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Wednesday 12 November 2014

Lol. And a married woman replies 'pissed off single girl'

This is getting interesting...lol. A response from a married woman to the 'pissed off single girl' who wrote in earlier here. Enjoy below...
Dear Linda, on behalf of married women this is a response to the single lady’s comment.
Dear spinster (Aka pissed single girl),
If you truly value marriage and plan to have yours one day then the excuse that you were lured or enticed to follow a married man is not an excuse. The fact is that you have no morals or respect for your body or even the marriage you so desire to have one day.
I am not an IG or twitter or even whatever social media platform person and do not encourage these married ladies to use it let alone pass any silly message through it to anyone be it single or married.
Marriage is not a joke so do not come to the public and put your marriage under unnecessary scrutiny. And yes like the single lady said deal with your man and stop blaming anyone.

Having said that, I see where the ladies who lamented are coming from – truth be told men will not date themselves (well, unless he swings both ways!!!) so if we women would say no to the advancement of these so called horny married men (Aka Oke mkpi) the world would be a better place. If girls would say an emphatic NO when a married guy chases her no matter the splendor he showers on her and then the next girl and then the next….. of course they would get the message. But noooo…. In fact girls are even the ones that chase after the men themselves rolling their booties and tits all around the place in nicely packaged skirts and blouses, seeking the man’s attention just because he is what you would have liked in a husband. Yes you find him attractive but he is taken and it’s your loss... please move on and find the young single guy who has the qualities the married man you admire has (though with much less money) invest in him i.e. time and encouragement and hopefully he would soon sprout and become the next best thing that you would also be proud of.

Comot eye for person own (he says his wife is lazy, she’s fat, he has invested this and that on her already) my dear don’t you already know that a man would say whatever it takes to get in your panties? Why are you being ignorant? He’s a man with a daily erection and roaming eyes. Don’t fool yourself he’s probably not chasing you alone, he just needs a corner marking!!! Don’t feel special cos he has the money enough to squander on you and 4 other girls. He’s trying his luck anyone wey gel he go take or two sef. The more the merrier, the happier his manhood. Period!!

The problem we women have which is what the IG & twitter marries ladies were trying to say (through a wrong means of course) is that women are our own worst enemy. We are bitter at other women’s success, we envy what other woman have a wish to destroy it is given a chance.

Women…… lets change our ways, be proud of your fellow woman and celebrate her, admire rather than envy her, pray for her, wish her well and guess what? Yours will come. Having said that, married women I beg you in God’s name do your best to look good. It is not a sin to look “HOT” yes I dare say it look “HOT” that is what these young girls have over you. They look hot and sexy... it’s not just looking pretty, come out looking sexy and let other men check you out as you walk by. Your stupid husband will notice and sit up. He knows and sees that you are not so desirable and even if he messes up you no dey go anywhere because market done fall press you.

I am married and have been for almost 10 years but when I walk into a room, men, boys check me out. I have been with the same man for over 14 years now and haven’t been with anyone else and don’t intend to. But I tell you I enjoy the stares I get cause even my hubby dey fear to let me waka go toilet alone… also please and please lose weight, do sit ups stop the silly excuses oh I done have time, the kids this, the kids that ,, bla bla bla… no be you first born pikin. I have got kids myself and still try to find the time to look good.

"Married woman"

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Unknown said...

Make this ppl find something do na.
Inform your husband to find job for u na....Too old 4 dis shit

BORN TO SHINE!!!

Unknown said...

Angie cape nwannem nwanyi......na u write this? I de suspect u. D poster sounded like u. Anyways nke a gbasara unu ncha....lol

ujunwa said...

Odikwa egwu ...

Unknown said...

Hahaha, awon iyawo ti binu o! Lol

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Lmaooo... This is really interesting... Am guessing part three will be the man responding then.... Lolx....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

Really interesting and honest. This is an unbiased statement of fact.

Unknown said...

Lol... Married Women,, learn 4rm her!

Uche Emma said...


This is getting interesting

Anonymous said...

Lol very interesting.. I'm following oo

Any serious single lady in the house should hola me for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage
emmadrumzl@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

Pls o, I'm single, I'm strictly against young girls going after married men and vice versa, but truth be told, Most of these married women complaining, when they were single, they were also going after married men then! So why can't they face their Karma? Why r they complaining? Go to the lord and confess ur sins lol! I think single girls sleeping with married men shd cover their faces in shame! Stop writting open letters n all! Whr is ur dignity? What a shame! Btw I need plenty sugar for this tea pls!


@tarteenah

Anonymous said...

Well spoken.

Vivian Love said...

Well said..

#king said...

Okay but tbh I can't read all dis..too long but I know d person that wrote dis reply................................#KingOfKings #6ixGod

Anonymous said...

gbam

Unknown said...

gbammm

Livvsreamblog said...

Association of angry wives and single pissed ladies

Unknown said...

gbammm

Anonymous said...

I am a married woman.. but i will say some married women are stupid.... MUST YOU RESPOND TO EVEYTHING? Anyway what goes around comes around.... If you sleep with another woman's husband, marry another woman's husband or snatch a married man from his wife... u better do quick and enjoy all you can cos the rock will definitely hit u so hard...

Alloy Chikezie said...

Actually the single lady's that wrote to married women made a valid point. Instead of confronting the side chick or single ladies, married women should always confront their husbands and stop making a fool of themselves by confronting the side chick, just wondering how many you will confront? Because they are more than one.


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UnDecided said...

But why would the married man not stick to his wife in the first place

Unknown said...

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha I thought the single lady letter was interesting but these is even better

Anonymous said...

Oh puleeeease!!!

From the way she writes, one can tell she is not in any way near hot! infact hotness dey vex say she use am describe herself. lol, she is only describing the woman she wishes she is, lol.

Also madam, how ignorant can you get? Don't you know that the "hotness" of a wife does not guarantee fidelity from her man? Ask Caroline Danjuma and enterprises.

Lastly, it is unrealistic to expext a girl who is relentlessly pursued and spoiled with gifts she only ever dreamed of receiving, not to let her guards down.

Patiently awaiting a letter from the randy married men. Make una share una side of the story. Single guys fit talk their own too, let's know how all these affects you. Lol.

Anonymous said...

SHARRRRRRRRRRRP THERE.am sure that ur husband is sleeping with the house maid even as your writing dis thrash.biko leave the single girls alone,tat we date d married men dosent mean we wont have our own,who made u God,#RUBBISHMOUTH

Anonymous said...

This wont end so I better get my cup of tea.. My own happiness is we were all single girls..... Married men chase single , married, divorced girls so can we pls stop hating on single girls. We don't want your husbands but even the good book tells us that if you keep disturbing 1 day maybe your request will be granted. take it or leave it everyone has a price. Even the married women cheat so kindly deal with your dog of a husband and leave single girls alone. Tight abs booty like Kim's a randy man will still cheat on his wife. he was like that when you met him and you still married him, so why do you want to change him? you married because its time or his money or kids.. he married because well I don't know...stop this married women single girls bullshit. in the end we are all women....

