From a female LIB reader...
I started dating this man in December last year and now I am sure my suspicions are at least 80% correct. He has this sister who is extremely jealous and always tries to prevent me from seeing him whenever I come to visit. She talks like a jealous ex and it took other family members to convince me she really was my boyfriend's sister and not girlfriend. One time I heard them arguing over my staying overnight at their home, like why does she care? He lives with her and another brother in a flat in Surulere. One day, I went to see him and it took over 10mins for him to open the door for me. His eyes were red and he looked like he had just finished having sex but the only person in the house with him was his sister. When she saw me, she didn't greet me and told my boyfriend not to take me to his room which he didn't. They share the same father but not same mother. I think I am right that they are lovers but how do I confront them?
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Just pray for them. Lindaobsv
See your thinking? Shallow
Think or know
This one pass me, abeg. #runsaway
Don't ask just observe very well before u take any action.
Firstly get the English right...She is half sister not step
So bcu his eyes were red they had sex? Mind u mine is always extra white when i lash
Until you catch them red handed, this is only a suspicion. Be vigilant or simply take a walk from any future drama.....
This is serious mattetr, so I suggest you still investigate more and be very sure
Hmmmm... if it's true.. then what a mess!!!
This is serious mattetr, so I suggest you still investigate more and be very sure
So what do you want us to do? Telling you he is sleeping with her even when we not there.
If you are 80% sure then you need to get the remaining 20% to be totally convinced of what you suspecting him.
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Firstly she's his half sister not step sister, thank me later
If they share a parent biologically then they're half siblings not step. FYI.
Gross though if her suspicions are true.
Dis is definition of real suspect dat is not yet proven guilty. So wait till when u r sure, and u get them red handed b4 ever u confront him.
Please still do Your investigation, get facts and stop thinking.
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R u their mama? Leave dem d hell alone by taking a long walk, never to return
Oriegwu, u better leave d guy, wetin u wan confront am for? If u do and he confirms ur suspicion, Wat wld u do with d outcome. Since u r suspecting, I will advice u leave both of dem b4 I go find ursef for wia u no expect
That is not enough for u to judge.
Don't think so, just dat some sister's are Extremly somethg else when it comes to dating their broda. And my dear you haven't seen anythg yet, date a bini guy and come share your story here concerning their mother's in that aspect of being jealous. So I don't think he is sleeping with her, don't come to conclusion except they re being caught red handed
Confront them how? Did u catch dem pants down? No! Pack well!
Free him if u r having a doubting mind
Calm down before your Iyanga go wake sleeping trouble.
The points you raised ain't weighty enough to conclude he's doing what you accuse him of.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Free him if u r having a doubting mind
U should confront him or take your mind out of the gutter.
Don't confront them..
Just get out of the relationship
When u Av an obstacle like his step sister,
Babe run for ur life
Learn from movies,nt everything acted is lies..
The step sister might take a wicked action towards you,by then,it'll be late to cry Wolf Wolf
Hmmm.... If you cant beat them, dont join them, please just walk away.. Before the step sister/Lover end ur life.. Shikena
That is not enough for u to jump into conclusion.
Lol @ his eyes were red. Maybe you woke him up with your visit. Have you tried to find out why she doesn't like you? Have you asked him or even her ? It's difficult to be in a relationship with a man whose family doesn't like you but that doesn't mean you should jump into conclusions and accuse him of incest . Trust me , the day it falls off your lips, your relationship will come to a tragic end. Do your home work . Find out why she doesn't like you, ask his bother whom lives with them. She may be very religious and doesn't like the idea of her brother bringing a girl home to spend the night . You may discover that it's all in your head and there nothing sexual going on. But then again, a woman's instincts are like a compass. Carry out your own investigation but do so discreetly because if his family hears what you're accusing them of, they'll all have a genuine reason to hate you.
Ok so wat shud we do for you now aunty?
Hmmm..just put a hidden camera in the house to confirm your fears
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This one is strong ...
if u dont feel comfortable with it, run for your life,dnt start what u cant finish
Congrats baby daddy
hmmm
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Hmm, this is serious though, I mean, it's highly suspicious, their behavior, I'd just ask my bf if I were you and see his reaction, that atleast should give you more insight.
Plant a camera! Lols. Let dem be, u dnt wana end up wif a guy like dat
You better dump him and move on, why should Ʊ confront them, move on sharply before Ʊ end up marrying a man dat would be sleeping with his sis... Just leave them with their curse... All is well..
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Stop thinking woman! Say it to his face!
