Dear LIB readers: A man wants to pay me off to leave my girlfriend
From a male LIB reader
I've been dating this lady for about two years now and she has been pressuring me to propose. We are both 29 and sincerely I am not ready to get married but I do like her and want to continue the relationship but amazingly about a week ago I got a call from a man offering me N500, 000 to end my relationship with her. The man is my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend who went to America 7 years ago. He's back in Nigeria now and wants to marry her but she told him she's in a relationship with me and can't leave me. I think he believes he can get her if I'm out of the picture hence the offer. I really like this lady but N500, 000 is a lot of money, I'm tempted to take it, especially since I am not ready to settle down. If I take it would that make me a bad person? I want my girlfriend to be happy and getting married would make her happy, so I would be doing her a favour by letting her go I think.
No be ur mate dey marry? Abeg free dis gal jo, like her a lot no be even luv sef so do u need anybody to tell u to go get dat money and leave her alone men dey vex me dis is same as a dog chasing a car he has no plan of driving
Trust me guy, that could be a trial just to prove your love for her. I know money talks and shit happens...but would u like seriously give her up for money? I bet u don't really know what u want.
U cant eat your cake and have it! anytg done outside the fear of GOD will not always end well. Ur relationship wt her is purposeless, leave her and dont take the mony. Ur relationship with her will not give her happiness.
U cant eat your cake and have it! anytg done outside the fear of GOD will not always end well. Ur relationship wt her is purposeless, leave her and dont take the mony. Ur relationship with her will not give her happiness.
Firstly, you are already sounding like U r gonna accept the money but then, looking at it critically, fine u think letting her go and get married to the man will make her happy but her refusal to let go of you despite you not showing any sign of proposing to a lady of 29 shows that she is so much in love with you and i bet you, if you let her go, i doubt if she'll be happy in that marriage; come to think of it, there is nothing hidden under the sun my brova, one way or the other, the lady will ONE DAY get to know he offered you money to let her go, mark my word. if you ask me, i'll say, come out straight to her, let her know you are not ready for marriage, if she wanna stay, she'll stay but she is 29 mehn! thats hard! after telling her, try and study her reaction, if she didn't feel too okay with it, go ahead and collect the monet before she says YES to the other guy o ... dont lose in both ways. This is a very serious matter mehn, wish U luck. ff @gr8akin
u're wicked nd selfish, u're nt doing it bcos u want 2 make her hapi cos if d money was nt involve u won't think of breakn up wit her even if u're nt ready yet. So I will say u're doing it 4 d money nt her happiness.
Guy r u sure u love this girl n truly want her to be happy? Whats half a million to happiness? If u r not ready to settle down,tell her n let her decide.Linda no find my trouble o,post my comment
True L♥√ε̲̣̣̣̥ is a beautiful thing. If u loss it, U may not get it back in your entire life.
As for me, I'm undiluted igbo boy and I advice, you forget the money once you are very sure she loves you deeply and you derieve great pleasure in loving her back. Show her how commited you are to her. 500K is NO money.
Really? well, if this is true.... dude, is #500k ur worth or the worth of ur luv 4her? U c, im a guy, but i kno if u luv the gurl as u claim & u promise nt 2 betray her, she wl wait 4u till u r readdy 2 marry her. this v learnt 4rm few ladies v interacted with. if u dont luv her or u nt sure of getin married to her.. leave without d money, coz if u take it.. u v a definite price tag on u 4eva.
The man must be a punk. N500k, the girl is an angel or what? He went to "america" and doesn't have the ability to find another girl he LEFT YEARS AGO? LAME. Take the money, then tell your girlfriend
The man must be a punk. N500k, the girl is an angel or what? He went to "america" and doesn't have the ability to find another girl he LEFT YEARS AGO? LAME. Take the money, then tell your girlfriend
Nice thought sha, letting her go would gv her the oppurtunity to get married but not sure her heart would be for that guy. N/B: ask him to add more money, don't be cheap!!
My advice to you and what I would have done if am in your shoe is, I will sit the girl down and let her know that am not ready to marry now,if. She can wait till when am ready FINE but if she can't that she should move on and get married to whosoever that is ready, I will also let her know about the proposal from the ex-boyfrd,anything she says will be okay by me either to take the money or not.
Even if you don't take the money, she will still leave you cos she's so desperate right now. She made that move and a smart one at that cos she thinks that will push you to proposing rather than lose her to her ex. Right now, all she wants is Marriage and nothing more. So I'd say follow your mind cos whatever you do, you ain't ready to settle down and she is.
The fact that this guy is considering taking the money says a lot. Guy you obviously don't love your girlfriend, 500k for real how cheap can one be? When a man truly loves a woman, he won't be thinking of the fact that he's not ready for marriage instead, he'll be thinking of how to work towards marriage even if it'll take him time to be fully prepared, he wouldn't consider letting go of his love.
