From a male LIB reader
I am a successful IT engineer in my early 30s. Everything is going well for me except for one thing, my sex life or lack thereof. I had sex once in my 20's and have not repeated it since. I find that I have absolutely no desire for sex and it has nothing to do with any religious inclination. I don't even go to church. I've had several opportunities to sleep with several women but each time I turn it down and it's not because I am gay. The thought of touching another man is repulsive to me. The few friends I have think there's something wrong with me and asked me to see a doctor. I'm not impotent because I get turned on by sexual things and I do not masturbate either. I just don't have the desire to lay on top of a woman. Is there something wrong with me?
You bet! Lol *kidding*. What do you guys think?
378 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 378 of 378Maybe you should go to church and find Christ for yourself. He may show you if there's anything wrong with you. BTW, you didn't say if you have the desire to get married. If you don't, i think that's where there'll be a problem.
Smth is def wrong wiv u dude,i bet ur handsome too...u rili nid 2 c a doc b4 it turns 2 smth else......
See ur doctor
Its so possible! I'm a vitim. U jst need to put God in and pray
I think you have low testosterone or 'low T'. Has nothing to do with being gay. Your doctor can prescribe drugs to boost your testosterone and improve your libido.
Seriously there is something wrong with you, go to your doctor and find out what its called ASAP!!!!
*first to comment*
that's really weird i must say! two things, either ur gay bt u dont know it yet, or there is something medically wrong with you. i suggest you see a doctor. love you linda!
it's probably because you've never been in love. So don't be hard on yourself and don't listen to people that say you are impotent. Find a girl take your time with her and fall in love with her. You would see the difference that makes on your libido
Bros, my colleague says you should go into celibate chastity... As for me, I no get word for u
Bia Linda, does this place look like Kings college hospital to you?
i feel u mayb scared of sex, bt its really fun especially with smone you luv... Bt at ur age wif this i tink u sud seek counsel frm a doctor n go for therapy, it might b dat ur hormone secretions r nt efficient.*just saying* goodluck!
I don't get it. He gets turned on by sexual things but has no desire to act on that. Well, the only thing I could think of is that he has developed anxiety towards sex because of some sort of sexual trauma he experinced as a child. He could have even supressed the memory.
I will advice this young man to see a doctor(urologist). It might be he has a low Testosterone and that has affected his sex drive. Low testosterone can be boosted by taking some prescription pills. Good luck.
I dnt tink it matters,not everyone loves sex.but since u get turned on,its okay
you need spiritual help, watch porn do anything n if nothing works then go to ur village....na jazz be dat...
you are very sick...
i feel he should seek medical attention. with the little i know he has a low secreation of testosterone by his gonad gland which his generally controlled by his pituitary gland. so the only thing he can do is to go to the clinic and if i am 100% right he would be injected with more of the hormone
Maybe u should start goin to church, maybe ΰя sexual desire is i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ church.
i feel he should seek medical attention. with the little i know he has a low secreation of testosterone by his gonad gland which his generally controlled by his pituitary gland. so the only thing he can do is to go to the clinic and if i am 100% right he would be injected with more of the hormone
Yah there is, u r psychotic.......daz all
My dear, if i was not married i would ask you to marry me. i personal have no interest in "sex". i love the foreplay but the actual sex does nothing for me. i sometimes think its bcos i was sexually abuse at a young age and also as a teenager.
by the way sex is over rated so...
there is something wrong with you. how can u not want sex?...that is very weird! u need to see a doctor asap! or something has traumatised you..? have u been raped before? what went wrong when u had sex with the lady in ur 20's?
or have you been depressed all these years?
this scenario has puzzled me...he doesnt need LIB to solve his problem he needs to pray to God...u get turned on but u cant sleep with a woman...have u got a small D? mann im even confused....
YES!!!! There is something very very wrong with u. If its not physical,then u are battling with antagonistic spiritual forces
Wen U̶̲̥̅̊ marry, pls let m̶̲̥̅ξ ΠΦ ur wife
Too bad
i think you should take a bold step and get married by so doing you will be use to her.
you be JESUS?
