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Friday, 24 April 2015

Sad! Grieving husband narrates how his wife died during childbirth

A grieving Nigerian man took to twitter this morning to share how he lost his wife and their unborn child during childbirth (the man is pictured above with his late wife). The tweets are so sad and could mess up your morning. Read them after the cut. May her soul rest in peace, Amen...



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167 comments:

@lwkmd_naija - follow on instagram/twitter said...

May her soul rip.m lindaobserve

Davido's driver said...

I feel ur pain bro. Take heart

christie benjamin said...

Rest in peace.

Anonymous said...

RIP TO HER...DS IS SAD.TOMJERRYSWIT

white Berry said...

Tears drop my eyes* oh God why do we even experience death. So sorry for the lost, may her soul rest in peace

Ngene Olivia said...

Eiya
May her soul rest in peace

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Phew! So heart wrenching. Life can be so unfair.
May God grant him the fortitude to bear this great loss.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

May the soul of the dead rest in peace

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Anonymous said...

Maternal mortality rate is really high nowadays. May her soul rest in peace!


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ASAMPOKOTO said...

Oh my God, this is heart wrenching, no no no. May the Lord console him and his daughter and may his wife and child rest in peace. You can't help but feel a bit of what he's feeling. Too sad. Too too sad.

D J STELCH said...

Hmmmmm this is saddening.. R.I.P to your Wife/Friend..
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.NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..

Daniel Ogbadu said...

SO Sad, wish him strenght

Omotayo Alli-Hakeem said...

Pls what God forsaken hospital is this? May your wife rest in peace sir.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Awwwww....take heart sir

Omobola Alfred said...

*tears*hmmmm..if only tears could bring back our loved ones..may her soul rest in peace..indeed this reminded me of my lil bro as well..#flatlineontheekg..i was helpless and at that moment I thought to myself..why am I serving God..i hated myself and blamed myself so much..but who am I to question God..he knows all..in every situation..give thanks..May God console you sir and give yu the strength to carry on.

Dreezy of kuvuki said...

How touching.. May her soul rest in peace

Anonymous said...

God plz console those she left behind..rip to her n d little angel

Oweibor Rachael said...

Ahhhhh so sad,but they should Ave gone 4 a CS cus d pregnancy is jst too overdue.

Chika Obi said...

..................... So sorry for your loss. May God grant you the grace to bear this loss. RIP to your wife & unborn child. 😂

Anonymous said...

So heart breaking

Chioma Okonkwo said...

It's so sad, RIP to the dead.

Miss Wande said...

God have mercy! So :(

yaya neji said...

So sad! Itswell!!

Franklin Onyejaju said...

rip

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KINGING said...

Rip to her n son! Quite emotional n painful

Flora Akunaeziri said...

This is 2 sad. Gosh, May her soul rest in perfect peace.. Tk heart.

Bimposhvilla oluwaseun said...

So sad and touching. I can feel his pains

Anonymous said...

Waooo may her soul rest in perfect peace Amen

Anonymous said...

God this is so sad, i dont even know what to say. Dear God, i pray that you give this man and the entire family your strength to bear this huge loss.

mel20 said...

So sad and touching, oh why are women dying at child birth /durig pregnancy, I lost a friend 4days ago 6months pregnancy, may there souls rest in peace and God will give your family the fortitude to bear the loss, rest in peace lola jegede and this beautiful woman here and to all the mothers wev lost during pregnancy, may God forgive ur sins and give you eternal rest. Am so shaken.

mbegbu veronica said...

Ehya wat a pity!!!!! Sorry for the loss

Habiba Ummi Sambo said...

Allah sarki. :'(

Porsche Quinn said...

This really broke my heart...

Anonymous said...

Nigeria is very unsafe. Quack doctors everywhere. I don't like this country one bit

Loretha Amajuoyi said...

MY HR, MRS OLUREMI (PENEIL APARTMENT ABUJA) WE WILL ALL MISS YOU MY FRIEND. *CRYING*

Anonymous said...

