Dear LIB readers: How do you let a man know he doesn't satisfy you in bed?
From a female LIB reader
What's the easiest way to let your man know you don't enjoy sex with him and you need him to improve without offending him? I have a high sexual libido and I doubt I will be faithful to any man who can't give it to me well. This is the man I intend to marry and I would really like to be faithful but my sexual satisfaction is very important to me. When he gives me head, he pretends to use his tongue when I know it's his fingers. He's also not big on foreplay and doesn't last long. He always leaves me unsatisfied after every sexual encounter. How do I let him understand without offending him? And can he even get better or is this how it will always be? Na only me waka come, make I know now so that only me go start to dey waka go
Na wa oh. Aunty your matter dey church. See all you are analysing about Have u read your bible to say btw? Smh If e pain u too much send him a text from an unknown number saying: improve or I leave!
my dear give your life to Christ thats the only thing that can make you faithful in your marriage, sexual satisfaction does not guarantee faithfulness, cos a man can satisfy you and still have 3 other girls outside that he needs to satisfy and a man can also satisfy you and tomorrow you are caught banging his friend, insatiable sexual urge is actually a demon called the spirit of whoredom, and he will keep using your body to satisfy his own urges and if you trace back your self you will notice you were not born with that urge, there was a particular man that slept with you and transfered that demon to you, until you go for deliverance you might not be contented with just one man, cos all men have their faults, the one that is good in bed might be jobless or might just be a school boyfriend...you know what you want, if you want sex then marry a porn star and if you want a decent marriage then get born again and go for deliverance thats my candid advise
Simply call on his attention politely, let him knw he much u adore hvin it wit him n u can den proceed by telling him d new tinz u wud like him to try out.
Communication rite from day one!! Well, get him drunk and start 'rough' play rough crazy jokes and tell him. Yab him and u guys shud laff abt it. His ego will tell him sometin is wrong wit dat joke....if he doesn't improve repeat until he does....if he can improve I dnt knw...sum of us had the finger of God on us...lol! So we wia born gud
U say it as nicely as U can. Be polite and do not mock. Understand that he'll get offended for a sec, but if he's mature and cares abt U he'll get over it and look for ways to step up. Also understand that some ppl might never improve and U might also have to maybe slow down or stop to help him compose himself during sex for a while till he can build up his ability to hold back. Most guys learn this b4 they hit 24 although I've heard some men are just too selfish and will never learn. My rule is "if she doesn't cum, I don't". So na do or die, I'm 32 now and it's bothered some women I've dated but I realize I'm a pleaser so get the inner pleaser in him to comot. Good luck
If I may ask! How long have you been dating him and how long have you been having sex with him. I'm only asking cos if you have been having sex with him for over a year and you just realized its time to tell him, then your not being fair to him. However, U should have told him a long time ago. Probably when u started. I assure you he would have done all he can to ensure that when he engages u......hmmm
for me,i cant imagine myself telling my boy friend that he did not satisfy me because is not African,but I think it all depends on how open you and your boy friend are,some men feel you are being wild when you open up to them,so i will rather keep quiet and just find a way around it,at least until after marriages.imoh@yahoo.com
The most fulfilling sexual experiences are those shared with a selfless participant. If a man is not selfish, he knows that he has to give as much as he wants to receive. a non-selfish man is usually very sensitive to your needs and knows what you like without you verbally saying so because he understands the communication of your reactions to his touches.
You can try saying what you want whilst the act is taking place. Personally, if I want more time during foreplay and my man wants to proceed to the main act, I just say, sweetie, more on my nipples or not yet love. Thankfully, he is not a selfish lover.
Hahahaha my dear I knw hw u feel.my ex was like dt.dt nd oda reasons made me leave. I tink u shld talk to him so dt he can seek help if need b cos I tink its lyk dt for som guys buh it can b improved
my dear sex is very vital in any relationship but considering the predicament u are facing with dissastifaction from him lasting longer or making short love,you have two options, 1)if you truly love him,you have take him to sex centres were he can be treated and 2)if you dont love him then you have to pick your legs,pussy and flee as far as possible. moon5u@yahoo.com
Engage him in a soft dialogue on what you both enjoy/dont enjoy in the sexual act.or seek an expert's opinion on the best way to approach the ish,should the dialogue fail
I get moody afta d session..n back him..My man kws me too well,he wld sense dt I'm nt happy wit his performance...cs wen he gets me dre n bak,woww!!m all smiles,i lay on hs chest n I jst kip glowing!
Tell him like , my frnd look I know u ar using ur finger instead of ur tongue, ur finger doesn't do me well use ur tongue nxt time... Case close... Chidokweiyke@ymail.com
As man dey old na so im libido dey drop so don't blame the man especially when your man is 50 plus, but for better results do enough romancing, caressing, kissing, fingerings, and blow jobs be 4 socketing!
Dear pls pls sit him down n talk to him.4 him to be going into marriage shows he is mature.the truth hurts but in a long term he will keep thanking you.
Ah u can tell him directly o, theres nom need to hide such an important stuff.. Tell him to seek medical advice o, he really need to kip his doctor updated. Another thing is ehhmm, maybe the reason why he always chose using finger on you when he goes down on you might be becos he finds ur central territory not clean enough, maybe it oozes out foul smell.... sorry o bt its possible... so, hw clean re u down there?
I have told my guy b4 is nt hard 2 say*tell him baby or wat ever u call him dat he has nt satisfied u b4 he shul improve simple marydanladi180@gmail.com
its very important that u tell him oh, if u guys r "friends " u can playfully tell him...I was in this kind of situation before, nd I jokingly called him "Mr Selfish" every time we were done, and laugh abt it but now trust me I hve created a Monster!!
You can tell him when you guys play, e know, things you like and how you want it. Maybe that isn't how its going to be,it could be he doesn't understand you body yet. And you not telling him could leave him thinking you are satisfied when you are not. Don't be shy in bed with your man, just say what you want and he'll try his best to please you. But if he can't help it, you weigh your options.if the relationship is so nice but the sex,you can get a dildo. I love sex toys cause they fulfil all fantasies, just the way you dream it. ;) Linda if you don't post my comment,na for your cable another snake go hang tomoro morning o
Hmmm wahala dey be dat ooo if you're saying you look elsewhere for satisfaction. Well, he's your partner naa, you should feel free with him, lol its for his own good cos by the time he knows, he'd improve.
