Dear LIB readers: My friend had sex with a man right in front of me
From a female LIB reader
Something happened this past Friday that shocked me beyond belief. My friend and I went to a party and it dragged into the night. Instead of going home, we decided to lodge at a nearby hotel which was paid for by a guy we met at the party. Around 2.30am or so, my friend's phone rang and she left the room only to return later with the man I'd seen earlier at the party. He chatted with us for about 30 minutes but I got so tired and dozed off - only to be woken about 30 minutes later by sex moans. At first I didn't know where I was, then I remembered and turned to see where all the noise was coming from. And I couldn't believe it. My friend was having sex with the guy just a few meters from where I was. I was sleeping on the only bed in the room and they were having sex on the couch, as if they were the only ones in the room. I couldn't believe it. I laid there pretending to be asleep until they finished. The guy thereafter left. I haven't spoken to my friend since this happened. I am so ashamed of her and I can't believe she would humiliate herself and me like this. How can I bring this up with her? Should I continue being friends with her?
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Hmmm. R u sure u weren't turned on? *eyebrow raised*
Shows the quality of your friends.. That shows she has no self worth or value.. And your prolly her type of "feather" and you've been flocking happily...sure you discuss naughty stuff all the time..well next time make sure you are with your headphone
Your friend is an ASHAWO! You can bring it up with your friend by asking if the guy was good in bed. Run from this girl before she indoctrinate you into her lifestyle.
Oh well.. My dear its a normal thing.. They respected ur presence and went to do it on the couch, forget bouh it and embrace peace jaree.. If u were in her shoes u wud do d same.. I can bet dat! Agro na bastard u know? #okbye
Preach to her and let her know God is against sex before marriage and you also should make your ways right with christ plus tell her her man would appreciate her more if she isn't like a well so she can stop this act now cos its not too late Heb 13:4. BishopDammy#
You are just as disgusting as your friend. You felt comfortable sleeping in a hotel room a strange man paid for. You didn't see anything wrong with your friend sleeping with a random man. All you had a problem with was that you had to hear the moans.
Stay friends with her. You are birds of a feather.
You are very very stupid. Who goes out till late and sleeps in a hotel paid for by someone you met at the party. Why are you pissed tho Sounds to me like you and your friend are the same thing? Did you wish he had sex with you instead? Talking about you are ashamed of her, everybody in West Africa is ashamed of you both, birds of a feather you are coming here with your self righteousness.
Na wa so na linda go select ur friends for u ?? u for just ask linda to decide your breakfast, lunch and dinner. Even select cloths or bf for u. DMP for u
Nobody holy pass... Am sure u shoulda knwn d kinda friend u av... So, d guy paid 4 d room and u slpt in it. Wat were u tinkin? Dat d guy is a "good samaritan"? U'r even lucky d guy and ur friend didn't force u 2 join dem.
Hmmm....You are even lucky that THREESOME was not in the menu. Confront her and let her know you dislike what happened cos next night you may not be so lucky.
So, u really don't know the decision to take? U don't know what to do?! U must be really sick for asking such stupid question. U are as sick as ur friend.
Well, since u don't know how to approach her,this is what u should do. Call her on phone to meet with u, and when she does, give her a pat on the back for a job well done.
Aunty Linda, not all comment or stories that's worth posting here oooo!!!
Interesting story. My dear if u don't bring it up she won't. Hope u are not birds of de same feather? Bring it up and tell her how u feel. I'm out. ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***
Nasty.At least they didnt do it on the same bed as you #truestory. Well since you've been cold to her she should know sth's up. Just go straight for it and let her know how crossed you are. As for continuing to be friends its up to you we dnt know how close you are so see how she reacts and re evaluate your friendship overall I guess.Definitely punish her though you dnt do that to anyone ever.
Are you a kid?...I mean, c'mon! You agreed and stayed in a room payed for by a stranger you met at a *party and you thought it was for free?. How long have you known this friend and you didn't know she's into prostitution?. Change route or join her in the business; your choice!
Lol. I have had the same experience but instead my friend and the man left me on the couch and went to the room with the door slighlty ajar, about 3 feet away. Well sex is a choice and it should not bother you, they both consented to it. It may disturb you morally and since it has just call your friend and let her know. She may differ with your views which goes to show that we all think different.If she respects you she will apologise. Just move on.
Is dis a story, so wat shuld we now do. Abeg woman call ur friend n tell her d truth n don't pretend......y r u even surprised don't u knw d kind of friend u v.....mschewwwwww!!!! Abeg onto d next one.
Eeeeee! U met the guy @ the party! It's not like u guys were friends or he was your guardian angel. You're not 12 o! You don't know the bargain between your friend and the guy. Befriend someone else & walk away. Leave her story for her joor
From all indications she is not the type of friend you wished for. So leave her with her life and move on. Sex is not a bad thing, but the manner in which she had it could be questioned !
I think it shows a sign of irresponsibility on ur friend's part. As d saying goes, show me ur friend & I'll tell u who u are. D sayin should be enough to help u make ur decision.
Yes it was stupid on her part but she is still your friend and it may happened because she was drunk who knows the best advice is to ask her why she did it if her reason or apology is convincing then continue being friends with her.
Notn happnd. Uo jst seekn opinions dat wil nt be of any help. Pls. Anuty, is high time dis opinion seekers start payn us as we provide ideas for their research work. LIB Princess! Pretex4luv@yahoo.com
But no good girl goes to the club and stay that long to endup sleeping in a hotel room paid by a guy they just met at the club. Like mind called and like minds came. Anyway u don't just leave her,try letting her know how disappointed you're with her and make effort to help her be a better person.
Wat a torture ! Your case cld be likened to someone eating dodo in your presence,nd just left you salivating. Since you two are friends,one cld infer that you have the same character. Jst dt only one guy showed up,if it were two guys i know you will not put this up.bt the guy selfish too,he shld have helped you too.
