"There is no way Nigerians can help me. I am going to face my judgement. I am meant to pay for what I have done. It is not as if I am ready, it is something that is inevitable - something that is going to happen; I am just waiting for it.
The incident happened around 1 a.m. when the church would have been sleeping by then. It was anger that led me to this. There was an argument between us and I stood up to him. He beat me with a stick and bit me with his teeth repeatedly. Just the two of us were at home; my mother was in Abuja,” he said. Continue...According to Premium Times, when asked if he was under the influence of any drugs when he attacked his father, Tolani admitted taking drugs but denied he was on drugs on the day of the murder, saying it was more spiritual.
He also said it was not planned. He said his father was the one that first went to the kitchen to get a wooden spoon which he used to hit him. Tolani then went into the kitchen, took a knife and cutlass and attacked his father.
“I tried to defend myself, then he bit me on my shoulder and I got angry. I used normal small kitchen knife then I used a cutlass to attack him. I regret the action,”
"My mother is still grieving. I have sent some people to talk to her that I am sorry. I want to give her time. I have talked to my sister. I have asked for forgiveness,” he said.Tolani said that his family resides in Abuja while he lived at the Redeemed Church, RCCG, camp.
“My father came for a programme; then, my school was on break so I went to meet him. We were meant to go back to Abuja together then the incident happened and I am here,” he said.Premium Times reports that Tolani was into drugs and had been caught twice by the authorities of Redeemer University. The school had set up a panel to question him on the alleged drug offence before he killed his father.
122 comments:
What can I say? Fighting back ur father is a very big sin and a bad tin to do......if u hadn't hit back, all dis wouldn't have happened. God help u.....
Anger is a really really bad thing...
U ask ur mum to 4give u for making her a widow?u ask ur sisters to 4give u 4 makin them fatherless?u should be ashame of urself,u must pay 4 ur sin.
Dear, dats nt enough reason why uo shuld hit ur dad. Pretex4luv@yahoo.com.
Lord have mercy.
Cooldavoe@yahoo.com
This guy is into a serious mess. Drug alone is a serious issue... and then, murder?! Dude, how do you expect your mum and sis to forgive you?!
stay away from drugs guys....it makes you feel like you are above everybody...even God..then shit like this happens........jail broda....jail...#corleone....osamidiame@gmail.com....p.s:linda post my comment and the 25k plssss...*winks*
Killing your own fada?if u were my brother I don't think I can forgive you,gosh!!!
Pheeew! No excuse for such an evil act.
Son u just killed your own father,the god that gave life to you. What a shame.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
God gave Mercy.
jenniferanthonella@yahoo.com
You are very stupid, this thing has nothing to with anything spiritual, pride was the root of everything, standing against your father? People do that, but in an educated manner. Maturity is not a game of how old or how tall, but your ability to reason well... See where you are now, only God can set you free. On the other hand death is the price.
What anger can make one do. Now he's full of regrets.
amakangenegbo@yahoo.com
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Never allow ur anger over shadow u. Lesson to everyone, The deed has been done n u ve to face anytin that follows.
End time indeed. D devil is out to destroy. People should read n learn in order to know when to flee for satanic plots. Hmmm!
Quite unfortunate.
Chei now he will feel really terrible,,the deed has been done. Some people are highly temperamental,we really should learn how to control our anger o!
Eya, pele my dear, but thank God u know Nigerians wont help u coz na only u waka kill ur papa. we no follo u killam
What a world. Lord have mercy.
LmAO German Machines dis is splufic
LmAO German Machines dis is splufic and is 5-0
This is son of the devil , personified. He deserves no mercy,of any kind. If the authorities ever leave him, he may also kill his mother or other people. Happy he knows he's going to rot in prison. Its sas no amount of pity or cry can bring the ded man back to life.May his fathers soul rest in peace.