Babe, I like when we are getting it down. I think I'd like to try something we will both enjoy, and just need you to work with me on it., How about instead of this, you do that and I will respond with this and you will continue with that and I will let you know when to change it up.
Just tell him..honey u are a 2mins man...Lmao..about d finger part..I use dat often..I don't mind getting head but giving *thats one thing I don't like*..................................#KingOfKings
Simply advice him, playfully to quit eating sugary stuff and more of healthy/ NAFDAC approved herbal remedy that controls/ reduces sugar level in the body. If need be, get him one and i know he wont be offended. As regards giving you head..... Not all men trips for that
Tell him straight no mincing words! That's the best way, if you use baby gloves he might go on thinking it is okay. Just be honest with, honest and candid.
Just throw it 2 him when u guys are playing and d guy is in gud mood, just tell him how u feel and if is able 2 change u ll knw and if is not then decide on what 2 do then.
First and foremost,sit him down ad discuss it with him,tell him wat yu want,if possible teach him if he doesn't know.let him know dat yu were aware dat he has been using finger instead of tongue when giving yu head.Dis is somebody yu want to spend d rest of ur life with so yu av to be open to him and thrash it out b/f it will be too late.
Very funny. . Sm pple dnt change oo while some do.. since u av high libido, ur priority in marriage shld b to marry sm1 dat can satisfy u sexualy nt sm1 u hope to change. .
just tell him, there are ways you can let him know verbally, like saying Oooooohhmmmm have released already ? that way he would surely know that he didn't try and next time he'll try better.
lol at the finger part. There's no easy way to tell I guy such but you can cushion the blow by being soft spoken, avoid jokes and preferably talking to him about it before and not during or after sex.
If this is the guy you are going to marry, you should be able to speak to him about anything.
just tell him straight !, if you cant there are other ways you can let him know like ooohhhmmmm have you released already ? dat way he'll know and next time will try and do better.
Waka go ooooooo the man is full of pretence he may be gay. Because a real man ensures his woman is sexually satisfied and if he really loves you he will give you head and you will forget that will make you wet anytime you remember the experience.
you can let him know by asking him ooohhhmmm have you released already ? that way he'll realised he hasn't tried. #feel free to express yourself always. that's the only way your partner will understand you and held responsible for offending you in the future.
My dear, its one of d hardest thing to do bcos guys alwaz misunderstand it. I do experience same from ma guy n wen i told him via joke, cos he was d one dat asked mi weda he do satisfy mi well, n even persuading mi nt to lie in ma answer, n den i did tell him d truth buh he started feeling n toking funny, sayin "i no go kill myself trying 2 make u feel ok in bed".. Mehn i felt fucking bad n had 2 start avoiding him. Meanwhile dz z wat i told ma guy "u r very ok 4mi n alwaz makes mi go wow n will alwaz wana do it wit jst u over n over again buh if u can b lasting a bit longer, i will appreciate it n if u cant am ok wit u d way u r". I wonder if dia z any beta way 2say it. Meanwhile wish u d best girlfrnd
OK .... Nah only you waka come abi??? idiot thing disguising herself as a lady.... you think its easy to go two rounds??? make I lean because of woman..
Well..you need to discuss the issues if you have strong feelings for the dude and u want the relationship to flourish further. However, DO NOT start this discussion in bed after one of these sessions you don't enjoy. Start the discussion on a very different note...maybe while seeing a movie together, taking a walk, having shower etc. It would be more appropriate to discuss this on a very intimate and calm note but not on bed cos that would surely hurt his ego. More so, teach him in details those things that "scatter ur dreadlocks" and if he is interested in keeping his possessions...HE WOULD LEARN...
I think you should show him what you want and how you want it. Tell him what to do, preferably during the act. I tink showing is better dan talking about it as you can offend his ego. Remember, never marry a man who can't satisfy you on bed. The marital institution is to sacred for infidelity.
I don laugh scatter.., it's very difficult telling him and not make him feel low of himself, if care is not taken, some men thinks they are perfect when it comes to love making so if you man is one you might end up being called names but on same faith I think you should tell him on a neutral day which you guys are not having sex, make it in a funny way, don't be too serious about it and don't go back to talk about it, if he takes it too serious, try to make a joke out of it as if you didn't meant it and you were just pulling his legs but I bet you have already passed the message and deep down him he'll know you have just stated a fact and believe he's going to work on it and after this if nothing changes, Abeg make u waka ooo because you can't be in a relationship and be unfaithful ooo, few men are out there that give it real to their girls, you might be lucky u know 😉
Its simple, just sit him down and have a polite chat on that issue and don't throw it to his face by saying you might try someone else. I think you just need to encourage him after all we learn new things everyday.
hmmmm just bring it up jokingly during the day and tell him you guys should try new things and that way he and you would learn new ways to satisfy each other, be gentle so u dont scratch his ego. *wink*
Lolzz since na only waka come tell him when he's in a good mood playfully, see his reaction afterwards(bed) too, if no changes, waka go! don't cheat, let him know why you are wakaring away, WAIT!!!! If ur married stay put and pray for change.
you can't eat your cake and have it. from your statement, i deduce that this man in question is rich, hence your reluctance to call it quit with him. sexual compatibility is one of the factors that contribute to a lasting relationship. the choice is yours. as you lay your bed, so you lie on it.
nah that same only you way waka come nah the same only you go waka go o, if you fail to tell a man you are about to marry what you want especially both of you sexual life. Tell him one on one you like him and enjoy is sex but there are some area i need you to improve which are this and that. after that if the guy didnt change then contact me......lol
I so much believe in the power of discussion. Just get him along in a discussion and tell him how you want it to be. Doesn't he ask you about satisfaction before?
lool be straight ! you cant pretend the rest of ur life as tho he is good. forever is a very long time to tolerate bad sex mchewww tell him u know its not his TONGUE
My dear I have been married 8yrs and have had only 1orgasm. My husband's is so egotistical it is unreal so I just shut up and fake it. Now I wish I had spoken the truth before we got married cos my sex life is zero. No satisfaction what so ever but oddly enuf, I am not attracted to any other man. Only my hubby.
its just nyc you are able to recognise that this part of you could pose a threat on ur fidelity but i dont understand why its an issue to dicuss this with you husband tobe that means you have got communication problems. Suggestions might arise that u opt out but if you do without any previous complain then it feel like its ur fault but after complaints and nothing changes then you had better find someone who will fulfill u needs dont let anybody trick u into believing that sex has got nothing todo with success in marriage its part of the whole package. you aint married yet so there is still room for change #CRITICALDESCISION
I don't know if the issue is real, but i had the same issue and luckily for me, d guy broke up with me, if sex is important to you then u should just ditch d guy or teach him, that is if he is teachable, most guys come fast so he giving you a head ought to be an advantage not a disadvantage. you can easily give a guy he direction his tongue can go, if you can cum that way, you might complain less. finally you can talk to a doctor
Sit down and talk it over. He might not know u r not satisfied after d whole show. Talk like two grown up. U should know when to table it cuz if u go in with d way it is, u definitely going to be cheating on him. If u talk it through it should help. If he listens to u, then he would ask wat and where d problem is. B open minded, its not a secret. It for the best. Please be sure before u step in finally.
