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Saturday, 20 August 2011

Question for the guys: Good food or good sex?

A question for you guys. Would you marry a woman who's a great cook, but rubbish in bed or one that's great in bed but can't cook?

58 comments:

Madame Sting said...

How about they marry someone who is a good person and compatible with them? You can always learn to go and you can always learn to be good in bed? Those things are not genetically handed to us, they are learned skills. So it's not like asking will you marry an ugly girl vs. a pretty girl.

Anonymous said...

Good sex...i can always ea outside...although i wont lie..i want both...and i got both.

Anonymous said...

well for me she's got to be a gud cook, cant stand a lady who cant cook.

1976AD.com said...

Food is available anywhere without any moral challenges, in marriage, sex is only available from one's spouse.

Consequently, food is negotiable, sex, not so much.

Anonymous said...

I think it has to be good food for myself. I believe that good sex does not last forever, when she is old and crumpled up she will not be able to deliver however when she hits her peak, her food will be best.

Anonymous said...

Good sex all the way for me.

Anonymous said...

If the sex is good, men keeps coming back for more.

Igwe Osita One said...

I can get GOOD food outside but getting GOOD sex outside would be infidelity....so I go for the easy one....

Anonymous said...

Good sex over good food anyday! We can hire a cook

Anonymous said...

Good cook!

Big Joemayocis said...

To me, it's Good food all tha way cos as 4 d sex part. I cud spice up our sex life masef...

Anonymous said...

Good cook

tade said...

it's better to teach your wife good sex as long as she's ready/willing to learn but she'll av to be a good cook.
i wldnt mind meeting the person who taught my wife how to cook as against who taught her.............

feyishayo said...

good sex.we ll work on d food aspect

tade said...

I guess i'll prefer to meet my 'good cook wife's teacher than my good sex wife's teacher,
so for me, it's good cook, she can always learn the good sex at home

Anonymous said...

SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX

Anonymous said...

I changed my opinion. Mdame sting is right. They are aquired skills and can be learnt unlinke looks and intelligence.

But they must open minded to learn the skills, especially sex.

Linda are you willing? I want to take time to train you. ;)*singing im so endowed*

Anonymous said...

GOOD COOK NO WAY I CANT MARY A BAD COOK BECOS I LOVE FOOD..I MAKE UP FOR THAT WITH MY MISTRESS...

Ejyk said...

Gud sex jare....fasT food joinTz can handle The oTha parT....

omonaija20 said...

I love food die...she must know how to cook even though i know how to myself...when it comes to the sex part, she will be good at that too cos i for don test am before marrying her now.

wolemification said...

Good sex is very important to me personally!If she cant cook good,is a non-issue to me cos,i m a good cook.

wolemification said...

To me personally,i will choose Good sex!Not a good cook is non-issue cos,i m a good cook!

Anonymous said...

Good sex is good food..

Ade_Cool said...

Linda haven't you heard the saying Great in the kitchen and a who.re in the bedroom...

Mena UkodoisReady said...

Hi Linda Ikeji

Its MenaUkodo and I need a teeny weeny favour

Please if you have the time and the heart please blog about my dear friend and one of my bff of 11years. I don't want to loose her to death..basically she has fibroid and looks pregnant she uses very tough spanx to hide the fact (big tummy). Her doctor told her some of it is getting calciferous.

This is no asking for money just asking your fans to llook through the blog abd purchase her piece IF THEY WANT TO (NOT BY FORCE) so she can gather enough money to remove the fibroid. Imagine she used to be a size 12 but is now a size 4, all the food she eats fetts injested by the fibroid like a real live baby.

Note: SHE DID NOT SEND ME TO DO THIS BUT I LOVE HER TOO MUCH TO SEE HER DOING NOTHING ABOUT IT WHILE IT GETS BIGGER

Here is the blog, you can help out BY copy and paste as I know your blog reaches so many more people than most blogs.

The blog: http://efemenaoreoluwa.blogspot.com/2011/08/tad-unusual-sos-save-my-soul.html

Please if you choose to do it, do it out of empathy and love, if you dont choose to do it, I understand , no hard feelings. I just dont want to loose my friend..:(

Mena

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mark said...

back at u linda...... p.diddy or jay-z?

Linhad Hinkeji said...

Can't answer this; I'm a monk - sex is out da window; I'm fasting like Ghandi - food is no good for me; as for marriage, monks are not allowed to marry: food, marriage and sex is the root of evil. Linda, you need to be a nun. How come you always thinking about food, sex, marriage, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex and marriage?

Anonymous said...

Im a guy and i cook. Very well at that. So good sex ANY DAY!.

Anonymous said...

let me first keep an eye on this because it will generate enough comment.lol

that aside is good food all the way.

Anonymous said...

Pls whts d latest on Mercy Johnson... Did she go ahead with the wedding!!! ?!?!

Anonymous said...

Good sex is like special grace, it is most needed at all times. Sex is important in every relationship. I don't eat much and when I do I know where to find good home cooking. Also, I am a good cook so my wife don't have to worry about cooking.

Ron said...

It is only when you eat well, you perform well. So, within the context of marriage, good food guarantees good sex. Bad food leads to eat out which leads to sex out.