That she-male up there actually looks like the guilty friend here in a rehab. Lol. Do not hold grudges against her. Let her know your grievance. If she refuses to take correction, then let her be. Remember, be polite when you talk to her. MB.C. DORIS
My dear,its a pity your friend is a bad egg. Tell her how you feel and keep a distant relationship with her cos u dont need to mingle with such friends.
ITS OBVIOUSLY HER CHOICE. BUT CERTAINLY NOT A NICE MOVE FOR A GIRL. YOU KNOW YOURSELF AND THE KIND OF FRIENDS YOU WANT BUT LEFT FOR ME I WILL QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP COS AM ALSO DRAGGED TO THE MUD BY HER DIRTY ACT.
same happen to me while I was visiting a friend in 2000.The next morning her boyfriend was making jest of me saying I sleep a lot. in my mind I was like ode! I saw you both display your 32 carat stupidity.
Na wa ooo!!! No sense of shame @ all! SMH. Pls jst ignore her let her conscience judge her(that's if she has one) then next time,u shuld know better nt to stay out late with her again. Eyah!sorry for the moans et al.Lol!
Go Chop dog shit. Be claiming saint there. they respected you enough and gave you the bed while they made out on the couch. I thought they even invited you. go chop dog shit again.
The guy paid your hoyel fees! What were you expecting? Is hia last name Charity? I don't think you're naive; you probably made this story up but on case you are, its lucky he did not demand a threesome. You arr just as culpable as your friend, so stop throwing stones.
next please,how is this a gist.Threesome is awesome.Guys u need to try it especially with bisexual girls.Its fun to see girls fool there-selves just to satisfy you.You need large pocket or let the gals know you don't have a timid naija mentality that's criminalize your sex status
Let me ask you this question,how did you meet/know this your friend and for how long? She can't be a saint and all of a sudden turn to a shameless sex machine.Its either you knew she was capable of doing that or she was high on something.If its the later,sit her down and ask her what went wrong that night? But if its the later,don't disturb LIBers with a self incurred insult.Deal with it!
Linda, your blog is a great way to relax. Sometimes the stories here don't sound real but like I said it's a nice way to relax and watch the time go by. This situation does happen and I know I am a repeat offender but..Dear Author, since you pretended to be sleeping, keep sleeping...Lol Come to think of it if the guy had not paid for the room, you may have ended up stranded for the night. Oh! I almost forgot...have you not heard or maybe even read that " He who pays the piper dictates the tune." The young man comes across to me as a decent, thoughtful person to have opted to let you enjoy the comfort of the bed while he made out with your friend on the couch. My 2 cents though...LOL!
It comes with the territory hun, when you club and get wasted on those disco lights- it kinda bring out closeted hornified pple from their pretensive zone.... ...Choose friends that defines you, now define yourself- there lies your answer......#cheEzyjayne
Whoever submitted this article is an idiot. Which one concern u, if gonji catch u, u for join in abeg.... its her life and if u cant live with it or be part of it, leave. No be quarrel. Infact, i hail ur friend jare.... she quench gonji wey catch am
Thank God,at least u have some shame Pride and dignity,which is what is hard to come by in Ladies in recent time,most ladies are loose,careless and for them,fun 1st,even if they will regret it in future,
Like I heard the case of a girl that offended her female friend and when she asked what she could do to make her forgive her,the girl said she has to sleep with a guy of her choice and she did it,
Its sad MOST ladies don't have value or even value themselves again... And someday,these loose ladies will become Wives and Mothers
u r just angry cuz u felt so hornnnnyyyyyyyy and d guy dint do it wif u. if u swear dat u neva wanted to b in her shoes...EBOLA go catch u. jealousy is al i can read frm u. u r nt ashamed ohhh.wel both of u na ASHAWO. as for me i do it almost al d tym buh i dont PRETEND lyk u.take a seat bitch.#ebolabitch#
see wahala oo.ok what do you expect the guy that paid for the hotel room to do??come into the room and have a quiet prayer with you and your friend after all night partying..the guy was even civil enough not to border you to collect a piece of the money he paid out of ur legs..
wow..dis ur friend respects u oo...atleast dey used d couch...my dear friend and her one night stand did it on d same bed I was in..and were saying shhhh shhhhh....dey tot I was fast asleep...and d nasty friend told me d next morning to help her buy biscuit nd ribenna for her to use as a holy communion..I was shocked..
I was in Dt situation some years bk, we went for a dinner n d ish ended late...d annoying thing was Dt I was d one Dt even paid for d room, only for mi to wake up n saw dem having sex on d rug, I just got up,climbed over dem n went outside. I later sent her a text to let mi no wen dey were done. We r still friends till now but she's neva entirely comfortable around mi anymore
These is Normal..She actually thought she was sleeping deeply,to me ,i dont see anything wrong in that,they are coming from a party and she might be drunk and really want sex..
Smh. Is this the kind of issue people bring to the public to get advice for? What happened to simple reasoning in tackling petty issues like this? What happened to asking matured and elderly people for advice? What happened to talking with your friend about what is wrong and right and being a mirror for your friend and telling her the truth and telling her what you don't like and advicing her? The kind of issue you should bring to the public for advice are critical issue, serious issue that matured, elderly and respectable people around can't seem to find solutions to again, and not shameful issues like this, you should be ashamed of yourself in the first place to bring this to the public. What is wrong is wrong, if you instincts tells you its wrong, you should make it known to her and not bringing it to the public. The both of you are shameless and highly irresponsible. Also Linda dear! With all due respect, there are some mail from LIB readers you shouldn't bring here, you shouldn't be posting it here
See who is talking,you are claiming Innocent girl, 1)What exactly are you doing at the party at that Odd Hour? 2)You both Lodge in an Hotel a man Paid and you slept off Like a Bingo the Hotel room Looks like your bed room right ? there is an Adage which says Show me your friend and i will tell you who you are, i m 100% sure both you and your friend are Runz Babe ... Inyama
What were u doing with dat kind of friend before.. If you have been friends with her for long you are supposed to know what she can and can't do unless u juz met her.. Well,libers don't know her.. You are to decide for urself if you still want to be friends wit her or not.. A word is enof for the wise and again birds of thesame feathers flocks togeda.. Choose wisely..
