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Sunday 5 January 2014

Dear LIB readers: Something happens to me when I'm breastfeeding

This has got to be the weirdest Dear LIB readers question ever. Wasn't sure if I should put it up but here it is...
"Linda and fellow LIB readers, please help! I am a nursing mother/wife. I get wet and sometime cum when I'm breastfeeding my 7 months old son who happens to be my first baby. When he suckles my breast...gosh! What is happening to me? Are there other mothers out there who have had similar feelings? What can I do to stop this? Am I developing unhealthy sexual feelings for my own son or what is this? Please I need help!

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Mrs. A said...

What the f*@k? Biko be careful what you pronounce abeg!!! This is strange. I am a nursing mum as well and I've never heard anything like this! Talk to a gynea abeg! Go for deliverance better stil

Gela said...

Lol...Lin it's nt a bad idea dat u put dis up hia cos honestly dats d question I kip askin mysef dat do women get wet wen breastfeeding? Well to d lady asking, I think it's natural since it's ur first tym probably in som weeks it mite stop wen u r used to ur baby sucking tho oda women say wat dey feel is pains due to d soreness caused frm d baby sucking, dey even get blisters. So I think u shld consult ur doctor bout this. Take care.

Anonymous said...

She probably likes her Breast sucked while fucking that's why some people that's what makes them cum, talking from experience. She needs therapy,or she should feed him with her mother in law present

Anonymous said...

Stop breastfeeding him,u don try abeg,7 months is ok,na man dey suck ur breast so na. Abeg carry d breast go give him pileh. U obviously have sexual gratification from having ur boobs sucked,its nothing to do with sexual feelings for ur son. U are ok,u are not a pervert

Anonymous said...

Lol..Is normal. Just enjoy the Cum

Say So said...

Very awkward but my wife had same experience while breastfeeding our baby girl. The only explanation is; you may have hot panty like my wife but try and get your mind off it.

Dr.Me said...

lol..I'm a doctor and my crazy imaginations have always insisted that this was possible. No I don't think you are developing unhealthy sexual feelings for your son. It is just your soft spot. Try taking your mind off the sexual feelings when breastfeeding him. But it really becomes weird if your husband doesn't make you feel same way. Linda, it's okay to post this for I think there are also a few other people experiencing this.

josykay said...

Hahahaha..I fink u shuld control ursef! Ur tots go wild wen he suckles dats y u go gaga..pls dnt molest him o!

Gela said...

Lol...Lin it's nt a bad idea dat u put dis up hia cos honestly dats d question I kip askin mysef dat do women get wet wen breastfeeding? Well to d lady asking, I think it's natural since it's ur first tym probably in som weeks it mite stop wen u r used to ur baby sucking tho oda women say wat dey feel is pains due to d soreness caused frm d baby sucking, dey even get blisters. So I think the best thing is u shld consult ur doctor bout this. Take care

Anonymous said...

What if the child were to be a girl? Same feelings?

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha

Anonymous said...

U need deliverance!

josykay said...

Hahahaha..I fink u shuld control ur emotions!ur tots go wild wen he suckles dats y u go gaga..pls dnt molest d boy o,dats ma own. *walks away*

Anonymous said...

Wow! This is strange. Never heard about women coming but most women feel ticklish or sensations when breastfeeding for the first time. I feel u though. Its an embarrassing situation but u should seek help. All the best!

k said...

I don't think she should be attacked. I've read about stuffs like this in other places. Shes not abnormal. We all know the nipple is a very sensitive part of the female body. I don't know how to solve it though. I think she should go on online forums for breastfeeding women. That should help. Or she should speak to her OB/GYN

Anonymous said...

What!? Woman u need deliverance cuz u re possessed, u can't have such a feeling 4 ur son let alone 7mnths. U need help from a psychiatrist. ASAP

Anonymous said...

I guess datz what turns u on normally...my advice pray against it maybe its spiritual or plzz take ur mind off it wen breastfeeding ur baby maybe with watching tv or so...neva heard of such so try.

Anonymous said...

Well, I dnt see anytin wrong in dat, you jst have to change ur mindset.

success igbinoba said...

Have not given birth before but I will give u my own advise, I tink u need to see a doctor becos dis question is technical becos some of d LIB readers are single n don't knw how to help but I really tink u should see a doctor for check up n Counselling. Tanks

Anonymous said...

