I have been dating this guy for about 3 and a half months and I have only spent two weekends with him. I only see him during the week. For the weekends he always has an excuse for us not to meet but eager to see me during the week. He comes over to my house from work and spends time but from Friday till Sunday he's no show. Should I confront him about it or just leave him alone? Also, I have never spent the night in his house before, maybe I am the side chick?
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Thursday 29 January 2015
Dear LIB readers: I don't spend the weekends with my boyfriend
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Na by force to date am,d tin to dey scratch u sef haba!
Na by force to date am,d tin to dey scratch u sef haba!
You probably are sweetie....sorry!
Yup you're the side chic honey...pele
Lady O
Hehe....may be you are. But before you conclude, sit him down and ask him why is he treating you that way? Best of luck
You are d side chick
Gals!!! We worry ourselves ova trivial issues. U just started dating, givee ur sef tym and why yo doing that, don't fcuk so u can fly wen u know which chick u r. Main or side.
Gals!!! We worry ourselves ova trivial issues. U just started dating, givee ur sef tym and why yo doing that, don't fcuk so u can fly wen u know which chick u r. Main or side.
Dats not enough reason to conclude! Plus abeg bishop Dammy is it right to spend night! Oya give us bible verse
Lmao
May be he has other bizness to handle
But try and ask him
Before nko.are u a learner???....#nwamas
You are dating a merited man, be wise!
Of course that is what you are. Side Chic. Pay him a surprise visit at those times he wouldn't be expecting you since you know his house. Since when did LIBers became relationship advisers?.
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Your d second girl friend... pay him a surprise visit one day
3/1 half months? Haba! Give him some space,get to know him better before spending a night at his place
CAlm down and follow things gradually. Its just 3months old relationship
Ofcos confront him abt it nd u must spend night wen u re not married to him cos it belittled u
You've answered it all. U don't need a bishop to tell u that you're his side chic, and please don't confront him. Just walk away or enjoy while it last.
Is not may be hmm u are his side chick
Exactly, YOU ARE A SIDE CHICK.
You said you've only been dating for 3month & 2weeks, dats 14weeks & already spent 2wkends with him, you wan dey follow am live 4 im houx? Beta don't pressure him into thinking dat you are desperate. Linda take note!
U no get sense
Babe u re dealing with a married man, go and do ur CID yourself plz.
Maybe u are but Dnt confront him, try n find out ursef. If u confront him den he wll deny it or better still hurt u
sex before marriage is a sin 1cor6 v 9-11
Yea u a side chick n he is married
Something like that
My dear, you are the side chick and then some.
I tink you have said it all. Its obvious ur a side chic or a mistress. I advise u pay him a surprise visit on a weekend to see if u can catch him red handed.
cherrykoko
Kids of nowadays, so if you start sleeping in his house on weekends, u will be happy ba?
My dear your just a share holder
no dear he is just MARRIED!!!!!!!!
sorry to say, he is a player. definetely you r a bit on a side for him, the guy is fully committed else where.
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Nothing like may be here, yu are the side chick..
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Firstly, you need to put alot of things into consideration. Is he married? Does he engage in a weekend job?
Now why do you want to spend a night, you want to have sex right or cuddling? Well the relationship is too young to raise an eye brow if you ask my sincere advice.
You are a side chick!! It's very obvious. His main chick is for the weekends. He's not serious with you. And he has other babes
Abeg must u spend d weekend in his place? nawa ooo..so if u see him during d week so? Wat if he is d busy type? I dont understand ladies of dis days..I have a gf dat hardly sees me..cos I alwaiz travel..But she understands..u are wat u say u are..u are a sidechick if u think so...................................#KingOfKings #6God
Thats exact what u r babe! Wise up
Mayb he goes to his wife and kids weekends
She's still asking
A married couple work in different cities, he works in Abuja, she in Lagos, he goes home every weekend. Both have Facebook accounts. The wife has vowed never to date anybody on Facebook, more so that she is happily married. She even gave her hubby the impression that she does not go there frequently like others do.
