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Sunday, June 23, 2013

"I’ve had sex with 370 men" Nigerian woman Seyi Kolade reveals

Approaching a man at a bar, Seyi Kolade had only one thing on her mind as she chatted with the stranger - sex. Within hours the pair were in bed together and she was delighted at how her evening had panned out.

And this was not a chance encounter, for Seyi was a sex addict and it was what she did almost every day for 13 years. Last night she said: “Sex addiction took hold of my life.”

Seyi, 35, was just 17 when she became dependent on sleeping with men. By 19 she'd had 40 partners and she says she has bedded a shocking total of 370 men.

Her dangerous addiction led her to a life of destruction - catching sexually transmitted infections, being evicted from her home and having two terminations.



By the age of 30, Seyi had hit rock bottom and needed help. Today, after attending numerous sex addiction meetings and 12-step programmes, Seyi has been celibate for four years and is helping others like her.

She explains says: “Sex addiction is something people associate with men, but it took hold of my life for more than 13 years.
“It was a craving and a fear of how I’d feel if I couldn’t get it.
“Once I did, it was a huge relief, like a weight was lifted.
“It’s like any addiction. It made me selfish, self-destructive and depressed but it was a cycle I couldn’t escape.”

She adds: “I lost my virginity when I was 13 with my first boyfriend.
“I was shocked when I fell pregnant. I gave birth when I was 14. It was a very difficult time.”
Social services arranged a nanny to look after her daughter, Sarah, from six weeks old.
Being a young mum scarred Seyi’s childhood. She says: “I moved out of home when I was 16 with Sarah and lived in a mother and baby unit. I felt terribly lonely. I craved affection, I was miserable.”

Moving into a housing association home at 17, Seyi met then-boyfriend Paul, 31.
It was now that she began to use sex to replace her feelings of loneliness.
She says: “When I started having sex with my boyfriend I thought it was the answer and would stop me feeling so lonely. But it wasn’t enough.”
Going to bars, Seyi, from Birmingham, cheated on Paul at least once a week with strangers or men she would meet regularly.

She says: “I needed sex and afterwards it was a relief. When I couldn’t have sex my confidence would plummet, I felt ugly and went into a spiral of upset and frustration, feeling unworthy and needing another fix as soon as possible.”
Seyi fell pregnant at 17 with son, Andrew. She says: “I told Paul it was his although there was some doubt in my mind. After I gave birth I tried to stay faithful. I wanted sex with him four to five times a day, but the attention from him wasn’t enough.
“When the pent-up sexual frustration became too much, I’d go elsewhere and get validation through sex.
“I cheated on him three times in six months, then fell pregnant again.”
Devastated and unable to look after another child, Seyi made the decision to have her baby terminated.
She says: “It wasn’t fair on the child to have them. I didn’t know whose baby it was so I didn’t tell Paul. I wanted our relationship to work but we split up when I was 19.”
Seyi’s heartbreak made her sex addiction go wild. She says: “The only cure for my loneliness was sex. I had five guys I could meet with for sex when I wanted and was also sleeping with strangers. I’d go to bars and easily pick one up. Being good in bed made me feel worthy.”
By 22 Seyi had caught chlamydia twice. Going out almost every night while her children were looked after by friends and family, all she could think about was sex.
She says: “Between the ages of 22 to 30, life was a blur, my addiction had taken over.
“I was sleeping with five to six men, or meeting strangers for sex at bars weekly. I fell pregnant again at 26. I felt I had no choice but to have a termination. I got drunk and had sex After the procedure.
“I don’t know how I managed to keep my job as a management consultant. I took lots of sick days when I craved sex and couldn’t face the office. I even slept with a colleague.
“I was evicted for not paying rent when I was 29 and had to send my children to live with my family.”

While staying with a friend Seyi saw the documentary The Secret, about the laws of attraction. She says: “I knew I had a problem but never stopped to think about being a sex addict. I realised I needed help.”

