Actress Doris Simeon in a recent TV interview spoke once again about her failed marriage to movie producer, Daniel Adenimokan. Speaking on TVC breakfast show, Your Views, this week, Doris said Daniel asked her for a divorce several times before they finally separated.
"This man asked for divorce over seven times,
long before we finally separated. At every little problem, he would say
‘I want divorce, I want divorce.' There are some people that he listens to when they talk
to him, so I tried to call pastors, and they kept calling him, but he
wouldn’t pick their calls. At some point, I just realized that he had
made up his mind finally. It got to a point that I had to look at myself in the mirror, and I
said to myself, ‘Doris, you are a beautiful woman, why would you want to
kill yourself over nothing?’ I convinced myself to just try and move on with my life
also. It took me a year to get to that point, but in between that time, I
was trying to focus my mind on other things such as work."
My advice to other women going through this is; put God first in everything. Put things
behind you, make sure you look your best and work harder. Don’t kill
yourself because of any man because you have kids to take care of.
122 comments:
Only God knws y female celebrities finds it difficult 2 settle dwn..
He's stil a kid in dat aspect
Yeah right!
Lol seems the guy was caged,sophocated and couldn't breath no more.For him to have asked for divorce those number of times.Marriage this days is an institution for the extremely patient and tolerant.God help me when I get there.whew!
Doris we are behind you on dis but I think it's high time u stopped talking about Daniel....he is ur ex and stop giving him importance...talking about him in all interviews gives him d impression he still matters most to u..my advise:make ur interviewers know u ain't interested in talking about him again n refuse to comment.God will give u ur own husband Jst be patient.love u always
Enny
Really.
Just because your man failed does not mean that there is no man to die for, please point of correction, there are men that love and cherish their women no matter what, so don't generalize its a personal thing.
Pele Doris. I feel your pain. The most important thing in life is to put God first because anybody can disappoint you at any point in time.
Wetin u do the guy b4 hin reach that stage?coz now na only ur side we dey hear o.
wow!
Awww, such a beautiful family. Divorce is a terrible thing.
Kimmy*****
My dear move on and forget he exists..
*My R1.50c comment*
This will give ppl more reasons to hate Stella more...
Women should learn to expect the worst, learn to move on and stop talking about their ex.
Expect the worst that your present prince charming might turn to a frog..
Learn to move on after he's a frog..
And stop talking about the frog...
Its not worth it...
Women love doing this..
They talk about their ex, thereby gaining sympathy from people..
C'mon... Its not fair...
Just read this, she's the perfect wife but the not perfect husband...
What I hate??
I hate perfect ppl..
And anyone that paints him/herself as one, is ALWAYS the problem...
Let it go!!!!!!!!
Damn it.
Tor.
This will give ppl more reasons to hate Stella more...
Women should learn to expect the worst, learn to move on and stop talking about their ex.
Expect the worst that your present prince charming might turn to a frog..
Learn to move on after he's a frog..
And stop talking about the frog...
Its not worth it...
Women love doing this..
They talk about their ex, thereby gaining sympathy from people..
C'mon... Its not fair...
Just read this, she's the perfect wife but the not perfect husband...
What I hate??
I hate perfect ppl..
And anyone that paints him/herself as one, is ALWAYS the problem...
Let it go!!!!!!!!
Damn it.
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@Stella Damasus Aboderin Nzeribe Ademinokan.....u caused all ds
@Daniel ur face like back of POT....u wl regret to very soon...dt JUJU go soon clear for ur mind
I know @Stella n @Daniel will come on ds POST n drop comments.....Anuofias
@Doris take heart...God will comfort you.
@Galore
hmmmmmm
@Stella Damasus Aboderin Nzeribe Ademinokan.....u caused all ds
@Daniel ur face like back of POT....u wl regret to very soon...dt JUJU go soon clear for ur mind
I know @Stella n @Daniel will come on ds POST n drop comments.....Anuofias
@Doris take heart...God will comfort you.
@Galore
@Stella Damasus Aboderin Nzeribe Ademinokan.....u caused all ds
@Daniel ur face like back of POT....u wl regret to very soon...dt JUJU go soon clear for ur mind
I know @Stella n @Daniel will come on ds POST n drop comments.....Anuofias
@Doris take heart...God will comfort you.
