I met this guy Steve, when I was just 13. I was waiting for my visa cos I was meant to continue my education abroad. He was my 1st ever boyfriend. At 1st, he didn't know how old I was cos I looked older than my age. As the young girl I was,I was naïve. He later found out how old I was. He was 12yrs older than me. Surprisingly,he stayed on with me but never touched me(something most men would hardly do). I then traveled abroad to continue with my education. We would stay in contact through e-mails & phone calls. I would come back home to naija sometimes & on one of those occasions, he took me to meet his family. Sometimes, we wouldn't see each other for over a year.Please continue
When I got into Uni, I stayed faithful to him still. My friends would tell me I'm wasting my life 4someone who's probably cheating on me back in naija. I didn't care. I knew he said he would marry me so I believed him. I thought to myself "men always cheat". Doesn't mean I should do same. As hard as it was, I stayed faithful. Guys started calling me a lesbian. I took it knowing my man appreciated my being faithful to him. By then, we had stayed over 2yrs without setting eyes on each other.
Finally, I relocated back to Nigeria. Before then,I had been noticing Steve had started acting weird towards me. He wouldn't call me till I called him. Even when he called it would be just flashing. I was a student. He had a job.I was the one meant to "flash". Even though its expensive calling naija,I would call whenever he "flashed". For sometime,he stopped picking my calls too.I felt all this was happening cos he hadn't seen me in 2yrs. I knew probably he had met another girl but I felt it wouldn't b a serious relationship since he wanted to marry me & I had met his family & they would call me from time to time.
When I finally moved back home, few months later. He broke the news to me. He had gotten married & he had a kid. I was so shocked. I couldn't believe it. But he didn't stop there. He told me he didn't love his wife. Said his family pressured him into the marriage cos they felt I wasn't "serious". Said he just wanted to please his mom (his dad is dead). He cried & begged me on his knees not to leave him. Said he still wanted to marry me. Said the wife he married was for his mom, so he wants to marry for himself now. He cried, begged n begged. Asked y he never told me about the marriage. He said didn't want me to feel disappointed in him & then leave him. Stupidly, I fell for his lies.
I never for one day asked him to leave his wife for me. That would have been plain wrong. Even when I knew I was there b4 her. He told me he couldn't leave her too cos he didn't want to hurt her. According to him,it was his mistake so she shouldn't pay for it. He told his family members & friends he still planned to marry me. It made me have confidence in him not knowing he was a liar. I was getting prepared to meet his wife cos I wanted to get along with her. I knew it would be hard for her like it was for me,but I was willing to put in the effort needed. Let's just say, I was brainwashed by him. Through all this, I never let my family know he had gotten married cos I knew it would pose a problem.
Well, that was years ago. I've finally found out that he used me. I have a lovely daughter by him now. She's almost 3yrs old. The scales finally fell from my eyes after I had her. Steve changed towards me. Showed me he did not want me or my daughter. I found out much later that he lied about his marriage. Yes, family pressured him but it wasn't an arranged marriage like he claimed it was. Found out he never planned to marry me. My daughter hardly sees her dad. Everything he told me was all lies. He met a woman, fell in love, got her pregnant, & married her. Then I wonder, y did he beg me to remain with him when he knew he was lying to me?? Y couldn't he just let me go?? Y did he keep lying telling me he loved me?? Y??
Funnily enough, he still claims he loves & want to marry me still.he thinks I'm still the stupid naïve girl who he could control. I realize he just doesn't want to see me with another man. Something snapped in my head. I wanted revenge & wanted it badly. For all the yrs I had spent with him which ended up being a waste of my time. By then, I had spent a total of 13yrs with him. I hatched my plot. I slept with his best friend(before then, I had never slept with any other man). And told him about it. He cried, asked me y I did it. Told him it was to get him back. Surprisingly, he forgave me. Took a while, but he did. I laughed hard in my mind. I pretended to feel bad about what I did. Both men aren't friends anymore. Steve still hasn't told his friend that he knows we slept together.
I'm not done yet. This is just the beginning. I don't plan to sleep with any more of his friends but I would hurt him in a way that wldnt be so easy for him to forgive. I want him to feel the hurt I've felt. Feel the pain he made me feel & feel what's its like to love someone & have all your love thrown back into your face.
Funnily enough, he wants to come meet my family officially during this Easter break. I'll play along. He can't brainwash or mess with me again. Sometimes, cos of my attitude towards him now, he tells me he feels I'm not sorry for sleeping with his friend. I beg him & try to act like I'm sorry. Hahahaha!! Other times, I tell him, yes I'm not sorry!
Men, are evil. Steve lied to me, used me as a punch bag d little times we'd see, so its my turn now. I now know how to punch back. Where it hurts.
Gbemisola
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1 – 200 of 265 Newer› Newest»WHATEVER! ODE OSHI! WHO OWNS YOUR BODY? AND FUCK OF!! NOT ALL MEN ARE EVIL !!! I AM A WOMAN!!! STOP TALKING CRAP!!!
u can never show a man...stop wasting ur time and do something more productive with ur life gurl... ps ur story no too make sense *yawn*
I dnt really understand dis story.... Perphaps i shld read it all over again.. #confusedmuch#
**hiss*** I want my 5 minutes back. **long hiss**
O_o
This entire story just sounds retarded. You were 13 and he was over 10 years your senior when you met him??? WTF - I am done. *Sigh*
Stupid story,sounds like a terrible movie script!!!
Next time,linda please write "read @ ur own risk"
B.O.R.I.N.G!
Gbemi, are you ths stupid to think you are soo smart?
God have mercy!!!!
you actually slept wt ur baby's father's best friend to get bac at your baby's father?
like really, u think thats a way of getting bac at him n u r laffing hard at that? they r no more friends but whos d slut here?!!! whose nyash are they going to b discussing abt n laffing at over cartons of beer?!!!
Am speechless!!!
to evn think u r wasting ur energy plotting how to get ur revenge at a man who is NOT ur husband or in any way really committed to u.
Am just furious at u!!!
pally, go get a life n a new man joor!! I na-awi ala sef?!
Ihere o na-emekwadi gi?
Sigh,feel for you!but if u continue plotting like this,u might end up in a psychiatric hospital,just let itGo,a man will come for you,believe me,he's smarter,men are always smarter,u will still fall 4it if u Don't take ur walk now,
i no even knw wetin to talk........mehn babe u for sharp up knw say sometn was fishy na....lol...as for the revenge part ooo to me e no realli mk sense becos d guy don waste ya life nd catch e fun...paying him bck will not only hurt him bt hurt u as well.
What a stupid cooked up story! You're the liar it seems. Where did u get it from? Nice try!
Na wah ooooooooo,see story.linda i suspect u forged dis story,just 2 ow we wud react.hahahaaaaaaaaaa 2 u 2
you are a big fool Gbemi.So in your mid you have made a sweet revenge by sleeping with your baby daddy's friend?ogbeni go check your brain.I'm sure you know you are still naive and his puppet.Don't deceive yourself that you are now smart.