Jesus christ
Pple pls stay away from drugs. It can only lead to destruction. Na wah
hhmm anger na badt something. dat is y one needs to control it and be watchful
Story,Story..... Torry... May God have mercy on you o... I wonder why some guys derived joy in taking drugs...#glo for life#
I feel sorry for ds guy tho,*sigh
Face d music ursef
hmmm...nkemdirimeverista111@gmail.com
Chai. I really feel sorry for the young man. May God deliver him in Jesus name. It had to be spiritual. See people don't know dat d devil it's also at work inside church. Imagine someone in church company for program and then dis. It wAsnt meant to be. Devil is a liar. I hope d authorities will have mercy on him. I also think drugs played big part in d incident. These drugs can hinder decisions. And the father had no reason beating a grown man with stick. U know some naija parents are real stupid . Why would be hitting a grown man with stick like that and then bite. U see am? Once you are grown, you're reaction to things change, anger becomes more dangerous. A grown man defending himself could be deadly. It's not d same when you are a little boy. Talk more to your children. It's better you insult them than beat them with stick/bite. Just bcus you're older. And if you decide to beat make sure na u go win d fight bcus he has d right to defend himself. If anything one or two slap is okay but don't fist punch like Tyson and think if he can come back like Holyfield he won't. Na wa for us Africans men. We keep lying to ourselves that we have d best up bringing than white people but look at our country( useless and we are all running from it). We are running it with our useless up bringing of being heartless to children and women. That's why God purnishes. Rituals and all kinds of bulshit going in in dis nigeria. I pray for God to preserve this young man. Amen. My regards to d family. So sad men. And I won't be surprise some witch com their village is behind this shit.
May God have mercy on u.
Gracenot2001@yahoo.com
Stay away from drugs. It does more harm than imaginable
Na wa o! Wonders shall never end...imagine killing his father sha!!!
When I was a child or say a young man, the sight of my daddy's picture sacred me. My daddy never beat me, but I was always afraid of him. I was 34 when my father died, I feared my daddy until today. Kids of these day, I don't understand! You stood up to your father? Come on you must be under drugs. @amfestus
Wow.. Anger is a terrible thing.lesson from this incident is to Never act when angry..
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I knew deir was more to dis story. . No matter hw he pleads for forgiveness it jus cnt b forgotten. . Wish he had controlled his anger
Oro kpesi je!!!
May God in his infinite mercies forgive n grant his father eternal rest. It is well
Do I really have a comment? What comments would be appropriate here? I am just as confused as anyone else. This is certainly not a normal situation, only God will take absolute control. Uhmm. Motherhen
He should have just walked away when the argument was intense.its a pity
y is flavour always whinning his waist na, he always mks me feel horney with that his waist and bad enuf i dnt hv a bf. linda pls help me tell flavour to take it easy na else i feel pee for my pant one day ooo. i feel like havind sex right now, flavour there is God ooo. u kn i wont see u but u continue winning ur waist for me. crying in mama peace voice
Train up a child in d way he should go......
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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This dude needs to be killed abeg.... See his witch craft face.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Nawah ooo... What are u youth of now adays turning into?
these fucking vindictive private christian schools...meanwhile what the pastors are doing is far worse...
the poor boy just wanted to smoke a little reefer from time to time and get bitches...
y'all just had to go cramping his style...i bet he didnt have a fine girlfriend since yall bitches are so damn expensive...
if he had a fine girl talk to him from time to time and maybe suck his dick a little bit...this nigga would still be alive...
fuck all y'all!!!
First of all how can reporters extract a statement from a "suspect" yet to be proven guilty? He hasn't gone to court yet is there no due process in this country? This ad hoc village way of justice has got to stop why should the police give reporters access to suspects? How will they get a fair trail? For all we know this confession could have been extracted by duress. Kmt
YOU ARE A KILLER!!!!!
Why hit bk...forGod sake he is ur dad....I have did feeling and believe dat anybody who takes drugs...no matter how cool and gentle d person is....he/she has an atom of madness hidden within....see wot 100naira Igbo has lead u to....I feel for ur mum....RIP to d dead.....HAPPY PRISON TIME SON......