Oh God ! Reposer en paix.

Funmilayo Sokoya said...

Dis is very very sad. What a loss. May her soul rest in peace

iya wizkid said...

Oh God! So sad and teary! Take h@. I pray God almighty imsef will console u and Oluremi will rest in perfect peace of d lord

LAURAAUJ KAHI said...

Sad.
May her soul rest in peace.

Loretha Amajuoyi said...

WAS SHOCKED THIS MORNING WHEN I HEARD THE NEWS. STILL CAN'T BELIEVE MY HR IS GONE. SHE IS SUCH A WONDERFUL LADY

Anonymous said...

so sad #crying#

salifu ebiojo said...

So touching, tears almost filled my face. It's only God that can console you. Accept our condolence.

Adeleke oluwatoyin said...

Dis s so sad May her soul rest in peace.

aniefiok samuel said...

Wot a pain!!!

Obed Nwafor said...

Oh God this hurts to the bone!!!!! I lift. up all pregnant woman to you this moment. Father! they shall all give birth safely in Jesus Name,Amen.Bro take heart God will heal you.

Anonymous said...

Death is so cruel. RIP to his beloved. He's alleging malpractice. Hope he gets the justice he seeks.

Anonymous said...

RIP. Please give us more details so we could petition the hospital.

Benita Benish said...

So sad

Ekwuocha Adaora Rosemary said...

so sad, may her soul rest in peace

NMaa said...

#Sobs ."pregnancy nd childbirth" , only God can safe women. I feel ur pain dear. May she rest in peace. So sad. May lord protect other preggy mums nd grant them safe delivery.

PRAYER said...

E no easy. Many women go in there and dont come out. Labour can be described as going to heaven, hell and back. The pain can be likened to 1,000 of your bones broken at the same time. Thats why i feel sorry for these women that show off baby bump pictures. The right thing would be to stay away from glaring eyes till after delivery. Believe it or not, we are Africans and juju is real. It is on this day(Labour/delivery) that most women are attacked spiritually. I have been down the road 3times. If not for the end product, its a journey one would almost never want to embark on. Sorry about your loss sir, Its one of the many woes of being a woman. God bless women and mothers the world over.

Anonymous said...

Oh wow...this is a very sad one. My wife left at 35weeks + . These Naija hospitals are not to be trusted at all, the best one are a 1000 time below the average hospitals in US.
Considering what my wife went tru even in the US hospital...i cldnt help but imagine wat the story would have been now if she stayed back in Naija for the delivery. Everything na God sha.
May God grant her eternal peace

Mathew George said...

I can brother I can feel your pain totally.. Watched my elder sister died in same circumstances, just has was in Abuja.
God rest the soul of your wife.

theresa abosede said...

So so bad,RIP Oluremi

Chigo said...

What women pass through during child birth......... God i thank u for my life. RIP my fellow woman.

funmeey said...

So sad........#crying#may her gentle soul rest in peace

Mr Billz Clayton said...

ah ah...this broke me. And he told dem not to...that last smile...those last words...brother God will console u

Ali Asma'u said...

Linda this man write up made me cry. Mr olu I know no one can feel ur pains like u but I know the good lord will never leave u and darasimi. I pray God to heal all ur wounds and turn ur sorrows to joy amen. Oluremi may u and jimi gentle souls rest in perfect peace amen. Sunre remi.

igbokwe clara said...

Oh nooo very sad may there soul rest in peace

Anonymous said...

Dear God,we sometimes don't under some things and why they happen like the death of a loved one; a death of a wife; one's own body; one's own flesh .Though no words, no comfort no pleading could fill that void such incident leaves in our hearts but our comfort comes in the fact that you know everything, in that knowledge of your greatness pls be that that we need to go through this phase by your grace we pray.
##plsLordbehiscomfort

Uchechi Irokwe said...

