Dear LIB readers: How do I collect my money back from my ex?
From a female LIB reader
My ex and I dated for three years and were actually planning to wed. We got engaged April last year but because of family issues the wedding was called off in November 2012. Despite the end of our engagement, we kept seeing each other on and off for several months until we finally broke up in August. I was hoping we would get past our problems and go ahead with the wedding but that didn't happen. Now, here's my problem. I gave my ex N720 thousand naira last year for a project he was involved in. I borrowed him the money because I thought he would be my husband and if the business venture succeeded it would benefit both of us but since we have broken up and he's now seeing someone else I want my money back. I have been asking him for the past two months and he's telling me rubbish and has stopped picking my calls. The business is doing fairly well and he's making some money from it; is another woman supposed to enjoy the fruit of my labour? I want my money back. How do I go about getting it back?
Me I won't advise u forget anything,itz ur money u borrowed him u no dash am,,,go to d police tell them about the case tell them if they succeed u'll give the at most 50k,,trust dem police dy'll so deal with him till he gives it back,,here na naija police guys here dnt need any written order so far u'll pay dem,,and this is same tin I tell my sister nd frnds never on any circumstance do u lend money to sm1 ure dating,,dat only can make d relationship crumble,,if u'll want ure money back itz better u tell them u don't have,,I am 22yrs av nvr for one day remembered me giving evn 5kobo tp any guy..he should be d one giving me nt d oda way round, kapish #didi
Oh really?here i was thinking i am the only female maga in Nigeria.oh Well.Welcome to our world.My own balance is 20k though and the money is nothing as God has been good to me but i feel cheated everytime i remember.and even if its the last thing i will do before i die,i will take it back.He doesnt take my calls too and blocked me on facebook.Lagos should expect me anytime my head touch,Its gonna be a real show down.I will fly business class to Lagos sef and back here just to collect that 20k,its that serious.His name is Ahmed Ehizogie,if you are reading this,i want my money o and i will collect it guarantee.
Linda pls post o,the guy is a bastard and you should be on my side o.Lol
The most stupid comment. Just stupid. Please you didn't have to type anything abeg. And my advice to the lady, please you must collect your money. I'm sure if the case was the reverse he'd make sure he gets it. Goodluck!
dont be bitter buh better, trust that God will bless u abudantly by multplying u with triple what uve lost...all the best keep the faith..remember staying mad and holding grudges will only do u more harm than good
If you have proof that you actually borrowed him the money then you can report to EFCC! You'll surely get your money back! Hope you gave him a cheque or transferred into his account? But if it was cash then forget it.
Naijadeltababe... Babe u better no gree ds thing has happen to me B4 na boyfriend level and a big guy 4 ds lag I no go mention name but wen I started with him ehh I was calling him like a 100times in a day even @ midnite I will call he no go pick phone until d day I bounce to his office and resume with dem dsgrace him in d presence of his staff, halla for him head dem no bone am well he gave me all ma money cash live and direct, I made sure I cause commotion for him that even his client coming to transact business wia telling him dey wia disappointed @ him I was like a whole naija delta babe for this lag u no dey fear face OMG I collect ma money so babe no do. Any emotions jack shit go collect ur money all ds guys na our days we babes have to be watchful most of this guys na wash wash dem no get shame not to talk of many of dem coming from a responsible home dey are so lazy that dey depend on their babes for evrythng dey want.
Go on ur knees & beg God to help if not u won't get peny frm dat money weda u force it or calm it... Na only God fit help u wen u seriously ask for it.. U will get it miraculously
Some peeps on dis blog can sha fit talk rubbish y won't she get her money back y woman weda paper no paper evidence u can get ur money back hw many pple in d market dat borrow money 4rm their nxt door neighbors worth more dan dis n wld stil return d money wif out agreement, its out of trust. C lady u dnt even nid 2 go 2 hs house or beg hm jst use ur brothers guys knw hw 2 collect tins 4rm their fellow guys in dis case or show hm u r crazy he wld pay u put emotions apart. Those peeps on dis blog saying she kant get her money back read its borrowed n u also borrow pple money worth more dan 100k wif out agreement n u get it back so y won't she get it back
Guys!dey ar nt worth it o Clt ur money.. Ladies dnt gv men ur hard earned money..una hear so?? I go dey calculate airtime money nw sef..I no gt kobo 2 waste 4 e head *eyesrolling*
Brilliant play, dis was exactly wat I did in my own case and it worked,I got a bank statement for the exact date gave 2 my lawyer and he knw d way forward.
Lie! Y una dey disturb urselves...d guy ws neva serious wit her in d first place N̶̲̥̅̊a̷̷̴ђ scam...it happens al d tym.he saw hw desperate n loaded she ws n capitalised on it,family issues ko. A guy in my church duped 5 girls just lyk ds promising dm marriage aftr collectin huge sums of money he vanished. Yeye
Hmmmmm babes this matter is close to my heart as I have experienced this before. I borrowed my ex 200k at the time. To put it in perspective it took me 6 months of lasgidi stressful work life to save up that amount. Waking up 4:30 am daily to leave home by 5:15 am. I expected my money back whether we were together or not because he asked me to "borrow" him not dash. When the time he promised to pay back passed and I asked for my money (we were broken up at this time), he called me all kinds of names and said I wanted to buy him with money (cheap ass worth 200k). Long story short, I never asked again. My testimony-today the tax on my basic salary is approx 200k...its like my shopping budget on a good day. I thank God for everything, am just in my late twenties and I know my best is yet to come. The best part is him knowing am doing great!
Plsssssss in the name of God, collect tour money. Wtfffffffffff. Gosh, am pained on your behalf. Dat guy is mean, like sum one advised, call him on another line and record your conversation, sue him with it, do anything but Pls, COLLRCT YOUR MONEY. Guys ehen, me I can't give any guy more than 10 k b4 you no, it's stories that touch the heart they will be telling you. Go to his family, anyone you can. Threaten the living day light out of him, let him see d mad side of you. Wtf, na men, that is totally unacceptable.