You would embarrass yourself because you have no evidence, only theories and conjectures. You seem not to be sure if you want this relationship. Between December and now, and you are already sleeping in their house. I think you may be moving too fast and perhaps that's where her resentment is coming from. But doesn't she have a boyfriend of her own. Perhaps that's where you start talking about it from with him.
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U don't need to confront them, quit the relationship when it's still early. Incest is a terrible thing
Madam just let em know u are aware of their perversion and quickly take a walk outta his life. Dats evil
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Dump his silly ass........, nd allow him to keep fucking his sister. he's cursed
Weird- must be some nasty business if that's true.... But you sound like a hoe though. Must you go to his room? Ashewo, that's the one paining you and you thought to write Linda. How much is in your bank account? Do you have a domiciliary account? Do you run a thriving business? How many cars do you have? How many degrees have you got? Don't let me even ask about the Salvation of your soul, I'm sure your spirit is wretched. Let me stop. Think about my observations and find something better to do with this your one life.
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Try raise money arrange new apartment for your guy. Shikena
Hian! Dis on is an abomination biko! If it is true, beta run for life to avoid sharing from the curse. Linda take note!
chai! incest in the highest order.
Why not ask him, it wouldn't kill you to do that and it will save you all this heart ache. Conversations in relationships shouldn't be overlooked.
Anything can happen in dis life it's not a new thing anymore all I knw is dat if u can't stand been with dem cus u r suspicious pls let dem b cus confronting dem u r goin to cause serious family issue let d family discover it by dem self
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No offence but let's learn to use the term 'step' correctly! Step sister is a sister acquired through marriage, meaning you don't share biological parents, their parents just United via marriage.
The term you're looking for is Half sister.. Which makes it very very wrong! It's incest and disgusting
It's clearly obvious they're sleeping together... Take urself away from there before u infect urself with disaster because it's a bad omen!!
they share same father? that's his half sister and not step sister. that's incest!
When next u go spending the night there, plant a CCTV and u will confirm things for ur self.
they share same father? that's his half sister and not step sister. that's incest! -- LO
I believe u it happens just say it and if he lies leave him his an abomination to his existence
Nwanem u cnt confront witout an evidence.snoop into in his fone or smtin so u can av an evidence to confront dem with
End the relationship. Why bother to confront them?
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Hmmmmmmm if you ask me naa who I go ask?????this kind thing pass me ooooh lol any way LIB professors over to you guysz.JC
So I don't know if this is a very good advice but if I were in your shoes, i'll let the guy go. You mentioned you just started dating last December so that means you are not far gone. Why complicate your life with something like that. If it's true, then that's just so sick and you should stay out of it. Just tell him what you feel and let go. Thanks
No problem if the share the same father, tht means they did not suck same breast, no that is not a sin in igbo culture.
Hmmm......dis one pass my own oooo
Ur bf is a stupid guy.......but I will pray for God to 4give him....smh
Woah!!! Red eyes after having sex. Never knew this
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His eyes wia red??...so redness of the eye suggests to u they wia probably knacking??
Girlfriend, erase this suspicion and get real...
If he is yanshing his step sister,he won't probably be dating u @ all...It will be a top secret and the step sister herself won't allow anyone near him..
U kn wat they say abt jealousy? I understand that they might be too close for comfort buh untill u catch them red-handed,dont accuse him yet..
Buh if I wia u,i wouldn't date such a man,i hate to suspect incest...catch them red-handed pls...it will make a lot of sense to me..den DITCH his ass like a smelly food pack.
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Same father? She is his half sister not step. Probably she just doesn't like you.
She's not his step sister, she's his half sister which even makes it worse if they are banging! You can't confront them, you can only catch them red handed. Judging from all you've said, dude is def nackin her...
Hmmm na wa oh, they cause that family, is it any activist in your area? If there is report him, also tell his relations
lol. u are probably dating a dog.
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my dear is that the kind of man u want to marry. `his sister told him not to let u into his room n he didn't. pls run! place some value on ur self and go pray to God for a good man. u waited for 3 hrs for him to come open d door! is it dat u dont believe u can meet anoda man again? u want to spend ur life wit someone who u believe is sleeping wit his sis? u may only earn a slap for confronting him/ beating from his sis . it's obviously dem against u. wit d way u sound, u will stick wit him even wit al d atrocities.
Linda according to the story you heading is wrong. They appear to be half siblings not step. Step is when there are no blood ties but when one parent is married to one of the other's parents.