Anonymous 7:04 u disgust me, u are proud u are a ptostitute,90% of women are soo loose, selling dere bodies to demons, ur body is d temple of God,wen disaster befall u now,christ said unless u repent u will perish, anyone who destroy him or herself, God will destroy d person,urr body is d temple of God,one tin I will assure U is,unless u repent, u will perish. Take it or leave it ,loose useless girls everywhere
You are just jealous and you need help because if it is you will do the same also , Nah your type they do hide hide with friends. And if am not mistaken you are worst then her .... Believe me girl ....... You a bitch and a pretender ... Fuck off !
there ain't nuthin' wrong with that.. i done had sex with ma girl with ma niggas playing X Box in d same room.. i just think u mad cos u wanted to get some & u didn't... it's cool, bitches hate.. lol
Lol.....only God knows the mood u were when the whole thing was going on. U must have wet the whole bed. U should've beg to join them, okay? So don't feel bad.
See me see trouble ooo....first of all....Na your yansh...secondly..u fink say for ds 9ja free goodies Jst dey come like dat...even if free tinz dey sef...no be say make u meet person for nite club...pls let ur friend leave her life...Sheybi Na only ds one u see wif ur eyes ...u knw d one way she do wey u never see...Mtcheeew..
Yeah u can still be her friend people do change may be u could even be the one 2 change her sorry 4 the shame my dear just let the sleeping Dog lie low ok
Has anyone else noticed how Linda would hurriedly publish any rubbish that has sex in it? No matter how stupid a post sounds, and how much sense it doesn't make, just add sex and she would publish it. Meanwhile I've sent several articles which she never published. Mtcheeew!
I thought this was common practice now?!! There actually isn't any privacy in sex any more, it isn't sacred as it used to be. Well I don't think she will be embarrassed, she only got down and dirty in front of you, just bring it up! But you'd be surprised she will laugh it off!
e-thugs... Y report this kind of story to bully ur friend mentally? Akamu brain. Scaning tru random users social media activities,u can tell 75% of their life story.
PLEASE IN THE NAME OF GOD...FLEE FAR FAR AWAY FROM SUCH A FRIEND because the people you hang around with determine who you are but I guess a lot of girls don't know that.
Its obvious ur frnd is senseless. First, y would she jzt slip wth someone she doesn't knw?? Two, she jst indirectly paid for d room bt she doesn't know. Ow cheap she was.
Lmao....@ ur own point of view of how the young man comes across to you .......
Don't mind the geh.......she shuu gaan sit down jare!
Guyman pay hotel for you and ur friend, com ravish ur friend sharply for night....you dey complain........Is the guy fada Christmas???? Or you feel he just goes around paying hotel bills for every young gurl he sees? Plus you felt comfortable enough sleeping in the hotel........your lucky the hommy didn't turn it into a "menagie trois!"....
"same happen to me while I was visiting a friend in 2000.The next morning her boyfriend was making jest of me saying I sleep a lot. in my mind I was like ode! I saw you both display your 32 carat stupidity."
Your friend was horny and she wanted to have sex, simply that. Certainly, she should have comported herself in a better manner. One night stands are not unheard of and that is what your friend did. I couldn't have done it, but then I have done some things that others would find distasteful.
You can tell your friend the situation made you uncomfortable, and in the future when you go out together make sure you know how the hell you are getting home afterwards.
Are you sure the stupid guy no rape her? Talk to her and hear her own story first. If she dey tell you make you chill then be careful with her. Watch how you hang with her bcus she can put you in trouble. And please don't live that life style. Aids is real and don't discriminate. Close your own legs and find you a God will bless you with a good husband. Trust me it will happen. If your friend is sleeping around with men like that she will get I trouble. She might even be doing prostitution. Who knows. Naija na hard place, most of our girls have turned ashawo for money
God bless you Alloy. You took almost all of the words outa my mouth. I think two people are actually sick here: Linda and the story teller. Yes! They are both sick. I can't believe this is coming from Linda. That was how she made a very stupid post about a teenager who claimed she was been molested by her step dad or uncle. There are certain stories that really do not need public eer. Maybe Linda forgot to take her drugs today again. Bitching hell.
I am gonna seriously curse you out for this Linda. I am not gonna do it once, twice, not even four day. Get ready. It's gonna be five days cursing. Cos this is a slap on the faces reasonable LIBer. I sense you said "whatever I bring, they will entertain it" fuck off.
Reading through all the writing,I think you now know what to do.Think about age and time as it counts on both parties.No time to waste,you have answer to the question you ask.Follow your heart.......But I assure you old things will pass away:if not,will be a cast away at the very end of time.Shalom!
Listen that guy is hreason you ppl overstayed at that party. Or are you saying a grown up like you doesn't know when it is late enough to go home. May be you think men are stupid enough to pay for a hotel accommodation for a girl they just met at a party just to fuck? That guy told ur friend to stay and mumu like you followed suit. You see free hotel you stay join. What if na armed bandits come rape two of una for night whey you for get mouth they tell this hypocritically righteous stour you dey tell here??? You are disgusted your friend had sex are you a virgin?? That guy was supposed to come with a friend that is what your friend went out to discuss with them. You got very lucky. Ode buruku ni yen.
U are probably just mad dat d guy came on to her an f#@kd her an no attention to u, cos if u claim to be so decent, why sleep in a room dat was paid by a random fella met at a party. Spare me d self righteous act!!!!
PEOPLE SHAAAAAAAAAAAAA.... If she was like her friend would she bring the issue to be discussed on this blog. if you have nothing good to say SHUT UP...
If it happened to me, i'll approach her and there after cut her off so that dumb asses like the people saying rubbish here won't judge me harshly.
