I met Dejo on Facebook in 2009. In 2010 we became very close and started talking on the phone. I didn't know anything about him and in 2010 I was in Nigeria on holiday but we didn't get to meet. While in Nigeria I got to hear he was married to Monalisa Chinda. When I got back to the US I did Google his name and I saw the whole story about his marriage. At that point we were already very close and used to talk a lot. Due to the fact that we were very close, I asked him about what I read about him on the internet and he confessed that he was married and didn't talk about it because we didn't have the chance to talk. I asked him what he did wrong and why he was so violent to his wife. All these questions I asked because we were already very close and he started explaining how he met the lady in London and brought her back to Nigeria to become an actress. He stated that things started going wrong when she became a Globalcom ambassador and she started misbehaving. Infact he told me he was not legally married but they work together.Plenty more after the cut...
I started by advising him on why a man should be very patient with his wife. He told me everything I considered the truth. You know we are all humans and deserve a second chance. We started liking each other and he asked me out. When we met he proposed to marry me. Don't forget that he was very nice, caring and portrayed the image of a God fearing man. Because I felt he didn't lie about his previous marriage and I was in love with him so I accepted to marry him. On January 22, 2011, we got married.
He proposed to me in August 2010 and that was when he started confessing his financial challenges but promised all will be sorted out before the wedding. Few weeks later, he told me he had car issues and needed to sell his car to buy another one. He said he needed money to balance payment for the new car and also he needed money to pay his rent.
If you know him well, you will understand what I mean by him having way
with words. Since I was coming to Nigeria and he didn't have money for
his car and complete his house rent. I helped him out! I will not disclose the amount but enough money to help him with his
car and house rent. When we were courting he told me he doesn't drink
and smoke and that he was a man of God but things changed when I got
married to him. One day I caught him drinking in the house and I was
surprised. He said he was drinking because he was depressed. Somehow we
started having arguments and when we do, he would hit the wall so hard
and anything in his way in a very violent way. He was no longer a
gentleman. I was in Nigeria for 3months, I went back to the US and
started filing for his papers so he could come and join me. He told me
he didn't have money for his passport and I told him I will take care of
it. I sent him a document to sign but he never did, things became worse
because we were not even talking on the phone anymore.
One
day my dad said he had money and wanted to do some business like he
wouldn't mind buying iPad and send to Nigeria to sell as long as he
makes profit. Somehow he and my dad got talking, so my dad started
sending him iPads to sell. After weeks of expecting the returns, my dad
would call him and he would not pick his call and one day I was forced
to call him and ask what was going on. He lied that the person he gave
the iPads to at computer village had not given him the money. We had a
long break and were not communicating. I forgot to mention that when I
got back to the US in march, in April I sent him another house rent and
was sending him money for upkeep. I tried again to make it work and he
said he would change and be a better person, he didn't change though and
was not really keeping in touch. Those were hard times because all I
ever asked of him is just to communicate and give attention. Instead he
would avoid my calls or shout at me.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 207 of 207Please leave the poor girl alone. If you know you have not commit any sin cast the first stone. It is not even fair to rubbish the Man of God. Tourch not my annointed and do my prophet no harm
I am very sure it is the dejo and his families and friends writing all these comment about yetunde,Dejo tunfulu, I instead of you to go for deliverance or pray to your God to help you overcome all the strange things happening in your life,your families are suppose to also sit down and think of a way to solve your issues, you are very senseless, alainironi ara Galatia,what is wrong in a a man of God helping his secretary?,you think all men are like you that don't help or can't help anyone without sleeping with them? You better be careful of what you say about the pastor before you will be seriously dealt with by God,olodo, alainironu,jigolo,ole, alapa stainless, alapa Ike , alapa ma sise oku ole, ode,your friends and family will very soon push you to your end.Am very sure he yetunde meant good for you but you still want to continue living the reckless life you live.You think America i s like Nigeria where you can just do as you like, here in America, you work for your money and if you decide to swindle or fraud people , it won't be long before you will be caught( wa pelewon bi obo),that is why your stupid ass cannot be here ,just stay in Nigeria where ibe gba ole , ogba ole,My people this man needs serious prayers from us if his families cannot pray for him or talk to this idiot.if you need to pray go to mountain of fire and explain your case and situation and you will be helped .idiot .My prayer for you is that God will show you your picture .abo oro LAN so fun omo lawabi to ba de nu e , adi odindin.
Dejo tunfulu oro logbo yen , to ba koju si e , ko ta,to ba ko eyin si e ko ta,to ba ku iwo nikan soso ,ko tun ero ara e pa.
Good artiсle. I will bе gοing thгough somе of thesе
issues аѕ ωеll..
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may God forgive those that are raining insults on these couple
there is a saying in my language that says" u dat ve not pass thru this world u are laughing at those that re on their way. the bible said yee dat ve no sin let yee b the first to cast a stone. they both made mistake true. why not pray for them . pls pple let us not create more scene lets treat them like our own brother n sister pls.
EVERYTHING THAT LAMIDE SAID IS A LIE. SHE'S MAD WITH HER HUSBAND AND WANTS TO MAKE SURE PEOPLE SEE HIM AS A BAD PERSON. HER HUSBAND HAS DONE NOTHING WRONG ON HIS PART. SHE IS THE PROBLEM IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
Yetunde is just a victim...u guys insulting and abusing her cld also fall victim of worse cases...keep ur mouth shut n stop criticising cos u aint any better...if u know yetunde well u wld say otherwise.
my dear friend God will provide u with ur own husband abeg LET THEM SAY!!!!!!
make una de run ur mouth there no face ur own wahala
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