Dear Married Woman,
These couple of days I have read messages on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and the likes and as much as I have tried to bridle my tongue and not say anything; just let it slide, my emotion has chosen to betray me.
So today I stand in defence of all unjustly stigmatised Single ladies. To you married woman who has taken to the social media to air her grievances, please re-direct your energy into bridling your erring husband.More than half of the time, these men are the ones who pursue single girls unrelentingly, luring them with the worldly goodies the Good Lord has bequeathed on them. And let me let you know what you’d never hear from your husband, they speak ill of you. Half the time, the reason they are still with you is because of our own conscious effort not to break another girl’s home as we look forward to having ours.
I would share with you my most recent experience. I was introduced to a visually-impaired man who promised to help me secure a job. Before I met him, this man had already overwhelmed me with calls and messages. The only reason I chose to keep my pre-arranged meeting with him was because my sister had been trying extra hard to help me secure a job. So as not to seem “picky” and unwilling to work, I met with him. He told me outrightly that aside from him being married, blind and a Christian what else would stop me from dating him. So I asked if those reasons he gave were not genuine enough. He said they were not. That except if I could come up with something else, then I had no reason but to go out with him.
His calls and messages became incessant after then. I met with him twice after then, out of pity and I tell you he was a little aggressive too. Then his wife stumbled on his messages. I wished I had kept her messages to me. When they first started coming in, I spoke with the husband about them, he dismissed my worries with a laugh. When I could not take them anymore, I called her up. I told her the deal I had with her husband and I assured that she had nothing to worry about. That I swear on the good things that are to come my way that I was not there to break her home.
I knew it was time to give up whatever prospect of securing a job that laid on that path. I do not think I have met anyone as persistent as this man. He would call me unendingly. He told me he had solved his wife’s financial problems and was that not why she married him in the first place. And there I was, I had not even asked him for as much as a phone top-up since we met. He kept reeling out what he had done for her.
Anyway when I could not stick the drama again, I stopped picking his calls. After a while he stopped calling too. Then out of the blues, about three months later, I got a message from the wife cursing me for trying to break her home yet again. It was the Holy Month for me and I just woke up to take my suhoor. It took all the will in me not to respond. But after that period, I forwarded the message to her husband and of course I got no response.
Some couple of months later I received another message from her; filled with curses on me and my family members. I had stopped speaking to the husband for about six months then and here she was accusing me of what I did not know about. I made up my mind I had had enough. So I sent her a “back-to-sender” message. And I threatened to snatch her husband if this continued. Ironically, I received a message from her husband stating “I heard you are reconsidering your position. Am I getting a Yes now?”… Can you imagine?
This is just one of the many I have experienced as it is fairly recent. I assure you, Dear Married woman that I get to hear all about your whims, your shortcomings and why he even chose to marry you. Rather than coming to Twitter, Instagram and the likes to rant, focus your energy on distracting your husband’s attention from the single lady that you see as a threat. Learn from Hilary Clinton. Buy her book “Hard Choices” and learn. Half the time, the real threat is your husband. Get your husband off my back, get a rein and bridle him. I am not the reason his eyes have chosen to rove. I look good for the available single guy. I have got a brand to market, my singleness. Look for yours. I am faithful to CocaCola not even the allurement held by a chilled bottle of Pepsi would make me go near it because it is “inferior” in taste as far as I am concerned. Stop this undue stigmatisation. We Harassed Single Girls have had it up to “here” with your “husband-snatcher” branding franchise.
Yours
A pissed single girl
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Nice write up from this girl, but still I don't agree with single ladies dating married men but is not entirely their faults you know. Its so annoying when all this married women go on twitter, instagram and facebook to throw abuses on the ladies their horseband (husband) is dating, forgetting that the ladies didn't just throw themselves on the men. They should first of all talk to the DOGS they married before coming out to rant on social medias day in day out.
Just of recent I met a young charming guy, was so attached to him and he was so sweet, loving and caring. There was a day this marriage topic came on, and I asked if he's married but he said no. Fast forward 2months later i ping him only to get the shock of my life, his wife replied and was asking me to leave his man, whereas I didn't even know this charming prince was already taken.
My point exactly is that the single ladies shouldn't be blamed entirely, cos most of the time the men aren't open about their wife's at home. Abeg linlin forgive my long sermon oh hahaha and no use my coment soak garri o
You are obviously married or your sisters husband is a womaniser... why the truth dey pain you? Abeg dont insult this girl... are you any better? Rubbish...