I feel you cos I'm like that too...unless I seeing someone, I can go for years (4, 5, even 7yrs) without the urge for sex. I think you've abstained from it that long, your mind has just tuned out sex...that's it. just like what happens with REAL catholic fathers, sisters...and monks too.
U need prayers,consult ur father in d lord
yes, something is wrong with you... you may be gay, but have not discovered it yet!
Everything is so wrong wt u. U don't go 2church,ur nt gay,u don't masterbate,u feel turn on sexual things,yet u don't have desire for sex. U really need to see a shring ASP. Olodo.
O well you could try a woman on top!!!
he's a stone ni
"Hypopituitarism" is a rare disease that doesn't allow a person to feel love. ---@UberFacts
I tink dats a spiritual problem, U̶̲̥̅̊ nid a deliverance. Also try n c ur doctor. Dats my own opinion
My brother something is definitely wrong somewhere. If not physical, it could be psychological problem. Go see a shrink. Linda biko post my comment oooooo
YES!!!! There is something very very wrong with u. If its not physical,then u are battling with antagonistic spiritual forces
hell yeah..derz smtin wrong wit u...c a psychologist oga...ahn ahn...u dnt lyk sex ke..u gotta b kiddin me
Dude probably has low levels of testosterone. Make an appointment with your doctor asap bruh!
If at your age you have no desire to "lay on top of a woman" and it's not religious perhaps you should attempt standing behind a man and see if you'd get arouse.
Something is amiss
faggot in the making...
My dear go to church n ask GOD,
There's definitely something wrong with u. And I think there must be something else ure nt telling us. Gist us more about hw ur last sex went. No normal guy won't desire to nack a woman. *hisses
hell yeah..derz smtin rong wit u..go c d doctor abeg or psychologist
It is spiritual wife that is doing you. Gi for deliverance
go c d doctor or psychologist
nawa oo
Hmmmm...how I wished it has to do with your religious inclination and you will have been one of a kind.
Ψσυ are cursed!
Hmmmm na wa oh!
Linda Enugu state governor don kick bucket Oo...RIP Chime!
Am de First 2 comment...Wow...well it happens 2 all dis guy wey go Seminary skul shaaa...he shld force himself and watch porn He wuld get BeTa Trust me
Am de First 2 comment...Wow...well it happens 2 all dis guy wey go Seminary skul shaaa...he shld force himself and watch porn He wuld get BeTa Trust me
I know the problem!!! You just haven't seen my bootayyyy,. Baby boy.. You gon' drool..
You should definately talk to a proffessional.I'm in my mid 20s & I'm a V,I was exposed to porn at a young age and I'm irritated by watching sex scenes,marriage was scary as well,but not anymore.I have a great guy(9 yrs)& I can't wait 2 av sex with him.I hope u meet sm1 dat makes u wonna do it.
LOOK WAT THE WORLD HAS MADE US! WE ALL SUPOSD TO KEEP IT HOLY AND WAIT FOR OUR PARTNERS AFTA MARRIAGE! BT D WORLD HAS MADE U BELIEVE SOMTHNG IS WRNG WITH U..ITS SAD! SINCE U DID IT IN UR 20'S, GO MAK SURE U OKAY FRM D DOCTOR IF U WANT TO, BUT KIP IT HOLY, MORE BLESSINGS FOR OBEDIENCE..
yes u av a problem. Its called 'inhibited or hypoactive sexual disorder'. Dnt really knw if it has a cure but one tin i knw is i wud lov to b ur wyf cos i av a low libido too. #winks
i dont think so...i feel the same way too,we should prolly hook up and go see a therapist if u dont mind
You have low testosterone.
As a man it could be damaging. You may develop breasts, hypertension, heart disease....
See your doctor ASAP.
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/ActiveAging/story?id=3247773&page=1
shey make we cum dey run away ni? Dont worry lemme handle u for just 5mins dat desire wil just cum lik a magic..... Try me.... *wink*
You are asexual. Some people are although i dont think it is that common. There is nothing wrong with you. You might still see a doctor if you want to.
U av low libido...dats wat is causing your low sexual urge or the lack of it...u need to go see a Doctor to sort out your issue...