That d thing with u guys so sure u never loved her in d 1st place cos if u do u wnt b thinking abt such it clear money is ur problem.It better u walk away bcos u dnt want to settle down now rather than been so cheap
LOL...500k????....lot of money??? Are u sure??? Think of how u gonna spend it!! Is it worth it?? You don't love her!!!! Selling your love for that kind of cheap amount??? Oh christ....this guy is joking... Yes!!! This is a BIG joke.... U'll find no love again 'I think'(in ur words)better hold her tight nd fuck 500k(imagine d amount sef)....I'll swear for u if I'm in her shoes walahi
Usually I'm not a violent person but I can't resist the urge to call you an Idiot.Take the money now and lose the best thing that would have probably happened to ur lame life.
From what i see you don't love that girl cos if you do you won't even be thinking leaving her in exchange for money if you know you are not ready for marriage now tell her your mind let her be the one to make her decision and if she is yours she will definitely be yours and please my candid advice;don't collect any money from her ex cos that is peanut to compare to your girlfriend that will vanish before a twinkle of an eye and you will definitely regret it.
If u r even considering d taking d money, dat goes 2 show u wil neva b ready 2 marry her. Let her go if u knw u dnt luv her enough 2 marry her. And b man enough not 2 take d money. At least, if u ever cared an ounce 4 her. If she wanna marry her ex, it is her choice. But dnt keep 4 ur own selfish satisfaction..
its too sad because you already made a decision and you just need people to tell you its ok. First you don't love this lady for you to even have second thoughts about the offer because love is priceless and for just 500k you will sacrifice your love? you said getting married will make her happy so its a favour to her thats funny your making excuses for your betrayal the lady is in love with you and not her ex. But you know what i don't think you deserve her since you think 500k is more important than her so please let her go and find true love . its really sad how true love is hard to find this days.
500k is a lot of money as you rightly said but again,depending on who you asked. To some people,it might not be enough to sacrifice ones love or "like" for,as you put it. However,if you think the amount is worth it for you,depending on your present circumstances,hence you are still not ready to get married at 29,then you can accept the offer and move on and your girlfriend should be wise enough also to move on quickly and face a future that might be more certain because truth is,you might not even be ready for this girl in the near future if the 500k ransom is that attractive and my girl at 29 is turning to a mini auty.
Well dude,mayb u shld let her go bt don't collect d mony,cos if u do u jst sold ur love and if she eventually finds out which she wil she wil b hurt for live.for all u knw it mite even b a set up.so don't collect d mony and let her go since u aint ready to marry her yet.tonia
First of all LMAO , number one 500,000 isn't that much money in my own opinion . Clearly she really likes you hence why she said to him she can't leave you , if she was desperate to get married she wouldn't have said she is in a relationship with you. Tell what he said
Watin money go cause ehn,chai we N̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̇̇ go fit use wheelbarrow pack am. My guy if U̶̲̥̅̊ are not ready †☺ marry her collect ūя̲̅ money and zoom off, buh if U̶̲̥̅̊ want her teLl the guy †☺ parkwell. Shikena!!!
I guess its a setup from her to know if u preferred her to a mere 500k. If u love her enough, why don't u wanna settle down with her?? Obviously if u tell her its over between d both of u , the ex bf will hv an advantage and he, the ex bf will also see u as not loving or deserving her. He will surely tell her u collect 500k from him.hold on to ur woman bro
Ole!!!! Elenu fe fen fen fe bi igba sakara!!! U nefa Loved her b4 dat am sure off! So if I ask u 2 cut of ur sumtin 4 mi now 4 N10M u wld bah! O geh if ur reading dis abeg pack ur load n move on nt 2 d oda doucheBag too tho..... *SipsAkamu* #Okybye
Guy...its people like u dat make women dream dreams that will never come to pass...y r u selfish..she is 29years n not married wtf..I am 21 n hope to b married by 24 so I ope to never meet someone like u..pls leave her be...dats d biggest favor u can do for her...sylvia says so
Hahaaaa..tuff 1! Buh dude believe me..if I was d 1 I wud take d money o...cnt get into any serious relationship that wud b too strong to regret such cash b4 marriage!! :D. Omreova she is getting old..marry her or let her go jo!!
Must u collect the money to make her happy, if really u want her to be happy then tell her to get married and don't collect the money. Though the most important thing is seeking the face of God to know if she is your wife or not.
Wow! Dis is hard though buh I fink letting her go is a good 1 since u ain't ready 2 settle down and she is buh don't do dat becos of d money do it becos u want her 2 be happy linda plz post my comment I always comment buh u hardly post it
Dude, 4u to even consider leaving ur gf 4 dat amount...U dnt LOVE her ENOUGH... Biko! Leave her alone 4 sm1 who wud VALUE her.. It may nt b her Ex but sm1 who won't trade her 4 anytin.Its painful dat u wanna leave ur gf 4 money but its even more painful d amount u want to leave her for...#nuffsaid.
