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Friday, 13 September 2013

Question of the day: Would you give your kidney to someone you are dating?

Say you love them and you've been dating for a long time (but not married) and they need a kidney, would you offer yours? Why and why not?

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Anonymous said...

I de mad?

Anonymous said...

No I won't try it, not even my husband. Can only give my brothers and sisters.

Anonymous said...

Dat'll depend...buh d truth z u can't knw all pple can be up to...he culd be all swit nd nice to u nd change in future without blinking dt u gave him a kidney...

ada said...

Mabinu meehnnn! Baby I am sorry I jus Kent Mehn! Kidney kor liver ni!

Unknown said...

Linda u could have ask if we could cut off our head for someone we are dating kidney bawo

Anonymous said...

Duh!!!!!

tolupizzle said...

ko joo

LaBomba said...

Ontop dating,no b only give na givty.

Wiseman said...

The easiest way to show and prove to her that you can do anything for her is to give out the kidney to her. The genesis of what you guys are about to share together in future is to start by giving it to her. It`s the right thing to do.

Unknown said...

maybe

Unknown said...

i dont think so

luvly said...

Question for the gods !

Anonymous said...

Capital No except we have children together

Kenneth said...

I would glad to do just that without any hesitation. I encourage anyone to do same b`cos women are great!

Davies said...

Last thing even if we re married NO xcept we have lasted long in our marriage

Anonymous said...

That's a gift of life, sure I will give out mine to the one I love.

Anonymous said...

Ko jooor!!!....Except there's a child btw us, if not its NO!! she might say no after gettin my kidney n marry another man.
-shzy

Anonymous said...

Someone I ve been dating, for a long time and he's nt deemed it fit to marry me,now he wants my kidney,NO WAY!I no fit fall mugu like that now!Haba Linda!

Mc Soprano said...

Very tricky question. But I think I could.
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dee said...

If I plan on marrying this person y not.. I dnt think I cld marry the person otherwise, Cuz it would mean all d hassles of continuous dialysis. On the other hand people r dangerous and one has to be careful..

jyde said...

The most common language on this blog is "first to comment" and it really sucks, must pple tell us they are the 1st to comment. Reminds me of when we were kid, we say "the last is a fool" and everyone begins to race. lolz

Anonymous said...

I wouldn't try such

Anonymous said...

NEVER... Because we Jusτ̅ datin deres no insurance dere!

Anonymous said...

HEll NO.....

Anonymous said...

No way...not happening,when am not married to him.

Anonymous said...

Depends....Not sure

Anonymous said...

what is the worth of a kidney?

Anonymous said...

No altering my body for organ donations

Anonymous said...

Na serious 1 o. It depens sha cos dts som 1 u r nt yet show weda she wil b ur wife. Bt na love sha anytin cn hapen.

Anonymous said...

no

Unknown said...

If there is every tendency that am going to survive it I will, not because his my boyfriend or that I love him. But because of my love for man kind. Considering only the fact that his my boyfriend or that I love him I may not, this is because most guys are not worth such sacrifice

Anonymous said...

No way.cos am he he would give me his.

Dodo Ikire said...

Dat depends r we a match? If we r hw coincidental��
Or was it all planned? Hmmmmm!!really begs the question r u for real!��
Just trying to kip it real, as u don Sabi say love is no longer blind but now wear glasses n has 20/20 vision!

ohiloveme said...

No,lailai,reason is that you cannot trust this guys,not even all husbands qualify sef,one man will now carry my kidney to be nacking other women.

Unknown said...

If there is every tendency that am going to survive it I will, not because his my boyfriend or that I love him. But because of my love for man kind. Considering only the fact that his my boyfriend or that I love him I may not, this is because most guys are not worth such sacrifice

Anonymous said...

He wont give me his so NO WAY

Anonymous said...

BiGggg yessss, becos of Love

Livvsreamblog said...

Straight answer NO

Anonymous said...

www.fb.me/kingerjay.noni

Anonymous said...

Lips ar sealed, lindiway can u gv urs?

Unknown said...

never bt well its all about choice

Anonymous said...