Thank u for this write up, I want to ask u a question, has he nt be spending cash on u on or b4 nw? U gave him cash y do u wnt him to give it back to u? Am sure u are d reason y d wedding did nt work out, let d cash go it will only come back to u if its rili urs, friendship and luv is give and take so put it behind u bt u rili tried for upgrading his life.
All the comments of females I am seeing here shows how generally selfish they are...I assure you, if it was the guy that gave you that amount, he won't come back for it...help yourself and calculate the amount of money he has spent on your arse and you'll be amazed how greater than 720k it is...females na wa
burn down his house simple. Godforbid that this kind of thing should happen to me. i cant even take it. most people know i get crase sef. and i can never borrow. university has thought me never to "borrow" anybody something i cant dash them.
cheeiii... its painful o! but that moni is too much to let go. its like u are quiet thats why he is playing wit u. carry boys and go to his house one early morning and show him the bad side of u. give him the biggest embarrasment of his life, fustrate him, go to his workplace n cause problem.
cheeiii... its painful o! but that moni is too much to let go. its like u are quiet thats why he is playing wit u. carry boys and go to his house one early morning and show him the bad side of u. give him the biggest embarrasment of his life, fustrate him, go to his workplace n cause problem.
Mine is a serious case, dunno who to tell! My bf collects all my salary 4m me! Wen he had money, he used to travel round naija with girls, to benin , to abuja.... To all big lagos clubs! But he tells me he loves me, am I foolish?
U don fall maga,u don fall maga,come to think of it o,dz guy might be in2 yahoo,,what really made the both of you not to get married sef..get to the root of this,this case sha,,if u interested my bf is a good lawyer I can tell him to help u for free #didi again
he is a bastard man , there are many gold digger guys like him in 9ja . i would advice you to pray about it and leave it to God . i promise you that he will have no peace till he pays you . the same happened to me
Calm in a small way sha. My yeye ex collected money come de tell me how pastor tell am mk e no marry me again oh. Sey e go die young if e marry me. Mwhle he ws owing me money (thank God I ws paying into his acct oh). As d guy no wan pay my money, I send im papa email oh with details of bank teller nos and amt. The man sha pay me oh. Cos na man wey no wan embarrassment. Nonsense!!
I actually had the same issue,There are so many options to go about getting ur money but my Mom taught me the patience option so I kinda followed it (and am not normally the patient type o). months later the dude lost his job. Even though I havnt gotten my cash back but I have this satisfied feeling deep down. Just remove ur mind frm the money, God will work things out. It may not come as fast as u want, but it will eventually. I AM SURPRISED I AM GIVING THIS ADVICE SERF normally I'l say use fire and force
Girls and their way of thinking,, some are even advising her to visit babalawo,,, shame to some girls, who think not with their head.
Sweetheart you have already decided to get back your money.. It doesnt cause for any alarm,,, it's something the three of you can settle(you, the guy and the new girlfriend) like i said earlier guys don't borrow money from thier girlfriends to pay them back,, that is we dont know how to beg for money(it's natural). Just call him in a peaceful manner,, dont be arrogant.. You gave him out of love,, he can only payback out of love..
Too many foolish comments here made buy depressed old single ladies who will never find themselves in the arms of any reasonable man in their entire life. Fools! Do even try to find out y the guy left? Or cos she gave him money He ust die with her? Such actions has benefited lots of ladies who maintain their humility n stay within their boundaries after being generous as against some proud animals who cos they gave their guy money they automatically become arrogant and controlling and u expect the guy to put up with that. Some of u lack common sense that's y u remain single all ur life.
Call him with another number, record the conversation. That is your evidence. Involve the police. Thank your God you didn't marry him. He is an irresponsible fellow.
Just let it go, God will reimburse you. Shame on all you women that are saying all sorts. I'm pretty sure the guy must have also invested in her financially at some point. If na man borrow woman money we won't hear the end of it that he should be a man and forget about it. You women really need to reflect on your thinking.
It's lend not borrow and for those calling ladies selfish old singles becos of their comments here, park well jor. I am a guy and those who ask ladies for such money a re usually stingy types who don't spend on woman,. They are always looking for kind hearts to break.
Did you guys reach an understanding that the said 720 thousand naira was a loan? Did he at any time act like he was indebted to you, like pay part of the sum at any time or do something to show indebtedness to you,or make up for the loan? Have you physically or practically demanded for your money from him? You must do that... Go with a lawyer whenever you proceed to so act... Your lawyer must be undercover or act unobtrusively at this stage.. His is to record sights and sound respecting the reaction of your ex.... The idea is to know whether he said or act in any way acknowledging his indebtedness to you... Give him two weeks to pay up... If he fails to pay in two weeks, your lawyer should write a letter addressed to him for him to pay up... I leave your lawyer to finish it off... You will get your money back...
Make you move on, some guys dey give way more than 750 and still let go, that's a chicken change. Women are too bitter, wants pay back all the time. Man be like, B!! You better go.
Lmaoooooo__U harsh oooooo___buh like seriously how can u gve ur BF money and sign agreement,someone u say u love_if na dat one we go dey sign agreement 4 each penny we gve 2 our women_dats girls 4 u...always want 2 collect....a girl would want u 2 spend money on herself and her family instead of urs...abeg park well Wats 750k??
If u guys didn't break up, would u just collect ur 750 nd never ask for extra? Idiot ur money now that u broke up but if u didn't nd he made more money u would call it our money. Odeeeeee
If u guys didn't break up, would u just collect ur 750 nd never ask for extra? Idiot ur money now that u broke up but if u didn't nd he made more money u would call it our money. Odeeeeee
1. I have my own integrity, if I happen to lend from someone, before you ask and ASAP, I will return it. Cos of personal integrity the guy should return (not cos of threat, curse...)
