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Saturday, 20 August 2011

Question for the guys: Good food or good sex?

A question for you guys. Would you marry a woman who's a great cook, but rubbish in bed or one that's great in bed but can't cook?

58 Comments:

  • At 20 August 2011 at 13:54 , Blogger Madame Sting said...

    How about they marry someone who is a good person and compatible with them? You can always learn to go and you can always learn to be good in bed? Those things are not genetically handed to us, they are learned skills. So it's not like asking will you marry an ugly girl vs. a pretty girl.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:01 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good sex...i can always ea outside...although i wont lie..i want both...and i got both.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:04 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    well for me she's got to be a gud cook, cant stand a lady who cant cook.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:05 , Anonymous 1976AD.com said...

    Food is available anywhere without any moral challenges, in marriage, sex is only available from one's spouse.

    Consequently, food is negotiable, sex, not so much.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:08 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I think it has to be good food for myself. I believe that good sex does not last forever, when she is old and crumpled up she will not be able to deliver however when she hits her peak, her food will be best.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:21 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good sex all the way for me.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:23 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    If the sex is good, men keeps coming back for more.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:28 , Blogger Igwe Osita One said...

    I can get GOOD food outside but getting GOOD sex outside would be infidelity....so I go for the easy one....

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:30 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good sex over good food anyday! We can hire a cook

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:36 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good cook!

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:36 , Blogger Big Joemayocis said...

    To me, it's Good food all tha way cos as 4 d sex part. I cud spice up our sex life masef...

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:37 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good cook

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:39 , Blogger tade said...

    it's better to teach your wife good sex as long as she's ready/willing to learn but she'll av to be a good cook.
    i wldnt mind meeting the person who taught my wife how to cook as against who taught her.............

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:49 , Blogger feyishayo said...

    good sex.we ll work on d food aspect

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 14:53 , Blogger tade said...

    I guess i'll prefer to meet my 'good cook wife's teacher than my good sex wife's teacher,
    so for me, it's good cook, she can always learn the good sex at home

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 15:03 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 15:12 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I changed my opinion. Mdame sting is right. They are aquired skills and can be learnt unlinke looks and intelligence.

    But they must open minded to learn the skills, especially sex.

    Linda are you willing? I want to take time to train you. ;)*singing im so endowed*

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 15:18 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    GOOD COOK NO WAY I CANT MARY A BAD COOK BECOS I LOVE FOOD..I MAKE UP FOR THAT WITH MY MISTRESS...

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 15:43 , Blogger Ejyk said...

    Gud sex jare....fasT food joinTz can handle The oTha parT....

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 15:57 , Blogger omonaija20 said...

    I love food die...she must know how to cook even though i know how to myself...when it comes to the sex part, she will be good at that too cos i for don test am before marrying her now.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 16:02 , Blogger wolemification said...

    Good sex is very important to me personally!If she cant cook good,is a non-issue to me cos,i m a good cook.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 16:05 , Blogger wolemification said...

    To me personally,i will choose Good sex!Not a good cook is non-issue cos,i m a good cook!

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 16:12 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good sex is good food..

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 16:13 , Blogger Ade_Cool said...

    Linda haven't you heard the saying Great in the kitchen and a who.re in the bedroom...

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 16:36 , Blogger Mena UkodoisReady said...

    Hi Linda Ikeji

    Its MenaUkodo and I need a teeny weeny favour

    Please if you have the time and the heart please blog about my dear friend and one of my bff of 11years. I don't want to loose her to death..basically she has fibroid and looks pregnant she uses very tough spanx to hide the fact (big tummy). Her doctor told her some of it is getting calciferous.

    This is no asking for money just asking your fans to llook through the blog abd purchase her piece IF THEY WANT TO (NOT BY FORCE) so she can gather enough money to remove the fibroid. Imagine she used to be a size 12 but is now a size 4, all the food she eats fetts injested by the fibroid like a real live baby.

