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Tuesday 10 September 2013

Question for the ladies: Which would you choose?

A. 37 year old woman, who has her own business and is worth N200million, with N100milion cash sitting in your bank account, BUT no husband or kids...but hoping to one day have them.
OR
B. 37 year old woman married with three/four kids and earns N150k a month - her husband also earns in the same range a month.

Which would you choose?

598 comments:

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gloria said...

37years married with kids with de 150k happy with my self $ my family $ hope 4 more open doors.

Blackberry said...

I choose B anyday anytime!

Anonymous said...

Linda. It's not all about money sometimes

malam musa said...

kaii walai me i go choose d woman wit flenty flenty cows.
THE ONLY HAUSA MAN DAT BLOGS

Anonymous said...

I choose b. I love family

Moh'd R. said...

I'll go for A!

Anonymous said...

The 1 with kids na

Moh'd R. said...

I'll go for A! :)

Anonymous said...

Abeg I will choose kids n children, y have all the money and be lonely and miserable?

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, adammi asung oo. Mkpa nka ye akpa ado sia ami mme mmma akok eti eti. Nyemme adi do uwene bag ami ndia akok mkpon idem nyong mfresh nkodo. Mmekem adi adopt ndito. Gbam
Beautiful Monster

moyosky said...

The second is far better oo.don't want a lonely future.

Anonymous said...

I'll go for A! :)

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

Huh? Woman for woman? I guess its a mistake Linda, which I suppose you would correct.

Anonymous said...

B of course

Anonymous said...

Been married wt kids.it can only get beta

anonymous said...

I'd prefer d 2nd woman cos she has it all.there's nothing like aving a family u call ur own,money aint evryting u knw.

Anonymous said...

I will choose B. Nd by d way, Linda I think u want ds answer for urself.

Unknown said...

B is enough Fǿя̩̥̊ M̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ ..notin like havin ur own family

Anonymous said...

I never wanted to get married until my family persuaded me to and you know what.. I pray for them everyday because I will not give up my husband or children for anything in this world. They are priceless

bri said...

Family is everything....even with all that money, u might not be happy afterall....so I go with"B"

Anonymous said...

B! Wid efforts t earn more

Anonymous said...

This is. LILYBIEN talking-"abeg 150 salary evn 100k salary wit loving husband and kids o if u hv millions no husband no kids of wat use wld it be @d end all wld become vanity smebdy who hvnt sufered for it wld cme n waist it after ur death wats d use of the money wen no kids God forbid 37years for dat mata

Anonymous said...

B definitly B

Anonymous said...

Ah ah see question. Is it for u linda? Pls go n marry o u alredy hv ur millions. Me sha I'll pick d 1st one

The real baby oku

Anonymous said...

Linlin the latter is d case. U nko?
By d way 1st to comment.


Puts down gele, drinks alomo bitters and smokes a blunt

moi said...

I wld rather be the married woman, because the really rich woman wld b wishin to b married..for me to be married with 3kids + 150k as salary means am responsible and I have contentment

Anonymous said...

i prefer d no 2 one plsssss

Ijaybaby said...

"B" would do. Money is not everything. For all I care the first lady might be sooo depressed and she wouldn't know if any guy that comes to her wants her money or truly loves her. But the other lady even with the 150k can be very rich tomorrow and in addition already has a hubby and 3-4 kids.

Oma said...

none abeg I want a perfect family with money

Anonymous said...

This should be interesting, would be back for comments ;)

Anonymous said...

Hmm abeg gv me 150k salary and kids wat am I using millions for witout kids all wld bcome vanity after death a woman sucess is fufiled wit a husband go and ask dose sucesful ladied thy r nvr hapy inside thy dnt feel fufiled no husband no child abeg o I choose chldren wat are we on earth for

Anonymous said...

B, wahz d use of money without the joy of a husband and children

Anonymous said...

Wldnt pick neither. How abt a 37 year old woman happily married with 2 kids,earning 500k a month,while her hubby earns same or more? Now that I wld pick *wink*

Anonymous said...

B

Anonymous said...

I'll rather be married with kids to having money as my husband n kid!

Anonymous said...

The second!!! nothing beats the happiness in a family! Wouldn't trade it for all the money in d world

Anonymous said...

What kind stupid question be dis?

Anonymous said...

I'll rather be married with kids to having money as my husband n kid!

Anonymous said...

