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Sunday, 5 January 2014

Dear LIB readers: Something happens to me when I'm breastfeeding

This has got to be the weirdest Dear LIB readers question ever. Wasn't sure if I should put it up but here it is...
"Linda and fellow LIB readers, please help! I am a nursing mother/wife. I get wet and sometime cum when I'm breastfeeding my 7 months old son who happens to be my first baby. When he suckles my breast...gosh! What is happening to me? Are there other mothers out there who have had similar feelings? What can I do to stop this? Am I developing unhealthy sexual feelings for my own son or what is this? Please I need help!

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Anonymous said...

It is normal for some people, google it.

Anonymous said...

Hia!

Anonymous said...

When women give birth, their breast are very sensitive, yours are just extra sensitive, that's all,you feel weird because, rather than a man you have a baby in your arms, so it seems inappropriate, but it's not your fault, just try to think about something else when breastfeeding

Anonymous said...

My dear its very normal. Bcos ur breasts are also sexual organs. At d same time mammary glands. I'll suggest u stop feeding by the time he's 8 mths old. And gv the breast back to ur husband... :-)

Anonymous said...

Is this true or just a fabrication?.. JeeeeZzzhh!.. Where are my all knowing Liber.. Pls come tell us what this is all about!

Anonymous said...

Seek for medical advice immediately! Hormone imbalance.

Anonymous said...

I think that's abnormal

Anonymous said...

I think that's very abnormal

drengee said...

Dpds on wat u r thinkn abt while breastfeedin...concenterate on ur baby durin d breastfeedin dn u can plan a session wit ur Hubby afterwards....besides,i think its abt time u weaned ur baby...lol

Anonymous said...

C a doctor.

Anonymous said...

Yes ohhhh!!!!he will grow up to be a real G.keep the practice one.Fati bumbum

Anonymous said...

Keep the sucking going....I bet ur hubby can't evn make u cum :)...turning out to be a real G.

Lushiesta said...

Stop breast feeding. The bible says if ur right hand make u sin. Cut it off. Don't cut off ur breast literarily but stop breast feeding. Use formula

Anonymous said...

Let d comments roll in...av bin imagining same thing. Though am single,my breast and nipples are my most erogenous zones.please let the experienced mothers comment..

Anonymous said...

Hmm.....i guess dat happen bcoz is yor weak point sexually.....may b u should try let her suck d other breast....may b it will change....

Aijay Vanderbilt said...

Dear writer, it's normal for some women to get sexually aroused while breastfeeding. It's due to the release of some hormones. Your sexual arousing is more of a natural phenomenon than an erotic thought. Don't worry, it doesn't mean you are sexually attracted to ur infant. After a while, it's gonna stop.

heroshark ou!! said...

Kinda weird... I think u tell tha to ur nurse wen next u go 2 postnatal

Anonymous said...

Pls contact doctor ASAP.

Anonymous said...

The baby boy is a smart sucker,the ladies guy,

Anonymous said...

Am very sure its because he's your 1st, I don't think there is a problem..don't get yourself worked up

Anonymous said...

lol @ ikwerre boy ...so true!

Unknown said...

Now dis is riillyyyyy weird!! U need to pray,u need to talk to a Doctornd Pls talk to your husband or mum abt it.

Anonymous said...

It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Pls go online and read more. it is absolutely normal.

Anonymous said...

looool @ikwerreboy...i dont think its for ur son, i just think it shows that sucking ur breast is ur turning point...so anyone who does this wll probably turn u on

Anonymous said...

its demonic, betta stop it now by prayers or it mar ur future

Anonymous said...

Try to take mind off dat u will ok.how old is ur baby?

Unknown said...

So u moan when u breastfeeding in d presence of fam nd frnds?
Yepa!!!

Unknown said...

Now dis is riillyyyyy weird!! U need to pray,u need to talk to a Doctornd Pls talk to your husband or mum abt it.

Heath and life said...

Though you feel sensation in your body those not mean you are having sexual feeling for your son.

The problem is people magnify and read meaning to what they suppose not to think.

Sensation could make you wet but dont be moved my that you are not having sex with your son

lajay said...

Your son is bad ass sucker,a lil leo messi in the making

Lol

Anonymous said...

You should seek advice from medical experts.

Anonymous said...

U can control it by taking ur mind off it.ur breast is ur weak spot.

lajay said...