I experienced a similar thing when I was still breastfeeding my daughter. Found it strange and funny. It could be because suckling of the nipple is naturally suppose to turn you on. I think with time you will be able to separate the feeding of your baby from anything sexual.

Anonymous said...

That's really weird!!!!!

Anonymous said...

No its okay some people even cum during child birth, he is stimulating ur needles thats the most sensitive part of a woman so its fine, that ur feeling stimulated, just go and shag your husband to justify the feeling. Google more on that

Anonymous said...

Please talk to ur husband abt it. Dats d only way. Who knows? Maybe u guys can turn it into one of ur sexual adventures. It's not so much if a bad tin.

j-13 said...

nice Dude,is possible you are very sensitive and is natural

missthang said...

Its normal don't be afraid!

Anonymous said...

Wow, dis really serious. Tink u shld see a doctor cos its really unusual if u ask me. Except it means u lacked d brest sucking game wit ur husband.

Anonymous said...

Itz called "pleasurable breast-feeding".Itz natural, though nt wt every woman. Most women are too ashamed to share this,dnt let anyone make u feel like an evil-minded person. Dnt stop breast-feeding ur child,coz datz what most women end up doing. Note: breast-feeding is for ur both good......It helps to prevent breast cancer n makes ur child healthy. Linda,pls neva deprive anyone help dat needs it. Thank u for eventually sharing her story,some ppl here are also going thru same but too ashamed to share.
Timville

j-13 said...

is natural and there is nothing wrong about that,you just have to control ur feelings and get use to it

Anonymous said...

Its not weird to me anymore cos hubby told me smtime last month that a friend of his confided in him abt dis. Now my conclusion is: the problem is more of psychological, u need councelling/therapy. U should be d one protecting him from sexual abuse not d otherway round.see a councellor not LiBrs

Anonymous said...

You really need help...

missthang said...

There is nothing wrong with you! Its just hormones, enjoy it while it last ok.

Lepa shandy said...

You are a whore with no sexual control.
That means if a dog touches u,u wld cum.
Bitch,u need deliverance
Mfm all the way...

Anonymous said...

Is not normal @ all...visit ur dr or pastor n pray about it. U shud rightfully make love 2 ur husband n cum. Or are u a mermaid spirit?

Anonymous said...

Pls see a gynaecologist ma. Had sumtin similar nd dey said it was an hormonal disorder. Pls dnt be scared and talk to God too, if its spiritual or jst a disorder, he handles both perfectly well. @ ikwereboy, y wud u be joking abt sumtin of ds magnitude na? Stop making pple bad for sharing their probs here, if u can't keep quiet nd let those who can do. U go get case to ans wit God oo

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Anonymous said...

I think it's normal, as a gynaecologist in making...though not a common event/ people feel ashamed abt it, but scientifically, its d same hormone dt causes ejection of milk dt's also at work here (oxytocin)...so be rest assured dt it's quite normal....Dr T

Anonymous said...

Hormones!

Anonymous said...

It's a very normal response of the body to sucking of the breast whether by a baby or a man . Nothing is wrong with you.

Anonymous said...

I think it's normal, as a gynaecologist in making...though not a common event/ people feel ashamed abt it, but scientifically, its d same hormone dt causes ejection of milk dt's also at work here (oxytocin)...so be rest assured dt it's quite normal....Dr T

Anonymous said...

◦hmmm!.. There's problem ☹☹ ..

Anonymous said...

Smh, am a nursing mum too and I dnt feel like that,my second baby actuallly, and my nipple\breast is the only part of my body that my hubby wll touch and I wll get turned on,buh while baby is sucking, nothing do me, cos na baby,Holy spirit lo need to clear ur useless sexual feelings for ur lil boy.....

zee said...

U nid to c a doctor

mimi said...

OMG. Nne we need divine intervention on dis one o

Anonymous said...

Ds is serious I hv 3 kids,ds has never happened be4,u need to see a doctoc.Linda I hp u will post ds.

Anonymous said...

U should go back 2 d hospital,u av d wrong baby

Bamidele Adetayo said...

Lol. Bein ur first child, its not abnormal, wit time u will be able to control it.

Anonymous said...

Breast suckling sends a positive feedback to the pituitary to release oxytocin. Oxytocin stimulates more breast milk letdown as well as orgasm, pair bonding & anxiety. it is a natural phenomenon. Every woman feels it in her own unique way. There is nothing to worry about.

