Citizen Emeka Uche, the man who abandoned his wife Ruth and
their three set of triplets says he is afraid to come out of hiding as he
fears he may be arrested. According to him, frustration made him run
away from his family after his wife informed him she was having another
set of twins. Speaking with The Nation, he said;
"I love my children, I miss my wife too, but I am afraid to come back. People won’t understand how frustrating life has been. I am scared I would be arrested if I come out. How do I watch my kids suffer? I could not tolerate it. I did not even have money to assist my family. I watched them suffer daily, without knowing what to do. There were nights I watched my children sleep without food. Some days I will buy N100 garri and akara (bean cake) for my family. Because of my low income, I was always in debt before the end of each month. I am a factory worker and I earn N33,000 after tax and union fees. Then I have four children and a wife to take care of, which has been very difficult, I could not stand having a new set of twins that will come to this world to suffer. Initially, I thought it would be a child, probably a boy so that I would have two sons and three girls, but when I learnt it was twins again, the only thing that came to my mind was to run away. It was not an easy decision and I have not been happy knowing that I abandoned them. My wife is a very good woman and I love her. I love my children too. I became frustrated when I called my brothers for assistance and they did not even answer me. I just dressed up that morning, I knew I won’t come back but I didn’t tell her so that she would not feel bad. I am pained that I have not seen my wife and children for three months, sister you won’t understand my situation, but know that it has not been easy for me,” he lamented on telephone, as he refused to disclose his location.”he saidHis wife who was with the reporter while the telephone interview was being conducted reassured him of her love for him and that no one will arrest him saying anyone who arrests him will kill her first
"Please do not hang up the phone on me my heart. Just listen to what I have to say. I understand that things have not been easy but you should know that we have suffered alot. Please come back to me and your children. No one will arrest you because you are still my husband and I still love you. Anyone who arrests you will kill me first. Please talk to this aunt and also come so that we can go to Alausa together. They are all good people and mean well for us,”she saidMrs Uche who received N200, 000 cash gift from Thisday Newspaper was at the bank to open an account and she looked at her three months old twin babies whose birth has brought her fortune and said
"You are a blessing to my family. What would have happened if I had aborted you? I would have just continued suffering with your brother and sisters and father”.she said
151 comments:
Bonario your man is back ohh as u presumed.....lol......
Story too long, niaja no dey carry last. Things don dey now him dey speak Arab there. Come out jor.
Ole man.
So touchy.......d cowardly man can go back to them. It's obvious his wife is stronger. Wish them the best...
Touching
He went far but he must b 4given
Dey shld start using billings method pls 2 avoid a tin like dis again
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Oh now he wants to come back because of the money and gifts from personalities. Abegggg they should arrest his silly self. True friendship or relationship reveals itself during trials and difficulties.
This is why Nigerian ladies hate broke guys, im sure the man might be with another woman for d 3months, stupid Man.
It's this bone deep love that got her in trouble in the first place. The sex must be off the hook. It blinds her to his weaknesses. What will he do at the next sign of trouble, when the limelight disappears, and it's just them again with all those mouths to feed?
So it is now he is coming out to claim his family. What if they had died, marriage is never easy but we all need to be strong through it..
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Pls women,beware of a broke Man...no money,no love.
Dat man get point sha cus poverty too wicked ooo....bt make u come back to ur family and d newborn pls.
Hiss! Nonsense talk frm a man dat is not responsible bcos if he is responsible he wil not utter dis rubbish frm his mouth.
When he was busy grinding her on d bed, didn't he wknow it wil result to pregnancy. Now he is talking cheap talk.
Whenever it is night he should sneak to his houz, and continue frm where he stopped. Nonsense!
wow children are indeed blessings from God. Thank God for well meaning nigerians who came through to help
Useless man
Better die fa
Stop looking for sympathy. Be a man, come out and face the consequences of your stupidity i.e. abandoning your wife and kids. The Nigerian people will accept you more and forgive you for doing so.
hmmmmm!
it is well that is all i can say
Wow....God bless her and her kids.
