Dear LIB readers: How do you let a man know he doesn't satisfy you in bed?
From a female LIB reader
What's the easiest way to let your man know you don't enjoy sex with him and you need him to improve without offending him? I have a high sexual libido and I doubt I will be faithful to any man who can't give it to me well. This is the man I intend to marry and I would really like to be faithful but my sexual satisfaction is very important to me. When he gives me head, he pretends to use his tongue when I know it's his fingers. He's also not big on foreplay and doesn't last long. He always leaves me unsatisfied after every sexual encounter. How do I let him understand without offending him? And can he even get better or is this how it will always be? Na only me waka come, make I know now so that only me go start to dey waka go
My dear just try and participate, I had the same experience but when I tried different style with my husband, I realized I enjoy it more when I am on top of him,so wait until you get married then try it u will see that you have no problem.
Yao ming, good job. Question for u - did u have sex with this guy while u were dating, before u got married? Cos if u did, I imagine u had known about these limitations and went in eyes wide-open.
My dear,u gerrit.tz so diff 2 say mehn.nd den e cums twice and still wanna please mi buh e s doin t all wrong nd I'm vr gon cum.........so I save us d time and strength.....so e wld let us be.....*fuck shiiiiiii* tz so annoyin
most guys pennis are weak like dodo(fried plantain). theres this akpos that i was dating i told him he doesnt satisfy me and he call the relationship quit. i fake orgasm most time if i dont want to fall ur hand. but orgasm sweet sha.
just flat out tell the man or else you will be stuck the rest of your life with someone you wont be happy with. or you can remain there and be an adulterer......choose one
Well, i think it is a communication thing, you understand your man's temperament better than any one else. Since you are not married yet, it is always advisable to let him know that this is the way you are, so that he can make amends where necessary. Don't keep it in your mind tell him with love. If he is not the traditional African man, you can suggest he gets adult toys to use on you. If he is the type of man that will believe you are wild,just tell him to improve.
Good piece actually, i had a kinda similar issue with my gal, but different in a way that she jst lays there and let me do the whole work. she doesn't move her body she will jst lay dere like a bag of gari. And i solved the issue by jokingly telling her how bush of a girl she was. i will make her laugh and assure her how much i love her. before you knw it she become gud at it. Understanding ur partner helps a lot here.
Well, for me, i'll keep pushing on if he doesn't still respond, i let him be.. Its called body language. If it continues, i talk to him about it and let him know some funny spots about me. lol. in a funny way though.
I so much love this. its not always nice when a guy does not knw how to satisfy his lady, it sucks! especially yoruba guys, they are just worst on bed and not romantic. my fiancee is a yoruba guy but i have another Delta guy out there that gives me everything on sex, kiss of life, head , his tongue knows the right direction to go . I hope i will be able to cope without him when i get married cos right now i feel like disengaging my fiancee....
U said it all brethren, she might even be hairy down there n expect the guy to stick his tongue in without even asking if he likes it or not.#selfish bitch
Well darling there are two options that could work. Option one sit him down and talk but then again It depends on how he would take it. He could either react, or take it calmly but if I wouldn't go with this option because,Men are very egotistical! No man wants to hear that he cannot please his woman in bed. And then, there is option two..you could show him ways to please you. Men like it when women move sometimes..they find it fascinating when women switch roles with them and take charge in bed! The key to pulling this trick is just being confident, feminine and fiesty...so just relax babe practise makes perfect and trust me when your man has practised the art of pleasing you in bed he will leave you wanting more. Just show him the way to please you and make sure you put a little creativity in it *winks* Lol. Just for the record just go with option two to be on a safer side babe! Hope my advise works for you (British accent). Boi boi
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I don't like sex cos it pains me a lot, girls that love it should answer.
My dear just try and participate, I had the same experience but when I tried different style with my husband, I realized I enjoy it more when I am on top of him,so wait until you get married then try it u will see that you have no problem.
Yao ming, good job. Question for u - did u have sex with this guy while u were dating, before u got married? Cos if u did, I imagine u had known about these limitations and went in eyes wide-open.
My Bruv How did U deduce the man's economic situation?? Na wa o.
