a weapon(seed sown) to harm, wreck and MILK others. NOW it is only a lady who thinks she is worthless, who even thinks she doesn't have a (bright) future, will get pregnant (deliberately) for a man,who is rich, famous, influential etc so that you relax and be eating money through your investment , your seed you,ve sown which will forever bind you and the man even if he later marry. And the worst are ladies who know a man is married and you planned, scheme and deliberately got pregnant for the man, for ur selfish interest, even d married man u think u are smart. Linda my answer is NO ,what happened to beyonce's father side chick is what they deserve. they should be ashamed, THEY CAME TO LEECH.
I'll be shocked n hurt but will give them nt because of the side chick or l8 husby but because of the kids who didn't choose whr 2 be born,my honest opinion
Hmmm, tough one indeed. My instant reaction would be that of anger and refusal to have anything to do with side chick and the children. But I sincerely believe that after the whole sentiments n all, I would give rather prefer that since the children are innocent victims of circumstance, I will be responsible for their school fees and send monthly allowances for their upkeep. Then with time, they MIGHT relate with my own kids, if it ever happens, it would take a lot of years for that to happen for me.
get her a one bedroom,pay two years,start a shop for her in her village n disappear.real life.that's what mum friend did.I will do same.side hoes deserve nothing ask lil kim Faith Evans kicked her butt to d cub.
Hmmm...first, a DNA test. If they are confirmed to be his, I will share. Death is always a constant reminder that life is too short, God himself forgives us for all the atrocities we commit everyday.
No brainer....we left a ---- storey house in --------- for my stepies...live and lets live...so far he claimed them..pls pls be human and see ...what God will do for you...o..wait I should say...be God fearing.
The question is would u let em die of hunger while u enjoy life with an honest mind. Do the needful,The deed has been done n he has passed on if not for his sake for those kids. Do the needful
Id be hurt for the fact that I married a lying cheating man who's relationship with me was clearly on falsehood and dishonesty. BUT I will definitely share the money with her. Those are my kids too and siblings to my children.
The kids will get part of the money but definitely not the side chick, she ain't family! She can go and continue her side chick business somewhere else. #f*** her
It depends on the attitude of the side chick and how hurt I was. If my husband has really loved me and taken excellent care of me and my kids while he kept this secret from me, I will forgive him and help out those kids he had out of wedlock . But if their mother is the nasty type that don't care whose ox is gored, I will simply cut them out of my life and that of my kids
I will not. But I will take care of the children financial needs and pay their fees to any level d want. They children didn't hurt me besides it's my husbands money and they are my husbands children.
Yes! For the children directly. Trust me I know how to set that up. The woman can go and look for work n that will be my condition. The reason I say this is bicos no child asked to born, so it's not their fault that they are in the situation they find themselves. So, help I will surely help the kids but not dis mama.
Yes! For the children directly. Trust me I know how to set that up. The woman can go and look for work n that will be my condition. The reason I say this is bicos no child asked to born, so it's not their fault that they are in the situation they find themselves. So, help I will surely help the kids but not dis mama.
It's really painful to have fine that out that way @ that point in time. But cos of those children I sincerely will leave some portion for because of God and the are his blood & he admitted they were his.
FRANKLY, I WOULD! I MIGHT NOT GIVE DIRECTLY TO THEIR MUM BUT MY HUBBY'S KIDS, I WILL OPEN AN ACCOUNT FOR THEM AND PAY IN WHATEVER IT IS I WANT TO GIVE THEM AND PROBABLY HAND IT OVER WHEN THEY ARE OF RIGHT AGE.
PROVIDED KIDS (hubby's blood) ARE ALREADY INVOLVED. ANYTHING WITH KIDS, I DO NOT JOKE WITH SO THAT I DONT INCUR GOD'S WRATH
Honestly, I will make the children comfortable but make sure they can only access the money when they are of age . With that I will make sure there mother don't get a dime until the kids are of age. #myopinion
Hmmmm! The side chick obviously knew he was married and she went ahead to have 2 kids for him! Well am sorry but she will live with it! But on the second thoughts sha, could take care of the kids because they are innocent! But the side CHICKEN ! Joor ooo!!!
I wont punish little children for one man's indiscretion. Besides if i love a man, i will grow to love his seed even if they are not from me. Although it might take sometime to accept the situation.Yes I will financially assist the children. Dunno abt the whore tho!
