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Sunday 5 January 2014

OJB's first wife explains why she donated her kidney to him

OJB's wife of 20 years, Mabel Okungbowa, donated her kidney to the prolific music producer a few months ago. In an interview with Punch today, Mama J as she's fondly called, explains why she did it.

She tells Punch
"I did not even think twice about it, I had it and I gave it to him. He is my husband, the father of our children and I love him. This is somebody I have been with all my life. I did not tell anybody before I decided to, not even my parents because I had foreseen their reaction. There was no reason to inform them.  When I married him, I told God I wanted the both of us to grow old together and live to see many generations. I am sure God knew this situation before he brought us together because not only am I a match for him, we are the same blood group and we are both stubborn.

147 comments:

fungi said...

a woman with a good heart :) lucky him!!

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Crystal said...

U did well madam.

Unknown said...

A good wife is a gift from God. I really appreciate OJB's wife. If all these tooth pick legged ladies can just be like her, I swear, having a wife will be every guy's dream.

James said...

This is true love but i wonder if he could have done the same for her, if she was in need...

Anonymous said...

You have the heart of gold, I don't critisize pple on "love case", she must love him very deeply, only if he had shown her half of of what she feels for him bfor now

Rough Diamond said...

Good for u!
We don hear! We no need ur explanation Biko!

Unknown said...

She is really a gud wife

Anonymous said...

Good woman! And the silly man married other women! Men!! Dey sure always go astray!

Unknown said...

Good woman with a good heart. Pray GOD gives me my rib of my rib and the flesh of my flesh.

»» GOD's HEARTBEAT ««

IKWERREBOY said...

Wife... not all this aba girls that call themselves...

Unknown said...

Nyc one ,may God continue 2 bless u ijn.amen.

Anonymous said...

Awww eyah, rare gem. Godbless u

Fuck your opinion said...

Good woman. Ungrateful man.

Unknown said...

for better for worse

Unknown said...

Dats so nice of her...I doubt if ojb would av done dat 4 her if she was d one in nid of kidney....God will contuine to bless u mama j

Unknown said...

But if she didn't, who would? I'm tired.

~~Success Has No Limitation~~

Unknown said...

Stubborn......

Unknown said...

Dat is love she has shown dat love didnt die in titanic nd romeo and juliet lolz loving dix feeling of been a libraider
fink dat shud be d name of ur fans "LIBRAIDER OR LIBERS

Bonita Bislam said...

Better Wife

Unknown said...

Hmmmmm. #Uwese#

Anonymous said...

Na b4 we no knw bout d wife o,God bless U ma,u deserve d best,I guess he knws how best 2 treat u now.linda gud evenin

jvc said...

in her previous interview she said her brother refused n she s tellin us nw that she didnt tell anybody nah wah oo

Anonymous said...

Good woman! But I doubt if ojb can do the same for her.

Djaguar said...

That's wut true love is all about.Stay blessed madam.

Unknown said...

We ve heard enough of these 2 already now. Thank God for the successful kidney transplant, fine pls move on with ur lives.

Unknown said...

God bless you. Wana get sumbdy lyk u as a wifey.

Anonymous said...

God will indeed reward and bless u for saving his life. But come to think of it, did OJB feel all this for u when he was going after other women and getting more wives?

Anonymous said...

Waoo...wonderful

McQ said...

Wow, Rare!

♥ ȊƦȋƺȟ ƘƦȋϻ ♥ said...

Awwww d@s so swt

Blabbermouth said...

Ehya

Unknown said...

sent frm heaven

Unknown said...

sent frm heaven

Janelicious said...

Good wife

Anonymous said...

sent frm heaven

Afolasayo said...

She's God sent..... he's really lucky. The wife could decide not to give him her kidney cos he has other baby mama's.

Anonymous said...

she tried o,after he had married another woman

Anonymous said...

Ok cuz u guys re both stubborn*-issokay***hehe

Anonymous said...

U did well

chiefololade said...

good for her

Anonymous said...