One day while bored at work he playfully creates a Facebook account with a fake pix, he sends his wife a request & she adds him.
They chat regularly over 1 month, she finds him very exciting & is always looking forward to chatting with him, she began to hate weekends cos he was never available to chat. They chatted about everything and recently their chats became very sexually explicit...
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Exactly, u a side chick, that's why u can't have d weekends..
You are totally the side chick!
Give him a surprise visit and knw whatssup
My sister u be confirm side chic,#waka pass
Babe shine ur eyes oo. Which guy doesn't want to spend the weekends wit his babe. Weekdays?#laughing. Guys bad
Lolz! "Maybe I am the side chick" you already kw but I advice u to. Confront him abt that to kw his reasons.
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side chick????? You may just be dating a married man.. wake up girlie
If u are the side chic u are even safe. Mayb he is married sef u don't know.
Another person owns d weekends....just like you owns mon-friday
But dis babe dey greed oooo....so mon-fri no do u ni?.....or re u DAT jobless?
Hahahaha!! Are u a learner?u a SIDE CHICK girl!!
You don answer your question.
Its either you are the side chick, he is married or he has something he is hiding...God will save us from wicked men o..
Obviously your the side chick, can't u read between the lines.
Yea you very correct babe your just his side chick wake up before its to late for you...
yrs girl,u r definitely d side chick
give him a surprise visit during d weekend to check tins out.
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Babe use ur tongue count ur teeth naw,well thank God u already know d truth,i don't know why ladies can't just accept d truth,is it not obvious?
It's not rocket science to decode that he is married & you are just a side kick! He will most probably deny if you ask him so just take a walk away from him, unless you like being second or third fiddle.
So if u spend d whole of d weekend der, its a proof u aint d side chic. Rubbish of d highest order, life don spoil. #happythurs
gbam,well said,u r the syd chick.
You no dry see? Are you blind? My dear its obvious that ya the side chick.. Don't let his baby mama catch you 😅😅😅😅😅
Its vewi obvious...ur d syd chick
You have the answer and you're still asking for help?
You aren't only the side Chick, he has night Chick, weekend Chick and rotational Chick. Please find where you fall into and use your tongue to count your teeth PEREZ is here
your guy is married, simple! dont waste ur time confronting him... sigh!
Maybe he's married and jst deceiving you
Why don't u surprise him this weekend... Confrontation will only bring more excuses if he is indeed cheating...but brace yourself for the worst
Maybe he's married and just deceiving you
Find out who he is first...then confront him,cus that is how they treat side-chik
O gal he is married or has a very serious relationship aside you.Insist on going to his place after all he's been to yours.Dont be fooled or carried away with love.This is still January. RUN RUN RUN.Dont waste ya time with him.I have been dere
Yesso better side chick! !!!!!
It just baffles how immorality has taken over the heart of we youth. Why should you spend weekend in your boyfriend's house in the first place when he has not married you? Or wat will two of you be doing through the weekends. Woman, i'll advice you keep yourself highly esteemed and stop yielding to those false lies you hear from ur so called boyfriend. Selah!
LMFAO Hahaha are you a learner? thank God you have ANSWERED the question yourself YOU be side chick and your instincts never lie so kindly take a walk heal and move on kpele Dearie.
you sound so cheap to my likening,3months you want to be a wife by force. If he use you rough now and dump you you will run to us complain that you have been duped.Do you think that around is the best way for you to get an ideal husband? 'sigh'
In all honesty, you are the side chick, he is either married or has something very big he is hiding. Talk to him about it and hear what he says, all in all please be vigilant
Not mayb u r d side chick, let me brak it down 4u "U R SPARE TYRE".
Moreso must u spend d nite in a man houz dat u r not.married to??? U just lik messing around or b cheap.
Pls wake up and pay him a surprise visit during d weekend.
Thank me later.
Sister. Take it easily with he, everything have time,
Not mayb u r d side chick, let me brak it down 4u "U R SPARE TYRE".
Moreso must u spend d nite in a man houz dat u r not.married to??? U just lik messing around or b cheap.