Dis mata gidigan ni ooo. Well of truth it depends oooo, as na she make life dey meaning for him, if na say I knw say she still dey rich I no go give am shishi bt if I see say she no too get again, hmmm I go lepu am small and na if sheno make trouble with me ooooo
No i will not. what for? she has had her own share when she was cheating on me. So why should I give her a dime if my hubby did not make any provision for her. That is my own opinion. I hate anybody who cheats especially women who make out with married men even when you know that they are married. They don't have conscience because they know that one day they will get married too.No mercy for her please.
2.5m dats like 500m! Hmm, I jst do a one time settlement of like 50m and ask her to stay away, cos seeing her regularly wld jst make the betrayal more painful and spoil my memories of him..dats me o, everyone is different
Am nt a female, sha! Bt u av to they r ur late husband's kids.... So gvin dam 500k or 1mill won't tk anything out of u.... Aleast God will knw u av done ur best and that's it.
2.5m dats like 500m! Hmm, I jst do a one time settlement of like 50m and ask her to stay away, cos seeing her regularly wld jst make the betrayal more painful and spoil my memories of him..dats me o, everyone is different
Hell FUCKING NO.... She knew he was married so why be a side chic.... let her work hard and provide maybe if i help it will be with school necessities for the kids
hmmm........if she knew he was married and still had kids for him, No i wouldn't but if she didn't know, then i cud give her kids some and ensure the money is used for their education
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I'll give the kids some money because they shouldn't be responsible for their mother's atrocities. Besides, whether I like it or not ...they are still my kids' siblings.
Weldone man for doing the needfulf . if I cornfirm that the kids are his, bakwomi, I will opt to cater for their education only and side chick better coperate or she's on her own. She won't touich a dime cos I do all transactions with the schools corncerned. Would want the kids to get educated cos their father would have done so but chick should be a chicken and take care of herself MOST MEN AINT FAITHFUL these days so nothing shocks moi again so Ladies shine your eyes and be empowered no matter what cos the pendulum swings either way. KYla
I would only pay for their school fees directly to the school until they finish college (university). They are innocent but I do not believe a wife should continually pay for the mistakes of her husband.Their mother knew what she was doing sleeping around with a married man so therefore she has to pay for the consequences. If that means the mother has to now go out and get a job to at least provide for their shelter and feeding so be it.
Weldone man for doing the needfulf . if I cornfirm that the kids are his, bakwomi, I will opt to cater for their education only and side chick better coperate or she's on her own. She won't touich a dime cos I do all transactions with the schools corncerned. Would want the kids to get educated cos their father would have done so but chick should be a chicken and take care of herself MOST MEN AINT FAITHFUL these days so nothing shocks moi again so Ladies shine your eyes and be empowered no matter what cos the pendulum swings either way. KYla
in as much as I am a very nice and generous woman, I am not sure I would give them a dime. Their mother im sure is smart enough to use her pussy to take good care of them. PS: and ofcourse he will most definitely not be mourned..
Hmm, truth be told, i would say they should go to hell but thinking of the poor innocent kids it will be difficult. i just will set some money aside for their education.
Nope,will not give the woman a brass farthing! When she & my husband were sleeping together did they call me to join? Did I know about it? So now he's dead what has the woman got to do with me? How is she my business? The only thing I would do is pay for the kids education & healthcare,housing,etc directly to the school,hospital,landlord,
etc until they graduate from university (if they're interested in going that far with their education) that's the most I can do as they are innocent & didn't ask to be brought into this world & as their father is no longer alive the least I can do as a Christian is educate them so they have a fair chance at making it in life,but as I wrote earlier I will not give them money directly, my Christianity never reach that level..sorry
Sincerely Linda, it would be very painful. It'll take a woman with a really kind heart to share, and I will share. As painful as it is,i wont allow the children suffer because of my cheating husband and their slut mother! I would share, for the sake of the kids.
I will not give her shishi ( anything) . if my husband wanted to leave her something he should have done that while he was alive and well and busy cheating on me.
I'm not a woman but I'll proffer my point of view. And I see that if my husband has been lying to me for over years now, what is the possibility that he's not lying to me on his sick bed? I ain't giving no dime out. I wish them best of luck!
I will be sure to help in d best way I can whether am already living a comfortable life or not. My kids interest will b paramount but am sure smethn can be dne and infact will be dne. I can't change anythn dat has happened so no need to be unnecessarily wicked to them. May it never be our portion tho. Such a situation...#smh
A million dollar question... I will gv them something for the children's upkeep plus little something to invest in business...and that's it ...no more, no less.