Just shed tears.. #Truelove... RIP

Anonymous said...

so sad....sorry bro God will bless u

Ify James said...

Ooohhhh., its a pity. May her Soul Rest in the Lord. Take heart sir, God is your strength

eka said...

may God console d bereaved husband.

RareSpecie Z said...

I refused 2 read the tweetz.

aurelia ekewenu said...

So sad, take heart sir

david uzochukwu said...

So sad, may her gentle soul rest in perfect peaceful peace.

bolanle ore said...

RIP. Can't stop crying, dis is so heart broken.

amaka said...

So touching, Struggling to hold my tears.may God continue to console you. And may she RIP.

PRAYER said...

And thats where some men will be angry with there wives for not having a baby boy. And some women too will continue getting pregnant because they are looking for a particular sex. If there is any such person on this blog, know that you are playing chess with your life. If anything happens to you, you will be replaced asap by a step mum who will maltreat your children. So stay alive, love yourself and appreciate whatever gender God has given you. My one cent. Cos these men aint loyal.

Anonymous said...

O nigeria!!!d rate of maternal n child death is on d increase...I can't imagine d pain he feels,watching a woman trying 2 give life n dies in d process..it is well with ha gentle soul....God will console u sir..pls take heart..God pls watch over me n other preggy women IJN...

Anonymous said...

So so sad, God will surely comfort you and fill your heart with joy again.

TAMARA SPLASH said...

Take heart bro

ary said...

This happened in this country or abroad?

ary said...

This happened in this country or abroad?

Anonymous said...

Mrs Jade said ... OMG! May heaven console you bro and May her soul rest in peace

Rubylicious said...

God knows best, take heart Mr.

Hameed Ibidokun said...

Take heart Same, Allah knows best #Elliot#

Hameed Ibidokun said...

Sanmi, Allah knows best

Oluchi Lambert said...

Really sad, may God console this man, its not easy. RIP.

oluwakemi adeyemi said...

This is heart breaking it's only God that can console u. It is well

ochouba chidinma said...

hmmmmm! LIFE!! RIP Oluremi!! It Is Well....(There's always A Purpose In the Pain)!!

Adaeze Writes said...

oooooohhhh soo sad! so sad! May her soul rest in peace and may God give him the grace to bear the irreparable loss. Amen.

Omolara Martins said...

Ooo God, d lord will heal your pain and. Give. U double for your shame

stephanie Amaka said...

So sad n touchy. RIP Oluremi

xavier said...

Oh! so sorry! May her soul and that of ur son rest in the bosom of the most high God! Amen

Anonymous said...

GOD WILL GIVE YOU HEART TO BEAR THE BOUNDING

Olufunke Ajayi said...

Accept my condolence brother..It is well. The Lord will comfort you on everyside. The Lord will wipe away your tears.

Anonymous said...

RIP Remi Ajatta. Model College Badore 1999 set. My heart goes to her family especially her sis Bolanle. God will be with Daughter and hubby.

oladimeji elizabeth said...

Eternal rest O lord grant unto her & son and let your perpetual light shine upon them.may they rest in peace. So sad #sob#

Sarah Raya said...

Hmmmmmm so so painful RIP Remi

Divine Kamuche said...

Take heart may soul rest in peace

Kayode Oni said...

Very sad, may her soul continue to rest in perfect peace

Anonymous said...

May the Lord be ur strength bro.sad so pathetic.I feel ur pain

kingsely onummadu said...

Really hurts. Take heart bro. God is your strength

Mark Precious said...

Davido's house help pls when did u start feeling people's pains?....

ola ade said...

the Lord console u, his grace is sufficient for u...

thereubens said...

it is well

joy(sharonlady002@yahoo.com) said...

Eyah so sad very sorry

Subomi said...

RIP

Anonymous said...

So So painful but one Will not question God. Take heart

tina ibede said...

These quack doctors needs to be jailed. RIP

Toni said...