    Note: SHE DID NOT SEND ME TO DO THIS BUT I LOVE HER TOO MUCH TO SEE HER DOING NOTHING ABOUT IT WHILE IT GETS BIGGER

    Here is the blog, you can help out BY copy and paste as I know your blog reaches so many more people than most blogs.

    The blog: http://efemenaoreoluwa.blogspot.com/2011/08/tad-unusual-sos-save-my-soul.html

    Please if you choose to do it, do it out of empathy and love, if you dont choose to do it, I understand , no hard feelings. I just dont want to loose my friend..:(

    Mena

    efemenaoreoluwa.blogspot.com

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 16:36 , Anonymous mark said...

    back at u linda...... p.diddy or jay-z?

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:09 , Anonymous Linhad Hinkeji said...

    Can't answer this; I'm a monk - sex is out da window; I'm fasting like Ghandi - food is no good for me; as for marriage, monks are not allowed to marry: food, marriage and sex is the root of evil. Linda, you need to be a nun. How come you always thinking about food, sex, marriage, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex and marriage?

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:10 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Im a guy and i cook. Very well at that. So good sex ANY DAY!.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:13 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    let me first keep an eye on this because it will generate enough comment.lol

    that aside is good food all the way.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:14 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Pls whts d latest on Mercy Johnson... Did she go ahead with the wedding!!! ?!?!

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:16 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good sex is like special grace, it is most needed at all times. Sex is important in every relationship. I don't eat much and when I do I know where to find good home cooking. Also, I am a good cook so my wife don't have to worry about cooking.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:27 , Blogger Ron said...

    It is only when you eat well, you perform well. So, within the context of marriage, good food guarantees good sex. Bad food leads to eat out which leads to sex out.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:31 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    linda but come to think about it sha, i de suspect say na you wan know abi? Men if you like be doing madam i dont do 'anal'!! No matter hw good a cook you are, i can guarantee you that its only a matter of time before the guy go go find bedroom food for outside.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:32 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    A wise person said you can neva good sex until you die i.e as long as you continue to have sex you wud go searching for the best one which you think is out there somewhere but is impossible to find. So I go for good food

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 17:35 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Nothing compared to good sex in any relationship.d food part can quickly be taken care of sharp sharp.lol.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 19:23 , Anonymous victor boss said...

    sex!!!!! no time for food..

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 19:36 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Anonymous @3:12pm, you were so "rass" that I had to laugh. Train her to do what; to cook or perform good sex?

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 20:42 , Anonymous izzy said...

    na so so guys dey comment!!!!!!!!!! @linhad ikeji are u really a monk?

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 22:17 , Anonymous nich said...

    i pity my african brothers who are not even enjoying sex saying that they prefer good food..........

    our african women are not even open to sex.......so i think my brothers here shld know that the choice is sex

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 22:24 , Anonymous Justin T said...

    Absolutely good food...I smh at all these comments because I dont think there is no such thing as "bad sex"...even if the girl is lazy or doesnt seem to be putting much effort. Its easy to teach a girl to be good or fun in bed...but cooking? No, a girl should have learned to be proficient in cooking when she was growing up. A woman who does not know how to cook is a big no-no.

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 22:53 , Anonymous meroh said...

    how sexist is this question??!! Linda in 2011?! good food or good sex, really? you can't think of any other qualities for a wife to have? this is why men cheat and women still bend over backwards to please them. deluded men and clueless women

     
  • At 20 August 2011 at 23:11 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Good sex i RANKHIGH..joooooooorGood sex i RANKHIGH..joooooooor

     
  • At 21 August 2011 at 00:27 , Blogger oscar said...

    If your wife is a good cook you will always enjoy coming home to eat, infact you will regret it each time you eat outside cos those fast food joints cook trash. If you travel you cant wait to return. Good food will leave you satisfied. Now on the issue of good sex, it depends on what turns you on You enjoy sex from a Woman you are sexually attracted to. Often times you will see a man that is married to a Very beautiful woman who gives him the so called good sex and the man will still be attracted to their house help, now if the Man succeeds in having sex with the house help he will still go again and again meanwhile the girl doesn't even know how to give good sex.