Please go back to your wife
No one will arrest you
They need you in their lives
That's one of the things poverty can cause
You can't watch your children suffer and yet you ran away from them? You must be possessed. Thank God for your understanding wife
Na wa oh.
Lol.....nobody will arrest him, he bera crawl ou frm where he's hiding
Choi this guy.for ur mind u get sense abi?
Hmmmmmm,i feel for her too....
you are not reasonable at all, why did you impregnate her again after four children.
go and do vasectomy then return.
Wow, he should just go back to her. She has just showed him her love for him so he shouldn't be afraid of anything
When night come, he should sneak home, and continue where he stop...
Dis is display of a man dat is not responsible, and can not stand up to his duties as a man.
Bastard husband...lol....well I no blame am...if to say na u nko...but truth b told he only came back cos he heard d government has intervened....lol
When night come, he should sneak home, and continue where he stop...
Dis is display of a man dat is not responsible, and can not stand up to his duties as a man.
When night come, he should sneak home, and continue where he stop...
Dis is display of a man dat is not responsible, and can not stand up to his duties as a man.
Hmmm men will alwz b men.. owk come bck na u no longer hv any responsibility mtcheww
Lib freak
"....anyone who tries to arrest you will kill me first..". With all my "hard man", I almost felt tears clouding my eyes. What a good woman! What a woman of good will and good heart. Despite this irresponsible man's conduct, she hasn't made any negative comment about him. Dear Lord, where do over due bachelors like us get good women like this? So women like this still exist? Linda, abeg, open account for this woman make I contribute. I love this woman! I sit back and read how shameless women on this blog condemn their husbands and ex-partners. I keep wondering if we still have women that would cover your shame outside and then confront you at home when you mess up. Or, do you think this woman will not pour out her anger on irresponsible Uche when they're alone? That's what good women do.
Return back to ya wife and ya children, there's no point of running away from them any longer go and start a life wit them
Eyaah! I feel d man's pain tho, runnin away wasnt d best option bt let him no dat no matter d situation, he shld always b wt his family.... d Lord wil strengthen dem. Nd to d woman, God wil continue to bless nd provide for u... u did so well by nt abortin ur babies...
Hate 2 see folks suffering.
3 set of triplets or twins?
Story land...story land...bring ur friends lalala.....story land story land bring ur frinds alons👏
story,the two of dem no sabi family planning,after the two set of twins,are dey not suppose to do FP.you con dey talk sey u dey watch dem suffer abeg
make the woman do FP before the man comes out oooo.if not anoder triplets go surface nxt year
a pathetic story of d daily sufferings of Nigerians
d rich are busy stealing and throwing world class parties everywhere
smh.....d man should come out and bear his cross
cos his twins have come with bountiful blessings...
Very funny
Chai........ IT IS WELL!
He deserves to be arrested. He earns 33k and couldn't control his organ after four kids? Useless, foolish and Randy man.
Story for d gods.. cos d woman has been seeing support from pple now he cum get mouth to talk..
As money don enter Godwin
come back first. we go settle that one later
He should be ashamed of himself, after bringing the children into the world he runs away .
come back first. we go settle that one later
So the lazy bone wanna come out now? what a shame!
They are both lazy scroungers looking for charity. Why did they not stop at the first set of twins since he obviously had no money to keep them. Why did they even get married at all. The State government should stop doling out state money without the permission of the state assembly. Any gifts should be personal. My 2 cents please.
He can't hide forever nah I know he will show up one day, and when he comes back he should not pregnant her again o or else lagos state govt will castrate him lmao!!!
Foolish man, as he has seen money coming to his family, he ll now come out frm his hiding to start bullying his wife for money. Pleas u Ppl shld stop fuckn up ndown infront of dos children . Rather do family planning. Mscheew!
Story story!!
Just 200k and he starts singing in Latin. Money na bastard
Because he has heard of the help from Lagos state government. he has no balls. How much is gold circle sef?