U̶̲̥̅̊ need serious prayers, abi U̶̲̥̅̊ for Juڪt become a catholic priest
I don't think there is anything wrong with you....I would have put the blame on hormonal interplay,but since you get sexually aroused,I don't think you have hormonal problems......everybody cannot be "normal" you know,1 out of a group of people MUST differ(which doesn't make you abnormal)....for all I know,some other people may have dis same supposed"problem",but they cannot say it openly to avoid ridicule.Nevertheless,see a doctor.......But I still think you are perfectly normal!! Linda oya kwa
*crystal*
How I wish I were like u. I can't stay a week witout it jos watch more porn movie and der is notin wrong wit u.
Something is definitely wrong with you! are you sure you are not GAY??? And you are also sure you are not impotent?..hmmm..
na u sabi, guy u dey miss...oooo, u beter do something b4 it gets late. I feet help on my on way if u dont mind.
Yup. Definitely. Sort it out b4 u make some nice woman miserable.
You might be asexual. Google it.
Spiritual attack inorder for you not to av children in life..
You need medical he'll. You should see a psychologist too. Comment by Olumide Kemi
May God shine his light into every area of darkness in your life. Yet to comment
Many Nigerians are dumb as hell, from reading these useless comments. Read the wiki on asexuality. There are forums for people like you, with more information on identifying exactly what the issue is. Some people can find help with psychologists. Some just live as is. Good luck.
NO THERE IS NOTHING WRONG!!! YOU JUST HAVN'T FOUND THE RIGHT WOMAN TO TURRRRRRRNNNN YOU ONNNN. And u don't have to lie ontop of her LoL, many ways to still do it if u have a fear of laying ontop of her
He may have very low Testosterone levels. He needs to go to a doctor to get that checked out.
My dear, u 're blessed. Plse kp to ur chastity. It's a blessing to u.
That’s typical ED , that one of the signs, low libido, it could there be biological, psychological, and social components.
Biologically, levels of hormones such as testosterone are believed to affect sex drive;
Social factors, such as work and family, also have an impact;
Psychological factors, like personality and stress.
Sex drive may be affected by medical conditions, medications, and lifestyle and relationship issues.
A person may have a desire for sex but not have the opportunity to act on that desire, or may on personal, moral or religious reasons refrain from acting on the urge.
Psychologically, a person's urge can be repressed or sublimated. On the other hand, a person can engage in sexual activity without an actual desire for it.
MALES REACH THE PEAK OF THEIR SEX DRIVE IN THEIR TEENS, WHILE FEMALES REACH IT IN THEIR THIRTIES.
I am not a doctor, I had similar problems with sex from ages (16-28) I could have sex for close to 4 hours and continue the next morning. Men peak at their teens while women on the 30’s, that why men shouldn’t marry very young women; think if u are 35 years old and marry a girl of 25 years at 45 year your penis is dead and the woman is 35 years (sex peak)= wahala.
Dude you need to see a doctor!!!! Firstly you probably stressed out (you thinking of so many things unlike before), 2. You don’t exercise regularly (office from 7-7pm), 3. I think you not married; therefore you have too many women trying to fuck you so psychological you messed up.
Lastly, try drugs to boost your libido (you would become horny again)
BIN IN YOUR SHOES MAN (SAME AGE TOO)
hmmmm bobo u need deliverance
I also wish I was just like you, I do it like every day, every week or so, men you are lucky thats if you are not either of the following; GAY, IMPO or DICKLESS. There's nothing wrong with you but if you are married then something is wrong with you.
You haven't found the right woman yet. When you do, your story will definitely change.
I think you need jesus christ, start goin to church and go for deliverance. You might be suffering from spiritual wife.
nah u sabi o,go n become father now.
You probably just have low T (low testosterone) some men start getting this earlier than others, somehave it all their life.
You doctor can probably put you on hormone replacement program.
LIB readers, so going to church will solve his problem ehn? Because God will help put the spirit back in his penis...pshewww
I am happy I am NOT like you. I love pussy diet.
linda post ma previous comment unelse i go send boko boys cum ur blog
lol..........