Your husband no dey ever dey house oh... buaaaah ha ha. No blame single girls oh... go and learn how to keep your man at home. Buaaah ha ha lonely and unhappy wife. Na ya type na..'i must marry'
good write up.
#GBAM
Though l am single...l understand the plight of both the single and married ladies. Sm married men could be very trickish(sm even dont wear dia wedding rings), so u cant blame the single ladies most tyms. Married women should face their men. Never marry because of money(single ladies)...l love my gal friend so much that l cant cheat on her now, nt to talk of future because she's the best. Make ur guy crazy for u and he wont even notice any gal. Good luck
#GBAM
Story for the gods.. Ashawo oshi
hahahahha...can't stop laughing at the comments. But the truth remains that 90% of these kind of rshps are proposed by the men. Some will even threaten to deal with u if u don't date them, especially if u'r working for them. The fact remains that Men can never be tamed except they choose to tame themselves. Respected men will keep harassing a lady for rshp, as if na by force. It happens very well even in work places. They promise heaven and earth, and are ready to accept the conditions given to them. We ladies don't like much disturbance, so we go for it having put him under control, plus the benefits are very enticing. Their blokos have refused to stay in one place. If only married men can put the same effort they put on the chick outside,into their marriages, then every marriage would be a heaven..
Very good piece! This is definitely Caroline and her bedhopping husband. Lola Omotayo< watch it before defending people like Caro, who married for money
Hahahahahah! this write up is so so on point. Dont mind those married women dat are pot calling kettle black. It is what they are into before they finally tie one man down and now they are afraid of pay back time. I cant laugh! But married men una own too much dis days oooo. Make una dey manage rubber band dat una thing one place. Shai na only una waka come?
She is right. Whether runs girl or not, men should learn to respect themselves. And wives should learn to love their men enough to avoid looking outside. Married men have made single ladies very expensive for us single guys, this is partly because the wives are not doing their job enough. If he is your husband, give him EVERYTHING he need in a woman and he will not look else where, but if you are not knowledgeable in that aspect please enroll for classes for you to be educated.
My broda, story for d gods, blind or visually impaired,bombarding u wit txt msgs and phone calls. It's alright
The best write up in a long time. Once a cheat always one, putting a ring on one woman's finger may not stop the habit, so stop the blame game.
U ve said it all anon 9:59.......d single pissed gal s very shameless....think before ur send such write up to a blog......am so upset abt dis write up nd pple here are giving their support....wit d so called married ones saying they concur to d stupid things she said, maybe u ve forgotten dat one day u will also be married too nd pls when u do allow ur so called husband to chase after d young ones.am also a single lady nd i do not support a bit of what she said. Oloshi buruku
if you are tired of being single pls go and marry
Some married women are so out of tune with their husbands that they can't even tell what the man can or cannot do. It's appalling to say the least.
My first boss' wife harassed me on end even after I have left the company. Meanwhile, we all in the company know her husband, who was our Personnel Manager then, would never date a staff...as a matter of policy
Blind and a christian?hope it's not Cobhams o!lol....jus jokin o...b4 peeps cuss me out*tongue out*
tempting as it is to lay the blame on someone else,the truth is every one is to blame.to the single girl,we should pls get off our high horse and admit that the initial motivation to date a married man is greed,pure unadulterated greed,i'v dated enuf married men and i know that our initial thot is wht can he do for me,ow much can he give me and to this end,we devote a massive amount of resources to our looks hoping to attract the best that we can.to the married women,most of u also dated married men before you snagged ur own,unfortunately,due to the pressures of being a wife and mother, lookiing good oftimes take a back seat and sex becomes a routine rather than a pleasurable act and the truth is most men want a lady in public,but a whore in their beds.to the married men,sex is life and that's y u'l see a man with a beautiful wife and yet,he still furiously chasing tail.men are very primal in nature and for most nig men,it's a way of validating their success.it doesn't mean they dont love their wives,they just need that extra trill of having a mistress.
i have a friend who is a one woman kind of guy. he drinks like hell and loves good food. he ended up marrying one girl that he did not really like but made up his mind to love her like that. guess what...all he needs is a wife who can cook well but the wife is horrible at it. she can't even make plain okro the way he likes. tell me how her husband will not look outside?