OTURUGBEKEEE!!!! Love in Tokyo....OKOKOBIOKO!!!!! Oya come out Oga..u'v gotten the attention u needed as well as fast cash...come out! Una don try for d drama... Tomorrow we will hear of another man running away...
Dummy. So you can't take time to read a simple write up? Shame on you. Rivers fool
"There were nights I watched my children sleep without food." This broke my heart. Life can be tough. They should stop having kids. A family planning clinic can help them.
She shud be ready for 4 more set twins....all diz. my hrt Hz given her 6 already....minwhyl she shud go for family plannin.
After four kids, wat were u looking for wen u knew u had no money? U saw another 3 u were running,while some people are out dere looking for children. God help u
He should crawl out to enjoy the blessing the twins he abandoned are bring to his family. Stupid man
Imagine what would have happened if the wife decided to run away too
.N he tinks running away wil hlp d situatn?wot if dey had died or deir mum had also absconded like him?u r nt man enof ewu.dem force u make u go marry! U go sabi impregnate woman bt u no sabi takia of ur God given children! hlp has started coming dats y he talkn bulshit anumanu!ewu kambia.
Not all men are this irresponsible. So many men stand up this such challenge but this very man is a coward
Its really funny
I knw d man is comin bk...I knw it..he didn't pick call b4 o now he is doin a fone interview
Planned work
I'm with u Anon 9:30, he wnts to be noticed
Hmm.
Bae gat Z thirstin all over again.
Will prolly dump the job n hitch/stow a flight to Lag strictly 2 stalk.
Ur Body is almost perfect, prolly carved 4 some Rare Specie to handle with reverence
Nice DP sweet.
Nice DP.
The woman should take him back but be on her guard... he is a lazy ass man who runs away in the face of problems. silly man
Hiss! Nonsense talk frm a man dat is not responsible bcos if he is responsible he wil not utter dis rubbish frm his mouth.
When he was busy grinding her on d bed, didn't he wknow it wil result to pregnancy. Now he is talking cheap talk.
Whenever it is night he should sneak to his houz, and continue frm where he stopped. Nonsense!
Oga please come back now and take care of ur kids wit ur wife, don't run away and lata come back wen dey are all grown.
Your quite daft
VERY SOON SOME PEOPLE WILL IMPREGNATE THEIR WIVES AND RUN AWAY...THIS MAY BECOME THE REIGNING BUSINESS IDEA, JUST LIKE THOSE WHO TREKKED FOR BUHARI. LOL.
if this man do not ran aways how can a whole world no about this? there was a girl whose said she no one woman who gave birth for twins for fours times. in abeoguta but d wooman family is financially ok. that's way God want it. s
Oga blunt park well biko.a good woman cos she tolerated an irresponsible behavior from an irresponsible man.i hear u! Go to the Stone Age and find women who will die in silence!
Condom is cheap...postinor is cheap!
So the best way to handle that issue was to run? What if government did not step in to help him for still be on d run? Smh Abeg keep runnin jor dem go arrest u, funny man
I have a feeling dis man and d wife plan dis thing. He doesn't earn enough to cater for his family yet he still dey impregnate the woman. Dey never heard of family planning??? Nonsense! Linda take note!
I have a feeling dis man and d wife plan dis thing. He doesn't earn enough to cater for his family yet he still dey impregnate the woman. Dey never heard of family planning??? Nonsense! Linda take note!
Smh, igbo boy. He don hear say money don land. He will disappear after they exhaust the manna
Mr X
Madam Gift and runaway husband.... Pls go and do family planning..... Is it until u give birth to qua-droplet that you will wake up. Linda! Tell them oooo..
idiot man fool as everything don set now he wan come enjoy stupid useless man
Bc money has come he wants to come bck. Shameless man
How were you able to sleep at night without knowing the safety of your family? You're a proper 419. Your family need you.
Precisely! So he thot the children were better off without him n without his 33k addition to the family. Yeye man. Anyway all this help is coming Bcos he abandoned the family.