Linda please we need better stories not this bullshit from this ashewo abeg.If she likes she should go sleep with her in-laws na she get her punani
Dumbest Story eva, Please if u are thinking of writing a book, Pls dont. THE BOOK WILL DEFINATELY NOT SELL.....
Wht a stupid,lame story.... Wasted my golden minutes reading dt crap al over again... If u like shag his entire fam, all i knw is ur story get W-Leg
WoW.. This is sad, but i still bliv your daughter deserves more than this revenge adventure, u r embarkin on. She got d best mom, any1 could ask for. Jst let it go, dia is no greater revenge, like d one KARMA will seek eventually.
Amy Abdullahi
I honestly don't think you were stupid for falling for his lies or tales. He was the only man you've ever known or thought about since you were a mere child. You loved him unconditionally and honestly just like a child. As fucked up as it is he probably loves you, but he is trying to eat his cake and have it!
He is greedy like all the men before him and all the men after him.......
Let the bitterness go my sister, you have wasted 13yearsof your life with the asshole. Thank your God that you came out with a child that would be your everything and move on with your life.
You are like 26, how young is that! You have your life ahead of u. It may the hardest thing that you would ever do bt let the hurt go, he is not worthy of your anger.
Btw, you go girl by sleeping with his bf, at least u have tasted another dick and you know all that magic can be experienced with someone else.
I Hope he doesn't pour acid on your head. The best way to move forward is to leave the past behind. Stop wasting your time and energy on him. He's a non mutherfkin factor.
Y r some girls so stupid? What lesson is she trying to teach that girl d with the teeniest bit of common sense don't already know?
1. Don't be the one chasing a guy
2. If a guy is not calling, he's not that into you; let him go
3. Don't mess around with a married man.
4. Men will choose their friends over you. They will remain friends with whoever you slept with and you get a "whore" label.
MtcheWw..yeye.. Better focus your energy on raising your daughter instead of trying to get back at a guy who doesn't even care for you.
In all your bullshit story na still you wey dem fuck for the story. You lost. Your crap story doesn't make sense. You can't avenge men. We are dogs.
ONOME says.............
Lindoooo no dey post this kind of story for your blog again.It offends and insults the intelligence of your readers,truth.For wetin na?Me I blame myself sef,this kain nonsense story I for just waka pass.
Gbemisola YOU ARE A BIG OPONU.Shey that's how they say it in Yoruba?I don't know how else to capture your stupidity.It defies logic.You met a man when you were 13?He was 25.And he stayed with you without touching you and you by your own admission because he did not touch you,you think that is laudable?You are so silly.13???#sigh#
Then you carry your silly infatuation till you become older and a bit wiser and even when the handwriting started showing on the wall you still tanda for there?Silly child.
Then you discover he was " coerced" into marriage and get pikin and your umbilical stump still dey there??Then you go born pikin for am??Then you sleep with his friend and in your silly infantile mind you feel that is some kind of payback??And you think his saying he still loves you and still wants to marry you and meet your family is something to brag about?
YOU ARE AN ABSOLUTE DISGRACE TO DECENT INTELLIGENT WOMEN.
Get a grip of your inane stupidity and take charge of your own damned life.
Your story is the worst out of all the sob help a sister out stories Linda has put on her blog.
Linda I dey vex for you truth.But why Lindoooo why?why this story?why??????????
Nonsense! Whether he brainwashed you or not, you fooled yourself by getting pregnant for him after you realized he was married. Now you tag it "Men are evil". Leave him & go & twitch somewhere else.
(S)he who seeks vengance should first dig two graves . . .
What a stupid story, stupid girl, stupid conclusion, waste of my time reading it. Am I to conclude that all women are vindictive?
Gbemi, can u channel all that energy into something better? Pls don't let him rob u of ur own happiness. In ur quest for revenge, you might miss out on real love. And you'd stay losing innit? So move on. No offence but that ur guy is so immature, it aint even funny at all. Truth is that there are men like that out there. Terrible.
'yawning'
Pls translate d last part of ur comment... Wink
Hahahah.fairy tale
Its a pity Gbemi but if you ask me, just get out of that relationship. By my calculation, you are still under 30 which means you have so much ahead of you. Forget this guy and dont even bother with his friends. At the end of the day, its your pride you are compromising and they may not know ur game, again how are you sure the guy is trully hurt knowing you sleep with his friends...he might still be lying about that.
Pls just go and move on with your life and daughter, there is so much to life than wasting your time thinking of how to hurt someone. May God be with you.
Daisy.
Babes i know you feel angry but let me tell you as someones whose been hurt the only way you would move forward is you forgive and learn not too expect too much from me...Because you have got so much anger and disgust in you right now that it is very unhealthy and unsafe for you...,i tell you the more you plan to get him back, the more you hold urself down.....it is not easy i tell you,..but you need to let go..
omg i cant believe smeone can be this gullible....ode oshi, get a life
hmmmn,stories that touch the heart.
*yawns* Gbemi! Gbemi!! Gbemi!!! Oya gaan have a productive life n stop plotting.
I just wasted few minutes of my life reading ur crap.. You just a fool
Why waste time ploting a revenge though? from wat i gather you are 26years now. you have ur life ahead of you. forget the guy and move on. Your type of revenge is childs play to me.
Pls consider my advice even if u don't need it, go on and sleep with all his friends, dogs and goats in your area. Who owns ur body? Ode Oshi!!!
You stayed for 13yrs? The guy in the first place is a bloody paedophile! Your mate wouldn't hv done this to you at most he will break up with you and you'll grow from there..don't you see what he has done? He's messing with your sanity! Just get away from him and let God judge him I beg you, what a wicked man
Pls consider my advice even if u don't need it, go on and sleep with all his friends, dogs and goats in your area. Who owns ur body? Ode Oshi!!!
We'll in anytin u do,pls jst take things easy nd think twice God's time is the best nd try 2 make ur baby happy evrytyme
Okay, so this is fiction. I don't have a problem with that - but the 'thought process' is badly carried.
Even Hints from back in the days, let alone during Omena Daniels' days carried a fake ass storyline better than this.
What is this story about, what are we suppossed to feel after reading this? Anger? Resentment?? Please Linda, this is a cheap thrill. Popularity stunt for our comments...
I'm dissappointed
I'm sure you are a beautiful woman, you'll love again, life is too short to spend most of it revenging a man that couldn't see how lucky he was to have a woman like you faithful and patiently waiting. Move on from him, you'll find love again. And yes you are angry, you slept with his best friend, as Hunan being, tendons ways to redeem our heart when we are hurt, but the more we seek revenge, the mire the hole in our heart gets bigger. Steve is wrong for what he did. Forgive and from now be wise. Love is blind, but now you can see. Teach your child to love, and love her cos she yours. God be with you. Be strong.
Sweetheart!! You are going on about your revenge to Steve the wrong way!! I don't blame you. You are right. you were naive....13yrs ago. Now, you're an adult and above all a mother. Whatever you do, remember you have a beautiful young girl who is looking up to you and will one day ask questions. Her questions will bring back memories. When that happens, instead of feeling sorry for yourself, be glad that you overcame!! Why don't you rise above it all. I reckon the best revenge you could ever give, is taking good care of yourself and your daughter. If you like, get married to an honest man...girl. there are loads of them out there. They show up after serious prayers.