May God bless this writer... i'm so tired of all this ladies who ironically at a point in their life dated married men going to social media to rant!!! excuse me!! Who told u to marry a dog that can't keep his d**k in his pants.. they go around chasing everytin in skirts and you people come to social media claiming teamhubby!!! My dear take a chill pill! U pple come wit ur fcKn holier Dan thou attitude deceiving who?!!! Mschewww. My dear keep on going to social media to rant while dearest hubby will be laughing at ur Foolishness over a glass of champagne or should I say beer (noting the tommy). And don't Get me started on some girls are d ones chasing them.. yes this may be true but trust me if teamhubby is not giving her red light or giving her advances attention she would stop.. so b4 u go on social media bashing single ladies(which by the way u were @ a point in ur life) talk to ur philandering husband to keep hiss privates locked up afterall it takes two to tango...
Lol, stealing it too...
well said but u ar gonna be in their shoes (married)one day then lets see if u can still put up this kind of write up.Men's
promiscuity didnt start today and wont end till Jesus comes.Do you knw wat they tell their friends behind ur backs.As much as he downgrade his wife b4 u (singles)he belittles u b4 his friends.
Hmm... Interesting
Visually impaired u said? How was he able to text u and reply ur msgs. This ur story get K-leg. U'd be married one day and u'd eat ur words.
If you activate the audio on your phone, it says out every key you press. So does your computer. You'd be shocked at his wealth of knowledge.
What has not gone around does not come around.
Dear Writer, You just nailed it. It is nobody's fault that they have a dog as a husband.
Nawa o.
Some of you will be acting like you haven't heard the sweet lies from a man's mouth.
I wish wives could hear the lies their husbands tell single girls. And I wish single girls could hear the lies men tell their wives.
Married women, what do you say to girls who are approached by your husbands and have no clue that those men are married?
Did you know that some of us single girls end up dating married men without even knowing?
Some of these men have two homes, multiple cars etc. They introduce you to their friends and even some family members.
Some of these men also have wives that travel a lot. You can get to the house now and not see a single picture of anyone...or any clothes or shoes to reveal his lies.
Married men will even tell you how much they love you and how they want to marry you and tell you to just wait for them.
Married women, council single girls. Single girls, listen and respect married women. single girls, try not to be so trusting and naïve.
Single girls, be smarter and wiser. If you think he's lying, he probably is. If he's lied to you once about something, he will always lie.
No need for name calling. No need for cursing. Love eachother and teach eachother and protect eachother.
Lying husbands live with their wives and know what to say to them. Single girls like hearing the same things. Married sisters, teach girls how to be more discerning and how to stand their ground and how to say no.
Nice Piece I must say!!!
D truth is if dese married men stop chasing after single ladies it wld be alot better. At d same time as much as dere are loose single ladies out dere who jump at d next available married men, dere are still responsible single ladies.
Men should stick 2 dere wives & stop d experiments!
U will get married nd wen u depreciate ur hubby leaves u just knw Karma is a bitch Fool
God bless u for tis am single nd wen married men approach me I tell them rite away am nt interested I hv a fiancee nd I cnt leave him for sumone who is married tat married man is not my husband Gurls tis day we dnt wnt to workhard Lukin for quick cash tats d problem
Gbam! Lol
Gud writeup,we married women should face d affairs of d home,our husbands and as well d kids. Apart frm single girls goin after married men(Rich married men),some married women also flaunt demselves to dem as well, all bcus of financial help. So married women just develop ur own form of shock absorbers cos no b only u go chop ur hubby money esp if he's damn rich. Oh! Wait a minute oooo-dose dat lament r d ones dat even did worst wen dey were single.
You could activate an audio that sounds out every key that is pressed.
Lool! ... newaze I guess there is d option for single ladies to say NO and manage wit their single guys who re still strugglin... (but guess they are desperate to make it anyhow) rather than accept d proposal of married men, sleep wit them and expect not 2 eat d oda side of d cake ' d bitter wife'. Or u want to be doin married men for free?
You should interact more with visually impaired people. So of them use the social media more than you do.
What a myopic narrative. Did the man rape you. Did you not agree to go out and sleep with him. Whats up with us single girls anyway. Yea..the wives may be wrong. Be we are d ones that agree to the arrangement most if the time. That said.. thank you ma'am @ anonymous 9.03
Linda nwa Ikeji,I never knew you are a good writer,thumb up girl.
