Cynthia Amadi reacts to Increasing Babymama Syndrome
Former award-winning actress turned banker, Cynthia Amadi reacts to the 'Babymama' trend amongst celebs. Watch "Cynthia talks Babymama Syndrome" on YouTube. See the video after the cut..
Ain't watching biko...what else ? She's blasting them, how many she don comot? Though baby mamas no de try but girl Ur nt in any position to utter shit. Park
My Dear Cynthia, d thing tire me sef o! I hope people would mend their ways cos its not African. Linda take note!
Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix. Linda take note!
Shut up old hag Cynthia ! Who are you to judge? It's a woman's decision on what to do with her body, who gave you the morale credence to judge decisions of two consenting adults ? Bia this Aunty gwegwe, hope say you don meet your target o! No mind you work for bank! Anu!
PLEASE MY DEAR, SOME ONE FINALLY HAS SENSE TO SPEAK OUT. PLS TELL THEM THAT ITS MARRIAGE BEFORE CHILDREN... CIVILISATION AND WESTERNISATION IN NIGERIA MEANS BECOMING ABNORMAL.
I thought I was the only one thinking about it. Good to know there are still people who remember what it truly means to be African. I'm pretty sure some nitwits will begin criticising her shortly.
God bless you for having the courage to tell the truth! The bloggers publicizing this trend don't realize the negative impact it's having on the growing generation while they themselves don't practice it. Linda if you like don't publish my comment especially as this truth is very bitter.
This was exactly what I was thinking few days ago,where has our parents gone wrong. Even the so call beauty queens are baby mama. Cheii. ... kids raising kids.
I know some fools will come nd say she is trying to b relevant. She is so on point! And Linda too celebrates dem. it's getting out of hands. You all should zip up Joor. Sluts and dogs!
You have all the make up from the "Western world" and hair from South America. And you come here to impose your biased views on the rest of the world It is women like you who should not be given a chair among other women. Yes! I said it. and this is why
My mother was a teenage mother and would be called one of those "she don born" back in the 70'. And she was lucky to get married to my dad. My oldest sibling from my parents marriage is 33. But you know what. It is hateful people like you whom back in the day will state "she don born".
A girl choosing to have a child is her choice and non of yours. If she comes to BEG, I said BEG for your assistance raising the child should you give your 2 cents.
A female in her reproductive age should have a child if she makes the conscious decision to. And by the way, just because Davido is 22 or 23 does not make him less of a father. And what makes you think he will not marry the love of his life eventually? huh!
I really detest when people impose their cultural and religious views on everyone else. Just because it is not ok by you or your mentally created society does not mean it is not ok by the woman in the situation.
it is the same people like you who will discourage people from using contraceptives and act like sex is a taboo. Please! if you had sex before marriage, if you kissed a boy and married another, if you are in school, if you work out of the house, if you drive a car..... you a breaking what would be a cultural norm at some point in Nigerian history.
In as much as she threw shade... She's 100% right, Women should know how powerful and valuable they are. Even in the states. You get legal rights as a wife than a baby mama. This is why domestic violence is steady on the raise. How can he respect you if you can not respect yourself?
It needed to be said, yep having a baby outside marriage is not today's news but as we begin to celebrate this trend, mostly among our celebrities, we are creating a new society of irresponsible men and women who feel no compulsion to do the responsible thing of getting married. It is selfish and inconsiderate of these baby mamas and daddy, their actions does not take into account the fact that these children will forever be outsiders in the future when their respective parents do eventually get married to different people and they have forever be on the outside not fitting perfectly into either homes. In essence what i'm saying is that if and when you get a girl pregnant, do the responsible thing and marry her. Better still, always use a condom when having casual sex. Let the carrying of condom in wallets and purses be the trend, let responsible sexual actions go viral. Let's celebrate responsible actions.
all this our young girls knows that they will not marry and you will still on and have a baby for him. shameless girls. you will open your leg widely for some artist or musicians who did even graduate from any school and you girls call your selves graduates. shame on all the babymamas and babydaddys
Take several seats... many women in the past had babies out of wedlock, its just at that time they either aborted, kept the baby a secret or gave them away so society what chastise them. At least nw the mother n father can take care of the child. Dont encourage societial pressure on pple.
N if u want to use culture, in d past men had several baby mamas in d village marriage is western culture. Get ur facts right
Take several seats... many women in the past had babies out of wedlock, its just at that time they either aborted, kept the baby a secret or gave them away so society what chastise them. At least nw the mother n father can take care of the child. Dont encourage societial pressure on pple.
N if u want to use culture, in d past men had several baby mamas in d village marriage is western culture. Get ur facts right
My funniest part is "Children having children".....am sure lots of illogical critics will come up calling her b*t*h and foolish but she made lots of sense though not 100% but more 70% and dats pass mark 4 me.....MrOpeAre
I tire 4 all dis celebrity matter about baby mama here, baby mama there! Even my igbo wan become baba 4 it! And dey are proud of it! Uwa mmebi! Some wil say I don't want to marry! Bt u want to hv children! God is watching u all! Una really need guinness malt and peak milk to bring ur brain back cos d last tym I checked, ur brain wasn't working well. Lolo1
Dear Cynthia, I like your comment about the "copycat syndrome" and how we are losing our "Africaness" to pathetic imitations of western ideals. So, where does your weave/hair fit in? Care to comment about that imitation within the context of what is African and what is not?
i love this...tenk u..there is an igbo adage...ihe ojo gba afo oburu omenala...it mean wen doing wrong things become rampant,it becomes a tradition...tenk you so much for dis..God bless you.
Thumbs up, I am happy some one has the courage to voice this out, those baby mamas now will come on blogs now and start to call her hater, judgmental, jealous and all what not. Thanks for saying it Cynthia. We swallow whatever thing America throws out there, and it's killing us here. This trend of following America bumper to bumper, is not healthy for us. In America, a 32 yr old single woman is already a grand mother, how can you explain that? Kids get pregnant at fifteen and drop out of school, and depending on government for support with no future plans.It's very common among black Americans that we're following their steps.