From your story, its like you're hurting yourself more than Steve hurt you. Step outside the box, rethink your motive and then plan again.
Revenge is sweet on when its done right.
Goodluck.
~ Menakaya's Baby.
YEAHHH the both of you are wayward. plus Gbemi, plus Steve. Gbemi i'm sorry but how many times are girls gonna fall for this? typical lies from GUYS!!! Camman! pele sha
You need Jesus.I no dey joke o.Find a good church and try to fread the word so the your level of wisdom can be upgraded if not mehn i see you wasting more of your time.
this story is meaningless i dont understand the message she is trying to pass acrossd talk more of learning from it
linda is running short of stories,peopla advicing dis girl must be stupid like her,u re dating some1 far away,sleeping with his friend 2 hurt him and who says he is hurt,its ur body,d guy sef doesnt care,u better go get a life and i think going 2 school is d most stupid thing 2 ave done bcos u even lack wot we call common sense,u shud be in a nursing home,mentally reterded home or something.i wonder d day some girls will start differentiating stupidity from love and am sure u didnt complete d story bcos am sure while u were in school,u would ave bin sending some foreign currency 2 him,ode is an understatement,u are mentally derailed,dats wot u get wen u decide 2 do wot mature pple do at 13.
I dey laff ooo... 4 ur mind now, u wan act "film", I pity 4 ur body. If d guy yarn u swit words again, u go still giv am body. Abegggiii, go drink harpic so dat u go get small sense. Ozwor!
Gbemi, in as much as you are a mother of a 3year old you have not matured emotionally passed the age of 13.
you need to let this guy go, not for his sake but for your own sake, let go of hate and create space for love.
but most importantly, keep your mouth shut, i'm sure before u posted this you thought u had brains, gurl what u have up there is an empty coconut.
W
You are just plain daft .. #mumu
Yawning. Next. Boring gist oo.
Lol @ "Read at ur own risk" I think it is needed in times like this....
Abeg jus shatap diya u!You go shine congo with anoda woman husband ...abegi speak for yasef o jare.
NOT ALL MEN ARE EVIL .....U WERE THE EVIL ONE FOR THINKING YOU COULD USE UR CONGO TO CATCH ANODA WOMAN HUSBAND..SHAME ON YA !!!
Boring, Lame nd Wack, who cares *mtchewwwww*
Very sad to know people still think this way.
Gbemi why?
#yawns#....next?
wow lies from the guy and gbemi
gbemi
he did touch you, when you was 13
u did fuck, whilst you were in abroad
and you knew shit was going down, when you didnt see him for 2 years.
stop tryna play the victim love, it aint working.
move on with ur life, fuck if u want, just stop making your life all about him. such a retarded story. seriously..xxx osaks
You better be pretty, cus u damn sure dumb
This better b a made up story how can u b going out with a married man and think he will live his wife or marry u funny u think if u sleep with his friend that ur getting back at him if u really want get back at his move on with ur life
This story was getting sweet until you said you have started showing him. Well I can help you sha. Give me his number, I will be his paddy then I will invite him over to my house and he can see me giving you doggy.
Plotting a revenge is lame...He already got you and the fact remains that you have a child for him.for everytime you see the child u goin to remember him and that wld hurt you,knowing what he did to you.
Sleeping with his friend was the most stupid thing to have done..you just tagged your self a whore and trust me one day even ur daughter would grow to hear the tales.
The best way to get a revenge is being a better person in life.you are 26... Life just started for you.. Focus ur energy in being very successful in your career.
laugh it all ode so if u r to write a biography about yourself is this what u want your child to be reading that u slept with her dads best friend and revenge theres a life for u to live to d fullest out there and stop wasting your time and lib readers time but linda u fall my hand o with this kind story wey u blog
linda!linda!!linda!!! i had a dream that i bashed ur little pinky and back doors in...that would have been a better story than this cocked up shit....no depth,no analysis and for me not humanly possible....u fall my hand for this one,trust u to put a well orchestrated story out not a dull and incomprehensive one as this...oh well...advice for so called gbemi......GO GIVE UR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST!....Thats real!
laugh it all so if u to publish your biography is this what u want your child to be reading that her mum slept with her dads best friend and spent all her life plotting a revenge better move on but linda u fall my hand gan o with this story wey no make sense
Omo this girl na serious IDIOT o, na who ppl go call Asewo? Infact u no get any since@all. I beg Open yansh well well Oshofree. Delpi007
They say love is a beautiful thing.. it still is. Just that it's only beautiful while it lasted. After that, the experience is considered ugly.
Gbemi, I'm not gonna insult u or call u names like evryone else. I usually tell pple, since u enjoyed it while it lasted, forget about the bad part and remember the good. U were young and naive. Made a mistake, and now u have a daughter. No doubt a constant reminder of her father. But u need to get ur life back on track. He's wasted some of it, dont give him the benefit of waiting what's left of it.
Everyone makes mistakes.. It's actually the path to perfection. Learn from urs and move on. It's wrong to conclude all men are the same. And my dear, until u change that mindset, U'll never find true happiness. Trust me, u being happy without him, is the best way to punish him.
Gbemi, I think that you are still a thirteen year old girl. Grow up and get a life please!
Why is this even on here?
Such a colossal waste of time....
Next!!!
NYC-1 says: Alice Wonderland Story. You could as well say you shot the female bird, but the male bird died.
No offence, I hope your cock and bull story is not an euphemism for suggesting that the tribe that answers such names are ...?
Fake ass story, worst on LIB ever. Mschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
Worst story ever on LIB. Mschewwwwwwwwww!
NYC-1 says: Revenge is not a virtue, so it can never be sweet. Stop using words that make your good advice meaningless. If you had wrote:'Revenge' that would have made sense;but, if you write: Revenge, as in revenge, then your advice is vague and meanlingless. Shoot!!!
@Gbemi
What you dont understand is that sleeping with your baby father"s best friend alone cannot make the man marry you.you can forgive but your cant forget.The memory will keep on ,and the moment he remember that he hate you the more.Moreover,the more you try to hurt the man,the more you hurt yourself.In this, you might loose because after every pay back you try to make,the man still have someone ,her wife to fall back on.Also,you are creating problem for your daugther in the nearest feature.Its better you let go.Try to avoid the man and get another man.Let me tell you the truth,there are millions of men out there that will truly love you.Pls,no need of playing along with the man again or else you will be the one to regret at the end.A word is enough for the wise.
Damm! that's all i gat to say.
Gbemi look you have to get a hold of your life and move on , no man is worth turning you into an emotional wreck , pls try relocating , going back to school for a master's degree , doctorate , just cut off from him and his lies , he can never leave you for his wife , And why should you be a kept lady , him sneaking to see you , stealing to call , remember holidays you waiting for him to come around , remember family gatherings and all , he is just a selfish son of a gun who wants to kill you .
Think of the innocent daughter of yours before you kill yourself I beg you.