After quitting her job to concentrate on her recovery Seyi, then 31, went to an addiction meeting.
She says: “There were six others there and when I listened to their stories it cured my nerves. I didn’t stop craving sex straight away but cut down slowly.” Since August 2009 she has been celibate.
She says: “I’m so proud of myself. I’ve craved sex but the programme lets me know the trigger signs.
“I don’t plan on having sex any time soon. If the right guy comes along and I feel I’m in a stable, loving relationship, I’d feel safe to do it. I have my children back living with me and feel I’m no longer a sex addict.

“I’d hate to think where my life would be now if I hadn’t sought help.”
Despite her recovery, Seyi lives with the guilt of her addiction. She says: “I could have passed on STIs, I had two terminations and my kids didn’t have the attention they deserved.
“I’ve now trained as an inspirational speaker and happiness advocate. At workshops and seminars I can help others understand what sex addiction is, where it comes from and recovery.
“Being celibate has given me my life back. I want to help others do the same.”

Source: The Sun UK

194 comments:

BONARIO NNAGS said...

hmmm its well even in the "WELL".
her **** is big enough to swallow a schoolbag.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Bootylycious diva said...

i sure know some people will start talking ,like they havent slept with more than 1000 men .some babes can't even remember how many men they have slept with .

Bootylycious diva said...

i sure know some people will start talking ,like they havent slept with more than 1000 men .some babes can't even remember how many men they have slept with .

Anonymous said...

Thank God you were saved and have the courage to tell your story. U can still make good use of your future.

ExoticEyez MiMi said...

She had a boyfriend and sex at 13 and delivered at 14 when those should have been the last things on her mind. She had misplaced priorities eárly in life. Good she can now educate youngsters on the dangers of wrong choices and lifestyles in their tender years.

olami said...

Now that's weird!!! I am really short of words. Thank God you are back on the right track. I hope a lot of damages has not already been done.

Eagle Pedia said...

Wow that is lot of men,thank God she is out. Visit eagleclopedia.blogspot.com

Melvina Owoh said...

Mehn, Linda this story is too long,actually slept off reading it! Dis woman na oga o! But the good news is that the thing no dey finish... There's still hope for the 371st man!

Anonymous said...

370 men;and u were criticizing Kim K over 22 men.Hmm...wat a nympho.Just ANN.

Anonymous said...

Linda u have started again o ! Why is the caption Nigerian woman obviously this woman have lived all her life in the UK...

If it's in 9ja we will hear that she is possessed. Why in truth she just needs help

Newsbooks said...

How sad, at least your getting treatment.
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kween said...

*speechless*

Anonymous said...

I thank God for her not been addicted anymore

Anonymous said...

Her p's gonna be so free and never tight

Anonymous said...

This na real waoooo of life but don't judge anybody let God judge u av ur life but live it in a right way

Anonymous said...

Thank God for d intervention,oops I wonder how her vaginal will look like

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

I am just speechless! That number is huge! Girl, that pu**y is surely not a private part anymore! Well, good that you have chosen celibacy now.

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

I am just speechless! That number is huge! Girl, that pu**y is surely not a private part anymore! Well, good that you have chosen celibacy now.

Rayna Kelvin said...

Thank God For u! So long as there's life, there's hope!

Anonymous said...

U go fear Confession!!!five timez a day!

Prudence said...

Being celibate will not totally help you. All you need is to give your life to Christ so that the yoke of addiction can be destroyed by the power of the Holy Spirit. It is not by might nor power but by the spirit. May you receive help in Jesus Name.

Anonymous said...

So Linda, and she's proud of her establishment? #clap 4urself!

juliet igboekwe said...

Thank God џσΰ re celibate now and helping others

Anonymous said...

She just needs to see me,I would 'Decelibatalize' her....badoo Lon soro

the punisher said...

Talk about autopilot cunt.lol... I bet it echoes now that she's celibate. Meaner whiler, how did she get d exact figure, abi she get register?

Anonymous said...

Wow...Dats sooo touching!

Alexies said...

What a touching story, rilly glad she sort help n got her life 2geda

gistyinka blog said...

am shoot of word ooooooooooo...