Ole, na wa for men.. collect the money jour. After all with or with out the money u stil won't marry tht gal the next 5 yrs.. tel the yanki booboo to add.. hin dey craze 500k is too smal to fashi d babe, why him bin run befor? He took his chances. she wil be in d know sooner or lata, in other for u nt to look cheap befor them both, he should make it at lest 1.5..if u were my Bro I would tell u thesame. shine ur eyez.
500k ke that's chicken change na. So that's what's she is worth to the Americana. Na wah pls let the girl know before u let her go. Before the guy starts pimping her around. That's modern day slavery as far as I am concerned. Very wicked plan
The truth is you have made up your mind to take that money, don't use u want ur Gf to be happy and gatting married would; as an excuse.....u leave her or u don't,its still her decision who she wants.she might end up not choosing the other guy...so try nd discover what she wants
U dont love her ,u buffoon!here's whats gonna happen.she's gonna find out u "sold her off " to another guy .she'll hate the guy and hate u too.theen she'll end up being miserable and unhappy . Then she'll swear for u and u'll end up bin raped by four alhajis .pretty picture abi ?
if u really want her happy nd u arent ready for marriage as tht will make her happy,tell her point blnk,nd dnt go collectin tht money cos trust me its not tht much,let d babe go if u 2 arent on d same page,500k will finish nd life they say goes on,its a sum u will or can still dash out nd u ll look back to a day like ths nd smile.... Shallom!
Smh you are a kinda guy we ladies should never pray to meet at all. 500k is a lot of money?really?such a low life.Hiss
My anger apart,dont ever sell your love even if its 5billion naira.you are not ready to marry this girl,okay leave her to choose between americana and you.If she loves you and if its God's will,she will wait till you are ready,what is chasing her?by the way what is americana feeling like?coming back after how many years and he wants to use $3086 to get his woman.and to think the girl gave him your number to call you and offer you money.The 3 of you need to be caged,i don't think you people are normal.Back to my lunch.Katikati
UNBELIEVABLE!!! I had to read this post again to be sure I didn't see 50m... I am sorry to say but If u are wiling to throw away a relationship of 2years for a gurl u like den U actually never liked her and She doesn't deserve u either... I pity ur future wife cos U wld def. give her out for a million naira after 4yrs... SMH FOR SOME GUYS SHA!!!!
U are a very money minded person.now that money is included as an offer u are more than 90% ready to leave yr galfreind.anyways in all indications it shows that you are not ready to settle down.i will advice you to let da gal go without collecting the money if you really love her.
live is so short, so dnt mess with the girls hrt... let her go!!! think of something gud to do with the ..... so 1 day u can as well paid some1 off...:)
The fact that you are even considering taking the money means you don't deserve her. Be a man and walk away . . . leave her to marry the guy (if she wants). Please don't take the money now and incur curses for yourself in the future.
Do what you gotta do bruv and stop wasting the girl's time. Since u are not interested in getting married to her you might as well get paid for doing the noble thing. Look at it form this perspective; option 1 continue lying to her and keep her in a r/ship that's headed nowhere soon. Option 2 dump her at a time there's someone around to pick her up, wipe her tears and give her her heart's desire(marriage). U can as well get paid for doing the right thing.
Ika,oponu akinrada.You're a greedy man and sure don't deserve her.You're ready to sell your 2yr relationship?Yes,it makes you a bad person.I'm sure you're Igbo.
Guy, you dont want to marry this lady,let her go whether or not you collect 500 grand.Collecting the money is left to ur conscience,but pls let her GO,STOP WASTING HER TIME.
My broad, no collect ani moni u hear mi? Moni no b everytin. Again, since u don confess say u NEVA READY to mariiiii, den free ds babe . Second tin b say, ur conscience no go eva let u rest lia lia......I tell u! Abeg free d babe n God no go give u anoda man wife ni oruko Jesu. Amiiiiiiin.
you forgot to add that you will be doing your selfish and greedy self a favor not her from what I just read you don't love her cos if you do even 500 million would not make you sacrifice your love for anybody money is not love and don't forget this might be the biggest mistake of your life YOU AIN'T EVEN KNOW IT
My broad, no collect ani moni u hear mi? Moni no b everytin. Again, since u don confess say u NEVA READY to mariiiii, den free ds babe . Second tin b say, ur conscience no go eva let u rest lia lia......I tell u! Abeg free d babe n God no go give u anoda man wife ni oruko Jesu. Amiiiiiiin.