U pple have crucified d cute dude, heard frm a reliable source dat circumsising a female dos d same tin to dem, dnt knw abt guys...u shld see a shrink and pastor...and when u α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ cured, remember I'm single *winks
Actually, u dont have to be on top of the woman.. the woman can be on top.
PROBLEM SOLVED
wish i cn b u 4 a week...i need d rest...iv been bangin lyk mad lately
And you LOL'd...oopppsss sowi oo Boss,your lipipipi need to get busy and get some work done ASAP..
Lin
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You're simply asexual, it's rare but some people just lack sexual interest.
See, it is simple he said " I just don't have the desire to lay on top of a woman" right? haba, he has an answer already, let the woman be the one on top then, u can just be there while she rides you, simple. Abi i lie?
I will not say you have a calling to be a rev father cos rev fathers still have the urge which they control. I think you may be gay, explore that part of your life . If not get yourself into the groove by watching x-rated movies and stuff.
What are the causes of lack of libido in men?
As is the case with women, lack of desire in men can be of either physical or psychological origin.
Physical causes
Alcoholism – quite common.
Abuse of drugs such as cocaine.
Obesity – quite common; slimming down will often help.
Anaemia - unusual, unless the man has been bleeding for any reason.
Hyperprolactinaemia – a rare disorder where the pituitary gland produces too much of the hormone prolactin.
Prescribed drugs – particularly Proscar (finasteride), a tablet used for prostate problems.
Low testosterone level - contrary to what many people think, this is rare, except in cases where some injury or illness has affected the testicles.
Any major disease such as diabetes.
Psychological causes
Depression – very common.
Stress and overwork.
Hang-ups from childhood.
Latent homosexuality.
Serious relationship problems with your partner.
You seriously need help, at least try a girl out an see if you can perform.
Hmmmm
I av a similar p too
I alwaz have d urge...get so wet like purewater wen been romanced buh once der is a penetration,I jst get turned off automatically cos is alwaz painful...dunno if I need 2c a DOC too...
Ode!!dt not d real pics of d person,its just a random picture.apply brain na..
Y not see a (Shrink) psychologist for some help. To be sincere with u, most of the people that drop comments on LIB are full of hate and they sabi yab person no be small. We have some with a Heart and they care about others. Just don't be offended by their comments, that's just who they are and what they know best to do. So get ready to be insulted by some and few will pity ur condition and have some reasonable advice for u.
this is a serious issue....
you need help asap
i knw some1 that can help you..
buh 1st you v to help yourself
Bobo, u b gay and u go soon knw
i have not heard this in a long while, i like this..... I want u so badly now... lol
go and pray guy....
you need serious help
wish i were you bro!....i really wanna quit sex but don't know how to.no thanks to dem sexy sisters allover the place these end-time
Yes u need to see a doctor, u need therapy to work on ur emotions, it happens to me before, bcos I prayed to God and ask him to removedmy mind on it and he did till I was ready for it. U will be fine when u workon it.
Run to God and you will be complete in him
ATTENTION LIBERS,Im a slight replica of wat is happening to this guy.Now let be analyze smtn quick,this guy has the spirit of SELF-CONTROL from GOD but he hasnt realised it yet bcos he dosent go to church,he feels so powerful inert believing when he sleeps with a girl his gonna loose it [tendency of PRIEST-HOOD].I can put my last-card on this issue,there is smtn powerful and unique abt this guy.He is 101% normal.Trust me,the moment he gets close to GOD,then everything will be revealed to him.SIMPLE
Nothing is wrong with you. This lack of intimacy could happen to either the man or the woman......but mostly the women and it has a combination of both Physiological / psychological dimension.
When problems like misunderstandings, blame, criticism, control issues, poor communication, or empathy failures have not been resolved, most people lose their sexual desires.
What is missing for these people is the dopamine rush ─ the brain chemical that promotes ecstatic pleasure created by excitement, passion, spontaneity, eroticism ─ along with the oxytocin, vasopressin, endogenous opiods, and testosterone ─ that enhance attachment, loyalty, trust, romance, and lust. Serotonin and GABA the good mood neurotransmitters are also on hold. And it seems there's nothing you can do to bring that incredible erotic feeling of lust/love back.