Oluyomi Odukoya said...

Things are indeed happening

Anonymous said...

Whao!Am so glad that she's coming out of this addiction.I can imagine how she had to cope with being a single mum @ such a tender age,d feeling of lonliness could be very depressing which probably made her turn 2 sex as an alternative I pray d@ God perfects His healimg in her life.congrats dear.

Anonymous said...

OK.

tc dyke said...

Don't worry dear; God has healed you and he will replenish you in jesus name. Amen.

Jet Lee said...

eyahhhha ... u nor fit cum 9ja .. i bet u would have love it more ... where my horse brodas dem dey ..lol
free F....K


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Anonymous said...

Oh that's a sad story tho! I simply judged frm d caption #apologies! But dts some bad addiction sha! Glad she's celibate now, thank God 4 the change. Pls endeavour to kp it up.
~D great anonymous!

Oscar Ojelade said...

Hmm...sure gonna be a lotta guilty readers here

Jet Lee said...

hope na me 1st comment ... Lindy Lindodo of d Lee temple ????

Anonymous said...

She needs Jesus now

Chichi said...

I feel sad for this beautiful woman but am glad she's been able to turn her life around. I don't condemn her at all because I believe her story will be an inspiration to a lot of people. Anyone who condemns her should first check himself/herself and tell us that he/she has been living a pious life.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm it is well thank God is over nw.

Anonymous said...

Thank God she hasn't lost count .... Sum pple don lost their own count and don't evn see it as a problem. Lord have mercy!

Anonymous said...

Congrat may God help u help u 2 d end if david can sleep wit 800 women& solomon d son 1000women & still find favor B4 GOD ur figure is small but don't dare 2 fall back u might not b lucky anymore

xtine xxx said...

Na wa oh..speechless..

Adekunle Kazeem said...

We are waiting for your book or cds. Anyway, very inspiring and good you realize this as a wrong act because some don't and never care to seek help. Keep it up.

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↭PRINCE JOBLESS↭ said...

Just that? She hasn't met me yet. I'm 500 men in one.

staff said...

God be praised

Samuel Abuh said...

Holy Shit!!! If this is a true story, then every form of addiction can be cured! Thanks for sharing this, L.....

Anonymous said...

Thank u girl for ur courage n strength to share dis painful story. Ure rly brave. God bless ur soul.

Anonymous said...

Jeez! Are you for realzzzz?

Anonymous said...

Thank God for saving you!

kamal said...

NO OFFENCE HONEY BUT AT THIS POINT, HAVING SEX WITH YOU WILL BE LIKE THROWING A SAUSAGE DOWN THE CORRIDOR...AND RETRIEVING IT....

Anonymous said...

wow! Thank God you over came it.

missy said...

Hmm!I 4 talk na sey dis babe no dey naija...well,thank God 4 her testimony..

♥Ozone baby♥ said...

Nnaa mehn,addiction dey o. Thank God she'recoverin

Anonymous said...

Well done Seyi. I'm really proud of you!

Anonymous said...

Truth be told.I can not count the number of girls i have slept with..Pls help.Linda,Pls help me ask.I want to knw if there guys having this similar experienced.

Anonymous said...

Na wa oh! Thank God for her life. Now adays,sex before maariage has become something to be very proud of. Pls is it that difficult for a young lady to keep her legs closed till her wedding day? I am a virgin at the age of 23 and I am proud of myself and I keep thanking God for the grace. Pls let all singles ladies flee from sex before marriage.

cleopatra ogonna said...

Hmmm.....good she has got her life back and is bold enough to talk about it. Seeing the headline at first,I had a hard time believing that a 37-yr old woman has had sex wiv 370 men

Anonymous said...

What a lovely looking lady . I'm glad she was able 2 overcome her personal demons. Not everyone with same problem is able to overcome it 2.

Anonymous said...

Ojigbijigbi!

cleopatra ogonna said...

Hmmm.....good she has got her life back and is bold enough to talk about it. Seeing the headline at first,I had a hard time believing that a 37-yr old woman has had sex wiv 370 men

Anonymous said...