BUT COME HEAR THIS O BABES,
2. MOST OF THE BABES RANTING HERE ARE SINGLE GIRLS SO I CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR PLIGHT. (tongue out, giggling)
3. COME HERE CONFESSOR, TELL THE WORLD WHAT YOU HAVE BENEFITTED FROM THE RELATIONSHIP. AM SURE THIS IS THE ONLY THING YOU DID AND YOU WANT TO DIE ON TOP
4. ALL THE THINGS THE GUY BOUGHT FOR YOU, MAKE SURE YOU RETURN THEM OK? INCLUDING *ALL THE UNDIES *THE CLOTHES *THE SHOES *ALL THE GIFTS *THE PHONES * THE LACE WIGZ *THE SUYA, SHAWARMA ICECREAM * THE EATERIES *AND THE OTHER ONES WE DON'T KNOW OF (YALL KNOW YOURSELF-WHAT YOU COLLECT FROM GUYS)
YOU AND I KNOW THAT IF YOU REMOVE WHAT A GUY BOUGHT FROM 70% OF LADIES' POSSESSION, THEY ARE NUTS.
DID I HEAR YOU SAY GUYS BENEFIT SEX FROM BABES? FORGET IT. YOU BOTH ENJOYED IT. SEX BENEFIT MY FOOT! WHY DON'T I GO TAKE ONE STAND PAY HER 1500(yes 1500) AND FORGET THESE DRAMA CHICKS
5. YOU BETTER DON'T ALLOW JEALOUSY KILL YOU, WATCH YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE. HE'S WITH ANOTHER CHIC, DEAL WITH THAT!
5. IN A SAMPLE OF 100 RELATIONSHIPS, WHAT PERCENTAGE HAS THE BABE DOING ALL THE GIVING? MAY BE 20%. WHEN ONE BROKE ASS BABE, (WHOSE FATHER DOESN'T HAVE A SMALL BICYCLE, NEITHER BUILT A HOUSE IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE-NOW WANTING A READY MADE MAN) DOES ONE SMALL THING FOR A GUY, THE WHOLE WORLD WILL KNOW SHE MADE IT HAPPEN
6. I KNOW MANY HAVE NEVER TOUCHED 750k or HAD IT IN THEIR ACCOUNT THAT'S WHY THEY WANA HANG. SEE HOW THEY OPENED THEIR MOUTH "750 wot?"
7. IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE LIFE OF YOUR PARTNER, Y'ALL BETTER STAY SINGLE cos RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE SIDED-ITS A COMBINED EFFORT OF TWO MATURED, SELFLESS PEOPLE WHO HAVE DECIDED TO MAKE IT WORK-COS DIAS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT R/M, YOU BOTH HAVE TO MAKE IT WORK.
8. BABES FORGET IT, CURSE FROM TODAY TILL ETERNITY, NAKED YOURSELF ON THE STREET SELF, IF YOU LIKE GO SEE NATIVE DOCTOR MAKE THAT ONE SLEEP WITH YOU ONTOP OR PUT SMTH FOR YOR BODY, EXCEPT IF GOD HAS DECIDED NOT TO BLESS THE MAN. ALL THE ONES YOU HAVE CURSED, WHY ARE THEY NOT DEAD YET? NO MAN,(hear it, no man) CAN CURSE WHO GOD HAS BLESSED. Why is that guys business booming? Many of you are not sincere. Only God knows what happened between them.
9. BIA, LISTEN TO THEIR SILLY ADVICE THAT YOU SHOULD GO SHOW HIM, AS LONG AS YOU DON'T HAVE ANY NAME/PERSONALITY TO PROTECT, THAT'S FINE! DON'T FORGET HE WHO PULLS ANOTHER INTO A MUD REMAINS THERE HIMSELF/HERSELF.
10. SELFISH BUNCH OF HUMAN BEINGS
11. OYA START DISPLAYING SOME DEGREE OF MADNESS IF ALL AV SAID IS NOT TRUE
Hahahha Hihihi Jejejje Laughing in all languages of the world Tongue out!
If there is someone you know he respects so much (maybe his uncle, friend or senior colleague), go and tell the person. I hope he will speak to him in a better way. You didn't do anything wrong by giving him the money.
Bbz u beta give him a show down, drama would bring out ur money u beta stop ur sme sme, money no go comot frm eniwhere sam sam, trust me daats hw I collected mine, his whole estate shook outta embarrassment he paid me in cash 2daez later, involve police, area Boyz Enitin 10k na in u fit looze Cuz u must roger dem Beht bbz collect ur money, wth were u even thinking gvn him dat lot! My present bf loves me nw soo much Cuz wen he asks I sai no! Btw he gvz me dats hw ts meant to be! U better collect ur money or u'll hate urself 4eva 4 being used sexually and financially!
If there is someone you know he respects so much (maybe his uncle, friend or senior colleague), go and tell the person. I hope he will speak to him in a better way. You didn't do anything wrong by giving him the money.
thank God its your money, worst case scenario is if u had borrowed the money for him, this is a big lesson for females to learn from, i learnt mine not too long ago, it was beyond terrible, most importantly i've learnt my lesson!
I believe in one thing dat wen u deprive people of wat belongs 2 dem u get failure in all u do. My dear, let go of d money and move on wit ur life. Fine d business is blowing @ d moment buh i assure u it's gonna crash sooner or later. Then he might come back 2 u pretending he has realised his mistakes, mind u 'wen ur past calls it has nothing new 2 say'.
OMG!!!!,NAIJA!!!!......u r being begged 2 advise ha on d way out not 2 CRITICISE nd CRUCIFY ha....ahhh,oga oh!...aniwae babi,u just try 911,cases lyk ds ar treated in d customary court...
I believe in one thing dat wen u deprive people of wat belongs 2 dem u get failure in all u do. My dear, let go of d money and move on wit ur life. Fine d business is blowing @ d moment buh i assure u it's gonna crash sooner or later. Then he might come back 2 u pretending he has realised his mistakes, mind u 'wen ur past calls it has nothing new 2 say'.
I believe in one thing dat wen u deprive people of wat belongs 2 dem u get failure in all u do. My dear, let go of d money and move on wit ur life. Fine d business is blowing @ d moment buh i assure u it's gonna crash sooner or later. Then he might come back 2 u pretending he has realised his mistakes, mind u 'wen ur past calls it has nothing new 2 say'.
Remember the bible says it is more blessed to give than to receive...it feels bad but what is 720k compared to the millions you will be making in future or your good heart? Back in school in 2007, a friend borrowed 100k from me but till date has not repaid. I felt very bad at first but God so blessed me that before we left school in 2008, I got a good job. Now I earn my money in dollars. That 100k doesn't mean a thing to me anymore. God has blessed you already, don't do anything that would take your future from your hands.