O dear Jesus, what words do i have to console this man...NONE! Please dear Lord, hold him for me and heal his broken heart and spirit for only your Name's sake.Amen.

titilola shorinola said...

Awwww...this is really sad,may her soul rest in perfect peace

Edem victor said...

May her soul rest in peace


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Anonymous said...

Such a sad tale. My heart bleeds when I hear that a woman died during childbirth. Pregnancy is such a beautiful thing that it should not end in tears. The science of pregnancy has been mastered to a point that there a very few reasons why a woman should ever die during pregnancy, and juju is not one of them.

It is sad that Nigerian women still approach and go through pregnancy with so much trepidation and uncertainty where in other parts of the world, women plan every bit of their pregnancy and delivery.

The problem is multifaceted, but at the center of it is a poor health system with health workers who are constrained to work under conditions that make delivery of the right care at the right time difficult.

Until the government sees humans as its greatest asset and not oil, it is difficult to imagine any improvement in the nearest future. Healthcare is involved and needs government support and oversight on many fronts, including policy making and accountability.

Sorry for your loss. May her soul RIP.

Mercy Iheanyichukwu said...

EYAH VERY SAD...TAKE HEART BRO......IT IS WELL

Iwelunmor Isioma said...

May the good Lord comfort the husband all family members.RIP

Henry Ekene Obianika said...

Now am crying.

Linda cogitate

Anonymous said...

Got me in tears,may God grant you the fortitude to bear this huge loss

Foreverslim said...

RIP

Anonymous said...

Take heart .God will comfort you.

ROYAL PRIESTHOOD said...

I pray God grant him d fortitude to bear his loss. RIP.

Anonymous said...

So sad, may God console him and their son and please they should if the hospital or Doctor was negligent them must sue them. Tired of the recklessness of our health sector

Anonymous said...

Am wondering if we would even have doctors in the years to come because everyone seems to be schooling on blogs or doing entertainment,no serious minded students anymore. It is terrible. RIP beautiful chick, this life is full of stress

Nonny said...

May God comfort u, n may she RIP

Anonymous said...

Sad much heart broken I feel ur pain may her soul rest in perfect peace amen #in tears#

Anonymous Personified said...

I'm so heart broken. God please in your mercy grant her eternal rest in your bossom and please give the family esp. the husband the heart to bear this great loss.

Emilia Anaedo said...

Some doctors/ hospitals should be charged for man slaughter so that the rest can learn. What is our medical system deteriorating to? Can't believe I'm crying. I don't even know these people. * wipes tears* may her soul RIP and May the Holy Spirit be your special comforter.

Irene said...

May She rest in peace. God, pls comfort him!

Alexander Precious said...

Chai!!sobbing!!RIP

Godwin Alex said...

RIP so sad

Anonymous said...

NIGERIA! I rest my case

OGUNDIRAN OYINDAMOLA said...

May r gentle soul rest in peace n may God grant r husband d fortitude 2 bear d loss

Nwanze Favour said...

This is so heartbreaking.
Take heart man.

Anonymous said...

May her soul rest in peace. Thank God for my life dis almost happened to me. At gwarimpa gen hospital d scan said my baby was 3.8kg which is big I told d doctors we shd go for cs based on my brother's advise since he is also a doc. But dey said no that I shd push, they induced me hmmmm it wasn't an easy labour. At d end my baby came out abd had to go to neonatal while I was bleeding but I thank God I made it after transfusion. Pls never advise any pregnant woman you knw to be "induced". Its too much stress on d baby and d mum bcos she will end up bleeding. I'm so sorry for this loss.

chemmywalata walata said...

Sorry bro

Ede said...

Really sad. Am so thankful am able to live and have both my kids in america. All this private hospitals in Nigeria use people as experiment. I beg all the pregnant ladies in the house. If u can't afford to go out side the country to have ur kids, please go to general hospitals. I know the nurses are rude. But, you get care from experience dr

Anonymous said...