THE. MONEY FIRST DUH!!!!!!!!!

bad gurl mimi said...

what money with out happiness and genuine love around me.....id prefer the 150k abeg

Anonymous said...

linda....money is not everything....what matters is happiness....so its up to the individual

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Nice question Lindiway.
very witty of you.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

PAMILERIN ADAMS said...

linda if i'm not mistaken the (a) relates to you more personally........money is not all in life girl! You gotta give one of those men a chance into your life, into your world. Trust me thousands of us are out there waiting for the day u'll release your wedding details!

Unknown said...

Hahahahahahahaha... They'll obviously chose d 1st..... no contest, biko ( ˘˘̯)

@Bobo_Edo

Loretta said...

Definitely B. Cuz A sounds lonely n sad

Anonymous said...

no 1

Anonymous said...

linda, i chose B cos money is not everything.

Anonymous said...

Will go 4 B, i no go just do pass my self

m said...

OPTION B!
~typed with my adorable fingers

Anonymous said...

I would rather be a 37 year old lady who owns her own business without any husband or kids....if I eventually get to a stage where I no longer see marriage as a possibility I would. adopt two beautiful kids....these days women who get married live for themselves and their kids because the men are just dissapointments.Sad but true! TDA

Anonymous said...

option B

Anonymous said...

I think every woman deserve's marriage so i choose B.

Anonymous said...

the latter

DARK DIARY POSTER said...

B. Will rather be the 37years old earning 150k wit beautiful kids .:)

Awusa said...

I will prefer the B. option, as far i have dreams and growth,with hand work, diligence and prayers more money will come, and u will have a wonderful family to celebrate with.

olorunwa said...

I prefer d second option.wot is d essence of having so such money n not have children/husband.

Unknown said...

I prefer 2nd option

Anonymous said...

Abeg A for sure, with that kind of money she can have kids even in her 40s and I can assure you she'll get a good husband sef. Successful men are looking for successful women. Her kids will attend the best schools and have a huge advantage in life.

Anonymous said...

I prefer option B! Family is everything.

Unknown said...

Bia Linda, ibiakwa............... Na A nah...

Anonymous said...

B Ofcourse,having much money like that and still lonely is a miserable life

Unknown said...

B, in every language……

Anonymous said...

A

Unknown said...

Linda ibiakwa............... Any man inhis right senses go choose "A" nah

eXceptional daystar. said...

I'll choose option (B) cos u've simply got everytin good life has got to offer,the only thing needed more is contentment!..in btw 1st time commenter on LIB.

Anonymous said...

will most definitely go with the option B becus dir re evn some pple out there who re not earning up to half of the 150k nd ve a large family to cater for. Moreso, what am i still waiting for being single @37 wen some of my mates wld ve stopped giving birth..... D money cn't come first in dis situation

Nwoke Swiss said...

Money role de world. I go for the first choice:)

Unknown said...

I`m married with kids and I have more than One Million Dollars in my accounts, and my husband is a Billionaire. So I guess am out of this question.I know some frustrated idiots with frustrated belly wont believe me. Well its not my fault that you are hungry;put the blame on your president and the thieves you call leaders. Linda love,have a nice day!

Anonymous said...

BBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB...but truth is i want d cash of A and life of B//////but worse of...i go with B

Anonymous said...

A is better jare. By the time she marries and has kids everything will be smooth. The kids sef will thank her for waiting to have them when she can give them the best and men these days like women who are doing well so she'll bag herself a successful man sef. It's not about how far but how well.

Anonymous said...

A!!! A!! A!! A!!! And A!!!! Again! Abeg which kind question be this sef?

Anonymous said...

B- family is best. Wt hapens 2 d money wen derz no family.
~me~

Anonymous said...

Married wit kids

Anonymous said...

i prefer B
B. 37 year old woman married with three/four kids and earns N150k a month - her husband also earns in the same range a month.

Unknown said...

I will go for d first woman with 200 million.. 1st to comment

Anonymous said...

Option B,gbam

Anonymous said...

B ni Oooo°˚˚˚ ........everytin in dz lyf is nt all about money, Happiness matters and to ♍ƺ Family is happiness....

Anonymous said...

Linda na wa to u oh. Abeg I'd rather have a loving n big family to care for than to be alone wt all d money.

jokemzy said...

The B woman who has kids and husband.

Anonymous said...

Hope wetin? Abeg I no wan hope anything @ dat age ooo,I sud have my husband nd kids by then.

Anonymous said...

Bible says 'None shall be barren in the land'. If God does not want any woman to be barren, the it means he wants them to have kids. And since God doesn't support having kids out of wedlock, it means he wants women to get married and have husbands. So taking the side of scripture, I will prefer having a loving family above jush cash.

Being surrounded with people who love you trumps being surrounded with cash and gold diggers anyday

Anonymous said...

foolish question. Post my comment

Anonymous said...