Pls wake up and pay him a surprise visit during d weekend.
Thank me later.
Just 3 months and u are here complaining. Must u spend the night and weekend at his place ???? Why not park your load and be his leave-in then . All I can see here is a man trying yo protect u
And one mr expsd is saying you shouldn't snoop. My dear snnooooop till ure sure if ure side chick or not.
Not mayb u r d side chick, let me brak it down 4u "U R SPARE TYRE".
Moreso must u spend d nite in a man houz dat u r not.married to??? U just lik messing around or b cheap.
Pls wake up and pay him a surprise visit during d weekend.
Thank me later.
This can't be really, surely this girl is clueless... What a joke!
U either his side chick or he is married
Ehyaaa! Cnt say ma'am. Just use ur head and work it out. Be kful!
Not mayb u r d side chick, let me brak it down 4u "U R SPARE TYRE".
Moreso must u spend d nite in a man houz dat u r not.married to??? U just lik messing around or b cheap.
Pls wake up and pay him a surprise visit during d weekend.
Thank me later.
Yes dear, it is more likely u re a side chick...
Yes, you are the side chick. Smart girl! Now move on and along.
Pele, life is just a boiling pot of beans.You will be fine.
you are the side chick.
Linda, where do U get these pple dat always ask such questns?????
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Hmmmm, just give him small time, dn't be too forward, he might hv a mess he wana clean up, so wt u will do now is,tell him u will give him time for more attention, especially weekends, give him lik 5months, or more if he does't change run, an for now dn't add much emotions ooo, becos some married guys ar lik dis
He is married darling
Trust ur guts. Deep down de are trying to tell us smtin is wrong...nd surely smtin isn't right..stay calm nd compose u might turn out to be d right chick too
I think u should ask him
Loool..a guy needs attention
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Just to be straight with u, you are a side chic... End of Discussion.
Go ahead and confront him...
#GodblessNigeria
He gos to see his legal wife and children; simple!
The guy is married #side chick
U jes answered urself....
**Vanchizzy**
Maybe ke? Lady open yo eyes!!! Yes yes yes u so are d side chick!
Madam.. Its not maybe your the side chick.. Na u be d side chick..
U beta know where u belong ASAP. U ve delayed for too long. Confront him. Best of lucks.
@Sophia Stephen
Mheeeen...it's either he's married or doesn't really love u
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Ofcourse u are.. do some snooping on him..
goodluck on that.
Best way to come out of this confusion is to confront him and you two can address the issue
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So what were u thinking before?
Ma u dnt have an issue
no my dear...you are the mistress Nigga is married DUH!
No doubt you are probably the side chick, I think your problem is half solve. Confront him with the issue and know the fact about his MIA during the weekends. We may also be wrong though but still confront him and know what's going on with him by the weekends.
What re u talking about 4 God's sake?? U met about 4 months ago,,haaa,,have u tried 2 ask him what he does on weekends??
As 4 sleeping over in his place,,i pray u dnt start what u ll surely regret @ d end of day
Ur definitely the side chick
eyaah.. jst saying
You have answered the question already you are the side chick, you messed up too nah, why did you allow him from the onset to come to your house and sleep with you without going to his house first, his main chick is always around from friday to Sunday! Let me tell you the day you pay him a surprise visit any of the weekend don't be surprise if you see his fiancé and he will deny you immediately! He is just using you shikena!!!
No. You're the main chic. I'm sure you need a babalawo to confirm to u that side chic position would be puting it mildly. Why are girls so dumb. The dude is either married or almost married. Keep making a mockery of yourself darling. You should get the dumb chic award
I wonder why dumb dafts keep bugging us with their issues,u already know the truth whose opinion will u now believe..Linda pls don't start our day with a dull brains' blank question abeg.
You have answered the question already you are the side chick, you messed up too nah, why did you allow him from the onset to come to your house and sleep with you without going to his house first, his main chick is always around from friday to Sunday! Let me tell you the day you pay him a surprise visit any of the weekend don't be surprise if you see his fiancé and he will deny you immediately! He is just using you shikena!!!