@Galore
It is good y moved in girl. U are pretty and young and can still find love. I admire your courage and pray many will take your example. Men these days kill their wives who refuse to let them go.
Sometin wasn't right ma dear
Better luck nxt tym
....SƖεεkz
GOOD ADVISE
It is well...marriage things, God help us to find our true soul mate at first and avoid all these Hard I Known..
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Eeyah, sorry dear is 1 of those things. TOPZY
You've said it all in ur advice. God will continue to strengthen u and lift u up in ur career. If Daniel is urs, he will come bk to u and if he's nt God will surely give u ur own man.
Why would any man want to divorce Doris Simon?
How does it affect me? Kamarudeenmohammed53@gmail.com
Marrying an actress is like been in a distant relationship.. Cook 4 their husband MBANU..do his laundries MBANU.stay at her and look after the kids MBANU.Sex on demand MBANU again na timetable dem go use dey nack,after all dis u want ur marriage to work,she must be smoking marijuana, some celebs live the most boring private life...be who u are dnt imitate anyone.
This is stupid advice.
Looking at yourself & complimenting that another reason that ruin your marriage. I believe your man has reason why he persists on divorce.
BORN TO SHINE!!!
He has another woman out side. He is just praying for u to move so he can bring her in. That's there way but don't worry the Lord will be your strength. .......
... Nija girl is sleeping.....
Ending a marriage is not a nice thing to do,but in the end you cant force a horse to the river and also force it to drink water.
You are a beautiful and very talented woman. He is a real fool. Lets see how it will end for him. Live your life. You will prosper and be in good health with your son. I deeply admire you, your dignity and your beauty. God bless and protect you for all your thousands of fans Doris. You rock!!!!
hmmmmn.............it is well
Hmmmm I so much admire this couple...at times we wanna be like others not knowing what they are going through...its good she has moved on!
Ohh puh leeeze get over him already
Hian!!
Doris maybe he never loved you from the on set. That was why he asked for divorce at every slightest argument.its a pity, we cannot force anyone to love or stay with us. nice you moved on.
Mary
Men sha that means he already had eyes for Stella those times he was asking 4 divorce.
Doris you are a strong and beautiful woman
Afolabi Tosyne's blog
Hmm...he probably has eyes elsewhere, more so you're a strong woman...keep the strength! There are too many failed marriages these days!
I'm getting sick of this divorce story.
NEXT!!!
***Kcee's voice***
Hmmm na wa for Men ooo
Lots of hugs Doris.
Daniel doesn't sound like the sort that deserves you anyways.
Such a honest woman. Don't worry God will comfort u and bring the man that will cherish you forever.
an advice to those who are yet to get married
.please never you rush into marriage for any reason whatsoever.wait on God for the right person.cos if you marry the wrong person.believe me, one,s life will be full of regrets and wasted years of pain.
Na wa oo..it is well with u dear,Just try n move on...
Such a cute family. I say it alot too but i don't mean it. I've got to stop saying it.
it is well with you Doris. May God compensate you.
Dis man is a fool..instead of looking for a way to make tinz work u preferred divorce..............................#KingOfKings
Yes of course ...advise from someone who couldnt keep her own home! Well, una don hear oo.. ehn hen
Well...only God knows the real reason behind all of dis,i pray u both find succour in what ur doing,but Daniel(Da Bishop)Adenimoka,i hope u knw what ur doing men..olabode82@yahoo.co.uk
mmmmm .. na wa o. such a pretty woman.
I feel her pain and strength. Glad she has moved on with her life for the sake of the children.
He asked for a divorce because he wasn't happy. It's not a crime. People have a right to their happiness. Why would a woman want to be a married to a man who no longer wants to be with her?.
Instead of looking in the mirror at your physical self, look into your character, your inner self and find your pride there. You were beautiful when he met you, beautiful when he left you. Beauty is not everything.
Kelly S.
A man who asks for a divorce has already made up his mind, a woman might use it to scare you, but once a man spits it out, he has seen something better outside or he simply doesn't want to be there with you.
yes you are a beautiful woman, now focus on getting your life back on track.