My dear, the only revenge that will make sense,is to make him pregnant so as to saddle him with a baby too. But if in any case u won't be able to, I will suggest u count your losses and move on. But what do I know? I have never plotted a revenge before.
Gbemi you must be very stupid for having sex with his friend am sure he is making fun of you too ODE BURUKU am sure you have always wanted to have sex with the guy OLE don't use that a an excuse.
0.O
Seriously? Yawn. Yawn. Yawn. Do you smell fish? I do. This your story is fishy. Don't quit your day job cos you may struggle financially as a fiction writer. The story sounds like a terrible script for a Somaliwood movie. The final section of the story is very weak. Sell the story to a nollywood or Somaliwood "director". You might make a few quid.
If you are telling the truth, then use your head. Get out of the relationship and stay far far away from him; don't get even cos you're wasting your life. Life is damn to short to get even. Move on.
Score: 4 / 10
Oh my days! Some of these comments are something else. Gbemi, please move on with your life. 13 years later, you should be mature enough to know that he's not worth your time. Besides, you're now a mother to a beautiful girl who needs a good role model and your attention. Goodluck to you!
i cant even imagine this yeye story.. mtcheww.
oh chim... this girl get big problem for head oo. chei. my dear biko hapu revenge and go take care of ur daughter. quit playing useless games with ur baby daddy abeg. theres a child involved and its not right for u to be doing wateva it is ur doing biko.
what a story!!!
What kind of yeye story is this abeg??
Oya shidi oke Dadubule
To think the girl even schooled abroad. Abroad in the village, I'm sure!
If this was the first thing i had ever read on your blog Linda, I wouldn't come back here again. I feel nauseous from reading this crap. For you to even think it a worthy story Linda...hmmm.... Please respect your readers abeg. Such low quality stuff should not even be uttered thoughtless of shared.
@ all of u who finkz uve wasted tym readin, y una dey waste d remainin tym of ya lyf postin a comment? If u feel ure wastin tym, i dnt fink derz any need postn a comment. D owner of d story sef tlk say she no wnt advice or comment or woteva, she jst wnts most of u who av or wil fal in d same ditch learn frm her story.... Smh4 some pple sha! Dem go sha wan tlk! Is gah!
You have a daughter, please don't throw your life away. Get help and counselling since you're too hurt for this relationship.
Another April Fool's post by out lovely Linda!!!! No, I didn't fall for it lol :p
Ɣ☺ΰ я probably †ђξ puppet in †ђξ story ♍Ɣ dear Gbemi. Άnϑ †✆ think of getting back at him is JƱڪτ̲̅ a waste of time. Gurlfwend, get a life!!!
I have read alot of comments, and I can only reason with that of LAS, someone is pouring out her heart, and some people think these is funny,posting slazzy comments for fun sake, pls shout up if you've got nothing to say. Mtsheeeew.
You are still very naive like when you were 13. Better engage your brain and plan your future well before time leaves you behind!
You are a Yoruba woman and I will encourage you to go play Sunny Ade's album where he sang "k'okurin to atorin, k'obinrin to atorin, enikan ni lati l'omi leyin ese jurawon lo". Can't translate that without killing the message.
Stay there and be plotting, the worst you can do is to kill him. Come back here after doing that to let us know how good it feels.
Life has dealt you a hand, what you play is up to you.
hey lady,,he was married and he promised you after u came back right? believe me,,you broke there home,,i was there before,,,stop speaking ur mind,,and tell us what realy happen,,linda interview her wela wela,,from swiss
Linda, face your competency (spreading gossip faster than the speed of light) and leave the dumb story weaving for hints magazine.... oh sorry, it no longer exists! Gbemi ko, Gbemi ni!
LINDA U MUST HAVE MADE THIS UP LOL!!!!1
Seriously linda as in serioisly linda wat is this. Wasted ma time reading this crap line. Even hints writes beta. R u trying tu kid our intelligence or showcase stupidity. Make up ur mind plss. An LIB I aplogise onbehalf of linda for this daft weak boring lame sob story. If u like dnt post ma comment.
Pls leave revenge for God and channel ur energy elsewhere.ur daughter needs luv and care and shldnt b misguided. Move on there is no biggie, shit happens tis not rocket science.
di§ happens evry dai,,our hus Я guilty
U still av ur 13yr old fantacy cos U neva had an experience in̅ life couple wit d fact U schoold abroad,
If u had schoold in̅ 9ja,, u wld av bin wise 4rm oda peeps experience
ℓ dnt blame u,, u had a butterish brain cos of d environ u grew,whεrε dεγ Я obsessed wit luv
Welcome home 2 9ja,whεrε d diff i§ clear
,J̅ust 4get dat man nd ROCK Чυя life
Dis is d dumbest crap v heard so far. Who cares if u sleep wit his late father? Its ur body not his. @linda plz give sensible
authentic stories ʼn not bulls**ts like ds ʼn stories dat v no sense.
You need a therapist ok!!!
For 13 years!!!.... shey na tuface and annie macaulay ni... but bone, girl u sound really childish..Just leave the relationship, forgive, pray for God's wisdom and move on with ur life. Shikena!
As from now on..... I'm reading the comment before reading. Rubbish
waste of time - the whole story is convoluted
Gbemi since you claim you don't need advise, you don't have to put question mark in your writing. Let me quickly call your attention to it . If you continue to hate this guy for all he has done .... Sooner or later you will transfer it to your daughter. In no time , you will start channeling your anger for that man on your child. Revenge is a M*f*cker. You are d one that the tag and disgrace of sleeping around will add to your tag of a small girl that won't leave a married man alone . So just wise up and take a walk from your naïve past. Its sad that u have brought a child into your mess. But its best to find the girl a better father and move far away from the man .
said it b4,will say it again.80% naija girls have chicken brains the size of peas.gbemi pls continue playing along.hopefully he'll knock u up a second time and u'll have twins to occupy ur obvious joblessness
You want revenge? Get a gun and shoot him in d head otherwise get lost!!!
I can't blive i actually read dat story twice to make sense of it
You know what... i alwasys try not to judge people becasue i don't know what i'ld do if i were in their shoes. it is very easy to point fingers at people, but only God knows what i'ld do if i were in her shoes.
I know a guy who was in love with me when i was 11years old. our neighbor's son who was 10years older than me. my parents liked him, because he was in medical school and very brilliant, although they didn't know about his feelings for me.i lived in nigeria with my parents at that time. When i left the country he kept in touch with me, but i never encouraged him. Only God knows what would have happened if i had encouraged him. Me being young and naive, could have gone in Gbemisola's direction.
To me it seems like you are still in love with him, but my advise to you is to let him go. Concerntrate on you and your daughter, who knows... you might just meet Mr right.
Both Steve and u r not normal. u r both schizophrenic. its his poor wife and ur daughter i pity. Ladies pls never believe married men when they abuse their wives to u. its just to falsly make u feel they love u. they will never leave madam for u.
sleeping with his friend as revenge. Are u for real? whose T#*o is it? abi na him something u use? my dear im sure his friend and him compare notes on u. u r nuts!!!
best comment ever.. Very mature and honest. Every other person is throwing stones at her..
