Vicky Nash's fear of vomiting is so debilitating that she hasn't had a proper meal in 15 years and weighs less than seven stone, despite being 5'6inches tall. Before she was prescribed dietary supplements by her doctor, she weighed 31kg.
Her fear, known as emetophobia, means that she obsessively cleans her home to rid it of germs that could make her sick and washes her hands thirty times a day.
But perhaps the most significant impact is that she has already given up on the chance to ever become a mother because she is so terrified of morning sickness.
She met her current partner Dave Robinson, 40, through her former husband Danny Howard, when they split with in 2013, partly due to the fact he wanted children.
And Dave soon realised the impact it would have on their lives after a condom split, which sent Vicky into a total panic as she despaired over the idea of morning sickness or even taking the morning after pill.
As she was lying on the floor trying to build up the courage to swallow the pill which she feared may trigger a gag reflex, Dave pledged to have a vasectomy.
Vicky said: 'At first I tried to talk him out of it, then I tried to push him away but he was determined and I gave in. We both knew it was sensible if we wanted to be together.'
Dave, who is the last male Robinson in his family, said: 'I realise I've given up the chance to have children if Vicky and I split but I don't think that's ever going to happen. 'I don't want to be without her.'
Vicky also suffers from fibromyalgia - a condition that puts the sufferer in constant pain but doctors can't explain why.
On top of that, she finds it difficult to leave the house because of her agoraphobia, a fear of going outside which meant she couldn't even go and see her father in the days before he died.
Dave has now given up his job as a security guard to become her full-time carer, yet another sacrifice he has had to make for love.
He must also learn to live in a super-hygenic house, wiping down every surface and only bringing meat inside if it is stored in the freezer.
Vicky was just 11 when she was diagnosed with the disease after nearly choking on her own vomit. It came at a difficult time after being sexually abused by a family friend and as her parents got divorced.
The condition was so serious that she was allowed to leave school at 14 and she has made numerous attempts to overcome it, trying hypnotherapy, acupuncture and even paying £1,000 for over-the-phone counselling from specialists in America.
However, she fears she will never conquer the disease as she watches friends move on with their lives and start families.
Vicky even said she would not be a good mother in her current condition, admitting she would worry too much about them falling ill and being sick.
Irish Mirror
62 comments:
Madness o
Women women women! *sigh*
You and wrong titles linda. From the post we can see the man decided on is own to get a vasectomy, contrary to your title.
Its really bad, what the gal is going through. But the man getting a vasectomy is just of it.
American Wahala....e plenty well well for dia
Am sorry on her behalf.
Wow,this we do for love,wish she could change her perception then things will be a lot easier for her
Story for d gods
The irony of this is that she will probably cheat on him and get pregnant by another guy. He'll then be well and truly f#cked because he'll be shooting blanks for life.
Watsup with the Phobia Phobia thingy?Nne bia u must be an ogbanje.Btw Dave is a mumuist,if ur. Done being a security guard downgrade to meat selling*ko kan aye*
I love Suppy maggie
Aaaw
Too bad
wetin person no go see ,So shes suffering from Emetophobia ?? iyen na da! won a wa alright
Hmmmmm! Only she suffers from all these, it's a pity. She's lucky to have such a man, who TRULY LOVES her enough to undergo a Vasectomy and also stopped working to look after her. Guess they live on benefits from the government then!
Hmmmmm! She alone suffers from all these, it's a pity. She's lucky to have such a man, who TRULY LOVES her enough to undergo a Vasectomy and also stopped working to look after her. Guess they live on benefits from the government then!
It isn't every pregnant woman that throws up though.
Two kolomentals .Una no serious at all. The two of them should come to Nigeria for deliverance.
This girl needs to meet pastor Olukoya for a serious deliverance. Wtf!!
eh yah God help her
Poor her............ na wa o
Some pple no get wahala sha..at jst 27? Isorait.
Some pple no get wahala sha..at jst 27? Isorait.
Americans are a curse to human race...
She needs deliverance fast.
What a stupid man.
Linda; this woman has the shape of your head tho. BTW; phobia is a bad tin. I understand her pain.
These white like to do things anyhow they like,strange humans
God will guide you
This is not love. it is torture, that guy might probably regret this. Moreover this woman has got serious issues, who wants all this stress?! This is work not a relationship.
Mtscheeewwwww. The guy himself doesn't want kids.
What a world.
What a world.
Tschew...
OKORO UPGRADED**
Nawa oooh am short of words!!!!this is serious people are really going through a lot.JC
See this woman o, why didn't she freeze her eggs?
Na wa o
ogbanje tins
DS ONE NA NEWS???TOMJERRYSWIT
DS ONE NA NEWS???TOMJERRYSWIT
So terrible. I pray God gives her strength to push through this and overcome each fear
They should carry on..
All good, and nice. I wish them all d best thereof. Its well wit their souls.
OMG, ds whites n terrible sicknesses.
HOL
Different shades of sick
Madness
Yeye woman and selfish one at that while she no remove her womb since she does not want children instead of telling the man to do vasectomy. And the man agree to it Uhmmmmmmmmm
Hm...The fear of something that brings back gory memories can be deadly. I kinda understand.
Things men do for love....
May God help her and everyone else who finds herself /himself in such critical condition. It's real and tormenting.
❤❤❤ THE PROPHETESS ❤ ❤ ❤
what rubbish excuse.
Wht people do for love
Mumu man, wen divorce be like gala for US, hope docs cn undo d procedure
L♥√ع nwatiti... 9ja men no go fit do dis one º°OO°Âº ... Æ”☺U̶̲̥̅̊ wan end him generation? Nne enjoy am º°OO°Âº
Complicated chic...
This is insane
What she needs is deliverance
Why didn't she hv her womb removed. Plp nd disease self. Emetophobia kwa, oh
Kai!oyibo can mumu sha!y did the woman nt remove ha womb?
It's not usa and the procedure is irreversible
Their choice, their lives....
Ok
Whites and their weird sicknesses.
odikwa egwu
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