Unknown said...

Wow! Nice

Anonymous said...

Shut up married woman...you were once single and flashing dem Titties and etc etc...\_____ relax here

BlessingOzoemena said...

Good advice for every body both single s,married and the so called husband ( aka oke mkpi)

Molurlah's MakeOver said...

Word!
Best reply ever

Anonymous said...

This makes a whole lot of sense. She has said the right and dropped the bombshell. When I read the first comment from the single I was pissed at the nonsense and it was clear to me that she is a loser and a husband chaser.

Thanks.

Anonymous said...

Wow!! This is powerful. Una dey vex gan.
Let the saga begin...movie titled ''Battle of the Zanga''
*grabs popcorn*

Anonymous said...

Nice write up, Women has been their own enemy since 1800 centuries

I J E said...

Ooooooo...I am Soo loving dis. Very concrete points.

ellajohn said...

This is really getting outta hand,waiting to hear from married men themselves

Dave Mide said...

Abegi jor, inasmuch as i didnt find that single lady letter truthful(blind man reading&replying msgs), I completely find this irrelevant as well, its uttered out of hate. You have been with married man/men b4 so ...Karma fuxks with ery1 ....guess its payback time

Anonymous said...

Linda, why do you put a picture of a skinny girl as the single and a heavy set girl as the married?
Are you trying to imply something?????

So not right. Make we no begin our own o.

From a Skinny married woman

Olayemi said...

By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.
Singles please go and get married.

Mz CIA said...

Ghen ghen!!!

Anonymous said...

whenever i sleep with a married man i feel so happy and satisfied. i have decided never to sleep with a single guy again.

married men can be good in bed, take care of me financially so i love married men.

i have 3 married men am dating presently and i will never leave any of them. the one i love soo much is very rich and his wife has been call me on phone but the more she calls the more i suck the hell outta her hubby's dick and wallet.

no time, life is too shot to be broke and have no married man arround me.

Anonymous said...

A MAN THAT WILL CHEAT ON HIS WIFE WILL CHEAT ON HER NO MATTER HOW HOT AND SEXY SHE TRIES TO BE PERIOD. ONCE A MAN HAS NO FEAR OF GOD, NO MORALS/CONSCIENCE AND HAS EVEN A LITTLE MONEY TO SPARE IT'S A GIVEN THAT HE WILL CHEAT, THAT'S JUST HOW THE COOKIE CRUMBLES.

Unknown said...

Dis is cool.....u re so rite

Anonymous said...

Hahahhahahahahaha1!

Need we say more. But wait a moment, it might not even be a single lady he is cheating with, it might be an unhappy married woman.

We women need to chill,life is not solely about IG and twitter. Talk to God and deal with all your issues.

Marriage is sacred and we should all try to respect it.

Subomi said...

well she talked for both sides so,
I agree with most of what she said

Anonymous said...

How many men call out the guys their partner cheated with? they just deal with the lady or forgive her... Every time girls should say no... what about we start a movement of men should stay married and leave single girls alone. Its a two way thing you know. If a married man comes my way and I can chop his money and run I mean I will.. Some of these so called married women still talk to their ex and get mad when he has a new relationship and doesn't have their time. Biko make una dey your lane enjoy answering Mrs. and stop envying the Miss..

Anonymous said...

Madam thank you for your response. Dont know what the stupid girl is looking for with a married man. If she would just say no we wont be having this conversation. Can you imagine telling the woman she has no plans to steal her husband but she wants him to find her a job. Dont go and pray o useless hoe!

Unknown said...

Well said madam... 100% agree wit u. If am nt mistaking, a certain woman wrote abt this here yesterday or two days ago; hw ladies envy, & bitter abt other women success, & get back to them through there husbands... Is weird like seriously...

Money makes you fuck lots of women without stress said...

I am a married man. Let me start by focusing on that fact and making it clear.




Morally, your advice is perfect and people can take a cue from it. The world will be a better place.



Analytically, your advice is inefficient and a waste of time.


Let me tell you why you should focus your energy on your husband.



How do you prevent goats from eating your yam? According to you, the goats should know the yam isnt theirs and stay away from it. wow! Now listen to yourself and let this sink in.



Ok, let me continue. Dont you know that you can protect your yam farm/barn by concentrating on preventing intrusion using all valid barriers possible? In that way, you save yourself the energy of appealing to the conscience of all goats.




People are trying to survive and they will do anything to ensure so. If they can beat the law, they would. Now this is a case where what they do is not even illegal. And that is why the rush is mad and frequent.




Do you seriously think that your appeal to their moral conscience would beat their survival instincts? Let's for the purpose of simplicity lump survival as an aggregate of wants, needs and greed. There are so many bootilicious, curvy and booby babes out there whom are ready to, at the minimum, collect your husband's money from him, even if sex is not involved. Sex becomes involved when they dont have a choice, and the money must be collected.



Save your energy and focus on your husband. Marriage is challenging. These are part of the challenges.




Most women see these signs before they get married, but the desperation and societal pressure wont allow them make the best decision - especially if he has money.




If you make no headway with all your effort, then you have two choices - either your bear or you leave him. Basically, it is as simple as that.



Please leave ignorant goats to look for food; just protect yours





*sips coffee*

obietrezy said...

so interesting pissed off single girl and a response from the married lady.. well as long as i know, most single girls are so greedy and that's why they can't say no to a married man because those singles gilrs don't know their worth any longer. it quite unforunate that most girls are still olodos because as a guy we have so many things to say to lure you and when you know he's married too, he will always use your head and never think you're the only one he's flirtng with because that's what you girl fail to understand. it still remains that most girl will always be stupid and keep falling for the married men because he has a lot of money to spend on them and because of the greedy nature of most girls, they can't stick to a nice single guy. i feel so happy when i see them been used by the married men and wipe them off like they wipe them ass. 97% of 9ja babes are dating married men and you think when you get married your husbands won't go after the single girls abi, remember what goes around comes back around.

Anonymous said...

This summarises it all. You have spoken my mind.

Anonymous said...

Both write UPS have made their points.

I'm a very hot looking married woman.and I don't throw my business out there.but what will one do when the man is constantly doing so.

I personally will not go and confront the women out there.my beef is with Mr. Lose Willy aka husband,like I always tell my friends,how many babes person go fight.e tire me o.