Wen he coms bak,lag state govt shld b xpectn two more set of twins! Somone got preg. twice nd has 4kids,did he nid any magician to tel him dt he doesnt evn nid half a child again ?esp wen his income is meagre. Abeg! If he lyks he shld get her preg again infact, na world bank go assist dem ds tym around
Yeye man. If not for the help the wife have been receiving from all corners, I bet dis man would still be in his hiding place. What a shame. He had better get into family planning n use rubber to hold his d**k together with his thigh before giving birth to the 4th set of twins
there were nite u didnt go to bed without fud but u had stamina to get her pregnant, why wont u come back wen u already see d future is bright...wen u truly love sme1 u stay wit dem thru thick n thin @ least wit d small job u have u can manage ur family
Madam Gift and runaway husband. Pls u guys should go and do family planning..... Linda, pls help post something that can educate people on family planning or is it until dis people give birth to Qua-droplet and someone kills himself before we educate ourselves on sensitive issues like this.
One of the twin sisters is bleaching #caro white things
Lol, who is this calling my Bonario called Raphael A? Pls oh leave my Bros Bonario alone, the man is an igbo man Bonario is not an igbo his a calaba guy, the man is a stupid man how can he just leave those children like that useless man mtcheew!!
God will provide for you
Coward, he feels his wife now has little change and he wants to come and spend it with her, what happens when the money is exhausted or does he think it won't finish.
Hmm. ..If he hadn't run were would dey he gotten help?
Everything happens for a reason. Thank God for life.
Lmao at ur comment
No father is permitted to run away from his family leaving his wife & children to suffer. Any man that abandon his family because of hardship, is not qualified to be a father. The man does not love his family else he wouldn't have abandon his them. He should beg for forgiveness.
Ohhhh!! I can't hold my tear! Indeed, children are gift from the lord. Oga, pls go back home nd be wt ur lovely wife nd family. They need u. I cnt just hold my tearssssss.
Pls stay away, u r not in but an infidel
33,000 & u said is small? Hmmmmm! Cum let me show u a family dat feed wit only frying of akra & d re stil alive. D summary of evrytin is dat u re nt worthy 2be called a father. As 4 dos kids,plz join me & welcum our future senators. Wat a destiny children.
U re fool! 4 talking bullshit
May I start by asking you to change your name 4rm Blunt to Sweet or Mr. Nice or something of that nature. I usually don't comment on this blog, maybe have done only 2wice, but I couldnt resist passing your comment without replying you. I completely like your sense of reasoning unlike some chaps that talk only crap! God bless!
wat a pity
They will return the money to where they borrowed from and use it for the next part spraying. recyling.. just guessing
Don't pray for such problem to befall you coz Ur type will commit suicide.u don't know how deep n wounded poverty can derail someone's responsibility.
Bros wan follow chop him own national cake now, why he no go show
Oleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. Badlock husband. Nw u miss dem. Ekpa. U tot dy wld die abi. Ur lap. Ds foolish woman beta nt gv him d moni she has receivd so far ooo cos its ds typ of men dt tk women's moni 2 waste outsyd in drinks n oda women. Infact u r a stupid man gon.
How u no go come back when she don received alert. Na God de win.
This man is a fool....So d best way 2 Carter 4d children was 2 abandoned n run away 4m responsibilities...coupled wit d facts dat u even work and earn 33k...mtshwww....Nigga u better hide o mak I no catch u
The man is now smelling the wad of naira which the wife is receiving from well meaning Nigerians and Lagos state government, so he's about to come out of his hole!.....But come to think of it, it was the man's action of running away that changed the family's circumstance! If the man has not taken that action, the family's circumstance wouldn't have changed! It was his action that moved the woman to solicit for help! It was what made her predicament to be publicized by Linda Ikeji, thisday,the nation and other news media!....!!!