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No I won't. Shikena!
Yes I will. These children don't have tobsuffer for their fathers mistake . they really had no hand in all this. Plus am comfortable for heavens sake, it won't hurt to help
Yes I will. These children don't have tobsuffer for their fathers mistake . they really had no hand in all this. Plus am comfortable for heavens sake, it won't hurt to help
Why won't i? Itz only a bad woman that won't forgive a dead person.
Yea I ll cos dy are his children nd u can't let d sins of d father rub off d children cos also dy Neva asked 2 b born its ws d husband wandering dick dt brought dem 2 ds world so dy don't hv 2 suffer 1 bit.
Lol well, that's my luck. Givers!!! Noo I wouldnt.
I won't want the kids to suffer, so I would. Just enough to take the kids through tertiary education and feed them till they're able to stand on their own. It's up to her whatever she wants to do with the money, my conscience would be clear
Wats my own wit her? Myt only adopt d kids
hmmm speechless
In some cases, d man might have settled d second wife before his death, some men are like that, maybe he has bought her a house, put a huge amount in her acct & also established her, since he has d got to hide d woman from his wife so if I were his wife I would not give her anything unless if I can see anybody dat can prove to me that nothing has bn done for her, I will bcos of God & children consider giving her something.
I would do something for the kids as they are innocent in this situation.
I won't give the woman ten Naira wey get hole.
If the man was caring and treated me well when he was alive, I will take care of the kids upkeep.
If he was an idiot, all of them don loose be dat
No I won't leave any money for her, she knew he was married n leaving money for her kids she will just use it. Make she hustle. The least I can do is make pay for the kids education be cos of their father. But I ain't giving her shit.
I will give the family a portion because of the children. All that happened was not the fault of the children and they need to be taken care of.
Honestly i would take time cause of the hurt but i would eventually give her some money
honestly........ I won't do anything who do I want to fight since the man in question is dead........ I will ask them to stay with me for a while and after the money came through I will divide it into two......i can't be fighting the innocent kids.....
No. i will not. she wil have to pay fro all the pains she caused my marriage as a side chick. lagbaja is her second name ni oo
Yes I would even if not for her for the kids. Yes I would feel bad but we need to look at the future. Whether i like it or not the kids are his and they have a right to inherit their father, moreover, my conscience will be more at rest when I let them ve somethings from their dad's wealth.
Seriously I don't know.............
Lai Lai! i wunt giv oooo! in her next world she no go follow another person husband, how can u have @ kids for a married man! rubish!!!!!
No. i will not. she wil have to pay fro all the pains she caused my marriage as a side chick. lagbaja is her second name ni oo
Well I will let d children have some part but not half d money he left with me so that they will not suffer. Pls Linda post my comment oooooooo
I just had to comment Linda. I will give because of the children, I love kids so much. They sudnt pay for the sins of their parents.
For the sake of christianity, i will help the children get to University education level. Afterwards, they are on their own. My husband didnt tell to even help them before he died so i am doing it on my own.
The woman must have known he is a married man before sleeping with him and even having kids for him. She deserves nothing.
see how people create problems for others!!...... Madam Side chick no know say oga sir don marry?.....why sleep with another woman's husband? I won't give her anything!!.......
The woman must have known he is a married man before sleeping with him and even having kids for him. She deserves nothing.
Because the world is not a permanent place for anyone I will assist her for the sake of the kids.and God will be happy with me
i will not give anybody anything.
i will offer to pay their school fees in very good schools till University level.
but thats it.
their mother will have to hustle for the rest.
I will,just 4 d sake of God.
i would set up a trust for the kids if i couldn't be certain that their mother would use the money for them. Its not their fault. They didn't ask to be born
The side chick herself won't see a penny coz she knowingly went with/for a married man. The kids however are innocent. I would pay their school fees directly to the school(up to uni) buy and give them things they need but never ever direct cash
But according to the story, the man didnt ask his wife to take care of his concubine and her children. He only confessed to his wife that they existed. For the concubine to have helped him financially, it means the woman if rich and is capable of taking care of her kids. So my dear i will enjoy the inherited money alone and take it as compensation for the cheating he cheated on me.
Tbh..I would not give them.. Was she not aware he was married to someone..next time she better not go to another woman's husband.
Of course I will train d kids, cos they are also part of d family. It will be too selfish of me to ignore them. God will not be happy if I dont.