Emmanuel Ayeni said...

isn't that strange?

Anonymous said...

Dead!!! :(

Anonymous said...

Well sometimes it happens dat way cause you're still a young lady and ur libido is active. Your body will soon get use to it. It happened to me once,my snr sis gave me a go ahead to breast feed her baby because she has twins and was breast feeding one of them while at de same time de other baby was also cry(so she culd atleast stop crying till de mom feeds her wit de ripe breast),wen I breast fed de baby,I didn't come sha oh but I felt good and horny somehow lolz(my little secret). Ever since then I always wnt to breast feed. *God help me to give birth to mine*

Anonymous said...

Omo noting way we no go see

Anonymous said...

i guess u ask ur doctor.

Anonymous said...

hello don't be scared..basically when the baby suckles on the breast it causes release of some hormones from the brain..some of those hormones are linked to sexual arousal..its just a phase and would be over soon..



Anonymous said...

I don't know if it's normal to cum but I know women could get aroused when their baby suckles, thanks to hormones. If you cum, you probably over think it or do something to yourself when the feelings come. Dunno, just saying

Anonymous said...

Hormones!

Anonymous said...

hi woman, if this is really true, then quit breastfeeding, u just said the baby is 7months already. alternatively, express milk, i dont get how u can ask us if u r developing feelings for your son, we should be asking you cos your feeling is very unusual. pls do not get to d point of molesting your son, quit breast feeding him!

Anonymous said...

I guess u shud see a doctor.aunty linda if u lyk no pst my comment

Anonymous said...

U need prayer

Anonymous said...

It is mind over matter. U need to keep breast feeding but you need to take control of your mind.

Anonymous said...

It is mind over matter. U need to keep breast feeding but you need to take control of your mind.

Unknown said...

Wow! U really need to see a doctor for a therapy...this is really awkward. I have a mail child And I never remembered feeling like that during d lactation period. I think u are developing a seriious psycological problems, which could make u do more weird things to ur baby if u don't get a therapy...now!

Unknown said...

Wow! That's kinda odd.

bugacious said...

its simple. stop breastfeeding.get good formulars...Enfamil, aptamil, etc

don't let d power of d winches chasing you prevail....

nothing wey my ears no go hear....

Anonymous said...

Your nipples are extremely sensitive that's all. Try touching them frequently when you are not breastfeeding so you get use to it being stimulated. I hope that helps.

Unknown said...

Datz scary....u nid help asap

Ziora said...

Its nt normal at all....
Visit a hospital as soon as possible

lalasblog said...

it's perfectly normal. if you can get wet from a guy sucking on it, it's perfectly normal to get that way from a child doing the same. http://www.momlogic.com/2009/09/women_who_orgasm_during_breastfeeding.php

Anonymous said...

Wow,now that's something...I hope Libers will be able to help you on this one

Unknown said...

I get the same feeling too bt mine faded off quickly b4 6months...dnt wory wen he starts growing teeth n starts bitting u,den d feeling ll fade away

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

You're not alone on this, it happens to my Aunty too.

Unknown said...

Maybe U̶̲̥̅̊ should stop breastfeeding, A̶̲̥̅̊Ώ̶̲̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ go see ur Pastor as well.

Anonymous said...

Guy, you no well o.

Unknown said...

Maybe U̶̲̥̅̊ should stop breastfeeding, A̶̲̥̅̊Ώ̶̲̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ go see ur Pastor as well.

Anonymous said...

Dere is nothing to b scared of I experienced it also wit my daughter.it just goes to show that ur boobs are very sensitive.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm Linda,dis one pass me oo...e strong gan! Dat boy will grow up 2 b such a badt guy i swear!

Anonymous said...

#word #kingkoded

Anonymous said...

Oboi ur dat boy go play match well well

Unknown said...

Jesus !!!!!wtf ??

Anonymous said...

Madam u nid to go for deliverance, its unhealthy of u to b feelin lik dat

Unknown said...

Hahahahahahaha !!!!ur a mad man !lmao

Anonymous said...

I knw exactly wat ur going tru.. Wen I Gave birth to my baby and started breast feeding I was expecting myself to feel awkward or have an awkward tot. BT it neva came becos I look. at him as my child and I cloud my tots with his face cos I knw DAT d weirdest tin is actually feeling horny wen my baby is suckling.. So my dear ur not a bad mother by coming in terms with ur situation ...
When ur breastfeeding tell urself Dis ur baby trying to eat and be healthy not ur hubby trying to get his groove on and look at his/her face with mothers eyes not horny lovers eyes distinguish d both... Good luck dear. Mum and Antonio

Anonymous said...