Awwwww! Cynthia Amadi God Bless you abundantly. You win my heart, big hugges and kissessss. may God grant more wisdom and understand in your pursuit in Jesus name.
cynthia God bless u for this,honestly u cannot begin to imagine how happy i was wen i watched this,its so hrtbreaking that girls wud open their legs for even married men and musicians and become babymamas,,and den i ask again,who are the parents of these girls??????????girls girls,this is a wake up call....get him to wife u up or CLOSE UR GODDAM LEGS....ANNABANNER U ARE ONE STUPID WHORE FROM DOING GOLIBE WITH FLAVOUR,U GLOIBE TO HIS BED......IM WAITING FOR FLAVOUR TO WIFE YOU UP..MAYBE WEN MY UNBORN KIDS HAVE THERE OWN KIDS.
Davido driver so u no fit buy condom for ur Oga abi, oya come defend am biko n.... n Linda take note biko all dis ur adorable picken wey u dey show us if dey are not legit, den dia is notyn adorable dia
Woooooow am sooo proud of her... she hitted the nail to the hammer... why must you shamelessly open your leg for a man all in the name of having material things...which is all vanity there is nothing like having a complete family... I say a big no to baby mama syndrome... women please close your legs and make something out of your life.. you can do it.. you must not get pregnant for a star just to make it big... your destiny lays in ur hands
You took it right out of my mouth.... Hmmm Cynthia Amadi thanks for belling the cat. "Children birthing Children".....lol that's like the best part. We copy every single thing we see and we've almost totally lost our identity. Our so called celebrities have missed their way obviously. Our young girls are so dumb and naïve. Its all so scary and pitiable and yet Nigerians go ahead to celebrate and congratulate this shameful trend, why wont it continue??? One cannot help but wonder where we are headed as a Country and as a People. "Naija abeg make we shine our eyes o becos na only good things we suppose copy abeg". It is well.
I enjoyed the video soo soo much she is so absolutely right... how can a child like davido welcome another child.. who will teach who???? and as for the woman who birth his child I feel so miserably sorry for you...cos you will end up being nothing but just the mother of his child..as for your stupid and old uncle dele momodo who is happy that his nephew got pregnant for davido all because he is from a rich family I say shame unto you .
I enjoyed the video soo soo much she is so absolutely right... how can a child like davido welcome another child.. who will teach who???? and as for the woman who birth his child I feel so miserably sorry for you...cos you will end up being nothing but just the mother of his child..as for your stupid and old uncle dele momodo who is happy that his nephew got pregnant for davido all because he is from a rich family I say shame unto you .
Woooooow am sooo proud of her... she hitted the nail to the hammer... why must you shamelessly open your leg for a man all in the name of having material things...which is all vanity there is nothing like having a complete family... I say a big no to baby mama syndrome... women please close your legs and make something out of your life.. you can do it.. you must not get pregnant for a star just to make it big... your destiny lays in ur hands
This hustle for husband is real... These pathetic desperate women are becoming baby mamas thinking that one day their baby daddy will propose and walk them down the aisle.. Desperation to get married requires desperate measures!!!😩😩😩😩... That's why it's good to have a good home training..
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear. we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
i concur to everything cynthia amadi talked about, its becoming a crazy trend among celebrities and that doesnt make it right, havent been influence by the western culture, we have our own culture to promote, i can remember the muscian OLAMIDE when his babymama gave birth, the then lagos state governor(Babatunde Raji Fashola SAN) attended the ceremony, showing that he supports children outside wedlock, i wonder what the parent of the celebs think or even say to their child or they cant even speak to them anymore cos he now have money or hes wayward. the blogs like linda ikeji, ladun laidi, stella, bella, etc also celebrate this shameful act, i wonder if they are also ( the bloggers) a product of same, may be in a bit to earn proceeds or living from their report of such irritant news, they shut the truth and their conscience to what is right. we all need to promote good cultural values before other things start to creep into our society like homo,lesbians etc, in which they even want it legalized.God forbid, the devil is lair.
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear. we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear. we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear. we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
Linda ur number1 victim.... U always celebrate dia Evil! This girl is soo on point. We copy a lot and yet 4get dat dia designed system makes it easy 4 every child to be cared 4! Unlike Nigeria
I don't support the baby mamma thing but you self Cynthia Amadi should speak Nigerian English and stop copying FAKE oyinbo, is it British or American English you are trying to copy? Get a life; Abeg
At first I thought she Shld go and sit down somewhere but if you listen to the end she made some point. All this small kids don't know what being a parent is both the celebrity guys and the baby mamas the guys se it as part of the relevance just like in U.S they try to copy them while the baby mamas use it to come socially. Look at Annie Idibia that's how she started but atleast 2 face married her 2years later. But the rest is like an accessory to them. And our celebs have come to believe that every publicity is good publicity whether for gd or bad as far as they are seen on linda ikeji. May God bless this kids cos they are the ones I pity most because they are only visible on father's day and mothers day. Smh
Children becoming fathers e.g davido, wizkid, d'prince etc.. What a disease ravaging the society.. And this little babies growing up becoming charlatans.. And Linda you're even congratulating these madness and promoting this nonsense..
I agree with her and hear me out those who don't agree! If you follow Game of Thrones you will know that kids born outside of wedlock are referred to as "bastards", growing up that was the biggest insult you could give a person. The fact that we now revel in the bastardization of child is sad!!! Some people will argue that as long as both parents love the child, it does not matter. But it does, cos you cannot lay claim to what you are not party of! In churches, it is marriage then kids, not kids then marriage. Moreover only the "baby daddies" come off happy in this situation, because at the end of the day, he might decide to marry another person, leaving you with the stigma of "she done born for her papa house". How many times have you seen a woman with a kid marry, it happens but not as often as a man with kids!!! This baby Mama/daddy thing is not our culture and we need to stop promoting it.
I agree with you Cynthia. Our young girls need to hear this. There is no future being a baba mama at a young age. Don't they have plans for their future? Well done and thanks for speaking to the girls especially. Enough is a enough Abeg...
Cynthia Amadi go and get a life, your boyfriend will fuck that your virginal for nothing because you don't want to be Babymama you will end up in abortion. You think those Babymama are stupid for having a child at their age? you should stand in front of mirror and see yourself if you are getting younger.You go and think yourself out Cynthia and leave those Babymama alone
This babe just made me love her. When pple have no shame. We are Africans, we shouldn't copy everything from the west. It shouldn't be celebrated Hoha!
You sound really hurt. Like the message was meant for you. Sorry my dear but what is wrong is wrong. It's not right and the truth need to be said. We can't continue to allow immorality thrive in our society.