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Gosh this is a terrible thing but what baffles me is why this woman is still hanging around this man if she suspects he is sleeping with his sister?? Left to me, I would take to my heels and have nothing to do with any man committing incest- if he can sleep with his own half sister, he can sleep with his own daughters!
HAYAY. Confront ke. Better find your square root. I mean. Scram. You want to be with a man who is involved in incest. Ogun idile is real.
They r not step siblings,they r half siblings. That's incest. Beta leave d relationshi bt mk sure u tell some1 about it.
"His eyes were red like someone that just had sex" what?!? Na weed? Pls you don't have enough proof, so just chill
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they both had orjin.. That is the justification for the red eyes..
My dear run for your life ooo
Maybe you should just ask, nicely. If you wanna stir up the hornet's nest, ask her. But first ask her why she doesn't like you. If you're eventually right, nne I nye ha efe, it might be deeper than u can grasp.
My sister they're dating. Infact I think thier Love is strong. So be wise.......
my dear don't confront anybody. he is just going to lie to ur fone all you need do is find a way to record everything
Confront him for what na
Walk away joor
He's not worth d stress
He will prolly sleep with ur own sister tommorrow
Except u want to advice him for his own good...
Then if it is true it's very bad...abomination
My dear what i have to say now is what i will do if it were to be me.
1st i will check if the guy is truly having sex with is sister then if yes i will have to leave the guy to continue having the sex with his sister because the sister can do anything just to get you out of their way so you have to be careful with the sister because you gals can do undo just to keep your man so be careful the way you go to there house and also with the sister ok take care and stay bless
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Lmao @ his eyes were red like he just had sex...... pls just ask him calmly to tell u the truth and if it's true ur thoughts are right are u ready to bear d hurt and walk away?? or will start fighting like a provoked Red Indian ( who don't like injustice)?????
omo open ya eyes.....as for me o, that lady is not his full abi half sister o. she is his gf and if atall she be him sister, them dey do waiting u think o
tell the guy ur mind now before u go carry ur self comeback con dey cry for LIB o
That's not meaning of step sister, please.
That's not meaning of step sister, please.
This girl is sick to the head, I hope your boyfriend reads this post and breakup with your dumbass.....so you saw his eyes red means he just finished having sex? Not thinking if he was having a nap? ODE!
Why does it even matter? You're not heavily invested. Find your sneakers and run. For all you know, she could be sleeping with both of them. Get the hell out before you're in too deep.
catch them in the act... get a spare key and go unannounced one day. act like you want/wanted to surprise him....if nothing then just either break up with him or stop torturing urself.
Wow! Confront your boyfriend not her. If na me, i'll confront d guy and quit. WTH!
My dear, pick up your shoes, dust them and take to your heels. Cos such things brings curses and you shouldn't wait around for it to start manifesting itself in your life also, sex is a bond therefore his curses will be us too. My own 2cents.
Flee from all appearances of evil.
That his eyes were red when u came visiting isn't enough reason to think they were having sex..Please watch them carefully before you start confronting. The sister might just be a harmless jealous sister who is so fond of her brother and can't stand another woman coming between them. Until you catch them pants down or get a more concrete reason to evidence their act, you can't conclude anything.
Incest
Still exercise patient and give them a close watch..... I wish I'm close to you, I would have loved to give you my wrist watch that videos from a distance of which you gonna place in the room and I bet you, you gonna catch them for real and hear their voices when mourning during jigging and shagging.
Na wa!
In a situation like this u have to play smart pretend as eve u don't know anything....go through his phone,and also make a surprise visit believe me he will fall if truly he's having something with his cousin.......
Looool you had better park your belongings and run for your dear life.... someone else will come for you with time
Continue observing.till it turn finally against u.
So must you continue with that ur boyfriend? Why don't you dump him already? What will confronting him achieve? You want the step sister to pour you acid or something? Leave them alone abeg and take a walk!
Hmmm,this is serious oh
Babe they're fuckin each oda accept it
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Number one if they share the same father they are half brother and sister, get at least one thing right.
Secondly, is he worth it? Are you ready for the consequences if you are right or wrong? If you are wrong and thus backfires and leads him to "find solace" with her, you have to live with it.
You really have no proof so er yeah. Importantly is worth it if he isn't leave him, since you feel this love is tainted.
Ah! Nne it is serious ooooo try to go thru his phone n see if they message each oda n. Confront him as well!
Dump that guy and move on with your life.At worst he is sleeping with her.At best she is controlling him.Either way you lose.
Hmm.. That's some boyfriend you've got there.
Confront ke?.. You aren't married to the guy.
If you are right about your suspicion, move on away from them. TO CONFIRM..