Awww to me I guess u are just so sensual n u easily fantasize by any lil sense of touch all I can tell u is dat whenever he is sucking ur breast think of other things n remove ur mind from it u ll see the diff

Anonymous said...

I am not surprised. I use to think something like this can happen. I recently asked a lady how she feels when she breast feed her baby, she just laughed, she never knew what I was driving at.

Ng said...

lol. @ IKWERREBOY. but jokes apart, i ve never heard of this before. Sorry, i dont know what to say.

Anonymous said...

NO you arent having feelings for your son, its more sensual than sexual actually. Its normal since there are oxytocins and nerves etc. SO its quite normal for you to have an orgasm while breast feeding. People also orgasm when giving birth

Unknown said...

yekpa!!!!....we must summon the gods on this matter...what i'm i saying sef, u must carry sacrifice...

3gallons of palm oil, 6tubers of abuja yam, 2basket of spring onions, 6kg of irish potatoes, scorpions venom, kangaroo's left ear, 113th scale on a crocodile's hide, a lions 157th hair from its mane....and yeah, frying pan...the gods must be appeased b4 they reply ur question....u can add spices to help out


Anonymous said...

Your problem is psychological, It's all about your thinking,alway remind your self that this is your little son and not your husband,even though they might look alike, voice it to him all the time especially during breast fedding , believe me U will feel better.

Anonymous said...

You need deliverance on a serious note, pls go nd see your pastor

Anonymous said...

I think it's a normal reaction. I ve heard this before. Don't remember when or where

Anonymous said...

Hahaha have always wondered too..its an errogenous spot so it shud tickle you...its normal

Mzjerkinz said...

R u for real?u rily nid to visit a psychatric hosiptal!

hilary obiorah said...

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha! No comment!

Anonymous said...

Gold.

Anonymous said...

I don't think you are developing any sexual feeling for your son, I just think your breast is that part of your body which turns you on faster...so it is not unusual.
If mothers will be sincere enough, you will know that you aren't the only one who feels this way, they may not reach orgasm like you do, but some mothers get that tingly feeling when they Suckle their babies

Anonymous said...

Its a thing of your mind. You need to know when your breasts are being used for nourishment for your baby or as sexual objects for your partner. Clearly, there is no separation from these two in your mind. See someone

Anonymous said...

Sick thoughts mom.

Anonymous said...

When you breasfeed your body releases certain hormones that cause almost orgasmic feeling, it is natures way if if helping mothers to enjoy it,however it is not sexual, n why dnt you go on mother forums online or google it, instead of bringing such here, how many mothers will reply u, u have jus opened ur self to recurve insults

Anonymous said...

I guess it has to be due to hormonal stimulation that is being triggered by your baby whenever he's being breast fed(Oxytocin-prolactin-uterine contraction mechanism).Whenever your baby latches on your nipple,oxytocin is released which stimulates your uterus causing it to contract and since there is connection between your uterus and the cervix,there cld be associated cervical contraction resulting in the discharge you see(cervical mucus) whenever you breast feed your baby.

Anonymous said...

Its a psychological thing,maybe u luv it wen u re bn suckled,so try and work on ur psychology.he's ur babe nt ur husband

Saganity said...

@IKWERREBOY, you're so stupid for that comment ... This Lady needed help because she cums while breastfeeding .... I mean like CUMMING down there DUL! (in jennifer's voice) ... So the baby should be sucking down there not up there .... #dumbass

Anonymous said...

Hahaha linda, the person that sent you that message is a joker lolz.. If the message is true sha, omo girls make una watch out for that boy o! he go suck nipple off, lick p**sy close lolz

Anonymous said...

I breast fed 3 kids & I never got that feeling. I felt sleepy that's all. The only time I get wet is when my HUSBAND sucks on my nipples. I guess urs is so sensitive & if u are thinking sexual thoughts well breastfeeding then talk to ur Doctor. Pray & get help.

Anonymous said...

lmao...this isn't really weird. i read it somewhere that lactating mothers "MAY" develop sexual feelings when breast feeding. don't freak out dear. it will pass. And ignore all the negative comments people would post.