We don hear as if you would not have become a Baby mama to Remi Olowude (IGI EVC) but for his sickness and eventual death. Cynthia should just keep quiet abeg. You knew he was married and with children but you dated him for years.
Thank u sis for this. Immorality is naw applauded in our society n this encourage these shameless girls to have babies number 1,2,3,etc outside wedlock. I weak o!
If you notice a trend amongst baby mamas. The baby papa's only celebrate the child on instagram and leaves out the woman that carried the child for 9 months. That there should sink into their heads. I am still yet to see one pic of David's baby mama on his instagram page but he stays celebrating other non baby mamas. Shame! Anna Ebiere I hope you watched and learnt something. Thanks Cynthia!
I'm not surprised at u at all,dts ignorance speaking through u. Wen u forget dt having indiscriminate unprotected coitus is a not only a way of creating children bt also a way of spreading STIs like HIV/AIDS. Wht happened to using a condom if u can't abstain?
Anonymous,ur askin cynthia to get a life,dts cool,buh I think u on d other hand should go get a name cox d last time I check anonymous is ws nt a name.and just incase ur findin it hard to get on,I think I hav a beta one dt will suit u well.try the name@IDIOT,it will fit u well.thank mi later idiot
So true. So many of us grew up with both parents, and the ones who didn't wished they had both parents by their side. Why then would you want to bring children into this world to bear the pain of not being with their parents as a whole family? Haba!
Especially fools lik Anna banner n Sandra,d likes of even davido b d prince...shameless people..anna jus waste 4 nothing,where correct guys full everywer..u go folo flavour wey don born plkin wit Sandra..wat were u thinkin..long throat...u should b focused wit ur education buh u prefer 2 go n remove ur pants in flavour's room..oniranu..i pity ur life ,u dey folo musician wey go soon reign comot...am so pained bcos as a beauty queen we expected so much frm u...
All still falls to "POVERTY" and "ORIENTATION" When Parents fail to train their kids in a proper manner and not making them read the bible or going for sermon or even Nasfat sermon every Sunday, all they have to do is smoke skunk, go to the Beach every sunday, instagram from morning till night. No Morals. Parents cant even scold their daughter where she got an iphone 6 from then what do we get?
Ooh bitch shut up pls, there are better ways to tackle things than making having kids like a disease, bitch u suck, work on ur character, u are abusive, how dear you mention people's name who find joy in their children wedlock or no wedlock...pls stfu and get a life...have u checked d lives of the married couples lately? have u u seen how pple dont even respect marriage again? Bitch if anyone feels like fucking a celebrity? It is their business not you Oloshi, how is davido irresponsible oloriburuku, u won't face ur life! Poke nosing oloribuku! Yes let them be single all their life's and want kids been single.. it is their fucking business, not urs bitch! People should start minding their business and not try to lecture people on how to live their life, if u miss the 80'ss Oloshi go back to the 80's...stupid asshole...u wanna be heard abi? attention seeker buruku, hater! If u don't find joy in having kids be it in wedlock or outside...go and die because they don't care abt u or wat u have to say...Mrs ITK
Bia Anonymous. You must be a baby mama yourself to speak about Cynthia like that. What is wrong is wrong. She has spoken the truth and that's final so take it or continue going about and being a baby mama. FULL STOP
Nice talk, the truth is bitter.but come oh beautiful Queens like:anna bann......, sand......., hmmmn odikwa egwu.she jxt said it all.tk note all.oya strt broadcasting rill dey get 2 see it
I so so concur sincerely and am happy people share same view with me. It's seriously getting out of hand. Making people bcome irresponsible mtcheeeeewwww
Those of u insulting her y is it paining u pipo ooooooo, if u dnt knw Wat to write jxt shourup. she is not perfect but she is jxt saying dat it's not write St least she is not a bsby mama.nobody is perfect . Those who hate truth na dem body dey pepper.ndi ojooo
WOW! Almost every comment is in support, it was also once our culture to kill twins you know.She probably feels left behind seeing her peers have children.
U shut d fuck up,fucktard, n stop deceiving urself by calling urself Mrs wen u r a miss, n if u feel being a babymama is d best, may all ur daughters become babymama n not get married
Ooh bitch shut up pls, there are better ways to tackle things than making having kids like a disease, bitch u suck, work on ur character, u are abusive, how dear you mention people's name who find joy in their children wedlock or no wedlock...pls stfu and get a life...have u checked d lives of the married couples lately? have u u seen how pple dont even respect marriage again? Bitch if anyone feels like fucking a celebrity? It is their business not you Oloshi, how is davido irresponsible oloriburuku, u won't face ur life! Poke nosing oloribuku! Yes let them be single all their life's and want kids been single.. it is their fucking business, not urs bitch! People should start minding their business and not try to lecture people on how to live their life, if u miss the 80'ss Oloshi go back to the 80's...stupid asshole...u wanna be heard abi? attention seeker buruku, hater! If u don't find joy in having kids be it in wedlock or outside...go and die because they don't care abt u or wat u have to say...Mrs ITK
Mehn I fell all u haters on cynthia. Has lost d morals of life. y do we hide d truth wen it's bin brought out. How will our nation b beta wen u evil people still exist? Madam 4get d people against u.. a thousand Nigerians Hails U.. well said..
infact dey shld stop referring to those baby mamas as beautiful Queens dey re ugly biko, d real beautiful women wit prestige can't do dat.mumu Queens dat can't even protect dem selves or use condom.we re waiting for d next baby mama frm flavour.i wonder wat he will be feeling like self, mtchew. Anna see say sandra has a child 4 him she still go put dat her ugly flat nyash dwn .Onye iberibe
Cynthia has said it all.Say what you like.The truth is bitter and must be said.Ladies with low self esteem seek the opportunity of becoming baby mamas for children who are yet to figure out thier lives and hide under celebrity status.I hope a lot of young girls can learn from this deep speech by Cynthia.Thumbs up and please do more of this.
So so annoying....are they not suppose tobe so called role model?..... shame on dem wit all their education beauty and qualifications this is how dy wanna end up? so disgusting.
Dear Anonymous, People like you are really the problem. Why can't we just call a spade a spade? Everybody knows it's wrong. Christians, Muslims, even idol worshippers sef! We shouldn't continue to find excuses for all our wrongs. The baby-mama syndrome is unacceptable by every standard. We have gradually opened our arms to it and we are unknowingly throwing all morals to the wind. My point is : let what is right be right and what is wrong be wrong! Let up stop trying to make excuses for our foolishness. There's more to life than being a baby mama. Let every girl that reads this know that she's a QUEEN and she should wait for the right king to find, 'work for', earn her love and marry her before she commits herself and her unborn children to him.