Only children want to eat their cake and have it. You do not love this lady, rather you are using her probably for sex until you are financially stable to find the 'right' kind of woman to settle down with.
How can you say you are not ready for marriage yet you do not wish to leave her and even tempted to settle for ordinary N500,000? Are you sure if the need for a ritual that will fetch you ordinary N10million arise, you will not use her for it?
Stop using women. Grow up first before getting involved in a relationship because your mom, sister and future daughter are women. If you insist on "eating you cake and having it", be sure Karma measures to all as you measure to others.
At 29 years? Do not spoil her chances because by the time you are ready to settle down, you will say "she is too old for you"...Selah
U have to follow ur sub conscious mind. I had a similar challage early dis year but I let my girl go with no pay off. Am not ready 4 marriage and I can't collect anda man's sweat for no reason. Bros today am doing good, maybe that cash cld hv been my down fall. Wish her well! Ladies tym they pass than guys. Gudluck
First time ever to comment on LIB......its obvious you don't like the lady at all, talk more of loving her. Let her be cos she is not getting any younger.
I wish ur gf will see this and like go of such an idiot like u... 500k wey u go blow jst nw. If u collect the money I bet u won't do anything good wit it.
mate. d fact that uve thought of taking the money u might as well just take it. uve already registered d fact dat she is worth 500k in ur head so d offence has already been committed. am not gonna slander u cos i dont knw ur financial situation but dats pretty low for someone u claim u luv. she ought too be priceless in ur eyez. so grab d dutch before she does nigga.
My dear young man, There are two thing involve. 1)Its either its a test to see what really matters to you, or 2)He sees something in her you have found, and being wise, he wants it for himself.
So you can either 1)Sell her for 500,000 divided by the two years you'hv known her, plus all the expenses you made. Then sit back and ask if you did the right thing, or 2)Suck it up, put a bloody ring on her freaking finger and tell mr janded lover boy, you have been doing just fine before you knew he existed.
lindhoney post me comment, am asking nicely with strawberry cupcakes on top or....
Free the babe. You clearly don't deserve her. For you to even consider taking money for someone you claim you like, I feel sorry for the babe you do marry as she might end up as offering to Obatala or whatever devil people worship to get money. Shame.
So you want advise? Here is some. The fact that you even gave the offer a second thought means you will make a horrible husband. The fact that you have thrown the decision to bloggers , oh just makes me weep for the girl. Please, please take the money. You are the type that use their loved ones for rituals. It is evident you don't Love this girl. You don't understand the meaning of it. Please go and sort out your problems. They are many and marriage isn't one of them.
Can you just stop fooling yourself that you love the lady? If you really love her as you claimed, you will never think of accepting the money. And I will warn you to be careful, cos it might be a set-up to get you into jail to get rid of you. Be wise about it. You don't need his money, you're just being greedy.
this gist doesn't seem real to me,500,000 when de man can marry de lady without giving any reason to do so,unless the gurl in question wants to know how committed u re. so do not be stupid.
Miscreants like this are the reason this present society is going downhill in the area of relationships! What a shameless NASTY person you are. Why don't you reveal your name so this unfortunate girl who has wasted her affections on you, can happily move on?!! The sad fact is that there are many relationships just like this. Ladies, shine your eyes, if a guy tells you he is not ready, pocket your emotions and ZAP!!
Nigerians...who's this one bringing tribe into this matter again? Anyway dude, it's quite obvious u don't love her. If u did, u wouldn't be thinking of taking the offer....however she's 29 n too old for games if ure not headed anywhere, let her go. But please, taking the money's not ideal I mean ur reputation's at stake(if u care about it) and she'll probably find out later on.....c'mon someone u were able to date 4 2years should be worth more than 500k now...haba!
Mad boi, just tek di moni cos u don't even luv dat woman judging from what i read, you've already made up ur mind, so my broda, help yourself wit di moni cos it seems u really need it since u call it big money,and you'll also be helping dat young lady who will be in better hands.
Guy, if someone offers the girl 500K to leave you she will probably dump your poor azz! For sanity sake just collect the 500k and go start your runs, that is if the offer is genuine. She wants to get married and start a family and you are not ready yet. Take the money!!!!
Dude are this cheap and for real?? If he talking 2mill thats when i might to consider.500k is just way too small....ThirstNiggahOfLife get a job alrdy!! Smh*
Oloriburuku, pls take the money and disappear. Its obvious you dont love her since ordinary 500k is shacking your proverty ridden arse. Sounds like she is too good for you. Pls move on and go get a village girl that you deserve. Alainin kan she.
Guy,na setup...money is spiritual, trust me..I won't go into further details. Drop the girl,let the dude know you're not interested and watch film from sidelines..in a few years 500K will be nothing to you.