Anonymous said...

Its normal to have that feeling my dear...the way you feel during breatfeeding is just a normal physiological process that occurs when ur breast is been suckled either by your hubby or baby...don't fret,it would stop when u stop breastfeeding finally.... Best wishes...

Anonymous said...

Pls ma pray against this. This the devil playing tricks on ur mind. If that's the case buy a milk pumper, n pump the milk into the bottles n feed him from there. You can also do that n to have ur sexual thoughts hav ur husband suck rather thAn the baby.

Anonymous said...

Its normal to have that feeling my dear...the way you feel during breatfeeding is just a normal physiological process that occurs when ur breast is been suckled either by your hubby or baby...don't fret,it would stop when u stop breastfeeding finally.... Best wishes...

Anonymous said...

hahaha its actually physiological ..you secrete a hormone called oxytocin when you breast feed ur son..this hormone leads to uterine contraction and could possibly result in the reaction ur experiencing..

Anonymous said...

Omg! I'm short of words

Fashiontinz.com said...

Breastfeeding has been known to produce some stimulating effect, but it shouldn't be to the extent of sexual pleasure... You just need to program your mind From wandering to certain places and focus on the innocence of breastfeeding a baby. fashiontinz.com

AaronKore said...

EwwwwW!!!!!!! Pervert is what you are madam.

Anonymous said...

Ikwereboy ur just a dumb ass dude,d young mum needs help A̶̲̥̅̊nϑ all U̶̲̥̅̊ can say is dis? Oh shut d hell up! Well my advice U̶̲̥̅̊ maa is dat everytin is in †ђξ mind,so I feel if U̶̲̥̅̊ try to control wat U̶̲̥̅̊ tink of while breast feeding dis could help U̶̲̥̅̊ a lot, or rather just take ur mind off it.⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥Ơ̴̴̴͡K⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥

Anonymous said...

pls seek medical help.

Unknown said...

The sexual feeling towards your 7months old baby is kinda bad tho

Breanna Blogs Life said...

Wow lol. Have a feeling this isn't normal lol but I doubt it's sexual feeling towards your son... It's probably psychological perhaps because your husband does it to you so your brain associates it with sex... I suggest speaking to your GP or never allowing your husband to suck your breasts again lol

Anonymous said...

@chux.com.........my dear is mind set,talk to yourself and pray seriously about it,you can also talk to your husband about it if he's your friend.

Anonymous said...

Try to focus ur mind on something else while breastfeeding. Am a nursing mother i thought dat would be d case wen i had my baby,but it wasn't. Is just normal to me now,i care more in feeding my baby dan feeding my mind with such feelings. if u can't stop it on ur own,pls stop breastfeeding d poor boy abeg.

Esther .O. said...

There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Breastfeeding feels good! If it didn't, very few mothers would do it. It might help to understand just what hormonal responses are taking place.

As your baby nurses, prolactin — known as the "mothering hormone" — stimulates the body to manufacture milk. This hormone gives you a feeling of relaxation and well-being. Oxytocin, another hormone secreted during breastfeeding, causes the alveoli to contract, releasing milk into the ducts, the milk sinuses, and your baby's mouth. This hormone is responsible for the tingling sensation some mothers feel before a milk ejection reflex, or letdown, and the postpartum uterine cramping felt while breastfeeding.

Oxytocin also causes labor contractions during childbirth and pleasure contractions during orgasm. Varying amounts of oxytocin are attributed to these different contractions. The arousal you describe while nursing may also be the result of the empowerment and satisfaction you feel knowing that you are meeting all of your son's nutritional and emotional needs at the breast.

Unknown said...

Ah! Jesu.😭

Unknown said...

Ah! Jesu.😭

Anonymous said...

This happens to many women and is most likely a result of past (or current) sexual experiences, e.g. if your husband plays with your nipples/breasts during foreplay. You are OBVIOUSLY NOT sexually attracted to your son. Your body is simply used to getting a sexual response from any contact with your nipples so it's happening while you breastfeed as well.

If you want to keep breastfeeding, get a breast pump and put your milk into a bottle so you can keep giving your son good natural breast milk without being worried about getting a sexual reaction. OR use alternative baby food or formula.

Anonymous said...

I think its weird but it is what it is so enjoy it

Anonymous said...

My dear u shld have stop breast feeding him @ 6 month

Anonymous said...