Sleep on Oluremi Ajatta Adeleke(LSMC BADORE 1999 SET)
We love you but God loves u most..
condolences to the families....

Jules Louis said...

Aww! May she rest in peace. Like he said we can't question God! Some go through worst ordeals and still survive it. Its just God! Take heart!

Ola said...

RIP Oluremi Nee Ajata...this is heart wrenching! She was a beautiful lady inside and outside.she had an amazing heart. I remember back in secondary school days, she was a mother hen..loved us like we were her own blood..it's so painful you had to leave this world like this but God loves you more... May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace..May God give your family the fortitude to bear the loss...it is well

debbie damsel said...

So sad! Am short of words, may her soul and that of her unborn baby continue to RIP!!!

TONIA GREEN said...

Sorry man. May their souls rest in peace. God is still the Supreme one.

Amaka Ngenegbo said...

Chai....this is painful. Take heart brother. May her soul Rest in Peace Perfect.



#TeamBlessed#

blackbeauty said...

Chai, how painful....may her soul rest in peace. Sad!!!

lanre smith said...

May her soul RIP.. am still in shock! He still told us we shld all come n celebrate with him for the naming, Sanmi d lord is ur strength n may he guide u n Darasimi! Can't stop crying just had a flash back last year Whn I heard a surgery ( CS) n d doctor told me it was a narrow escape. Oluremi will forever live!!! Take heart bro God bless u.

the hanifah emerald said...

Oh my! That was heart-rendering

Sena Job said...

Tears rolling down......it is well

lanre smith said...

May her Soul RIP.. Sanmi sorry for d lost may Almighty God bless u and Darasimi can't stop crying.. just heard a flash back last year Whn I had my surgery ( CS) n the doctor told me it was a narrow escape cos I almost lost my life n the baby's too. Oluremi will forever live!!! ( AMEN) .

Ijaopo Ibukun said...

Hmnnn...Aunty Remi...whr will I evn start from. I'm still in shock. When you sed bye to me on Monday I had no idea that was thr last time. You told me you would have put to bed before I come back from my trip

Your words, smiles n acts keep ringing in my head. I still ate the cake you baked that day.We had arranged everywhere for the arrival Dara's brothers . You will forever remain in my heart. Rest in peace Aunty Rems

Anonymous said...

Very very sad. May her soul #RIP

isa uk said...

This is so sad I can't stop crying, my heart goes out to this man. May God give him the fortitude to bear this irreparable lost.

marilyn okiwelu said...

so sorry about the loss, God knows best...take heart and be strong

Dorothy Ogbumah said...

Remi ,Its so sad, i will never see you again, you talked about us seeing soon on your trip.
I pray your gentle soul find rest in the Lords bosom. I trust your hubby and family will do right by Dara,but truthfully its painful to think we don't have you amongst us here on earth.
I will continue to cherish the memories we had.
Remember when you took me to the new Yoghurt sto re in Wuse, or those days when baba picks us to work.I will always keep those moments close to my heart.
Rest on Remi.

ten said...

This is a very sad news! May her soul rest in peace. To all her friends, families esp her hubby and daughter, I pray the almighty one give you the comfort you all need. We were in the same department in school. And it saddens my heart to know she is no longer with us. RIP REMI

nikkysho said...

Oluremi my friend, I got the shock of my life yesterday on facebook when I read that you had passed on. I thought about you some weeks ago and I thought of calling you but it just escaped my mind. I remember our last conversation, you asked if my Darasimi wasn't looking at another girl because your Darasimi will be waiting for him. The few weeks we spent together when you had Darasimi before going back to Nigeria will be forever cherished.my husband is still in shock. I can't imagine the pain your husband is going through and to think Darasimi is motherless just breaks my heart. Rest in peace Remi.

Anonymous said...

Chai! This is deep pain.Rest in peace woman.Thou art totally loved.

jenny raphael said...

Take heart dear.... R.I.P to the dead

Anonymous said...