Anonymous said...

linda but come to think about it sha, i de suspect say na you wan know abi? Men if you like be doing madam i dont do 'anal'!! No matter hw good a cook you are, i can guarantee you that its only a matter of time before the guy go go find bedroom food for outside.

Anonymous said...

A wise person said you can neva good sex until you die i.e as long as you continue to have sex you wud go searching for the best one which you think is out there somewhere but is impossible to find. So I go for good food

Anonymous said...

Nothing compared to good sex in any relationship.d food part can quickly be taken care of sharp sharp.lol.

victor boss said...

sex!!!!! no time for food..

Anonymous said...

Anonymous @3:12pm, you were so "rass" that I had to laugh. Train her to do what; to cook or perform good sex?

izzy said...

na so so guys dey comment!!!!!!!!!! @linhad ikeji are u really a monk?

nich said...

i pity my african brothers who are not even enjoying sex saying that they prefer good food..........

our african women are not even open to sex.......so i think my brothers here shld know that the choice is sex

Justin T said...

Absolutely good food...I smh at all these comments because I dont think there is no such thing as "bad sex"...even if the girl is lazy or doesnt seem to be putting much effort. Its easy to teach a girl to be good or fun in bed...but cooking? No, a girl should have learned to be proficient in cooking when she was growing up. A woman who does not know how to cook is a big no-no.

meroh said...

how sexist is this question??!! Linda in 2011?! good food or good sex, really? you can't think of any other qualities for a wife to have? this is why men cheat and women still bend over backwards to please them. deluded men and clueless women

Anonymous said...

Good sex i RANKHIGH..joooooooorGood sex i RANKHIGH..joooooooor

oscar said...

If your wife is a good cook you will always enjoy coming home to eat, infact you will regret it each time you eat outside cos those fast food joints cook trash. If you travel you cant wait to return. Good food will leave you satisfied. Now on the issue of good sex, it depends on what turns you on You enjoy sex from a Woman you are sexually attracted to. Often times you will see a man that is married to a Very beautiful woman who gives him the so called good sex and the man will still be attracted to their house help, now if the Man succeeds in having sex with the house help he will still go again and again meanwhile the girl doesn't even know how to give good sex.

Come to look at it can a Woman offer good sex, the thing wheee de sweet Man Na from him body,,,,about 60 percent of Men masturbates by mere watching online pornography even though no one will admit . So enjoying sex is not dependent on how good a woman is but rather how attractive and sexy she appears to you

I cant stand to be eating trash and bad food all the days of my life.I dont eat much but the little must be good and sweet. You are what you eat. But in sex all you need is not performance from a woman but rather a sexually attractive and beautiful woman that turns you on and you will enjoy it even if it is on a lift or on the beach.

Galore said...

Some of una,,,,na wa ooo........how una pass jamb sef?.......na question dem ask??una dey talk about LINDA bein a Monk.....ok,,if LINDA is a Monk,,,,,,,,,,,i leave the "ey",,,,,,,,for una,,,,,una be "MONK-EY........@Linda no fit tel una somthing for ds blog,,make una no dey hammar am for her Ear every time.......na waSome of una,,,,na wa ooo........how una pass jamb sef?.......na question dem ask??una dey talk about LINDA bein a Monk.....ok,,if LINDA is a Monk,,,,,,,,,,,i leave the "ey",,,,,,,,for una,,,,,una be "MONK-EY........@Linda no fit tel una somthing for ds blog,,make una no dey hammar am for her Ear every time.......na wa

steezz.com said...

D 2 shldn't b seperatd bt since u've seperatd dem, I'd rada she wow me wit her cooking n I'll retaliate by blowing her away in bed.

Anonymous said...

Anon Aug 21,12:27am; u make mad sense to me..

Anonymous said...

"Question for the guys..." That was what Linda tagged this. I don't think females should be dropping in any comment.

Anonymous said...

oscar aug 21 12.27am, linda needs 2 giv u an award 4 ure comment. now dat is an answer 2 a question. sumpple here went 2 school

UE said...

Thank God i can cook and give good sex. My husband says the two are very important, he can't have one without the other. He needs both by his wife!!!

Admin said...

i was intriged by the topic i decided to ask the same question on my blg LOL http://www.naijahood.com/2011/08/question-for-men-good-food-or-good-in.html with a little bit of further analysis

Sir Fariku said...

Definitely Good Sex, I can always eat outside. But Bad sex can tempt a man to cheat on his wife. I think good sex and good food can learned even after marriage so it depends on how patient of a man you are. If you love her, you will stay either way.

VJ said...

They work hard in hand. Bad food will chase the man into another woman arms, like the calabar women. And you all know ehat they can do!!!

Blog-lord said...

mennnn....una just like to fuck shaaaa. woah!

Leo said...

GOOD SEX...food for the soul.

Anonymous said...

it is easy to learm how to cook than the latter. i will rather you give me good sex, i will do the cooking myself.

Anonymous said...

when will u ask the women "a rich guy or good sex"?

Anonymous said...

definatly good food! sex is over rated.

Thelma said...

Both can be learnt. but cooking shld be of higher priority. all the men saying good sex should remember that it was a fellow man like them that taught the girl to be good in bed. she wasn't born with sexual skills...

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