There is nothing unusual about what you're experiencing. Your nipple is your Gspot. It doesn't matter who sucks your nipple,you will experience the same thing.

Anonymous said...

I honestly think u shld see a doctor, I think it has to do with your hormone

Anonymous said...

Mrs, i think u got that desire from ur bf or bfriends. It has nothing to do with the baby. U Probably used to dat kind of feeling when guys KISS U THERE.

fineboy said...

Notin to panic ure not weird I found it funny really

Anonymous said...

Nope, no thing is wrong with you, the orgasms you haven't is a watch of releasing tension, me when I cry or under in tense pressure I cum. That's when I van think straight.

Anonymous said...

google is your friend and if you had used it, you will know it is normal. but your reasonning boggles me

Anonymous said...

u have overly sensitive breast. Use breast pumps instead and feed him the breast milk thru a bottle.

Anonymous said...

Breastfeeding causes contraction/tightening of the uterus. That's why new mothers are encouraged to nurse so they can lose weight and their uterus and tummy can go back to shape. This tightening also causes blood to expel (in cases of a new mum) so it's not surprising that she would experience what she's experiencing (if blood is no longer present, something else may come out). How can that mean ure having feelings for your son? That's so stupid

Anonymous said...

Lol....are u sure he is not a reincannation ôf one of ur dead lost love.
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Anonymous said...

You need help fast! Absolutely strange.....am sure Linda lied about this post.....

Shyla said...

I have often pondered on such sensations. But I don't think you are developing anything for your son. Just that your son strikes the 'right note' on your breasts. But not to worry, wait till he sucks you till you get sore and clamps his teeth on ur nipples. Then u go no what's up. Lol

Anonymous said...

U DEY CRAZE

Doris said...

This is absolutely wrong!! Pls advise or hubby to take care of or needs and
Stop breastfeeding. Am mother N never experienced such

Anonymous said...

http://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc

It is normal since your uterus contracts when you breast feed.

Phaeton Phoenix said...

i am a dude, i dont know shit.

lol. this may be the best and most orgasm u may receive in a long time. enjoy it while it lasts!

I just hope you don't turn out to fancy your son when he turns 15.

Anonymous said...

May God help you.

Anonymous said...

Plz tell ur hubby and then u guys have to teach each other d way he/she wants 2 hv Sex. Is more better, cs ur breast maybe ur source of horny.

Anonymous said...

It's normal! It just means the nerve endings in your nipples work.

kendall flower said...

Thats y its said..... The love of a child.... Its not to b alarming if it happens.... U r lucky then cos mine was irritating me.

Anonymous said...

Any doc in d hauz?

Anonymous said...

That is so true, cos i'm a nursing mother also and my two month old son makes me feel the same way.

The Duchess said...

Biko take am easy o. Maybe u shud flick ur bean bfr breastfeeding. So u are nt even thnkn of tht wen ur breastfeeding

graycee said...

OMG...come against that spirit in the mighty name of Jesus

Lucy said...

Pray about it.

Anonymous said...

Wow! I'm hearing that for d first time😐😒

Anonymous said...

I think it's ur mind set, wen breastfeeding, try to take ur mind off any romantic tot. Also pray about. It, God will help u

Anonymous said...

I dont think is normal my advice is to stop breast feeding him. Linda pls post my comment

Anonymous said...

Weirdo

Anonymous said...

Pls see a doctor immediately.

Dr Obi-X said...

There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Breastfeeding feels good! If it didn't, very few mothers would do it. It might help to understand just what hormonal responses are taking place.

As your baby nurses, prolactin — known as the "mothering hormone" — stimulates the body to manufacture milk. This hormone gives you a feeling of relaxation and well-being. Oxytocin, another hormone secreted during breastfeeding, causes the alveoli to contract, releasing milk into the ducts, the milk sinuses, and your baby's mouth. This hormone is responsible for the tingling sensation some mothers feel before a milk ejection reflex, or letdown, and the postpartum uterine cramping felt while breastfeeding.

Oxytocin also causes labor contractions during childbirth and pleasure contractions during orgasm. Varying amounts of oxytocin are attributed to these different contractions. The arousal you describe while nursing may also be the result of the empowerment and satisfaction you feel knowing that you are meeting all of your daughter's nutritional and emotional needs at the breast.

Anonymous said...