I am very genetically blessed,we are financially well off and kids are doing great.After over 13 years of marriage,na me only still dey cook and serve his food.i earn my own money,I have a solid and comfortable background but still Mr. Lose Willy still strays.i read a text from a lady on his phone asking,begging him to please back off.the lady even said she has seen his wife and wonders what else he wants.

my dear fellow married woman writer,are you saying the single ladies shouldn't package themselves well so our husbands won't be tempted?I have great looking young boys in my office with great looking packages.have I jumped on them?

lets be truthful,our men are irresponsible and have no conscience.no morals nor values.and because we now live in a morally decadent society,they keep getting away with it cos no one dares ostracize them especially if they are loaded.

Unknown said...

Its painful on both sides. Men are just to blame.... And erm- married woman, LINDA IKEJI BLOG is also a social media platform not just twitter, IG or facebook

Anonymous said...

I love this... nice one married woman. am not married yet tho but its something am looking forward to.

Anonymous said...

Beautiful write up. A standing ovation for you.

Anonymous said...

Lol @ d more the merrier, the happier the manhood. To all single girls i say, KNOW THE MAN BEFORE HIS MANHOOD!!!

Anonymous said...

More mud slinging by women at other women over men. This is foolishness. When a man marries, the onus is on him to remain faithful. He entered a sacred covenant with God and his wife. It's his job to live by it. Stop treating men as if they're brainless idiots. Cheating is a choice. If he cheats, his wife should hold him accountable. The other woman did not take vows with her. He did.

Unknown said...

Abeg go sit down 4 one place jhooor if ur man pass him boundry or u kno sabi take care of am or u no hold am well madam girls go take am nd noting go apun

seunLondon said...

Someone put a stop to this pls! #SeunLondon

Anonymous said...

Dear married woman who wrote this. Swear that you never slept with a married man when you were single. Same goes for you other married women. And who told u there are no young guys with enough money out there? Fool. Young boys are doing good these days and your husbands are bad in bed anyway. When was the last time you so called married women had orgasms? Pls take your frustration out on ur dildo's nd stop burdening twitter nd instagram servers with ur shitty ranting. The fact u are married doesn't make u a good person.
T!007

Anonymous said...

Honest response.. wise woman..!

Dada Omolara said...

Nice one there..being married shouldn't stop you from looking good...

Unknown said...

Confirmed words of wisdom! It is straight on point...Kudos Madam!

jessymor said...

Hmmmmmm well said honey.

Anonymous said...

Ghen ghen!!! Battle of the ladies. Oya single woman reply.

Anonymous said...

Nice one married woman, tell them the truth as theses single women that chase after married men are seriously deceiving themselves! As for married men chasing other women they have a mental problem, if they like carry as many women as you want so that their pick and mix of STD increases!

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

I tell u dis getting interesting... Caroline is getting famous with these...

Anonymous said...

Polygamy would have solved all these speeches but women refuse to share. A man can fall in love with more than three women. Love is cursed by monogamy..till then let the women hang online like cloth wey nor gree dry why the men sit in d house and laugh at their insecurities.

Anonymous said...

well said.

ary said...

Halleluyah the prophet has spoken! This is from someone in the game and I couldn't agree more!

Anonymous said...

We hear you ma!!!

Anonymous said...

I am a married woman but I support what the single girl said. Some men are even to low to be called he goat becos the goat will feel insulted, I am married to one of such. I dont see why I should be attacking the people that did not exchange vows with me and support the person breaking their vows. MARRIED WOMEN get this straight, the girls your husband chase around owe you no obligation. The person that is accountable to you is your husband. If you can't attack him on social media or divorce him, kindly sit in a corner and nurse your wounds, don't go to social media to embarrass yourself further thereby showing your desperation. As for me I am just allowing the idiot fool himself, immediately I get to a good place in life to fend for my kids well am out.

Anonymous said...

Y'all...should just go take a sit abegg! Una no get point...the fault can never be definitely ascertained... Every situation is peculiar.... There are good-hearted married women and single ladies just as there a foul and evil minded married women and single ladies.... two of una get point! oyaa bye bye, go and sleep....

Anonymous said...

Next Season 3.....Married man vs Single guys or .......
OBYCHINA

Unknown said...

Wow! Nice

Unknown said...

Now this is the reply I want to see!! Its greed that makes young girls fall for married men...n even young singles too...groom ur self esteem...work on ur finances n stop being a leech!!

Michoflash said...

True talk MADAM sexy I love your right up
Ladies please adjust your self and look for your own single man


Mr Flash say so

Understanding single girl said...

Gosh!!! This woman is a woman indeed! Love struck by her speech, she has said it all. All these naked displays so called trendy fashion on our streets these days by hustling young wanna-be-married-women...that is not the way. stop putting out your "booties and titties" for the married men to see,truth is he wont marry you you'll only end up as a desert meal to him never the main course!!! Allow the married women enjoy their marriages so you can enjoy yours too. lets (we single ladies including me) take the advice of aunty "married woman" and make the world a better place. For the records there are a thousand and 1 ways to look hot without being slutty! PEACE OUT BITCHES!!!

Anonymous said...

Ummmm this married woman sounds bitter. The single girl said nothing wrong or that she accepted the mans proposition. So why is she attacking her. Shallow write up. Couldn't even finish IT. NEXT!

Unknown said...

Nyc one to all single and married women. #intresting. #ladyduchess

Unknown said...

Loving this drama.To be sincere. It take Grace of God to overcome these men. I know what am talking. I have so many enemy today cos I told them to go take care of their family. Many blocked me but I don't care. I made a decision not to date any married man ......be you my ex. My goal is set. There are lots of shine shine bobo out there.

Anonymous said...

Gbam!



'B'

REXOVIC said...

Nice one sis...........thumbs up!!! love the aspect of married women looking HOT! gud to know after 2 kids i still cause a stare wen i walk into a room! abeg make una chill oo single girls......

SWT AMAKA said...

U re on point nize talk!! Women let's help our selves.

MichoFlash 7C6EA647 said...

True talk MADAM sexy I love your right up
Ladies please adjust your self and look for your own single man


Mr Flash say so

Aymii said...

And i quote her advice to single ladies .."move on, find a young man who has the qualities the married man you want has (though with much less money ) invest time and encourage him and he would sprout and become the next thing you'd be proud of"



Wise single ladies should heed that....From what i see around ,The bane in the lives of most single naija ladies is the urge to find a"Ready made" man!.......Guess what????
Almost all ready made men are taken..i.e married, or engaged etc............So because of the hunger and desperation amongst all these gyals......The men have discovered that once they have small change to throw round, the gyals spread legs fast.....

So in a sense women too are the cause of their own problems...

Now I'll also add that...any single girl who sleeps with married men......BE SURE your husband will be slept with too! Confamm!.....dont come out crying when dat shii happens.......God is not fooled, what you sow you will reap.



On 2 for Next!

qweeny said...

Errrm... Interesting... Sipping alomo

Unknown said...