Oshi o daaa. If the tables were turned sound, the guy would not have donated kidney for you. Stupid women and their "superhero I must save the day" mentality

Anonymous said...

He will still cheat on u but best of luck I won't even allow my sis do such

Unknown said...

awwww., its painful hw men maltreats women, but dz same women wil do anytin 4 dem....

Unknown said...

Lol! Wa a beautiful woman wif a beautiful soul! God bless u...n u shall see many generations togeda insha Allah

Apple said...

Good for you but i heard he has two other wives? Nah wao!

bumshasha said...

We have heard dis a million times. Now using dis story as publicity stunt.

minat said...

U ar a great woman with large heart. God will preserve ur lifes and marriage. No evil will c ur home and u will never hv cos to regret this Insha Allah.

bumshasha said...

We don hear ooo, u won't b d first or last to donate kidney

Anonymous said...

Madam! You are a good woman. May wishes be granted in Jesus name. Sure Ojb will not do it for any of his wives.

Anonymous said...

U choose wisely ma am,n may. God bless n b wit u 4 u 2 decide such.wale j.

Anonymous said...

To each is own i guess..... but me i no fit do that kin thing for a man that has constantly cheated and married 2 others after me. cos i don't know if he would have done same if the reverse was the case

Anonymous said...

Whao that's what love is all about. May God grant her, all her desires.

Anonymous said...

passionate,lovely.

Unknown said...

9ice courage, I love you for dat. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Anonymous said...

Dats nice, man of order wives U̶̲̥̅̊ try oo°°oo°•o I N̶̲̥̅̊Ơ̴̴͡ fit oo°°oo°•o

Unknown said...

Gud woman.. it's important to marry someone whom God has assigned for u... tnk mama j

Anonymous said...

Lol, @we are both stubborn. Ojb if I may ask, y did u 2 take 2 additional wives? Well ur business o.

Unknown said...

ooh,.wen a woman luvz..she luvz for real

NK said...

This is 2ru love n is 4 better 4 worse

Anonymous said...

Look at you. You love him and u are first wife not ONLY wife. SMH. Women sha

Anonymous said...

Waooo dat is soo sweet of u madam.how I wish he also feels dsame way 4 u cos if he does hr no go marry anoda woman after u.not 1but 2 kai,sorry I no fittttttttttt.sorry

joy dsvis said...

That is so sweet,well done madam

Anonymous said...

So shall u grow old 2geda, u are indeed a gud wife.

Anonymous said...

Biko, does OJB have another wife? Hmmmm great sacrifice, she risked her life for her husband and father if her children! OJB pls if there are other strange women around you, its time to send them packing.

olami said...

God bless mama j a true hero, a woman worth emulating...;)

Unknown said...

Gud wife.

Anonymous said...

That Į̸̸̨§ so gud of her. She truly love him.

Unknown said...

Gud wiffy

Anonymous said...

Eiya!!she's a good woman..OJB in ur Life no ever treat dis woman bad!

Unknown said...

HMmmmm she try#thumbsup

Adorable Jewel said...

You are a his true missing rib madam****but its soo disgusting how men kip pursuing shadows wen dey gat a real image***

Walata said...

Linda dat comment we are both stubborn it made me laugh okay dats kind of u thnx ma

jimsking said...

I need a wife like that pls

Anonymous said...

Lol...good 4 u, its funny d way he showed his love by marrying other women....well, I hope you grow old together, cos u might die b4 him......

Anonymous said...

Ojb treated dat woman like shit, but she still turned up to help, pls dnt forget that dis lady had a choice but she chose to be the woman and wife dat she is..U dnt get dat everyday...I pray he remembers this weneva he decides to go astray Again....
M.V.P

Unknown said...

Good wife and very rare for a woman to do dis let alone a man. If it was vice versa will ojeb

MrsBankyW said...

I tire o...which I we go believe now??? Mama j weldone o

Anonymous said...

Goose bumpssss...Anyways , this is Love oh!!!! JESUS CHRIST WHERE IS MY WIFE????????

Anonymous said...

Aunty Linda pls post my comment na.....M.V.P

Anonymous said...