Amen. Thank you.
Hey peeps,
if you have ever been a victim of married men harassment, you will not curse or abuse this girl... i am a single lady, and have been constantly harassed at my place of work by bosses who felt they could make or mar me, but i would have as well decided to do as they requested of me, but i chose not to cos of the fear of the lord and the law of KARMA..... now i am not a saint or anything and everyday of my life i ask for the grace of God, but there are other ladies out there that do not give two fucks about that.... this lady just said the actual truth... we all single ladies hope to get married some day and will not want to be treated in the same coin, the bible says do unto others what you want to be done to you.....
So it is just for the married women, to focus on their marriage, spiritually and physically..... cos there will always be VIPERS out there to destroy your home.... the bible also says that the even the kingdom of heaven suffers violence and the violet take it by force.
If there is constant violence/war in HEAVEN, how much more your HOME.... be watchful and prayerful.....
Ciao lovelies
Amen.
I'm 50-50 on this one, yes married men wants a bit of whats available out there and sometime go the extra mile to get it BUT!!!! lets face it some girls will stop at nothing too, to get a rich married man, I'm sure there are many ladies that has similar story to this one, same time some girls could care less about what anybody writes on instagram and will fire on with their plot to get the almost undivided attention of a married man, maybe not necessarily to break another woman's home but to live off her husband who must want something in return. plus!!!! I have my own lil story, I have a friend right now, who snatched and I mean snatch! her friends boyfriend and ended up marrying the guy, and she is now like all these online ranters going on about ladies should back off and not break her home, too many girls wants her husband.. blah blah blah
Well I agree 100% these married men r shamelessly relentless in their pursuit of young girls single and married. The shameful part of it is they go home and lie to their wives how single girls r frustrating their life with seduction. The worst is the way they run down their wives accusing her of being frigid. Some even deny them. I believe these married women should read btw the lines when their husbands keep complaining about a particular girl and her shortcomings or her pursuit of him.
Never opened it for any married man. Who wants okirika when Fendi shop is still open? I am doing my part, do yours.
Ashawo 10 cowries! Stay away from married men! Whether they come for u or u go after them! So if Satan comes to tempt u, u fall n u think it's right? Oh! Because u dint go n meet him for temptation, he came n met u! DUH! What is wrong is wrong! STOP ADULTERY and FORNICATION! Marriage is sacred! Respect that
Tell dem sir. After letting d man be irresponsible during your dating days, you now want him to SUDDENLY Be responsible when you exchange rings. Lie lie.
My dear single girl, I agree with you that the married women should tame their husbands. However, I must say that you must have contributed in your own ways to warrant the wife's call. I am also single and I do get more attention from married men than single guys but I must also add that in all my singleness, I have never gotten a call from a married woman to leave her husband. I NEVER EVER encourage these men. MY NO is loud and resounding even if it revolves around a job (probably why I am yet to get a meaningful job). My advice is to never encourage them. Don't say no but pick their calls, or accept any kind of gifts from them. It's that easy really, except he is a boss then I get the complication. #my2cents
Make ona dey play na till acid reach person body. Of cos he will say rubbish bout his wife to gain access to ur privates na (are u a mugu?). They give their wives millions while u just up and down for the peanuts dey give u, coupled with the wife's causes on ur head. Well my fellow single ladies try use ur head oh. His wife is a demon (according to him) but he can never leave her for ur ass.
Yours Sincerely,
Cautioned single girl.
No doubt, the husband is to blame.
The logic is very simple and concice.
Imagine leaving in a house in the bush. You know there are snakes, rodents and insects in the bush. It wont make sense to try to convince all these animals that they should not enter your house; or rather, it is impossible.
The best way of protection is securing the common source. If you can design and protect your house from intrusion, then you will be doing the job more efficiently with greater assurance of success.
The point is, focus on your husbands.
If your husband cannot do without another pussy, no matter your efforts, then you are in deep shit.
You cannot expect a girl who has financial problems to stay off a potential benefactor. Humans by default have survival instincts, which could be more important than religious, moral or whatsoever values.
It is at this point that we should be true to ourselves. Either you leave him or you bear with him.
Life is a choice
Lmaoooo! Ouch, this one is obviously hurt and angry. Kai! :(
Lmmmaooo, u get small point there sha
Good,smart question tho!are you doing him?why you so mad!!!
U couldnt have said it any better girl!