War against single and married women. "WAR START" the married women are leading. 2:1 were re all our single awalla gals

qweeny said...

We need married men to do their write up too

Anonymous said...

I love this babe...hahaha

Bianca Bruno said...

Good for u.

SUPERVISOR said...

THE WINNER IS - "DRAW"!!!

AS LONG AS WOMEN HAVE DIFFERENT SHAPES, SIZES, TIGHTNESS, SCENT, VOICE, EYES, LIPS, BREATH ETC, MEN WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED.

"MEN" ARE THE ISSUE HERE - WHAT CAN WOMEN DO? NOTHING!

JENNY 1 OF A KIND said...

Ma'am u have said it all.i have come to understand that no matter how hard a married man chase a single girl he still have regard for thier wife.and at the end of the day will return to his wife.pls ladies we should wise up and avoid being use by all the so call married men.

Unknown said...

Married women dey vexxxx

JENNY 1 OF A KIND said...

Ma'am u have said it all.i have come to understand that no matter how hard a married man chase a single girl he still have regard for his wife.and at the end of he will return to his wife.pls ladies we should wise up and avoid being use by all the so call married men.

Anonymous said...

Lola is dat you?

Anonymous said...

funny,really. I guessed u'ld hv minded yr own panties if the single lady was you. The truth is once yr husband started looking for another woman outside,it means u'v failed as a married woman,simple. And maybe u'vent realized that men irrespective of their religon are marry more than one ''wife'' now. Stop crying wolf where non exist pls..u were once single too,where u that decent? RUBBISH!

Anonymous said...

what goes around comes around,most of this married women ranting dated married men when they were single#longthing

Unknown said...

i love your comment. you ve said it all.kudos to you. married women stay hot. i ve too kids and i am a hottie. when u do ur man will always be on his toes.

Unknown said...

LOL,so true Mrs. Words of Wisdom for those who have ears,hope they learn. Marriage is not a child's play,it's God's ordination. Married women please stay off social medias for crying out loud,it can't solve your marital challenges. But you tapped Maya Angelo's line oh... lol #PhenomenalWoman

Anonymous said...

I agree with you 100% ...... Only prostitutes will sleep with married men , how can a girl of 22 be sleeping with a married man .... A girl at her prime ruining her future . Any girl that sleeps with a married man has already placed a curse on herself ..... It's greed that lure these girls to married men and most of these girls even have bfs and some even dump their bfs for married men ( how dumb can some girls be) ..... When a young boy knows that a woman he admires is married , he pulls away but you see young girls of 17 / 18 fucking married men ...... What is this country turning into .... You see them fuck governors , senators , captain of industries , top business men ...... Trying to even snatch from wifey ...... Naija girls are the most dangerous and wicked set of humans on earth ...... Very selfish and sel centered ..... Otedolas daughter , Davidos sis , Jim ovia daughter and these top shots don't do this , it's only the poor girls from poor homes so that they can liv that their fake life ...... God is watching and karma is waiting ...... Most of these girls will carry I phone 6 with only 2k for account and them papa go they use fone of 10k ...... Livin up to their fake life is the major reason y they date married men .... Ok let me ask , if the married man earns 100k every month , will they answer the man .... The answer is no , even if he is persistent ..... Y is it only rich married men that they accept ...... Naija girls pls stop livin in denial , most of u are evil because of greed ..... Your time of sorrow will come for sure

Anonymous said...

This 'married woman' missed the point! It's sad how people read articles but don't comprehend well. The girl never said 'yes' to the guy, she clearly said NO but the married man kept persisting. In the case where the man kept bugging the single girl, what else cud she have possibly done other than to stop answering his calls like she did? Let's be realistic! All she wanted was the job and she did her best to stay away from his advances. Why would u say that the single girl has no value for marriage when evidently she was the one saving the married woman's home... Let me tell u! Some girls would have assumed 2nd wife duties since! So don't take this single girls niceness for a ride...

Frans said...

Ghen! Ghen! E don happen!

Anonymous said...

Madam please! The 2 major religions do not in anyway promote adultery in Islam u r allowed to marry four wives if you can love them equally in Christianity the man is asked to love his wife as Christ loves the church please before you go blaming the strange woman shouldnt you blame the person you made a vow with wives have no right fighting the women outside pray,control,fight your philandering husbands or do whatever it takes. As for d strange women whatever they sow they will reap! Most wives are sowing what they reap. Selah!

Anonymous said...

I'm a married woman and ignorant posts like this from married women makes me irk. First of all, no girl owes you loyalty or protection. That's your husband's job. Moreover, how can you come here and justify an adulterous man. When they were toasting you, why didnt you say tje guys were looking too handsome so you just couldn't help it? So why do you think your husband shouldn't be able to do the same? No girl is obligated to say no to anything. Absolutely not. Your husband shouldnt be asking. His eyes should be on the road and his dick in his pocket. Stop bringing women down because they are single. Face your husband. However, when a girl is crossing the line and constantly chasing your husband despite the fact that he is not showing interest, yes there are those...the story is different.
But in this case where your husband is doing ojukokoro and harrasing all the single girls out there, you need to put a leash on him and handle him.

Anonymous said...

ok oh!

Anonymous said...

Ok oh!

Riches B said...

Hahahahahaaha this just got real! Men are polygamous in nature. As much as they are cheating on their wives, they are also cheating on the single girl they are dating with another single girl. The cycle just goes on like that.

It is what it is, we can only ask God for wisdom, understanding and patience.

Still asking myself, Must we all get married????

Riches B said...

Hahahahahaaha this just got real! Men are polygamous in nature. As much as they are cheating on their wives, they are also cheating on the single girl they are dating with another single girl. The cycle just goes on like that.

It is what it is, we can only ask God for wisdom, understanding and patience.

Still asking myself, Must we all get married????

Bookie said...

I love love this.. she has said it all!!!

Single Ladies be content and develop your own man to be the best for you and married Ladies.. please dnt stop looking sexy and hot for that man...you have wat it takes..use it.

All said..may God help we single ladies to get the best man that will appreciate and love us enough to respect us.. Amen!

Anonymous said...

Is it our faults that your husbands are randy? Ha! Please aunty keep quiet der

Anonymous said...

Its like once you become married. You become wise. Linda. This woman deserves an award for this. I totally agree with every letter every word nd even every punctuation mark she wrote

phykel said...

i still dey talk am ooo
if a married man dey shine ur congo as a single lady be sure ready say anoda lady go fuck ur husband when u are married. what goes arnd comes arnd. so dnt be pained when u are at d receiving end.

Anonymous said...