He doesn't have to spell it out to you.... Read the writing on the wall and move on. Speaking from experience, no matter how much you complain, there won't be any difference. The worst part is this - the moment you decide to break up with him, he won't say a word or try to convince you to stay, then you'll realize you're nothing to him, not even a side chick. Save yourself the heartache and move on.
If you confront him about it and he makes amends, good for you. However if not, get your bag and baggage and move on.
Lmaoooooo big time side nne
You are still a learner....Be smart
No need asking, u knw it already, u are the side chick...
Oh,trust me bae,its either u r the side chick or he's got stuff to hide,try confronting him about it!
Side chic ke,ure his side mirror.lmao.weekends are too busy for him as he has to do laundry and all,b satisfied with the weekday visit u sef hian!continue sleeping n don't smell the coffee o u hear?ask him about it or better yet just trace his house and pay him a surprise visit*evil cackle* aftaroh u v nothing to loose buh also brace urself to meet his pregnant wife n his son n better b ready for denial too,I tire for u!eish.
It's either he's married or u're the side chick.
Girls of nowadays u just said 3months which is still very new.smh
@lwkmd_naija
lol,,,so you want to spend a night already????
U just summed it up. Babe, u are d side chick! Shine ur eyes and wise up.
Sooo d best way to know u are not a side chick is spending 9ts n weekends @ his place? a relationship of lessdn 4months, y dont u tak it easy b4 u portray ursef as desperadoe. #use & dump invitation
Wetin u dey go sleep for? Dem go chop u finish now n u cry back to LIB... dee
Maybe...dere shud be communication
Jst forget abt him n fyn another guy, bcos he maybe a criminal or he is hiding something.
Are u dat naïve and dumb,he is married..
You are on your own finish. U better use your brain rather act like a mumu sha. its very clear
You should know that nau, that you are
Lol... are u a learner? Opens a bottle of orijin and seats back...
Maybe u're ooo,some good homely girl comes to spend the weekend and do some cookings,jst use ur head well,if u know where he lives,pay him a surprise visit ,neva see him during the week, then on a Saturday ,surprise him,
Maybe he doesn't wanna get tempted. He is ur boyfriend, not ur husband.
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He is a married son of a bitch,hey lady r u dt dumb?kai,d time z 4his family.
You be correct SIDE CHICK.... I narrowly escaped d title recently..... Dis is 2015 ladies shine ur eyes....no time for time wasters
Are u dat naïve and dumb,he is married..
Babe, wifey is at home
Or mayb your his mistress. Becos all this is you listed is not a sign of a single guy double dating, but signs of a married man having an affairs. He can give excuse of work to his wife to see you during the week, but what would he tell her during the weekend. And how is he gonna let u spend d weekend wen his family is home with him? I bet u dnt even know his house right? Nne you are dating a married man. You better run to avoid stories that touch.
Side chick 101
Or mayb your his mistress. Becos all this is you listed is not a sign of a single guy double dating, but signs of a married man having an affairs. He can give excuse of work to his wife to see you during the week, but what would he tell her during the weekend. And how is he gonna let u spend d weekend wen his family is home with him? I bet u dnt even know his house right? Nne you are dating a married man. You better run to avoid stories that touch.
There is no maybe.....you are definitely the side chick..better shine ya eye...
Seriously you come here with this? Deal him same hand as he has dealt you! Haba!! During the week make up excuses as to why you are unavailable and see how he reacts to it! You are with both the yam and the knife, yet you are hesitating? What some women don't realize is that in every relationship they have all the power, but some of them readily relinquish it to men!
Make him feel some of your pain and watch his reactions, then make your decision then.
How funny life could be.....while am here praying morning and night for my girlfriends to spend the night and weekends with me, yet yo no avail....it takes God+ Jesus grace for them to spend weekends with me .........leave that guy he is not ready for u, or maybe he have good plans for u, so he is saving the weekends for better days...its all fake and lies sha
babe, the signs are so obvious, you are just a side chick!