WHAT IS IN IMPORTANT IS TO KNOW WHO IS THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD, AND AS FAR AS YOUR MAN IS THERE TO CARE FOR YOU AND THE BABY , THERE IS NO NEED THAT YOU MUST BE UNDER THE SAME ROOF AND BEGAN LOOKING THROUGH THE WINDOW EVERY NIGHT ,
IF HE WILL COME BACK HOME TONIGHT OR NOT TONIGHT ,BECAUSE YOU ARE LIVING WITH A MAN WHO WILL ABANDON YOU AT HOME AND GO TO ENJOY HIMSELF WITH ALL GIRLFRIENDS .,HE WILL ALWAYS COME BACK LATE AND GO OUT EARLY.
YOU HARDLY TALK OR HE WILL NOT MAKE LOVE TO YOU ANYMORE.YOU ARE JUST THERE LIKE A HOUSE KEEPER .
HE MAY EVEN BE SPENDING MONEY TO ALL THOSE GIRLS OUTSIDE , WHILE YOU ARE SUFFERING , NOT ABLE TO HAVE MONEY IN YOUR BAG .
SO ,THESE ARE THE REASONS WHY SOME LADIES WANT TO CEASE A CHANCE AND BE A BABY MAMA., AND I THINK IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH GOD.
IT IS YOUR CHOICE . GOD MADE ALL THINGS, EXCEPT THE THING YOU HAVE MADE YOURSELF .
@Anon2:25, U r probably an example of someone raised by a single parent. No one raised by both parents who are responsible will give such an uncultured view as urs. U can live or destroy ur life as U want, that still does not change the fact that what is "wrong is wrong", and wrong can not suddenly become right just because its en vouge , or no matter how much we have sealed our conscience.
I would have taken the time to watch the video if she was not wearing another woman's hair on her head and her face was not paked with makeup. How can I take someone serious about moral issues when they are also a follower..mtschwww. You ain't no authentic African woman deary, women like you are a dime a dozen wearing fake hair, eyelashes, nails, faces paked with makeup looking as western as ever and then coming to preach African morals and values, go sit your azz down somewhere with a tub of Vaseline and soap to wipe that face and take a scissors and cut the horse hair out your head and then try the authentic African woman thing again.
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Not interested!!
Everybody wants to be relevant. Shut up Cynthia. You look like a groupie yourself.
Some truth here
Na them know. If the trend continues, marriage will soon be a thing of the past!
No time!!!
The shit is crazy.. Baby mama everywhere..its bad really bad
Linda, are you pregnant? Lol. What's with all the baby pictures bikonu? Please don't join them baby mamas.
Emma.
Her brain is as beautiful as her face.She's right
I concur.
Ain't watching biko...what else ? She's blasting them, how many she don comot? Though baby mamas no de try but girl Ur nt in any position to utter shit. Park
My Dear Cynthia, d thing tire me sef o! I hope people would mend their ways cos its not African. Linda take note!
Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix. Linda take note!
Oooooooooooo
Na wa..it's getting really disturbing, I must say
Was watching Buddies on coolTv....the presenter @10E said the same thing
I think women should learn to tie their legs and pretend to be a mermaid for once in their "horny" life.
@Galore
Shut up old hag Cynthia ! Who are you to judge? It's a woman's decision on what to do with her body, who gave you the morale credence to judge decisions of two consenting adults ? Bia this Aunty gwegwe, hope say you don meet your target o! No mind you work for bank! Anu!
What do u expect before?, everyone want to belong
Babe abeg tell them o.
SO MUCH SHADE...but she's speaking the TRUTH and nothing but the truth!!!!!!!
PLEASE MY DEAR, SOME ONE FINALLY HAS SENSE TO SPEAK OUT. PLS TELL THEM THAT ITS MARRIAGE BEFORE CHILDREN... CIVILISATION AND WESTERNISATION IN NIGERIA MEANS BECOMING ABNORMAL.
I swear down as baby mamas be trending
~D great anonymous!
Mysef don get 1....
But people will do what they have to do.
Very interesting
Exactly my thought! Well said.
Keep flushing urs
Wow! Good for her, and everyone want to join d current trend of discussion@hand.
All d same, babymama should never b encouraged bcos d men get discouraged to go ahead wit marriage.
I thought I was the only one thinking about it. Good to know there are still people who remember what it truly means to be African. I'm pretty sure some nitwits will begin criticising her shortly.
Wonderful piece! I wish they will all listen and learn from it.
omo na video b dis oooo......nice 1 girl
those who ve ears let them hear
omo na video b dis oooo......nice 1 girl
those who ve ears let them hear
omo na video b dis oooo......nice 1 girl
those who ve ears let them hear
God bless you for having the courage to tell the truth! The bloggers publicizing this trend don't realize the negative impact it's having on the growing generation while they themselves don't practice it. Linda if you like don't publish my comment especially as this truth is very bitter.
Tnx cynthia..u are pretty!
UR OPINION...TOMJERRYSWIT
Na true talk my sister
Are you any different?
Madam be quiet
This was exactly what I was thinking few days ago,where has our parents gone wrong. Even the so call beauty queens are baby mama. Cheii. ... kids raising kids.
I am so so proud of you. U are a rare gem. A proud role model.
Wow she rily hit d nail on d head....loving it. I wonder y she stoped acting cos she ws rily gd @wat. She does
I know some fools will come nd say she is trying to b relevant. She is so on point! And Linda too celebrates dem. it's getting out of hands. You all should zip up Joor. Sluts and dogs!
Thank you so much dear Sis, only if Women will realize their Self-worth. #Word #Morale #PrestigiousWomen
Dear Cynthia,
You have all the make up from the "Western world" and hair from South America. And you come here to impose your biased views on the rest of the world
It is women like you who should not be given a chair among other women.
Yes! I said it. and this is why
My mother was a teenage mother and would be called one of those "she don born" back in the 70'. And she was lucky to get married to my dad. My oldest sibling from my parents marriage is 33. But you know what. It is hateful people like you whom back in the day will state "she don born".
