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Monday, 26 June 2017

If you feel your partner provokes you to the extent of bringing out that animal in you, please do yourself a favor by walking out of that marriage-Mercy Aigbe

Mercy who recently walked out of her seven year old marriage to her estranged husband, Lanre Gentry, following series of alleged battering, shared the photo above on her IG page today and wrote;
"According to Human Rights Activist lawyer Emeka Uguwonye..... This woman was battered by her husband! How long are we going to condone this inhumane act for? Some very shallow and evil minded fellows will say she must have done something to provoke the man!.......
For Christ Sake, if you are provoked can't you control yourself? Instead of killing your partner or rendering the person disabled!šŸ˜” If you feel your partner provokes you to the extent of bringing out that animal in you pls do yourself a favour by walking out of that marriage šŸ˜”! ...... We should learn to control our anger as violence doesn't solve anything...... If you know you have anger management problems, pls get professional help! Battery and Assault is a crime punishable under the law! #enoughisenough #saynotodomesticviolencešŸš« #saynotoassault #saynotoverbalandemotionalabuse #learntocontrolyourself Join the #1in3Africa an initiative of her Royal Majesty @oloriwuraolaogunwusi........#StopViolenceAgainstWomen ! Join us as we walk against Violence on June 30th by 10am! Start of point is Falomo Bridge by Awolowo Road! #togetherwecandoit #offendersshouldbepurnised #speakup #noshameinmypain Every woman should be empowered šŸ’Ŗ........ The Sucess of a marriage should be a collaborative effort , Men pls stop expecting the woman to do all! Remember it is a partnership!".

21 comments:

GALORE said...

You don dey get small sense

I think say you wan die put there because of the title @MRS



@Galore

Joel Hechimenum Williams said...

if am that lady ehhhn...I will go and reconcilevwith my husband...earn his trust...then one evening...i will put poison in his food...for him to eat and then...den run away...dats better!!

Bunny said...

Domestic violence is wrong on all counts.. secondly, if you don't or can not handle provocation, you shouldn't make the decision to get married to anybody in the first place,you can't live together and not get on each other's nerves sometimes. If you are provoked, walk away from the scene, stay away from the person and cool off in any way that works for you. Violence doesn't solve it, neither is divorce sweet. Marriage is daily conscious hard work and investment., you can only withdraw from it as much as is being invested and of course by both parties. #saynotodomesticvoilence #saynotodivorce #marryandstaymarried #workitout #putthatpunchingfistinyourpocket #letlovelead

Joel Hechimenum Williams said...

dont forget to Read all that is to come on twist of fate

Manuel Kunmi said...

issokay

Joyous babe,Linda Ikeji First Cousin said...

Some men are animal, too bad.

donduke said...

Is not just about walking out of marriages that's the real solution, I expect to hear things like take time to pray very well before saying I do. It is the Animal in one partner that brings out the Animal in the other person. Question should there be an Animal in the first place? And if there is, what then is the solution? Pls let us go back to the basics of Marriage and stop saying unfounded stuffs especially if it contradicts the word of God.

Vivian Reginalds said...

azn e no easy sha BEHT JUST LEAVE!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Freeman Patrick said...

This maltreatment is not fair na
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Iamjulee said...

True talk mercy men dis days are too wicked and lazy

Janet said...

What happened to the way our father and mother live during those days, they spend 50....60 years plus together, I know that during that time

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they will also have various issues but they were able to resolve it and still stick together. instead of enduring .

Anonymous said...

Different views.

Anonymous said...

Different views.

Anonymous said...

If he divorced and remarries , his wife becomes a husband snatcher.

Anonymous said...

When u keep too many owambe friends you have the tendency to over like money,charm and other materialistic things,when you are not spirit field and conscious of the things happening around and Finally SOCIAL MEDIA the grand father of them all, the main reasons home breaks these days.

Anonymous said...

Stupid ignorant comment

Anonymous said...

Nice one Bunny

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Anonymous said...

.....also Av seen some cases where the woman cut her finger herself and smeared the blood on one corner of her eyes and mouth used aboniki to great tears and she took photos,in those photos she was really looking bad she did that because her marriage had broken down badly and she wanted to leave the marriage not that the man was driving her o and he had never laid a hand on her ever instead he drives out and stays out for some time whenever they had their arguments, she did that so that the authorities will give her her husbands properties when she leaves....many of these women are dramatists like Tonto Dike did to her husband.... Mind you I don't support wife battering I abhor it in every sense of it but there are men too out there who suffer battery from their wives too but are too ashamed to speak out

Anonymous said...

.....also Av seen some cases where the woman cut her finger herself and smeared the blood on one corner of her eyes and mouth used aboniki to great tears and she took photos,in those photos she was really looking bad she did that because her marriage had broken down badly and she wanted to leave the marriage not that the man was driving her o and he had never laid a hand on her ever instead he drives out and stays out for some time whenever they had their arguments, she did that so that the authorities will give her her husbands properties when she leaves....many of these women are dramatists like Tonto Dike did to her husband.... Mind you I don't support wife battering I abhor it in every sense of it but there are men too out there who suffer battery from their wives too but are too ashamed to speak out

Anonymous said...

You are a very big fool. U think marriage is boyfriend and girlfriend game? That u can just say you're no longer interested?

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