Your son is a bad ass sucker,that's a lil leo messi in the making...lol

shannia said...

Madam you need deliverance dat cnt b normal, see a doc tho

Anonymous said...

My 2 cents: sucking and caressing the breast is 1 of the ways to sexually turn-on and satisfy a Woman. That's just the reason. Don't be alarmed. The guy sabi pass im PaPa. LoL

Anonymous said...

Dude, dats a foolish tin 2 say. Is d mother dat we r tlkin abt here.

Anonymous said...

Oh dear, as a mom I had dat feel when my son was about dat age. When breastfeeding I noticed it tickles and puts me in d mood I had to stop breastfeeding at 8months besides d Exclusive for 6months is enough exceeding dat is optional

Anonymous said...

actually mom of five here horny may not be the right word though

There is nothing to be embarrassed about. It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Breastfeeding feels good! If it didn't, very few mothers would do it. It might help to understand just what hormonal responses are taking place.

As your baby nurses, prolactin — known as the "mothering hormone" —
stimulates the body to manufacture milk. This hormone gives you a feeling of relaxation and well-being. Oxytocin, another hormone secreted during breastfeeding, causes the alveoli to contract, releasing milk into the ducts, the milk sinuses, and your baby's mouth. This hormone is responsible for the tingling sensation some mothers feel before a milk ejection reflex, or letdown, and the postpartum uterine cramping felt while breastfeeding.

Oxytocin also causes labor contractions during childbirth and pleasure
contractions during orgasm. Varying amounts of oxytocin are attributed to these different contractions. The arousal you describe while nursing may also be the result of the empowerment and satisfaction you feel knowing that you are meeting all of your daughter's nutritional and emotional needs at the breast

to all the eewwws aparently you never breastfed
Source:
www.babycenter.com/

Anonymous said...

My God ! I don't think that's right at all oh! Ewwwwwwww ! See a pastor or better still pray about it.

Anonymous said...

Think you should see your doctor!he should have the best solution to offer

Unknown said...

LMAO, this mother needs help, befor she starts sleeping with her son O°˚˚˚ .

Anonymous said...

I ave ª 4mtns old son as well,though while breastfeeding u culd feel sum sensations once in ª while,but ave neva bin or cum in d process,it culd be hormonal as we react to dese tins differently,I knw of sum friends who re most horny while breastfeeding n any little tin culd trigger deir feelings,I think u shuld talk to ª doctor,google n read wide bout dese tins...all d best...lindiway if u like use my comment do breakfast oo no post am I will hunt u for nite.lol

Unknown said...

Lmao, this mother needs help O°˚˚˚. Before she starts sleeping with her son.

Anonymous said...

When u are breastfeedng u take ur mind off d feelngs nd focus on smetng else.dat means ur breast is ur weakest point.

Unknown said...

Its normal,especially if your nipples is your erotic zone

Unknown said...

Its normal,especially if your nipples is your erotic zone

Anonymous said...

Its not a big deal, breastfeeding makes women feel very horny. I avnt heard about any1 get to d point of cum, try not to think about anything sexul or distract Ur tot.

yusuf said...

Ashewo

acid man said...

E be like say ur body dey swit u well well.....cos I dnt see any reason why u shld feel dat way while breast feedin ur boy.....maybe ur mind set is always in (SEX).....watch it so u dnt end up givin ur boy a head one day.....jst an advice

mary moore said...

Abeg no go drag the boy penis one day ohh, pls go and see a specialist buh.

Anonymous said...

Go do a DNA test. He might not be your son.

Anonymous said...

Its perfectly normal and natural;afterall, its the same sensation when your hubby sucks your breast. That's y some women get pregnant after childbirth cos d sensation created when the child suckles makes the parent have sex....so, u can also do same.

Anonymous said...

Dear Poster, I think the answer is in the Hospital. Just go, complain to a Doctor.Don't be shy.
Signed by Mee!

NK said...

Stop breastfeeding him if u re n longer comfortable with it

Unknown said...

Ur insane! Well I dunno...mayb u shld see doc

Unknown said...

Mayb u shld see d doctor

Anonymous said...

Its normal..cos normally a woman's breast is one of the parts of our body that turns us on.... And when d baby suckles it, it turns us on.....so, calm down am sure it doesn't happens everytime....so, enjoy it while it lasts and talk to ur mum....