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Linda, it will be difficult to get a honest answer bcos we are not in that position at d moment. However, I think that I would be very disappointed and mad with d other woman but after a long while, I may consider d children.just d kids o not their mother.
I will enjoy the money alone with my biological children. His concubine should take care of her children herself and suffer so that she will warn her children and everyone around her never to sleep with another man's wife and have outside children for him. If they ask why, she will tell them that it is the consequencies that she is suffering now. And in her next world, she will never have children secretly for another man's wife
It will be greedy of me if I didn't share d money.atleast for the sake of the children and their education.
YES! I would. It would kill me if I don't. Those kids didn't ask for all the drama and all. Ish happens in life so I will just find a way to forgive the dead husband, his side chick and their beautiful kids, and then move on my life, period! No time for holding on to nonsense.
It's my money, I will enjoy it with my own children alone. Next time the side chick will learn not to sleep with other people's husbands and even have children for them.
I will keep all the money for me and my children……. I won't cry for such a husband though. I won't mourn him i will immediately get myself one fine young man to take care of my good self.
Yes I will give them
Life is funny hmm I have a mum who is so forgiving am sure she would make me give something to them....so yes I will.
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If they ask me, i will give them but if they dont ask me, i wont give them. It means they are also comfortable
Because of his children yes.
sincerely i will give them some money to take care of themselves, since am comfortable why should i be stingy or wicked about it, abeggg life continues jare, i will give them some money period.
sincerely i will give them some money to take care of themselves, since am comfortable why should i be stingy or wicked about it, abeggg life continues jare, i will give them some money period.
The children are not to blame, it's all the fault of the woman and my husband. I won't give her cash anyways before she will eat it. I will pay the children's school fees for as long as I can, pay into the school's account but the woman, let her pray she doesnt come close to me. shikena.
I will give out the money because of her two children and i will forgive her the deed has has been done already just for the children i will pity her because they belong to my late husband.
Honestly,I'll be shocked n hurt but will give them not cos of the side chick but cos of d kids involved. They didn't ask 2 be born dt way,life goes on
For all we know, maybe the man was even lying that the woman was his source of his income so that the wife will pity them and help. Because if the woman was really the source of his income, he would have made provisions for the woman's children in his will or he would have opened accounts for her children. I wont give them anything unless the woman apologises to me and ask for my help.
The woman must be rich to have helped my husband so why should i give her from my inheritance?
To be absolutely sincere, bcs of d kind of person I am which is d fact dt I hate to c li2 children suffer Nd forgvs easily, I will give d side chick an amount dt will b Enof to take care of d children... But abeg if d chick na Yoruba Biko no try am ooo cs if na one of those desperate ones hmmmmm babalawo house no far frm dem own so quick turn usain both and run wt d mony no even try look bak.
Don't start something you can't finish. That's all.
Hmmmm..its a tough one but being the kind of person I am, I will sorry for the kids and give their some money to take care of them and that ends every communication with her...
You cant help it na?after all the children dint beg to be born?give them scholarship and their mother should find something doing period!
It depends. If the "other woman" wasn't aware he had a wife, then for the sake of her kids, YES. But then, if she was aware and ok being a side click, then NO! .Not a penny will she see not to to even say touch....
Since I received his insurance money n d other woman was his primary source of livelihood, I''ll give her a reasonable amount to start up a business n get an apartment. Moreover what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul.
Hmmm!!! with all sincere heart, i will. i will give them $150k out of the $2.5m and dats about #32.5m. with that, they will definitely have a good life, if the woman is wise enough to invest it.
Neva,give ke...2 b honest ko possible I dnt knw dem,nd a side chick shuld knw she is dealing wit someone else husband,so she wuld av collected her own share b4 he passes,abi eno takia of am...seriously I wuld face my own life...biko linda na d truth ooo...
Would be so damn angry at first. But will give them some of the money but only in a way that, the children will be the only benefactors. The woman should get up her lazy arse and look for a job, the only source of income my foot. #myownonecent.
Yes bcos no body knows tomorrow
I pay for the kids education.....will not give them cash but pay the schools directly. I won't give anything to the woman....husband snatcher.
At first my anger I won't but after I have thought about it and my mum has spoken to me forever about GOD I trust her I will.....for the sake of the kids
Yes off course because how one looks into it those kids are still your step sons and daughter,mostly importantly you don't know what the future holds,those kids meant be of help to u or ur kids....we all pray for the betterment of everyone..