Though parent can be extremely annoying at times,talking back or walking out of your parent is sometimes pardonable when you loose your calm at the end you'll always feel bad for talking back at them and u apologize but killing your own dad is another thing,he seems like the kid had always had killing tendencies he was just waiting for the right moment after stabbing the dad then he mutilated him which means he did it with clear conscience and lack of empathy but of course he would blame it on drugs and say he's under spiritual influence they are some people who are capable of killing without blinking all they need to do is wait for the right time.
In Jesus' name you have life.
Oga /madam lawyer.
Why hit bk...forGod sake he is ur dad....I have did feeling and believe dat anybody who takes drugs...no matter how cool and gentle d person is....he/she has an atom of madness hidden within....see wot 100naira Igbo has lead u to....I feel for ur mum....RIP to d dead.....HAPPY PRISON TIME SON......
Its a pity.........
I pity u my dear, But u've gat Ï„̲̅Ç¿ dance Ï„̲̅Ç¿ the tune u started. I have some observations: 1st, the act might have been triggered by anger, but u've planned hitting ur dad (which is an offensive action) long before u finally killed him. 2nd, some1 beats u with wooden spoon (which might not have any effect on a-10yr old boy) let alone u, and what u could defend urself wif are knife and cutlass; which shows u were wif ur right senses, and u planned killing him! 3rd, u weren't @ peace wif him but u chose Ï„̲̅Ç¿ let him provoke u all the same. I know our parents praise us while we do the right things; which shows u didn't do the right thing which would've made him hit u. When arguments ensue among children and parents, the best we can do is Ï„̲̅Ç¿ leave their presence politely. U should've avoided staying wif him! Anyways, there's nothing u can do Ï„̲̅Ç¿ bring him back but there's something u can do Ï„̲̅Ç¿ avoid life-term jail or death............ask for God's forgiveness and intervention! Sorry dear, it's well.
You are sick. You need God!
This thing is most likely spiritual...a boy who has never fought his dad won't just wake up & kill him. If he'd been in the habit of fighting his dad his dad wouldn't have attempted beating him (the biting story sounds false tho-defence mechanism). Don't underestimate the devil o. Watch & pray!
May God ave mercy on him #amen#maryann_emma@yahoo.com
Ur Papa Beat you ,U dey fight am back abi? U done tone Michael jackson when nor feet forgive him Papa because he dey beat dem when dem small .Okro nor dey big pass him owner,carry ur Crosssssssssssssssss .I dey Vex.
You see ur life ? Na because u done dey beat Ederly People, na him make you nor know till u beging beat ur Papa.
you still get mouth 2 ask for forgiveness? You should be ashamed of your miserable self.
Psychotrophic drugs at work...beware of gbanaa!
When something bad happens they start blaming d devil, no matter the anger, he doesn't have the right to kill.
You have a point.......a 21 year old Man shouldn't be corrected with physical rod......it should be with talk.......see where it ended......Devil just use the boy play kalo kalo.......sad sad sad story.
On 2 The Next!
Hilarious!
He was even very well aware of the consequences... Well, may God forgive u for dat terible thing u did
@anon 10.27......You prolly smoked some reefers too before you vomited this...
Negro be warned and learn from this story...before you kill ur mama or girlfriend one day.
On 2 the next!
U for dey Abuja now wit ur family, but look at where u are today? Na u cause am, so deal with it. riwo11@yahoo.com
Oh u did? No qualms. Stay calm cuz d long arm of d law is bout to hack U into Jail 4 bein such an ingrate!#26247c63
He should have stood up to his dad long ago, rather than allow his anger build up resulting to this horror. I think for starters nigerian should cut back on this do or die christian/islamic lifestyle as some often force it on thier kids. Religion is a personal bondin with God, its not like a family business whereby ur child have to learn the trade, even then parents stillneed to thread lightly. Your child is your child, moreso he/she is also a human being , therefore u cannot be his/her only influence. I have a sister who is a jehovas witness...she was converted by her then boyfriend. First I was kool with going to her kindom hall with her n such, considering how she approached me with her newly found faith, I chose to follow her to her meetings and learn their hymms, I even got a free copy of 'my book of bible story'. Suddenly it became mandatory that she'll hit me if I refused to come along. it got worse when she started hitting me for wearing pants, and I've always been a pant person, I am very tomboyish. I stood up to her on her next Bullshit attempyt, and completely stopped following her to her meetings. As it turns out her religion wasn't the problem, her personality was. Later in life I met jehovas witness who wear pants, who do not pressure their siblins,kids or friends into coming to their kindom hall...and who definately never give violent ultimatums. my sis jus took things a little extreme. Parents are humans too, they can make mistakes, so for the sake of a healthy relation, they should swallow thier ego, drop the power trip and meet thier children half way! RIP.