EYAA, SUM GUYZ CAN BE REALLY WICKED AND UNGRATEFUL. MY DEAR,I ENCOURAGE U TO ASK HIM FOR IT ONCE MORE IF HE DOES NOTTIN ABOUT IT U LEAVE HIM BUT USE THE MOUTH U HAVE AGAINST HIM,U RE A WOMAN AND OUT OF OUR MOUTH CUMS BLESSING AND CURSE,ANY WORD U USE AGAINST HIM WILL SURELY COME TO PASS COS EVEN THE BIBLE RECORDED DAT A MAN SHOULD PAY BACK TO THE WIFE WENEVER HE BORROWS MONEY FROM HER TALK OF UR CASE WERE U 2 ARE NOT MARRIED CURSE THE HELL OUT OF HIM,HE WILL RUN BANKRUPT, RUBBISH.I HATE IT WEN MEN FEELS THEY ARE SMART. USE THE MOUTH GOD GAVE GIRL,U WILL SEE HIM RUNNING BACK FOR FORGIVENESS.
Calling 911! Can not solve d problem d best thing is 6or u to confront him as u go ensure u ar with recording garget as u gain conversation wt him ensure u make. Say thing like am sorry pls i will Pay u later make sure u mention the amount even how he collectd d money,make him say things that will implicate him dont be violet a @ initial stage.if he did not agree to pay @ d time u want him to pay u then become violent let all be on record so that when u present it to d police if he denies if u present d evidence
My dear, mine s over 1.5m, but as God would have it am married to him 2day, so I let it go. On the other hand my cousin ex still has her money she given up. 1st rule I would teach my growing daughter, u can give with sense but never borrow. Money wen them borrow man na heavy bear bear bank. Nne break his windscreen then 4get the money.
Ah its happend to me I gave one yeye banker boy friend money and he refused to pay men back one dey I just storm his branch do small show down as if that one no work I reported him to my MD who gave him 24hours atumatum to refund my money cos he manages one of our accounts and didn't want to loss it. My annoyance was that dis guys dosent give me money he just f**k osho free and my salary was 30k and he earns 200k then men are wicked *cry*
For u to give dat kind of money mean say u fit make billions..... Forget dat money. Get busy with ur life and Send him more... maybe 1 million. e go be like rat wer chop kill and dry...
y d rvers dis days? men do d sitin yl women do d wok n bring moni hom ehn. its rily pain4. hmmm! jst lyk d oda persn said, go naked @ 12am n pray 2God instead of curse.
My dear sister, my honest advice is, don't fight him. Gently ask him for the money and if he doesn't give you, take it to God in prayers. He will surely answer you. You will be so so surprised when this same guy will run back to you begging for forgiveness. Av always known that silence is golden . Besides, vengeance is God's. So, hold your peace, and let God fight the battle for you.
My dear, don't fight him. Ask him for your money and if it is clear that he doesn't want to pay, leave it for God and move on. Let his conscience judge him. I've always known that vengeance is for God. You will see how this same guy will come looking for you to apologize.
I am a woman and my number one rule is never give a guy kobo, if a man needs money he should go to the bank and I never tell a man how much am earning, if am worth 10 million Naira today a man will never know, if am given bonus, I never tell him, I get a raise at work, even promotion, I will never tell. I told my guy that my salary is actually less than it is, I was once given a bonus at work and I told the man I am dating and watched him the next few days he started hammering on the fact that I had money and I should not ask him, I gave him a serious show down verbally of course. Since then I have been given a raise twice and very fat bonus this year, I did not tell him. Because the truth is in this part of the word men can be very lousy. Once a man has enough money in his pocket he will start giving it to another woman out there.Always remain the woman in a relationship. It is in the bible he should be the provider.
my dear, can not try to give any man called lover or boyfriend kobo from my pocket becos they do not worth it. i except who i have wedded with,i call my husband. take heart dear and suemhim to court pls
my dear, can not try to give any man called lover or boyfriend kobo from my pocket becos they do not worth it. i except who i have wedded with,i call my husband. take heart dear and suemhim to court pls
anonymous 4:19pm you dey crase....dont you know the meaning of borrow? even if they married he should be gentleman enough to pay her back cos its borrow not dash....its called integrity...if i ask my husband to borrow me money i pay back, if he chooses to dash me fine....if i ask for dash then i know its dash...she should collect her money from him cos its borrow but first report him to someone he respects in his family...if he doesn't agree then dem go tear trouser be dat....
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My ex still owes me o! Its like its common wit yoruba boys....he borrowed the money on my way bk from d UK...he got bk and refused to pay.....
Amina may ur days b long n sweet. U made my day really.
Olodo rabata!
Confirm!!
You go die!!!! Wait on the perfect man......
Never give a man your money. A real man would have never accepted the money in the 1st place.
Sorry i called u olodo, it was meant for someone else.
But y shld d present gf pay? Y?
gbaaa oooo! Let's frustrate him 4u.
Me I won't advise u forget anything,itz ur money u borrowed him u no dash am,,,go to d police tell them about the case tell them if they succeed u'll give the at most 50k,,trust dem police dy'll so deal with him till he gives it back,,here na naija police guys here dnt need any written order so far u'll pay dem,,and this is same tin I tell my sister nd frnds never on any circumstance do u lend money to sm1 ure dating,,dat only can make d relationship crumble,,if u'll want ure money back itz better u tell them u don't have,,I am 22yrs av nvr for one day remembered me giving evn 5kobo tp any guy..he should be d one giving me nt d oda way round, kapish #didi
Oh really?here i was thinking i am the only female maga in Nigeria.oh Well.Welcome to our world.My own balance is 20k though and the money is nothing as God has been good to me but i feel cheated everytime i remember.and even if its the
last thing i will do before i die,i will take it back.He doesnt take my calls too and blocked me on facebook.Lagos should expect me anytime my head touch,Its gonna be a real show down.I will fly business class to Lagos sef and back here just to collect that 20k,its that serious.His name is Ahmed Ehizogie,if you are reading this,i want my money o and i will collect it guarantee.