So na only Igbo people like money? Well if you want to remain poor as you are now, God go assist you. People wey dey sound like you if someone offer them 500k dem go sell all their family members and every teeth wey dey your mouth. Tribalistic retard!!!
fool! that's what you are. 500k to do what? it would buy you nothing. in fact, your girlfriend is cheap. if you love her she should be priceless. if otherwise 500k is too small, tell him 5m will do.
Niggers, chai! I dont know why for you guys everything has to be a game. For a girl you claim you really love and you are considering collecting money in place of her?? To sad to think of it. I think you should break up with her cos this has shown that you dont have her intrest at heart @ all.
The lady doesn't love you anymore , how did you think the man got your number. They've discussed it and the girl is all out to rid herself of you. You take the money , you'll never have self respect for yourself even if you find yourself in on mars. You'll for ever live as a ......sucker .Tell the girl or whatever her name is that since she finds it appropriate to suggest it , tell him to pay the money into the girls account and bid both of them fair well
You all should shut up!!!!! Because it is a man involved,you all are saying this.. What if it was a woman? You peeps would say God has buttered her bread.. Bro collect your money and leave
why using all sorts of words on the man? cos it is a man involved? now, what if it was a lady? what will you dude say? Guy dnt mind anyone oo.. collect the money and leave
Funny enough, this could actually be a point that her ex-boyfriend is trying to make to her in an effort to win her back. So if this useless boyfriend agrees to take the money, he would lose his girlfriend and probably not even get the measly 500K. She needs to just keep praying and the Lord will bring her correct husband, maybe the ex from yankee or someone else. As for this one...SMH.
You obviously are not "IN LOVE" with your girlfriend and probably still dating her for some kind of gain, i personally believe financial. Maybe your gf is financially more stable than you are, hence why her ex bf's offer is appealing to you or maybe your just plain greedy! I believe this is a wake up call for your relationship. You don't even love her enough to find it insulting or belittling that some next guy want to try to buy your gf off you. This is someones life you are playing with, stop playing with her and be man. I guess you don't know what being a real man consist of, because by now should have cut off your losses with her.
Lili pls sometimes upload d pictures of pple like dis Dude asking dis stupid question here cos person suppose jam dis dude 4 road nd give am better holyghost slap. Choi! imagine! d imbecile. yea u may hav a dick bt u aint a man silly.
The new guy must have observed that he badly needs money and that's why he's even offering. In such cases, guys resort to threatening or taking drastic measures. He knows he won't reject the offer.
N500,000 Only. Cheap ass. That amount can not even afford you something tangible. Whatever you use that money for will be a waste. Please just let the woman go. The fact that you considered letting her go for such a trivial amount proves 2 things: i) you are broke ii) she deserves better.
Dare i say that you leave her for free if it is out of love [for her] and knowing you are not ready to give her what she wants now. Let the guy keep his money and if she goes to him she should also know that he was willing to pay you off to get her. No money needs to be exchanged. Free yourself for free and watch what happens.
My guy, its clear you are not ready for marriage. So talk to your girl friend, especially on that point of fact. Reach an amicable agreement on let go...Take your money and free her for the man that's ready to marry her...
Let's analyze this case. 1. For u to consider 500,000 naira a lot of money, it means u re a broke ass nigga. U aint ready to get married, and u won't even be ready in the next 6 years. And by then, she'll be 35. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks with a broke nigga like u. 2. For u to even consider taking the money, it means u are a good for nothing mother fucker. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks to an ass wipe like you. 3. Have u considered the fact that maybe the ex is trying to get her back, and he has told her that if he offers u money, u'll let her go, and this is all a test??? I know u didn't think about that. Meaning u are a irrepentant block head. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't realize and still sticks with you. 4. I hope she sees this comment and dumps u, bitch. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't.
Let's analyze this case. 1. For u to consider 500,000 naira a lot of money, it means u re a broke ass nigga. U aint ready to get married, and u won't even be ready in the next 6 years. And by then, she'll be 35. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks with a broke nigga like u. 2. For u to even consider taking the money, it means u are a good for nothing mother fucker. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks to an ass wipe like you. 3. Have u considered the fact that maybe the ex is trying to get her back, and he has told her that if he offers u money, u'll let her go, and this is all a test??? I know u didn't think about that. Meaning u are a irrepentant block head. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't realize and still sticks with you. 4. I hope she sees this comment and dumps u, bitch. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't.
it makes you a bad person actually don't try and justify it by saying you need the money and she wants to get married if you guys actually love each other you guys need to talk about this tell her you are just not ready to get married and if she doesn't listen your lady is yet to come I don't think you should take the money it seems wrong like you are selling her away I don't think you want to be sold but again it depends on how badly you need the money and if you're just trying to make ends meet that's not a good reason God will provide but if you sell her away that's the end forever just think about it if I fully knew you're situation I would tell you what to do Love from Miami
Hay! Mr chairman wise up..she don tell u abt d man b4? If not, na set up u dey ooo. Dats anoda movie title..she mait wnt to knw if u really worth d wait...tink "2"wise...