Why can't dos two other women donate for him? Truely, she's got a very good heart cos its nt easy to donate for a man that left u for other women.

Highly-Favoured said...

A woman u hurt by marrying a second wife, gave u a second chance to live.

Anonymous said...

FOOLISH WOMAN,WHY DID U GIVE HIM?I ASSURE U THAT UR GIVING UR LIFE DOESNT MEAN THAT GUY WILL NOT BE THE ANIMALS MEN ARE,U ONLE BOUGHT URSELF PART TIME LOVE AFFAIR WITH A PUBLIC DOG,TIME WILL TELL!

Unknown said...

uhnnnn

Anonymous said...

Of cos we all know the anSwer

Anonymous said...

Yea sent from heaven

Anonymous said...

How many you don donate???
Mtcheeewwww!

Anonymous said...

Good, what happens if the only kidney you have left got some sort of malfunction, you are not even his only wife. just saying....

zeeplus said...

How sweet of her.

swit said...

I luv ur decision maam, buh I hope he can do same for u

fashiintinz.com said...

Brave woman with a heart of gold.. I pray your love lasts forever...

Anonymous said...

Can you do that for your husband?

Unknown said...

U re indeed a heroine. Bless ur beautiful heart.

Ann Marie said...

She tried sha. tinz we do for love

Anonymous said...

Sure. He won't.

Anonymous said...

Yes o, my dear anon. He has 2 other wives, making his wives 3, though na ds aunty b 1st wife sha o, tnk me lerra o.

Anonymous said...

Better wife tinzzzz, wonder if ds OJB with him hair 4 head like wetin I know no, for fit do the same thing?

Anonymous said...

Change your impression about them and you. Will see less of tooth pick legged ladies

Anonymous said...

Over try dey worry this woman,I tnk God 4 OJB but if u lyk keep those prostitute that re waiting 2 share ur property after death and still call them wife.

Anonymous said...

Stubborn kwa?
#WorldfamousVictor

Anonymous said...

Good job madam, this is a calling to all out there, please form the habit of donation...... Start with blood donation first. Cheers.

Anonymous said...

Good woman, but our men sef. They will never appreciate what they have. God help us.$£

Anonymous said...

Help me ask her ooo

Newlife said...

May God bless this woman..

Anonymous said...

Hope she signed a pre-kidney contract.....if he messes up and start to date other women....He should return the kidney!!
Donating ones kidney isn't a joke o...

Unknown said...

Kind hearted woman..... God bless her 4 him...

Amarachukwu said...

That's a woman with a golden heart.when a woman luvs,she gives it out completely.

Anonymous said...

Idiot you do not need her explanation didn't you see she was answering a question she was asked? Bloody fool

Anonymous said...

Very brave decisioN I must say

Unknown said...

Tooth pick legged ladies. Lolss Ur head there!

ary said...

Awww this is the real for better for worse story.

King Fahad said...

very nice and romantic of u. But does he really deserve it? What happened to his other wives and whats d guarantee that he wont go back to his normal womanizing self now that all is well.

Anonymous said...

Idiot OJB all he does is rant abt cameras, bounced cheques and all as if anyone owes him money.

Has he told us wat happened to all the money he received afterall his wife donated a kiddey. Hisses and walks away.

Anonymous said...

First wife I dnt understand is there a 2nd wife?

Anonymous said...

If she didnt who wd? Are there no other wives? Cos if he hd loved er †ђǝ way she does he wd nt v married another wife. Cod they said the 1st wife. Mo sorry gan i cnt do dt let †ђǝ other wife do now sebi he found love in anoda woman. Anyways its a good thing, she is such a kind woman at least despite our sins Jesus died for us. I just pray she wnt regret it but anyways God will ßlėss er bc she hs done a gd thing.

Anonymous said...

So dt after U̶̲̥̅̊ don drink kaikai finish ur kidney she go donate er own abi? I pity U̶̲̥̅̊ self centered man.

Anonymous said...

First wife I dnt understand is there a 2nd wife?

Mzjerkinz said...