Anon 1.21pm, spot on! U must be my long-lost twin. My rule is ratio 2:1. She cums twice, I cum once.
Can u write proper English next time pls
Hahaha. Joker go and take several seats
And why will telling him after marriage make it any difference?
No one wants U ooo. LoL. LIBer will kill me one day
When u fuck your own, is it for eternal life?if u have nothing to say, go and sleep
Pretender!!! Hypocrite oshi..meanwhile, na people like u bad pass...
And what is that BBpin for...u de take style find customer meanwhile u de do like say na u holy pas...mschetwww
My dear,u gerrit.tz so diff 2 say mehn.nd den e cums twice and still wanna please mi buh e s doin t all wrong nd I'm vr gon cum.........so I save us d time and strength.....so e wld let us be.....*fuck shiiiiiii* tz so annoyin
most guys pennis are weak like dodo(fried plantain). theres this akpos that i was dating i told him he doesnt satisfy me and he call the relationship quit. i fake orgasm most time if i dont want to fall ur hand. but orgasm sweet sha.
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Nice answer.....you r on point
LWKMD! Guy, u do kolo! Lol!
just flat out tell the man or else you will be stuck the rest of your life with someone you wont be happy with. or you can remain there and be an adulterer......choose one
Well, i think it is a communication thing, you understand your man's temperament better than any one else. Since you are not married yet, it is always advisable to let him know that this is the way you are, so that he can make amends where necessary. Don't keep it in your mind tell him with love. If he is not the traditional African man, you can suggest he gets adult toys to use on you. If he is the type of man that will believe you are wild,just tell him to improve.
U can just imagine. Express how u feel to him dear.
I'm sorry at your plight. You have not yet become a woman then
You neva even marry ni.... and you are having sex?
My fellow pleaser ndewooo!!! You must be virgo...#ChopKnuckle
Kindly sit him down and you guys discuss on this. he should also make use of tramadol it helps
sorry dear, buy him oroki bitters, lmao
Good piece actually, i had a kinda similar issue with my gal, but different in a way that she jst lays there and let me do the whole work. she doesn't move her body she will jst lay dere like a bag of gari. And i solved the issue by jokingly telling her how bush of a girl she was. i will make her laugh and assure her how much i love her. before you knw it she become gud at it. Understanding ur partner helps a lot here.
tell him, Honey I do enjoy u on bed buf I do want some more of you in me..... den u guz can start.. lol
Well, for me, i'll keep pushing on if he doesn't still respond, i let him be.. Its called body language. If it continues, i talk to him about it and let him know some funny spots about me. lol. in a funny way though.
I so much love this. its not always nice when a guy does not knw how to satisfy his lady, it sucks! especially yoruba guys, they are just worst on bed and not romantic. my fiancee is a yoruba guy but i have another Delta guy out there that gives me everything on sex, kiss of life, head , his tongue knows the right direction to go . I hope i will be able to cope without him when i get married cos right now i feel like disengaging my fiancee....
Hw far
have a heart 2 heart discussion with him
U said it all brethren, she might even be hairy down there n expect the guy to stick his tongue in without even asking if he likes it or not.#selfish bitch
Dear Linda, all your recent questions all points to one thing. Is he close? Are we wearing also ebii soon?
Adebayo u r very funny.
You tell him noo ni, abi?
You tell him noo ni, abi?
lol. funny girl.
mehn dis is serious..whr de hell am i gona find dis kinda babe..my girl complains i too deh lst long..while sm one is here longing 4dat.
Well darling there are two options that could work. Option one sit him down and talk but then again It depends on how he would take it. He could either react, or take it calmly but if I wouldn't go with this option because,Men are very egotistical! No man wants to hear that he cannot please his woman in bed. And then, there is option two..you could show him ways to please you. Men like it when women move sometimes..they find it fascinating when women switch roles with them and take charge in bed! The key to pulling this trick is just being confident, feminine and fiesty...so just relax babe practise makes perfect and trust me when your man has practised the art of pleasing you in bed he will leave you wanting more. Just show him the way to please you and make sure you put a little creativity in it *winks* Lol. Just for the record just go with option two to be on a safer side babe! Hope my advise works for you (British accent). Boi boi
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