For Wat? How can I gv a man am dating? Il rada gv sm1 I don't know, Wat if he dumps my ass nd I nw ve kidney failure. Wat next? ...kmt...oloshi move

victor frank said...

i wil if d lv is wort dyn 4

King OLa said...

Hell No...... Never people change what is he/she break up with me later. Am i going to get my kidney back nope..............so hell no

Anonymous said...

Hell No...... Never people change what is he/she break up with me later. Am i going to get my kidney back nope..............so hell no

Ihuoma said...

Immediately. Won't even thnk twice once its a match.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm

Anonymous said...

I can.. As long as I love him.

Diweri Benibile said...

No I can't,Na boyfriend no b husband o.giving my boyfriend my kidney na rough play na,If I hear say I give am,make I knw why.make him no even give me him own,I no want

Anonymous said...

No i won't and if it was me dnt give me.

Keelah said...

Lai Lai. I can't even give my kidney for money. Well maybe, if we are married sha, or if he'll do d same for me.

Unknown said...

For wetin????so he will carry my kidney and climb another gal.tufiakwa

Anonymous said...

M sure dis piece is inspired by ur friend Emmanuel Ugolee who got married @ d registry 2day. How com u hvent uploaded d pixs hr, wus expectin to catch a glimpse here.

Anonymous said...

dnt tink so

Anonymous said...

Ah!dating?no,Never not dating but married.

Anonymous said...

To offer my kidney... I dey crazy?

Anonymous said...

Y not, so far the true love exist

Anonymous said...

not in this world will i do that.

snowblaq said...

Nt if d relationship isn't serious....otherwise, i would....bt only if we get married first..

Anonymous said...

Linda...notin go make try am self...luv is blind na before ooh...no be now.

elo tasha said...

I no go try am....! Wanna go to heaven with my complete body,I no fit find replacement when I get there

snowblaq said...

Not if d relationship isn't serious...otherwise i wld...bt we wld hv to get married first

Anonymous said...

HELL NO

Anonymous said...

Abeg have dey kidnapped Linda also???

Anonymous said...

NIET!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

yes even if it is not someone am dating as long as am in the position to do so without hurting my self

Anonymous said...

yes oh

Buki said...

NO! Laaye! So that he can use the kidney to marry another girl? Why? We are not yet married!

Anonymous said...

I will, Not just because I love him but also because I can help save any soul if I was the only match.

Anonymous said...

We aint married yet.........she hasnt said for better for worse..in sickness & health... till death do us part. Anytin still fit happen ooooo. Make she no carry my kidney follow anoda man. Never say never

Anonymous said...

Aside my pussy, boob n lips, I can't donate nothing 2 him

Anonymous said...

Someone A̶̲̥̅ dating ke!!! To give M̶̲̥̅ξ wife self i go tink A̶̲̥̅ trice...Linda dis ur question b somehow ooooo. Wetin just pain M̶̲̥̅ξ be say we no go see ur own comment...post M̶̲̥̅ξ comment oooo or else wetin hapun for 1999 go hapun oooo

Anonymous said...

LOL! For what?!.. Before I give you, you must sign an undertaking that you will marry me immediately. No matter the situation.

Anonymous said...

Impossible!...so he can leave me 4sm1 else afta d whole show?...I can only do it if I'm married 2him. ~Omo Akin~

Anonymous said...

If I really do love him........why d hell not??? Very much can.

Anonymous said...

GOD FORBID!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I can't xcept if we r engaged,if we r mere dating I can't.....so sori if I break ur @ linda. ~Honidee~

Anonymous said...

I'll never do such a thing, give kidney 2 a gurl I'm just dating? †ЂΑ̲†s unforgiveable. She wil ve to die o coz she ain't #blood#

Anonymous said...

Post my coment oo linda,am d frst to comment ~honidee~....if u don't I will b angry,cos I just 4give u ni sef

Hajjo said...

The hell I wont!!!!!! Nuh-uhh!!! Nigga u NEED a kidney, u go join the line just like other regular sick ppl. I'll be there right beside you all the way holding your hands, praying for yuh. N any "voice" whispering in my heart to give u my kidney must be a denom I will bind n cast to the pit of hell! PERIOD (in Jennifer Lewis' voice)

jakes beatz said...

I dey mad!!!

Anonymous said...