Be open with him.....and for Christ sake is sex suppose to be the first criteria in your own case for marriage? Just asking sha o... adebiyitosin@yahoo.com
Where I come from ladies tell it to the face of a man immediately after sex in a polite/rude way...like "baby you are not satisfying me enough, you need to bang me more".. timfact.blogspot.com
you need to do the work for him if you really need him to be strong for you in bed below are what you need to feed him with and you will experience a drastic experience,
Broke up wif an ex 4 dis same rizon and it was just dating 4 fun sake not even marriage. Marriage is a big deal and sex mates 60% of it 2 avoid infidelity beta let him know any way u can cuz is very important i min communicate, simple.
Sadly I cannot give you advice from experience. I've been lucky!!! I would say though have an open conversation about what you both desire. That will help him to open up and not be so defensive. It may also help you to understand the things that may be holding him back from giving you what you desire if there is anything. Undeniably it is a cruciall aspect but Ihave found that compatibility in this area grows and matures as the relationship does also. Give it communication and time.
Silly naughty anon like me,I can't stop myself from laughing so hard even though you said the truth.
my girl,no worries,go buy sex movie if you no fit tell am to restart or say GUY U DEY BELLEFULL ME FOR THIS AREA O. NOW FOLLOW MY WAY: 1,Get a vibrator,ask him to rate it or time how long it takes it to make you cum,believe me it will get him thinking. 2,watch porn together,pick a lasting part & comment on how lucky d lady is to have a guy last that long. 3,start question and answer on which sex position you love best,tell him yours,ask him his,that my dear will lead to HOW LONG YOU WISH TO HAVE HIM SWIMMING IN YOUR HONEY POT. 4,In case no 3 didn't drive down to hours,ask him what food or drink gets him in the mood,babe,make d 4 am,buy d drink,comot him cloths yourself,tell make him kill you because you want something different from what he has been giving you.E go hard make him forget you,
finally,change everything about your sex life with him,be naughty,play hide & fuck with him,be the first to ask,stop the good girl pretense unless you are a virgin.when you go out with him and friends,whisper to him,baby i'm hungry for you,lets dash home,have a little fun & get back to friends. For d MARY(S) IN D HOUSE,MAKE UNA FORGIVE ME,I TOO LOVE SEX !
hmmm...i think i need some local herbs too now oo..Thats y i dont pray to marry someone that like sex so much cos me i dont..to me sex is not a do or die affair...like a yoruba adage will say,what re u banging that u say day should not break again...though my second round last some longer sha..
He pretends to give you head and uses his fingers? Ewww! He is selfish. Period. Tell him, if he doesn't wanna change, walk away. Depends on what you want out of the relationship sha. There is no point in having sex without orgasms. Shikena.
I'm sure u probably fake orgasm n mk him feel d sex wz great so ders no way he'll knw itz d xact opposite unless u tlk 2him. Bring d ish up afta one of those unsatisfyn encounters wen ur stil in bed cuddlin. Tell him wht and how u want it(if he dsnt knw how,school him. Listen 2Come ova by Estelle) and also get him 2tell u wht he wants 2.
Fabian sharap!! Which lousy 'born good' u knw ur coach nah! That ur babe wey u dey call 25-30mins dey my bed at the moment, if na lie call her right now
May be guyz shud cultivate d habit of askin their partner if they are satisfied after sex, like my does. Maybe because of hw close we are, in a funny way he wud ask babe rate me ova 10 hw was my performance and I usually tell him d truth, wheneva his performance is low,he wud jokingly blame it on his sugar in take and we laugh ova it. The next time we meet,he his performance is usually better. Linda if you like no post my comment,if u like swallow it
Miss Lady Men don't handle such talk well, it can back fire just cut him off. I mean his stuff might not be sending you to the max, why stay there when u can get better.... trust me if it was the other way round they don't think of ur feelings...
Anon1:13pm, see how you just mashed everything up. You mixed gospel with superstition etc. yes, one should give their life to Christ but Christians also get married and therefore have sex. And if there is a sexual issue, then it needs to be addressed. Don't just cover everything up with the need to give lives to Christ and ignore other issues because they do exist in the marriage, and confronting them head-on along with prayers is the solution here. Fine, you can advice her not to be having pre-marital sex. But after the wedding, she'll still need to face things. I think communication is the key here. You have to let him know and give him tips on how to improve. The potential issue would not be what you say but how you state it to him. As a child of God, I would also say desist from premarital sex (note to self #nobemehollypass) but as a potential married couple, I would say you should discuss it for the future. You can suggest that you would like to know/learn more things he likes and the way he likes them done, then let him know yours too. Say you want to improve/explore your marital sex-life for further excitement. ;-)............. Just Me
JUST WONDERING WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT!... MY BABE JUST LEFT ME AND HER REASONS:I TOO DEY LAST LONG, DAT DO I WANT TO KILL HER; THAT MY DI*K IS TOO LONG AND FIBROUS; THAT I WANT MORE THAN 3 ROUNDS AT A TIME,THAT I ASK HER TO TAKE DIFFERENT SEX POSITIONS...BLA BLA BLA! BUT, HERE IS A LADY THAT WANTS A MAN LIKE ME,...Hmmm! BB:7970(ZER0)-DF46.
Go fuck yourself! I know its about time some bible hugging idiot will come on here and mislead ppl into believing that desire is a sin. At least she's trying to make things work with her mannu talking about giving her life to christ...I feel sorry for ur future patner, or should I say patners?as am sure they'll all leave ur '1minuite' ass!
Some ple re just so funny, she asked 4 help and u re talking abt Jesus, dish washer, just imagine. My dear, communication really helps in relationship, talk to him, nd u can also buy adult flm,watch it togeda. Nd i'm sure he's going to improve in bed. Sowi dear.