I reject it for my self in Jesus name
But if this kind thing happen to @Juliet madam take note...I go advise her make she chop d money only her.
@Galore
This is really hard but it all depends on how much love I have for my husband. and if the children are really suffering, I could start a business for the lady and that's all. His children are my children kind of.
So i have to pay her gratuity as well???........she should go and look for another host to feed on.....or run to her family....sorry, am nice but not that nice
She should have known her position......sidechick in life...side chick in death.......if at all God touch me...i will help d kids in their studies...i will pay direct to d school....she shld go and hustle
Well I will try and give her 200,000 Naira to help for the sake of the kids..
For the ladies and transgenders please.....
I will definitely give them,is not the children's fault to be born to a mistress,as far as d man accept is fault in terms of death,i will forgive them,cos his gone .I will do it for God and d children.
Will definitely give her part of the money buh only cos of the children, because they didn't choose dia parent.
To be honest I will share nothing Becos he would have stated it on his will.
I will, just for those children and to do my part as a child of God. The deed has been done money is not everything.
Of cos I wl gv dem reasonable portion of d money cos dey r my kids siblings.
Of cos I wl gv dem reasonable portion of d money cos dey r my kids siblings.
Honestly, if not for anything, but for the sake of the innocent kids who should not suffer because of their parents indecisiveness, I will give them some money from my insurance policy.
I will .. Of coz u hv a lot at hand its not the children s fault. It wnt be fair if they suffer & u hv so much.
FOr the kids sake...yes. Just for the sake of the kids as they are innocent
I will consider the kids
HmMmmmmm... Dis one strong! Well, I will sha after I've gotten over the heartbreak#eyesrolling
dt wldnt be easy to do at first,but maybe as time goes on i can tink abt it b/c of her children
Me still nice small... I go try giv er like 1m
if i have children am nt giving her a dime bt if i dnt have children i'll give dem like 10%of d money and also she doesnt nid mony cos she was his source of income so y pity her,she has mony already.
I will probably put $100k in a trust for each child's University Education, if it is not used when they go to University, they can each access the money when they are 25yrs old. Then I will give their mother $200k immediately for their daily expenses and what eva they need.
There is a clause she and her kids would get the above under some conditions.
1) The kids must do a DNA test to prove they are my husband's kids (if they are not his kids they must not use his last name and they would not be entitled to a dime).
2) She must not use my husband's name or last name for herself, or claim to be his wife and she must sign for herself and on behalf of her kids, that they would not come to me for more money or any favours.
3) They (herself and her kids) must not go to my kids later for anything at all.
4) All money given is a one time pay off as a favour to help her take care of the kids she had for my husband.
5) And I do not want a relationship with her or the kids.
I will give them 500k make them dey waka abeg. I can't even shourring....
Ode question! Of course, why now? As far as they are truly his kids!!!!!
I will give some money to them
Yes I would for the sake of the innocent kids not for their cheap cunt of a mother. Please place your konga orders using this link. http://www.konga.com/?k_id=ecart
Would set up a small trust fund for the kids its not their fault their Mama is a Hoe. . nothing for the mother tho
I will inherit the other kids too n their mom, they won't suffer while I enjoy God forbid, I forgive easily though so things like these don't cause me sleep. Wetin dey dis life .
Wit a heavy heart I will..bcos I could hv been in her situation too plus if my husband knew he would die dat day he would hv since added them to his will bcos if he could come out open to admit it to me he could hv still added them to the will witout telling me..so i,ll gv her smthing from it.
I will give them a portion from my church mind cos am not a wicked person.
Will definitely help out,the children are so innocent
I honestly want 2 say I won't but knowing myself, my heart isn't that hard... I will do my best 2 ensure they don't suffer... doesn't mean they'll live like queens and kings tho
now the comment I want to make is not for; 1)those who didn,t know a man was married and impregnanted by the man, 2)people raped and got pregnant in process, 3) people deceived, engaged by man in a serious relationship or married etc, in summary people whose pregnancy is not a weapon(seed sown) to harm, wreck and MILK others. NOW it is only a lady who thinks she is worthless, who even thinks she doesn't have a (bright) future, will get pregnant (deliberately) for a man,who is rich, famous, influential etc so that you relax and be eating money through your investment , your seed you,ve sown which will forever bind you and the man even if he later marry. And the worst are ladies who know a man is married and you planned, scheme and deliberately got pregnant for the man, for ur selfish interest, even d married man u think u are smart. Linda my answer is NO ,what happened to beyonce's father side chick is what they deserve. they should be ashamed, THEY CAME TO LEECH.
