Dear LIB readers, can I ask my boyfriend when he will propose to me because its taking too long
From a female LIB reader
My boyfriend and I have been going out since we got into University, that is like 7 years ago. We are both done with school and he has gotten a good job and lives alone now while I am still in the process of getting a job. We get along well but he has just refused to pop the question so we can get married and move on with our lives. I know he loves and respects me but this his delay in getting married to me is beginning to bother me. I have been asking myself if he is thinking of dumping me but his care and affection says otherwise. Should I pick up courage in asking him why he hasn't or I shouldn't border?
Seven years later you guys have not discussed marriage? You must I've at least even jokingly.
Meet him gce to face or over the phone. Ask him wee the relationship is going. You need to know what to do next. Don't be afraid. Woman up. I dated my bf for 7 years but we had always talked about marriage. even though I still asked him were things were going when I felt it was taking too long. We are now engaged.
My dear, pls ask him where d relationship is headin to. I asked my boyfriend then n DAT week, he brought a ring n proposed. DAT doesn't make u desperate it makes u define ur relationship.
My dear, domn't mind most of the commenters here. You and your boyfriend have been dating for 7 years and like you rightly said, his actions clearly prove to you that he loves, cherishes and adores you. You guys have come so far together and I bet you guys know and understand each other very well right? For that fact, you should not be afraid or shy about talking to him about you guys future together. He probably is just putting things together on his own side to make you happy. The fact that he has a job now doesn't necessarily mean he has all the funds needed for a wedding right now. Some guys won't settle for less, THEIR QUEEN MUST GET THE BEST THAT SHE DESERVES and maybe he just doesn't want a "jump and pass" wedding. Anyways, you guys should talk. Cheers.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 208 of 208asking him how far......he might be shy to tell u.....mind u, ure not proposing to him by asking how far
Seven years later you guys have not discussed marriage? You must I've at least even jokingly.
Meet him gce to face or over the phone. Ask him wee the relationship is going. You need to know what to do next. Don't be afraid. Woman up. I dated my bf for 7 years but we had always talked about marriage. even though I still asked him were things were going when I felt it was taking too long. We are now engaged.
My dear, pls ask him where d relationship is headin to. I asked my boyfriend then n DAT week, he brought a ring n proposed. DAT doesn't make u desperate it makes u define ur relationship.
If you ask him, then you are proposing to him.
My dear, domn't mind most of the commenters here. You and your boyfriend have been dating for 7 years and like you rightly said, his actions clearly prove to you that he loves, cherishes and adores you. You guys have come so far together and I bet you guys know and understand each other very well right? For that fact, you should not be afraid or shy about talking to him about you guys future together. He probably is just putting things together on his own side to make you happy. The fact that he has a job now doesn't necessarily mean he has all the funds needed for a wedding right now.
Some guys won't settle for less, THEIR QUEEN MUST GET THE BEST THAT SHE DESERVES and maybe he just doesn't want a "jump and pass" wedding. Anyways, you guys should talk. Cheers.
No comment I don tire f men matter Biko
What's with NIG. ladies and marriage? So you've been dating for 7yrs, he's been working for just 2yrs & you feel he should be done enough to propose?
Get a grip of your life, get a good job like he did & the moment you stop seeing marriage as a career achievement, he'll propose.
He will feel u are too desperate.......ask God instead
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