If i eventually face the situation i will surely come back to give you my answer Linda. Buh before that don't he/she has family's members to offer him/her the kidney??? #justAskingOhhh

Anonymous said...

Hi ~honidee~

Anonymous said...

No is the answer

Anonymous said...

I'll definitely give him mine!!! Cos he deserves evry part of me nd has taken a bullet 4 me..


---Taemy---

brosss said...

If I hear say my kidney leave my body! If I hear?!

nekysparkles said...

Nva

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Seniorman said...

Hia!!!!!!! I no fit tryam for this economic meltdown??? No way love should crash not even my wife but galfrnd????

Miss J said...

It will so not happen...

Anonymous said...

I dey krase ni...sum1 I'm dating not married to,hian...I can't and won't,waat if d prsn cum well after giving am my kidney cum later break up wit me at d end....hmmmmm

Daddy's Girl said...

No, I won't 'cos he may end up not marrying me (since we both have one kidney..xo he may decide to luk for smone who has 2) Aka awuo m n'isi ma eburu one kidney na agaghari

Mummy E said...

Yes! I would donate my kidney for d one I love! Because I love him!

Anonymous said...

No, only if I am married to them.

Mummy E said...

Yes! I would donate my kidney for d one I love! Because I love him!

Mummy E said...

Linda post my comment o!

Anonymous said...

NEVER!!!! I'm not that dumb enough to sacrifice my life for a lady dt I'm nt sure of
....smh for the ladies of nowadays

Anonymous said...

No never,men are not worth taking that risk for

Apuesto said...

Nahhhh.... Not a chance.. She's got a family, one of em kidneys should match hers.

Anonymous said...

When the love we share is true,am sure I can.. DQ

Anonymous said...

WTF!!! What the fuck!!! Am I mad?

Anonymous said...

I WON'T GIVE A KIDNEY to someone I'm dating or even my husband. I am married. While dating, I thought he was the best thing that could happen to a woman. Now that we are married, I don't think I feel the same way about him. Bcos he is so selfish. When I ask him for money, he complains about finances but he always buys himself expensive stuff and even gives money to his mistress. I won't give him a kidney period!!!

Anonymous said...

LMFAO nah mehn... even my mum said no.

Anonymous said...

No ooooo...wat will happen if we break up???

Oby Azike said...

If you love someone, you would've do anything - y not?

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OYINKAN said...

If married YES but still dating,I am sorry NO i cant take that risk.because its a big risk as its after that d guy will say that i am not as pretty as he wants or i am not his kinda woman.I might need that kidney for someone later so no point wasting it now.

Anonymous said...

am i a learner?the one u haven't given ur kidney to will jilt you without thinking twice why wld i think giving him my kidney wld make any difference.all na zobo joor.

harry OBJ said...

noooooo! she fit leave me go marry another person 2moroo.. i dnt blive in dating love again

Anonymous said...

Will gladly do it if d two is working perfectly and if i am thrghly in love with her.then wil so do it.

Olu(Ola's boo) said...

Linda! Linda!! Linda!!! Ao many times did I call you?. R u eating pples comments?? Hahan Lataaro(since morning)

Still love you sha*winks*

P.s; has anyone noticed mich's comments? Always sensible. I don dey fall sef. I stil love ma boo so much tho#tongueout# signed!)))

Anonymous said...

It depends on d kind of person he is. If he is Kind hearted and selfless, filled with love and compassion , one who a lot of people depend on both Financially and spiritually. A rare gem. A man I know in my heart is a gift to this world and if he dies many people will suffer. I WILL DEFINATELY GIVE HIM 1 OF MY KIDNEYS.

baby said...

Give kee he or she should go and met his family people Nigeria men with no love in there system

diamond said...

Hmm... Dis is quite dicey. Will fink abt it n den comment later. WBB

diamond said...

Hmm... Dis is dicey... WBB to make my comments. U kn dis isn't wat one shud rush into commentin

Anonymous said...

it depends on how long ive known the person n how close we r. otherwise its charity -giving ur kidney to a stranger

Unknown said...

It depends how long we been dating . I d love is there I wil donate, there is not wrong in that

Sindara said...