Honestly I won't. They should sort themselves out!
I'll be shocked n hurt but will give them nt because of the side chick or l8 husby but because of the kids who didn't choose whr 2 be born,my honest opinion
Pay the children's school fees directly to the school. Hire someone to supply food stuff to them twice a month. Don't give the b*tch a dime!
Never o! Wen I and my husband were making d money she was not there..but d highest I can do for them is to train d kids to some level.
Never o! Wen I and my husband were making d money she was not there..but d highest I can do for them is to train d kids to some level.
Hmmm, tough one indeed. My instant reaction would be that of anger and refusal to have anything to do with side chick and the children. But I sincerely believe that after the whole sentiments n all, I would give rather prefer that since the children are innocent victims of circumstance, I will be responsible for their school fees and send monthly allowances for their upkeep.
Then with time, they MIGHT relate with my own kids, if it ever happens, it would take a lot of years for that to happen for me.
To be honest... M not giving them a dime
I would give something for the sake of the children to right the wrong of my evil husband and to haunt her conscience
get her a one bedroom,pay two years,start a shop for her in her village n disappear.real life.that's what mum friend did.I will do same.side hoes deserve nothing ask lil kim Faith Evans kicked her butt to d cub.
Hmmmm,im nt sure I will oh...I've a family 2 cater 4 2
may God help us to forgive. by God's grace I pray it doesn't happen to us
Truth??i would help d woman,nt for her sake bt 4 d innocent children.
Yes! I wil, I wnt even give d mother, i'll just take up d chr school fees, nd wil tel deir moda to do d upkeep nd stil support weneva I feel like
Nope. She knew he was married and that didn't deter her. She should get herself a job.
Hmmm...first, a DNA test. If they are confirmed to be his, I will share. Death is always a constant reminder that life is too short, God himself forgives us for all the atrocities we commit everyday.
No brainer....we left a ---- storey house in --------- for my stepies...live and lets live...so far he claimed them..pls pls be human and see ...what God will do for you...o..wait I should say...be God fearing.
The question is would u let em die of hunger while u enjoy life with an honest mind. Do the needful,The deed has been done n he has passed on if not for his sake for those kids. Do the needful
Yes, I would give her some money.
For the sake of the children i will give, if she is not financially okey.
Additional family my foot, so he doesn't av anything n he's av a side chick n children....he will nt rest in peace
Additional family my foot, so he doesn't av anything n he's aving a side chick n children....he will nt rest in peace
Id be hurt for the fact that I married a lying cheating man who's relationship with me was clearly on falsehood and dishonesty. BUT I will definitely share the money with her. Those are my kids too and siblings to my children.
Yes, I will give something, for the sake of his children, my kids' half siblings.
Yes,, I will give her some
The kids will get part of the money but definitely not the side chick, she ain't family! She can go and continue her side chick business somewhere else. #f*** her
I wil give them their share cos they are his blood nd I have d heart of a mother nd christian
It depends on the attitude of the side chick and how hurt I was. If my husband has really loved me and taken excellent care of me and my kids while he kept this secret from me, I will forgive him and help out those kids he had out of wedlock . But if their mother is the nasty type that don't care whose ox is gored, I will simply cut them out of my life and that of my kids
Additional what???,do I know them,,,i don't at all.once u start giving them in portion they will come one day and demand for the whole money
sincerely, d other kids will def benefit from it that i know. i have my reasons for saying it
I will give out 75percent of the money, because it is unfair what he did to the other Woman.
Never!
Linda. You don't reward dishonesty. This lady is on her own. For the children, you may save the money for their future schooling
Honestly l will give her somefrom my own for d sake of Almighty God
As a Christian and woman I'll for the sake of the children
As a Christian and woman I'll for the sake of the children
As a Christian and woman I'll for the sake of the children
No, if she knew I existed and still went ahead to marry and have children with him...lailai..
Yes I will for the sake of at least
Thank God am comfortable already will jst give them at most 1 million dollar frm the insurance money and everyone can go their separate ways...
If they need my help,i will help
Hell no..dere is no sentiments here...i wont give her a dimeeee
I will not. But I will take care of the children financial needs and pay their fees to any level d want. They children didn't hurt me besides it's my husbands money and they are my husbands children.