U wrote ur email address so pepsi will mail u & probably make u an ambassador or pay u 4 d advert right?
I kinda agree with her and I wish people put as much effort they put into a relationship in their marriages! I also want to point out something, when men argue that women should dress more decently to stem rape in our society, women always argue that that isn't a valid excuse to rape! I agree, wholesomely. But that same thought should apply also when "single women" decide to date "pestering" married men. There shouldn't be room for double standards in morality.
Very true.
Well said. Many single girls are long throats regardless of the fact that they know all the goodies they get is from a married man. Be content enough to say no to the temptation.
But Pepsi is better than Coke, especially Pepsi Max :)
Dear Writer. Very interesting piece. u addressed the married men correctly. but you also have a log in your eye to address. Why did you even give the man that time to be meeting him up and talking to him on phone when u knew he was married. He was not meeting with u to discuss business deals I suppose but to convince you to date him and u still went all made up. At the end of the day even if you are claiming you didn't want to date him u still had an INTENT TO USE him to benefit yourself jobwise based on the fact that he was asking you out. Why is it that when a guy approaches a woman and sees a ring on her finger they back off immediately. But for our ladies that is when they know they have one need that the guy might help them with. A married man asking out a single girl should be turned down immediately by the girl. It should not be seen as an oppourtunity to meet a need in your life or an upgrade or you going all spiritual that God brought him to your life as a helper, that is no testimony abeg That is just the influence of satan. God will never use something that is wrong to bless you. #teamdoitright #nograyareas
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Lol!!!you harsh oooh.
Angry married woman above... tame ur hubby and shut up! Hehehehehe.
She said visually impaired not blind. Derek are different classification of visual impairment Depending on how poor up vision is.
Omg.
ermmm, young lady u said he was blid. how did he send or read ur msgs. Only one commenter has noticed this. LIB readers can be so dull. *smh*
I swear,this has been on my mind lately! These married men just won't let us be! I have encountered so many of them that @ point I began to think something is wrong with me,i never wanted to date a married man but when he came,clean,handsome loving and says he is not married,how the hell do I know he is lying? This guy spends all his time with me,his special days,birthdays,valantine,his vacations and so on! I actually love him and he claims he love me too,he has met my mum and am an. Only child,my dad is late! He has been pleading to come and pay my bride price and I keep telling him to hold on,till I graduate! Now just 3weeks ago,i was in lagos,to see my aunt and he has been away in the States for 2weeks and he was due to come back the same week I went to lagos too! While I was there,anticipating his return I got a call,it was his number but it was a lady that was on the phone,she said she's his wife and wants to know what I want from her husband!at first I was shocked then I decided to try and salvage the situation by telling her that I don't have anything with him,that he's just a friend.then this lady started cursing me,said a lot of shits to me and I was just listening to her rants! When she finished I simply told her ma'am am sorry but I don't have anything with your husband! Now this is a guy I love,we have been dating for 2years plus,we are even planning on getting married once I graduate next year!!! It's really painful and the guy in question is begging me not to leave him,that he don't love his wife bla bla bla! As if I care,i have decided to leave him and move on with my life! Now Married women that go about threatening us single ladies,better be warned,because some of you are still in your husbands home because of us,if we really mean bad and we are desperate for your man,believe me nothing can stop us.not your rants and curses! You guys should better learn! You always say Karma will visit us,lol kinda funny cos it's the same visitation that karma is paying you! Nobody holy pass jor!
I guess we will just ve to wait till u also become a married woman
I SEE WHY HE WONT LEAVE HER.
I Dnt blame d gal jere,when a man cheat, i dnt fink d gal is wit shld be d issue, he has it in mind to cheat. Y do i av dis feelin d letter was addressed to caroline danjuma?
Okk, so i have a question for y'all saying back off if you know he has a girl. What if he aint married but has a live-in gf and chases you with as much vigour as he would if you were going to be #1. Do u still back off then? Esp if u like the man and u kinda get the feeling he does too. Afterall he isn't married and who knows; one just might get to be #1
*here comes the hailstones*
Thank u so much , u said it all .... A single guy will be on the same girls matter but she will opt for the married man bcos he has money . Most naija girls are hungry girls from poor homes so what do u expect
Well spoken. I am a victim of "married men chase". Our close family friend whom we see visit and spend holiday at their place once in blue moons...lol, after himself and family relocated abroad, kept calling too frequently and would speak for long over the phone. Naive me, I would chat with him on a normal ground and ask after his family and all. He came alone to Nigeria and started telling me of how much he loved me and have been meaning to tell me all the while. Meanwhile, he used to give me cash before declaring his intentions. The day I refused sex, he kept saying all sorts to me to the point that i felt like reporting to his wife whom, i see as a sister(egbon) but, who does that? she would never believe me! The second married man relocated his wife and children abroad and said he wanted to keep me as his official GF since he doesn't know how to cheat and has never cheated on his wife of 10 years. He says he trust me that i am a good girl unlike going to an unknown person.