But you can!
No matter the rot you are in, no matter how dispirited you feel, no matter the short supply of good mood neurotransmitters and love inducing brain chemicals, you can change all of this. You can help bring back romance, passion, and sexual desire. You can help reconnect love and lust. And you can do this by (Therapy) SELF LOVE: ... which is the greatest and most important love one could ever bestow upon oneself... It is the foundation of true love...the barometer of all love given and received... It is the love that determines your understanding of love...defines the care and experience of love...the measure of love...as you live a life of love... In a world that often misshapes...deceives and abuses love... Belittles...dismisses and takes advantage of love... Self love protects and restores loss love...damaged love...forgotten love... Recognizing the goodness and the grace of love...the true benefit and power of love.
We all need love...acknowledged or not...love is the embodiment of both our greatest weakness and unmeasurable strength... Self love gives us the ability to honor...respect and embrace the responsibility of love...to love and be loved in return...is the miracle of love...
So go get some self love and see just how you get your groove back... Trust me, it's contagious...
try sleeping with a man, maybe you will like it, you might be repulsed but maybe you are gay and just afraid to let it out...just saying...
D rubbish dey vex me pass................always behaving lyk a kid
You're sick man!
Bros, if Toolz naked infront of u, u go knack her oo..
Nigga gonna b like "i dont like sex but i aint gay" but i am gonna be like..."Nigga u are GAY!!!"..Apart from Air, the next best thing is Pu**y...still dream of Linda's own.
Am sure dis is a serious problem and he really needs help.but I can't help myself.let me just make a small joke."bros,have u tried goats??maybe u are attracted to animals.pls u guys shld not abuse me!!
Being asexual is completely normal. Nothing to worry about unless you really want to and lack the desire. If you neither have the interest, nor the desire then consider yourself a lucky man with one less thing to worry about in this world. Make your money and enjoy your life.
there is nothing wrong with you just be yourself and you ain't gay
Have you tried SBDM? Maybe you like alternative sex; you know, the whole dominant and submissive thing; tell you what: i could pick up some toys for you at Ann Summers and buy you the 50 shades trilogy. Christian Grey may just be your mentor. Next you'll need a red room.....and handcuffs, a whip,......wink*
Nigga u gay. 14 years if Fashola catch u *in Olamide's voice*
Ders no way am not gonna fyt sisi LINDA, abeg! Guyz dnt involve ursef o. Ehn dos who commented btwn 12:11 and 1:50, dia comments r nowia to be found. Sisi LINDA, I no lyk ds ur paRole @ all. 2. For dos who dnt kno d mnin of advice, mayb U̶̲̥̅̊ shud get a dictionary, if U̶̲̥̅̊ can't giv ur sincere advyc to sm1 who nids it, I guess d bst tin U̶̲̥̅̊ shud do is kip dt U̶̲̥̅̊ 'ass-like' mouth shut instead of insulting d individual, anyway can't blame U̶̲̥̅̊ guyz, I'm sure dos who do dt hail from one thick bush forest in Nigeria. Useless sets of maggots
MOST OF YOU LIBers ARE IDIOTS. HAVEN'T YOU HEARD OF THE SEXUALITY CALLED "ASEXUALITY"???! I SUGGEST YOU DO YOUR RESEARCH AND STOP ACTING LIKE FOOLS.
shey make we cum dey run ni? If i shoud handle u for 5mins, u wil just take me toh d alter straight away cos dat ur sex desire wil just cum lik a magic.... U go fear fear *wink*
Sory o bt pls do guys hv children or hez still doin self control as hez marid 2 u.
you're a good guy despite the fact that u dont go to church...there's nothing wrong with u...infact wait till u get married before u have sex...DONT FORNICATE!!!
Umpeeeeh,u're nt d first! But I agree wit u on Linda's flippant attitude
Not wierd...my dear man, when d time comes, God will give u d woman u'll fall in love wit and Mr JT will raise head to salute and you will GET ON TOP of her and do what you are suppose to do. But, u also maybe in need of suppourt so you need a platform; the Church, hospital or shrink's office
Sowie u need serious deliverance
Wow Linda you didn't post my comment.