Anonymous said...

U can express d breast and feed him, then start up other complementary feedings as early as possible then u wean him off!! Maybe d next one might be a gal

Anonymous said...

Hehehe! Ur son can do it better than his Pop....... Try control ur feel momma........#@iam_yakzloopy

Anonymous said...

Its btr u go nd see a doctor.

Anonymous said...

I don't think it's normal ooh. God help you.

JhoJho said...

Go see a doctor or a psychologist or something. i think it may have something to do with the sensation that comes from your breasts being sucked. has ur husband sucked ur breasts before? if this is the first time you are having them suckd then its probably the new feeling that makes u cum. some women's breasts are more sensitive to touch than others. Just go see a doctor nevertheless

Ritzyperfect said...

See a doc,its cud b as a result of hormonal imbalance,dr cz dz kinda tinz...drugs wil b prescribe...BEST OF LUCK!

jane said...

Am a nursing mother too with a babyboy of 5m and nothing like that has ever happen to me. My dear is your mind,look at your baby as a son but not like a man.it well with you.

Anonymous said...

my friend rebuke ethat spirit.

but ur nips r just highly sensitive sha

Anonymous said...

It is normal, may be your nipples is part of your G spots. I usually think it could happen and I'm not surprised you complained about it. You are not having any unusual sexual feelings toward your son but a natural experience due to the sucking.

Sunnex said...

Lolzzzzzz.... 7months??? I thnk its beta U̶̲̥̅̊ stop b4 I gt out of hand... B4 he wil start sucking sumthin else oooooo

Anonymous said...

Please ignore any negative comments. its also called pleasurable breatfeeding. it is a completely normal feeling due to release of the hormone oxytocin during breastfeeding. This horMone stimulates contractions, not just to release milk, but also during labour and during orgasms. It's doesn't mean you have any sexual feelings towards your baby or anything like that. Many women who have breastfeeding will recall that it is accompanied by a soothing, relaxing and calming feeling, and sometimes pleasurable feeling which can be so profound as to cause this. Relax, it's not a disease. You can read more at http://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc

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Thou shalt not worry, dear. it's normal to some women, you will soon get over it. Believe me.

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Anonymous said...

My dear, it's in your head. Tell your self I am feeding a child and try to enjoy the bonding moments with the kid instead of thinking about the sensation his suckling is sending to your brain.

Anonymous said...

That's Oxytocin at work! Released from the Posterior Pituitary gland, it's responsible for emotional bonding. Fills the milk ducts with milk. The tingly sensation some women feel before the milk starts flowing causes the arousal. It's normal.

I'm a Medical student, I should know.

Anonymous said...

Its normal, your nipples are really sensitive that's all , happens to me alot

Mrs Jemima Oharisi said...

U Hve to control urslf n let it stop.. dats not normal at all..

Unknown said...

This ain't funny @ all. She truly needs help.

Mrs Jemima Oharisi said...

Am a mother n I Hve neva felt dat way bfor.. so sometin is wrong bcos dats not normal at all..

Unknown said...

I think is normal feelings that u have when you are making love. Some ladies moral is when I guy suck their boobs I think you transfer the same feelings to baby sucking. It happens to my wife as well. But no problem gradually u will get use to breastfeeding.

Anonymous said...

Huummmmmmmmm. I'm a mum of 2 and breastfed both. In my opinion most mothers feel a tingly sensation in their private area when breastfeeding. If you don't dwell on it and perhaps get yourself distracted while feeding your child, then you shouldn't get wet. That "cuming" part is the reason I started my comment with hummmn, all I'll say is it should take just a baby or man sucking your boobs for you to cum.A lot more has to be going on in your head/mind during the breastfeeding.. #my opinion#

Anonymous said...

Your comment is so silly

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm....maybe u need medical attention....... My opinion tho

Anonymous said...

Your comment is so silly

Anonymous said...

Work of the 'Devil'... I pray it stops soon oh.

janetfashionsandstyles said...

never experience this

Anonymous said...

Eeeehyaaa, I have heard someone say that before that she gets tickled down there while breastfeeding. U are ₪☺τ̅ developing unusual sexual feeling for Ʊя̲̅ son rather Ʊя̲̅ homones are d cause. Speak with Ʊя̲̅ doctor to c if Ħ̀ε̅/she can giv u meds to help it stop. Too bad !