I have had sex in front of my friends and vice versa, as well as a couple of threesomes. I am bi and used to be a sex freak, fastforward to now, am getting married to an amazing man who says hes gonna teach me about sex. I laff in spanish,.pastor boo,.lets marry quick, id blow ur brains
seriously wat business of urs is it?its just unfortunate dat u wre deir, abeg free d babe jor... its either u both ve sex wit ur different boyfriend or ure abstaining till after marriage, ones youre doing it,den were is not a bigie....
seriously wat business of urs is it?its just unfortunate dat u wre deir, abeg free d babe jor... its either u both ve sex wit ur different boyfriend or ure abstaining till after marriage, ones youre doing it,den were is not a bigie....
KINI BIG DEAL? SAY DEM BOLO THEMSELVES FOR YOUR PRESENT COME MEAN SAY SHE BE ASHAWO? HELL NO! NA WETIN DEM DEY CALL KONJI BE THAT IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE. ABEG GROW UP OR PARKWELL JOOR!
KINI BIG DEAL? SAY DEM BOLO THEMSELVES FOR YOUR PRESENT COME MEAN SAY SHE BE ASHAWO? HELL NO! NA WETIN DEM DEY CALL KONJI BE THAT IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE. ABEG GROW UP OR PARKWELL JOOR!
lol ahmm if you guys are real friends 1) you would know she has a "one night stand" mindset 2) he did pay for the hotel... 3) she was horny and felt like fucking what else do you expect to hear from her , life happened you just happened to be fake sleeping
my dear, "lash" is like poop, n poop is serious business... u gotta go when u gotta go... live with it... she didn't commit a crime. d only probelm i have is that it was with some random guy...
Young lady. please rest!!!!!! you have no case.So u don't have a problem with the fact that she had sex, its because you were there, and so what???????So the girl is horny and she thought u were were asleep she shouldn't fuck? Like u haven't ever watched porn before. U must be from the bush or something. Locate an electric pole to caress! i hate reading BS
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Hmmm. R u sure u weren't turned on? *eyebrow raised*
Shows the quality of your friends.. That shows she has no self worth or value.. And your prolly her type of "feather" and you've been flocking happily...sure you discuss naughty stuff all the time..well next time make sure you are with your headphone
Your friend is an ASHAWO! You can bring it up with your friend by asking if the guy was good in bed. Run from this girl before she indoctrinate you into her lifestyle.
Oh well.. My dear its a normal thing.. They respected ur presence and went to do it on the couch, forget bouh it and embrace peace jaree.. If u were in her shoes u wud do d same.. I can bet dat! Agro na bastard u know? #okbye
Ebola alert... run for ya life.. kotinu bawo
Preach to her and let her know God is against sex before marriage and you also should make your ways right with christ plus tell her her man would appreciate her more if she isn't like a well so she can stop this act now cos its not too late Heb 13:4. BishopDammy#
You are just as disgusting as your friend. You felt comfortable sleeping in a hotel room a strange man paid for. You didn't see anything wrong with your friend sleeping with a random man. All you had a problem with was that you had to hear the moans.
Stay friends with her. You are birds of a feather.
You are very very stupid. Who goes out till late and sleeps in a hotel paid for by someone you met at the party. Why are you pissed tho Sounds to me like you and your friend are the same thing? Did you wish he had sex with you instead? Talking about you are ashamed of her, everybody in West Africa is ashamed of you both, birds of a feather you are coming here with your self righteousness.
Dodgy girls....
Na wa so na linda go select ur friends for u ?? u for just ask linda to decide your breakfast, lunch and dinner. Even select cloths or bf for u. DMP for u
Tell her its wrong. Help her out. Keep on d friendship u never can tell why maybe pressure. Pavour@gmail.com
Nobody holy pass... Am sure u shoulda knwn d kinda friend u av... So, d guy paid 4 d room and u slpt in it. Wat were u tinkin? Dat d guy is a "good samaritan"? U'r even lucky d guy and ur friend didn't force u 2 join dem.
No pls,she is not a good friend.
Lmao
Mcheewww... Rubbish, I had sex with a girl yesterday and her friend was there playing on her IPAD... She not even asleep. #whocares
Hmmm....You are even lucky that THREESOME was not in the menu. Confront her and let her know you dislike what happened cos next night you may not be so lucky.
Mekus
My friend what is wrong with that? So u cannot have sex in her present? Girl grow up jor
Capital letter NO
What is big deal there ?people like u like to spoil fun for others🔫
So, u really don't know the decision to take? U don't know what to do?! U must be really sick for asking such stupid question. U are as sick as ur friend.
Well, since u don't know how to approach her,this is what u should do. Call her on phone to meet with u, and when she does, give her a pat on the back for a job well done.
Aunty Linda, not all comment or stories that's worth posting here oooo!!!
Mind your business. Afterall you are not a saint either. lovinganna00@yahoo.com
Interesting story. My dear if u don't bring it up she won't. Hope u are not birds of de same feather? Bring it up and tell her how u feel. I'm out. ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***
Nasty.At least they didnt do it on the same bed as you #truestory. Well since you've been cold to her she should know sth's up. Just go straight for it and let her know how crossed you are. As for continuing to be friends its up to you we dnt know how close you are so see how she reacts and re evaluate your friendship overall I guess.Definitely punish her though you dnt do that to anyone ever.
Are you a kid?...I mean, c'mon!
You agreed and stayed in a room payed for by a stranger you met at a *party and you thought it was for free?.
How long have you known this friend and you didn't know she's into prostitution?.
Change route or join her in the business; your choice!
*My R1.50c comment*
The question should be "have you had sex before"
Am not judging her, but dat is in no way a gud friend if u ask me... Having sex wit a man u just met is 1. Right infront of ur friend is 2
Well I guess she was horny!there is nothing to be ashamed of...Itz her decision & body! she was just being naughty that's all...no big deal
Lol. I have had the same experience but instead my friend and the man left me on the couch and went to the room with the door slighlty ajar, about 3 feet away.