Say watin happen give man my kidney wen a no get brain touch! Lailai! Kojoo! A no fit!!!!

Anonymous said...

4 wat nah?

Anonymous said...

No way, man. He should get his family

Anonymous said...

Hello no. Oya ask me again. Hell fucking no

nkem-c said...

Capital NO

ANABELLA said...

Until he propose, then I will give him. Because I can't give him to go and be alive with another woman, no way mehn....I aint no learner!

Anonymous said...

This question hard pass jamb oh

dudette said...

Well I don't think u own a man cos ur married to him,u own a man cos he loves u from his heart!! When u help somone it should be bcos its the right thing to do,or it makes u feel good inside,bcos u just might be disappointed when u xpect him to do the same for u.I can giv my kidney to my bf to my bf not only bcos I luv him but because I won't stand and watch someone die when I can help. (But na wa na me dey tlk like dis hahahahahhaa)

Anonymous said...

If confirmed I can live
with having just one why not?
yes... not even one am dating but
to anyone who need it to live.

Anonymous said...

Anty linda dis question hard o

Ennieblaq said...

I definitely can give a kidney to my fiance, I love him to bits and I can't imagine loosing him 2d cold hands of death when its within my control to save d situation

akingbehin murphy daniel said...

I wiℓℓ donate 4 her

prosper ndukwe said...

seems tough, but i would...

akingbehin murphy daniel said...

I wiℓℓ donate for her.

Anonymous said...

After doing my introduction, yes!

Slimy said...

Hmmmm, still tinking abt it.

mimsie said...

Never. Except he's my husband. He can leave me for another girl. Let his siblings/family member donate the kidney.

Anonymous said...

WeLl its kinda crious, bt if we ar @ d point of getting married I wuld nd most espcially if I truly nd indeed luv her I will jst 2 save her lyf nd c her live bt my greatest fear wuld be dat she might leave me 4 anoda man nd dat might make it difficult 4 me 2 donate 2 her @ d same time so its a very tyt situation.

Anonymous said...

Huh linda

Unknown said...

D guy 5n pass d lady.

Anonymous said...

i will not bcos she has many boy friends

ikomi moses said...

hell frigging no, only with a gun to my head i will...lol

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm odikwa very risky

N7 said...

NO!NO!! NO!!!

Anonymous said...

Hell nah!! The only thing they are getting is a key to my apt when they need to get in when I'm not there. A kidney for someone that can break up with me anytime?? Someone that hasn't even put a ring on it?? Come on Linda! I'm a female by the way and this is an annoying question.

Anonymous said...

Linda. Linda. LINDA!

How many times did I call you, ehn?

All you bloggers that abandon us cuz it's the weekend... Hmm God dey o.

Sooo, just because you're getting some of that weekend D, you'll leave us hanging abi?

Grrrrrrrr!!!

*sigh*

Lol!

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Anonymous said...

No cos they would end up cheating.


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Babykingsway said...

I will offer my kidney and silently pray it doesn't match.

Babykingsway said...

I will offer my kidney and silently pray it doesn't match.

Unknown said...

Hell NO cos am not even sure if he will marry me.

Anonymous said...

Am here jus 2 talk about gov port issue,wallahi dis useless man called gej is so wicked,u hav sam religon same niger delta see how u ar fustrating him.joni u suffer and u will neever enjoy dis ur region.

Unknown said...

dis kain question

Anonymous said...

Its gonna be difficult @first but i would eventually give it.. Cos it hurts 2 lose a loved one then talkless of someone you are planin your future with! On one condition sha say we will both live...lol

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lexie said...

I totally would, I really love my boyfriend

Anonymous said...

Yes just too show love..

Maxie said...

Answer of the day: NOOOOOOO

ifyody said...

I will give. Donors don't even know who they are giving their kidneys to. why not when I know d person and we share intimate times together.

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Anonymous said...

Big fat NO. People change, when u think u can trust them just get ready for the shock of ur life

Anonymous said...

Omo I no fit.wat if we break up later.first to comment sha

Anonymous said...

Give my kidney 2 someone am dating? I pray oooooooo! After giving him my heart, I can't afford 2 add my kidney, If I hear....#PRAISE#

Sparklingwinks said...