Anonymous said...

omg! Dis is funny o. Like is it normal or what.... Please take it more seriously n clean up ur act now o... Veedah says so!

Anonymous said...

u beta control ursf....

Unknown said...

Lol. Nice one

Anonymous said...

At 7 months you can have sexual relationship with your husband, whenever it happens just go for ur husband. Your body has become senstive after child birth, its not because your baby sucks d breast. He has opened another sexual part of you

ruby said...

Hmmmmmmmmm, Pls u nid to see a doctor

Anonymous said...

I guess the nerves in your breast is extra sensitive. Like that in your clit.

Anitabetty said...

I can imagine what you are going thru.I advice you seek medical help.It might just be some immunal inbalance or something.You should also discuss it with ur husband.God wld help u sis

Anonymous said...

I used to get aroused too. Bt I don't let it linger.. Its totally weird!

Anonymous said...

It could b dates where turns u on....

Anonymous said...

Pls I nid dat ya son to suck de hell outta mi! Wow he's really gud den...op you wnt mind lolz#commando pikin#

Anonymous said...

***Currency***

Ur body is very sensual and ur nipples d most.
Its normal u are feeling such.
Many women do.
But kill d feelings cos its there baby doing d job.
So u have 2 be turf and kill d feelings.
U need 2 be laid too.
Na over conji

Unknown said...

Lol... sure he already knws hw to do it perfectly bt u rilly need to see a doc or pastor.

Anonymous said...

Its quiet normal my doctor says its one of the perks of breast feeding, that it helps curb sexual apparition I don't think you're developing unhealthy feelings

Anonymous said...

That's totally wrong. Talk to ur doctor preferable a gynacologist.then work on your mind when breast feeding.

Anonymous said...

The hormone that stimulates the production of breast milk is also the hormone that stimulates orgasm. You can read it up online @ baby centre. So when u are breast feeding, the brain also assumes you are having sex and that's why you get that funny feeling.

Unknown said...

Just fink of ur hubby wen it happens again...

Anitabetty said...

Sorry, meant humonal inbalance

Anonymous said...

Ur nipple is ur G-spot, so its only normal 2 b turned on wen its sucked, its not about ur son, its d feelns of being sucked, same feelns u'l hv if ur hubby sucks on dem... And yes, it happens 2 some oda women

Anonymous said...

Posted a comment you did not post. Why am pissed I said it was a natural feeling for a woman her breast is very sensitive o so she will feel aroused it happens abeg post my comment o

Anonymous said...

@ikwerreboy....u b fool

Anonymous said...

I have always wondered if this happens,now I got an answer! Hmm,maybe its normal

Anonymous said...

Stop breast feeding dat lil boy and is ur nipple ur G spot?

Anonymous said...

Dis is very abnormal. U need help.

Anonymous said...

My dear its nt strange,my baby is 8month I also ve dat sensational feelings but I dnt cum o,I think u shd work on ur state of mind cos hello oooo he is ur Son!

Anonymous said...

ooops, pray over it and get your mind glued to something else while breastfeeding.

Anonymous said...

My dear,u hav develop dat instinct in u dat weneva ur nipples r bin suck u get turnd on.u hav 2 fight it.is you.

Anonymous said...

Really weird! #Dida

Anonymous said...

It is not right

Anonymous said...

Are you a single mother? Have you been denied sex for a long time? Do you always desire to have fun with whoever that impregnates you? You didn't say your status but if you are married, discuss it with your husband and seek medical help <

bunmi said...

U need to see a doctor

Anonymous said...

Seek help u need serious help u hav a strange condition see a therapist at once

P moni said...

U re such a stupid sex adict. The whole stuff is from ur mind. It's just simple, just change ur mind i.e. work on ur mind n u ll see unbelievable change and u wouldn't have feelings for ur 7 months old son anymore. Also stop imaginning sex while breastfeeding the innocent child.

Anonymous said...

Does dis ikwerre boy think we are joking here! Wat a comment. Mtchew

Anonymous said...

Sometimes things like that happens but not this bad. Focus ur mind on something else while breastfeeding. A lot of mothers experience that but is not everything u talk about.

Anonymous said...

Madam it's normal for a breasfeedin mother to experience d@.it's a natural sensation u xperience wen breastfeeding.Many nursin morthers xperience d@.It's not abnormal.