Well sex is a choice and it should not bother you, they both consented to it. It may disturb you morally and since it has just call your friend and let her know. She may differ with your views which goes to show that we all think different.If she respects you she will apologise. Just move on.
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Is dis a story, so wat shuld we now do. Abeg woman call ur friend n tell her d truth n don't pretend......y r u even surprised don't u knw d kind of friend u v.....mschewwwwww!!!! Abeg onto d next one.
GM
Wat den our problem
Eeeeee! U met the guy @ the party! It's not like u guys were friends or he was your guardian angel. You're not 12 o! You don't know the bargain between your friend and the guy. Befriend someone else & walk away. Leave her story for her joor
your friend having sex in front of you is her problem....if they invited you to come and join, then they made it your problem...
From all indications she is not the type of friend you wished for. So leave her with her life and move on. Sex is not a bad thing, but the manner in which she had it could be questioned !
none of ur biz !
You need to tell her you saw everything she did with the guy and try to advice her and see her reactions before u disfriend her.
What's d fuss...is she your Lesbo partner? You have less problem to let something like this bother you.
Ur friend is highly rugged!! And u are jonsing, instead of u to join and make a sharp threesome! U jonse
Are you a learner?? U not beta dan her ok,good gals don't go to night party.
That type of person is not worthy 2b a friend,leave her b4 she influence u badly!
I think it shows a sign of irresponsibility on ur friend's part. As d saying goes, show me ur friend & I'll tell u who u are. D sayin should be enough to help u make ur decision.
i think confronting her is the best thing to do now because that was so slutty of her
Yes it was stupid on her part but she is still your friend and it may happened because she was drunk who knows the best advice is to ask her why she did it if her reason or apology is convincing then continue being friends with her.
Yes u can be friends with her...Only if she accept your advice cos u need to talk some sense into her small skul..loose waist
Notn happnd. Uo jst seekn opinions dat wil nt be of any help. Pls. Anuty, is high time dis opinion seekers start payn us as we provide ideas for their research work. LIB Princess! Pretex4luv@yahoo.com
But no good girl goes to the club and stay that long to endup sleeping in a hotel room paid by a guy they just met at the club.
Like mind called and like minds came. Anyway u don't just leave her,try letting her know how disappointed you're with her and make effort to help her be a better person.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Ur frd needs prayer ASAP but that does not mean u shouldn't be frds again...... Talk senses into her head........ I AM MISS LIBER*MISS MEENAT
MICKY: you should know her as a friend. Talk to her about it...and find out what lead to her action,also reveal your opinion and plight
emmmmm...are you a child?
Hahaha! My dear girl this is the stage the world is now!!! Quarter to end... It's not a new thing!
You dey there dey complain,,,,,, where you for just enter set
If your nonplussity obliged your watching,you should be charged for being culpable. *guilty!...in judge's voice*
_______Fortunedexcel@rediffmail.com
You are a learner!
Wat a torture ! Your case cld be likened to someone eating dodo in your presence,nd just left you salivating. Since you two are friends,one cld infer that you have the same character. Jst dt only one guy showed up,if it were two guys i know you will not put this up.bt the guy selfish too,he shld have helped you too.
That she-male up there actually looks like the guilty friend here in a rehab. Lol. Do not hold grudges against her. Let her know your grievance. If she refuses to take correction, then let her be. Remember, be polite when you talk to her. MB.C. DORIS
Lolz...shut up cos is non of Ūя̲̅ bis n deny the fact ȾђѧϮ you didn't enjoy the whole moaning frm Τ̲̅ђe qwashing.
i hav been following ur blog for more than three years and u dont want to my comment
My dear,its a pity your friend is a bad egg. Tell her how you feel and keep a distant relationship with her cos u dont need to mingle with such friends.
Humiliate herself or humiliate u???
Lol....so what's there, I have had sec with my roommate beside
If you can't take it then don't be her friend she thought you were asleep so technically they were alone. Get over it
ITS OBVIOUSLY HER CHOICE.
BUT CERTAINLY NOT A NICE MOVE FOR A GIRL.
YOU KNOW YOURSELF AND THE KIND OF FRIENDS YOU WANT BUT LEFT FOR ME I WILL QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP COS AM ALSO DRAGGED TO THE MUD BY HER DIRTY ACT.
Saint mary,go on be her friend dot u know dat she was wild before?now u are acting like virgin mary,,irebisibrown@yahoo.com.sg
same happen to me while I was visiting a friend in 2000.The next morning her boyfriend was making jest of me saying I sleep a lot. in my mind I was like ode! I saw you both display your 32 carat stupidity.
Na wa ooo!!! No sense of shame @ all! SMH. Pls jst ignore her let her conscience judge her(that's if she has one) then next time,u shuld know better nt to stay out late with her again. Eyah!sorry for the moans et al.Lol!
Go Chop dog shit. Be claiming saint there. they respected you enough and gave you the bed while they made out on the couch. I thought they even invited you. go chop dog shit again.
I beg make we hear word, deal with it.
Hian! And this is a P 4u how? If u feel u cnt b frnds wiv her anymore, shutdwn na...simple! Frndshp aint by force o
The guy paid your hoyel fees! What were you expecting? Is hia last name Charity? I don't think you're naive; you probably made this story up but on case you are, its lucky he did not demand a threesome. You arr just as culpable as your friend, so stop throwing stones.
next please,how is this a gist.Threesome is awesome.Guys u need to try it especially with bisexual girls.Its fun to see girls fool there-selves just to satisfy you.You need large pocket or let the gals know you don't have a timid naija mentality that's criminalize your sex status
Let me ask you this question,how did you meet/know this your friend and for how long? She can't be a saint and all of a sudden turn to a shameless sex machine.Its either you knew she was capable of doing that or she was high on something.If its the later,sit her down and ask her what went wrong that night? But if its the later,don't disturb LIBers with a self incurred insult.Deal with it!