The third one came as a friend whom i liked a lot. we share so much and discuss personal and intimate matters. The man has been saying he loves me and wont let me go and wants to get me an apartment. Every time I receive a call from a a male, he would get jealous and start to cry that i should please stay with him.
I told him about my boyfriend yet, he is asking me to break-up and date him FULL-TIME.
Lesson: MARRIED WOMEN, BE YOUR HUSBANDS FRIENDS. DON'T IGNORE THEIR NEEDS, THEY NEED YOUR ATTENTION
Evidently she said no but the man kept persisting. She was only after the job and not the man ... Read and comprehend like a graduate cos I believe u are one
Well said! I've been in a situation where some mans wife called me and was asking me who I am to the husband. Wrong move! She shud have confronted her husband and not calling all the women in his phone book. Ps: I was just a friend no strings. Some women over react and it's uncalled for
The curses are unwarranted. From one married woman to another, just pray that your husband never decides to misbehave. If your husband is not interested, no husband snatcher can come into your home.
Interesting. I hope when u marry u will say the same thing.
Pls tell these hoes
Totally Agree, Dear married Men, nobody forced you to get married, stop being nuisances and LEAVE THE SINGLE LADIES ALONE!!!
It's very possible 4 a blind person 2 call, read n send text massages 2u. I know of a blind lecturer in Cross River State University (CRUTECH) in d department of Mass Communication, who lectures n records all exams scores on his laptop n he operates d laptop himself + there are soft wares dat assist blind pple dat r ready 2 explore.
Look at this inexperienced uneducated naive stupid lil cunts yapping away ooo? I can't believe u all are stupid. You think U are any berra than the married woman whom cldnt keep her frustrations down? Lawd have mercy whr are ur brains?! Come let me teach u a lil something about cheating married men u are obviously new in this thing. They are all liars, they tell U wat you want to here to justify u shamelessness and ungodliness hahahahh aha and as stupid as u are u fall yakata! If she was that bad, y manage? Why not set her free? And put u in her shoes? Why be with her. Ask urself y u are the side chick? Ode! Who even told u that u can keep a man who does not want to be kept? Who told u that I can keep a man who does not want to keep his eyes and prick in one place? Ask urself y havnt u tried keeping one yet so that u can marry him? Y are u still single and paying attention to useless married blind men for that matter can can send text massages abi na Brailles phone him dey use! Oshi! Blind brain. Look at this inexperienced uneducated naive stupid lil cunts yapping away? I can't believe u all are stupid. You think U are any berra than the married woman whom cldnt keep her frustrations down? Lawf have mercy whr are ur brains?! Lil girl who wrote this shit for u? Let me teach u something about cheating married men u are obviously new in this game. They are liars dey tell U wat u want to hear in order to help I justify ur ungodliness and shamelessness lmao! My dear i acted married men and married a divorcee karma is a bitch trust me but it dint bite hard on me cos was already empowered before I met him and I am still climbing my ladder to get to whr I wanna be. Who told u that you can keep a man that does not wnt to be kept? Who told u that you keep a man who does not want to keep his eyes and prickbin one place? Ode! Hahaha you think his wife has depreciated? Mumu was that wat he told u? Lwkmd u can be Kim k, Beyoncé & rihrih rolled in one and u will still not be able to keep a man. U cannot even find one to keep and marry talk less of marry and keep! Ode! Grow up open ur brain and stop reading all those books that don't apply to the world u are existing in. The only thing u can do is empower urself and he will respect that. You went to find empowerment from a married man that wants to get into ur toto and u are still there bad mouthing a married woman that might have empowered herself but is too much in love with her husband that she cld go all out for him in the manner that she did. Biko ask urself Btwn u and her who is the loser? Are u that stupid? Kai! Tell ur mother to pray for you please.
its well said cos most single babes av one or more married men in their life before settling down. But there comes a time in a babes life where she takes a quiet moment and think of letting this married men go, i bet you in less than 6 months a responsible single guy will come except you dont serve a living God. also my advice to all married women, fuck your husband well and leave him in a state that even if he sees a single babe it will not interest him.....when you are on top wat should sing in your heart is whine the way no other woman will do , as long as you and this man lives this whining you are giving to him, no one can do better. lovemaking keeps a man and this single girls know the tactics so once a babe forever a married babe when MRS.