Nora Spiff. said...

I ain't a mum yet but am kinda a voracious reader, I learnt its not an uncommon phenomenon; LIB, you're right in putting it on- in fact, you could have a 'strange stories' section. Madam, ain't nothing wrong with your ..., methink you ought to pray and see it in a different light. Enjoy.

mustapha lekan yusuf said...

Such feelings are normal. Although pelvic sexual arousal is not a common response to breastfeeding. According to Newton 1955, parallel reaction between breastfeeding and coital orgasm include:
a) nipple stimulation are present during breastfeeding n sexual arousal
b) nipple erection occurs during breastfeeding and sexual foreplay.
Dis may bring abt orgasm in d woman. Bt to be sure of wats really going on, i tink its beta u see a doctor. Dey'l explain beta.

Unknown said...

Go and see your doctor....He/She would explain better

Anonymous said...

I've heard it happens to certain women. I'm a breast feeding mum as well, I'm nuturing my son, so my mind don't even go thr, even when my husband is away for weeks due to work. It tickles when u breast feed bt u've gotta be thinking naughty tots to get u to that point of getting wet n cumming. Ewwww. U need help sister! Spiritual help!! That's just disgusting. That's ur child!!!

Anonymous said...

You are probably secreting your sexual hormones as well as prolactin you need to see your O &G doctor

Anonymous said...

It is totally normal dear. It is mainly cos of the love you feel for your son plus the tickling feeling from his sucking your nipples. It will go away with time. Maybe your hubby has been denying you of sex. That could be a contributing factor as well. There is nothing wrong with you. Welcome to motherhood

Anonymous said...

It's normal

Anonymous said...

Its normal my dear, most nursin mothers experience it but few talk about it. Means you have a vry sensitiv nip... Pst Yemi

Ayisire Juliet said...

Lol wa oooo

Anonymous said...

Yawa D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ Ooooo..dats unbelievable

Anonymous said...

you are not developing any sexual relationship with your son...it means your breast is very sensitive...i guess that your spot you have to try as much as possible to control it

pensil said...

Even if oda women hv dat go tru d same problem, none of dem will come out because of shame. My advice is dat u go tru the internet to see if wat u re going tru is totally healthy or if there is a solution to it. But lemme ask, do u also come wen ur husband suck ur breast?

Anonymous said...

No wonder ehhhhhh! My aunt and bestow love breastfeeding. Kai! Jehovah! Na so? Any small turning, bring him oh he's hungry. The baby will just make ah and they will scream bring him ooo he's hungry! Abi Na u dey hungry

Unknown said...

LMAO

Unknown said...

LMAO

Anonymous said...

Lol ma dear dis isn't normal n quite unhealthy I tink.D sucklin of a child shdnt gv u same sensation wt dat of a man.I tink u nid 2evaluate ur psychological n health status asap.Bonita Bislam

Anonymous said...

I'm not a mum, but I often find myself wondering iif this happens when women breastfeed...I've imagined it so you cannot be the only one.

Anonymous said...

Its normal it happens to everywoman when breast feeding. Am a mother of 3 I stiil experence it wit my 3rd child. I get wet and hav urge for sex while breast feeding.

LUCKY OPY said...

U have to be in control of ur mind n also tell God to help u

REXOVIC said...

is dis possible??

Anonymous said...

I can't believe it so I reserve my comment.

Anonymous said...

Madam, it all has to do with the thought in ur mind, ur breast was ur weakest point when you were single but now that you a mother you need 2 change that thought and have a new impression about ur breast....

Anonymous said...

Its a medical condition that can be corrected. See your doctor

Anonymous said...

I breastfeed presently but I've never felt dt way. I think it's sick tho. The poster shd go 4 her meds. Her hormones are hyper.

Unknown said...

Women in general get sexually excited when their breast is sucked...but I think in ur case,u r nursing ur child and u get wet doesn't mean u r develping any sexual urges towards him...maybe ur breast is the most sensitive part of ur body and dats y u react easily...*just thinking out loud*

Anonymous said...

U never realy breast-fed in d past, dats why ur feeling it dat way

Anonymous said...

It is a normal thing,dearie,all are hormonnal changes mothers experiences during breast feeding

Anonymous said...

Post my comment about it being normal go and ask any doctor or a gynecologist. Abeg post it you never born before that is why. Hiss.