Miss Linda, I will be so happy if u can post dis 4 me. Tanx The difference between foreign advice and a Nigeria advice
FOREIGN PAGE: Hello, My name is Kathy Moss , I’m from UK. I love my husband so much and I do anything to please him in bed. I even s*ck his thing but he has refused to eat my ‘thing’. Please advice me how to tell him to go down on me cos I really want my ‘thing’ juice sucked.
COMMENTS: John Phillips: I think you need to talk to him, marriage is communication.
Alexandra Matters: Oh my dear, sorry about that, I have been in your shoes before... I told him right away and he is an expert in it.
Kelvin Martins: I get down with my wife, its cool. I love doing it... you should talk to your husband.
NIGERIAN PAGE: My name is Yetunde, I stay In Lagos, married with a kid, my husband have refused to s.u.c.k. my ‘thing’, what should I do…? No insults abeg… Just need your suggestions.
COMMENTS: Musa: First to comment, Space Booked!
Freshkid: and how does that affect the price of garri in the market?
Emeka Ngochi: F00l, sex na food?
Nkiru Joy: You are a disgrace to woman-hood. SHAME on you.
Kunle DeeDee: Any news about ASUU Strike?
Toheeb Sule: If you want I can suck for you, call my number. 0700233766214
Temitayo: I no blame you at all, better go find something to do with your life. Suck kor, soak-away ni.
Richard: Abeg who get bb charger?
Amaka: You be ashewo!!! You need deliverance!
Lynda: Sign of End-time, Anti Christ among us, Please repent!
Taofeek: Thunder fire you!!! You a womanhood to disgrace!
Here is one, first off there is no way u can tell a man he doesn't make the cut in bed without offending him.I think how he reacts solely depends on him as u cannot control his emotions when it comes to matters of male ego. as clean an odour free as i keep it down there he pretty much doesn't do it anymore, before he use to pretend to use his tounge meanwhile hes using his fingers, he has no idea how to stimulate a womans clit, he rubs it up and down till I feel like am starting to bruise, and while I'm still dry (and in pain) hell go ahead and try to insert his penis (that one self na war as he spends forever trying to find my glory hole, sometimes he mistakely trys to put it in my ass, (oro o! ) or (when spooning) between my thighs and he starts humping thinking he's in. What's worse, its like he has no idea what to do with my breast, not sure if he's trying to breast feed or pleasure us both...its sucks! I've completely ban him from my breast as everytime he breches, I recoil in ewwness I fucking hate him near my breast now. The tragic part of this story is that I like women...always have always will. Sex is a dream, orgasm? Damn!...real women aim to please eachother. and as for going down south, homegurl is already swimming before I can say 'dive'. Neways those were the days. Back to my man, ill give him what's his, he's a sweetheart outside the bedroom, won't sacrifies that for anything, we a re buddies and we pretty much do everything together hence I never really had a problem telling him. Althoug hell get defensive, other times hell jus sulk,ill still say my piece n let him be. but the next time we attempt to bone, I can feel him trying althout still trying to avoide certain things. For Now we just use toys till he's rock hard and am soaking wet, and I do to him exactly what I want him to do to me. small toys help. Not dildo or anything tht might look like u trying to replace him. Jus stimulation based toys, for vaginal, anal stimulation oh and lots of lube. Its still not the best sex but its not what it use to be. Things we sacrifies for marriage! :)
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Ladies I'm waiting 4 ur response. #Earswideopen. I'm out ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***
u sit him down and talk to him abt it
Communication,the only key...
Na wa oh.
Aunty your matter dey church. See all you are analysing about
Have u read your bible to say btw?
Smh
If e pain u too much send him a text from an unknown number saying: improve or I leave!
tell him after sex to restart ...nkemdirimeverista111@gmail.com
Holla at me. I will satisfy you cuteguy0367@yahoo.com
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Go buy a big dildo, i think that will help...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
IF THATS UR PRIORITY, THEN LEAVE HIM. Y ARE U SEEKING ADVISE TO A SOLUTION DEEP WITHIN U U KNOW THE ANSWER?
Hmmmmm serious question. let the comments roll in. labaydaniel26@gmail.com
ask google....
Hmmmmm serious question. let the comments roll in. labaydaniel26@gmail.com
Ur lover is supposed to be ur best friend...communicate ur feelings to him..ain't no big deal in this
Babes you are so spot on o. I have this same problem o. And its worrying me as well, what's the way out cause o don't want to offend my guy.
Babes you are so spot on o. I have this same problem o. And its worrying me as well, what's the way out cause o don't want to offend my guy.
my dear give your life to Christ thats the only thing that can make you faithful in your marriage, sexual satisfaction does not guarantee faithfulness, cos a man can satisfy you and still have 3 other girls outside that he needs to satisfy and a man can also satisfy you and tomorrow you are caught banging his friend, insatiable sexual urge is actually a demon called the spirit of whoredom, and he will keep using your body to satisfy his own urges and if you trace back your self you will notice you were not born with that urge, there was a particular man that slept with you and transfered that demon to you, until you go for deliverance you might not be contented with just one man, cos all men have their faults, the one that is good in bed might be jobless or might just be a school boyfriend...you know what you want, if you want sex then marry a porn star and if you want a decent marriage then get born again and go for deliverance thats my candid advise
Hmmmmm serious question . let the comments roll in. labaydaniel26@gmail.com
Tell him gently, politely and with no disrespect
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Hmmmmm serious question. let the comments roll in. labaydaniel26@gmail. com
Interesting topic. Ruined several marriages already. Will take several seats and wait for comments to flow in.
#God answers all prayers#
Happy moments - Praise God, Difficult moments-Seek God,
Quiet moments -Worship God, Painful moments-Trust God,
Every moment - Thank God.
Hmmmmm serious question. let the comments roll in. labaydaniel26@gmail.com
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Bihko.. i dey wait for this answer too!!
Hahaha just carry your leg waka go
Dear Poster,
Are u looking for a dish washer ni?
Not every man enjoys going down there and it's obvious t ur man is one of them. No be only u waka come
Simply call on his attention politely, let him knw he much u adore hvin it wit him n u can den proceed by telling him d new tinz u wud like him to try out.
Tell him! That's all!!