So sorry pity yourself
nawao.. patoswife@gmail.com
@anon 9.49 you said it all . When parents hit their kids they fight back with time but that's no excuse to kill ur dad tho. My mum used to hit me back in da day at a stage I started fighting back and it made me hate her for a long time . She's in the states now on a visit and she's starting to playfully hit my child make una warn am o I will not take it ooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!
@anon 9.49 you said it all . When parents hit their kids they fight back with time but that's no excuse to kill ur dad tho. My mum used to hit me back in da day at a stage I started fighting back and it made me hate her for a long time . She's in the states now on a visit and she's starting to playfully hit my child make una warn am o I will not take it ooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!
So tell me whats the point paying so much in a uni so that dey can raise a monster for you. All this universities from churches have no clue what having a university is all about.
Imagine the rubbish coming from dis guys......so bcos the father hit him gives him every right to hit back abi?I feel for u 2..u had someone paying ur fees,clothing u,put shelter over u and I am sure u travel abroad for holidays too yet u don't appreciate...wat do I do to my father who neva paid my fees from primary,secondary now university level??yet I love him with everything I have...I still send money to him sef...the boy is evil plssss give ur life back to christ ohhh
From all indications, this guy lack morals and basic home training. Parent should try and train their children as duly required 'Tomo e, kole fun e nisimi' . This is one of the end product of parents not having time for children. Let's all learn from this. Also, the idea of raising children in the western way, can never help us in the black nations.
Not just sick but also possessed with a bagfull of evil spirit,how come pple no longer fear God. Too bad
"There is no way Nigerians can help me. I am going to face my judgment" Correct boy, so u know that nobody can help u yet u killed ur own dad. Its even bad to confront ur parents let-alone fighting them, Sorry oo oga na prison u go rot ppl like u should learn anger management
Young man you don't hve any excuse abeg, young Pple of now a days don't hve respect. They are bn influenced by all sort!
In our time we saw hellin the name of discipline , my father will flog me with belts , throw punches nd would even call for a challenge in his anger, but with all that you dare not look into his face talk less of making an attempt. Not becos he would win you noooo but cos you know it's a taboooo! I also realise it was almost the same with all my friends in sch then , but today when I look back I am just so thankful for everything , my father is my best friend nd my pal.
Most reasonable comment so far. Funny some idiots are out there calling him a devil or such. Could hv been anyone! Lol naija parents and their style of upbringing.
U shouldn't fear ur dad u should respect him. A relationship based on fear is not a relationship, nigga u migh as well pick cotton. Yea and sometimes its good to stand up to ur parent, but I guess ure one of those pussy-pushovers tht parents control even when theyre married with kids. Fear has been hard wired into u. Lol if we were in the 1800's ud hv made a good nigga. pass my sympathy to ur wife (if u got one).