370 men? Geez, thank God u re nw celibate. Hope u will find the right guy who will overlook ur past.

Anonymous said...

Omo,looking @ it,I don nack pass 370 babes o . Choi!!!!

yomi said...

Obo ti baje ooooooooo

Anonymous said...

*bornthrowaytinz* her family would have used koboko to cure her in naija..oshisko

pealie said...

Hmmmm

Anonymous said...

because she bears a yoruba name does not make her nigerian o..linda..that is how u joined to call the two terrorists nigerians

Anonymous said...

Ndewo. Igbaliala.

Anonymous said...

i thank God dat u later understand...anyway itz a good lesson 4 youth thou

Anonymous said...

am battling same problem here pls linda were can i get the CD of "THE SECRET" am a guy sha infact there is a prostitute on my bed now as i write this text am cheatin on my fience we are plannin to marry nxt yr i need help

Anonymous said...

am battling same problem here pls linda were can i get the CD of "THE SECRET" am a guy sha infact there is a prostitute on my bed now as i write this text am cheatin on my fience we are plannin to marry nxt yr i need help

Anonymous said...

First of all I must commend her for the courage and boldness, it takes a lot for a lady to come out and tell the whole world how many men she has slept with though its easier for men but not for women. Thank God ‎​Ʊ finally have ur life back, and for those of ‎​Ʊ out dere stilling addicted to sex, doin runs and carrying aristoes pls take a que from her and take ur life back and do somfin meaningful with it b4 its too late. A word is enough for the wise.

morientes bassey said...

After u don fuck scatter, menhh dat pussy has been destroy by so many dicksssssss

Anonymous said...

May d lord have mercy on you..

Anonymous said...

Serious mata

Anonymous said...

Thank God U're free 2day. Btw, I tink U slept with a demon 2 av such cravings.

Anonymous said...

omo mehn!

Anonymous said...

Awesome story. I love second chances -Newyorker

Anonymous said...

Thank God you got a second chance.... Many did'nt do as much and they died as a result of an addiction....

Anonymous said...

Chai!!! Are u a toll gate?

Anonymous said...

nonsense..stupid woman looking for attention, wot is she teaching oda?ashanwo orishi rishi....

Anonymous said...

I remember when I slept with her and she gave me crabs .

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

florence said...

Choi! I'm happy for ur life. D devil really took hold of you buh Jesus nw have ur back. Its well

Buks said...

Did you say happiness Advocate and inspirational speaker Omo you suppose to stay for Mountain of Fire camp dey pray say make God deliver you Kai check out the transference of spirit 370 men x all the hoes they have f-----.

Anonymous said...

This lady fine o, wish I was the 371th

Anonymous said...

I admire her strength, courage and for d fact she recognise she had a problem, and gt help.

Anonymous said...

Im so happy you are now free from your addiction. It gives hope to some of us. Sexual addiction is real and destructive just like any other addiction. The society don't like to talk about it, some rather be judgmental. it good you came out to talk about this. Awareness is what we need not discrimination. One love!!

Anonymous said...

You would be shocked to find out that that of your girlfriend is wider.

Anonymous said...

You are right. At least she recognised she had a problem and began to deal with it.

Troublemaker said...

TRUST ME I'M A SHAG-ENGINEER

13 years X 365 days is about 4745 men!

minus the "almost" every night in the statement leaves us with approximately 2/5 (about 1900 men) heehehehe.

conclusion: she is a jolly good shagger or just seeking notice with false figures

Anonymous said...

She is Oga because she has told her story, for all we know, you may have had 500 men in your closet. And here you are judging someone who has come clean.

Ayofe Malik said...

dats small

Anonymous said...

Are u even sure it is 370?????

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OlᵘwᵃDᵅᵐ!lᵒlᵃ said...

Did you read the whole thing?

Ofilispeaks.com said...

Happy for you!

BLOGLORD said...

phew!

Brown sugar said...

Lol @ auto pilot cunt. Well d good news is that she is saved.

Anonymous said...