Na poor people dey sabi born pikin pass. how on earth did they not control themselves after 4 kidz with all their suffering, now they are a charity case. mscheeew!
touching story but if he truly luv his wife he shld hv split his salary no mata wat to assist d family for dat 3months he left his hus, to show dat he really care or still luv his wife n children, dan not communicating at all, dat was a bad action he took, by leaving d poor woman to suffer alone wit d kids, but God had mercy n turn her sorrow to laughter, thk God u hv a good woman wit d fear of god, lesson to but men n women, women be wise, and men think very well b4 u embank on a journey u wil regret for eva ,mr citizen cm bck to ur wife n children de nid u, n I hope u hv lrnt ur lesson, al tx to d lagos state government n others for dere assistances,God bless Nigeria.
Some men take such things for granted that is why you see ladies behave otherwise though I don't want to believe you can do the same oooo
And we have well over due ladies too
To celebrate his return
He may nack her triplets
Wisdom is profitable
Valid point jor,
Its not right to right negative comments here if you are not a parent yet, When people talk about suffering of the masses, some us who can afford internet bundles think its a joke.
Some of you suggested family planning for a man who earns 33k monthly. how can a hungry family spend few thousands of their garri coins for family planning.
I'm a man and I can assure you that his desperate measure was a calculated one to gain the attention of the deaf society and self government of this world.
That is his own out-of-the-box thinking and I commend him for that, if he hadn't taken this route may be most of us here wouldn't be reading this story on net. the question is what can the average class do for other suffering millions?
Okezie my dear, there are many good women out there, its just that you will not find them bleached out and attractive like the ones you roll with .
Had a reply ment for u given to okezie below.
Godbless you man
But some people are heartless. You see a family in need like this and people are abusing the man instead of looking for a way to help
And you LINDA this are the sort of Charity u should be interested in.
I expect LINDA to open a special charity account for in the woman's name and ask for donations to support the children. I will personally donate cos am touched by their story
Hey! How can you say he has no b***s! Comon! He's got 3 (THREE) sets of twins! Give the guy some credit! Lol! But sure he is irresponsible but his irresponsibility brought prosperity to his wife and kids! He should stay in hiding please!
I think he's an opportunist, he's claiming love probably because he learnt she was invited to launch with deputy governors wife..... she should be wise.... if he loved her ,he should hav explained things to her instead of running off d way he did
He should return home abeg since d govt is helping already. And they should go for family planning abeg.
Now that she has #46,000,000 ($200,000), he wants to come back? If it were to be a woman that ran away is now resurfacing when her husband miraculously becomes rich, everyone here would be singing a different tube. But because it is a man, we're all supporting him to come back?
Now that she has #46,000,000 ($200,000), he wants to come back? If it were to be a woman that ran away is now resurfacing when her husband miraculously becomes rich, everyone here would be singing a different tube. But because it is a man, we're all supporting him to come back?
Thank you! Now that she has #46,000,000 ($200,000), he wants to come back? If it were to be a woman that ran away and is now resurfacing when her husband miraculously becomes rich, everyone here would be singing a different tune. Calling her a gold digger and selfish witch. But because it is a man, we're all supporting him to come back? That's his excuse? He was frustrated? What happened to honoring his responsibilities as a man, husband and father? You can never be tired! He needs to be arrested.
Thank you! Now that she has #46,000,000 ($200,000), he wants to come back? If it were to be a woman that ran away and is now resurfacing when her husband miraculously becomes rich, everyone here would be singing a different tune. Calling her a gold digger and selfish witch. But because it is a man, we're all supporting him to come back? That's his excuse? He was frustrated? What happened to honoring his responsibilities as a man, husband and father? You can never be tired! He needs to be arrested.
Oh please! Now that she has #46,000,000 ($200,000), he wants to come back? If it were to be a woman that ran away and is now resurfacing when her husband miraculously becomes rich, everyone here would be singing a different tune. Calling her a gold digger and selfish witch. But because it is a man, we're all supporting him to come back? He was frustrated? That's his excuse?! What happened to honoring his responsibilities as a man, husband and father? He left those people to die! How can this silly woman believe he loves her? Where do they do that kind of love at??!! He needs to be arrested.