Anonymous said...

Hmm.hv not heard of it before o

Anonymous said...

U r a fool,dis is serious n ur tlkn about real G...Haanimahh

Unknown said...

Tell ur husband

tomiwealth said...

Wierd indeed

Anonymous said...

I don't think its uncommon for mothers to get turned on by their babies sucking their breasts. Just don't see ursellf as abnormal. Its a job you have to do and I believe that those urges will die once the baby stops sucking.

If its becoming too much of a bother, then express your millk in a bottle and feed ur baby that way. It wud reduce the occurence of such urges. But know that breastfeeding ur baby is one of the best experiences a mother can ever have. The choice is yours. IAI

Anonymous said...

Google is your friend...pretty common and normal apparently
http://www.momlogic.com/2009/09/women_who_orgasm_during_breastfeeding.php?page=3

Anonymous said...

my dear sister go and get this book every woman it help you more. am a nrsing mother too it happening to me too,

Anonymous said...

Hi,u r obviously ignorant.it is very normal. Pls educate ur self n ur mind visit sites such as baby centre,maternity mum e.t.c.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm...go see a doctor dear

Anonymous said...

Wat kin of dirty feelings is that?all bkus ur mind is there.4 ur information,No medicine 4 dat.Hw can u b gettin wet while ur own blood is suckin ur breast?

Austine said...

no big deal, medically most women experience this at some early stage, its what build the bond. you only need to try to consciously remove your mind else dont kill yourself for it its not an intentional act by you

Unknown said...

I wouldn't knw wat's happening 2 u Madam. Over to d mothers here.

Anonymous said...

Wean him pls.

Unknown said...

Go n c a doctor asap

BeKay said...

Pls u can discontinue with d breastfeeding cos u r not very comfortable anymore.@ 7months you ve tired. Ve two kids $ I discontinued breastfeeding @ 6months,they are 8 $ 5 now.very healthy$intelligent.so u can stop it b4 u become addicit to it.Its not normal @ all.

Anonymous said...

That is really wierd gosh, u shld stop breastfeeding him plz.

Anonymous said...

Ah! This isn't funny at all... when a child suckels it's absolutely different from when a grown ass man does (ur husband) am a nursing mother so I know... probably u lack enough foreplay... just take ur mind of that shit when breastfeeding ur child abeg...

Anonymous said...

that probably is ur weak point when you are with your husband

Ifexxx said...

See a shrink or ur pst

Maslow said...

It is possible that you did not enjoy breast sucking from men during your playing days and now ur son is here to make u enjoy it. LOL

Anonymous said...

Stop breast feediing him

Anonymous said...

u need to c a doctor

FEMINI said...

U will get used to it as time goes on...its just dat u av been use to Ur husband sucking Ur breast over d years. Av seen some women like dat but it stopped later

FEMINI said...

It will stop..u will get used to Ur breast being sucked by Ur baby instead of Ur husband

Unknown said...

my dear, its no biggie, u'll get over it after some time. though its a rare condition, but i had d same feelings too wen i had my first baby (girl) i discovered it had to do with the mind. focus more on your husband and let him play with u more than before, sooner or later u'll get over it. this type of feeling occurs when ur hubby feels u are still nursing and doesnt want to come close to u romantically. get closer to ur hubby and u'll be fine. my advise is u should be careful too cos this is just d best time to get pregnant again if u r not careful, i took in about 10months after my first baby. so get a birth control. thank me later

Anonymous said...

He is 7 months already, stop breastfeeding.

Anonymous said...

Hi
at poster. I know it's confusing but try to read about and research into breast feeding.

There are so many biological changes that occur when you breast feed. No one tells you about these. As a new mother I was surprised to find that my uterus contracts when breast feeding (especially early days) . Bleeding and cramps also increased etc

I'm not sure if these changes etc should still occur 7 months after delivery...but as sure as human experiences vary it is entirely plausible

You are not having sexual feelings for your son and please do not start thinking along those lines. Try to read up and understand your body's process so you understand better why you get the sensations that you do.

If it continues to be a problem , you should try expressing/ pumping you breast milk so you can give it to him via a bottle rather than continue with your confused state.

Anonymous said...

No it is not normal cos I am a nursing mother too and I don't experince such.what I advice u to do is to stop nursing him.

Rotimi d MC said...