Not may be u r Haba d guy is married now. He is using u to clear traffic during d week before he goes home
you know what to call yourself better side chick yes that's what you are
confront him b4 its too late
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Tis not a matter of maybe........u r his side chick! Common! Use ur head jare.
Of course!!! That's what u re, a side chick.
Where u thinking u were the main hen? no be only side chick, na corner bucket
You don enter one chance. Dey there dey form mugu
Hmmmmm. D signs r glaring. U r obviously d side chick and he may b married n his family is somewhere else. Mayb dats where he goes to spend d weekend
Yes baby, you are the side chick and you better be on your way soon enough, Because who ever the main chick is, the love between them is strong. Men can be funny sometimes
This days any gal u start dating under one week will be d one wanting to come nd spend d night with u. Ur papa bed Dey scratch ur yash Linda inukwa muo
You are definitely the side chick girl! This was how I treated my side boyfriend. Weekdays on. Weekends off
Yeah mayb or probly he is married? I fink u sshlld givve him som time siince it's jes 3 months, den if he continues baby confront him bikko!
Why do you want to sleep over in his house?
Anyway, I think your guy is hiding something from you... If you are so anxious, you can pay him a surprise visit, but at your own risk.
Before nko wetin u think say u be if not side chick
Babe wake up na. you are not even side chick number 3, maybe na number five or even six sef. olodo!!!!. Aunty Linda stop bringing us all this kind dull imaginations abeg.
Hi side chick, I bet you won't wanna meet the main chick.
Sincerely speaking the mind of Amadioha
*singing* you're the side chick,siiiiide chic! Side chic on the block,side chic on the bed,side chic for the D, you are the siiiiide chic
He doesn't want u comin weekend bcos someone else do come over....babe he has
2of u o..wake up.
Kisses 2u linda...catch it!
Smiles... Figure that out yourself.
strong chances that he is married or u r a side chic like u said.. sorry luv
The truth is dat he his either engaged or married
Mugu, ode, fool!!! He's married na.
You is smart!
If u think u're the side chick then u're the side chick
U might be a side chick. Confront him, that's the best way to know what u r and what u not. Moreover, wats so fascinating about u spending nights and weekends. Use ur head gal, b4...........
My dear...his either married or in another serious relationship.. Lmao
Babe dat your boyfriend still dey play Maradona and jay-jay okocha...u better advice yourself...Use your brain..you will soon join Alao Akala in OYO (on your own)
Lol... Side chick alert
Babe dat your boyfriend still dey play Maradona and jay-jay okocha...u better advice yourself...Use your brain..you will soon join Alao Akala in OYO (on your own)
You might be the special girl of his dreams though.
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That guy is married that the truth about it
Hnmmm no idea
Lmaooo!!! Pay a surprise visit 2 him dis weekeend
Yes dear... u are the side chic. it's better u leave now with your head high than allow things get messy.
No maybes - you are! But just for fun confront him and see how good of a liar he is.
Mayb u r not!!
U are not only his side chick,u are also his spare tyre,wake up girl.he's seeing another person that's y he doesn't want u to spend the weekends with him..la ju ee
Confront him about fucking your ass hole ? Women get problems 3months is not even enough to know whom this Guy is
Babe forget it, your a side chick. Its either he is married or ur not just good enuff.
My advise to u is cut d sucker off and find some1 new
B***h u guessing.....U was ryt
The picture tho ....lmao
O yes u are
Lolz, hear ursf 3 n half months n u r complaining, o ga o. Mayb he shd gv u wat u r after wh is sex n den walk away. Rubbish
He's married jooor
confront him does he work weekends lot of questions 2 ask him u need 2 b assertive. talk 2 him n y do u want 2 spend a nyt wit him?wen u dnt spend weekend 2geda take a chill pill babe.
Surprise him at his house over the weekend and find out what he's hiding..unless, you don't know his place.
Blessed day to us all..
Must u spend d night in a guy house,all u need to do is to investigate him very well without his notice
Confronte senorita
Yes u r
He is married.Use your head.
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