LwkmD!!!!
where make we buy the movie??? the movie no go sweet sef..
Dear Gbemi,
i understand the pain u went thru from the beginning of ur story. it hurts wen a man plays u for a fool.
u started out very early i must say. 13!
oh well, not poiinting any fingers at u though but sweetheart u got it all worng with ur revenge.
yes he used u, and a sweetbaby girl resulted. u should have just taken a walk. far off from where he can ever set eyes on u.
in cases like this the beset thing to do is go far away with ur baby, start a new life, give ur baby all the love she deserves n not trying to proove that u can hurt him back. u only made a mess of urself by so doing. some bad heartless men will always be d way they r. i bet they will laugh over ur p**sy over cartons of beer as someone mentioned here.
my dear, i dont intend to say much, the deed bas been done, uve made mistakes, just pick the remaining of ur life n start clean. leave this man alone. God will pay him back in his own coin. the bible says the lord shall reward the wicked with thier own wickedness.
take a deep breathe darling. cut off contacts from this man, go far away where he cant see or know what n how u r doing with ur life and be a loving mum to ur baby.
it is well.
Eyaaa...He is living his life while u are there thinking of ways to deal wiv him. U even started by sleeping with his best friend. That is no way of dealing wiv a man, cuz at the end of the day its ur fucking body (or what is remaining of it) u are messing up.
U seem really occupied wiv this guy even after 13 wasted years. Cut him off and start afresh and pls this time dont be stupid jor. lol.
- Linda, I know say na you dey write these stories sha...hehehehe
Wait a minute,at d intro of d story,u said u dnt need an advice,u wnt to teach women lesson.well there is no lesson to be learnt from ur story,infact u engaged urself in what I call child abuse(fallin in love at age 13)ur story ought to have been banned by the Nigerian film and censor's board!U need Jesus in ur life,and probably a deliverance session.
Dee
Lmao. You call your stupidity smart? Asin seriously ? Did you read your story before sending it to Linda? I don't think you realize how stupid you sound with that revenge shit. Darling the best revenge is to let him go, take back the power from him, flip the table and be the one to work again.
Just a quick point to any1 in a long distance relationship. The best way to make it work is by seeing each other Atleast twice a year if not more. Don't understand how you can be in a relationship with some and won't see them for 2yrs aha now. The guy's body no be firewood.
Ha! you have been beaten twice!! Change your focus, you have a daughter - focus on that and build a life for yourself.
If you are still ploting a revenge, you will end up getting hurt....
Just to add Gbemi, look at ur very popular and high ranking nollwood actress Genevieve. she was niave too back then n was taken advantage of.
what did she do? she took her life in the right direction. made the rest of her life beautiful rather than wasting it on revenge. am sure whoever impregnated her then will be looking for ways to mend with her seeing how she has risen in fame n all not minding d mistakes of d past.
my point - let ds b a case study for u. make good use of d rest of ur life n be a better person. those who hurt u will come running back...but use ur head.
Hiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL, can someone be this stupid?! I hope not!
gbemi u need to move on, he is not even worth the time u r spending to plan the perfect revenge. let karma f**k him up.
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Living in denial, he has total control over you. If your life's mission now is to seek revenge, to stoop so low as to sleeping with his friend, come on girl, please wake up! Get a life, forget the dude for life, no need for all the drama abeg, do not raise your child in so much hate! Seriously, get a life, a happy one.
you're just a goat!!!!!, do you think he really cares about you sleeping with his friend? am sure he still sleeps with you, wake up and stop being used .....do something meaningful with your life!!!!
"Funnily enough", you're gonna waste your time planning and executing a revenge. Trust me girl, I've been down that road before and it's a dark lonely road. I learnt one thing, causing pain to the one who hurt you NEVER TAKES YOUR PAIN AWAY!!! Move on with your life else you run the risk of becoming a bitter old lady at a young age. You have a chance to be happy for YOU. Don't mess it up.
Then you Lindinus (:D), this story was boriiiinnnnnggggg! Haba!
Reading this story is the worst mistake i've ever made since joining this blog. Cock and bull story, go sell it to nollywood cos they accept any story.Mtcheeeeeewwwwwww *angryBBsmiley*
gbemi u r a big joke.idiot.linda linda linda,dont try such rubbish again!a word is enough for the wise.lol!!!!!
QF
I jst cant believe som1 cud be ds DUMB ok lets jst assume its true...u cant get ahead of som1 wn u'r tyrin to get even wt dm trust me d swtst revenge is forgiveness.GET UP, DUST UR ARSE ND WALK AWAY!!! nofin will annoy him more. MY MUM is a single parent nd she's doin gr8 so giv ursef nd daughter a lyf stp wastin ya tym plottin. *yawns* Linda u no de try o
QF
I jst cant believe som1 cud be ds DUMB ok lets jst assume its true...u cant get ahead of som1 wn u'r tyrin to get even wt dm trust me d swtst revenge is forgiveness.GET UP, DUST UR ARSE ND WALK AWAY!!! nofin will annoy him more. MY MUM is a single parent nd she's doin gr8 so giv ursef nd daughter a lyf stp wastin ya tym plottin. *yawns* Linda u no de try o
Onome, Onome, Onome. Haba! That was just harsh! Anyway the story may just be an adventurous figment of Linda's imagination.
I think Linda made this story up. I think that Linda is looking at a Nollywood foray. So she is just using us as guinea pigs of sorts to access how good she can be.
But for that Onome I'd have said you were kinda insensitive. You know, it's so easy to condemn and castigate someone when they err. But find yourself in same circumstance, you may not act differently.
Did you consider that this mythical Gbemi was just 13? And so impressionable? And that the guy had a clear 12yrs difference of experience to exploit her emotions?
But for her present course of revenge, I'd find it difficult to blame her really. You can see she grew up naive and so very vulnerable to manipulations of the nature she experienced.
If you must hit her Onome, it's okay to do that from the time she got back and to the point she learnt her guy was now married. That was when she started redefining stupidity and to think she wants to revenge. That was the most hilarious part of te Lie Lie story produced and to be directed by Linda Ikeji, premiering at Silverbird Galleria.
But again, all that aside, it had all to do with her foundation. The guy was her first love. Am sure you know what that does emotionally to women. Even as a guy I know I still go oooohh aaahhh whenever I remember my first love talkless of a woman.
So abeg Onome, softly softly, you hear? No too flog her even though she deserve am.
first of all, you are a terrible writer. you could have pacified the effect of the useless story with a well written story. second of all, you need help!...*yawns* *closing the web browser, about to commence work*..
Chineke! Have mercy folks. Wats up with the insults? She just sought advice. It's people like you that would make a lost lamb commit suicide. Make una take am easy nahhhhhh. Tamper justice with mercy folks, you don't have to send her to the gallows. She didn't say judge me,she said advice me. Shikenan.
gbemi bottom line you no get sense at all
I dont really understand the head nd tail of this story. Hw can u go back to a man who already has a wife all in the name of love. U should hv moved on with ur life when u came back and find out he is already married. There are so many single men out there dat would hv loved u even more than the guy. even an illiterate cannot be as foolish as this.