foolish! you obviously do not love her....u even used the erm "like" after 2 years into a relationship...your not that into her...pls place yourself in the background....no one cares abt u kmt
see me this one... you date a girl for 2 years and you "LIKE" her not love! be a man, let her go and if u r sooo broke to let go for 500000 take teh money n go n hide urself
Its called terminal benefit,so make sure he pays cash now its not about love or crap you guys don't have a future together so you have urself a leaving bonus... Take it and set ur life up don't waste it dating another gal find a gal you can marry and get a job
Wow shocking!!! The fact that you are actually considering taking the money shows how less of a man you are portraying yourself to be.
As the saying goes if you think the devil has come to steal, lie and destroy then you haven't meant 'MOST' naija men and this applies in this situation.
Its called terminal benefit,so make sure he pays cash now its not about love or crap you guys don't have a future together so you have urself a leaving bonus... Take it and set ur life up don't waste it dating another gal find a gal you can marry and get a job
LMAO! She's going to end up leaving you sooner than later if you won't marry her. Her ex is back in the picture, ready to marry her, has money, and will likely take her on trips to yankee. This is a win-loose situation. Use your head.
Thank God for LIB, I am leaving you for good, do not bother calling my number again, it's over btw us. I know you sent this. I won't go back to my ex! True love will find me, thanks all.
You are a selfish idiot and may u remain single forever...500k...Only? And you are confused? U go build house with it or buy car? Nna?... Please let her go...u are a very immature man...and you don't deserve her... I hope she reads Linda blog and able to decipher that it is her...so she runs fast from u!
Dude don't use ur own hands and place a curse on urself...if u don't intend 2 marry her just tell d truth,collecting money 4rm d guy 2 break up wit her is wrong,u neva knw she might bring goodluck 2 u in future,loosing a nice girl 4 500k is insane,if a girl can be wit u 4 2yrs don't throw it away 4 500k...u are a man u can mak more dan dat in future not by selling ur girl 2 her ex...
Please just leave her cos she means nothing to u. Let her go and be happy cos u even thinking about this shows u have no respect for her and you are not ready to settle down. Collect the money and leave her. Its for her own benefit. She is worth more than a useless dude like u! FYI - This is a guy commenting!
Hahahahahaha...I'd TAKE IT!!!...500k for someone that is not family, someone I don't give a fuck about...someone I DON'T LOVE!!, if this payment was for human trafficking then shit, I wouldn't but this ex-nigger loves her enough to pay 500k...wouldn't be a stupid motherfucker to stand in the way of true love plus I'll get 500k for paving the way for their love...TAKE IT! TAKE IT! TAKE IT!!!...You're super lucky dude.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 447 Newer› Newest»wahala..ma guy chop your money jare, thats if you dont feel ready / she doesnt feel like "the One"
If u truly love her and want to make her happy by letting her go and marry some one, u sld do dat without colleting money from d other guy
No be ur mate dey marry? Abeg free dis gal jo, like her a lot no be even luv sef so do u need anybody to tell u to go get dat money and leave her alone men dey vex me dis is same as a dog chasing a car he has no plan of driving
trust me 500,000 naira IS SOOO NOT A LOT OF MONEY!!!dat money will finish before your breakup speak is over!!!
Trust me guy, that could be a trial just to prove your love for her. I know money talks and shit happens...but would u like seriously give her up for money? I bet u don't really know what u want.
Take the money while the offer is still open bruh. She'd leave you for him eventually. Be smart
U cant eat your cake and have it! anytg done outside the fear of GOD will not always end well. Ur relationship wt her is purposeless, leave her and dont take the mony. Ur relationship with her will not give her happiness.
U cant eat your cake and have it! anytg done outside the fear of GOD will not always end well. Ur relationship wt her is purposeless, leave her and dont take the mony. Ur relationship with her will not give her happiness.
=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º=)) ur a joka!!!!
Firstly, you are already sounding like U r gonna accept the money but then, looking at it critically, fine u think letting her go and get married to the man will make her happy but her refusal to let go of you despite you not showing any sign of proposing to a lady of 29 shows that she is so much in love with you and i bet you, if you let her go, i doubt if she'll be happy in that marriage; come to think of it, there is nothing hidden under the sun my brova, one way or the other, the lady will ONE DAY get to know he offered you money to let her go, mark my word. if you ask me, i'll say, come out straight to her, let her know you are not ready for marriage, if she wanna stay, she'll stay but she is 29 mehn! thats hard! after telling her, try and study her reaction, if she didn't feel too okay with it, go ahead and collect the monet before she says YES to the other guy o ... dont lose in both ways. This is a very serious matter mehn, wish U luck. ff @gr8akin
ist person , abeg go collect the money befor she liv you for not bn ready 2 marry her
Young man, don't take that money, love is not someone can buy,if she even live you, God will give you your love.