A girl choosing to have a child is her choice and non of yours. If she comes to BEG, I said BEG for your assistance raising the child should you give your 2 cents.
A female in her reproductive age should have a child if she makes the conscious decision to. And by the way, just because Davido is 22 or 23 does not make him less of a father. And what makes you think he will not marry the love of his life eventually? huh!
I really detest when people impose their cultural and religious views on everyone else.
Just because it is not ok by you or your mentally created society does not mean it is not ok by the woman in the situation.
it is the same people like you who will discourage people from using contraceptives and act like sex is a taboo. Please! if you had sex before marriage, if you kissed a boy and married another, if you are in school, if you work out of the house, if you drive a car..... you a breaking what would be a cultural norm at some point in Nigerian history.
goodbye
In as much as she threw shade... She's 100% right, Women should know how powerful and valuable they are. Even in the states. You get legal rights as a wife than a baby mama. This is why domestic violence is steady on the raise. How can he respect you if you can not respect yourself?
GBAM!!! True talk..
Linda you are one of those celebrating all this madness
Linda you are one of those celebrating all this madness
I love this girl. Linda you hear am?
#word
#WORD
BITTER TRUTH. WELL SAID GIRL
Shame on babymamas, they will impregnate u and go and another girl
True talk tho! But errrrm it's also non of her biz.
God will continue to bless you @amadi, I was beginning to fear o.
Beta pikin!
True talk......
Well said my sister! its pathetic what this generation has turned to, some go as far as having 2 kids for these men. God help us all!
Wow! Wow! She nailed it! I don't know herr but am already inlove with her, looking her up ASAP
It needed to be said, yep having a baby outside marriage is not today's news but as we begin to celebrate this trend, mostly among our celebrities, we are creating a new society of irresponsible men and women who feel no compulsion to do the responsible thing of getting married. It is selfish and inconsiderate of these baby mamas and daddy, their actions does not take into account the fact that these children will forever be outsiders in the future when their respective parents do eventually get married to different people and they have forever be on the outside not fitting perfectly into either homes. In essence what i'm saying is that if and when you get a girl pregnant, do the responsible thing and marry her. Better still, always use a condom when having casual sex. Let the carrying of condom in wallets and purses be the trend, let responsible sexual actions go viral. Let's celebrate responsible actions.
Wow...she couldn't have said it any better
Tell dem o my sister,tell dem
Hmmmm
Wow...She is very right
all this our young girls knows that they will not marry and you will still on and have a baby for him. shameless girls. you will open your leg widely for some artist or musicians who did even graduate from any school and you girls call your selves graduates. shame on all the babymamas and babydaddys
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Take several seats... many women in the past had babies out of wedlock, its just at that time they either aborted, kept the baby a secret or gave them away so society what chastise them. At least nw the mother n father can take care of the child. Dont encourage societial pressure on pple.
N if u want to use culture, in d past men had several baby mamas in d village marriage is western culture. Get ur facts right
Take several seats... many women in the past had babies out of wedlock, its just at that time they either aborted, kept the baby a secret or gave them away so society what chastise them. At least nw the mother n father can take care of the child. Dont encourage societial pressure on pple.
N if u want to use culture, in d past men had several baby mamas in d village marriage is western culture. Get ur facts right
Well said, I hope the ladies listen and learn.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Notice how she paused (like Jesus, I can't believe I gave that up) when she said "as a young girl growing up in the "80s" lol. 0:50 mark. lol
True talk
Dis lady made a lot of sense! I love her! She's better dan dat toke makinwa nonsense vlog mbok!
Word!!!
Linda stop celebrating them...
She's kind of right you know.
My funniest part is "Children having children".....am sure lots of illogical critics will come up calling her b*t*h and foolish but she made lots of sense though not 100% but more 70% and dats pass mark 4 me.....MrOpeAre
nice one there.
pls your no Toke....gerarahere
Lool @ 'Young ladies Una know get shame.
9ice words 4rm her
I tire 4 all dis celebrity matter about baby mama here, baby mama there! Even my igbo wan become baba 4 it! And dey are proud of it! Uwa mmebi! Some wil say I don't want to marry! Bt u want to hv children! God is watching u all! Una really need guinness malt and peak milk to bring ur brain back cos d last tym I checked, ur brain wasn't working well. Lolo1
She as said it all, I think dis trend as to stop.
Dear Cynthia, I like your comment about the "copycat syndrome" and how we are losing our "Africaness" to pathetic imitations of western ideals. So, where does your weave/hair fit in? Care to comment about that imitation within the context of what is African and what is not?
Nice one girl, dats d truth
Linda the blogger ... She called you out. Abeg I will not drink panadol for wiz kid and flavor and 2 baba baby mama headaches.
Nice1 cynthia, i concour wit u 100%. ur words re precise nd on point.
This lady get bad mouth sha. Linda na you she they talk to wen they celebrate "baby mama" and "babypapa".
i love this...tenk u..there is an igbo adage...ihe ojo gba afo oburu omenala...it mean wen doing wrong things become rampant,it becomes a tradition...tenk you so much for dis..God bless you.
Preach on sister. This babymama norm is really becoming disgusting.
She said it all. Wise words from a wise woman.
Award winning? Where? Thank God she found her true calling in the bank.
#Well said...#couldnt have been expressed any better...
no profound analysis of the cause...
Nice1 cynthia, i concour wit u 100%. All ur words re precise nd on point.
GOD BLESS YOU....IT HAS TO BE SAID....
Thumbs up, I am happy some one has the courage to voice this out, those baby mamas now will come on blogs now and start to call her hater, judgmental, jealous and all what not. Thanks for saying it Cynthia. We swallow whatever thing America throws out there, and it's killing us here. This trend of following America bumper to bumper, is not healthy for us. In America, a 32 yr old single woman is already a grand mother, how can you explain that? Kids get pregnant at fifteen and drop out of school, and depending on government for support with no future plans.It's very common among black Americans that we're following their steps.
Awwwww! Cynthia Amadi God Bless you abundantly. You win my heart, big hugges and kissessss. may God grant more wisdom and understand in your pursuit in Jesus name.
Welcome to d world of copy copy
cynthia God bless u for this,honestly u cannot begin to imagine how happy i was wen i watched this,its so hrtbreaking that girls wud open their legs for even married men and musicians and become babymamas,,and den i ask again,who are the parents of these girls??????????girls girls,this is a wake up call....get him to wife u up or CLOSE UR GODDAM LEGS....ANNABANNER U ARE ONE STUPID WHORE FROM DOING GOLIBE WITH FLAVOUR,U GLOIBE TO HIS BED......IM WAITING FOR FLAVOUR TO WIFE YOU UP..MAYBE WEN MY UNBORN KIDS HAVE THERE OWN KIDS.