Communication rite from day one!! Well, get him drunk and start 'rough' play rough crazy jokes and tell him. Yab him and u guys shud laff abt it. His ego will tell him sometin is wrong wit dat joke....if he doesn't improve repeat until he does....if he can improve I dnt knw...sum of us had the finger of God on us...lol! So we wia born gud
U say it as nicely as U can. Be polite and do not mock. Understand that he'll get offended for a sec, but if he's mature and cares abt U he'll get over it and look for ways to step up. Also understand that some ppl might never improve and U might also have to maybe slow down or stop to help him compose himself during sex for a while till he can build up his ability to hold back. Most guys learn this b4 they hit 24 although I've heard some men are just too selfish and will never learn. My rule is "if she doesn't cum, I don't". So na do or die, I'm 32 now and it's bothered some women I've dated but I realize I'm a pleaser so get the inner pleaser in him to comot. Good luck
If I may ask! How long have you been dating him and how long have you been having sex with him. I'm only asking cos if you have been having sex with him for over a year and you just realized its time to tell him, then your not being fair to him. However, U should have told him a long time ago. Probably when u started. I assure you he would have done all he can to ensure that when he engages u......hmmm
for me,i cant imagine myself telling my boy friend that he did not satisfy me because is not African,but I think it all depends on how open you and your boy friend are,some men feel you are being wild when you open up to them,so i will rather keep quiet and just find a way around it,at least until after marriages.imoh@yahoo.com
God help us,i kmow what i mean
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Simple...jus suggest ways u want ur partner 2 satisfy u n dey wud follow suit.chukwudi.precious22@gmail.com
just tell him his going to understand if he really loves you
The most fulfilling sexual experiences are those shared with a selfless participant. If a man is not selfish, he knows that he has to give as much as he wants to receive. a non-selfish man is usually very sensitive to your needs and knows what you like without you verbally saying so because he understands the communication of your reactions to his touches.
You can try saying what you want whilst the act is taking place. Personally, if I want more time during foreplay and my man wants to proceed to the main act, I just say, sweetie, more on my nipples or not yet love. Thankfully, he is not a selfish lover.
Tell him straight up..
by telling him u aint satisy....chikena......kenz
Hahahaha my dear I knw hw u feel.my ex was like dt.dt nd oda reasons made me leave. I tink u shld talk to him so dt he can seek help if need b cos I tink its lyk dt for som guys buh it can b improved
my dear sex is very vital in any relationship but considering the predicament u are facing with dissastifaction from him lasting longer or making short love,you have two options, 1)if you truly love him,you have take him to sex centres were he can be treated and 2)if you dont love him then you have to pick your legs,pussy and flee as far as possible. moon5u@yahoo.com
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Engage him in a soft dialogue on what you both enjoy/dont enjoy in the sexual act.or seek an expert's opinion on the best way to approach the ish,should the dialogue fail
Women no de complain oh! Most women rather, they will be there faking orgasm.
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My darl.u nid to speak up oh.else u wil end up cheatin.trust me,he wil nt gt offendin.u knw men hv pride.dnt start wat u cnt finish simple!
My darl.u nid to speak up oh.else u wil end up cheatin.trust me,he wil nt gt offendin.u knw men hv pride.dnt start wat u cnt finish simple!
You will definitely know when he is happy,chip it in then.
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Linda i am sure you are talking about yourself. Sex na food? If your man don't satisfy you enough then go and buy sex toys ashawo
I get moody afta d session..n back him..My man kws me too well,he wld sense dt I'm nt happy wit his performance...cs wen he gets me dre n bak,woww!!m all smiles,i lay on hs chest n I jst kip glowing!
Tell him like , my frnd look I know u ar using ur finger instead of ur tongue, ur finger doesn't do me well use ur tongue nxt time... Case close... Chidokweiyke@ymail.com
As man dey old na so im libido dey drop so don't blame the man especially when your man is 50 plus, but for better results do enough romancing, caressing, kissing, fingerings, and blow jobs be 4 socketing!
Go buy sex toys from that Yoruba woman selling it. Leave my brother alone. Ashawo
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Dear pls pls sit him down n talk to him.4 him to be going into marriage shows he is mature.the truth hurts but in a long term he will keep thanking you.
Find the right moment to discuss it with him.
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Ah u can tell him directly o, theres nom need to hide such an important stuff.. Tell him to seek medical advice o, he really need to kip his doctor updated. Another thing is ehhmm, maybe the reason why he always chose using finger on you when he goes down on you might be becos he finds ur central territory not clean enough, maybe it oozes out foul smell.... sorry o bt its possible... so, hw clean re u down there?
Tell him abt it but in a jovial way *smile*
Keep sampling till you get what u want. Sex is not enough to make a marriage work.
Hmmm it wuld b difficult dats if ur man aint d understandn type...buh odawise say it jokinly wen d air is light..
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I have told my guy b4 is nt hard 2 say*tell him baby or wat ever u call him dat he has nt satisfied u b4 he shul improve simple marydanladi180@gmail.com
its very important that u tell him oh, if u guys r "friends " u can playfully tell him...I was in this kind of situation before, nd I jokingly called him "Mr Selfish" every time we were done, and laugh abt it but now trust me I hve created a Monster!!
Get him dronk.
Like wise.it applies to the female folks.......some are weak tho.
You can tell him when you guys play, e know, things you like and how you want it. Maybe that isn't how its going to be,it could be he doesn't understand you body yet. And you not telling him could leave him thinking you are satisfied when you are not. Don't be shy in bed with your man, just say what you want and he'll try his best to please you. But if he can't help it, you weigh your options.if the relationship is so nice but the sex,you can get a dildo. I love sex toys cause they fulfil all fantasies, just the way you dream it. ;)
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Hmmm wahala dey be dat ooo if you're saying you look elsewhere for satisfaction. Well, he's your partner naa, you should feel free with him, lol its for his own good cos by the time he knows, he'd improve.
Babe, I like when we are getting it down. I think I'd like to try something we will both enjoy, and just need you to work with me on it., How about instead of this, you do that and I will respond with this and you will continue with that and I will let you know when to change it up.
Lmao...tell am o,cos its really important,if not afta 6months na only u go waka go!!!
Every man should know when he satisfies a woman. You could tell from her contenance, except the man is so dumb to notice.
Just tell him..honey u are a 2mins man...Lmao..about d finger part..I use dat often..I don't mind getting head but giving *thats one thing I don't like*..................................#KingOfKings
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u know wat u want in marriage so don't deceive urself because of his money . i guess u don't need a soothsayer to tell u to port!
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Simply advice him, playfully to quit eating sugary stuff and more of healthy/ NAFDAC approved herbal remedy that controls/ reduces sugar level in the body. If need be, get him one and i know he wont be offended. As regards giving you head..... Not all men trips for that
Tell him straight no mincing words! That's the best way, if you use baby gloves he might go on thinking it is okay. Just be honest with, honest and candid.