I'd suggest you stay over for the weekend and see what happens..and stay in his room.
Goodluck!
You are wrong, they are only having family discussions
You are wrong, they are only having family discussions
When u wake up from sleep your eyes are also red
Your mystery, solve it. #passing
Since u dnt hv any prove dnt ask dem yet just wait until u catch dem in d act bt in d oda hand it might be dat she dnt like u dats why she is acting like dat
A good question for Google.
Accusations without confirmation is meaningless,no offence but who knows maybe u got zero listening ability or maybe not homely enough n she's just protecting her brother. Either way,u just have to apply wisdom n make peace with her cos u re the one entering that family not
her if u know what I mean.
When you share a parent, you are not step siblings. You are half siblings. With step siblings there is no blood relationship.
Ehya, u berrra breakup wit d psychopath
Dont... just leave him be
Calm down for now tho..
Maybe it's far from what u think,it's possible d step sis don't like u or she's not comfortable with ur boyfriend bringing a female friend to the house,some pple re like that.
Linda, english graduate she is his half-sister if they share a parent.
Step is when there is no blood relation.
Confront him n find out from him. U cnt b too sure,mayb he was sleeping when u came or in d bathroom.
U mean half sister?
if they share the same father then they are half-siblings not step-siblings. Just saying
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Leave him abeg b4 yu carry cause put for ur head......
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Step siblings don't have blood relationship Eg Kendall is Kim's half sister and Brandon is Kim's step brother
Choi....it'z none of ur bizness..jst walk out of dat sooooooOooo called "relationship". Nd besides it'z dir life. When kasala don burst u shld @ least be 10000km gone
Do you still want to continue with that. Sleeping with his step sister is incest and a curse. wouldn't want to associate myself with such or waste my time cautioning. Just leave the damn guy.
dont confront them. just leave the guy and move on dear.he doesn't deserve you.gbam!
Get out that unhealthy relationship, repent, and God will definitely give you your true husband! No need to confront the idiots, let their sins find them out.
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Don't bother with confrontation...there is nothing you can do about them, they will keep seeing each oda...so get out of the relationship cos its obvious the guy doesn't love you.
No More jealous, stay with me.
It maybe true oooo bcos things are happening in dis life dis days
Obviously they are intimate. Confront him and dump his incentious ass! He's absolutely disgusting!
Hmmmm, sit down look na dog name oooo
Its just a hunch. No need to for confrontation.
All I have to tell you is just be security conscious. With this type of jealousy, your safety cannot be guaranteed. Call it quits.
You mean how do you walk away from such a relationship? If your guess is true, is that the kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with?
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Wat are u still waiting for to run away? I nukwa qns
Is he your husband? Staying overnight? Where are your morals? Look inwards. Repent.
eww your boyfrind is disgusting and you should run for the hills...surely there isnt a shortage of men in the world
I am sure someone else in the house knows they are sleeping together. Tell him to choose who he wants to date between you and his sister.
Why do you need to confront him?
For explanations or to satisfy your curiosity?
Anyway,if u must...do it when you are sure you will leave that relationship...
If I were you, I won't confront him. I will simply walk out of d relationship. Because when you confront him, he will definitely deny. And talk you to say in the relationship. You can talk to your siblings about it or your mum and for advice.
Dont judge until u see them
Why do u want to confront him,u don't have enuf fact to confront him o,just wait a little more,if u didn't catch them doing it u cant,n don't try to confront him o.its better u call it quits for allowing his sis to control him,n If he begs u,firgive him n tell him such must never repeat itself
Why do u want to confront him,u don't have enuf fact to confront him o,just wait a little more,if u didn't catch them doing it u cant,n don't try to confront him o.its better u call it quits for allowing his sis to control him,n If he begs u,firgive him n tell him such must never repeat itself
When will some Nigerians learn to use the term step-sister appropriately?! If they share the same father, then they are half siblings. She's his half-sister. If they're having a sexual relationship, they need to go for counseling and prayers. Sad.
Abi..same reply here!
Thank God hez still ur bf not ur husband, so if u suspect they r sleepin with each other, I suggest u leave him now b4 itz 2late, b4 he transfer curse 2u. U deserve better
Men and their prick. Msheeeew. Prick no dey stay one place, even among siblings. Tufiakwa. Are you blind or just foolish? You want the demons in his body to be transferred to you okwaya? Stay there, don't run 4-40. Let their madness catch you.
What's the proof?