If she no do am ,na me go com do am for her?u enjoyd wt him den suffer wt him as well.diz is no story!!NEXT

wemimo said...

Y won't she...?? u shud ask if obj abi na ojb will do it for his wife...men and deir ways..d woman nice oh afta he married oda women.

Unknown said...

She's got a good heart, only a few women would do such in ds 'for better, for stay; for worse, for go' generation of ours. God bless her real good!

Anonymous said...

Turai late president Yaraduas' wife did the same thing for him&so have many other women it is not new or news!

Anonymous said...

Good woman.Even if u donate ur whole body,a man will still cheat on u.Most men suck!

Jay said...

I will keep praying to God to bless my marriage with this type of wife

Anonymous said...

Agreed, afterall he get another wife based on the headed

Anonymous said...

Make more of Naija bros take example so oo.

mary moore said...

Yes I can.

mary moore said...

She's God sent to him. Good wife.

Anonymous said...

lol @we are both stubborn, yea they are mostly nice people. a woman with a heart of Gold.

White Gardenia said...

What about the other wives?. She should have thought about her children before doing that.Kuddos to her though.

Anonymous said...

Mumu. Women lots and lots of them are good. Even thou Ojb didn't deserve it. Yet she did it for him. The quest would have been, will he do d same for her. Hell NO cos he has lots and lots of them to play with. Olukwus.

Swaggs isimemen said...

Mabel May almighty God bless u keep u give u complete gud health 2 see ur children children in jesus name amen u re God sent woman caring woman

Swaggs isimemen said...

Mabel May almighty God bless u keep u give u complete gud health 2 see ur children children in jesus name amen u re God sent woman caring woman

Swaggs isimemen said...

Mabel May almighty God bless u keep u give u complete gud health 2 see ur children children in jesus name amen u re God sent woman caring woman

Swaggs isimemen said...

Mabel May almighty God bless u keep u give u complete gud health 2 see ur children children in jesus name amen u re God sent woman caring woman

Anonymous said...

Remember to treat her well and she will give you the moon.

Anonymous said...

Good woman! But he still married other women and fathered children with them tho...i see

Anonymous said...

Hmmm I can't do dat 4 any man who doesn't luv me or who gets married 2 anoda woman!its a total waste of tym!I rather do it 4 ma family members who hv been dia 4rm ma birth til date!2 hell wit men!who needs dem afterall wit dia toothpick DicKs

austin johnson said...

Nice one madam,i pray the Lord will perfect your health and that of OJB,above all i you will never have any cause to regret the step you have taken

Anonymous said...

GOOD WOMAN??? BUT DIDNT HE TAKE TWO WIVES AFTER U?? WILL HE LEAVE THEM AND STICK TO U??? HOPE U JUST DID IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF UR HEART??? BCOS THIS MIGHT NOT BE ENOUGH TO KEEP HIM TO URSELF

Unknown said...

For better or worse right there! I like the fact she kept the matter between OJB and herself. Family are familiar faces, who might prevent you from solving unfamiliar problems. I really love ur passion and focus. God will bless u, lady.

Unknown said...

For better or worse right there! I like the fact she kept the matter between OJB and herself. Family are familiar faces, who might prevent you from solving unfamiliar problems. I really love her passion and focus. God will bless u.

The wise woman said...

And of course, the African man's definition of a 'good wife' is one who will stick with him regardless of his many short-comings and utter wickedness in most cases. She is indeed a 'good wife'.

MY TURN said...

And he married 2 after you... ndoh

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, make God help us o,make we see this type marry too o.

Anonymous said...

Yep, 2 others. He has 3 wives

Anonymous said...

Did she donate it for free ? And if she did, what did OJB do with all the donations he got?

Unknown said...

you are not mama J only but Mama General , may God strengthen you and your entire Family, that reason which makes you to do this noble work God will never hesitate to grant it for you in Jesus Name Amen.

Anonymous said...

Wetin de young man dey marry marry up and down,all over the place for? Na WA for men def. Dis im first wife na correct wife oh...I thank God for her life!

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