Linda, your blog is a great way to relax. Sometimes the stories here don't sound real but like I said it's a nice way to relax and watch the time go by.
This situation does happen and I know I am a repeat offender but..Dear Author, since you pretended to be sleeping, keep sleeping...Lol
Come to think of it if the guy had not paid for the room, you may have ended up stranded for the night.
Oh! I almost forgot...have you not heard or maybe even read that " He who pays the piper dictates the tune."
The young man comes across to me as a decent, thoughtful person to have opted to let you enjoy the comfort of the bed while he made out with your friend on the couch.
My 2 cents though...LOL!
LWKMD!!! You're naïve. U don't know ur "friend" @ all.
She is your friend and she is your friend and nothing stops that.so, you should continue to be a friend but offer a useful advice to her.
You are lucky enough that she didn't let her feelings move her to touch you and she still remembered that you are a woman like her.
Then you would have been more ashamed if she had asked you for Sex! Lolz...
It comes with the territory hun, when you club and get wasted on those disco lights- it kinda bring out closeted hornified pple from their pretensive zone.... ...Choose friends that defines you, now define yourself- there lies your answer......#cheEzyjayne
Whoever submitted this article is an idiot. Which one concern u, if gonji catch u, u for join in abeg.... its her life and if u cant live with it or be part of it, leave. No be quarrel. Infact, i hail ur friend jare.... she quench gonji wey catch am
Thank God,at least u have some shame Pride and dignity,which is what is hard to come by in Ladies in recent time,most ladies are loose,careless and for them,fun 1st,even if they will regret it in future,
Like I heard the case of a girl that offended her female friend and when she asked what she could do to make her forgive her,the girl said she has to sleep with a guy of her choice and she did it,
Its sad MOST ladies don't have value or even value themselves again... And someday,these loose ladies will become Wives and Mothers
D truth is u hv to talk 2her and Let her knw u didn't like it ........but u encouraged her Smhw by staying in a hotel room a stranger paid 4.....
u r just angry cuz u felt so hornnnnyyyyyyyy and d guy dint do it wif u. if u swear dat u neva wanted to b in her shoes...EBOLA go catch u. jealousy is al i can read frm u. u r nt ashamed ohhh.wel both of u na ASHAWO. as for me i do it almost al d tym buh i dont PRETEND lyk u.take a seat bitch.#ebolabitch#
see wahala oo.ok what do you expect the guy that paid for the hotel room to do??come into the room and have a quiet prayer with you and your friend after all night partying..the guy was even civil enough not to border you to collect a piece of the money he paid out of ur legs..
Common fuck off frm here! Who cares
wow..dis ur friend respects u oo...atleast dey used d couch...my dear friend and her one night stand did it on d same bed I was in..and were saying shhhh shhhhh....dey tot I was fast asleep...and d nasty friend told me d next morning to help her buy biscuit nd ribenna for her to use as a holy communion..I was shocked..
Are u d fuckee? Sharap there n face ur life. She trusts u, Dats y she did it in ur presence.
MY DEAR GBOJU.....GBAGBE OSI...She cant carryover d guys prick...
Yu sound stupid for asking us dat stupid question... she can easily sell u & still be smiling wit u. Flee for you life dude
I was in Dt situation some years bk, we went for a dinner n d ish ended late...d annoying thing was Dt I was d one Dt even paid for d room, only for mi to wake up n saw dem having sex on d rug, I just got up,climbed over dem n went outside. I later sent her a text to let mi no wen dey were done. We r still friends till now but she's neva entirely comfortable around mi anymore
Hmmmmmmm........ wat were ur friends doing????
Pls help us tell her. You're not talking to your friend because no be u dem fuck give cash.
story for d gods...next joor. u suppose lie down flog 40 lashes. nxt tym na rape dem go rape u.
These is Normal..She actually thought she was sleeping deeply,to me ,i dont see anything wrong in that,they are coming from a party and she might be drunk and really want sex..
Abegi Birds of the same feather f*cks together
Den she's a bitch I guess. Dat u even have d guts to tell us.
U should ve let her knw d nxt morning
Smh. Is this the kind of issue people bring to the public to get advice for? What happened to simple reasoning in tackling petty issues like this? What happened to asking matured and elderly people for advice? What happened to talking with your friend about what is wrong and right and being a mirror for your friend and telling her the truth and telling her what you don't like and advicing her? The kind of issue you should bring to the public for advice are critical issue, serious issue that matured, elderly and respectable people around can't seem to find solutions to again, and not shameful issues like this, you should be ashamed of yourself in the first place to bring this to the public. What is wrong is wrong, if you instincts tells you its wrong, you should make it known to her and not bringing it to the public. The both of you are shameless and highly irresponsible.
Also Linda dear! With all due respect, there are some mail from LIB readers you shouldn't bring here, you shouldn't be posting it here
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See who is talking,you are claiming Innocent girl, 1)What exactly are you doing at the party at that Odd Hour? 2)You both Lodge in an Hotel a man Paid and you slept off Like a Bingo the Hotel room Looks like your bed room right ?
there is an Adage which says Show me your friend and i will tell you who you are, i m 100% sure both you and your friend are Runz Babe ... Inyama
U should ve let her knw d nxt morning
What were u doing with dat kind of friend before.. If you have been friends with her for long you are supposed to know what she can and can't do unless u juz met her.. Well,libers don't know her.. You are to decide for urself if you still want to be friends wit her or not.. A word is enof for the wise and again birds of thesame feathers flocks togeda.. Choose wisely..
Anonymous 7:04 u disgust me, u are proud u are a ptostitute,90% of women are soo loose, selling dere bodies to demons, ur body is d temple of God,wen disaster befall u now,christ said unless u repent u will perish, anyone who destroy him or herself, God will destroy d person,urr body is d temple of God,one tin I will assure U is,unless u repent, u will perish. Take it or leave it ,loose useless girls everywhere
common you should have joined them you missed out.