Linda pls post o,the guy is a bastard and you should be on my side o.Lol
When woman give man money, na 'borrow'.
When man give woman money, na 'gift'
It's alright oh!
The most stupid comment.
Just stupid. Please you didn't have to type anything abeg.
And my advice to the lady, please you must collect your money. I'm sure if the case was the reverse he'd make sure he gets it.
Goodluck!
dont be bitter buh better, trust that God will bless u abudantly by multplying u with triple what uve lost...all the best keep the faith..remember staying mad and holding grudges will only do u more harm than good
If you have proof that you actually borrowed him the money then you can report to EFCC! You'll surely get your money back! Hope you gave him a cheque or transferred into his account? But if it was cash then forget it.
Some girls tho, how can u borrow a guy 720k smh are u a learner? That's gone its a goner noni
Pls arrest him.
Naijadeltababe... Babe u better no gree ds thing has happen to me B4 na boyfriend level and a big guy 4 ds lag I no go mention name but wen I started with him ehh I was calling him like a 100times in a day even @ midnite I will call he no go pick phone until d day I bounce to his office and resume with dem dsgrace him in d presence of his staff, halla for him head dem no bone am well he gave me all ma money cash live and direct, I made sure I cause commotion for him that even his client coming to transact business wia telling him dey wia disappointed @ him I was like a whole naija delta babe for this lag u no dey fear face OMG I collect ma money so babe no do. Any emotions jack shit go collect ur money all ds guys na our days we babes have to be watchful most of this guys na wash wash dem no get shame not to talk of many of dem coming from a responsible home dey are so lazy that dey depend on their babes for evrythng dey want.
U will most likely die single
Go on ur knees & beg God to help if not u won't get peny frm dat money weda u force it or calm it... Na only God fit help u wen u seriously ask for it.. U will get it miraculously
If you have anything to prove that you really gave him the money, then take him to court.
@MRS OHIO ERANKO. Do you want to blind me?
He must be an Igbo 419ner. That's their life.
Forget the money. You have paid your tithe
Some peeps on dis blog can sha fit talk rubbish y won't she get her money back y woman weda paper no paper evidence u can get ur money back hw many pple in d market dat borrow money 4rm their nxt door neighbors worth more dan dis n wld stil return d money wif out agreement, its out of trust. C lady u dnt even nid 2 go 2 hs house or beg hm jst use ur brothers guys knw hw 2 collect tins 4rm their fellow guys in dis case or show hm u r crazy he wld pay u put emotions apart. Those peeps on dis blog saying she kant get her money back read its borrowed n u also borrow pple money worth more dan 100k wif out agreement n u get it back so y won't she get it back
You mad ?
You mad ?
Babe do wat u gat to do n collect DAT money fast.use diff methods o.if possible involve a very were sibling or frnd to help u.
sue the idiot my dear
One chance...lol
Guys!dey ar nt worth it o
Clt ur money..
Ladies dnt gv men ur hard earned money..una hear so??
I go dey calculate airtime money nw sef..I no gt kobo 2 waste 4 e head
*eyesrolling*
BH
Linda I nor see ma comment!!*angryWithSteam*#doctorbobby
Brilliant play, dis was exactly wat I did in my own case and it worked,I got a bank statement for the exact date gave 2 my lawyer and he knw d way forward.
Linda I knw c my comment!!!
*angryWithSteam*#doctorbobby
Lie! Y una dey disturb urselves...d guy ws neva serious wit her in d first place N̶̲̥̅̊a̷̷̴ђ scam...it happens al d tym.he saw hw desperate n loaded she ws n capitalised on it,family issues ko. A guy in my church duped 5 girls just lyk ds promising dm marriage aftr collectin huge sums of money he vanished. Yeye
Hmmmmm babes this matter is close to my heart as I have experienced this before. I borrowed my ex 200k at the time. To put it in perspective it took me 6 months of lasgidi stressful work life to save up that amount. Waking up 4:30 am daily to leave home by 5:15 am. I expected my money back whether we were together or not because he asked me to "borrow" him not dash. When the time he promised to pay back passed and I asked for my money (we were broken up at this time), he called me all kinds of names and said I wanted to buy him with money (cheap ass worth 200k). Long story short, I never asked again.
My testimony-today the tax on my basic salary is approx 200k...its like my shopping budget on a good day. I thank God for everything, am just in my late twenties and I know my best is yet to come. The best part is him knowing am doing great!
Women! Una selfish die!
That is the reason Linda wants a man with a job. Lol.
Plsssssss in the name of God, collect tour money. Wtfffffffffff. Gosh, am pained on your behalf. Dat guy is mean, like sum one advised, call him on another line and record your conversation, sue him with it, do anything but Pls, COLLRCT YOUR MONEY. Guys ehen, me I can't give any guy more than 10 k b4 you no, it's stories that touch the heart they will be telling you. Go to his family, anyone you can. Threaten the living day light out of him, let him see d mad side of you. Wtf, na men, that is totally unacceptable.
He's a loser. Just thank your stars you got away from him cut him loose.
Yes oo,I've fallen mugu like that but learnt my lesson.
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Thank u for this write up, I want to ask u a question, has he nt be spending cash on u on or b4 nw? U gave him cash y do u wnt him to give it back to u? Am sure u are d reason y d wedding did nt work out, let d cash go it will only come back to u if its rili urs, friendship and luv is give and take so put it behind u bt u rili tried for upgrading his life.
Chei
All the comments of females I am seeing here shows how generally selfish they are...I assure you, if it was the guy that gave you that amount, he won't come back for it...help yourself and calculate the amount of money he has spent on your arse and you'll be amazed how greater than 720k it is...females na wa
That's hw my former roommate who travels out 2 buy things gave her ex 1M. Marriage no hold, money we no see collect.
Zuriel.
Did PC actually NOT COMMENT on this post?!! PRRRRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAIIIIISSSSE THE LORD! HALLELUJAH!
Dn't call him again go and see him face to face.
Boys dey fear this 'naked act' ehnnn, I threatened one guy with it n got his mom n sis calling n begging me like....., It was interesting sha.