Funny! U might be married for 14 years and look good but can u swear that ur marriage is 100% peaceful? I laugh because women like u even have the worst type of husbands who sleep arnd with anything in skirt. U can look all the good u want but there are definitely younger fresher girls who look hotter and ur husband most likely patronizes them. My dear, married women shud learn to punish their men and not the women who they lure into the world of deciet. Sometimes these men go as far as saying that their wife is dead... Sometimes it is true that the single girl doesn't knw there is a wife... In that case, can u wholeheartedly blame her? no! So! The man shud be questioned first

Unknown said...

C wetin Stella dimikokus don cause 4 women!..

Sinatra said...

Aunty poster. God bless you. Let me pray for you. You will born twins two times join your children. Your husband will not stop following you inside bathroom. Even when u start using walking stick he will use his own walking stick to beat anybody checking u out. Amen. U get am but Lemme add marry for love too cos if you like fine like Beyoncé, Angelina, Catherine zeta, salma hayek join togeda, if he doesn't love you...oyo! He won't really care who's staring. Looks is important but madam man when love him wife n if the woman too gives her husband what his soul needs...yes his inner self, if u can satisfy the mental n emotional needs of ur man, if u like be monkey sister...e go dey there.

Anonymous said...

both the married women and d single ones blasting eachother are truly jobless.u lot obviously have no work to do/money to make.Sit down there and be blasting eachoda while ur husbands are having the best of both worlds!mscheeew!

pretty said...

Nice write up sender!!yea women let's loose weight and look sexy for our husbands and u will see how proud they will be although a man dog is a man dog no matter how sexy d wife tries to appear.

pretty said...

If only linda will publish my comment

Anonymous said...

Oko Ashewo: what married women fail to appreciate is that men don't grow sexuality. But women do. We like to have our woman the same way. If u like ur petit with hot ass, u expect her to remain that way even after marriage/4 kids. But what do women think?? The moment they get married they believe they have caged a man and won't bother taking care of their bodies - flabby tummy comes in, flat ass sprouts , lousy make up spring gs up. And u expect a man to be faithful?? Pls do us a favour. U gave a man nice ass, good sex, blow job with great tits to suck, ten yrs ago and now u believe with marriage and 3-4 kids in th3 family he doesn't deserve his medicine anymore?? Common!! What i am saying is that rather than allow ur man look for a new slut out there in the person of single girls, make sure u remain his only slut. That way u will keep ur marriage and home to urself. Until then u are wasting ur time

Anonymous said...

Wow!,very gud piece

Unknown said...

***Coughs***

Tilly said...

Hmmmm....single girls shld not be blamed unnecessary 4 dis issues. U cannot control d girls of little esteem dt will parade themselves. Whn u hv found a way of curbing them, let me know.
U hv forgetten to blame ur husbands 4 their wandering eyes. If d men will stay at home n stop disturbing n deceiving single girls, d world will be better 4 us.

Men r such good liars. Dey lie without conscience or the fear of God. Dey dont wesr rings anymore and dey parade themselves as single men. Its not every girl dt hs d sense 2 do a little investigation first.

So rather than point accusing fingers, pray for ur husband and ur family.

Every man for himself...God 4 us all

Unknown said...

God bless u madam, u were very objective.

Anonymous said...

Are Nigerian men seen as responsible adults? It's like a man has affairs on his wife without his own consent. All women are to unite to ensure he doesn't slip up, but he's not treated as someone with the primary responsibility for his own penis. Hold men accountable. They can say no to cheating and yes to fidelity. Faithful men exist. Making excuses for men who cheat is pathetic and so two centuries ago.

Anonymous said...

Tres bien. Tres bien. Fantastic response and points made! She nailed it. Everything!

Joyful Joy said...

This is becoming really interesting. Waiting for d part 3 though i.e the married men version... Lol

Anonymous said...

Interesting stuff

Anonymous said...

We women are trully our very own worst enemy indeeed.

mr_E2N said...

i love the lady dat did this piece....#intelligent #true

Anonymous said...

We women are trully our very own worst enemy.

Anonymous said...

Lmao!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

BIA BIKO BIKO NU...PLEASE THIS IS TOO MUCH...NOT ONLY MARRIED MEN CHASE AFTER SINGLE LADIES...EVEN SO CALLED MARRIED WOMEN CHASE SINGLE OR EVEN MARRIED LOOKING GUYS ...CHASING THEM WITH MONEY OR TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THE MAN'S STATE OF LIVING MAKING IT AS IF SHE TRYING TO HELP BUT WANT SEX IN RETURN SO..CAUTION IS ON INDIVIDUAL PERIOD..SUCAS

Anonymous said...

Lol!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

bitter people are so much in this place. u say girls should stay away from married men, how about single girls and their bad male boss. who harass them all the time at work and if they don't agree to him they may probably get fired or even threatened . a man doesn't even have the right to chase after a girl in the first place talk more of saying the single girls should say no. married women should be able to deal with their husbands and stop attacking the single girls .

Alademeje said...

Sometimes what goes around comes around oh. Don't forget Karma is a bitch. You dated a married man when u were single, someone is dating ur husband now and u r having high blood pressure.... I'm just saying ni oh...

Anonymous said...

Gbonsoun! Correct gal.am sure u must be ur mother's dota.yes so,life is too short and if u don't want that short life to be ur portion,u better mind wat u eat.Some wives have been known to go diabolical but if u have one baba somewhere,then u can eat'banana till u go yo'! am sure u must be ugly and have low self esteem. am a guy,but mehn can't stand prostitutes in disguise like you.Onijekuje omo ale.#likita#

Anonymous said...

Now we need a married man to respond to both single women and married women to make it complete

Anonymous said...

BEST COMMENT IVE SEEN EVER! Standing ovation

Anonymous said...

You are absolutely unapologetically ignorant! It's mind blowing how ignorant and stupid you are. The men are not cursed ba? U could be talking about your daughter, sisters,cousins and nieces that's how ignorant you are!

francisca said...

I know a man dat runs after those ones that cover from head to toe. The slut here is your slutty husband's that can't keep it in their pants. Go to all the social media they are all there. This day I ask are u married before I give my pin or Facebook name. They don't wear their wedding rings anymore and many of them deny having a family. Especially in Abuja. The girls are not to blame okay. Blame them all u want u know they are not ur problem.Go to homes,look around u, some house girls can't wear good clothes cos madam is scared the girl will enter Oga eyes, how many people will u rubbish so ur husband's will be with u. Women should just wake up to reality. Our men are cheats. Leave single girls alone they are not ur problem. Some of ur husband's go after married women ooo so what do u call dat one?

Anonymous said...

simple! i just love u.

u totally summed it up. singles should keep shagging married men if dy like, when dy marry too, and pop few kids, they will also be at the receiving end just like other angry married women.

i personally dont take bullshit from my hubby. dats not to say he's a saint o. all i know is that he respects me and av never caught him or caught a whiff of such indecent act. so im happy.

to other mothers and wives there, keep your dogs (men) on a tight leash. if you dont, when he plays around and comes down with a deadly infection, you will be d ones sleeping on hospital chair and running around o.

a word!!!