No 1) ur gf na mumu. No 2) u b mumu,beta collect d cash plenty babes dey
u're wicked nd selfish, u're nt doing it bcos u want 2 make her hapi cos if d money was nt involve u won't think of breakn up wit her even if u're nt ready yet. So I will say u're doing it 4 d money nt her happiness.
Guy r u sure u love this girl n truly want her to be happy? Whats half a million to happiness? If u r not ready to settle down,tell her n let her decide.Linda no find my trouble o,post my comment
Bro go n cash out plsssssss....
Brovaa abeg take ur money, anoda babe go come.......LinLin, ma commento has to b processed OOº°˚˚˚˚°ºO
I feel you are not going to marry her,just tell her the truth so she can focus,all this young guys out there wasting the precious time of young girls
Let her go but turn down the offer. It may be tempting now but on the long run, you will be glad you did.
True L♥√ε̲̣̣̣̥ is a beautiful thing. If u loss it, U may not get it back in your entire life.
As for me, I'm undiluted igbo boy and I advice, you forget the money once you are very sure she loves you deeply and you derieve great pleasure in loving her back. Show her how commited you are to her. 500K is NO money.
Dude, by considering the offer, u sound selfish already. U dont like ths babe for keeps, let her know, rather than selling her off. 500k izz notin!
Really? well, if this is true.... dude, is #500k ur worth or the worth of ur luv 4her? U c, im a guy, but i kno if u luv the gurl as u claim & u promise nt 2 betray her, she wl wait 4u till u r readdy 2 marry her. this v learnt 4rm few ladies v interacted with. if u dont luv her or u nt sure of getin married to her.. leave without d money, coz if u take it.. u v a definite price tag on u 4eva.
The man must be a punk. N500k, the girl is an angel or what? He went to "america" and doesn't have the ability to find another girl he LEFT YEARS AGO? LAME. Take the money, then tell your girlfriend
The man must be a punk. N500k, the girl is an angel or what? He went to "america" and doesn't have the ability to find another girl he LEFT YEARS AGO? LAME. Take the money, then tell your girlfriend
If you collect the money, you are dumbass. How much is 500k...in naira. Even considering him, is stupid.
Nice thought sha, letting her go would gv her the oppurtunity to get married but not sure her heart would be for that guy. N/B: ask him to add more money, don't be cheap!!
U r a greedy and selfish guy. Just let the unfortunate girl go and be happy with the real man.
My advice to you and what I would have done if am in your shoe is, I will sit the girl down and let her know that am not ready to marry now,if. She can wait till when am ready FINE but if she can't that she should move on and get married to whosoever that is ready, I will also let her know about the proposal from the ex-boyfrd,anything she says will be okay by me either to take the money or not.
Even if you don't take the money, she will still leave you cos she's so desperate right now. She made that move and a smart one at that cos she thinks that will push you to proposing rather than lose her to her ex. Right now, all she wants is Marriage and nothing more. So I'd say follow your mind cos whatever you do, you ain't ready to settle down and she is.
The fact that this guy is considering taking the money says a lot. Guy you obviously don't love your girlfriend, 500k for real how cheap can one be? When a man truly loves a woman, he won't be thinking of the fact that he's not ready for marriage instead, he'll be thinking of how to work towards marriage even if it'll take him time to be fully prepared, he wouldn't consider letting go of his love.
That d thing with u guys so sure u never loved her in d 1st place cos if u do u wnt b thinking abt such it clear money is ur problem.It better u walk away bcos u dnt want to settle down now rather than been so cheap
LOL...500k????....lot of money???
Are u sure???
Think of how u gonna spend it!!
Is it worth it??
You don't love her!!!!
Selling your love for that kind of cheap amount???
Oh christ....this guy is joking...
Yes!!! This is a BIG joke....
U'll find no love again 'I think'(in ur words)better hold her tight nd fuck 500k(imagine d amount sef)....I'll swear for u if I'm in her shoes walahi
Aramide
Usually I'm not a violent person but I can't resist the urge to call you an Idiot.Take the money now and lose the best thing that would have probably happened to ur lame life.
From what i see you don't love that girl cos if you do you won't even be thinking leaving her in exchange for money if you know you are not ready for marriage now tell her your mind let her be the one to make her decision and if she is yours she will definitely be yours and please my candid advice;don't collect any money from her ex cos that is peanut to compare to your girlfriend that will vanish before a twinkle of an eye and you will definitely regret it.