Zuriel
burn down his house simple. Godforbid that this kind of thing should happen to me. i cant even take it. most people know i get crase sef. and i can never borrow. university has thought me never to "borrow" anybody something i cant dash them.
men these days. they steady be shaming their kind
cheeiii... its painful o! but that moni is too much to let go. its like u are quiet thats why he is playing wit u. carry boys and go to his house one early morning and show him the bad side of u. give him the biggest embarrasment of his life, fustrate him, go to his workplace n cause problem.
cheeiii... its painful o! but that moni is too much to let go. its like u are quiet thats why he is playing wit u. carry boys and go to his house one early morning and show him the bad side of u. give him the biggest embarrasment of his life, fustrate him, go to his workplace n cause problem.
Mine is a serious case, dunno who to tell! My bf collects all my salary 4m me! Wen he had money, he used to travel round naija with girls, to benin , to abuja.... To all big lagos clubs! But he tells me he loves me, am I foolish?
U don fall maga,u don fall maga,come to think of it o,dz guy might be in2 yahoo,,what really made the both of you not to get married sef..get to the root of this,this case sha,,if u interested my bf is a good lawyer I can tell him to help u for free #didi again
bia bia bank. and next time say lent him not borrowed him. thank me later
he is a bastard man , there are many gold digger guys like him in 9ja . i would advice you to pray about it and leave it to God . i promise you that he will have no peace till he pays you . the same happened to me
Calm in a small way sha. My yeye ex collected money come de tell me how pastor tell am mk e no marry me again oh. Sey e go die young if e marry me. Mwhle he ws owing me money (thank God I ws paying into his acct oh). As d guy no wan pay my money, I send im papa email oh with details of bank teller nos and amt. The man sha pay me oh. Cos na man wey no wan embarrassment.
Nonsense!!
An oral contract (might be difficult but) is very much enforceable by the Court of Law. See a lawyer, a scary legal letter can do wonders.
Um take him to court! He borrowed the money; he's supposed to pay it back!
My dear kidnap him on his weddin day nd make sure u demand ramsom frm his family,foolish boy omo jati jati wants to use anoda person sweat as ur own
Burn down his vehicle....keep burning them till u get ur money even if ur a millionaire .....BURN HIS CARS!!!!!
Just pray that God enter his mind
Advice to u ladies no dey borrow guys ur money they don't worth it, even if d man na ur papa he no go wan pay u back
Sell the debt to Ojuelegba area boys to collect the money from him and get a percentage of it. They will collect the money from him
oh boy collect your money o!
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U've done wat yorubas call sa-a-ra....!Goodluck!
I actually had the same issue,There are so many options to go about getting ur money but my Mom taught me the patience option so I kinda followed it (and am not normally the patient type o). months later the dude lost his job. Even though I havnt gotten my cash back but I have this satisfied feeling deep down. Just remove ur mind frm the money, God will work things out. It may not come as fast as u want, but it will eventually. I AM SURPRISED I AM GIVING THIS ADVICE SERF normally I'l say use fire and force
Girls and their way of thinking,, some are even advising her to visit babalawo,,, shame to some girls, who think not with their head.
Sweetheart you have already decided to get back your money.. It doesnt cause for any alarm,,, it's something the three of you can settle(you, the guy and the new girlfriend) like i said earlier guys don't borrow money from thier girlfriends to pay them back,, that is we dont know how to beg for money(it's natural). Just call him in a peaceful manner,, dont be arrogant.. You gave him out of love,, he can only payback out of love..
Please dont go to any babalawo.. Please
Too many foolish comments here made buy depressed old single ladies who will never find themselves in the arms of any reasonable man in their entire life. Fools! Do even try to find out y the guy left? Or cos she gave him money He ust die with her? Such actions has benefited lots of ladies who maintain their humility n stay within their boundaries after being generous as against some proud animals who cos they gave their guy money they automatically become arrogant and controlling and u expect the guy to put up with that. Some of u lack common sense that's y u remain single all ur life.
Call him with another number, record the conversation. That is your evidence. Involve the police. Thank your God you didn't marry him. He is an irresponsible fellow.
For real anonymous at 4:23pm can we be best friends!! Pls pls pls.u are a weret...I wanna be u when I grow up.
Just let it go, God will reimburse you. Shame on all you women that are saying all sorts. I'm pretty sure the guy must have also invested in her financially at some point. If na man borrow woman money we won't hear the end of it that he should be a man and forget about it. You women really need to reflect on your thinking.
It's lend not borrow and for those calling ladies selfish old singles becos of their comments here, park well jor. I am a guy and those who ask ladies for such money a re usually stingy types who don't spend on woman,. They are always looking for kind hearts to break.
Did you guys reach an understanding that the said 720 thousand naira was a loan?
Did he at any time act like he was indebted to you, like pay part of the sum at any time or do something to show indebtedness to you,or make up for the loan?
Have you physically or practically demanded for your money from him?
You must do that...
Go with a lawyer whenever you proceed to so act...
Your lawyer must be undercover or act unobtrusively at this stage..
His is to record sights and sound respecting the reaction of your ex....
The idea is to know whether he said or act in any way acknowledging his indebtedness to you...
Give him two weeks to pay up...
If he fails to pay in two weeks, your lawyer should write a letter addressed to him for him to pay up...
I leave your lawyer to finish it off...
You will get your money back...
Make you move on, some guys dey give way more than 750 and still let go, that's a chicken change. Women are too bitter, wants pay back all the time. Man be like, B!! You better go.
Lmaoooooo__U harsh oooooo___buh like seriously how can u gve ur BF money and sign agreement,someone u say u love_if na dat one we go dey sign agreement 4 each penny we gve 2 our women_dats girls 4 u...always want 2 collect....a girl would want u 2 spend money on herself and her family instead of urs...abeg park well Wats 750k??
If u guys didn't break up, would u just collect ur 750 nd never ask for extra? Idiot ur money now that u broke up but if u didn't nd he made more money u would call it our money. Odeeeeee
If u guys didn't break up, would u just collect ur 750 nd never ask for extra? Idiot ur money now that u broke up but if u didn't nd he made more money u would call it our money. Odeeeeee
1. I have my own integrity, if I happen to lend from someone, before you ask and ASAP, I will return it. Cos of personal integrity the guy should return (not cos of threat, curse...)