I would take care of the children ONLY....and make that very very clear to the side chick
Honestly,i don't know
I will give her enough to set up herself and take care of the kids with it and never come back for more... Cos i wont attend to her a second time..
Yes! For the children directly. Trust me I know how to set that up. The woman can go and look for work n that will be my condition. The reason I say this is bicos no child asked to born, so it's not their fault that they are in the situation they find themselves. So, help I will surely help the kids but not dis mama.
Yes! For the children directly. Trust me I know how to set that up. The woman can go and look for work n that will be my condition. The reason I say this is bicos no child asked to born, so it's not their fault that they are in the situation they find themselves. So, help I will surely help the kids but not dis mama.
It's really painful to have fine that out that way @ that point in time. But cos of those children I sincerely will leave some portion for because of God and the are his blood & he admitted they were his.
Y would I give dem! ..even if I'm d riçhest I ain't giving a dime!
Side chick my foot
Yes
Nigerian stupid question
Yes
FRANKLY, I WOULD! I MIGHT NOT GIVE DIRECTLY TO THEIR MUM BUT MY HUBBY'S KIDS, I WILL OPEN AN ACCOUNT FOR THEM AND PAY IN WHATEVER IT IS I WANT TO GIVE THEM AND PROBABLY HAND IT OVER WHEN THEY ARE OF RIGHT AGE.
PROVIDED KIDS (hubby's blood) ARE ALREADY INVOLVED. ANYTHING WITH KIDS, I DO NOT JOKE WITH SO THAT I DONT INCUR GOD'S WRATH
Da hoe sleept with my husband, knowing he was married, she is getting nothing? As a matter of fact I hate her
I will give ooooo, 4 d sake of d kids, I will not allow d kids 2 suffer 4 what dey don't know about
Never!!!
I'll share with them, cus they are Family(na my husband she fuck get the pikin dem)
Honestly, I will make the children comfortable but make sure they can only access the money when they are of age . With that I will make sure there mother don't get a dime until the kids are of age. #myopinion
I will, nt cos of d woman buh becos of d kids. They r innocent, so I wil help them
Dont leave a dime
Hmmmm! The side chick obviously knew he was married and she went ahead to have 2 kids for him! Well am sorry but she will live with it! But on the second thoughts sha, could take care of the kids because they are innocent! But the side CHICKEN ! Joor ooo!!!
I wont punish little children for one man's indiscretion. Besides if i love a man, i will grow to love his seed even if they are not from me. Although it might take sometime to accept the situation.Yes I will financially assist the children. Dunno abt the whore tho!
Dis mata gidigan ni ooo. Well of truth it depends oooo, as na she make life dey meaning for him, if na say I knw say she still dey rich I no go give am shishi bt if I see say she no too get again, hmmm I go lepu am small and na if sheno make trouble with me ooooo
No i will not. what for? she has had her own share when she was cheating on me. So why should I give her a dime if my hubby did not make any provision for her. That is my own opinion.
I hate anybody who cheats especially women who make out with married men even when you know that they are married. They don't have conscience because they know that one day they will get married too.No mercy for her please.
2.5m dats like 500m! Hmm, I jst do a one time settlement of like 50m and ask her to stay away, cos seeing her regularly wld jst make the betrayal more painful and spoil my memories of him..dats me o, everyone is different
I will definitely, not for my husband's sake but for God...........
Hahahaha! Linda this one na Jamb question
Am nt a female, sha! Bt u av to they r ur late husband's kids.... So gvin dam 500k or 1mill won't tk anything out of u.... Aleast God will knw u av done ur best and that's it.
2.5m dats like 500m! Hmm, I jst do a one time settlement of like 50m and ask her to stay away, cos seeing her regularly wld jst make the betrayal more painful and spoil my memories of him..dats me o, everyone is different
Hell FUCKING NO....
She knew he was married so why be a side chic....
let her work hard and provide maybe if i help it will be with school necessities for the kids
hmmm........if she knew he was married and still had kids for him, No i wouldn't but if she didn't know, then i cud give her kids some and ensure the money is used for their education
Of cos i will give the kids a little....insurance and d woman maybe....dependin on her outlook and poise..i may..
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Yes i would with all amy heart. Cos those kids are his blood nd he was honest. So i will do it in his loving memory.