Wow, 10 minutes man, well spoken... but they have cute babies 😥especially Chris Brown's Royalty 😘😍
My dear u have said it all..
Wow, 10 minutes man, well spoken. But they have cute babies😟 especially Chris Brown's Royalty 😘, what an irony.
Shut up. Give us proof that uv never aborted before. He who is without sin shld cast the first stone...
Cherrykoko
Davido driver so u no fit buy condom for ur Oga abi, oya come defend am biko n.... n Linda take note biko all dis ur adorable picken wey u dey show us if dey are not legit, den dia is notyn adorable dia
TRUTH BE TOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOU GURLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Woooooow am sooo proud of her... she hitted the nail to the hammer... why must you shamelessly open your leg for a man all in the name of having material things...which is all vanity there is nothing like having a complete family... I say a big no to baby mama syndrome... women please close your legs and make something out of your life.. you can do it.. you must not get pregnant for a star just to make it big... your destiny lays in ur hands
#truetalk
UnikCrown Says:
You took it right out of my mouth.... Hmmm Cynthia Amadi thanks for belling the cat. "Children birthing Children".....lol that's like the best part. We copy every single thing we see and we've almost totally lost our identity. Our so called celebrities have missed their way obviously. Our young girls are so dumb and naïve. Its all so scary and pitiable and yet Nigerians go ahead to celebrate and congratulate this shameful trend, why wont it continue??? One cannot help but wonder where we are headed as a Country and as a People. "Naija abeg make we shine our eyes o becos na only good things we suppose copy abeg". It is well.
I enjoyed the video soo soo much she is so absolutely right... how can a child like davido welcome another child.. who will teach who???? and as for the woman who birth his child I feel so miserably sorry for you...cos you will end up being nothing but just the mother of his child..as for your stupid and old uncle dele momodo who is happy that his nephew got pregnant for davido all because he is from a rich family I say shame unto you
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I enjoyed the video soo soo much she is so absolutely right... how can a child like davido welcome another child.. who will teach who???? and as for the woman who birth his child I feel so miserably sorry for you...cos you will end up being nothing but just the mother of his child..as for your stupid and old uncle dele momodo who is happy that his nephew got pregnant for davido all because he is from a rich family I say shame unto you
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Woooooow am sooo proud of her... she hitted the nail to the hammer... why must you shamelessly open your leg for a man all in the name of having material things...which is all vanity there is nothing like having a complete family... I say a big no to baby mama syndrome... women please close your legs and make something out of your life.. you can do it.. you must not get pregnant for a star just to make it big... your destiny lays in ur hands
This hustle for husband is real... These pathetic desperate women are becoming baby mamas thinking that one day their baby daddy will propose and walk them down the aisle.. Desperation to get married requires desperate measures!!!😩😩😩😩... That's why it's good to have a good home training..
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear.
we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
i concur to everything cynthia amadi talked about, its becoming a crazy trend among celebrities and that doesnt make it right, havent been influence by the western culture, we have our own culture to promote, i can remember the muscian OLAMIDE when his babymama gave birth, the then lagos state governor(Babatunde Raji Fashola SAN) attended the ceremony, showing that he supports children outside wedlock, i wonder what the parent of the celebs think or even say to their child or they cant even speak to them anymore cos he now have money or hes wayward. the blogs like linda ikeji, ladun laidi, stella, bella, etc also celebrate this shameful act, i wonder if they are also ( the bloggers) a product of same, may be in a bit to earn proceeds or living from their report of such irritant news, they shut the truth and their conscience to what is right. we all need to promote good cultural values before other things start to creep into our society like homo,lesbians etc, in which they even want it legalized.God forbid, the devil is lair.
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear.
we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear.
we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
pls preach it, let all those who have ears let them hear.
we are gradually loosing our value and pride as women. SMH, i wonder the foundation we are laying for the children born out of wedlock and the moral decadent we are gradually slipping into. to the extent that it is being celebrated on blogs. instead of burying our head in shame.
THANK YOU FOR THIS SISTER
Well Said!
My sister. Tell them o
Well said!
Linda ur number1 victim.... U always celebrate dia Evil! This girl is soo on point. We copy a lot and yet 4get dat dia designed system makes it easy 4 every child to be cared 4! Unlike Nigeria
I don't support the baby mamma thing but you self Cynthia Amadi should speak Nigerian English and stop copying FAKE oyinbo, is it British or American English you are trying to copy? Get a life; Abeg
Good to see there's at least one sane African lady that still have respect for womanhood.
At first I thought she Shld go and sit down somewhere but if you listen to the end she made some point. All this small kids don't know what being a parent is both the celebrity guys and the baby mamas the guys se it as part of the relevance just like in U.S they try to copy them while the baby mamas use it to come socially. Look at Annie Idibia that's how she started but atleast 2 face married her 2years later. But the rest is like an accessory to them. And our celebs have come to believe that every publicity is good publicity whether for gd or bad as far as they are seen on linda ikeji. May God bless this kids cos they are the ones I pity most because they are only visible on father's day and mothers day. Smh
Children becoming fathers e.g davido, wizkid, d'prince etc.. What a disease ravaging the society.. And this little babies growing up becoming charlatans..
And Linda you're even congratulating these madness and promoting this nonsense..
Tell them oooo !!!!!!
Tell them oooo!!!
Realest post of 2015 lol cc Ana banner
Nice one, we really need 2 go back 2 our moral standards
On point !! It's so alarming .
NICE ONE dear... God Bless You.
well said. Thank u Cynthia Amadi... "what is wrong is wrong even if its trending" hmmmn! #word#
Word girl, immorality amongst our young girls, so sad n shameful.
I agree with her and hear me out those who don't agree! If you follow Game of Thrones you will know that kids born outside of wedlock are referred to as "bastards", growing up that was the biggest insult you could give a person. The fact that we now revel in the bastardization of child is sad!!!
Some people will argue that as long as both parents love the child, it does not matter. But it does, cos you cannot lay claim to what you are not party of! In churches, it is marriage then kids, not kids then marriage.
