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Friday, 13 September 2013

Question of the day: Would you give your kidney to someone you are dating?

Say you love them and you've been dating for a long time (but not married) and they need a kidney, would you offer yours? Why and why not?

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Anonymous said...

Linda I no get kidney!abegiii!na weitin d doctors tell me!

YUCEE said...

No way. Later he will tell me dat its a taboo for 2 pple wit one kidney 2 get married in their family. B4 we even get dat stage, how i wan take tell my papa say i wan give my kidney 2 one boy wey neva drop bride price. Him no get family ni?

Anonymous said...

Am not a learner naaaa,if I hear!

dee said...

If I hear

Unknown said...

Yes..Cos she wud do same for me...

Anonymous said...

Sure I can I ♡ my GF

Rough Diamond said...

Love catch fire!!!

Rough Diamond said...

Siblings yes depend sha
Oda family member - never!
Fiance - no!
Bf - blood of Jesus! Never!

Anonymous said...

i cannot give any man anything...not a single kobo

pboy said...

I can't do it. If I do we'll both die later

Vivian Love said...

Linda why don't u like posting comments on time?

koko said...

Y nt, 4 d sake of luv! Lol.

Anonymous said...

Hell no, ontop bf/gf.
Family.....maybe.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm could that be love?

Anonymous said...

God forbid, we rather give the person I don't know bcos I don't want to suffer double heart break.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 10:47! Warahell, u killed me here!!! BB charger??!!

Paul Garment said...

Why not?is funy how pple think. Is it not bether 4 u to give than to kill 4 luv

Anonymous said...

Tufiakwa!!!

Anonymous said...

Wen we r nt married hw will I donate my kidney.Habeep of LBI say so

Anonymous said...

No way

e bonto said...

Just dating?not even a fiancee,no way my dear,I am sorry.

Anonymous said...

If am d only one dat has his kidney type, I'll give it...not cos he's my boyfriend but cos he's a human being and a close one at dat. If I don't give him d kidney and he dies, I won't be able to live with d guilt......



Bee.

Anonymous said...

NO way,when we r not married. I remembered my ex bf dat I gave a huge sum of money cos he was broke days later he stop picking my calls and eventually dumped my sorry ass. Thank God it was money imagine if it was my kidney eehn I don't mind doing d surgery to get it out of him .fool me once shame on u fool me twice shame on me.

Anonymous said...

I can never do dat 4 a man#fact#

Anonymous said...

I can, but if we break up his soo giving me back my kidney...or I collect it by force **frowns face and walks out**barbie

Ladyangel said...

Me give out my kidney to a boyfriend? For what na? have not seen a guy who's worth giving out a kidney for....

Anonymous said...

maka y abeg any oda person outside ma nuclear family,hell to d no. ***A-BELLE***

Anonymous said...

What for?? lol

Anonymous said...

maka y any person outside ma nuclear family,hell to d no.oyo 4 u ***A-BELLE***

Dlapikin said...

I will because I will be hurt that i could save the life of somebody i know and I opted out. Even if it is just a mere friend I will donate.

Anonymous said...

What are d reasons we make love?#mulla

Anonymous said...

yes i can ... Cos I ain't donating d kidney 2 her 2 get something in return bt 2 save her life ... If @ d end she chooses 2 dump me life goes on

Anonymous said...

Linda,which kain question be dis?
Make I give am kidney,after she go tell me say her mama no want Igbo husband.hian!

lalaini said...

sure why not. people give kidneys to random strangers so ......

prince d preacher said...

if my two ar fully functional, Y not?

Anonymous said...

I go giv if it wont affect my life span.......lolz

Yes! I said it!!! said...

I dey craze?!!! Tufiakwa!!! If I dare do such, my mum would come from d grave with cane and flog the STUPIDITY out of me!

Anonymous said...

And use it to pooli another girl..... Naa. Abeg

wemimo said...

Givers ni..*rolls eyes*

bhallz said...

i never use am finish *straight face*

Anonymous said...