This story is like a badly written hints magazine article.
becaue i am human...i want 10 mins back. 5 is for gbemi tho; to add bac to her wasted time! jus mayb she will be well again.
Wait a minute,at d intro of d story,u said u dnt need an advice,u wnt to teach women lesson.well there is no lesson to be learnt from ur story,infact u engaged urself in what I call child abuse(fallin in love at age 13)ur story ought to have been banned by the Nigerian film and censor's board!U need Jesus in ur life,and probably a deliverance session.
U guys are not swearing for her ni cos she slept with them, how abt the yeye friend that slept with his friend's babe? am sure that guy knew she is bitter over what happened to her.
its not that easy to move on o, swear all u want, its almost as if she built her life around this guy, now it has crumbled. the ladies shld understand more, cos u gals know how it is wen a man breaks ur heart.
but i advise her to leave this path she is treading o, only leads to disaster and more pains. Find Jesus, besides there are plenty nice guys out there!!
This story does not make sense. The lady is lacks purpose and doesnt know what she wants in life. simple
It simply means re u mad, dnt u have shame dats all.
lwkmd.......no be small 'read at ur own risk'
dis babe no well o, if u like sleep with d guy's grand father, na u still loose. Y wud u still sleep with a man after u knew he was married? U no see say u no get sense at all, n u still wallowed in senselessness n still boast to continue..... May God have mercy on u for all ur sins and mumurity.*long hiss*
...after reading the story,i come up with one conclusion:
This Gbemi girl is still 13years!
ctrl + X.
The story no get head.
A MUST READ BY ALL WOMEN
I REMEMBER: The night with her
I thought to myself this is an exquisite woman that I must get my hands on, this is all I thought of when I first met you… this is an exquisite woman I must get my hands on. I don’t usually use words like “exquisite” or think of the work I would have to do to get a woman but you brought a certain class to the game, a certain je ne sais quoi I couldn’t comprehend… I want you and I must have you.
TO BE CONTD
CONTINUE FRM ABOVE
I spoke to you that day; the day after we met I called you to arrange a dinner date. I usually don’t have to work hard for a woman, I mean I’m no Adonis, I’m no Greek god of beauty but it’s always come easy to me but now you, you are now my prey. I usually don’t speak about women in derogatory ways but you brought a certain instinct to the game, a killer instinct, by gawd I have my eyes on you and now I must have you. I have never seen such curves placed perfectly on a woman; skin so soft I imagine touching it would be like the air in heaven, pure, fresh…mine.
We’ve been talking now.
Gawd how much courting must I do to get you? And these “hard to get games” you women play? How long do I have to play along to show you I’m better at this than you? I tried to warn you I am good at this but alas you think you are holding all the cards, no worries I’ll play along. You seem to be good at this game, you usually get what you want, no matter… you brought a certain skill to the game that I haven’t seen in a while, I see the tactic you want to use… you are going with the “pretty girl, too busy, never been touched” angle; no worries I’ll bring the “I’m a gentleman I’ll never hurt you” angle by gawd you are different… I will have you. I know your type…
Months of courting and we are finally alone, in my room, I’ve courted enough, this is the longest I have had to court for the prize of the nookie, I should be giving a Pulitzer or better yet an Oscar after we both play the roles of our lives tonight, you the woman who I know wants me, me the man who will have you. We are kissing, I am feeling you and you tell me to stop, its getting too hot and heavy… I remember you saying you wanted to build a relationship and you don’t want to have sex again until you trust someone again… no worries you are about to witness my Oscar performance.
I hold you and cuddle you I tell you its all going to be alright, I tease you, you looked me in the eye and said to me no matter how much I want you and I ask you to make love to me… don’t. You gave me the keys to your body and boy was I going to turn them until I open the door to your garden. I kissed you intensely; like the answer to everlasting life were in between your lips, on your tongue. I went down to the perfect form and shape you call a neck, gawd you smell good I remember… I nibbled on it on just a little bit, I feared for you that it may be hurt a bit but your nipples getting hard and your moan made me know you liked it. I couldn’t stop there; you called my name… I went lower it felt like an exploration, an exploration into Eden gawd the way your body called for me. I was on your navel I held your waist firmly with my hands and drew you closer… I saw the arc forming, that’s the space in between your thighs it was getting wider… you said you wanted me. I said no.
TO BE CONTD
CONTINUE FRM ABOVE
You stopped, I remember, you opened your eyes and said why… I said you told me not to, you were shocked… I said no I am a man of my word; I would never hurt you… you told me no so I wont do anything further to you. I remember you looking at me like I was a messiah and you held me close and said you’ve never met a man so trustworthy and gentle, you said I should take you there and then. I remember screaming yes in my head my Oscar performance was almost complete. I explained to you how this would affect me in the morning if you left unhappy and I don’t want to ruin a good thing and you shut me up with a kiss… I was a man, a man with sensitivity. I remember that falsetto in your voice when you prayed… you seemed to be praying a lot, calling the name of God after every thrust I made… you called my name and begged me to make you reach that climax your body had been waiting for, you came.
We cuddled for five minutes; I remember because I kept checking the time wondering when you would leave, to me the cuddling was the wrap party after our love making scene had been shot and wrapped… it was time for you to go, the party is over. I explained to you why you had to leave… I had work in the morning, my boss had just sent me a message to come into work first thing, you were so concerned and helped me dress up and I walked you out.
TO BE CONTINUED
*Hiss* Men are this! Men are that! It is you women that are the gullible ones not putting thinking into relationships. Downright Sexists
lmao! linda, linda, linda *smdh* you'v succeeded in wasting my precious mins...
I never see, i never see.. wonder wonder, wonder wonder
CONTINUE FRM ABOVE
I don’t particularly understand why you were angry, yes I understand its been a week since we had “passionate love” I don’t understand why you would use such romantic terms to explain a night of just sex, I am sorry I didn’t call its been a crazy week.
Yes! I remember we haven’t seen each other in almost a month and I hardly pick up your calls; I explained to you its been a hectic few weeks, further explained I was slaving away at my desk at that very second, how selfish you were, you didn’t understand my strife… you apologized, hoped to see me soon, told me I shouldn’t work too hard, make sure I eat and hung up. I dropped the phone and kept having a drink with my boys… I had seen my new prey already: HEY! A man gotta eat.
I’m sorry you held out for too long, played way too many games, made me spend so much money and time and I have gotten what I wanted which wasn’t that amazing by the way and I hope after a few more missed calls and no reply from me? You would understand I don’t want you. I sit and remember the night with her but I also remember its time to move on to new and more explorative grounds. Tonight? I remember.
This is dedicated to every player out there who has conquered that “unconquerable” woman and to the women who think are in control… lets be honest we never really are- we loose some we win some… its all a risk. Every time you date a guy? It’s a risk he may do everything you want when you want? But it might all be a game to him. Dating isn’t easy and sometimes it’s downright annoying.
If you are one of the people looking for love, marriage, and are serial dating in search of this? Put God first because honestly? You are gonna need all the help from the heavens to score a good man. Or good woman HAPPY HUNTING PEOPLE! And to the men with mad game who manage to flip the script totally on us? WOW I RESPECT YOU and you should totally call me.