Say what?!! Stella U ugly beesh! Lmfao!!! See u like fat burnt toast!! Bwahahaha. Pls offload dis ya pishure....u r truly wonderfully ugly. jealous beeshes be calling every girl a runs girl.
Clearly d poster is a Muslim. So therefore she has done NOTHING wrong by dating a married man who wanted to marry her. Neither has d man. Madam wife go n ask ur mallam before troubling d girl. Winch
Needless for me to say if u like do helicopter, parachute, jankara, doggy, suck prick every min, swinging, wheelbarrow, molue, cook the most delicious meal in the world, give him beautiful children, lick his anus and be his red carpet mumu U will never be able to keep a man that wonders forget anything ur mother told u or the lame books u r feeding ur empty brain with. Berra empower yourself and shut up and pray for a man who fears God #shikenan depreciate ko? Appreciate ni. Men are polygamous by nature get over it. They love to conquer when the blind bat is done fucking ur toto, and ur toto becomes stale, he is not attached to u so it will be easy for him to move on to the next one������ u are just a walking vagina to him lwkmd! Chai ur own is bad sef blind married man! Na wa ooo and u are there minding worrying urself about his wife that is insulting u, if u don't like the insults don't get involved with married mhen nah? Mumu u are annoying me self with ur no guts sef. Because she insulted u, u came to write this crap ode! Commot for here u are so naive! And it is annoying me o I won't lie. Just go and hide ur useless self. Mtsewwwwe and all u single ladies out there be waiting on a man to empower u ooo ur Toto go see pepper! I wish u luck! Ashawoos
There are special phones for the blind
this is so true. i'm presently in a situation like this.My Boss has 4 wives and many concubines, yet he frustrates the hell out of my life daily just because he wants to get down with me.Some men are so shameless and disgusting.
See babes I'm single and hope to get married soon,i have neva given in to any married man's advances and trust me I get a lot everyday cos God has blessed me with a great body n nice features,ive chosen to be faithful to my guy n him alone,pressure is nt enof to sleep with anoda woman's husband,u will get married one day and some girl wil do it to u
Y don't u understand dt men r stupid en?it's in d y chromosome to cheat esp Nigerian men so dont be running mouth anyhow I can guarantee u d chances dt ur husband won't cheat on u is very slim,just stay away 4rm married men @least do ur own bit den wen u marry n one idiot wants to try herself use prayer to destroy her future #shikena
hmmm... am short of word.... but d only thing am very sure of is dat 96% of single ladies date married men.....
Tina, u sef go marry too and u too will depreciate!
Dear single girl, one day, just one day you will get married and then, you will understand where the married women are coming from.
hmmmm.... i sha know dat 96% of single ladies date married men.... but seriously, if u know u once dated married men b4 u got married, u dont ve to complian cos wat goes around cums around..... and that goes to me too....
Aunty poster, you met up with him because he was persistent? So the allure of the ice cold Pepsi got you, then?
Have you considered that the 'meetings' you had with him, with full knowledge of his intentions are just as bad as having sex with him? Do you even know what he tells his wife about you that makes her act so irrational? My dear, you need to get off your high horse. And you're speaking for your self not all single ladies.
Una get time!
See ur ugly face. good one go girl indeed!
Wait until u are married and a lady becomes good friends with your husband. Ode oloshi
Tell them wetin. I pity una as if u nor go marry one day. U wan single for ever. tell them ko, tell them ni. Is it a we against them thing.
blog whore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111
Ure feeling cool abi? Nor worry keep it up. Your own is coming too and that femal colleague of your husband will surely SLEEP with him and guess what? Yes he will enjoy it more than the one you are giving him. Keep it up you hear; ur own dey come.
Ure feeling cool abi? Nor worry keep it up. Your own is coming too and that femal colleague of your husband will surely SLEEP with him and guess what? Yes he will enjoy it more than the one you are giving him. Keep it up you hear; ur own dey come.