Moreover only the "baby daddies" come off happy in this situation, because at the end of the day, he might decide to marry another person, leaving you with the stigma of "she done born for her papa house". How many times have you seen a woman with a kid marry, it happens but not as often as a man with kids!!!
This baby Mama/daddy thing is not our culture and we need to stop promoting it.
Word girl, immorality amongst our young girls, so sad n shameful.
Preach it sister. Its refreshing to see someone tell it like it is
I agree with you Cynthia. Our young girls need to hear this. There is no future being a baba mama at a young age. Don't they have plans for their future? Well done and thanks for speaking to the girls especially. Enough is a enough Abeg...
Cynthia Amadi go and get a life, your boyfriend will fuck that your virginal for nothing because you don't want to be Babymama you will end up in abortion.
You think those Babymama are stupid for having a child at their age? you should stand
in front of mirror and see yourself if you are getting younger.You go and think yourself out Cynthia and leave those Babymama alone
Well spoken
Well spoken
I dont know who u are.....but may God bless u. This is the TRUTH!
This babe just made me love her. When pple have no shame. We are Africans, we shouldn't copy everything from the west. It shouldn't be celebrated Hoha!
#WORD
Pls tell dem.we need some decency in dis country.everytin seem accepted des days all in d name of advancement
U must be a baby mama. How can you be against the trust only if you are a baby mama. Speak it Cynthia!
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You sound really hurt. Like the message was meant for you. Sorry my dear but what is wrong is wrong. It's not right and the truth need to be said. We can't continue to allow immorality thrive in our society.
We don hear as if you would not have become a Baby mama to Remi Olowude (IGI EVC) but for his sickness and eventual death. Cynthia should just keep quiet abeg. You knew he was married and with children but you dated him for years.
Linda so it's true that u don't post comments nawa 4 u I
What is wrong is wrong even if it is trending. God bless you cynthia.... This baby mama thing ain't our culture. Gotta make it stop!
Thank u sis for this. Immorality is naw applauded in our society n this encourage these shameless girls to have babies number 1,2,3,etc outside wedlock. I weak o!
Ur mumu is alarming...pls,hope it ain't contagious biko!
If you notice a trend amongst baby mamas. The baby papa's only celebrate the child on instagram and leaves out the woman that carried the child for 9 months. That there should sink into their heads. I am still yet to see one pic of David's baby mama on his instagram page but he stays celebrating other non baby mamas. Shame! Anna Ebiere I hope you watched and learnt something. Thanks Cynthia!
Stupid shallow and judgemental. Wear the shoes and it becomes right! Idiot
Gbam!!
SPEAK IT LIKE IT IS BABY GIRL. WHOEVER THAT DISAGREES WITH THIS VIDEO IS A SHAMELESS BABY MAMA OR BABY PAPA.
The most annoying part of it is when the father stops supporting they start singing being a single mother is not easy blah blah
I'm not surprised at u at all,dts ignorance speaking through u. Wen u forget dt having indiscriminate unprotected coitus is a not only a way of creating children bt also a way of spreading STIs like HIV/AIDS. Wht happened to using a condom if u can't abstain?
Next thing you will hear cynthia amadi"s husband has a baby mama outside.Life hasnt happened to you thats why you judge
I agree wit u 100% cynthia, ur words re precise nd on point.
To each his own.
My dear, u really right..........as if u knew what on my mind...... that what is trending now...... Baby mama. I pity them.
Anonymous,ur askin cynthia to get a life,dts cool,buh I think u on d other hand should go get a name cox d last time I check anonymous is ws nt a name.and just incase ur findin it hard to get on,I think I hav a beta one dt will suit u well.try the name@IDIOT,it will fit u well.thank mi later idiot
So true. So many of us grew up with both parents, and the ones who didn't wished they had both parents by their side. Why then would you want to bring children into this world to bear the pain of not being with their parents as a whole family? Haba!
I love this, pls tell them
Ride on girl,say it like it is ,who nor like d truth make e go die,baby mama baby dogs everywhere,open eye close one,Lol
Especially fools lik Anna banner n Sandra,d likes of even davido b d prince...shameless people..anna jus waste 4 nothing,where correct guys full everywer..u go folo flavour wey don born plkin wit Sandra..wat were u thinkin..long throat...u should b focused wit ur education buh u prefer 2 go n remove ur pants in flavour's room..oniranu..i pity ur life ,u dey folo musician wey go soon reign comot...am so pained bcos as a beauty queen we expected so much frm u...
All still falls to "POVERTY" and "ORIENTATION"
When Parents fail to train their kids in a proper manner and not making them read the bible or going for sermon or even Nasfat sermon every Sunday, all they have to do is smoke skunk, go to the Beach every sunday, instagram from morning till night. No Morals. Parents cant even scold their daughter where she got an iphone 6 from then what do we get?
Sharrap
God bless YOu for speaking the truth.
Ooh bitch shut up pls, there are better ways to tackle things than making having kids like a disease, bitch u suck, work on ur character, u are abusive, how dear you mention people's name who find joy in their children wedlock or no wedlock...pls stfu and get a life...have u checked d lives of the married couples lately? have u u seen how pple dont even respect marriage again? Bitch if anyone feels like fucking a celebrity? It is their business not you Oloshi, how is davido irresponsible oloriburuku, u won't face ur life! Poke nosing oloribuku! Yes let them be single all their life's and want kids been single.. it is their fucking business, not urs bitch! People should start minding their business and not try to lecture people on how to live their life, if u miss the 80'ss Oloshi go back to the 80's...stupid asshole...u wanna be heard abi? attention seeker buruku, hater! If u don't find joy in having kids be it in wedlock or outside...go and die because they don't care abt u or wat u have to say...Mrs ITK
Hahahahaha tell em! Madam Judgina Cynthia. Elenu konga. Who knows how many you don commot? Oshisco.
Bia Anonymous. You must be a baby mama yourself to speak about Cynthia like that. What is wrong is wrong. She has spoken the truth and that's final so take it or continue going about and being a baby mama. FULL STOP
Oh shut up baby mama!