READING THE STORY IS MAKING MY STOMACH CHURN.

ALL SORTS WE HEAR EVERYDAY

Anonymous said...

My days in unilag, I had this friend called blessing! She said she has slept wiv more than 500 guys. Very fine girl, yellow pawpaw! How many Nigerian girls marry at age 18-25?. If they start having sex by 18 and marry at 28, only one out of 100 will stay in one relationship for those years inbetween. Between 18 and 28 many would have slept wiv more than 10 men. Am even talking about good girls who actually date men! If I talk about runs girls, between that 18 and 28 they would have slept wiv almost 50 or more

Major zod said...

I agree with exoticEyes mimi, i hp alot of youngstars will learn from her. Also i hope she wont go back to d addiction.

Julius Getwise said...

Good

Bellissimo Aso oke said...

Thank God she is free now

Anonymous said...

The best help you need is the help of the holy spirit. Read your bible and talk to God in prayers.

saeed salisu said...

Nice comment

Apple said...

Thank God you are cured, I sure say your pussy don turn to THIRD MAINLAND BRIDGE :) Plenty motor don pass am:)

Anonymous said...

LOL.
Addiction to sex is psychological. The addicted brain fools the body by producing intense BioChemical rewards for this bad addiction, d brain tells d sex addict That having illicit sex is good the same way it tells others that food is good when they are hungry.... I'm happy for you now that u've overcome dis self destructive behaviour.
IT IS WELL.

DR FIBROID

Nkiru said...

I have had sex with over 300 men and still counting, it helps when you feel lonely, you need some form of reassurance that you are attractive, loved and cared for...
I was born in Anambra and grow up in Lagos as a teenager. It isn't easy being single sha. I am 24 on the 2nd of 0ct, I need true love!!!

Anonymous said...

ashawo no get bus stop.

Anonymous said...

Chie this babe dey yash o!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I'm just sorry for your poor husband paul. This is a lesson to all men that think their wives are saints and angels. Don't trust any woman.

Anonymous said...

Tank God Fø̲̣̣я̅ u

Anonymous said...

Tank God Fø̲̣̣я̅ u

emmanuel jack said...

Christ is the best solution she failed to look at the cross

Anonymous said...

Ogbeni shut up abeg. You too like to dey misyarn. With that your eye wey be like person wey wan sleep. Swear say ur case no worse pass her own. Swear.

Julianah Baiyeshea said...

*speechless*

Anonymous said...

Its actually very sad that people come to share their past and fears and the best others can do is judge and curse. like you are are all free of your own demons.

Lady, thank God for your life. i wish you all the best and i hope the change is permanent.

Anonymous said...

Idiot!! Illustrate..

Anonymous said...

That was so not funny!

Evie Daniels said...

Is that the first thing that came to your mind? Her 'thingy'? There are exercises for that part of a woman, they just don't know...

Anonymous said...

Mshew...who asked you if you are a Virgin. Instead of encouraging the subject,you just had to talk about yourself. Miss Virginia.

Anonymous said...

and my pastor once said, u fornicate with one person, u contact 7 demons, do the math...

Anonymous said...

U say????? 370 men and u still look dis good?,everyday sex,2kids and some abortions and u dey like dis...den u are a beautiful woman my dear kudos to u!...how many gals wey dey claim virgins or dey into serious relationship and all dat bla bla bla dey like dis????

Anonymous said...

Thank God she's saved .

Eze Chukwumereze said...

Wow sounds like u did your facebook account

Anonymous said...

Bonario as much as I like ur person, dis ur comment is pretty dumb. Did u read all she said atall?? This is a real problem. If u ask most girls how many guys they've slept with, they'd say 2 or 3 which Is a lie from d pit of hell!! Learn to educate yourself with such info as this so u could help anyone who is in a similar situation.

--Teeteelahyo--

Anonymous said...

And you are supposed to be d intellectual of this blog?? What a shame. Attimes such things happen that u might be of help to another. And that's what she's doing now. Spend urtime on educating itself for real n not staring at ur dictionary n this blog all thru Ur life. T

Chica said...