This has been a public service announcement BY NOBLE IGWE
u really mean to say that your life have been this shattered for 13yrs and you seriously want to add to the number of your wasted years?... hmm u better wake up and smell the coffee you are just wasting...
@gbemi i just wasted 7mins 34secs of my already miserable life reading your useless story. SMH
u are foolish.....wasted tym readn dis, wld hv read my books
Dis is d most annoying story eva posted to dis blog,why is GBEMI so stupid, haba why re u such an ODE,why let a man fool u,ha he is married he is married oga ooo,u lack self esteem and common sense are u sure u are ohk,person don marry u still open leg for d guy,as far as am concerned u ruined ur own lyf by slipn with him and his frnd.
1 Terabyte Idiotu girl, so u'r sleepin wit his frndz to hurt him??
**yawns**
gal frnd any hw we go about dis u are still at d loosin end so jes packup ur remainin sef and go train dt beautiful daughter God has blessed u wit. Leave d man be, dnt do sumtin ur daughter ll hate u 4 4 d rest of ha lyf.
WRITTEN BY ME:
Everybody is at this Gbemi that does not no what is good for her.
Now Linda mind the kind of story you post here, to avoid waste of time.
WRITTEN BY ME:
Even the picture of this story can tell.
@iam the no sender, u think i made this story up? lol Like u think i have the time to sit down and write all these? when i can spend the same amount of time to look for gossip, news and photos? besides i'm more creative than this. if i wanted to make up a story...it will be deep. I'm as confused about this as you all are :-)
People try and give comments without insulting now haba...
Gbemi,
Please kindly read this: Please FLEE not run FLEE from this relationship. It's hard you'll always have him in your life because of your daughter. But leave the whole revenge part alone. You are just hurting yourself much more and he is free. Un-forgiveness is like cancer it just eats you up from inside.
Let it go please for your sanity and peace. With my calculations you are still under 30. I know ladies who have kids and are your age and still eventually got married and had a life.
Please set your mind on greater things: your career, your future.
Pray for the grace to let go: it's not easy but it is worth it. Very well worth it at the end. I will not say I know how it feels but I have had an experience that's not too similar but not too far apart. But I have told God to take control and give me the strength to let go and focus on Him and my future.
Please I will be praying for you and I hope the spirit of revenge leaves you...
Kelly
SEE GBEMI!!!! AM STEVE FRIEND OOOO COME AND SHAGG ME AS WELL! ABEG NAH!!!
My dear Gbemi, by sleeping with his best friend, u're not hurting him at all, u're only hurting urself, na your yash u de suffer and trust me, they will still meet at d club and laugh at you. Pleeeaaase u need to grow up and move on with ur life. Stop being shallow minded
you ended up just hurting yourself the most bc its your body u r using to carry out the revenge not his and besides, how sure are u he is genuinely sad abt wat u r doing. he might just b faking it.......please move on like most of the comments suggested.wen u r 35 or 40, you will ask yourself wat got into you den.
My dear Gbemi, sleeping with his best friend is not a way to hurt him at all, you're only hurting yourself, na your yash de suffer am. Besides, all those guys will still meet at d club and laugh at you and call you a looser. Please you need to grow up and move on with your life. Not all men are liars. Stop being shallow minded
seriously!is this another episode of gossip girl or what?how can you get back at a man by sleeping with his friend!?!let me read the story again*confused*
seriously!is this another episode of gossip girl or what?how can you get back at a man by sleeping with his friend!?!let me read the story again*confused*
ONOME says.............
@i am,the no sender,lolllllllllllllllll.The way you called/wrote my name 3 times made me laugh!My mama does that when I don error.lollllllllllll
Na Lindooo I dey vex for more than the Gbemi girl.Even though Lindooo don talk say no be she fabricate the story,the story no just make sense to me.
Ok let's assume the story is true,I still find that the Gbemi is an oponu..According to Martin Luther king(jnr):"NOTHING IS MORE DANGEROUS IN THIS WORLD THAN SINCERE IGNORANCE AND CONSCIENTOUS STUPIDITY" and this silly child has demonstrated both.If you read through the circumlocutory jargons again she displayed inane stupidity for 13 years and even with a 3 year old child she is still none the wiser.I absolutely cannot stand women who keep playing the victim card,it sucks and it stinks and it makes me so mad.YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE.No excuses.An aphorism goes"if you fool me once,shame on you;if you fool me twice,shame on me".In her own case she has been fooled inumerable times for 13 years and you think I should pity her?Mbanu.Too many other deserving people that need my pity not this infantile moron.
No mind me sha,I dey vex and judging from some other comments on this post,I am not alone in my vexation.
Linda, did you come up with this story yourself? if you did, i think you are terribly bad at writing fiction- so do not do it again!! you may want to attend chimamanda's classes or better still, go back to school!!
you are jutst to gullible....u re thinking like a child..
Linda Biko nu don't be posting all these stories. what kind of dirty love is doing her? better step up n go n look 4 a man n stop been stupid idiot geh..
Gbemi... I think you need to forgive yourself for being brain-washed... Thats if this story is true anyways.. Thats the only way to revenge.. Forgive yourself!!! and pray for your daughter to forgive you.. Thanks Banji.
Gbemi oh Gbemi!! Even Hints does it better!
If this story is by some fluke of the stars true, then you're one of the dumbest women I know and I’m sorry this would be read by both men and women because it's such a shame guys would see this and assume we are all this stupid.
Ok, now I’ve gotten that off my chest, let me be objective...
Sweetheart, you should never confuse infatuation with love!!
The guy might actually have liked all that's pure in you (at least hopefully at 13) and to be honest he's allowed to be selfish. You are the one who has the right to allow yourself to be used or not and in this case you chose to be used. Unfortunately, u came to the wrong place if you're looking for a pity party because thank God Linda has some sensible readers.
If you're really trapped in this sorry excuse of a drama filled life, two words - GET OUT!!!!
No-one can improve your life better than u, is it until he tells u the 1st wife is pregnant again b4 u realize you're letting him eat his cake and have it by continuing to "serve it" to him in the name of revenge?
Thank God for the bundle of joy u have and get on with being a decent mother to your daughter and not shagging your "man's" friends (e no fit pain am as u were obviously not that important to him in the 1st place!)
Reality bites my darling......
In have alwasy said it men are oloruburuku akoshibero, bastards of the highest order they can lie till kindom comes kai gbemi i pitty u o omo men showed you good but what i have learn and what the best ting to do is to leave the judgement to God. Gods judgement is worse than any judgement that you take upon urself LEAVE THAT OLORIBURUKU TO GOD i give him 12 months max before he see's Gods hand writing walahi. face your life babygirl the best revenge is living a good life and also when he comes back that he will see you doing good and cry even more leave him to God gbemi i take God beg you. If i tell you my own story you will cry for me but i have left it to God to judge! xx
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! Linda! your funniest story yet!
*Whew* laughing in my native language!
Jesus Wept! Seriously, you call this revenge?