Lol keep the comments coming

Anonymous said...

Smh!

Anonymous said...

On to which level? I will never try such.Linlin,post my comment oooo,cos ur shakara too much.

Anonymous said...

U r a moron,simple question u dn dy write love letter..u better set up ur own blog..mstcheeew#storyteller#

Anonymous said...

It's a lie o,i can't nd shan't!!!

Unknown said...

From past experince, I cant.

Anonymous said...

Yes and No depends...!!!

Anonymous said...

A tough decision even in marriage

GinaBlack said...

NO! NO!! NO!!!

Not even if we are married! Will pray for him plenty...

Can only make that life altering decision for my non-alchol drinking siblings...the rest I'll just pray for!

Anonymous said...

Yes cos I love him, no becos if we ever break up ill want my kidney back ;) misskay

Anonymous said...

Well as for me, I will easily give it out to her because that is when Love professed is demonstrated and if we don't get to marry, I would have done it anyways.

Anonymous said...

My Wife? yes and yes.
My husband? yes and yes.
kids,sibs,mum,Dad? YES.
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Anonymous said...

Nahhhhh! I can't...As Long as we're not married,Am sorry but i can't...make i give man my kidney,make em carry go flex Life with another babe,Mba! Hehehe..Only my husband and family deserves such sacrifice







PRETTY GIRL

Anonymous said...

Marriage is not a reward. He must not marry me after such sacrifice. All I care about is Saving a life. I can do that for anybody. Yes!!! I will donate my kidney to him and I know God won't let me down in keeping me healthy afterwards.

Anonymous said...

Cos ur husband is not worth it, if he is, u'll always find a way of saving him from death.

Anonymous said...

Nigerian film,story of ma lyf

Anonymous said...

Awww so sweet " what's a kidney when she has my heart" awww

Anonymous said...

Reconsider being in this marriage seems there's mega lack of trust

Anonymous said...

It only happenes in movies...but u can donate if its ur wife/husband.

Anonymous said...

Kidneys are nor in the stomach my dear. Educate yourself!

Anonymous said...

Then he should marry u then

Anonymous said...

STORY!!!

Anonymous said...

I wouldn't ask in the first place wen I get family

Anonymous said...

Wow! So there are men who still reason like this? God bless you! Your woman is the luckiest on earth!

Anonymous said...

See this babe o

Anonymous said...

Story

Anonymous said...

Well I give him after all we have been in the relationship for a long while....... BUT if after giving him my kidney he decides to leave me....... He would give me a part of me back after all its my body u can't decide to leave me wen am the one giving u life nahhhh..... Am dat crazy!

Anonymous said...

Omo! People dey para oo

Unknown said...

nawa o Linda my comment no d appear y naa

beezy said...

Linda u try o, make e carry my kidney go stay wit another girl after dumping me? U try well well.

NAWTI HOYEEN said...

make he no vex....I NO FIT.. 4 ya nah...

Anonymous said...

never, because one day he may forget what I did 4 him leave me 4 another woman. The only people I will gladly give my kidney to are my future children.

Unknown said...

Linda if u are de person I'm dating I'm gonna give it 2 you freely no question asked just give it 2 you even I'll give you both of dem and die

Anonymous said...

Aww,at anonymous 12:20..i love ur answer cos of the way u explained it....theres someone that said if they are planning to get married...dem go give...and i know its a girl that can say such a thing....its like u never know wetin time dey talk...man never do u something for this world wey u come out...the only person that i can give my kidney to is my hubby...he may not be the best,but if he dies who go help me and my kids.....apart from that....others WARN YOURSELVES!

Anonymous said...

y wuld i do dat? am i mad?

Anonymous said...

Haaa! Linda u wicked! Mk I gv man my kidney? Il gv a stranger

Anonymous said...

i know a man that is using his wife's kidney to commit adultery. he get luck say no be me he marry.

Anonymous said...

Story

Nike said...