The guy needs to see a doctor because he has low testotorone. It could be damaging to his health. Google it.
Rockstar, u be proper ITK..Did u even read the post? ur copy and paste is out of place (see watched I did there?)
first off, na man.....
secondly, this is primary not secondary..
Emmmmm he never said he was the one in the pic...
He is probably asexual.
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Hahahahahahaha, u don't mastubate? This story is not true.
Freaking weird
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Linda, you really shouldn't comment on things if you don't know what to say because you come across very small minded. Na everyting be joke?
This person (fictional or real) may be ASSEXUAL. It doesn't mean he is gay or bisexual or has a problem as you so readily insinuated. You get on my nerves sometimes though I love your blog.
Post or don't post, I no send.
U have a spiritual wife
Have you tried laying on a man?
This Bonario guy is the biggest OLODO I've seen in my life.
You don't have to "lie on top" to have sex. Get yourself a kamasutra book, you'll learn various positions.
There are possible medical and psychosocial reasons his libido may be down. Perhaps sex is not on his mind and he is focused on his career? I find it interesting that he clearly felt an urge to emphasize his 'non-gayness". although in today's society sex is almost mandatory, recall that some priests and monks do not have sex for years
@Oyinkan spot on. If he is turned on by sexual things yet has no desire to act on them it is highly possible he has repressed memories of a traumatic sexual experience. Perhaps hypnotherapy and psychoanalysis can help. Maybe performance issues? Insecure about width/length? Childhood abuse?
I wish I can meet you and marry u oo! I'm just too lazy for all these sex stuff i'd rather just do it once a yr get knocked up and have beautiful children!
Don't listen to these illiterates. there's nothing wrong with you. You are asexual, research on asexual, there are some people like that even the bible speaks of them.
Best comment, I totally agree with you. I used to feel same way as a single. Sex was a no no for me no matter who or what was involved but now am married and am doing sexually and perfectly okay with my husband. God just blessed this guy with natural self control. He shld consider it a gift very rare.
Hw sure ar u dt it ws sent to ikeji..mayb she just sit dwn nd framed it up just to av sumtin to write on
Though the following comment is not a diagnose but rather a suggestion to seek out professional medical help. The feeling you just described relates to a symptom called Anhedonia (inability to experience pleasure). This can be from disorders such as Depression, Schizoprehnia, etc. Many mental disorders in the black community go untreated due to lack of knowledge, awareness and stigma. Mental illness does not discriminate by social class, culture and or gender. So you can be successful and good-looking with mental illness. There are treatments available so don't be ashamed to speak with your doctor as soon as possible. Mental illness does not differ from the likes of physical illness, it's due to chemical imbalance in the brain. Just like a diabetic can lack insulin to utilize glucose so can a mentally ill person lack proper functions of the neurotransmitters in the brain. I am saying all of these to let you know that seeking out medical help can possibly provide you with answers to worries. Happy Health everyone!!!
Awon anjonu ton she e shuru bo e ni(the demons worry you are legion and they surround u bullying) na once u do am? Chai either ur parents/guardians were bullies or u just dnt have sef esteem...bottom line you are not an human being and u need a freak to sock ur dick and gag ur balls!
I know just what you need! One night with Sophia and you are delivered for life. That girl dream and live sex..she handle you once and you will be looking for p***y for the rest of your life..
Sophia oh Sophia!
I thought the same thing too people are either attracted to the opposite sex, the same sex or non at all this person is clearly asexual
do you need someone to say she wants you here?omo you don do mistake oooo
i see you ooo
Is sex the food of life?
And I have a HUGE libido....this life!
there's nufin wrong with you dear. my fiance opened up to me about sumthing similar to dis. all the babes around him them tot he was gay cos when ever they came close he would back out. he decided to see a Dr who told him he was okay and just needed to channel his mind towards that. being a pure workaholic all he cared about was work n more work but these days hmmmm lil-John is always ready to work. All you need is that babe who makes you happy n a good mind set
It sounds like LOW TESTOSTERONE. Low T cause a decrease in your libido. Get tested
Ask your mother. She probably prayed you into celibacy when you were young for fear of fathering a child at a young age. Just thinking randomly.