BUT COME HEAR THIS O BABES,
2. MOST OF THE BABES RANTING HERE ARE SINGLE GIRLS SO I CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR PLIGHT. (tongue out, giggling)
3. COME HERE CONFESSOR, TELL THE WORLD WHAT YOU HAVE BENEFITTED FROM THE RELATIONSHIP. AM SURE THIS IS THE ONLY THING YOU DID AND YOU WANT TO DIE ON TOP
4. ALL THE THINGS THE GUY BOUGHT FOR YOU, MAKE SURE YOU RETURN THEM OK? INCLUDING
*ALL THE UNDIES
*THE CLOTHES
*THE SHOES
*ALL THE GIFTS
*THE PHONES
* THE LACE WIGZ
*THE SUYA, SHAWARMA ICECREAM
* THE EATERIES
*AND THE OTHER ONES WE DON'T KNOW OF
(YALL KNOW YOURSELF-WHAT YOU COLLECT FROM GUYS)
YOU AND I KNOW THAT IF YOU REMOVE WHAT A GUY BOUGHT FROM 70% OF LADIES' POSSESSION, THEY ARE NUTS.
DID I HEAR YOU SAY GUYS BENEFIT SEX FROM BABES? FORGET IT. YOU BOTH ENJOYED IT. SEX BENEFIT MY FOOT! WHY DON'T I GO TAKE ONE STAND PAY HER 1500(yes 1500) AND FORGET THESE DRAMA CHICKS
5. YOU BETTER DON'T ALLOW JEALOUSY KILL YOU, WATCH YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE. HE'S WITH ANOTHER CHIC, DEAL WITH THAT!
5. IN A SAMPLE OF 100 RELATIONSHIPS, WHAT PERCENTAGE HAS THE BABE DOING ALL THE GIVING? MAY BE 20%. WHEN ONE BROKE ASS BABE, (WHOSE FATHER DOESN'T HAVE A SMALL BICYCLE, NEITHER BUILT A HOUSE IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE-NOW WANTING A READY MADE MAN) DOES ONE SMALL THING FOR A GUY, THE WHOLE WORLD WILL KNOW SHE MADE IT HAPPEN
6. I KNOW MANY HAVE NEVER TOUCHED 750k or HAD IT IN THEIR ACCOUNT THAT'S WHY THEY WANA HANG. SEE HOW THEY OPENED THEIR MOUTH "750 wot?"
7. IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE LIFE OF YOUR PARTNER, Y'ALL BETTER STAY SINGLE cos RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE SIDED-ITS A COMBINED EFFORT OF TWO MATURED, SELFLESS PEOPLE WHO HAVE DECIDED TO MAKE IT WORK-COS DIAS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT R/M, YOU BOTH HAVE TO MAKE IT WORK.
8. BABES FORGET IT, CURSE FROM TODAY TILL ETERNITY, NAKED YOURSELF ON THE STREET SELF, IF YOU LIKE GO SEE NATIVE DOCTOR MAKE THAT ONE SLEEP WITH YOU ONTOP OR PUT SMTH FOR YOR BODY, EXCEPT IF GOD HAS DECIDED NOT TO BLESS THE MAN. ALL THE ONES YOU HAVE CURSED, WHY ARE THEY NOT DEAD YET? NO MAN,(hear it, no man) CAN CURSE WHO GOD HAS BLESSED. Why is that guys business booming? Many of you are not sincere. Only God knows what happened between them.
9. BIA, LISTEN TO THEIR SILLY ADVICE THAT
YOU SHOULD GO SHOW HIM, AS LONG AS YOU DON'T HAVE ANY NAME/PERSONALITY TO PROTECT, THAT'S FINE!
DON'T FORGET HE WHO PULLS ANOTHER INTO A MUD REMAINS THERE HIMSELF/HERSELF.
10. SELFISH BUNCH OF HUMAN BEINGS
11. OYA START DISPLAYING SOME DEGREE OF MADNESS IF ALL AV SAID IS NOT TRUE
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If there is someone you know he respects so much (maybe his uncle, friend or senior colleague), go and tell the person. I hope he will speak to him in a better way. You didn't do anything wrong by giving him the money.
Bbz u beta give him a show down, drama would bring out ur money u beta stop ur sme sme, money no go comot frm eniwhere sam sam, trust me daats hw I collected mine, his whole estate shook outta embarrassment he paid me in cash 2daez later, involve police, area Boyz Enitin 10k na in u fit looze Cuz u must roger dem Beht bbz collect ur money, wth were u even thinking gvn him dat lot! My present bf loves me nw soo much Cuz wen he asks I sai no! Btw he gvz me dats hw ts meant to be! U better collect ur money or u'll hate urself 4eva 4 being used sexually and financially!
If there is someone you know he respects so much (maybe his uncle, friend or senior colleague), go and tell the person. I hope he will speak to him in a better way. You didn't do anything wrong by giving him the money.
thank God its your money, worst case scenario is if u had borrowed the money for him, this is a big lesson for females to learn from, i learnt mine not too long ago, it was beyond terrible, most importantly i've learnt my lesson!
I believe in one thing dat wen u deprive people of wat belongs 2 dem u get failure in all u do. My dear, let go of d money and move on wit ur life. Fine d business is blowing @ d moment buh i assure u it's gonna crash sooner or later. Then he might come back 2 u pretending he has realised his mistakes, mind u 'wen ur past calls it has nothing new 2 say'.
OMG!!!!,NAIJA!!!!......u r being begged 2 advise ha on d way out not 2 CRITICISE nd CRUCIFY ha....ahhh,oga oh!...aniwae babi,u just try 911,cases lyk ds ar treated in d customary court...
I believe in one thing dat wen u deprive people of wat belongs 2 dem u get failure in all u do. My dear, let go of d money and move on wit ur life. Fine d business is blowing @ d moment buh i assure u it's gonna crash sooner or later. Then he might come back 2 u pretending he has realised his mistakes, mind u 'wen ur past calls it has nothing new 2 say'.