Weed doesn't influence violence, its actually meant for relaxation, ur first intuition after smoking weed is to sit down, chill watch a movie, fuck, eat like crazy then pass out. Someone who's high or weed won't hv the strenght to fight. An alchoholic is far more dangerous. Weed is not a drug, its grows on earth and not cooked up in a lab. U better pick up a book, before u making stupid presumtions
WEED CANNOT CAUSE VIOLENCE! YOU ILLITRATE NIGERIANS. ITS A MELLOW SUBSTANCE, MAKES U HAPPY, HUNGRY,HORNY(in some cases) AND EVENTUALLY SLEEPY! SOMEONE HIGH ON GANGER SHOULDN'T HV THE STOMACH FOR VIOLENCE :)
Weed doesn't influence violence, its actually meant for relaxation, ur first intuition after smoking weed is to sit down, chill watch a movie, fuck, eat like crazy then pass out. Someone who's high or weed won't hv the strenght to fight. An alchoholic is far more dangerous. Weed is not a drug, its grows on earth and not cooked up in a lab. U better pick up a book, before u making stupid presumtions
U shouldn't fear ur dad u should respect him. A relationship based on fear is not a relationship, nigga u migh as well pick cotton. Yea and sometimes its good to stand up to ur parent, but I guess ure one of those pussy-pushovers tht parents control even when theyre married with kids. Fear has been hard wired into u. Lol if we were in the 1800's ud hv made a good nigga. pass my sympathy to ur wife (if u got one).
Most reasonable comment so far. Funny some idiots are out there calling him a devil or such. Could hv been anyone! Lol naija parents and their style of upbringing.
I pray your gonna grow up someday and have a son, who would attack you the way you did to ur father, but he wont kill you, u will feel terribly in pains for a mere fight
Very sad! When I first heard this story, I was furious with him... I was like you're 21, ure in the university, your dad hit you and you stabbed and mutilated him...you must be crazy and out of your mind!
But you know... now that iv read the story... I kinda understand where he is coming from. that's not to say he is justified for killing his father.
My dad used to beat us wiv cane, belt... slap us uncontrollably sometimes when he is angry.... and even speak harshly. Infact, he came to school(uni) one time wiv a cane to beat my sis for something he could have talked to her about... like in a guest room.. he seriously beat her. and some other ridiculous things! He has this you are still children and I can beat you if you go wrong thing. Always quoting "spare the rod"
But there came a time I was so upset, I had planned in my mind to stand up to him and I did! Twice in fact! I regretted it each time but I did. By the second time, anytime my dad does somfn I don't like and I begin to rehearse what I think i'll say to him, I catch myself and stop. So parents, you have to be careful, beating any child above 18 is just wrong. They are adults. You can pray for them and talk to them. Scream if you have to. Scare them. Take away privileges to prove your point. Hitting them is just wrong.
Tolani... I feel really bad that you couldn't control your thoughts and anger... and It has landed you in big trouble... may God have mercy on you... the Holy spirit shall comfort their family and RIP to the dead lawyer.
U kill ur dad bcuz he hit u. Dude my dad use iron hand raise me. He dun slap me once I bled 4 nose. But all dat made me a better person.
Anger is a bad thing....you realize after creating damage....thomassolomon67@yahoo.com
a lot of you will have some shit to say but will do same or even worse. Unfortunately his dad is dead and the other side of the story cannot be heard. Truth be told, dude fucked up big time to hit his dad. The question is: how many of us can walk out of such an altercation and choose to be calm? He has got to face the music no doubt but damnnnn..... "And, ye FATHERS, provoke not your children to wrath..." Eph 6:4
#Fizz
It wasn't enough that he stabbed his father,he still went ahead to pieces him with cutlass.I reject this kind of child.Anger is a deadly thing,it has put a family in everlasting sorrow. This dude really needs deliverance. I pray God forgives him. God help us all
A Moment of Patience in a Moment of Anger, can save a Thousand Moments of Regrets.
You killed yourself the first day you tried taking DRUGS and now you have become a murderer, huuuuum I pray God forgives you.
DRUG INFLUENCE...
DRUG INFLUENCE...
Anger is evil, just one letter short of Danger! You don't hit ur father back mehn... So wrong! PS. Parents should also try to control their anger while correcting their kids cos frankly the result of anger goes both ways.
Unfortunately, his dad was a close friend of my dad and they even spoke the day before this incident happened. they were just two good friends... he called ma dad "Appostle", while ma dad usually called him "SAN"... its quite bad that this could have happened. well, it's done... RIP SAN( Charles Ajayi)... i always remember the day i saw u last at karu site with my dad... God help Ur Widow.