I think they are not dating....for you to even conclude that your boyfriend is banging his sister make you a very bad person.... maybe where you are coming from, there's no love between siblings. The sister noticed your bad attitude hence she doesn't like you and don't want her brother to date you. Change your ways.....and your dirty mind set.
linda is a semi lliterate n quite selfish. at least she can hire someone else to proofread her work but she wont. shes her own writer, editor, publicist, marketer and accountant.
what happens wt pple dt think they can do all & dont invest bk into their business is they usually crash n born when a fiercer, more imaginative n better quality product comes along.
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Red eyes? Girl your boy isn't fucking his sister...he's a pothead haha.
Hmmm!! Nd who told u dat? Bc frm ma own part it's an abomination...step, half, full, quarter sister ma dear once dey share same blood it's incest oooo. there are curses dat go wit such act...u beta back out b4 it's too late..
half sister u mean
Hmmmmm...too much conji.....buh Linda we cannot continue with you...u are partial n selective in reading n posting ur mails.....u are failing us.....lol....buh am serious ohh abi do members of LIB cabinet also pay for their post to be placed?
I hate people like u who judge becos u do worst things, do u knw if d hv bn frds for long b4 d officially start dating, na still u go tell them Happy married life if d end up getting married in 2months, anufia
Husband ke! She tell you say she dey find husband? Nigerian women with their one-track minds. Must every relationship have marriage connotations? Haba!
Correct man! God bless u. I know this type of chic. I've been with one. Very restless soul. Always seeking for advice when there's no reason to do so. Irritatingly suspicious. This poster must have a horrible attitude.
hmm this is deep,maybe you should ask the guy out right,and listen to his answer,if you are happy with his answer fine,but if not find another relationship,where you would be at peace.I pray God puts you through
Chinwe sharrap.... wat he said is not bad biko
Dats too close for comfort..buh I wil advice u find more facts,ask questns arnd,plant a camera in his room if nid be to get a confirmation b4 confronting nd opting out of d relationship.
This isn't even step, they are half siblings which makes it worse. Gross!
Hmmm, Pls find out why she doesn't like u first imagining things
YOU BETTER WAKA GO?
NO NEED TO CONFRONT......... WELL, ACTUALLY, I WOULD CONFRONT HIM AND LEAVE, SO NO BEGGING WILL MAKE ME GO BACK.
Mayb d guy was smok*n SK u came knockin
Sibling sex is a sad reality!
I'm just gonna say they're half siblings and not step siblings.
She is step as long as dey share same father not same mum
Well, I'm afraid ur suspicions might be wrong. All u have said is not enough to conclude. There are sibs that are so over-protective of each other that when friends come into the picture, they fear they might loose the affections of their siblings. So I suggest that until u have concrete evidence, especially catching them red-handed, u should just chill.
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I think we will be needing the services of ex IGP Abba to unravel this mystery.
A step sibling is your step mother or father's child with another person (not your parent) whom you do not share the same parent with. You are not related by blood only by marriage because your step parent is that person's biological parent.
I hate it when people get all ITK in other people's business, when they themselves don't know shit! Anon is right! If they share a parent, they are "half siblings" not step! If they are separate siblings, say the father came into the marriage with a kid and the mother came into the marriage with a kid, that's when they are "step-siblings".... I wish Nigerians studied more.
She's step as long as they share a parent, could be mum or dad.
Dia business!!
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sorry its half- sister and not step sister. Small mistake but huge difference. If they share no common blood ties then no big deal. Either way I would leave him alone. Certain boundaries has to be set by him for respect to exist. Make it known to him and see what he says.
FYI: maybe u shouldn't sleep with him until you know.
Abeg waka comot there. Waka leave dem two my friend. Nor tell dem anything; bone. Irritating .
They are fucking themselves,
Lol na wa oo so if a guy's eyes are red it means he just had sex lmaooo , it could be weed ooooo red eye ,sex kwa nor be only red eye na pink eye you go see, my cousin's eyes are always red 24/7 and he is only 4 years old so that means he always have sex then
Simply put! Step siblings are siblings by law (marriage) i.e only related through marriage like if your dad remarries, his new wife's kids would be step brothers and step sisters while half siblings share a parent( biological)
Assumption are sometimes wrong and leads to wild imagination.if u care about ur relationship,sit d guy down and explain things to him from ur perspective.listen to him while he listen to u.then i guess u guys can get to understand urself better.stop assuming................GOODLUCK!!!
If you can't take the heat... get out of the kitchen.
The only way you will say yes is happening is if you catch them red handed, without that just continue with the little affection you receive or break up with the guy.
If it is true, is an abomination, forget him
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