I won't be among the hundreds that have commented that you have a problem. Nevertheless, it could be that you don't actually have a problem. It could be you're waiting for someone with whom you feel a strong connection with before you have sex with them. Perhaps you're just different, but noone understands unique these days. Trust me hon, you're way better than the dogs that call themselves men and sleep with anything that has a pair of boobs(whether fine, ugly, fat, slim, abled, handicap). Sick! I think you're okay. One in a million.
Since the guy has sexual feeling but does not wanna lay on a woman, I guess he is lazy and does not feel like thrusting into her.
There is a condition called sex anorexia
my dear,u nid christ in ur life,outside seeing a doctor,spiritualy u nid 2 knw ur stand,cos dis is nt normal.
That's exactly what I was thinking , he could actually be asexual
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you my man. You're simply ASEXUAL. You having no desire for sex doesn't make you abnormal at all. Don't allow anyone to put you down, some people find better stimulation from reading a book or having a special talent. I can relate to you because I used to be just like you. I was an agency signed model, have always been the baddest in my crew (and my girls are hot) but I just wasn't interested in men, women or anything sexual. I found peace in other substantial things instead. It was so bad to the point that people started saying I was a lesbian because they never saw a man with me. Now, I'm in my 30s, I'm fully immersed in my career and married to a wonderful man. And yes, we've had sex but nothing
You're asexual.. There's nothing wrong with you. All these people just running off in the mouth unintelligently need to GET THEIR LIFE. Until you act like a public dig to prove how manly you are, you're abnormal to them. Don't mind them, lots of amazing successful people like you.
Do you really think by insulting him is going to help him or make him feel any better ? Ode
My dear Man, please pray about your situation. If you have prayed and you are sure nothing is also wrong physically, then please don't be worried. Maybe all you need is the right woman to stir you up :-)
There is nothing wrong with you man, I myself is just like you. Though people think I am gay which I'm not. I love women like mad, I do all other things to women ... the whole touching and fore play but Virgina Sex something I don't think of instead I love giving women oral sex. I had Virgina sex once and is even by mistake. There is nothing wrong with you... after all having sex will not take you to heaven if you are one of those who believe there is heaven. :)
There is nothing wrong with you, I myself is just like you. Though people think I am gay but I'm not. I love women and love giving oral sex and other fore play but not the main sex. I had sex once and is even by mistake. There is nothing wrong with you.
There is nothing wrong with you, I myself is just like you. Though people think I am gay but I'm not. I love women and love giving oral sex and other fore play but not the main sex. I had sex once and is even by mistake. There is nothing wrong with you.
nothing is wrong with you. being an exception to the rule don't mean its a bad thing. it just makes you unique. Even in the bible there are eunuchs. Embrace who u are but wud also recommend that u find God too who can guide ur life properly so u can fully become who he created u to be, this uniqueness must not be in vain.
Pally na Big issue be dis 1 ooo
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG.
damn,if you dont want to be ontop..let the laides grind you joor....
I don't think it is a problem!! Sex is Mind! I was like that! But believe me, after I tasted the forbidden friut, life has never been same!! Above all seeing ur doc on issues like this won't bite!! All the best bro!!!
young man it is in ur nature, as a son of God not to sin. sex b4 marriage is a sin, and u r not involvd in it, consider it a gud tin. you dnt need to go to church to be religious, religion is overrated. you were made in the image of God nd simply put again, it is not in you to sin so plz ignore all theses ignorant pple who think sex is living and deal with other pressing issues of life.
Don't worry bro. Just gimme your name, address, pho e number.... I know this chic that I can send over. I promise you, you'll be tearing the clothes off her in a matter of minutes. You don't fe like kini?
its so funny how africans lack sex education. well u r asexual and its a normal thing. i too am like that. i plan on getting married and then getting divorced like two weeks after just so to shut everybody up. i am tired of the homo rumors going around.
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to be engaged to be married to wear diamond rings.
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