Better for you jare since he wasn't satisfied let him go
my dear it is nt easy
Abi ooo my sister, God is ur strenght, it is well....(Rochas We Know 2015)
True talk u re A beautiful woman jare,dats most men 4 u,u can move wifout him
SO WHY WAS DANIEL ASKING FOR DIVORCE THAT MANY TIMES? WHAT WAS HIS REASONS CAN YOU TELL US? HE WAS MAYBE ENDURING SOMETHING OR ........
Some men sha! And 2 think he left u 4 a leftover; stella Damasus-Agadiekwenka, datz totally laughable. Just keep ur head up 4 ur dota's sake. 'Tis well
I'm glad u moved on, u'll surely get someone who will love and appreciate u. Stella damasus, just remember dat Karma is a bitch!
No one will ever tell the truth. It is well with both of them.
Great advice
Yeap! No man is worth crying or dying for ladies. Open ur ears n listen wit ur eyes. Lol some women won't hear now mugu!
I still feel for this woman....doris don't worry the man dat will stay wit u till the end will come
Awww that is so sad. only God knows what happened. be strong dear. it is well.
will not comment unless I hear from the man. Will soon join.
God will see you through
Faceoflib.
He is nt man enough.
Don't worry ma'am karma is the hardest bitch. #####QUEENMAYA#####
to hell wit him
This thing called marriage..
This lady used to be my crush anytime I sight her in a movie...... So unfortunate her marriage didn't work out......God knows d best sha.
wise talk....ds life no hard @ all.if 1 road closed,anoda 1 go open...
Well said darling...
The Lord is your strength
it is well with them.
Honestly, men of nowadays can frustrate/provoke their woman, left to woman to focus on her child/children. Linda pls post
No be lie oo, if someone doesn't want u, want urself, no relationship should be by force.
Good luck Doris. I know how this will end with Stella the prostitute.
Can she forget about this issue already? the man wey dey enjoy with another woman for Atlanta!
Ok
I still dey wonder y he left her for that stella. Doris I just love u for not saying much all these times. Keep ur head up beautiful.
Some men sha. This beautiful woman and the cute kid, you want to leave just like that. benotekcomputers@gmail.com
Is as if u are talking to me,i was once married every little quarrel he will say he want divorce...I had to let go, am still waiting on God to give me my own man that will accept me the way i am, and be able to see d imperfection in me and be ready to help me
Hmm, Daniel fall hand o if wat she said is true. Moving on isn't as easy as it sounds, have not bin down dat road, I dnt pray to ever be.
cherrykoko
It is not only female celebrities o. Men r just useless, and I say this with 'deep feeling' and intense hurt. Just found out by accident recently my 'boo' has another girl, Suspect he's had one all along and am prob just a side chick. I got to thinking that Men are just not WORTH this stress, took me days of crying to realize this and move on! Now all the 'trips', mood changes, family intro ban etc are all making sense.......smh. I really really wish I didn't have to get married, ever but mama go just swear for me!
Linda, this Omo Icon on my cursor is pissing me off!!! Please can u do something about it? Not cool @ allllll.....Kilode na? Ogini?
Thumb up,9c talk.
Doris move on with your life, God frowns on divorce, I don't know why some men and women, do not take their marital vows seriously anymore: any little slight they get a divorce, instead of working through their issues like adults!!! It is such a shame, nobody has the fear of God anymore, marriages are crashing everywhere smh!!! Marriage is a sacred institution, and does who consider it, should be mature, wise and full of knowledge, you have to endure, enjoy, understand, compromise, be honest and always put God first in everything!!! You would find a better man, there are still some good men out there!!! Whizman
U ll keep saying this n being stuck here, while stella n Daniel ve thr happily ever after. Ask angelina jolie n brad pitt hw far.