2nd option oooooo!!

Anonymous said...

LOL! Though am not a lady, but will go for the 37years old whose worth 200 million! money matters!

BASHorun

Anonymous said...

Sincerely,I'll go 4 B...but A is enticing,I always envy women wth great success.can't wait 2 be on d richest women list.

Black Jay said...

B oh

Anonymous said...

ehya,dis is clearly about u linda.....dunno what to say

Frankie M. said...

abeg my BB don run down
anybody get charger there?

Anonymous said...

D married woman.... Wat will I be doin wit dat kind of money without an immediate family..ders noffin like family loneliness na bastard.

Anonymous said...

B of cos, u hav a husband kids and 150k monthly, dats ok.

Nk said...

I choose B,dats d life I'm living now ,married wit 3 lovely kids and things are really lookin up,verry soon we'll b very rich!now we're contended,God provides our daily bread,we don't lack our immediate needs,dia's peace and we're happy. D joy of havin kids is indescribable,God bless dos dat're still waitin and trustin him 4 a hubby and kids,Amen

Unknown said...

B,in every Language

Anonymous said...

A!

Beausteven said...

Option B

Anonymous said...

Ofcourse any lady with a sane mind would choose B. With 300k in d family monthly...I don't think they can be doing bad atall..unless they venture into things that are unreasonable. They should be able to live a modest life with proper plans.

Toscan... said...

Hey Linda,

Option B is the situation with most homes in Nigeria,Wife earns 150k and Husband earn 250/300k,live in an ok appartment,have 2 cars they are gonna pay for,for the next 3 years,

Yes,that's the case,but the most important thing is,are they happy together?do they wake up everyday and smile and thank God for having the "little" they have and having a husband/children that Loves her? Is she living in good health?no high BD,no cancer?

If yes,then,I don't mind being in the Option B!

There are some things in life that are more important than money,having big cars and fat accounts...Happiness,Joy,Good Health,Love,Care,Children,Peace of mind,having reasons to smile is a lot better than having all the wealth and be left alone coz that might coz depression,High BP and all.

Unknown said...

am not a lady, but some will pay that amount to get a good family

Mz MNB said...

will choose both.. lol.. hahaaaaha dat was a joke.. will fuckin choose d b over nd over again.. it jus a mata of savins nd investment.. if i and my husband r able to save lil then we can always start a smol biznezz.. even if it d 50 k on top or less den mayb we save 30 k both.. save dat up in 6month dat alot of moni.. nd y nt we can always use d savins to invest... money cannot buy us happiness oo.. no mata hw rich u r.. nobodi is complete witout a family. my kobo advice

Anonymous said...

Linda y u dey ask dis kind questn na, na d 1st one nai make brain pass.

Anonymous said...

I'll chose B a million times over. I know a woman in category A and...no comments!KD

bennysexy love said...

B

Anonymous said...

i will go for d B option. Am first to comment

Anonymous said...

loool.....ask your self linda dear

Anonymous said...

I AM A GUY. IF I WHERE A BABE, I GO TAKE MONEY LEAVE HUSBAND. BUT SHA, MONEY FIT FINISH BUT MY CHILDREN MAY GROW TO BECOME GREAT.

Anonymous said...

I will Definitely choose the second, what's the point of have that huge amount of money and no husband and kids. Wasted life.

bennysexy love said...

B

Anonymous said...

B

Anonymous said...

I wil G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ wit option B Oº°˚˚˚°ºo

AyeeShar said...

I'll choose B!!!

Anonymous said...

are some people really going to go for the husband and children??? pleaseeeeee gimme my money, everything isnt about money but husband would find u wen u have money and if not, im a strong believer in adopting. i shall adopt and be hapy, smiling all d way to the bank. husband will come later, men too are materialistic, they will chase you.

creamy chic said...

Option B i most prefer, hav my kids wit d luv of my life by my side**wink**

Anonymous said...

B....of course

sele said...

At 37 I sincerely think a husband and kids with 1.8 million naira per annum job would be more fulfilling than living single with no husband and kids. On the contrary, I could become a single mum and go with the former. Money is sweet. *winks*

Anonymous said...

A ofcourse...with N200m i can buy and marry 2husbands...they will even be bowing for me...life is short

Unknown said...

the first abeg, no amount of money can buy the love and joy that comes with children

Anonymous said...

Wld rather be a 37yr old with husbby and kids. Without kids to inherint my wealth all is a waste. Linda u better post my comment or else.#wink#

Mz Billy said...

I choose d option B

creamy chic said...

Option B i most prefer, hav my kids wit d luv of my life by my side**wink**

Mz Billy said...