Nope, shouldn't be happening. I am a breastfeeding mom of a 7 months old baby too.. You get tickled sometimes, rarely but pleaseeee to get aroused??? that's just ridiculous.. You probably look at ur baby's peepee, him on ur nipple and imagine things.. u are soo preverted please

awajis said...


It's ur imaginations dat is cusing it. U need to work on ur mind to stop imagining things when u breast feed. nothing is wrong with u, absolutely nothing. "but be ya transformed by the renewing of ur minds." so s bible said......

Anonymous said...

Please click on the link below for answers.
Is it normal to feel aroused when I'm breastfeeding? | BabyCenter
http://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc

gazo said...

This is wird, I think yoU need to see a doctor, make sure u do dat fast, I hope its not bcos of your LIBIDO

Anonymous said...

Maybe its cos of the thot u hv attached to sm1 suckling on ur tities.
But I hv often wondered abt this oooo. Interesting that sm1 is experiencing it.

Dr. Who said...

It is absolutely normal. The nipple areas contains a lot of nerve endings, thus very sensitive. It is one of few reactions you experience while breast feeding. Many women experience it.

PS. I'm a health educator. Do not fret. Goodluck :)

Unknown said...

Ask ur doctor,he shuld b in a better position 2. Answer u.

Anonymous said...

How on earth?u have to move closer to yuor God and also pray for your child

Anonymous said...

Its normal ,nothing to be afraid.a few percent of new mums experience this. There are a few women who come during foreplay when their nipples are caressed.you are probably one of the few blessed ones. Relax ,your body will soon adjust.

jvc said...

lolzz ask ur mother n change his sucklin position

Anonymous said...

mumu ikwerreboi...u b d most stupid boi todai...very unlearned

habeesolha said...

Loooooool, I laff in urobo,,,, u r nt developin any sexual anyfin towards ur son,,,, u just get problem ni,, I'm sure men suckin ur nipples will b ur sexual weakness, buh 4 fuck sakes,, dis is ur own son doin it!!....u get problem ooo, go to d hospital n complain or pray sincerely abt it



*habeesolha

Anonymous said...

This is unheard of. The earlier you seek a medical help the better for you.

Anonymous said...

End time thingz - u need JESUS and GOD separately.

Anonymous said...

It could be that your most erogenous zone is your breast,. Women's clitoris is usually the most sensitive among others but for the fact that you get aroused to the point of cumming suggests your nipples are as up and doing as your vagina.The body's wiring may probably be at work there. You need to work on detaching your mind from the attendant sensations during breastfeeding. Though not easy, do see a gynaecologist for further advice

Anonymous said...

Horny bitch.. You must be a nymph

Anonymous said...

It's nomal, you are not developing any sexual feeling. It happens to lots of women, they get wet some times slept off.

Anonymous said...

Na woa o, dis is d first time am hearing dis o, very strange...U reali need 2pray seriously abut it o...its unheard of #Luchi.P.#

Anonymous said...

Your brain just connect the nipple sucking to sex and hence, you coming.It doesnt mean, you feel sexual towards your son.

Anonymous said...

I have no clue. But this is a setious medical challenge. Help, please.

Unknown said...

You're perfectly alright. My girl is 2 now n am expecting my second baby soon God willing and it happened to me then too but not till I come (lol) just d sensation. It's really intense at first but I got used to it. It has to do with hormones am sure. Fear NOT u r fine. Just try n control it if u know what I mean ;)

Anonymous said...

lol@ikwere boy, that's sick though. Madam is very natural, there are a lot of nerve endings in your nipples, hence terrifying a series of nerve reactions through out your body. You are not developing feelings for your son. I'm sure you used to come that way with your husband too and since he can't be at your nipple cos of the milk, your body is just compensating. Once,Try having sex with your hubby just before you breast feed and make sure you come, then best feed and see what happens.

Gbabe said...

Lmao @ real G. I think her nipples are just too sensitive.

Anonymous said...

I would say your reaction is normal, but your son is now 7mo!! The first few times I nursed my daughter (now 2+), I also got wet and was aroused. I had to force my mind to think about other things while I breastfed her. I never had sexual thoughts and after the first few times, the arousal went away.

What are you thinking about while you breastfeed???

Most women have to REALLY be in the mood to cum and I think you have some thoughts going on in your head that are contributing to all you mention.



***Lush

Unknown said...