Sweetheart you'll only be hurting yourself.
Just count your loss and move on!
Please pretty please, this is extremely silly!
Wait o, i don't get it. She actually wanted to hurt Steve by sleeping with his best friend? to whose detriment? Too late to start feeling bad, there's no better revenge than to be silent...Leave him d hell alone and get a full grip of ur life and ur daughter's.Ladies can be stupid sha.
Linda, please tell the script writer who sent you this story to run by us, before using it for a film that its absolutely lame!! I'm upset I just wasted 5 minutes of my time. Tales by moonlight!
WOW
IM NOT EVEN GOING TO TALK TOO MUCH.
Gbemisola, your story is touching and one should not blame you for wanting to seek revenge. are you a believer of Christ?.cos romans 12:19 tells us to avenge not ourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is of the Lord and He will repay. sleeping around, getting urself angry and filling ur heart with evil thoughts will only hurt u for we are to guard our hearts with a ll diligence for out of it are the issues of life. my advice is for u to pray, pray and pray ps: consider ur child, shes more important.
Gbemisola. A word is enough for the wise. Move on with your life without this guy. If you are not aware by now he seems to be gaining more from this situation. He has a wife and a mistress (you). You on the other hand sound like a bitter single parent. Also just because you haven't slept with a lot of guys doesn't make sleeping with his friend ok. Very slutty thing to do. Move on babe.
Tonye.
I don't think calling Gbemi names or abusing her would do any good. Look Gbemisola, There's no joy in plotting revenge, you are the only one who knows your story and lived through it, learnt from the experience and be a better person for the sake of your lovely daughter. Like someone rightly mentioned, if you keep on plotting revenge, you will only live your life about him and that's a total waste. He's hit you had, you've fallen, no get up, dust yourself and move on. Channel your energy towards something fruitful.
And heed not the rants of those calling you a fool, a loving heart can be foolish plus everybody plays a fool once in his/her lifetime. Just come out of this a wiser, stronger, better but not bitter person. Perhaps if you were Godly, you coulda seen through his deceit. I am a muslim but I know the bible too warns against listening to the heart, use you head and read through the lines. I must say that sleeping with his best friend wasn't the brightest idea, you can't tellme that you don't feel like a slut when you think of it at times......heck!!! I'm going on like it's a dm to Gbemi herself.
What a Story, Please i advise her to forget about the guy and move on with her life.
look peeps, i really dont care whether the story is cooked up or not. Let this serve as warning to other young girls. It really does happens, i know ladies in their 20s that are that gullible, and guys do shit like this without conscience, i have seen it happen. You guys should just take the lesson from it and use it has advice to other girl. As for Gbemi, please, try to just quit this revenge thing, even if you succeed in your revenge, he will still move on with his life, and at the end of it all, you will realize you are the biggest looser, trust me.
Fictional tales by Linda!!! Can't believe you guys waste your time responding.
Gbemisola!,Gbemisola!!, Gbemisola!!! 13years wasted can never be recovered, but you can move on. You were foolish for this past thirteen years, but, you'll be the most foolish and end up in self-destruction if tow the path you're towing. Don't be a fool.
Wat a dirt bag...after Steve has dumped his crap into u, u took it to his friend to dump his crap as well...u have no xuse 4 being such a dirt bag n u have no reason to stop now. Pls let the bag go round, (***eeeeeyeeew***) take it away from me and get me a fresh bag.
Ms Gbemi something. Im trying so hard not to join the bandwagon and say ur story is baseless but my fellow Nigerian, use ur brains! He hurt u, no doubt and he deserves to be punished but let his God do that job. Pick up your life and do wonders with it rather than sleeping with his bestie. U think they haven't had their laff over that? The joke is on your head at the end of the day. To be forewarned is to forearmed. Use ur head NOW!Se finis!
This story oozes rotteness from all rotten angles! choi, dis is BAD!!!1
what a moron....you really should read Eze goes to school. twat!!!
NIGERIAN MOVIES ALWAYS BORING
This is the problem with most naija girl. they think marriage is the all and all. They kill themselves cos of a man. There is no stupid lesson here. This shit happens everyday to stupid girls. Look how whse has runied her life now.rubbish.
A beg I dey vex. Pls don't waste ur energy cus no matter how u play it u will end up losing. Just shine ur eye next time and men pls stop dis ur nonsense fake marriage talk with naive girls.
i don't believe this is a true story, but if it is, Gbemi or whatever u call ur dumb self, you are a F O O L!
Awwww, guess who's responding to a comment I made... It's actually Linda herself. Ahh, Linda, you've paid me a rare compliment.
But seriously, my reference to this being a figment of your imagination was not in anyway to belittle you.
Infact it was a compliment of sorts. True, several things don't add up about the story but for me I assumed that you felt, this was time to get this blog heated up and so within minutes (this was actually were the complement I gave you is hinged; that you can put this story all together within your tight schedule. Believe me, it's a plus for you) you decided to give us this gist.
To tell you the truth, if I owned this blog, I'd do it once in a while. Stories like this, true or not definitely will attract comments. If I lie go check out Hints magazine. With all the fabricated stories that people are so aware of, comments in response amass.
In anycase whether true story or false(does it matter sef? After all Linda you already have 180 comments and still counting), my own thoughts were expressed in response to Onome's earlier post.
To her own re-post, Onome I want to say I agree with you. I guess your hard stance is what Gbemi needs at this time. Someone needs to shock her out of her suicidal path before it's too late. Telling her to grow up and making her realize how stupid she's and still being should help her move on. It doesn't matter whether she needs the advice or not.
Getting mad at him and seeking revenge is indirectly giving him control over your life. I'm sure that's what he wants. Happiness is a choice; if you want to be happy you've got to make that choice and I think it should be letting him go with his troubles. Starting a new life with no baggage is the best gift you can give yourself and your daughter
I came back to my desk this afternoon tired, stressed and angry that I lost a good deal, I still managed to click on LIB. You all have made my day with your comments and I have totally forgotten I had a bad day. It had always been Lol, I can't laugh, now I can laugh out very loud.
Babezz please stop fooling around raise your daughter to be a responsible girl forgive steve and God will give you your own man
i dont understand. you are contradicting yourself. He has changed towards you and wants nothing to do with you and your daughter. Yet, he professes his love for you and wants to meet your family? Am i missing something here?
Gbemi, move on with your life. no need for you to fight with steve. Leave him for God. remember this; WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND. Leave him and move on with your life.
Stupid anon @3.23 am sur u be man o! Ar we reading d same story? Am sur it ppl like u leak d hass of men. Fool
Gbemi, you're 'oponu sowe nu'!!! Ode buruku.
Was Steve's body you used or yours? Fine, Steve is a liar, failed you, blah, blah, blah; when you realised all his deceit, why didn't you block, delete or blank him out of your life????
Men like Steve aren't worth 2nd chances. His married, then he is; so be it. It can't be changed. It hurts - I know; but you should have just deleted him and carried on with your life.
There are countless honourable men that'd have treated you like a queen that you are rather than the useless Steve you stuck with.
And you still want to play along with him????
Give me a break please, and move on already!!!
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