Eeeem tough one...

Sparklingwinks said...

Eeeem tough one...

Anonymous said...

If I hear ?

Anonymous said...

Total no

Anonymous said...

Dating? No but husband/wife yeah

Anonymous said...

Total no

Anonymous said...

Hell to the NO

Unknown said...

I will, and my sole reason is to save a life, no more no less, I could do it for anyone. As long as it doesn't kill me.

Unknown said...

Tough one,but I dnt think I can,Mehn I dnt knw oooo

Anonymous said...

Noooo!!!gotta b frank,I love my life!!shawthy can dump my ass nytime!just bn real

Anonymous said...

Noooo!!!gotta b frank,I love my life!!shawthy can dump my ass nytime!just bn real

memphis said...

Married; yes, without hesitating one bit.

Dating; Hmmmm.....errrrrrmmm...well...*coughs*

juicyhawtstuff said...

I won't.

Anonymous said...

I can not give my boyfrend my kidney wen we not married.

Anonymous said...

For wetin na?

Unknown said...

Siblings...YES!
Oda-family-members....yes!
Fiance...no!
Gf...NO!

Anonymous said...

Linda how far? Ur bday is close oooo hw we go do am.*bbsmile*
Bimbo lasisi

Anonymous said...

Hell NO. Can't even give my kidney 2 my husband self not 2 talk of someone am dating. Even marriages breakup not 2 tAlk of boyfriend n girlfriend team. How I go come collect my kidney back in case we breakup. Isiro ni oko dido.

Anonymous said...

Prolly

Anonymous said...

Givers ni... Nothing like for someone am dating

Anonymous said...

Big NO.I CAN'T NEVER DO THAT BUH IF IS MY FAMILY

Ceecee said...

No chance!

Anonymous said...

Yes I will but only dis current bf of mine cause I love me this guy to bits. Not every bf can get that kinda love . Pick and choose right

Anonymous said...

Yes

Anonymous said...

i can only do dat if i believe d relationship iz heading to a good place and we truly love each other but if I ve ma doubts NO way Linda... Am not gonna risk ma life for him ooo

adenike said...

I'l definitely do it, even if I'm not datin d person, I will if I'm veeery sure it won't affect my health in anyway.And I'm also gonna b proud of myself cos I'l always av is good feelin in me dat I probably saved a life:D.

Anonymous said...

linda y now? u refused to post ma comments each time I comment y?

Unknown said...

Yes or No.....*lols

Anonymous said...

For wetin na.....abeg who get BB charger 4 here???

Anonymous said...

If even he is my husband! I will NOT give him my kidney, I can only stay with him in the hospital. Shikena!!!
Hannahannah

mobolaji said...

I'm sorry I can't . No vex

Anonymous said...

Kidney ko heart ni! What if the rship didn't get to the alter? Dat is disaster.linda even u will borow leg.

Anonymous said...

Nooooooooooooooo

Anonymous said...

Well its no big deal to donate......cos u saving a life...... U only need one kidney to survive........
Donate n save a soul today... Dr. Debby

Anonymous said...

Boyfriend no
Husband no
Family yes

Anonymous said...

NO.....No...

Mayowa

Anonymous said...

Linda , how will you ask that kinda question when you know the answer, 1+1=2 wheew! .. No be only KIDIRIN NA ISHAN or Intestine or NA FUKU or ABODI or SHAKI...Nothing like that oh! If it's the old days LOVE YES! Now a days Love NO! You no like Leg ? lmaoooooo...LINDAAAA ...I dey vex with you somehow..

Anonymous said...

No

Anonymous said...

Linda No be only Kidney, NA KIDIRIN OR FUKU OR ABODI OR SHAKI OR COW LEG...The OLD SCHOOL DAYS LOVE ARE OVER.. Na new school we dey ..What if the Lady doesn't marry the guy? NOOO OH HABA!

Anonymous said...

Say who die?. Linda mind urself ooh, if e no marry me, he will now be using my kidney dey do another woman, nnnnoooo wwwaaaayyy. I don vex post my comment ooh.

Anonymous said...

If I hear...wetin concern me..after she go go dey straff anoda loser

Anonymous said...

for wetin na? me no send am o

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