May God grant you the fortitude to bear this great loss. Just had a son few weeks back, fear no gree me until when i saw my wife, spoke to her and she responded. Women dey try sha.

udeze obumneme said...

Touching indeed. He loved his wife

Vicky Marquis said...

Ooooh my heart bleeds right now, may God give u the. Fortitude to bear dis irreplaceable loss IJN Amen. Take heart sir.

Caris Wooler said...

So painful!!!

yabsy said...

No woman should die during child birth. It is abominable. Pregnancy is not a disease neither is it a terminal disease. Women die due to negligence of our doctors.
Now Remi is gone. This is just damn too sad. My consolation goes to her broken husband and the entire family. Only God can console them for this is tooo sad. He didn't mention the name of the hospital and their location.
We honestly need to start boycotting all negligent hospitals who kill our young mothers during childbirth. Maybe they will all sit up.

How can a woman die just like that? Wasn't she being monitored and the baby too. The baby boy also died. My God this is too painful! Both the basket and water thrown away.
Only God can console this man. I almost during childbirth of my 1st baby 9 years ago at Ayinke house Ikeja. Only God said it wasn't yet time. All due to the negligence of the delivery team.

God help us oooo. Men must insist and shout the roof down if they have to when it comes to taking decisions during delivery. It's a life or death situation when things go awry.

She was already weak. Baby was weak yet they induced her. Too sad oooo

Vero O. said...

May her soul rest in peace

Anonymous said...

My goodness! This was heartbreaking to read! May God console you!

BrendaN

Anonymous said...

rest in peace remi close to tears now i dont know why good people have to go like this it just goes to show how precious these little time we have on earth is, it could be anyone's turn tomorrow

Anonymous said...

rest in peace remi close to tears now i dont know why good people have to go like this it just goes to show how precious these little time we have on earth is, it could be anyone's turn tomorrow

Michael Temitope said...

Very sad indeed. Just saw the news on facebook. I knew Remi since 2007 when we sat together on a flight to Dubai.We bacame friends since then. Very nice woman

emma yusuf said...

O my HRM still feel like this is a bad dream, was only getting to know you and the lord has received you, am soooooo sad...but God knows best...may God console and comfort your family IJN

Damochedxb said...

Oh my Goodness Gracious Lord Almighty ... I know Remi Ajatta as i am also a Badorian of the 99 set ...Wow!! May her soul rest in peace. Beautiful Remi Ajatta gone so soon

Bunmi Ehigiator said...

This has to change, we are loosing this generation of young women to child birth. We need to demand better and quality healthcare and there needs to be accountability when there is gross negligence such as this. I'm so heartbroken for you dear brother. This should not have happened. May Oluremi's soul rest in peace and justice prevail. God comfort those left behind.

Ayobami Bamidele said...

My cousin may God bless you and keep you in this moment, may his face shine upon you. I pray for grace great grace to go through this moment it's well with you and darasimi.

Anonymous said...

May God comfort you and the rest of family she left behind. I cried as I read this as it reminds me of my late sister who died during the birth of her first & only child and never saw her baby due to a stupid & greedy doctor's negligence trying to play God.

franca Aiyetan said...

Oh with tears. may her soul find rest in the Lord. I hope you fine courage to ask questions. YES its time we ask questions. Nigerian women are dying needlessly from Child birth. For Gods sake this is 2015 and not 1520

Franca Aiyetan

Bisola Oyebanji said...

I can only imagine how you feel at this trying moment Sanmi. All I can say is the it is well with your soul. May the Comforter himself console you and the whole family she left behind. Take heart bro. the Lord is the saving strength of his anointed. IT IS WELL WITH YOUR SOUL.

Bisola Oyebanji said...

I can only imagine how you feel Olusanmi, but I know it is well with your soul. My prayer is that the Comforter himself will comfort you and the family at large, may the peace that passes all understanding rule your heart at this trying moment, it is well my brother with your soul.

Ade Olasengbe said...

so sad, RIP

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