As for Tolani, it is never too late to repent, when u do that i am sure u will have peace of mind to face whatever Judgement you get. It is far better than not accepting that u were wrong. There are people out there like me who still love u and feel sorry 4 u. My brother, God is not sad at u and He will not turn His back at u, not nw or ever. It's just that u should continue to pray for your mum and family members to face whatever shame has come their way. GOD HELP U... We love U!
Hmmmm, this is uncalled-for. I cant even argue with me mum not to talk of her raising her hand on me. I mean, there are other ways of settling disputes..hmm.
I was not there but i can picture the scenario, Tolani is into drugs, his father is angry and disconsolate about it. He is trying to correct Tolani and his emotions got the better of him, so he bit him in his desperation and Tolani killed him, finish. His father went into the kitchen and brought a wooden spoon, Tolani went and brought a kitchen knife and a cutlass... do you see the difference. JAIL!
Na wa o. More like another Cain and avel story. Av heard before that "weed" grow in Redemption compound and some students take it. Its just surprising dat students of "religious institutn" sometimes turn out bad. Not only must we go thru school, but the school must also go thru us. Anger is very volatile I agree, bt this one... hmmm. True sometimes, some people can annoy one and u just feel like blowing off their brains. May God help us.
Chai....na reeeaaaallll bad story for the family and their generations unborn. It will av a ripple effect on even the other siblings cos future inlaws will be like lailai, u cant marry frm dat family.
There is no reason to justify his acts. He should be punished for killing his Father.
During my growing up years, My dad was annoying, strict, a disciplinarian till now. The worst i can do is to stand up or say annoying things with my mouth if I'm right after which i will apologize but won't hit him or murder him. God forbid bad thing. RIP to the dad..
#PICCANTO#
Some day you will wish you hit that child of yours,parents should be firm and at the same time be friends with their kids every child needs some form of discipline ,how dare he raise his hands against his father even if his 50 years Old.
Na wa o. More like another Cain and avel story. Av heard before that "weed" grow in Redemption compound and some students take it. Its just surprising dat students of "religious institutn" sometimes turn out bad. Not only must we go thru school, but the school must also go thru us. Anger is very volatile I agree, bt this one... hmmm. True sometimes, some people can annoy one and u just feel like blowing off their brains. May God help us.
Chai....na reeeaaaallll bad story for the family and their generations unborn. It will av a ripple effect on even the other siblings cos future inlaws will be like lailai, u cant marry frm dat family.
I'm married and I still fear my father....if he slaps me Id rub my cheeks and move on.....someone that still pays Ur fees u stood up to him.....butchered him....arranged him in a box....u r indeed an "omo buruku" and u should pay for this...
Devil punish u..
C.E.O
@yao ming, lmao! Word!!
hmmm... attrocities even drug trafficking, brutality, policing in a religious ground... members think twice n shine your eye... true religion displays Godly qualities...
This life is turning to something else. To say the truth, he must be under drug
flexycouture@yahoo.com
Mercy of God is what i pray you get from God Tolani, I dont know what the plan of God is about this issue but one thing i will advice is that you Give God A Chance in this case and then Get closer to him
I know to Judge is very easy but i will advice that we all REMOVE THE LOG IN OUR OWN EYE BEFORE CLAIMING TO REMOVE specks in other peoples face.
Advice To All :
Drug and Bad Gang will only ruin.
U didn't only stab ur dad, u went ahead 2 matchet him. He just might hv survived with d stab wounds only.
U went Too too far mehnnnnnn.
RIP SAN..........
May God forgive you and grant your Dad eternal rest.
What a Sad episode.
May God forgive you because raising a hand against ur father is even a sin talkless of the fact dat u killed him. I hope other parents out there will learn frm dis because children of these days lack lot of parental care and attention and dis makes dem take wrong decision and even mingle with the wrong pple. train ur child in the way of the Lord and when he grows up, he will never depart from it.