No one shud condemn her...she is Human,all d while she knew she was doin wrong bt cudnt help it#Addict..dere are many pips here male n female dat av done more she has done..#So don't cuss her..for we are all Sinners..weda na one or 2 u don slip with na same sin#

Anonymous said...

Which one come be probably again? Isn't that the reason she stated? Oshisco

Jade said...

Loneliness and depression are like pits that can swallow an individual. Trying to fill that void with sex drugs alcohol etc is sadly common. Am glad she has her life back on track. It is a journey to recovery. I wish her d best

emmanuel jack said...

Having christ is greater than having anything in this world he is the light she should have gone to church rather than seek vain pleasures..

Anonymous said...

o dikwa egwu o *in phyno's voice* #okbye

Anonymous said...

Why is virginity so rare this days..I mean I def applaud this woman for turning her life around. I am a proud virgin and i will stay that way till i get married. geez it is so rare.. i feel unique and blessed and it was def not easy but it is not impossible.

EDDIE~SYFAR said...

Choi, 370 times. Nawa o

Anonymous said...

Deeply spiritual problem.

Manymen said...

Stories that touch!

Anonymous said...

@ Troublemaker, correction to your math: you need to deduct days she was on her period.

Anyway sha, an average woman should not sleep with more than one man(max two men, in case the first one tricked her) in a lifetime. What we have is only meant for our husbands.

Anonymous said...

370 is starting compared to the number of guys naija girls sleep with, most naija girls dont remember all the guys they have slept with, they have lost count, linda can you remember all?.lol...c'mon linda post my comment osiso!!!!...

Anonymous said...

Anon 8:02, u sound so stupid, isit abt her case being worse or her sayin d truth? In ur mind now, ur comment is funny abi? U ar d one who shd do d shutting up. That age is too young for such thots whether u agree or not. Yeye dey smell,shiooor

Anonymous said...

What version of the bible do you read. David slept with 800??? What book and chapter is that in???

clem said...

very courageous Lady! I need to see a man's version too

Anonymous said...

B4 nko? Would she tell u she's still into it? Who knows she might be in bed with the 371th №w sef. She №w wants †̥ use us to make money. Demon

Anonymous said...

Ose jare....better person.

Anonymous said...

Leave all these girls,dey know how to pretend.there is one on my bed forming christian,meanwhile she spills beans of men dat have nacked her,meanwhile she used my money to buy Ciprotab.Ciprotab for what?STD.I remember my bumping into someone's chat I used to have sex with,telling her friend "chei,I don almost taste the whole Nigeria finish"now she is claiming celibate.I can't even count the women I have slept with,not up to 30,but I don't do numbers,they are not trophies,nobody gives u an award.but I detest people dat pretend.

Nsikan Idung said...

Na wa º°˚ --370??--well,as for me..I'm the oldest VIRGIN i know..and I'm so gonna keep it till i get married##

2ROOTS ENT said...

bloody whore.....u aee women..life..after na one man go ome marry her and not know her past life...even give the man StD..sef....

Anonymous said...

Lol! Ur mum aint a saint as well, shz a damn hoe..

Basilprince Wobodo said...

my greatest regret is I waz here waiting 4 u 2 cm $ sex me u wen ahead 2 repent abi no worri 1dy w shy meet again

Anonymous said...

Lol! Women hate themselves sha. #JustSaying

Anonymous said...

nawa ooo...

Anonymous said...

Thank u o.... thot d figure was false too.

Anonymous said...

Well you only succeeded in talking trash.did you not read that she broke up with the Paul guy or the guy broke up with her?

Anonymous said...

Well spoken

Anonymous said...

Well you only succeeded in talking trash.did you not read that she broke up with the Paul guy or the guy broke up with her?

Anonymous said...

Celibacy is not an equilibrium level, but the extreme side of right, which indicates self-hatred. I pray Seyi would live a normal life again of one woman, one man.

jason michael said...

