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Saturday, 24 May 2014

'I was molested from age 6 and gang-raped in high school' - Pamela Anderson reveals

During her speech at the launch of her foundation, Pamela Anderson Foundation, at Cannes Film Festival last week, glamour model and actress Pamela Anderson revealed how she was molested from age 6 and gang-raped by her first boyfriend and his friends who decided it would be fun to rape her
"I did not have an easy childhood. I was molested from age 6-10 by my female babysitter. I went to a friends boyfriends house while she was busy. The boyfriends older brother decided he would teach me backgammon which led into a back massage which led into rape- my first heterosexual experience. He was 25 yrs old, I was 12.
My first boyfriend in grade 9 decided it would be fun to gang rape me (with 6 of his friends) Needless to say I had a hard time trusting humans. I just wanted off this earth. My parents tried to keep me safe but to me the world was not a safe place, my dad  an alcoholic, my mom worked two jobs waitressing. My mom was always crying. Dad didn't always come home leaving us in tremendous pain and worry. I couldn't bare to give her any more disruptive information. I couldn't break her heart any more than it was breaking. I kept these events to myself. Sometimes, when you smile, it's not because you are happy, it's because you are strong" she said
Keep a close eye on your young children and the people around them. Children are getting molested every day...sometimes by family members...and people you trust!

69 Comments:

  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:19 , Anonymous dhobiz said...

    Very sad,,mans inhumanity to man

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:19 , Anonymous ugo said...

    Wow!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:19 , Blogger @edDREAMZ said...

    Thank God for her life and i hope other parents will learn lesson frm this....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:20 , Anonymous jaybeyblu said...

    We never really.know why people are the way they are. Certain factors shape a man's destiny, childhood experiences is one of em. I make a conscious effort to.desist from criticising peoples life choices esp their sexuality cos u never know why dey do the things they do.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:22 , Blogger BONARIO NNAGS said...

    Quite heart rendering. Am happy she never allowed the cruelty of this world deter her from actualizing her possibilities.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:24 , Blogger ONYX GODWIN said...

    I've always said it!!! Pple involved in any type of porn either was molested or had rough childhood... Ud rarely see any "sane" person involve in auch

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:24 , Blogger Angie Cape said...

    SMH....What a wicked world we live in.
    Moral lessons to *parents: Being there for your child/children is the best gift you can ever give them.
    It's easy to bring them into the world; parenting them is totally a whole different ballgame.

    *My R1.50c comment *

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:25 , Blogger Omo Oba said...

    Liar

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:27 , Blogger Peter Dada said...

    Hmmmmm! Touching! See where she is today!



    #Pesty

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:29 , Blogger @MeetdrealEvans said...

    And @ wht age did she get a boobs job?

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:32 , Anonymous Lydia said...

    Exactly dear...Most tyms its pple u trust,nd dats very hrtbreaking

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:33 , Blogger DOBY DOBY said...

    I feel for her.. sooo sad..

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:34 , Anonymous bbm7439955a said...

    same with me. was molested by my cathizm teacher at 8yrs. Engr Emy

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:34 , Anonymous hrm paul ojeih said...

    Linda no be matter of go come any body i catch molest any of my off spring be it boy or girl child that person go no say even though we agree to amnesty wickedness still runs in the average Niger delta mans blood simply put the perpetrator get ready to meet your maker and i will gladly do the time
    i simply cant understand why men will turn to beast and rape a female then why do we have brothels if they cant go there and quench their insatiable lust thunder fire them way dey do this inhumane act when dey jam really ogbologbo girl dey no go fit perform dey go begin depend on kparaga

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:35 , Anonymous dat girl said...

    Watched it on E! It's heart breaking to hear such things....just found out dat my frnd was physically and sexually abused by a guy she took as a friend, and she Cnt do anything bt it cos d beast comes from power and money. Ladies plz I beg u, be careful and dnt do "useless waka" all in d name of fun or wateva, and mothers plz be super attentive to ur children, both grown and little.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:38 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    She gives good advice about protecting children. Parents must be vigilant.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:42 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Stupid men everywhere!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:43 , Blogger curvy ZO said...

    Sorry pam..

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:44 , Anonymous Jade said...