This boy should just shut up and don't blame it on the drugs. I have respect for people the more I use it .
shut up already. Are u trying to justify your drug habit. Idiot.
what are we all saying, has anyone stop to think for this Tolani of a child to be able to kill his father he must have killed before, because e no easy to stab and e no do the person him come take cutlas take finish the job and still get mind to throw the chopped body for bin. and second the mother should pray more for affliction not to repeat itself again and to return to sender paraventure is a manipulation from somewhere.
I feel so terrible about this situation that I have to comment this happened as a result if bottled up emotions fear,depression frustrations etc this Boy and his late dad had issues and the Father hit him this is the mistake most African parents make he's an adult too the matter could have just been discussed and resolved the father in hitting the boy aggravated the situation because all the boy's suppressed anger from over the years overtook him and I'm sure he dint know what he was doing till he was done. his uncontrollable anger led him to this dramatic end. an advice to parents it's better u counsel the child Dan hit the child anger should not be allowed to live in us because it's a dangerous thing let us aalways try to let an offender know what is on ur mind because if u keep bottling them up the day u might decide to take action it might be too drastic.may the Soul of the faithful departed rest in peace.
I know him as a gentleman who could hardly hurt a fly...this issue can be looked into for different perspectives..tolani probably never had a good relationship with his father..although his on drugs but I still don't believe that was the cause...its more sprirual, nor ordinary and only God knows if his late father had already done something wrong in his earlier life which this event served as its outcome or repercussion..tolani we feel sorry for u and we still love u..God loves u more, get close to him cus he alone knows all things and can help u..JESUS CHRIST came not for the righteous but for sinners who are sincere and are ready to repent..I strongly believe its not ordinary..may GOD Almighty console your family and friends especially ur mum and may he also have mercy on u and ur father..rip Mr Ajayi..
The only lesson I have learned from this article is that violence will never make any situation better, the boy was provoked and he over reacted... Stay away from violence and provocation
Parents that assult their kids should watch out. Nothing will make a kid hit his father except the the father crosses one particular line. So how long did he bear this torture before he finally snapped. A university student for that matter with full blown pubic hair and girlfriends then him papa go dey beat am. Only in Africa.
This is another story that makes one cry, u made ur mum a widow and ur sis fatherless. Hnnmmm! U killed ur own father who is paying a very expensive school fees 4u in RUN? A spell is on dis boi already. May God give us d heavenly spirit to live this our youthful life well and to pls God. God will save u tolani
Tolani is an animal and deserved to face the wrath of the law, but let us put the Widow into consideration. It’s a tough case for the Court because only a devilish mother will say kill him too. If she plea for mercy for her Child, I think the Court should consider the poor widow. The question now is, do we make her suffer twice? For me, I think Tolani should maybe be sentenced to life in jail and later released to live few years later but stay far away from the family for a very long time.
SAN: May his soul rest in peace and I feel so sorry for your death. But could it be that he missed the icing some where. I read from a family friend to the family that Tolani was a sweet boy while growing up. Now the question is where did it all go wrong? Could it be SAN method of raising his home? Tolani is a coward and stupid, he’s even an animal and if I was named Tolani, I would change the name no matter what because I so hate that name now as I just want to forget this ever happened. But what could turn a sweet Tolani to a murderer? Is it RCCG, is RUN or is it Tolani himself? NO, its Tolani’s Family.
Family: Now this is a clear evidence of a dysfunctional family. Likened to that of parents who places Careers first before their family; mostly (Pastors, Politicians, Bankers, Lawyer’s, Tycoons to mention a few). But it’s hard to cast a stone as we all know that Tolani is the demon here but I feel the family failed him and then he paid back in a brutal manner. Please let us have time for our home, for our kids, for our partners for our family. Even a stubborn child is best controlled with love and care, caning only makes it worst. We all have quiet times to reflect on our wrong deeds, and its so true that someday we’ll get irritated and turn a new leave. I know something turned that poor boy to the bitter Tolani he grew up to be and until we know that, this remains a sad mystery for us. But Tolani, you went too far and so cruel on your Dad, it shows you didn’t love him at all. But why? I feel touched and so speechless… Oh GOD. Please help us… I feel so touched for Tolani as if he was my brother… Well, GOD, please take control. Peace
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