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Monday 6 July 2015

Woman so scared of vomiting during pregnancy asks her boyfriend to have vasectomy

The partner of a woman who is so terrified of vomiting that she has given up the chance of parenthood at 27 has had a vasectomy so he can continue to be with her.

Vicky Nash's fear of vomiting is so debilitating that she hasn't had a proper meal in 15 years and weighs less than seven stone, despite being 5'6inches tall. Before she was prescribed dietary supplements by her doctor, she weighed 31kg.

Her fear, known as emetophobia, means that she obsessively cleans her home to rid it of germs that could make her sick and washes her hands thirty times a day.
But perhaps the most significant impact is that she has already given up on the chance to ever become a mother because she is so terrified of morning sickness.

She met her current partner Dave Robinson, 40, through her former husband Danny Howard, when they split with in 2013, partly due to the fact he wanted children.
And Dave soon realised the impact it would have on their lives after a condom split, which sent Vicky into a total panic as she despaired over the idea of morning sickness or even taking the morning after pill.
As she was lying on the floor trying to build up the courage to swallow the pill which she feared may trigger a gag reflex, Dave pledged to have a vasectomy.
Vicky said: 'At first I tried to talk him out of it, then I tried to push him away but he was determined and I gave in. We both knew it was sensible if we wanted to be together.'
Dave, who is the last male Robinson in his family, said: 'I realise I've given up the chance to have children if Vicky and I split but I don't think that's ever going to happen. 'I don't want to be without her.'

Vicky also suffers from fibromyalgia - a condition that puts the sufferer in constant pain but doctors can't explain why.
On top of that, she finds it difficult to leave the house because of her agoraphobia, a fear of going outside which meant she couldn't even go and see her father in the days before he died.
Dave has now given up his job as a security guard to become her full-time carer, yet another sacrifice he has had to make for love.
He must also learn to live in a super-hygenic house, wiping down every surface and only bringing meat inside if it is stored in the freezer.
Vicky was just 11 when she was diagnosed with the disease after nearly choking on her own vomit. It came at a difficult time after being sexually abused by a family friend and as her parents got divorced.
The condition was so serious that she was allowed to leave school at 14 and she has made numerous attempts to overcome it, trying hypnotherapy, acupuncture and even paying £1,000 for over-the-phone counselling from specialists in America. 
However, she fears she will never conquer the disease as she watches friends move on with their lives and start families.
Vicky even said she would not be a good mother in her current condition, admitting she would worry too much about them falling ill and being sick.

Irish Mirror

62 comments:

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Madness o

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Women women women! *sigh*

Anonymous said...

You and wrong titles linda. From the post we can see the man decided on is own to get a vasectomy, contrary to your title.

TechDavids said...

Its really bad, what the gal is going through. But the man getting a vasectomy is just of it.

henryoguadimma@gmail.com said...

American Wahala....e plenty well well for dia

Anonymous said...

Am sorry on her behalf.

Lolo said...

Wow,this we do for love,wish she could change her perception then things will be a lot easier for her

Unknown said...

Story for d gods

naija dj said...

The irony of this is that she will probably cheat on him and get pregnant by another guy. He'll then be well and truly f#cked because he'll be shooting blanks for life.

Anonymous said...

Watsup with the Phobia Phobia thingy?Nne bia u must be an ogbanje.Btw Dave is a mumuist,if ur. Done being a security guard downgrade to meat selling*ko kan aye*


I love Suppy maggie

Mzz_Mary said...

Aaaw
Too bad

Dave Mide said...

wetin person no go see ,So shes suffering from Emetophobia ?? iyen na da! won a wa alright

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm! Only she suffers from all these, it's a pity. She's lucky to have such a man, who TRULY LOVES her enough to undergo a Vasectomy and also stopped working to look after her. Guess they live on benefits from the government then!

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm! She alone suffers from all these, it's a pity. She's lucky to have such a man, who TRULY LOVES her enough to undergo a Vasectomy and also stopped working to look after her. Guess they live on benefits from the government then!

Anonymous said...

It isn't every pregnant woman that throws up though.

Olaide Davies. said...

Two kolomentals .Una no serious at all. The two of them should come to Nigeria for deliverance.

Anonymous said...

This girl needs to meet pastor Olukoya for a serious deliverance. Wtf!!

Unknown said...

eh yah God help her

meggy said...

Poor her............ na wa o

Unknown said...

Some pple no get wahala sha..at jst 27? Isorait.

Unknown said...

Some pple no get wahala sha..at jst 27? Isorait.

Unknown said...

Americans are a curse to human race...

Anonymous said...

She needs deliverance fast.

Anonymous said...

What a stupid man.

Anonymous said...

Linda; this woman has the shape of your head tho. BTW; phobia is a bad tin. I understand her pain.

Allybrownny said...

These white like to do things anyhow they like,strange humans

Unknown said...

God will guide you

ary said...

This is not love. it is torture, that guy might probably regret this. Moreover this woman has got serious issues, who wants all this stress?! This is work not a relationship.

Anonymous said...

Mtscheeewwwww. The guy himself doesn't want kids.

Unknown said...

What a world.

Unknown said...

What a world.

Unknown said...

Tschew...


OKORO UPGRADED**

Unknown said...

Nawa oooh am short of words!!!!this is serious people are really going through a lot.JC

Unknown said...

See this woman o, why didn't she freeze her eggs?

Amaka.u.l said...

Na wa o

CASTILO4REAL(sexy mama) said...

ogbanje tins

Anonymous said...

DS ONE NA NEWS???TOMJERRYSWIT

Anonymous said...

DS ONE NA NEWS???TOMJERRYSWIT

Anonymous said...

So terrible. I pray God gives her strength to push through this and overcome each fear

Unknown said...

They should carry on..

Unknown said...

All good, and nice. I wish them all d best thereof. Its well wit their souls.

Anonymous said...

OMG, ds whites n terrible sicknesses.




HOL

Damilola said...

Different shades of sick

Unknown said...

Madness

Unknown said...

Yeye woman and selfish one at that while she no remove her womb since she does not want children instead of telling the man to do vasectomy. And the man agree to it Uhmmmmmmmmm

Unknown said...

Hm...The fear of something that brings back gory memories can be deadly. I kinda understand.

Unknown said...

Things men do for love....

TONIA GREEN said...

May God help her and everyone else who finds herself /himself in such critical condition. It's real and tormenting.

❤❤❤ THE PROPHETESS ❤ ❤ ❤

yawanow said...

what rubbish excuse.

I B M bolubantin said...

Wht people do for love

Mr_SouL Get Naija Twitter/IG followers/7AB109CB said...

Mumu man, wen divorce be like gala for US, hope docs cn undo d procedure

KC said...

L♥√ع nwatiti... 9ja men no go fit do dis one º°OO°Âº ... Æ”☺U̶̲̥̅̊ wan end him generation? Nne enjoy am º°OO°Âº

Unknown said...

Complicated chic...

Unknown said...

This is insane

Unknown said...

What she needs is deliverance

Anonymous said...

Why didn't she hv her womb removed. Plp nd disease self. Emetophobia kwa, oh

Unknown said...

Kai!oyibo can mumu sha!y did the woman nt remove ha womb?

Anonymous said...

It's not usa and the procedure is irreversible

Unknown said...

Their choice, their lives....

yourstrulyblogposts.blogspot.com said...

Ok

Juleslouis said...

Whites and their weird sicknesses.

Nky said...

odikwa egwu

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