Wait till you married then you now what it feels like.
Story for the gods
You sound so bitter and miserable! Pele oo! Tell ur husband to make u a happier wife because his handwork is evident on u
Girls plz learn how to say No to married men, if u want to chop their money plz chop n run away. dont open ur legs.
This your English is the reason your husband is cheating on you.
99% of single ladies have a,married man story. Its about self discipline, control and content. Dear women we are our problem. The effort you put in attacking a single girl outside that didn't even use Panadol to catch your husband is enough to invest in your home,finding ways to keep his eyes on you as well as making ur home a home. Men are men, we can only try try try
Visually impaired does not mean he's completely blind.
Besides any man that tells you he will leave his wife for you is a big fat bloody lie. They will say anything to get into your skirt so believe me he won't leave his wife.
If you doubt me ask your sistas who have had that nasty experience or try it yourself.
Please leave all that story, say No and move on. God will give you your own hubby.
I am so married but guess what, the single girl is extremely right, leave all these useless infidels of men that exist today as husbands, whether you bridle, tame them or give them sex 24hrs a day they will still look outside, when the one outside comes in as wife no 2, they will still look outside for the 3rd mistress. My advise to married women is get a life, get busy, make your money, live your dreams and most of all love God dearly giving HIM your everything and all be well. Dear pissed single girl, it may please you to know that married men also go after married women, even after 4 kids I have a lot of them on my waiting list to deal with. LOL!
To an extent, the single lady is right. I'm currently single (was married for 16 years). I can tell you that, the married men out there are very aggressive and flirt openly with not only single girls, but also with fellow married women!!!. I've had numerous advances not from single guys, but from the married ones! Wetin dem they find sef! If you ask me, they are possessed by greed!? That's all!
I am glad that someone has come out to write this article. In Lagos, married men don't rest, they chase women more aggressively than single men! It has become an epidemic! Every party I go,even on the road or at the gym, married men are relentless with their chasing.if not that I had made a firm decision not to go down that road, maybe I would have been labelled a husband snatcher.these men need to be put on a leash by their wives, imagine women coming out to call single ladies whores, side chics etc, are you all living in denial? Your husbands are the ones going out to look for men big time! Go to Yoruba tennis club,Lagos lawn, see how they carry women without an iota of shame! All of them come out to say they are unhappy in their marriages! They are no longer excited, all sorts of cock and bull stories! Biko! I have sworn that all the married men that see me and chase me, that is how married men will follow their daughters. Please married women! Keep your husbands at home! Don't allow them come out and use their own to spoil our destinies. Nonsense.
Thank u o! I thought i was d only one that noticed that
Exactly!
Are you leaving under a rock? With technology, blind people call, send emails and txt msgs
Lol...
Bloody golddigger looking for women from classy homes. Ole
"As you laid your bed that's how you will sleep on it".
LAwl. She had me at Blind. If he was 6foot tall and could see nkorr?
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My own question is.....how was a blind man able to send text msgs?
Linda, you are a fraud!
I posted my very valid comment yesterday, and it's no were to be found!
How are we sure that all these comments are genuine?
Really? You are about to lose an LIB follower!!!!
Had another married man saga today, on the flight I had just sat down and he dished me his card and then started trying to get close. I asked him why he's not wearing his ring and he gave a stupid reason , meanwhile he's only been married for 8 yrs, next thing he started talking abt how he wants to see me next day and get my number. In summary Nigerian married men in this country are dogs. I thank God say my husband to be no reside for this country , I can't stand the arrogant unfaithful nature of men here
A typical me would just read the story, comments and then stroll by but this time I have something to say. I am a married lady and all the time I am of the opinion that if men who cheat went out looking for ladies to cheat with went out all the time and never found any, then there would be no cheating.However, i also think it is unhealthy to think that the men are doing the chasing because from first hand experience I know that ladies chase married men seriousllyyyyyyyy (really have to stretch this) My husband is a young man and I know how many ladies we both work together to fight off and who really do not care whether he is married and with a son. SO dear single lady, do not be hard on the married women either because once you get married as well you would also feel their pinch (eventhough I never support calling the other woman, makes them feel important). N.B most men have very hot wives at home and still cheat. Men feel good about conquests ( good reason why most of them cheat).
True talk
True talk
Piss off and grow up in the real world
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