I believe in one thing dat wen u deprive people of wat belongs 2 dem u get failure in all u do. My dear, let go of d money and move on wit ur life. Fine d business is blowing @ d moment buh i assure u it's gonna crash sooner or later. Then he might come back 2 u pretending he has realised his mistakes, mind u 'wen ur past calls it has nothing new 2 say'.
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Remember the bible says it is more blessed to give than to receive...it feels bad but what is 720k compared to the millions you will be making in future or your good heart? Back in school in 2007, a friend borrowed 100k from me but till date has not repaid. I felt very bad at first but God so blessed me that before we left school in 2008, I got a good job. Now I earn my money in dollars. That 100k doesn't mean a thing to me anymore. God has blessed you already, don't do anything that would take your future from your hands.
EYAA, SUM GUYZ CAN BE REALLY WICKED AND UNGRATEFUL. MY DEAR,I ENCOURAGE U TO ASK HIM FOR IT ONCE MORE IF HE DOES NOTTIN ABOUT IT U LEAVE HIM BUT USE THE MOUTH U HAVE AGAINST HIM,U RE A WOMAN AND OUT OF OUR MOUTH CUMS BLESSING AND CURSE,ANY WORD U USE AGAINST HIM WILL SURELY COME TO PASS COS EVEN THE BIBLE RECORDED DAT A MAN SHOULD PAY BACK TO THE WIFE WENEVER HE BORROWS MONEY FROM HER TALK OF UR CASE WERE U 2 ARE NOT MARRIED CURSE THE HELL OUT OF HIM,HE WILL RUN BANKRUPT, RUBBISH.I HATE IT WEN MEN FEELS THEY ARE SMART. USE THE MOUTH GOD GAVE GIRL,U WILL SEE HIM RUNNING BACK FOR FORGIVENESS.
Calling 911! Can not solve d problem d best thing is 6or u to confront him as u go ensure u ar with recording garget as u gain conversation wt him ensure u make. Say thing like am sorry pls i will Pay u later make sure u mention the amount even how he collectd d money,make him say things that will implicate him dont be violet a
@ initial stage.if he did not agree to pay @ d time u want him to pay u then become violent let all be on record so that when u present it to d police if he denies if u present d evidence
My dear, mine s over 1.5m, but as God would have it am married to him 2day, so I let it go. On the other hand my cousin ex still has her money she given up. 1st rule I would teach my growing daughter, u can give with sense but never borrow. Money wen them borrow man na heavy bear bear bank. Nne break his windscreen then 4get the money.
lol, iv borrowed an ex 5k before just because he knew hw much i liked him...he was an asshole and never gave me my money back.
Ah its happend to me I gave one yeye banker boy friend money and he refused to pay men back one dey I just storm his branch do small show down as if that one no work I reported him to my MD who gave him 24hours atumatum to refund my money cos he manages one of our accounts and didn't want to loss it. My annoyance was that dis guys dosent give me money he just f**k osho free and my salary was 30k and he earns 200k then men are wicked *cry*
Out of context
The man should be able to take care of u not the other way round
STOP THROWING UR MONEY ON THESE MEN
Ahmed-whats lost is lost.You have lost your relationship and money too.Let it go so you can move on.
let it go so you can move on.it's a bad debt which often comes with bad relationship
you should have put his name so people will hear and shame go catch am
sue his freaking butt,he gat to pay u
For u to give dat kind of money mean say u fit make billions..... Forget dat money. Get busy with ur life and Send him more... maybe 1 million. e go be like rat wer chop kill and dry...
Tank your God say u no marry d kind person sef...
y d rvers dis days? men do d sitin yl women do d wok n bring moni hom ehn. its rily pain4. hmmm! jst lyk d oda persn said, go naked @ 12am n pray 2God instead of curse.
My dear sister, my honest advice is, don't fight him. Gently ask him for the money and if he doesn't give you, take it to God in prayers. He will surely answer you. You will be so so surprised when this same guy will run back to you begging for forgiveness. Av always known that silence is golden . Besides, vengeance is God's. So, hold your peace, and let God fight the battle for you.
My dear, don't fight him. Ask him for your money and if it is clear that he doesn't want to pay, leave it for God and move on. Let his conscience judge him. I've always known that vengeance is for God. You will see how this same guy will come looking for you to apologize.
Baddest! Na ur advice sure pass. I hope she sees this.
Gosh! U must be really poor. Eyaaah.... Stella Oduah and Co, see what Una don cause.
That money na money for his prick wey u don enjoy wella. As is d case with a girlfriend a guy gv money, so also is this case.
I am a woman and my number one rule is never give a guy kobo, if a man needs money he should go to the bank and I never tell a man how much am earning, if am worth 10 million Naira today a man will never know, if am given bonus, I never tell him, I get a raise at work, even promotion, I will never tell. I told my guy that my salary is actually less than it is, I was once given a bonus at work and I told the man I am dating and watched him the next few days he started hammering on the fact that I had money and I should not ask him, I gave him a serious show down verbally of course. Since then I have been given a raise twice and very fat bonus this year, I did not tell him. Because the truth is in this part of the word men can be very lousy. Once a man has enough money in his pocket he will start giving it to another woman out there.Always remain the woman in a relationship. It is in the bible he should be the provider.
my dear, can not try to give any man called lover or boyfriend kobo from my pocket becos they do not worth it. i except who i have wedded with,i call my husband. take heart dear and suemhim to court pls
my dear, can not try to give any man called lover or boyfriend kobo from my pocket becos they do not worth it. i except who i have wedded with,i call my husband. take heart dear and suemhim to court pls
anonymous 4:19pm you dey crase....dont you know the meaning of borrow? even if they married he should be gentleman enough to pay her back cos its borrow not dash....its called integrity...if i ask my husband to borrow me money i pay back, if he chooses to dash me fine....if i ask for dash then i know its dash...she should collect her money from him cos its borrow but first report him to someone he respects in his family...if he doesn't agree then dem go tear trouser be dat....
Y do I have the feeling that my ex posted this. It was a 150k n I won't rest til I give her that money cos its the only thing that reminds me of her
dem neva born dat man wey i go carry my hard earned money give because na my bf... husbanb, yes but not bf...nonsense...
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