I choose d option B

Anonymous said...

B!ma kids are worth billions!

Beausteven said...

Option (B)

teepha said...

Ofcos a 37 year old woman wif kids.....moni isn't every tin

Gift Amadi said...

Am so comfortable wit B, at least my children, husband and I will eat our 3quare meal and have d basic tins we need

Anonymous said...

Na wa o...Linda. U should have said 45 to 50. 37! plenty hope still dey naa. d answer is simple

Anonymous said...

A please. I can buy me a husband. I can even buy babies different race sef. Infact, I can use the money to build a husband from China.

Anonymous said...

B abeg ooo. B is a more fulfilled woman in life. Nd no condition is permanent. One day she nd her husband would get promoted nd earn higher salary. And dey can even start up deir own business. Nd bfor u knw it dey re millionaires as well.

Anonymous said...

I like B o, as a woman there's no hoping 4 one day u'll get it,wen u're not a man,we women we have our own biological clock ticking,before you know u'll get to menopause.so what's the need of looking 4 money and be sad.

Anonymous said...

Linda na u b d first one? On my way to buy plantain jor. I no fit answer today's question madam

Anonymous said...

I don't need a second thought before answering this question. What is life without a good home as a woman. Abeg option B is the best choice for me oo. Money is not everything

Anonymous said...

I wud choose B....

Anonymous said...

I'll choose B anyday anytym!!! Pweeeassee! @funkiedipsy

Unknown said...

Why bring a child to the world to suffer? Let's stick to our millions, be happy and then hope for the best. BUT with 150K from both parents monthly, A child will do and we can make that child happy "if" both parents cut their coat according to their size o.

Unknown said...

O boy this wan hard oh. One has to be careful b4 choosing any oh. Though its a joke, make person no con swear 4 himsef.

Anonymous said...

To have a husband and kids

adobi said...

B noni

Unknown said...

Definitely B. Money is not everything, Happiness is all that matters in life

Anonymous said...

linda did someone leave you for a married woman?

Jumyk said...

Linda, na 1st one oooo! Hubby Απϑ kids will come one day/soon, besides ‎​ℓ̊ can adopt a child or two self.

Anonymous said...

U can never find happiness when u have that kind of money, all friend u'll have will be fake, cause they all want ur money. So I prefer B,husband and kids with 150k a month.#smile#

shulamitestitches said...

I am a lady and believe me I will never trade my full value as a woman... A wife, a mother, a sister for wealth.... Contentment and hard work has been my spirit's only ornament and with God's favour and grace I am where I am.... I will stick to #150 000 with a lovable and peaceable man and my God-given children

Anonymous said...

B

oge said...

I will choose B.cos dere is more 2 life dan moni,i prefer havin a happy family dan having too much moni wit out a family and love

Anonymous said...

I choose d millions oo.. one kain man that will come and mk me unhappy with all my money sef

Anonymous said...

Family first

Bloxxy said...

Definately (B) of cos! Bcos there is no greater joy dan family been 2geda in peace love and harmony. And money cnt buy happiness nor family.

Anonymous said...

B.I rather ve d husband and kids dan to be rich and lonely

Anonymous said...

I'll go 4 A....dnt nid anyman 2 control moi lyf... Money talks...bullshit walks

Anonymous said...

The second option.doe the 1st one is tempting. But family n hapiness comes first!

Anonymous said...

I choose B. Nothing as fulfiling as a family and love. Money can't buy both! Period.

Anonymous said...

I get where ur drivin @ linda... Diffrnt strokes for diffrnt folks.. I dnt mind any,if I find my self in any of d scenerio, I'll aceept it like dat..
We shudnt discriminate on single ladies.. Dey didn't choose 2 remain single up 2 dat age,and deres no law dat states u can't get married and hav kids in ur late 30's40's,and even 50's... Marriage aint everything in life,its not meant for everybdy... Buuuuuuuuuut!!!! Dat 200milion na money oooooo!!! Chai *ONYX GODWIN*!

Anonymous said...

i am already in option B and i'm loving it :)

OMG!WOMAN said...

No.1 any day, NO. 2 can't buy my father a new house, and take my mum on trips abroads, those are the two ppl I so much than anything take some burden off their heads

Anonymous said...

B pls o we will manage d income we have,being lonely will all that money wld ba a waste.

Unknown said...

B of course....without blinking!

Anonymous said...

see question o linda :/huh? option b ofc we will manage and invest o

nikky baby said...

I prefer to have husband Ãήϑ kids o Ãήϑ earn Small money than big money wthout having Ʊя own family.

jay said...