Just throw it 2 him when u guys are playing and d guy is in gud mood, just tell him how u feel and if is able 2 change u ll knw and if is not then decide on what 2 do then.
Tell him straight up, I like it if you use your tongue. Makes me bla bla bla
Abs please if he doesn't improve, waka go.
Don't mind the people that will tell you sex is not important, it is cos if you are not having good sex, it will affect other areas of your life.
First and foremost,sit him down ad discuss it with him,tell him wat yu want,if possible teach him if he doesn't know.let him know dat yu were aware dat he has been using finger instead of tongue when giving yu head.Dis is somebody yu want to spend d rest of ur life with so yu av to be open to him and thrash it out b/f it will be too late.
Allahu Akbar! So what you're saying is that u like that thing gan abi? God dey o!
Simply hold him back and continue foreplay,Don't let him go and wisper to him dat u need some more.
Very funny. . Sm pple dnt change oo while some do.. since u av high libido, ur priority in marriage shld b to marry sm1 dat can satisfy u sexualy nt sm1 u hope to change. .
Hahahaha. Abi oooooo. I lik dat talk. #na only u waka cum# mak u kn ur left frm ur rite so dat na same u #go waka go# d baddest.
Discuss it with him b/f it will be too late
have a talk with him.
just tell him, there are ways you can let him know verbally, like saying Oooooohhmmmm have released already ? that way he would surely know that he didn't try and next time he'll try better.
U jst av 2 use a playful way 2 say it 2 he cos guy dnt like 2 hear such tins 4rm their babes,u really dnt want 2 hurt his feeling.
Discuss it with him b/f it will be too late.neduamaka31@yahoo.com
Its a serious mata oh
lol at the finger part. There's no easy way to tell I guy such but you can cushion the blow by being soft spoken, avoid jokes and preferably talking to him about it before and not during or after sex.
If this is the guy you are going to marry, you should be able to speak to him about anything.
just tell him straight !, if you cant there are other ways you can let him know like ooohhhmmmm have you released already ? dat way he'll know and next time will try and do better.
go and wash ur punny u freak
maybe then he will bear the odour and bring himself to introduce his tongue to it
Waka go ooooooo the man is full of pretence he may be gay. Because a real man ensures his woman is sexually satisfied and if he really loves you he will give you head and you will forget that will make you wet anytime you remember the experience.
you can let him know by asking him ooohhhmmm have you released already ? that way he'll realised he hasn't tried. #feel free to express yourself always. that's the only way your partner will understand you and held responsible for offending you in the future.
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U can start by telling him what you like bushes002@yahoo.com
My dear, its one of d hardest thing to do bcos guys alwaz misunderstand it. I do experience same from ma guy n wen i told him via joke, cos he was d one dat asked mi weda he do satisfy mi well, n even persuading mi nt to lie in ma answer, n den i did tell him d truth buh he started feeling n toking funny, sayin "i no go kill myself trying 2 make u feel ok in bed".. Mehn i felt fucking bad n had 2 start avoiding him. Meanwhile dz z wat i told ma guy "u r very ok 4mi n alwaz makes mi go wow n will alwaz wana do it wit jst u over n over again buh if u can b lasting a bit longer, i will appreciate it n if u cant am ok wit u d way u r". I wonder if dia z any beta way 2say it. Meanwhile wish u d best girlfrnd
No comment, u will be use to it, just be faithful or u go on your own way.
OK .... Nah only you waka come abi??? idiot thing disguising herself as a lady.... you think its easy to go two rounds??? make I lean because of woman..
Hmmmmnnnnnn ................ Na only you waka come o.
You let him know by sitting him down and having DEEP discussion with him. Stop pretending!
Well..you need to discuss the issues if you have strong feelings for the dude and u want the relationship to flourish further. However, DO NOT start this discussion in bed after one of these sessions you don't enjoy. Start the discussion on a very different note...maybe while seeing a movie together, taking a walk, having shower etc. It would be more appropriate to discuss this on a very intimate and calm note but not on bed cos that would surely hurt his ego.
More so, teach him in details those things that "scatter ur dreadlocks" and if he is interested in keeping his possessions...HE WOULD LEARN...
Be polite n talk to him. Pretex4luv@yahoo.com. 08063645540, Anuty pls mi email is nt functional at d moment.
I think you should show him what you want and how you want it. Tell him what to do, preferably during the act. I tink showing is better dan talking about it as you can offend his ego. Remember, never marry a man who can't satisfy you on bed. The marital institution is to sacred for infidelity.
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I don laugh scatter.., it's very difficult telling him and not make him feel low of himself, if care is not taken, some men thinks they are perfect when it comes to love making so if you man is one you might end up being called names but on same faith I think you should tell him on a neutral day which you guys are not having sex, make it in a funny way, don't be too serious about it and don't go back to talk about it, if he takes it too serious, try to make a joke out of it as if you didn't meant it and you were just pulling his legs but I bet you have already passed the message and deep down him he'll know you have just stated a fact and believe he's going to work on it and after this if nothing changes, Abeg make u waka ooo because you can't be in a relationship and be unfaithful ooo, few men are out there that give it real to their girls, you might be lucky u know 😉
What Agbo lile iya reesi can do..lol
Ehn! waka go na until u go find horse wey go satisfy u... Mstchww
Its simple, just sit him down and have a polite chat on that issue and don't throw it to his face by saying you might try someone else. I think you just need to encourage him after all we learn new things everyday.
hmmmm just bring it up jokingly during the day and tell him you guys should try new things and that way he and you would learn new ways to satisfy each other, be gentle so u dont scratch his ego. *wink*
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Lolzz since na only waka come tell him when he's in a good mood playfully, see his reaction afterwards(bed) too, if no changes, waka go! don't cheat, let him know why you are wakaring away, WAIT!!!! If ur married stay put and pray for change.
my dear if he isnt saatisfyin then satisfy urself by getting on top n do d job.
stop lyin down always n leaving d job to him alone.it takes 2
U want head abi? Thief!!!!!!.....ashewo oshi
U shld go n contact dt bisi ibinapo dt ar sellin sex stuff. She hz de solution. Gud luck minus jonathan.... Linda Plz,nex...mchteeew!!
you can't eat your cake and have it.
from your statement, i deduce that this man in question is rich, hence your reluctance to call it quit with him. sexual compatibility is one of the factors that contribute to a lasting relationship. the choice is yours. as you lay your bed, so you lie on it.
im having the EXACT SAME problemm. i dont know what to do..