Its natural.I know a friend who experiences same.it only shows that u are exra sensitive in dat zone.Some mothers do have them!

pink said...

Its in the Dude's DNA. U better enjoy the pleasure now before he grows up and stops sucking on them

۵Phemmie۵ said...

My Dear, this is not sometin to feel bad/sad abt, this is a very natural nd normal process, am limited here I would have explained the similarity of the neorons in ur body that helps in sexual arousals how they're quite similar to d ones u use while breastfeeding, I knw u would be think that socially ur baby is not suppose to arouse you but that's is not a problem, it just shows you're a sexuaally active woman, what I'll advice is that you should normalise the act as in u should not concentrate on the sweetness(arousal)(smiles), concentrate on the fact that you're feeding/nurturing another human being like yoursef to life, I think that will help, don't take it as a substitute for sex, if you're Honey let you husband give you that, then I believe by this and by asking other elders for advice it'll go

Anonymous said...

I think u shud see a doctor. I tink it a homonal thing. U are sure not developing any unhealthy sexual feelings toward ur son but rather the homones around ur breast or responsible for that are too sensitive. Just see a doctor.

Anonymous said...

I once saw a woman who was breast feeding her 8months old baby girl.. She was lost in the world of ecstacy and was even making attempts to caress her vitals.. I left quietly before she noticed my presence to save her the embarrassment.. What I think is that some women do have hyper sensitive nipples.. There might be nothing wrong with u woman except that u might have to work on ur own state of mind each time u have to breast feed ur son.

Anonymous said...

Ikwerreboy u no serious. Mugu! Person dey talk serious ting u dey take am joke. Mtcheeeeeeeeew

Maimuna said...

I think you should take your mind off the fact that is not your hubby sucking your boobs but your son.

Anonymous said...

I think u shud see a doctor. I tink it a homonal thing. U are sure not developing any unhealthy sexual feelings toward ur son but rather the homones around ur breast or responsible for that are too sensitive. Just see a doctor.

Anonymous said...

Uhmm... Dis is smfin else! Dat ur son most b a reel ass niccur
*Estrano*

Livvsreamblog said...

Simple,she must really love sex or have alot of sex during her single

Anonymous said...

Dis is a crious issue so if u don't av a beta suggestion/comment,just kip ur Fu****g mout shut

Anonymous said...

Madam u nid counsellin...u re promiscus,# SHUGA LEE

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm, he must b a sex expert. Engel Tony

Anonymous said...

Please my dear I don't fnk its unhealthy, but I thnk u sud take this complain to another blog like www. wivestownhallconnection.com where you have mothers like you cos sincerely I don't think you will get the advice or solution to ur probln here aside from insults n irrelevent comment. I hope I was of help btw I'm not the owner of the blog oooo jst makn a suggestion to help a sister out.

Anonymous said...

It's normal, it's because it's ur first time of breast feeding ur baby. Don't worry it will soon stop. I.e. U will get used to it.

Bettygirl said...

Guess maybe its because this is the first child you are breastfeeding .....you should try and get ur mind occupied with some other things apart from sex when you are breastfeeding...Goodluck

Anonymous said...

puhahaha!! leave it like dat...dooont touch it!

Chuma said...

Shut up

Anonymous said...

It has nothing to do with ur son,I believe ur breast is ur soft spot and if any other person sucks ur breast d reaction u still be d same. Be careful tho...

Anonymous said...

Na waoaahhhh,what on earth am i hearing?this is absurd.u need help.

Anonymous said...

I'm not a med pro but I shuld think since it is ur first issue there are tendencies that u still have d feelings ur man is sucking ur nipples but not to worry u will get used to it.

Chuma said...

Lady what U̶̲̥̅̊ are experiencing is a hyper sensitivity in ur hormones which control sex and according to specialists, it is a good thing not a bad thing at all...so flex ur orgasm

Anonymous said...

m' a breast feeding mum too, pls u have to take ur mind off sex or else u will end up abusing ur son sexually.

Unknown said...

Hahaha wahala de... maybe its normal for a first timer or maybe its not.. ask ur doctor. Now how d hell am I supposed ta know? See gobe oo

Unknown said...

Gosh!!!!! Please visit d clinic n xplain to ur docto,dou it myt jus b dat u av a very sensitive hormone dat tends to always get high @ evry touch

Anonymous said...

It's natural and will pass.

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