I choose d 2nd option with all my hrt.money is nt evrytin nd besides I can start up sometin with d little savings I will gather 4rm my salary.I and my husband can even tke a loan to start up a business if need be.afterall business is all abt taking risk.

ABBEYDION said...

A. Wats money without kids or family?

slimrossy said...

I choose B,cos I might all dat d A has and end up lonely and u knw that lonliness kills

Anonymous said...

I chose option B.

Sean Manuel said...

Linda this is a no brainer. MONEY. You can always buy a husband and adopt a child. Our society is money based, so is our value system. Is this right? I say absolutely #irestmycase

Anonymous said...

i choose B

funke said...

second one ofcourse

Babs @ Edubabs.com said...

As a man, I will choose both. As a woman, I will choose 2. But wait... I am a man.

Anonymous said...

The latter, the joy of having a family is priceless, besides , money can still come anytime

Ms Cole said...

the second one ni o with kids...

Anonymous said...

D second is better cos no woman is. Complete without her own family.#amyqueen# 1st 2 comment.

Anonymous said...

A........37 is not a hopeless age...

Anonymous said...

A looks temptin buh I choose B cos am no stranger to money n it trully doesn't bring happiness or joy it only deludes you until u lose control of ur lyf.B is farfar better.

Anonymous said...

second one

tee girl said...

The second oh,a wonderful family brings an everlasting joy,buh money without kids and husband will always make u sob in ur big high life

Anonymous said...

Are you a learner? A ofcourse

Ms Kay said...

second one ni ooo...

Austin [AY-n-OH] said...

Well. if i were a lady definately the first. d question dint say i cant get married in the future did it. kinda hav a feeling this is u linda.

Desewa said...

Option B definitely cos it ll surely get better.

Anonymous said...

I wil choose d one wit husband n kids

Anonymous said...

A with a loving and supportive boyfriend

NaughtyBunny said...

For me... Its Definitely A. As scary as that may seem, I love the idea of having mine at my convinience. Taking care of my immediate family nd the children around. If a husband comes along the way, that's fine. If not, there's always Vibrator nd I.V.F until he decides to show up! Money first for me sha...

sasha said...

The 2nd option plz

Anonymous said...

Any day i'll choose the second woman.
Money can't buy the beauty that marriage and kids can bring.

Anonymous said...

You make a mistake with this question; kids, money, husband etc aren't a measurement of a person's fulfilment in life. Is she happy with her life, does she feel fulfilled wit al dat money in her acct, same goes to the other woman with kids and a husband; does she feel fulfilled. Is dat what she wants. I would choose wueva is happy n fulfilled.

Anonymous said...

what is 150k a months with 3-4 kids ? mtcheeew.....I prefer the 1st option abeggi...kids ke husband ni

Anonymous said...

B

Anonymous said...

D ist. Cos wit that I can get a man to impregnant me n I wld hv enuf to fend 4 dem.eleanor

Anonymous said...

married with kids and 150k every month biko post my comment ooh chi chi.com

titejimmy said...

i would choose the second one o. 150k is noy dat bad and there is hope for the living. money does not buy hapiness.i love to be happy

Anonymous said...

yes to option B cos there's fulfilment.

no to option A: endless loneliness

K

Anonymous said...

Definately goin wit option B

Anonymous said...

Wud rather b 37 with kids n husband n earning 150k than 37 with 200 Million...what is money without ur luvd ones to share it with.

Anonymous said...

Is only men that worry much about Children , i need the millions , i dont even want to hope for any fucking husband #Okwunkasiobi#lolz

Unknown said...

The first one abeg husband wil come

shulamitestitches said...

I am a lady and believe me I will never trade my full value as a woman... A wife, a mother, a sister for wealth.... Contentment and hard work has been my spirit's only ornament and with God's favour and grace I am where I am.... I will stick to #150 000 with a lovable and peaceable man and my God-given children

Anonymous said...

The 2nd one ofcourse. Nothing like a family of ur own oo. At least to spend money on and obviously have a reason to keep working. Money cant buy happiness and pure love. Zeme

Anonymous said...

I'll rather have a family n b happy than have all d money in d world n be lonely.

Anonymous said...

Option A all the way, men r useless, with his 150k salary he will still cheat on u and form am the man of the house. I'll rather go for artificial insemination and have peace with my kids n money. O pari

Anonymous said...

I choose d 1 wit husband n kids

Anonymous said...

Why are u boosting to the world that your are worth N200 million naira?

Anonymous said...

B

Iamboody said...

I will let my sis go for the first option it just too obvious. There are millions of 37yrs old women who are still unmarried today, its just trending.

Anonymous said...

B ofcourse

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