Can I like your comment?
Well said
U re a fool! And ur girlfriend is a bigger fool #tufia
Which one is disappointed in her..is she her mother? Hissss so wen the guy paid room they tot it was subsidy abi...Abeg rest with ur comment o
You are just jealous and you need help because if it is you will do the same also , Nah your type they do hide hide with friends. And if am not mistaken you are worst then her .... Believe me girl ....... You a bitch and a pretender ... Fuck off !
miss decent what were you doing in a hotel paid by a guy you dont know, dont even pretend here cos birds of same feathers fly together.
Na today??..shit has been happening dear..#abnormal thgs which has revolved to normal#
What a generous soul! Please may I have your friend's phone number?
there ain't nuthin' wrong with that.. i done had sex with ma girl with ma niggas playing X Box in d same room.. i just think u mad cos u wanted to get some & u didn't... it's cool, bitches hate.. lol
since you pretended to be asleep when the two were having sex,so don't talk about it.
FOHHH! you're just jealous your not the one getting fucked...yimu!
Lol.....only God knows the mood u were when the whole thing was going on. U must have wet the whole bed. U should've beg to join them, okay? So don't feel bad.
See me see trouble ooo....first of all....Na your yansh...secondly..u fink say for ds 9ja free goodies Jst dey come like dat...even if free tinz dey sef...no be say make u meet person for nite club...pls let ur friend leave her life...Sheybi Na only ds one u see wif ur eyes ...u knw d one way she do wey u never see...Mtcheeew..
No vex 4 ur frnd na konji hold am u sef 4 join nau make e b 3som....
Yeah u can still be her friend people do change may be u could even be the one 2 change her sorry 4 the shame my dear just let the sleeping Dog lie low ok
Has anyone else noticed how Linda would hurriedly publish any rubbish that has sex in it? No matter how stupid a post sounds, and how much sense it doesn't make, just add sex and she would publish it. Meanwhile I've sent several articles which she never published. Mtcheeew!
Passing By ##
Nothing dey der?
Things happen for a reason for u to learn or for you to be the teacher.
what an ungrateful selfish bitch
u got a free room u loafer
instead of u to go and join ur friend to please the man
maybe tickle his balls or something as he stroked ur friends innards, u r here chatting shit
YOU SHOULD HAVE JOIN THEM A THREESOME.
HOLY MAN
Am just passing...Last Lili post my comment
Please shutup abeg.WTF is your own. Make she no nack again. abegiiii
Please shutup abeg.WTF is your own. Make she no nack again. abegiiii
I thought this was common practice now?!! There actually isn't any privacy in sex any more, it isn't sacred as it used to be. Well I don't think she will be embarrassed, she only got down and dirty in front of you, just bring it up! But you'd be surprised she will laugh it off!
Both of u ar fools.
Mtcheew so? At least they didn't kick you out if the room.
Why don't u just short d f*#k up?! Self righteous nitwit! Who are u to judge or decide the issues to be discussed & with who?!
e-thugs... Y report this kind of story to bully ur friend mentally? Akamu brain. Scaning tru random users social media activities,u can tell 75% of their life story.
I gbadun you o!
Lolz, see women and their ways? Guys rock always. You're beefing your friend because she had sex with a guy in your presence? WTF is wrong with that.
PLEASE IN THE NAME OF GOD...FLEE FAR FAR AWAY FROM SUCH A FRIEND because the people you hang around with determine who you are but I guess a lot of girls don't know that.
Like seriously, which village are you from interior remote haikus village? I guess.
Babe forget that thing abeg... You where not ready to give the man what he need, and ur friend did so why are u angry with her.
What happened to you shutting up! Don't bombard us with 100000 questions. Asking stupid questions instead of giving simple advice. Nonesense!
Can't u pple use ur heads??? Diz stories r made up by Linda!!! Nonsense!!
Wetin man no go see... u shit, u send to Linda nd she go post... you don't know the kinda friend you have abi?
queenreigneth@gmail.com
Its her life nd choice gurl...none of ur biz. Beckynicks13@gmail.com
Did u know that she might not know what she did was wrong? Just talk to her from ur hrt and do not use any abusive word,u might save a soul.
Thieves move with thieves. Bankers move bankers. Doctors roll with doctors. If your friend is a hoe, you are a hoe too. Stop pretending
How old are you?...
I concur!! Well said Alloy!
Ashawooooo!!! 3some things! See the kinda thing you're posting! Nonsense!! Smh!
If you continue to be friends with her then you are birds of a feather .
Who is this Bishop guy?
run away from your friend cos one day she will poison u
BORN TO SHINE!!!!!
Linda must u bring this nonsense post here. Msheww
Meaning?
Meaning
Its obvious ur frnd is senseless. First, y would she jzt slip wth someone she doesn't knw?? Two, she jst indirectly paid for d room bt she doesn't know. Ow cheap she was.
Lmao....@ ur own point of view of how the young man comes across to you .......
Don't mind the geh.......she shuu gaan sit down jare!
Guyman pay hotel for you and ur friend, com ravish ur friend sharply for night....you dey complain........Is the guy fada Christmas???? Or you feel he just goes around paying hotel bills for every young gurl he sees? Plus you felt comfortable enough sleeping in the hotel........your lucky the hommy didn't turn it into a "menagie trois!"....
#Although the story doesn't sound real#
On 2 the Next!
ABEG lindodo...is the gel with dada hair the complainant .....tell her she be lesbian na why she dey vex
Anon: 6.44pm .....
"same happen to me while I was visiting a friend in 2000.The next morning her boyfriend was making jest of me saying I sleep a lot. in my mind I was like ode! I saw you both display your 32 carat stupidity."
Thats laff of the day ... Oh My Days !!!
Is having sex a crime? i hate when people pretend.
Your friend was horny and she wanted to have sex, simply that. Certainly, she should have comported herself in a better manner. One night stands are not unheard of and that is what your friend did. I couldn't have done it, but then I have done some things that others would find distasteful.