    Come to look at it can a Woman offer good sex, the thing wheee de sweet Man Na from him body,,,,about 60 percent of Men masturbates by mere watching online pornography even though no one will admit . So enjoying sex is not dependent on how good a woman is but rather how attractive and sexy she appears to you

    I cant stand to be eating trash and bad food all the days of my life.I dont eat much but the little must be good and sweet. You are what you eat. But in sex all you need is not performance from a woman but rather a sexually attractive and beautiful woman that turns you on and you will enjoy it even if it is on a lift or on the beach.

     
  • At 21 August 2011 at 06:19 , Anonymous Galore said...

    Some of una,,,,na wa ooo........how una pass jamb sef?.......na question dem ask??una dey talk about LINDA bein a Monk.....ok,,if LINDA is a Monk,,,,,,,,,,,i leave the "ey",,,,,,,,for una,,,,,una be "MONK-EY........@Linda no fit tel una somthing for ds blog,,make una no dey hammar am for her Ear every time.......na waSome of una,,,,na wa ooo........how una pass jamb sef?.......na question dem ask??una dey talk about LINDA bein a Monk.....ok,,if LINDA is a Monk,,,,,,,,,,,i leave the "ey",,,,,,,,for una,,,,,una be "MONK-EY........@Linda no fit tel una somthing for ds blog,,make una no dey hammar am for her Ear every time.......na wa

     
  • At 21 August 2011 at 09:17 , Anonymous steezz.com said...

    D 2 shldn't b seperatd bt since u've seperatd dem, I'd rada she wow me wit her cooking n I'll retaliate by blowing her away in bed.

     
  • At 21 August 2011 at 09:54 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Anon Aug 21,12:27am; u make mad sense to me..

     
  • At 21 August 2011 at 11:47 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    "Question for the guys..." That was what Linda tagged this. I don't think females should be dropping in any comment.

     
  • At 21 August 2011 at 17:38 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    oscar aug 21 12.27am, linda needs 2 giv u an award 4 ure comment. now dat is an answer 2 a question. sumpple here went 2 school

     
  • At 21 August 2011 at 17:43 , Anonymous UE said...

    Thank God i can cook and give good sex. My husband says the two are very important, he can't have one without the other. He needs both by his wife!!!

     
  • At 22 August 2011 at 02:07 , Blogger Admin said...

    i was intriged by the topic i decided to ask the same question on my blg LOL http://www.naijahood.com/2011/08/question-for-men-good-food-or-good-in.html with a little bit of further analysis

     
  • At 22 August 2011 at 10:52 , Anonymous Sir Fariku said...

    Definitely Good Sex, I can always eat outside. But Bad sex can tempt a man to cheat on his wife. I think good sex and good food can learned even after marriage so it depends on how patient of a man you are. If you love her, you will stay either way.

     
  • At 22 August 2011 at 11:41 , Anonymous VJ said...

    They work hard in hand. Bad food will chase the man into another woman arms, like the calabar women. And you all know ehat they can do!!!

     
  • At 22 August 2011 at 13:01 , Anonymous Blog-lord said...

    mennnn....una just like to fuck shaaaa. woah!

     
  • At 22 August 2011 at 13:08 , Anonymous Leo said...

    GOOD SEX...food for the soul.

     
  • At 22 August 2011 at 14:24 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    it is easy to learm how to cook than the latter. i will rather you give me good sex, i will do the cooking myself.

     
  • At 22 August 2011 at 22:54 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    when will u ask the women "a rich guy or good sex"?

     
  • At 23 August 2011 at 11:15 , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    definatly good food! sex is over rated.

     
  • At 25 August 2011 at 20:14 , Anonymous Thelma said...

    Both can be learnt. but cooking shld be of higher priority. all the men saying good sex should remember that it was a fellow man like them that taught the girl to be good in bed. she wasn't born with sexual skills...

     

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