Anonymous said...

She just told u dat. Probably u are too lethargic to read d full piece. Summarily, u dnt do wot u did to get us in d first place.

Unknown said...

There is something so annoying abt african women, after getting married they get loose no lore packaging, they become untidy and smelly, they change their entire wardrobes to long and flabby skirt, marriage aint no license to play old mama
Tidy ur selves up for chrissake, yea even when u nursing a child, dont say afterall he got me preggy he is a man he dont understand the husstle of takin care of a kid, he only wanna come back home to a sexy nursing mother, some of u will just fling ur breast anyhow because u nursing
Make una stop am o
If u still gat the hots, still sexy and cute there are tendencies ur hubby wunt cheat
And errrr lastly give him bj every day before leaving for work lmao

Unknown said...

And ur proud to say it yh? Karma will catch up wt u pretty soon. Very soon u'll gt old nd dt man will move to a younger b***h dt sucks dick better den u'll turn to God. U tink ur a bad girl or u r a hole yh? Ur lucky i dont knw u else let u knw dt wat u can do can be done better by a 16yr old. Bitch

Anonymous said...

We women really need to wake up and live for sth else other than the male folks. Would the husbands go to social media to fool themselves over you??? Hell no! If we spend this much time developing our careers, raising good children or simply learning a skill, there will be much less poverty in the world.
Most of us pass through this world and make not impact whatsoever. All we ever talk about is MEN, MEN, MEN!!!!!!! The irony of it all is that the male species has zero respect for the females be you wife, daughter, girlfriend..... whatever.
All we are to them are expenses, pussies,comforter, housekeeper, cook all rolled in one.
Gosh!!!!!!!!
Life is too short for this bulshit.
Angry married woman>>>>>>>>>>>>

Anonymous said...

good for you girl. keep at it till old age. its girls like u who never leave their father's house and then keep fighting over grandpa's properties.


get a life dog. i wonder how many rods av passed thru ur hole. ewwwwww.

and na person go marry u o if eventually u ever do.

Unknown said...

let everyone remain on their respective lanes pls........must it always be about men#goshItsIndeedAMan'sWorld

Anonymous said...

All this comments about girls following married men for money is just lame, what about married men following single girls for their own money abi una Neva hear that one, make most of this married women talk true no be them they give their husbands money? Them go come they pour their frustrations on top single gals whereas na their hubby them suppose face. D ones wey de fight pass follow person sorry people husbands married women put a leash on your husbands and single gals leave people husbands and finally and most importantly married men control ur libidos!

Anonymous said...

these married women that are cursing single ladies dating married men, come out and swear say you no date married man when you single...in fact, the rate of married women sleeping around these days is alarming so why fight a single lady who is single and she chooses to sleep with anyone she likes? madam married woman, take several seats joor. what you sow, you shall reap. Vicky1

Unknown said...

hmmmmm.making excuses for your hubands sorry ooo,blaming the young pretty girls.

Anonymous said...

My first comment on ds blog n might get some insults buh chances r...... i wnt read most.
Wise married ladies, take advice from married men - Stop chasing shadows n deal wit yr insecurity! Stop searching for 'a pin' wit torch in d dark!! Hot from now till thy kingdom come, yr husbd wey go cheat go cheat. U want to find out? U will sure catch him, then what next? Babes are gettin hotter (burning sef) everyday n man eye no dey comot, thats d bitter truth. We all have different belvs n orientation, n we must alwys respect dat. But I think its important a woman give priority to 'keeping his man' (support, sex, food, fun, communicatn, friendshp, honour...) than all these 'no cheat', 'single girls' headaches. By d way, I've been happily married for almst 10 years, after ova 6 yrs courtship & dis small piece of advice hav bn helpful.

Anonymous said...

In the voice of Yemi Alada “Ghen Ghen" the war done start! LoL

Anonymous said...

...may be d married lady too don shine anoda woman husbd wen she single abi?leave dat tin abeg!

Unknown said...

You could write anything as a faceless blogger and get away with it but the truth remains that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. So if it's alright to date a married Man then be certain to loose your husband to a side chick when ever you get married. Except U̶̲̥̅̊ are intent on being single forever.

Anonymous said...

LOL, THE (AKA OKE MKPI) SHE CALLED SUPER HORNY MEN GOT ME ROLLING ON THE FLOOR. OKE MKPI MEANS BIG HE-GOAT.
HOWEVER, I DISAGREE THAT CONTINUOUSLY LOOKING SEXY WILL MAKE A MAN'S WANDERING EYES CEASE.WOMEN MAKE THE MISTAKE OF THINKING THAT THE WAY THE LOOK IS THE REASON THEIR MAN IS CHEATING BUT THE FORGOT THAT SEX IS 98% MINDSET AND 2% PHYSICAL. YOU CAN WEAR BIKINI ALWAYS, LOOK HOTTER THAN MONALISA YET HE WILL SLEEP WITH YOUR HOUSE MAID. IF LOOKING HOT IS WHAT KEEPS MEN, THEN WOMEN LIKE HALLE BERRY WOULD HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH HER SERIES OF HUSBANDS.I BET YOU KANYE WEST IS TIRED OF SLEEPING WITH KIM KARDASHIAN NOW. SO, SEX IS MORE SPIRITUAL THAN PHYSICAL. EVERY MAN WITH COMPLETE TESTOSTERONE HAS THAT CHEATING DNA INCLUDING PASTOR KUMIYI. MEN ARE WIRED TO BE PROMISCUOUS BUT AT THE SAME TIME, GOD INSULATED THEM FROM THAT PROMISCUITY BY GIVING THEM THE ABILITY TO RESIST IT. ALSO, YOU CLAIM THAT MEN HIT ON YOU BUT YOU RESIST IT; THE ONLY DIFFERENCE HERE IS IT TAKES A WOMAN ONLY 3% OF THE EFFORT A MAN NEEDS TO RESIST SIMILAR SEXUAL TEMPTATION. WOMEN HAVE THEIR OWN WEAKNESSES TOO WHICH MEN HAVE NO PROBLEM SCALING THROUGH. SO, THE OKE MKPI COMMENT MAY BE FUNNY BUT I FIND IT DERISIVE BECAUSE YOU WERE MAKING JEST OF OTHER PEOPLE'S WEAKNESSES. "GOD HAS NEVER TREATED US AS OUR SINS DESERVE"(PSALM 103:10).

Anonymous said...

Well said Married Woman........

Nail nicely hit on the head....

Peter said...

u nailed it madam...''that is always their fucking comment'', Am too busy this, am too busy that, the kids this and that....and at the end loose their fucking husband to another fucking woman...God help men even me talking

Daralohi said...

hmmm am chilling and scrolling through the comments,its so funny.