I'll give the kids some money because they shouldn't be responsible for their mother's atrocities. Besides, whether I like it or not ...they are still my kids' siblings.
i will for the sake of d kids and not the hoe
No
Unless she also didn't know about my existence and I'm certain she was also lied to
I wld do nada,dts his p nd now. Dt he is no more d lady shld go find som1 else she Cld be side chick to,am takin care of my own children,shikina
Weldone man for doing the needfulf . if I cornfirm that the kids are his, bakwomi, I will opt to cater for their education only and side chick better coperate or she's on her own. She won't touich a dime cos I do all transactions with the schools corncerned. Would want the kids to get educated cos their father would have done so but chick should be a chicken and take care of herself MOST MEN AINT FAITHFUL these days so nothing shocks moi again so Ladies shine your eyes and be empowered no matter what cos the pendulum swings either way. KYla
I would only pay for their school fees directly to the school until they finish college (university). They are innocent but I do not believe a wife should continually pay for the mistakes of her husband.Their mother knew what she was doing sleeping around with a married man so therefore she has to pay for the consequences. If that means the mother has to now go out and get a job to at least provide for their shelter and feeding so be it.
Weldone man for doing the needfulf . if I cornfirm that the kids are his, bakwomi, I will opt to cater for their education only and side chick better coperate or she's on her own. She won't touich a dime cos I do all transactions with the schools corncerned. Would want the kids to get educated cos their father would have done so but chick should be a chicken and take care of herself MOST MEN AINT FAITHFUL these days so nothing shocks moi again so Ladies shine your eyes and be empowered no matter what cos the pendulum swings either way. KYla
in as much as I am a very nice and generous woman, I am not sure I would give them a dime. Their mother im sure is smart enough to use her pussy to take good care of them. PS: and ofcourse he will most definitely not be mourned..
I am not a woman, but count me out from that woman's children receiving anything from us. Let her carry her cup of raising those kids.
I wouldn't give a single penny to them because I believe I still feel betrayed at that moment.
Hmm, truth be told, i would say they should go to hell but thinking of the poor innocent kids it will be difficult. i just will set some money aside for their education.
Nope,will not give the woman a brass farthing! When she & my husband were sleeping together did they call me to join? Did I know about it? So now he's dead what has the woman got to do with me? How is she my business? The only thing I would do is pay for the kids education & healthcare,housing,etc directly to the school,hospital,landlord,
etc until they graduate from university (if they're interested in going that far with their education) that's the most I can do as they are innocent & didn't ask to be brought into this world & as their father is no longer alive the least I can do as a Christian is educate them so they have a fair chance at making it in life,but as I wrote earlier I will not give them money directly, my Christianity never reach that level..sorry
Sincerely Linda, it would be very painful. It'll take a woman with a really kind heart to share, and I will share. As painful as it is,i wont allow the children suffer because of my cheating husband and their slut mother! I would share, for the sake of the kids.
Hell FUCKING no. Don't owe them shishi, that bitch should get a job! Hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
I will take of some responsibilities of the kids i.e education. the woman? NOT A DIME
It might b hard but
We ® Family...
So it a portion will b allotted 2 dem
#nanapearl#
Hell NO.
I will not give her shishi ( anything) . if my husband wanted to leave her something he should have done that while he was alive and well and busy cheating on me.
I'm not a woman but I'll proffer my point of view. And I see that if my husband has been lying to me for over years now, what is the possibility that he's not lying to me on his sick bed? I ain't giving no dime out. I wish them best of luck!
I will be sure to help in d best way I can whether am already living a comfortable life or not. My kids interest will b paramount but am sure smethn can be dne and infact will be dne. I can't change anythn dat has happened so no need to be unnecessarily wicked to them. May it never be our portion tho. Such a situation...#smh
A million dollar question... I will gv them something for the children's upkeep plus little something to invest in business...and that's it ...no more, no less.
I would make sure the kids are well taken care of..
Well, I will.....because of my church mind.
As a woman, I will definitely give them some portion because the children are his blood even though the marriage wasn't legitimate.
As a woman, I will definitely give them some portion because the children are his blood even though the marriage wasn't legitimate.
If am d one I ll give some moni 2 d oda family simply bcos of d children, dey hv done ntin wrong 2 suffer
If am d one l ll give some moni 2 d oda family simply bcos of d children,dey hv nt done anytin wrong 2 suffer hardship dat life will throw 2 dem
If am d one I ll give some moni 2 d oda family simply bcos of d children, dey hv done ntin wrong 2 suffer
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