You can tell your friend the situation made you uncomfortable, and in the future when you go out together make sure you know how the hell you are getting home afterwards.
Are you sure the stupid guy no rape her? Talk to her and hear her own story first. If she dey tell you make you chill then be careful with her. Watch how you hang with her bcus she can put you in trouble. And please don't live that life style. Aids is real and don't discriminate. Close your own legs and find you a God will bless you with a good husband. Trust me it will happen. If your friend is sleeping around with men like that she will get I trouble. She might even be doing prostitution. Who knows. Naija na hard place, most of our girls have turned ashawo for money
God bless you Alloy. You took almost all of the words outa my mouth.
I think two people are actually sick here: Linda and the story teller. Yes! They are both sick. I can't believe this is coming from Linda. That was how she made a very stupid post about a teenager who claimed she was been molested by her step dad or uncle. There are certain stories that really do not need public eer. Maybe Linda forgot to take her drugs today again.
Bitching hell.
I am gonna seriously curse you out for this Linda. I am not gonna do it once, twice, not even four day. Get ready. It's gonna be five days cursing. Cos this is a slap on the faces reasonable LIBer.
I sense you said "whatever I bring, they will entertain it" fuck off.
David (dave_gino)
u might be pissed dat u weren't invited for a threesome..tink!deep down dis mite b d case
Reading through all the writing,I think you now know what to do.Think about age and time as it counts on both parties.No time to waste,you have answer to the question you ask.Follow your heart.......But I assure you old things will pass away:if not,will be a cast away at the very end of time.Shalom!
Ihuaku your my relative. Your a disgrace to our family
Liar Liar....it was a threesome...and now you feel guilty...and you are turning the blame on your friend.
Deal with it.. What’s the big deal.. Seriously u have time to be discussing such childish and irrelevant issues on LIB. ode!
enh enh ur just a dead babe ....she hasn't done anything wrong....and u hv no ryt not tu talk to her....or maybe your jelus
......
Listen that guy is hreason you ppl overstayed at that party. Or are you saying a grown up like you doesn't know when it is late enough to go home. May be you think men are stupid enough to pay for a hotel accommodation for a girl they just met at a party just to fuck? That guy told ur friend to stay and mumu like you followed suit. You see free hotel you stay join. What if na armed bandits come rape two of una for night whey you for get mouth they tell this hypocritically righteous stour you dey tell here??? You are disgusted your friend had sex are you a virgin?? That guy was supposed to come with a friend that is what your friend went out to discuss with them. You got very lucky. Ode buruku ni yen.
U are probably just mad dat d guy came on to her an f#@kd her an no attention to u, cos if u claim to be so decent, why sleep in a room dat was paid by a random fella met at a party. Spare me d self righteous act!!!!
see this gal......u did not know such happen,if its you am sure you would have done it.
You where not suppose to be at that party.......
WELL MAY BE THERE IS NOFIN THERE
PEOPLE SHAAAAAAAAAAAAA.... If she was like her friend would she bring the issue to be discussed on this blog. if you have nothing good to say SHUT UP...
If it happened to me, i'll approach her and there after cut her off so that dumb asses like the people saying rubbish here won't judge me harshly.
IF UR AN ADULT THEN U SHOULDN'T C ANYTHING WRONG IN IT.
BUT THEN TRY AND JOKE/TEASE HER, FROM THERE U TELL HER UR MIND.
nkiru4love@yahoo.com
I have had sex in front of my friends and vice versa, as well as a couple of threesomes. I am bi and used to be a sex freak, fastforward to now, am getting married to an amazing man who says hes gonna teach me about sex. I laff in spanish,.pastor boo,.lets marry quick, id blow ur brains
seriously wat business of urs is it?its just unfortunate dat u wre deir, abeg free d babe jor... its either u both ve sex wit ur different boyfriend or ure abstaining till after marriage, ones youre doing it,den were is not a bigie....
seriously wat business of urs is it?its just unfortunate dat u wre deir, abeg free d babe jor... its either u both ve sex wit ur different boyfriend or ure abstaining till after marriage, ones youre doing it,den were is not a bigie....
KINI BIG DEAL? SAY DEM BOLO THEMSELVES FOR YOUR PRESENT COME MEAN SAY SHE BE ASHAWO? HELL NO! NA WETIN DEM DEY CALL KONJI BE THAT IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE. ABEG GROW UP OR PARKWELL JOOR!
KINI BIG DEAL? SAY DEM BOLO THEMSELVES FOR YOUR PRESENT COME MEAN SAY SHE BE ASHAWO? HELL NO! NA WETIN DEM DEY CALL KONJI BE THAT IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE. ABEG GROW UP OR PARKWELL JOOR!
yeS IT IS NORMAL. ONE NIGHT STAND DUHH.
talk to her
this is not a news and none of your biz please.
are u a learner?
i wonder which kind life is dis
dat is rediculous
Mtcheewwww...breeze. Next pls.
Nah Normal tin for Europe. Abeg next
lol ahmm if you guys are real friends 1) you would know she has a "one night stand" mindset 2) he did pay for the hotel... 3) she was horny and felt like fucking what else do you expect to hear from her , life happened you just happened to be fake sleeping
just very dumb of you period.
my dear, "lash" is like poop, n poop is serious business... u gotta go when u gotta go... live with it... she didn't commit a crime. d only probelm i have is that it was with some random guy...
don't be an hypocrite if u are not a virgin its only sex. discuss it with her dat u didnt like it and move on she is suppose to be your "friend"
Poison her? Jez like dat? I just ve seen d level u shine...shine ko...bright ni
Young lady. please rest!!!!!! you have no case.So u don't have a problem with the fact that she had sex, its because you were there, and so what???????So the girl is horny and she thought u were were asleep she shouldn't fuck? Like u haven't ever watched porn before. U must be from the bush or something. Locate an electric pole to caress! i hate reading BS
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