    God give this woman strength. No shrink in the entire universe can help her, just You. You let it happen, please fix it. Amen!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:46 , Blogger hilary obiorah said...

    Jeez that a lot for someone to go through in one life time! Things like this damages a person for life, thankfully she has led a fairly good life.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:49 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    who's she tryin 2 deceive.
    I'm sure being molested and gang raped at a young age made her become a playgirl and a semi pOR*star

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:54 , Blogger otevee said...

    hnnmm even your ever smiling relative is not to be trusted with your little kid...talk more of your neighbour...God help us all

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 11:56 , Blogger Truthfulness pays said...

    May God heal ur wounds.









    Truthfulness pays!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:14 , Anonymous Sparks and Tingles said...

    What possibilities? Opening her legs for every cylindrical object in the full glare of cameras?

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:15 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    It's happening everywhere. N everyday.Parents OPEN ur EYES n EARS.teach sex education at home n let d kids b free 2 ask u anytin witout fear.it's beta 2 tell dem dan dey learn outside bcos if u listen to 8yr olds talk nowadays d tings dey pick from friendsin school u'll b amazed.even a boy child can b molested.some matured men I've talked 2 admitted dat dey were disvirgined by deir parents maid,some by deir aunties(incest yes but it is happening)mom's friend.I even read a report how a man was molesting a young boy.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:15 , Blogger Monica Lawrencee said...

    Parent has to be careful with there kids especially the female child

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:20 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Why won't she be a liar since you don't believe yourself how will you not feel everybody tell lies. Abunu ode

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:24 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I tell people that it really takes a heart to watch over other peoples kids, so I trust no one with my kids.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:28 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    In every 10 girls, 5-6 hv bin sexually molested frm the age of 8- 20yrs.. I'm a victim and 17yrs after its still fresh.. I hope to God I Heal.. I feel her pain..

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:34 , Blogger BB Anne's World said...

    Meaning that she insane right? Making ur perfectly "sane" self a better human being than she is abi?

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:39 , Blogger BB Anne's World said...

    This is why they sell pepper spray n tasers. Take karate lessons, if u dont have money, train yasef in ur backyard. If u no get backyard. Do it in ur room. Build ur muscles. I will never be that helpless in jesus name and i will make sure my children can defend themselves. Both the boys and girls cus this BS is everywhere now

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:52 , Anonymous Debbie Chelsea said...

    I feel 4 her....eya

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 12:54 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Sorry dear..so luv d part where she said"sometimes when u smile is not bcoz ur happy its bcoz ur strong" *fashionista LeOnOrA*

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 13:24 , Anonymous Amarachukwu. said...

    Sorry for what happened to u.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 13:37 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    What about Lawrence Fishbourne's daughter?

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 13:40 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    For once u talked like a "sane" person_am surprised! Keep it up boy

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 13:44 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Was dat why u turned out a whore n a pornstar?

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 13:46 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    DID YOU JUST SAY SHE LET IT HAPPEN? fucking pig. May your kids not be molested. DAMN FOOL! AND YES IT IS PERSONAL.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 13:47 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    @ugo 11:19 wat is the WOW! About? Some is talking about her painful experience u are there saying wow,must u comment? Nonsense.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 13:47 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    GOD WILL PUNISH YOU. I really want to pray the same fate befalls you so you know how it feels. But nah! God knows how to deal with the reckless

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 14:39 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    What has this got 2 do with what she jst said..hmmm----C21

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 15:01 , Anonymous aluminium said...

    I was molested by a relative of mine. He is a guy dat lived wit ma family for somtime. Am a guy btw.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 15:33 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Shut Ʊя dirty Trap! Your friend(or maybe you're even the one) was fucking a Rich Guy at a tender age. Bitchy Cow!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 15:36 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    With cheap sluts like you in every Hood in Nigeria, there will always be "Stupid men" everywhere.
    Ashawo 10kobo. It's Idiots like you that fuck 10 Guys in one street.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 15:44 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Quite a pity she went through all that at her tender age. But why go to visit Ʊя friends's boyfriend? Why accept for a Guy you know little or nothing about to give you a massage.

    She is probably using all this as an excuse to justify her fucking about and opening her Nyash for every Man and woman that comes her way!!!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 16:04 , Anonymous halimsy said...