Anonymous said...

I am wondering why all these women, who were one time OGBONGIDIS, will come out in self righteousness to castigate unmarried girls, who do the same things they did while single? Every single girl that smiles at your husband is not out to snatch him.

Anonymous said...

married women please and please talk to your husband,,, if your marriage lack sex,, pls learn how to give him everyday and give him different style,,in fact when ever he wants it,,,most marriage lack of sex and a wife that disrespect,,nagging, and wife that does not look hot for their husband

Anonymous said...

married women and single girls

Anonymous said...

Shut up

Amicable said...

Season of open letters,let's go there

Anonymous said...

I swear this woman got time. I am a married woman with a son am just 21yr Hw I wish all married women can be like me I swear marriage go sweet die. my hubby know I got no time 4 his rubbish Bcos all men are dogs. I only told him the day he will know my true character make I hear sey woman carry belle 4 am or him carry disease. Am too young 4 B.P my hubby side chicks are even older than me . so madam abeg no dey worry urself just be close too God.

Anonymous said...

Lmao! No be small my sister. Odikwa egwu ooooo!

Anonymous said...

This post and the previous made me realize some people do not think outside the box. Infidelity like corruption, murder and other vices are part of life. In as much as we do not like them but that do not stop them from happening. Nobody owes anyone any loyalty. I advice everybody work on themselves and leave men cheating and single ladies alone because those are things we do not have control over. The only person you have control over is yourself, look good, build your confidence and be happy. Life is hard enough, nobody said it will be easy.

Anonymous said...

see as women are giving themselves so much headache about man matter. men wont go on social media to complain oo. and yet they are the cause of this dispute between the single ladies and the married ones. the reason for whole problem is sitting down and relaxing probably going tru some girls IG to check out for new catch and still deny that they have a family . na wa ooooo

Anonymous said...

@Anon 12:27 Shut up ignorant fuck!

Anonymous said...

Both write UPS have made their points.

I'm a very hot looking married woman.and I don't throw my business out there.but what will one do when the man is constantly doing so.

I personally will not go and confront the women out there.my beef is with Mr. Lose Willy aka husband,like I always tell my friends,how many babes person go fight.e tire me o.

I am very genetically blessed,we are financially well off and kids are doing great.After over 13 years of marriage,na me only still dey cook and serve his food.i earn my own money,I have a solid and comfortable background but still Mr. Lose Willy still strays.i read a text from a lady on his phone asking,begging him to please back off.the lady even said she has seen his wife and wonders what else he wants.

my dear fellow married woman writer,are you saying the single ladies shouldn't package themselves well so our husbands won't be tempted?I have great looking young boys in my office with great looking packages.have I jumped on them?

lets be truthful,our men are irresponsible and have no conscience.no morals nor values.and because we now live in a morally decadent society,they keep getting away with it cos no one dares ostracize them especially if they are loaded.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry your comment on single girls are the ones chasing after married men because they have their booties on display and look nice makes no sense. If you are anything a woman is then you know men chase women in all forms with or without booty on display now to have such glorious assets on display.. you can only imagine its men who are seeking the women even more. A woman has her booty on display to attract a single man not your good for nothing husband but if he comes my direction how is it the single womans fault?? The single woman is only trying to secure her own! don't hate!

Nobody wants to be in a relationship where they aren't considered number 1 therefore no one in their right senses will chase after a man who has a woman he's married to just to get second hand loving with not future from him. May I remind you there are more than enough fish in the ocean than a tied down married man at the end of the day.

Have you ever thought for one second that your man is chasing after these type of females because thats what he likes and you aren't giving it to him?
A man would say anything to get into the woman's panties he desires! There is no smoke without fire so for him to say that 'my wife is fat and lazy' and all that means it is most likely the case. Otherwise what is he looking for in another woman's 'panties'

How about you married woman maintain your marriage and image prior to marriage and not get comfortable because you are now married. If you treat your man right and remain the sexy woman he fell in love with I assure you his 'wondering eyes' won't sway from you.

Give single women a break! you were once single too and most probably had a few married men chasing after you too whether or not you ended up with them is what determines right from wrong. Don't go bashing single women because they stay looking sexy trying to secure their own man but all they are getting is the attention from your husband. No one wants him boo boo...

John Bosco said...

abeg who get ERIKSSON charger?

Anonymous said...

long hissss...Una no get work abi?why would you evn reply the so called single girl,s rant...you all should get busy jare instead of making some girls with fish brains feel important...you would,nt want to know how it feels to be used by both married n single randy men for some silly amount of money...wives IGNORE these ladies,there are only hustling...if you hv a cheating hubby,face him squarely...abeg enough of men this,girls that...there,s more to life jare.

Anonymous said...

This chick is crazy! So to assuage your own insecurity, single women should wear burqa? Why don't you also remove your husband's eye so he may not see temptation also, using your so faulty logic.

Mama D said...

No be lie *lol*

Anonymous said...

You really need help... after 4 kids have stretched a womans tommy you expect it to stay the exact way it was when she was 21... you try birthing babies then come back.... nonsense

#kokomistress# said...

na wa o.... u pple shd stop blaming single girls naw.... single guys too shd learn hw to take up responsibilities.... but most of all dis rich married women too cheat on dia husbands o.... in short dia own pass men own.... i rest my case

Anonymous said...

How come no one has invented putting Magun on a man?

Unknown said...

Well single ladies like me small small wid d married men tin I won't lie I also did it. For d married women u don't nid to go abt digging ur husbands privacy ; or probably u want to die of heart attack. Ama be tieing d knot soon and all I ask God is dat ma husband shud remember he has a family and he shud use his condom cos seriously men will always be men and we can't change dat we just av to deal wid it.

Anonymous said...

Anon 12.28, the single girl met up with the man more than once, even when she knew his intentions. She knew the job came with sexual strings but still kept on seeing him. To me that is very whorish behaviour. I am single and get propositioned by married men daily. My friends' husbands, my brother's married friends, at church, at the supermarket, at eatries etc. My reaction is ALWAYS the same. I will let them know how inappropriate their behaviour is. Simple. I know it will do nothing to change their character but as for me I must be thoroughly right with God.
Kelly S

ICH said...

@ Anonymous; November 12, 2014 at 12:27 PM,
You must be a moron. From your writing, i can tell you are not intelligent. FYI, the so called rich kids are worse at sleeping with rich men than even the poor ones…Guess what? the so called "poor ones'' have morals than you can ever imagine.

Who cares about them being rich by the way, and guess what, why should anyone care about how many others he has when he already has a wife. Married women o, keep your husbands…if you cannot, trust me, single ladies will help you do it better…

I am not in support of sleeping with married men but if thats where you find yourself, do it with thy might (there is no work in the grave where thou goest)…abi?