No. Because a kidney to give away is a big ,big decision to make. Yes I do believe we have been given two to help someone in need. But who knows if dat someone in need would turn out to be your family member or even ones future spouse. People dat you actually do owe something too. Now with the question in mind if the guy was an orphan , maybe I would consider helping him , based on pity and as a Christian duty. Not love because that is fickle , what happens when I fall out of love with him. Regret?. However if the guy has family I would encourage him to speak to them . I would be put off, if he had left them and came to ask me for my kidney. I would be perplexed like, so it's good for me to be with one kidney while your siblings , mama and papa are walking around with two. I would ask him what kind of a stupid idiot do you take me for. And what if one dies during the procedure is dat not a one way ticket to hell for sins of fornication. Am a naija gal I don't use love of anything to bankrupt my life.

Anonymous said...

Lieeeeeee!!! Talk is cheap anyway Prince charming U wudnt do it.

janetfashionsandstyles said...

i won't oooh never

Anonymous said...

I can only giv 2 som1 who is nt even close 2 me out of passion 4 d work of God wit obi ocha, but ma bf, no way, cant even giv him my own blood cos he ll spit at ma face one day. love fire!post ma comment abeg.

Anonymous said...

I can only giv 2 som1 who is nt even close 2 me out of passion 4 d work of God wit obi ocha, but ma bf, no way, cant even giv him my own blood cos he ll spit at ma face one day. love fire!post ma comment abeg.

Anonymous said...

Lol...dz ur comment really got me crackin bt mehn dtz d truth.if he hasn't commited unto me aftr so long a dating,wat assurance do I hav dat he wnt run away wit my kidney...abeg oo I second u jare

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm!kidney kwa,am not a spare part dealer

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm!kidney kwa,am not a spare part dealer

Anonymous said...

Read ur response n was sooo touched I almost cried. .dts d plain truth she's got ur heart so wat d fuck is a kidney. I could give you a bear hug 4 ds.

Unknown said...

KIDNEY KO KIDIRIN NI,I NO FIT O

Anonymous said...

I would if we both sign an "Agreement" that if he walks out or i EVER catch him cheating or smell a rat he gives me back my KIDNEY

Anonymous said...

i would if am sure he would do the same for me... its a 2way thing

Anonymous said...

Did you even read the question? It says would you give the person you LOVE not HATE o. This question is not for you, okay.

Anonymous said...

linda this is kidney your talking about oo not Popcorn hian

Anonymous said...

some people r saying yes mean while dey cant even give an old bag out..

Anonymous said...

Sis Linda,even if na my husband i go use one year think am o!

Anonymous said...

Honestly I can't,but I can just for one person who nearly lost his life trying to save me,for him I can.

Unknown said...

Big no,even marriage is difficult

Unknown said...

ezioku mbanu the two is not even enough for me

Anonymous said...

If he is worth it and has proven over time to be trustworthy and has shown me that he loves me and can do same for me. I won't think twice.

Anonymous said...

Good for u dear.

Anonymous said...

Mehn! All these comments just show that 90% of people in relationships don't trust each other. People STOP hurting your partners abeg. Infidelity is on the rise.

Anonymous said...

Nice one. I hope this ya speech is genuine? Its good to have people with feelings shaa

Anonymous said...

I wish I had love like did. God dey

datBadtGai said...

swear down, i ain't even read the article but i know my answer; hell no..!! so long u say it's dating, it ain't happening..!!

CENTUPOET said...

hmmm,I just pray I never get entangled in such a dilemma

Anonymous said...

Of course i will, if onli it is tru love

Anonymous said...

boyfriend HELL NO. Husband i would take it under advisement

vee said...

i would,if he wants to leave you he would whether your married or not.

Unknown said...

(oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.
Thanks EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

charles said...

this one is a very strong question, it depends

dan said...

No,no,no, Linda, I wouldn't give my kidney that easy.

Adeniyi BAdmus said...

There should be more than just dating, i think more like marriage!

Shubham said...

Love is a great gift by god. Its a great feeling.

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