Oh please! Now that she has #46,000,000 ($200,000), he wants to come back? If it were to be a woman that ran away and is now resurfacing when her husband miraculously becomes rich, everyone here would be singing a different tune. Calling her a gold digger and selfish witch. But because it is a man, we're all supporting him to come back? He was frustrated? That's his excuse?! What happened to honoring his responsibilities as a man, husband and father? He left those people to die! How can this silly woman believe he loves her? Where do they do that kind of love at??!! He needs to be arrested.
The most foolish man on earth is back. you're not ready to have another set of twins yet you cant keep you dick in you boxer. 33k month will go a long way if you know how to manage yourself. I think he drinks
feel u @BLUNT ya on point.
And Nigerian guys hate broke chics as well. Thunder fire you there. Only poor girls are always quick to use the word "broke guys" "broke ass"! Your papa never broke for him life?
PLEASE men, beware of broke WOMEN who are ever desperate to reap where they didn't sow. The world has given women more opportunities of making money more than the men sef. So guys, stay away from broke, hungry, recharge card-begging and "buy me Iphone" girls.
You LAUNCHED a gbagaun honey
Mr X
Yes ure so rite,such women do exist and re so rare
Well as I said, he'd resurface. I pray he gets arrested. Suddenly he craves fame, h! I don't blame men, the ladies cause it on a regular. He left so that the wife would die? Mtchew.
~D great anonymous!
I would like to donate to this woman and use her as a point of contact for my sis that aborted twins .
Na lie typical Naija woman only wants her husband back so people will not call her names. See this man looking for who will condone your foolishness. You better man up and be worth the women who you think are too high and mighty.
Mr. Uche, I am not writing to condemn you but you should go back. If you are arrested be happy to suffer for your family but nobody will arrest you.
You have a beautiful family and I see great children among them. Stand with them and ensure you do your best for them. You need to do the right things at the right time.
The man should be encouraged to come back. But i dont want to see people run away for Ambode as people where trekking for Buhari after election
i really do not think anybody should judge the man. Sometimes people are faced with situations in life when it feels like there can never be hope again. i think its better that he ran away for that short while and came back to his senses, than staying and probably dying of a heart attack. When there is life, hope abounds. Some have run away and never come btack. This wont be the first. We are just a very judgemental set of people in this Nigeria ehn, but lifting our fingers to help others is a huge task. We can actually help instead of judging. I'm sure society will be better for it
Just get back to your fam...
GOD be with u
Linda, this man is very irresponsible. He must be hungry were he is and wants to go home to command the use of the money...idiot..and eat better soup. The next time his family faces any hardship he is going to bolt on them again and again and again.Yuk!
I have a similar personal experience....an uncle of mine would bolt on my aunt over the 20 year span of their marriage.when things got tough he will disappear and resurface after my aunt buckled down to make ends meet. The man in this story is starting off just like my uncle.....na wah....the woman get a lot of brain work to do oh.
thank God for the help that came your way, the best gift anyone can give to you now is to take you to the state Health Center/Clinic, for a proper contraceptive to prevent you from popping more children. these six kids are more than enough, for the fact that this help came your way and your children have received scholarship for education pls you and your hubby should put a stop to having more children, you don't have the resources to care for them so stop already. thanks
Nigeria needs a crowdfunding platform for such heart warming stories. if everybody put juts N1 pere. The amount raised will be enough to buy house and invest. They deserve it IMO. ThEY plus the airport woman who returned the funds.
Anon 12:01...the twin gene comes from a woman and not a man. Even if a man is a twin, he most likely might not have twins in his lifetime...but his daughter(s )will.
Linda open dis,,Linda do dis,,Linda send a cab 2 revive a lyfles man...Linda dis,Linda dat....were is d money 4all dis..abi na oil well biz na we dey run 4here....
To people saying Money has come, How much is d money?... just pray you guys don't get into such situation cos temptation results to something beyond imagination... May God help us all
God pls also give those who don,t even have one
Ole, useless, irresponsible man
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