Nice talk, the truth is bitter.but come oh beautiful Queens like:anna bann......, sand......., hmmmn odikwa egwu.she jxt said it all.tk note all.oya strt broadcasting rill dey get 2 see it
She has spoken d truth jare. We are Africans not Americans! 'Baby Mamas'
I so so concur sincerely and am happy people share same view with me. It's seriously getting out of hand. Making people bcome irresponsible mtcheeeeewwww
Those of u insulting her y is it paining u pipo ooooooo, if u dnt knw Wat to write jxt shourup. she is not perfect but she is jxt saying dat it's not write St least she is not a bsby mama.nobody is perfect . Those who hate truth na dem body dey pepper.ndi ojooo
Linda ikeji and colleagues in the blogging industry r the reason d celebs and their wannabe doin this, bcos they r making them famous
IT COULDN'T HAVE BEEN BETTER SAID. WELDONE CYNTHIA. "HE WHO HAVE EARS; LET HIM/HER HEAR.
Anonymous, shut up.. Am sure u r a shameless baby mama too.. see d long epistle sef.. mtshewwww
WOW!
Almost every comment is in support, it was also once our culture to kill twins you know.She probably feels left behind seeing her peers have children.
U shut d fuck up,fucktard, n stop deceiving urself by calling urself Mrs wen u r a miss, n if u feel being a babymama is d best, may all ur daughters become babymama n not get married
Ooh bitch shut up pls, there are better ways to tackle things than making having kids like a disease, bitch u suck, work on ur character, u are abusive, how dear you mention people's name who find joy in their children wedlock or no wedlock...pls stfu and get a life...have u checked d lives of the married couples lately? have u u seen how pple dont even respect marriage again? Bitch if anyone feels like fucking a celebrity? It is their business not you Oloshi, how is davido irresponsible oloriburuku, u won't face ur life! Poke nosing oloribuku! Yes let them be single all their life's and want kids been single.. it is their fucking business, not urs bitch! People should start minding their business and not try to lecture people on how to live their life, if u miss the 80'ss Oloshi go back to the 80's...stupid asshole...u wanna be heard abi? attention seeker buruku, hater! If u don't find joy in having kids be it in wedlock or outside...go and die because they don't care abt u or wat u have to say...Mrs ITK
Mehn I fell all u haters on cynthia. Has lost d morals of life. y do we hide d truth wen it's bin brought out. How will our nation b beta wen u evil people still exist? Madam 4get d people against u.. a thousand Nigerians Hails U.. well said..
infact dey shld stop referring to those baby mamas as beautiful Queens dey re ugly biko, d real beautiful women wit prestige can't do dat.mumu Queens dat can't even protect dem selves or use condom.we re waiting for d next baby mama frm flavour.i wonder wat he will be feeling like self, mtchew. Anna see say sandra has a child 4 him she still go put dat her ugly flat nyash dwn .Onye iberibe
Allow d useless kids dat has lost morals talk.. foolish kids dat gat no life is talkn.. wish u idiot cud put up.ur pics so we cud see ur DIRTY being..
girlll preach!
Cynthia has said it all.Say what you like.The truth is bitter and must be said.Ladies with low self esteem seek the opportunity of becoming baby mamas for children who are yet to figure out thier lives and hide under celebrity status.I hope a lot of young girls can learn from this deep speech by Cynthia.Thumbs up and please do more of this.
Fool
So so annoying....are they not suppose tobe so called role model?..... shame on dem wit all their education beauty and qualifications this is how dy wanna end up? so disgusting.
Baby mama is a sign of lack of ambition to be self-made.
Dear Anonymous,
People like you are really the problem. Why can't we just call a spade a spade? Everybody knows it's wrong. Christians, Muslims, even idol worshippers sef!
We shouldn't continue to find excuses for all our wrongs. The baby-mama syndrome is unacceptable by every standard. We have gradually opened our arms to it and we are unknowingly throwing all morals to the wind.
My point is : let what is right be right and what is wrong be wrong! Let up stop trying to make excuses for our foolishness. There's more to life than being a baby mama.
Let every girl that reads this know that she's a QUEEN and she should wait for the right king to find, 'work for', earn her love and marry her before she commits herself and her unborn children to him.
well done cynthia,good work,keep it up
MARRIAGE IS NO MORE A YARDSTICK,
WHAT IS IN IMPORTANT IS TO KNOW WHO IS THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD,
AND AS FAR AS YOUR MAN IS THERE TO CARE FOR YOU AND THE BABY , THERE IS NO NEED THAT YOU MUST BE UNDER THE SAME ROOF AND BEGAN LOOKING THROUGH THE WINDOW EVERY NIGHT ,
IF HE WILL COME BACK HOME TONIGHT OR NOT TONIGHT ,BECAUSE YOU ARE LIVING WITH A MAN WHO WILL ABANDON YOU AT HOME AND GO TO ENJOY HIMSELF WITH ALL GIRLFRIENDS .,HE WILL ALWAYS COME BACK LATE AND GO OUT EARLY.
YOU HARDLY TALK OR HE WILL NOT MAKE LOVE TO YOU ANYMORE.YOU ARE JUST THERE LIKE A HOUSE KEEPER .
HE MAY EVEN BE SPENDING MONEY TO ALL THOSE GIRLS OUTSIDE , WHILE YOU ARE SUFFERING , NOT ABLE TO HAVE MONEY IN YOUR BAG .
SO ,THESE ARE THE REASONS WHY SOME LADIES WANT TO CEASE A CHANCE AND BE A BABY MAMA.,
AND I THINK IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH GOD.
IT IS YOUR CHOICE . GOD MADE ALL THINGS, EXCEPT THE THING YOU HAVE MADE YOURSELF .
@Anon2:25, U r probably an example of someone raised by a single parent. No one raised by both parents who are responsible will give such an uncultured view as urs. U can live or destroy ur life as U want, that still does not change the fact that what is "wrong is wrong", and wrong can not suddenly become right just because its en vouge , or no matter how much we have sealed our conscience.
I would have taken the time to watch the video if she was not wearing another woman's hair on her head and her face was not paked with makeup. How can I take someone serious about moral issues when they are also a follower..mtschwww. You ain't no authentic African woman deary, women like you are a dime a dozen wearing fake hair, eyelashes, nails, faces paked with makeup looking as western as ever and then coming to preach African morals and values, go sit your azz down somewhere with a tub of Vaseline and soap to wipe that face and take a scissors and cut the horse hair out your head and then try the authentic African woman thing again.
Hahaha! You are really pained o! Am sure she hit a strong chord with you.
U are a fool for this comment
Sorry , she didn't ask you to bear 4 children to 4 different fathers .....stop patronizing nonsense.
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