Even the so called married women sleep with other women's husbands (true talk - so why the COLDWAR?)…what the f*ck are these bitches talking about?

If you find yourself with a married man, get what you want from him period…slap the man sef if possible when he speaks ill of his wife coz he will do the same to you even as ''side chick''.

These men, whether rich or poor, they love the attention and company from the younger ones and YES the younger ones are willing to give more than even their bodies...

Eyin married women o, keep your homes, give your husbands blow jobs, fuck him wella, be creative in your bedrooms, be a good listener some of you are fucking nags and you expect your husbands not to cheat? (you wicked o…get small conscience na)

Single girls, stay off other women's husbands and if you cannot, do not play the better woman because you do not know what the married man you are with is doing wrong at home…

Above all, lets stay happy *wink*, lets learn to share…lol (hahahahaha)

abismile queen said...

Hmmmmm! Battle between married women an single ladies

abismile queen said...

Married men but ur eyes inside ur pocket an stop going after single ladies wen ur married.

Anonymous said...

Anon 1:26,you know he's saying the truth. Naija galz are beasts,itz so bad that we in the US are now contemplating marrying african Americans...it's dat bad.

OSHAUN_AFRIKA said...

my mind jump as I read this thing...E be like say na my wife write am....hmm.....wahala dey o!

Anonymous said...

mrs married woman,how will u be callin married men (including your hubby) oke mkpi? with a bitter tone and u claim dat u r still hot and sexy?

Anonymous said...

Exactly married women should do their work, deal with their husbands nd so on. If d so called husband has respect, morals nd love for his wife like he pretends when he comes home he won't misbehave when his out of d house. So to all d married woman get to work nd leave single girls alone.
So married man go as far as wooing a single girl for years get married woman come out to talk shits.

Anonymous said...

Idiotic Nigerian women. See how they are allowing men to pitch them against each other

Anonymous said...

And what about those very hot women that their husbands still cheat on. Give him bj every morning, because he is a god abi.

Tilly said...

U hit d nail right on d head. U cant appeal to all girls worldwide. So mind ur husband. ..

Anonymous said...

Lmao

Anonymous said...

This guy dey para lol
Jobless housewife

Anonymous said...

The beautiful thing about this whole drama is the single girls will still get married and act as the married ones or even worse. then for the ones that will remain spinsters ......no words.....lool

Anonymous said...

Omgosh LOLed

Tilly said...

U hit d nail right on d head. U cant appeal to all girls worldwide. So mind ur husband. ..

Anonymous said...

U made a whole lot of sense. D problem with d man shld be dealt with. If he is a wanderer, hes bound 2 meet a girl dt wld succumb

Anonymous said...

Ok. Heard you all ladies, married and single alike. Just want to say that the solution to all this is understanding. Men need several holes to be happy. It's always been like that, it will always be like that. The women of old understood this and let their men have several holes (even sharing his sugar stick via time-table) why are all you modern girls trying to imprison men and forcefully change our nature?
Anyways, whatever makes you lot happy. Me, i go dey chop correct 'etuu' dey go, married or not. singing: O la la la *in 2baba's voice*

Anonymous said...

I agree with you, the hotness of a wife does not guarantee her hubby's faithfulness! I got married recently and i am super duper hot with the right curves in the right places and a very pretty face and also good on d bed ***winks*** darling hubby(not so fine oooo) started cheating on me almost as soon as we got married, I am d type that snoops a lot (not good I know, so, save d abuse) you can imagine my surprise when I saw his chat history with 4 different ladies telling them stuffs meant for only d wifey! I think cheating is just second nature to some men and honestly, u don't want to know how many loaded married men ask me out on a daily basis even though they are aware of my marital status, it's a crazy world we live in, people don't have respect for the institution of marriage anymore!

Anonymous said...

Oga @ the top, you write with so much wisdom... I'm sure you sat under King Solomon's tutelage.

Words of wisdom written on marble
cc: All hurting housewives.

A million likes for this comment of yours!!!

Anonymous said...

eeyaaa, why d married women no carry their case go national assembly? Oh wait, na those guymen bad passs o! hehe!
See, d mata simple, girls like brazilian hair, peruvian hair etc. while men like brazilian, oyinbo, asian p**sy etc. Choi, see all these married mgbekes don they pick stone to throw their papa. #hidesbehindLindawhileadmiring herfinebooty.

JANE said...

TO ALL MARRIED WOMEN THAT HAVE REFUSED TO TELL DEMSELVES THE TRUTH.....

WOMEN NEVER SEIZE TO AMAZE ME! SO U THINK LOOKING HOT IS ENOF TO KEEP UR HUSBANDS FROM CHEATING??? U MUST BE DREAMING..MEN DONOT NEED A REASON TO CHEAT, IF U LIKE BE LIKE BEYONCE OR KIM K, UR HUSBAND WILL GET TIRED OF UR PUNANA ONCE IN A WHILE AND WANT A FRESH SPICE(S)..INFACT IF U'R SO CURVY, HE WULD WANNA TRY A GIRL DAT IS SHAPELESS TO KNOW HOW IT FEELS SO DEY ARE NEVER JUST SATISFIED....THEY WANT VARIETY... UR HUSBAND IS UR BIGGEST ISSH, HE IS OBLIGATED TO U, HE TOOK D VOWS WITH U NOT D SINGLE GAL SO BIKO STOP FOOLING URSELVES FIGHTING ANY SINGLE GAL CUS SHE OWES U NADA, SHE MAY NOT EVEN KNOW U EXIST..

IM A SINGLE GAL AND I KNOW HOW MANY MARRIED MEN I HAVE ON MY NECK, ITS AGAINST ME TO SLEEP WITH ANY OF DEM BUT I WUDNT CONDEMN ANY SINGLE GAL DAT HAS D CONSCIENCE TO.

TELLING SINGLE GALS TO DRESS DECENTLY NOT TO ATTRACT MARRIED MEN IS THE MOST STUPID THING AV HEARED IN A CENTURY... SO BCUS U HAVE A DOG AS A HUSBAND ROAMING ON THE STREETS I SHULD WEAR IRO AND BUBA ABOUT? WE LOOK GUD FOR THE AVAILABLE SINGLE GUYS AND FOR OUR OWN SELVES, WHO CARES ABOUT UR WRINGLED-DICKED-HUSBANDS? WHEN U WERE SINGLE HOW DECENT WAS UR DRESSING? IDIOT! IF U HAVE A CHEATING HUSBAND, DEAL WITH IT!

PRAY!!! DATS ALL U CAN DO. PEACE OUT!

blondie said...

What goes around, comes around so brave up when its your turn..single or married!

blondie said...

What goes around, comes around so brave up when its your turn..single or married!

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