U r fine dear. My girl is 2 n am expecting my second baby soon God willing and I experienced it. Although not as intense as urs (lol) but to an extent. I just got used to it. Try n control urs it's hormones n it's normal. Fear not. Or see ur gynaecologist

Anonymous said...

Madam, ur husband shuld never find out that he's 7months old boy dos better.
engr_ngzee

Tomjosh said...

i think it's a mind set issue, what do you think about when you breastfeed the little lad? if u can try to reset your mind from such imaginations... u know now, u will seize from such thought while feeding the cute lad.

Unknown said...

Lady you have nothing to be embarrassed about. It's oxytocin, the hormone released during breastfeeding, orgasms and childbirth. Your body is just reacting to it this way. It may just have increased your libido and that's it. A lot of other women have had the same experience, and this link below will tell you more.

Live life, love your kid and be yourself, you're totally normal.

http://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc

Anonymous said...

Your mind set is weird. Wakeup, separate your role as a mother and a wife.

Anonymous said...

I suspect this is a huge lie

Anonymous said...

Your mind set is weird. Wakeup, separate your role as a mother and a wife.

pretty mabel said...

i tink u need medical help.so c a doctor

Snow White said...

What kinda story is this abeg? Am a mum too and this is not neccesary at all.linda pls stop posting everytin.dosent make sense

Anonymous said...

My dear, there's nothing prayer cannot do

Nikita said...

That is not supposed to be happening..... It's not normal at all, there's something wrong somewhere...

Anonymous said...

D lil boy knows d work better dan ur man lol

Toronto Finest said...

Chai the kid sabi suck tits oooo. Lol lol. She couldn't even control herself. Women sha

Anonymous said...

It is normal, nothing is wrong with you. It will stop with time. I had classmate who had the same issue and she shared it with our professor in our Human Sexuality class and the professor explained to her nothing is wrong is just that some women experiences are diff while breastfeeding so don't beat up yourself.

Anonymous said...

Trust me dear, its totally normal, I've been in the same boat. Just njoy being a mother. Its your hormones @ work.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes when the nipple is being touched,you feel some saNsatios,but wondering why it should be your son,mayb over time,it will stop

Anonymous said...



lactation consultant
There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Breastfeeding feels good! If it didn't, very few mothers would do it. It might help to understand just what hormonal responses are taking place.

As your baby nurses, prolactin — known as the "mothering hormone" — stimulates the body to manufacture milk. This hormone gives you a feeling of relaxation and well-being. Oxytocin, another hormone secreted during breastfeeding, causes the alveoli to contract, releasing milk into the ducts, the milk sinuses, and your baby's mouth. This hormone is responsible for the tingling sensation some mothers feel before a milk ejection reflex, or letdown, and the postpartum uterine cramping felt while breastfeeding.

Oxytocin also causes labor contractions during childbirth and pleasure contractions during orgasm. Varying amounts of oxytocin are attributed to these different contractions. The arousal you describe while nursing may also be the result of the empowerment and satisfaction you feel knowing that you are meeting all of your daughter's nutritional and emotional needs at the breast.
I hope this short explanation helps to put your mind at ease. I googled it for you. So in the future make google your friend. lol

Anonymous said...

Thats crazy mehn...Ise aye niyen o. LOL...Kidding, i blv your nipples are just too sensitive and by the time you hv ur second baby u shld be fine...You too stop imaging say na man dey suck ur b..bs common. lol

Anonymous said...

You are such unlucky! It shows that u used to cum and become wet whenever his dad and other guys suck ur breast during offensive sex! U are under hormonal influence..
-Yemoh.

Unknown said...

It means that your son will be a real play boy mansion.

Unknown said...

I think the doctor in the house should have something to say to that. And in case there is no meaningful or reasonable contribution from this quarter, please I will suggest you consult a medical personnel who will tell you what's actually going on.

Anonymous said...

Its nt normal, cos I'm nursing my second child presently nd ve neva xperienced such. Maybe u always remeba hw ur hubby sucks ur booby each tym u're nursing ur child. U can seek help, all d best.

olatunji said...

Smh

Anonymous said...

If he is 7months old I think u should stop breast feeding him and let him b on milk n cereal. Meanwhile teach ur husband the proper way u like to b sucked on d boobs that way u won't have anymore feelings for ur son during breastfeeding. I have 3kids both male. N female and have never felt what u r feeling. I guess ur husband has not touch u sexually in a long time.

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