I can categorically tell u or let Me say show u a gurl( TJ) who has slept with more than a thousand guys and she is just 23,and its free. So am happy for her that she over this bad habit

Anonymous said...

I am shocked at some of the comments made, it just shows how narrow people can be in their thinking and how relatively below average their IQ's are. Most of us do not even have the courage to step out and come clean from atrocities we have committed. Having someone do that is a lot and i always admire their courage for it. More important is the fact that they help others to get out and not make the same mistakes.
If Jesus Christ does not judge you and loves you for who you are, who are you people to judge others? . For He says: He has loved us with an everlasting love. Who can separate nus from the love of God.
God is a master of making perfect things out of what man sees to be imperfect and useless. I celebrate you my sister.

EseLove

pretty T said...

wow!!*clapping for all of you* instead of encouraging a broken woman who has obviously come a long way or admiring the courage of she who cd admit to such a heavy past or even thanking God for saving yet another soul. we are here passing judgements and re-calculating the math. let he who has never fornicated raise his/her hand. even if you are a virgin, u have no right to judge. sin is sin whether u did it once or a billion times, u are as guilty as this woman.nothing like amnesty for those that did "just once" on that great day(better read ur Bible)...she has admitted her short coming , she has worked on it, she is getting closure... you feel u are more righteous, u are hiding behind ur laptop and judging- she is better than you. self righteous hypocites! mtshheeeew,.. btw, i'm amazed and grateful to God for her

Hon. oluwatuyi said...

This story is terrbly sympathetic and also full of empathy. What I want us to understand all based on our different views that unwanted pregnancy and poor backgrand in conjuction with abject penury has a lot in this case. And this is also an avenue for most of us who ar men to be careful cos fresh chicks!!!! Kills fresh blood. As for the lady who share this story. God almighty wi forgive u and be with u. Hon. Oluwatuyi.

Anonymous said...

To him who have never sin should cast the first stone! You think it funny been an addict?instead of encouraging this woman,u come here to run your stupid mouth,to all you calling her names and insulting her ,let me ask you a question,ARE YOU A SAINT? You had sex outside marriage with 1man,she had with 370 men!incase you don't know the same judgment go for you all. Seyi it is well with you and may God continue to help you. Take care. *shirley*

Anonymous said...

Think of how easy it is to have had sex 370 times ? 92.5 times year in 4 years (thats just 13weeks) of sex in a 52 week year !! only with different men. It actually is not an impossible figure.(for all those talking rubbish out there) Since she started at age 13 and is 37, thats 15 men a year or an average of 1.2 new guys every month. Your average chick in Uni these days is doing that and more. Question is if they can maintain it as long as her.

Anonymous said...

seyi kolade if u neva taste my anaconda u re missing linda hook me up wit her...... 32ff3361

The wise woman said...

So Ciprotab is used for STD's alone? Your ignorance is inspiring to fools. Dr. Ani

Ada Nnewi said...

Way to many hypocrites on this blog...SMH! I respect your courage to seek help and I pray you find happiness in your future...

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Was she really a sex addict? Think she was only a victim of circumstance. She got into sexual activity damn too early, seemingly right from kindergarten when she just couldn't manage the extraordinary thrills of sex. Most unfortunately, still, she didn't meet the man that suits her, I mean the right man that could match her overpowering sexual energy; the kind of man that can give her wild, gorilla banging that will leave her totally drained. SHE DIDN'T MEET ME!!!!

ibeakwadalam said...

Why na erritime dem born throway do bad tin dem go become Naija?

She is as British as they come. The only thing Nigerian about her is her name.

So if they call me Clifford White na im mean say I don become Oyibo?

Anonymous said...

370 men? Jeeezzz! Sweetie dat ws huge, tank God u stopped, it not lyk am saint bt seriously dat ws sm adiction. U nid Jesus now, pls go to church, read ur bible ask God for forgiveness n total cleansing bt sweetie dats ws d height of it

Olusola Ogunmilua said...

Hahahaha! i'm sure dat pu**y is wrecked and looking burnt.

Anonymous said...