Doris move on with your life, God frowns on divorce, I don't know why some men and women, do not take their marital vows seriously anymore: any little slight they get a divorce, instead of working through their issues like adults!!! It is such a shame, nobody has the fear of God anymore, marriages are crashing everywhere smh!!! Marriage is a sacred institution, and does who consider it, should be mature, wise and full of knowledge, you have to endure, enjoy, understand, compromise, be honest and always put God first in everything!!! You would find a better man, there are still some good men out there!!! Whizman
Calm down! Geez! What if she was just responding to a question? And you know how Nigerians judge people, especially divorced women; calling them names and saying they left their husband for this & that reason, so they can sleep around, have boy/man friends etc. Maybe she was just clarifying that she isn't that kind of woman, didn't want to dissolve her marriage and even tried to get respected people to talk to him for her but the guy on the other hand was determined to break up the family and kept nagging her for a divorce and she just had to let it go. It's funny how the same bunch of people that will curse somebody out for leaving a marriage will also chastise another person for not letting go. I tire for Naija peeps joh! And if Stella didn't want to be hated, she shouldn't have gone with a married man and father........ Just Me
Why must you make urself unhappy, when u can walk away, ur happiness and dat of ur child matters alot.
Ohh I like this lady in movies
AGREED! True talk.Don't let your pain blind you. There are still a few good men out there. Open your eyes and goodluck! *anya_o2003@yahoo.com*
Sorry o! Stella's sister. *Nkonyeasua*
So the person he moved on to is not an actress too? Abeg shut it if you don't have anything sensible to say!
Abegi! Make we hear word! If a woman leaves, then she's stupid but if a man leaves; then he had his reasons. Chauvinistic Yoruba guys like you will always blame the woman no matter what. She had to talk to herself after he continuously asked for divorce and wouldn't talk to elders who wanted to appeal to him on her behalf and yet you're here saying her personal advice ruined her marriage, how? Of course we know his reason, they're together now in America, aren't they?. Hasn't he impregnated her yet? And before anybody comes to say any rubbish to me, I'm also Yoruba and some of the men that are like this irritate the heck outta me. Bloody Oshisco!
I completely agree with you but it's easier said than done to be a divorced woman in Nigeria, you need to consider the Nigerian factor too. Men can marry and divorce several times, even pastors are starting to do it, but as a woman, they will make your life a living hell and put all the blame on you.
Because she didn't agree to it at first. Mumu! Now that you know, what will you use the info for?
We re African women we must survive.
@anon 6:07,u can only be stella cos only her'd be so delusional as 2 compare herself 2 mrs pitt
Stella's in such a precarious situation,2 think daniel can just up n leave her anytime claiming 2've been under d influence of juju...dats if he isn't and she doesn't kill him first.
Yeah,u said ma mind she needs 2stop talking abt him he's her past
Keepin it wt the D3's hahaha una dey follow Kardishaz family 2 do fake reality kinikor! Eeeya sry
Kelvin u are a confirmed stupid idiot... See ur face like Ebola, have u ever been with an actress b4? How do u know actress don't cook and take care of their husbands??? Some of dis useless men of these days love hurting actresses in other to break them and make d society pour their insult on dem... When u know u re not ready to marry an actress, why do u propose? And why did u get her preg??? You guys will leave all d works on our head cos d bible says a wise woman build her own house with her hands... You men too should try and make things work, we Ladies re not ur slaves... No wonder u lack cloth to wear @Kelvin... Idiot mofo...
Stella damascus is dat u?
Don't mind dat chessyCat, she is a wondering fool... Am pretty sure u stole ur present boyfriend from his ex,that is if u have one... Or u must be stella's younger sister...
Maybe her p*ssy is trash. Excuse my vulgarity. But she is indeed a beautiful woman and comes across as a calm one too. So one might begin to wonder , maybe the sex was lousy.
They are both in the industry so they both knew what they were getting into. I think the problem is deeper than that.
..Or maybe he caught her with Jazz. As in Juju. #justassuming
Lmao.. Eyah!!
My Ika sister, na ni?
Anonymous 6:21, I couldn't have said it better cox u read my mind.... Women are alwys judged and crucified when the marriage fail especially when the reasoNs for their breakuP is unknown.... #cheEzyjayne
His loss is someone else's gain.
Just keep living.
That's how she makes her money pls manage it, till their time expire.
They weren't meant to be. Move on.
This is the problem with the society today...everyone pursuing their 'personal happiness' ...but this is not how it should be..we should be pursuing familial happiness, greater ideals..even the Bible says so...
We don't obey God all the time because it easy or pleases us or makes us happy..infact, it is a sacrifice to please God..so should our lives be..sacrificial...
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