I think u should open up to him, I know its not easy but if u don't who will? So try and tell him if u really love him. CHI.
im having the EXACT SAME proble. dont know what to do
If u ask me na who I go ask. Shantal4real@yhaoo.com
Linda is this you? Ha!
just let him know in a polite way why he does or does not do somethings during sex. Its easier for u to walk away when you are not married yet.
nah that same only you way waka come nah the same only you go waka go o, if you fail to tell a man you are about to marry what you want especially both of you sexual life. Tell him one on one you like him and enjoy is sex but there are some area i need you to improve which are this and that. after that if the guy didnt change then contact me......lol
I so much believe in the power of discussion. Just get him along in a discussion and tell him how you want it to be. Doesn't he ask you about satisfaction before?
lool be straight ! you cant pretend the rest of ur life as tho he is good. forever is a very long time to tolerate bad sex mchewww tell him u know its not his TONGUE
Give him trusted local herbs now....aswear u go waka go
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Honey take control. Suck him and go ontop man like it whn woman are in control and when he is happy he will last I promise u
My dear I have been married 8yrs and have had only 1orgasm. My husband's is so egotistical it is unreal so I just shut up and fake it. Now I wish I had spoken the truth before we got married cos my sex life is zero. No satisfaction what so ever but oddly enuf, I am not attracted to any other man. Only my hubby.
its just nyc you are able to recognise that this part of you could pose a threat on ur fidelity but i dont understand why its an issue to dicuss this with you husband tobe that means you have got communication problems. Suggestions might arise that u opt out but if you do without any previous complain then it feel like its ur fault but after complaints and nothing changes then you had better find someone who will fulfill u needs dont let anybody trick u into believing that sex has got nothing todo with success in marriage its part of the whole package. you aint married yet so there is still room for change #CRITICALDESCISION
I don't know if the issue is real, but i had the same issue and luckily for me, d guy broke up with me, if sex is important to you then u should just ditch d guy or teach him, that is if he is teachable, most guys come fast so he giving you a head ought to be an advantage not a disadvantage. you can easily give a guy he direction his tongue can go, if you can cum that way, you might complain less. finally you can talk to a doctor
You better waka go cos he can't satisfy you even if he tries. Even if he finally satisfy you, how long will he last in it? Abi you wan kill am?
Sit down and talk it over. He might not know u r not satisfied after d whole show. Talk like two grown up. U should know when to table it cuz if u go in with d way it is, u definitely going to be cheating on him. If u talk it through it should help. If he listens to u, then he would ask wat and where d problem is. B open minded, its not a secret. It for the best.
Please be sure before u step in finally.
Sex isnt everything you need in a man
Must u always sit him down ni
It's not African? Really? Who told you that?
Tell him to use body stimulat drug to stay
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Tell him to use body stimulat drug to stay
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Tell him to use body stimulat drug to stay
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Tell him to use body stimulat drug to stay
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You're spot on.
BRING anoder man to show how to satisfy u ! let ur husband watch
Commuincate! @first he might be offended bt later he would understand
Lol you funny die
the decision is yours
Be open with him.....and for Christ sake is sex suppose to be the first criteria in your own case for marriage? Just asking sha o...
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Correct babe
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He should start eating loads of bananas. Thank me when the results show.
you need to do the work for him if you really need him to be strong for you in bed
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A hoe will always be a hoe...Werey ashewo....Always stock the House with Weed/Skunk and big bottle alomo for him,maybe that would help him !!!
Broke up wif an ex 4 dis same rizon and it was just dating 4 fun sake not even marriage. Marriage is a big deal and sex mates 60% of it 2 avoid infidelity beta let him know any way u can cuz is very important i min communicate, simple.
Sadly I cannot give you advice from experience. I've been lucky!!! I would say though have an open conversation about what you both desire. That will help him to open up and not be so defensive. It may also help you to understand the things that may be holding him back from giving you what you desire if there is anything. Undeniably it is a cruciall aspect but Ihave found that compatibility in this area grows and matures as the relationship does also. Give it communication and time.
Silly naughty anon like me,I can't stop myself from laughing so hard even though you said the truth.
my girl,no worries,go buy sex movie if you no fit tell am to restart or say GUY U DEY BELLEFULL ME FOR THIS AREA O.
NOW FOLLOW MY WAY:
1,Get a vibrator,ask him to rate it or time how long it takes it to make you cum,believe me it will get him thinking.
2,watch porn together,pick a lasting part & comment on how lucky d lady is to have a guy last that long.
3,start question and answer on which sex position you love best,tell him yours,ask him his,that my dear will lead to HOW LONG YOU WISH TO HAVE HIM SWIMMING IN YOUR HONEY POT.
4,In case no 3 didn't drive down to hours,ask him what food or drink gets him in the mood,babe,make d 4 am,buy d drink,comot him cloths yourself,tell make him kill you because you want something different from what he has been giving you.E go hard make him forget you,
finally,change everything about your sex life with him,be naughty,play hide & fuck with him,be the first to ask,stop the good girl pretense unless you are a virgin.when you go out with him and friends,whisper to him,baby i'm hungry for you,lets dash home,have a little fun & get back to friends.
For d MARY(S) IN D HOUSE,MAKE UNA FORGIVE ME,I TOO LOVE SEX !
I know what to do! *winks*
Gbam!
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This question is strickly 4 d married...if u never marry,then u no get any ryt to answer dis question. Says me!!!!!
Pls leave him
hmmm...i think i need some local herbs too now oo..Thats y i dont pray to marry someone that like sex so much cos me i dont..to me sex is not a do or die affair...like a yoruba adage will say,what re u banging that u say day should not break again...though my second round last some longer sha..
Right on point! Sexual satisfaction does not keep one faithful in marriage, the fear of God in one's heart does. He who has ear to hear, let him hear.
Linda,try and help guys on LIB on advises such as this..thanks
Hahahahahahaha. Una go kill person with Laff one day for here oo !!
Still asking...cut his dick.
He pretends to give you head and uses his fingers? Ewww! He is selfish. Period. Tell him, if he doesn't wanna change, walk away. Depends on what you want out of the relationship sha. There is no point in having sex without orgasms. Shikena.
You are right.
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SHARP!!!! I no knw weda na only fuck she de find for marriage!