Story that's not an excuse to start having sex up n down .... I beg make she go sit down do u knw how many under age mothers we have in Lagos? But thank God for her soul has she no catch HIV that one for bad it will be 370men with HIV multiple by another 370 women and it goes on Jesu chiA.

Anonymous said...

Story that's not an excuse to start having sex up n down .... I beg make she go sit down do u knw how many under age mothers we have in Lagos? But thank God for her soul has she no catch HIV that one for bad it will be 370men with HIV multiple by another 370 women and it goes on Jesu chiA.

Anonymous said...

her kind is not rare

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Anonymous said...

360 men in 13yrs is not much, it means 5 men in 2 months. Homely girls nowadays do 5 men a month which gives u 780 men in 13yrs and runs girls do 5 men a week which will give 3640 men in 13yrs . So this lady is a saint in a way .

Anonymous said...

Oh and I guess this rule doesn't apply to men now does it?

Anonymous said...

I am happy for u girl, the fact that u were able to turn ur life around is a huge step, some would have falling into drugs, real depression and eventually maybe commit sucide. I had the same addiction, i just wanted to av a fuck almost all the time,i must av sleept with almost 100 guys, but now am clean of all that addiction and married with kids, and for all those block heads saying her pu..y is thirdmainland bridge etc, u might be surprised how tight she might be,cause i am so tight that it baffles me too. Thank God for deliverance!!

Ujunwa said...

370 is too small for an average Naija babe. Check out the runs girls. The average sleeps with 10 men minimim per month, then multiply it by 12 months. 370 men means 370 dicks (amu). Thats all.

richway said...

Thank God She didn't lost count . She said 370
Many Nigerian Babes have lost Count. Gof help us

Anonymous said...

Na wao I can't blieve dat some pple r making jokes out of dis story and sum are feeling selfrigtheous. All of u shld cover ur faces in shame. Tuufaaii.

Anonymous said...

i believe this woman and im battling same too.@27 have slept with more than 40 guys all in the name of looking for love...though my P IS still very tight and firm cos guys get hooked wen we have sex but im so addicted i dont even knw how to stop.i blve every guy i meet want to have sex and if im attracted to him i concur.i see sex as the only hold i have on men.all i crave for is love and attention.i feel so teribble and empty now.

Anonymous said...

I've slept with 300+ men, starting at age 12. In my case, I think I was looking for love because of not having my father around, and confused sex with love. As I got older, I just liked to screw so I kept on. I've been celibate for a year now and hate it; hopefully I'll meet someone someday and change that.

Ope said...

Seyi,
Congrats for beating the addiction and kudos to you for helping other, I pray that you will never encounter such again in your life.
Ope

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Wow nice one all I can say is thnk God she is fine n free now! There's a lot of pple outhere with same prob bt not bold enouf to say it. Google: xbrite charles brite.

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Very sad to heard about your pregnancy in only 13 years age which is very small age for pregnancy. Your should really got the treatment.

Anonymous said...

Wow! 370 Men! I thought I was lucky! I'm a 25 yo boy and I have had sex with 43 women aged between 17 and 58. I have had my first experience when I was 13 with a 21 yo girl. Now I'm still dating lots of women and (I supose) I have around 10 children.

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Anonymous said...

what a whore
i hope u go to hell and die of every sexually transmitted disease

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Johnny Carter said...

Cathy and her friend Norma were talking to each other on the telephone. Because they were both Philippinas, they were pretty close friends. Norma was married, but about once or twice a month she liked to go to a motel and have a little fuck session with some lucky man who was not her husband.

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Johnny Carter said...

Cathy and her friend Norma were talking to each other on the telephone. Because they were both Philippinas, they were pretty close friends. Norma was married, but about once or twice a month she liked to go to a motel and have a little fuck session with some lucky man who was not her husband.

Read full story here Fantasies.com

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Anonymous said...

I'm a former prostitute an I'm 26 years old I've been a worker since the age of 18 an I had more sex partners then she has but I wasn't an addict I did it to feel loved an for money I'm now celibate to because sex means nothing anymore unless your in love so I feel her 100%