    Woo what a sad story God help us all

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 16:11 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I was molested at age 4 by my uncle nd it's still fresh.im married and you can imagine that he came for my wedding and had the guts to eat and drink and get involved with the marriage rite.he fingered me then with lots of petroleum jelly. The world is a wicked place o

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 16:52 , Blogger jbankzE said...

    Nt evrybodi can b as strong as she is..... Lord save us al.in africa is an abomination 2 tuk abt t cos u wil b shamed evn by gals so is beta 2 die wif t.

    ~@iamJbankz Olamide's PA~

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 17:48 , Blogger MECURY said...

    Thanks for ur advice. I think u r a special creature on earth.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 18:15 , Anonymous APPLE said...

    Ha sorry about that.

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 18:19 , Anonymous Gwen said...

    See dis one,if u don't understnd wat onyx is trying 2 say,jus keep quiet already

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 18:36 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    That's why never judge a book. Behind almost every person society views as promiscuous is a similarly horrifying story. Molestation and rape of our children are rampant. They can turn wild in their adult year. I thank God for parents and siblings who loved me that even while I was ashamed of what was done to me knew I was still loved by family and most of all God. That saved me from a life of indecency and I will go to the grave with my secret of horrible events in my childhood. It has not and shall not define me!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 20:47 , Blogger ♥ ȊƦȋƺȟ ƘƦȋϻ ♥ said...

    Hmmmmm
    I realy dnt knw wat 2 sai cos molesting hz bcome a major problem in d wrld nd realy I fear cos mst parents dnt knw wat deir kids re goin tru in d hands of cusin,uncle's,step dad,tearcher etc.....nd mst folks dnt blieve wen deir kids tel dem Wats hpenin....may God hlp us all

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 22:04 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Shut the fuck up,u dumb asshole....comments like ur make me wish u went thru what she did,any abuse, be it verbally,physically or sexually is, can't find the word... take heart pam,i understand cus it also happend to me,and God will give us the strength to heal the pain,anger and gut wrenching sorrow we go thru....hmmm

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 22:46 , Blogger Rita Usman said...

    Such is life

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 23:45 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I was also molested by my cousins and step brothers, the saddest part of it all is no one ever believes ur story when u tell it as a child! Cause I did and I was labelled a liar, trying to spoil my brothers name bla bla bla. Come to think of it, at that age, I didn't even know anything as setting someone up with false accusations. Well the moral of my story is, the people closest to ur children are more likely to abuse them! I know cause it happened to me!

     
  • At 24 May 2014 at 23:57 , Anonymous Jade said...

    You means God. Thanks for d insult.

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 00:01 , Anonymous Jade said...

    Anon 1.46 pm,its rather unfortunate that you cant read and understand. God open their eyes so they can see, You created them, fix them
    Amen! If u still don't get it,then i give up!

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 02:59 , Anonymous FOA said...

    You are evil,she was 12,but no matter the age there's no justification to rape

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 03:04 , Anonymous FOA said...

    Even male kids,they get molested

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 03:08 , Anonymous FOA said...

    Maybe if we get the courage to speak out more,there would be less of Paedophiles around,who knows if you say something you might be saving another kid,am sure this uncle is still molesting another kid,he should be locked up for good

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 03:10 , Anonymous FOA said...

    Am sure you hypocrite subscribe to Porn

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 06:59 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Everyfyn Dumba**

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 11:56 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I was also molested at 12 by a 65yrs old man whom my dad trusted me in care for protection.The damaged done when i was 12 was the reason i cannot have a child even after 15yrs of marriage#crying#

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 13:20 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    C21, you clearly having comprehending problems

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 13:25 , Anonymous jaybeyblu said...

    Really? Wow! U sure define senseless. Lol Smh

     
  • At 25 May 2014 at 21:53 , Blogger Condom Stew said...

    but with breasts like that,you go don bad then...you na
    bad girl,bone the molesting story.

     
  • At 26 May 2014 at 08:50 , Blogger @MeetdrealEvans said...

    Mhen learn to use punctuation, cos u made no sense after so much write ups.

     
  • At 26 May 2014 at 10:39 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Don't blame her for the lifestyle she is living today, issues like that at an early age will most likely distort her views about the word and influence her behaviour negatively.

     

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