I'm sure u probably fake orgasm n mk him feel d sex wz great so ders no way he'll knw itz d xact opposite unless u tlk 2him. Bring d ish up afta one of those unsatisfyn encounters wen ur stil in bed cuddlin. Tell him wht and how u want it(if he dsnt knw how,school him. Listen 2Come ova by Estelle) and also get him 2tell u wht he wants 2.
Fabian sharap!! Which lousy 'born good' u knw ur coach nah! That ur babe wey u dey call 25-30mins dey my bed at the moment, if na lie call her right now
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May be guyz shud cultivate d habit of askin their partner if they are satisfied after sex, like my does. Maybe because of hw close we are, in a funny way he wud ask babe rate me ova 10 hw was my performance and I usually tell him d truth, wheneva his performance is low,he wud jokingly blame it on his sugar in take and we laugh ova it. The next time we meet,he his performance is usually better. Linda if you like no post my comment,if u like swallow it
Thank you very much. This is one of the best advice you can get, that's if she's reading this
Shut up!
Speechless.........just passing.
Speechless.........just passing.
Speechless.........just passing.
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Men don't handle such talk well, it can back fire just cut him off.
I mean his stuff might not be sending you to the max, why stay there when u can get better....
trust me if it was the other way round they don't think of ur feelings...
Tell him !!! LOl
Anon1:13pm, see how you just mashed everything up. You mixed gospel with superstition etc. yes, one should give their life to Christ but Christians also get married and therefore have sex. And if there is a sexual issue, then it needs to be addressed. Don't just cover everything up with the need to give lives to Christ and ignore other issues because they do exist in the marriage, and confronting them head-on along with prayers is the solution here. Fine, you can advice her not to be having pre-marital sex. But after the wedding, she'll still need to face things. I think communication is the key here. You have to let him know and give him tips on how to improve. The potential issue would not be what you say but how you state it to him. As a child of God, I would also say desist from premarital sex (note to self #nobemehollypass) but as a potential married couple, I would say you should discuss it for the future. You can suggest that you would like to know/learn more things he likes and the way he likes them done, then let him know yours too. Say you want to improve/explore your marital sex-life for further excitement. ;-)............. Just Me
Ehmmmm. Good head gets you any girl satisfied. #NiCkYOniKan
U are a big fool...idiot
Talk to him! He will understand really!! Linda post My comment ifeomatundeasolo@gmail.com
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Direct him on d spot where u wuld loved to be touched.and let him hear u mourn wen he does it.and tell him not to stop until u climax.
JUST WONDERING WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT!... MY BABE JUST LEFT ME AND HER REASONS:I TOO DEY LAST LONG, DAT DO I WANT TO KILL HER; THAT MY DI*K IS TOO LONG AND FIBROUS; THAT I WANT MORE THAN 3 ROUNDS AT A TIME,THAT I ASK HER TO TAKE DIFFERENT SEX POSITIONS...BLA BLA BLA! BUT, HERE IS A LADY THAT WANTS A MAN LIKE ME,...Hmmm! BB:7970(ZER0)-DF46.
True talk
Go fuck yourself! I know its about time some bible hugging idiot will come on here and mislead ppl into believing that desire is a sin. At least she's trying to make things work with her mannu talking about giving her life to christ...I feel sorry for ur future patner, or should I say patners?as am sure they'll all leave ur '1minuite' ass!
COMMUNICATION: talk to him about it in a very loving and friendly manner. Also tell him what you need him to do and not do to please you in bed.
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Some ple re just so funny, she asked 4 help and u re talking abt Jesus, dish washer, just imagine. My dear, communication really helps in relationship, talk to him, nd u can also buy adult flm,watch it togeda. Nd i'm sure he's going to improve in bed. Sowi dear.
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Hello, My name is Kathy Moss , I’m from UK. I love my husband so much and I do anything to please him in bed. I even s*ck his thing but he has refused to eat my ‘thing’. Please advice me how to tell him to go down on me cos I really want my ‘thing’ juice sucked.
COMMENTS:
John Phillips: I think you need to talk to him, marriage is communication.
Alexandra Matters: Oh my dear, sorry about that, I have been in your shoes before... I told him right away and he is an expert in it.
Kelvin Martins: I get down with my wife, its cool. I love doing it... you should talk to your husband.
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My name is Yetunde, I stay In Lagos, married with a kid, my husband have refused to s.u.c.k. my ‘thing’, what should I do…? No insults abeg… Just need your suggestions.
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Temitayo: I no blame you at all, better go find something to do with your life. Suck kor, soak-away ni.
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Lynda: Sign of End-time, Anti Christ among us, Please repent!
Taofeek: Thunder fire you!!! You a womanhood to disgrace!
Here is one, first off there is no way u can tell a man he doesn't make the cut in bed without offending him.I think how he reacts solely depends on him as u cannot control his emotions when it comes to matters of male ego. as clean an odour free as i keep it down there he pretty much doesn't do it anymore, before he use to pretend to use his tounge meanwhile hes using his fingers, he has no idea how to stimulate a womans clit, he rubs it up and down till I feel like am starting to bruise, and while I'm still dry (and in pain) hell go ahead and try to insert his penis (that one self na war as he spends forever trying to find my glory hole, sometimes he mistakely trys to put it in my ass, (oro o! ) or (when spooning) between my thighs and he starts humping thinking he's in. What's worse, its like he has no idea what to do with my breast, not sure if he's trying to breast feed or pleasure us both...its sucks! I've completely ban him from my breast as everytime he breches, I recoil in ewwness I fucking hate him near my breast now. The tragic part of this story is that I like women...always have always will. Sex is a dream, orgasm? Damn!...real women aim to please eachother. and as for going down south, homegurl is already swimming before I can say 'dive'. Neways those were the days. Back to my man, ill give him what's his, he's a sweetheart outside the bedroom, won't sacrifies that for anything, we a re buddies and we pretty much do everything together hence I never really had a problem telling him. Althoug hell get defensive, other times hell jus sulk,ill still say my piece n let him be. but the next time we attempt to bone, I can feel him trying althout still trying to avoide certain things. For Now we just use toys till he's rock hard and am soaking wet, and I do to him exactly what I want him to do to me. small toys help. Not dildo or anything tht might look like u trying to replace him. Jus stimulation based toys, for vaginal, anal stimulation oh and lots of lube. Its still not the best sex but its not what it use to be. Things we sacrifies for marriage! :)
If he Fuck u hard will it give u enternal live.(75806b71 pin)
If he Fuck u hard will it give u enternal live.(75806b71 pin)
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