If u r even considering d taking d money, dat goes 2 show u wil neva b ready 2 marry her. Let her go if u knw u dnt luv her enough 2 marry her. And b man enough not 2 take d money. At least, if u ever cared an ounce 4 her. If she wanna marry her ex, it is her choice. But dnt keep 4 ur own selfish satisfaction..
N500,000 is a lot of money?
its too sad because you already made a decision and you just need people to tell you its ok. First you don't love this lady for you to even have second thoughts about the offer because love is priceless and for just 500k you will sacrifice your love? you said getting married will make her happy so its a favour to her thats funny your making excuses for your betrayal the lady is in love with you and not her ex. But you know what i don't think you deserve her since you think 500k is more important than her so please let her go and find true love . its really sad how true love is hard to find this days.
500k is a lot of money as you rightly said but again,depending on who you asked.
To some people,it might not be enough to sacrifice ones love or "like" for,as you put it.
However,if you think the amount is worth it for you,depending on your present circumstances,hence you are still not ready to get married at 29,then you can accept the offer and move on and your girlfriend should be wise enough also to move on quickly and face a future that might be more certain because truth is,you might not even be ready for this girl in the near future if the 500k ransom is that attractive and my girl at 29 is turning to a mini auty.
Well dude,mayb u shld let her go bt don't collect d mony,cos if u do u jst sold ur love and if she eventually finds out which she wil she wil b hurt for live.for all u knw it mite even b a set up.so don't collect d mony and let her go since u aint ready to marry her yet.tonia
First of all LMAO , number one 500,000 isn't that much money in my own opinion . Clearly she really likes you hence why she said to him she can't leave you , if she was desperate to get married she wouldn't have said she is in a relationship with you. Tell what he said
Watin money go cause ehn,chai we N̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̇̇ go fit use wheelbarrow pack am. My guy if U̶̲̥̅̊ are not ready †☺ marry her collect ūя̲̅ money and zoom off, buh if U̶̲̥̅̊ want her teLl the guy †☺ parkwell. Shikena!!!
I guess its a setup from her to know if u preferred her to a mere 500k. If u love her enough, why don't u wanna settle down with her?? Obviously if u tell her its over between d both of u , the ex bf will hv an advantage and he, the ex bf will also see u as not loving or deserving her. He will surely tell her u collect 500k from him.hold on to ur woman bro
Ole!!!! Elenu fe fen fen fe bi igba sakara!!! U nefa Loved her b4 dat am sure off! So if I ask u 2 cut of ur sumtin 4 mi now 4 N10M u wld bah! O geh if ur reading dis abeg pack ur load n move on nt 2 d oda doucheBag too tho..... *SipsAkamu* #Okybye
Guy...its people like u dat make women dream dreams that will never come to pass...y r u selfish..she is 29years n not married wtf..I am 21 n hope to b married by 24 so I ope to never meet someone like u..pls leave her be...dats d biggest favor u can do for her...sylvia says so
Hahaaaa..tuff 1! Buh dude believe me..if I was d 1 I wud take d money o...cnt get into any serious relationship that wud b too strong to regret such cash b4 marriage!! :D. Omreova she is getting old..marry her or let her go jo!!
Must u collect the money to make her happy, if really u want her to be happy then tell her to get married and don't collect the money. Though the most important thing is seeking the face of God to know if she is your wife or not.
Selfish nigga,no love in ur voice
Wow! Dis is hard though buh I fink letting her go is a good 1 since u ain't ready 2 settle down and she is buh don't do dat becos of d money do it becos u want her 2 be happy linda plz post my comment I always comment buh u hardly post it
Liar U are just insecure
You don't know what you want seriously
When there is money offered you now want to see her happy
But pls let her go because you don't deserve her,obviously the lady is too good for you
Dude, 4u to even consider leaving ur gf 4 dat amount...U dnt LOVE her ENOUGH... Biko! Leave her alone 4 sm1 who wud VALUE her.. It may nt b her Ex but sm1 who won't trade her 4 anytin.Its painful dat u wanna leave ur gf 4 money but its even more painful d amount u want to leave her for...#nuffsaid.
Ole, na wa for men.. collect the money jour. After all with or with out the money u stil won't marry tht gal the next 5 yrs.. tel the yanki booboo to add.. hin dey craze 500k is too smal to fashi d babe, why him bin run befor? He took his chances. she wil be in d know sooner or lata, in other for u nt to look cheap befor them both, he should make it at lest 1.5..if u were my Bro I would tell u thesame. shine ur eyez.
500k ke that's chicken change na. So that's what's she is worth to the Americana. Na wah pls let the girl know before u let her go. Before the guy starts pimping her around. That's modern day slavery as far as I am concerned.
Very wicked plan
Simply Means u dont Love her
Hahaha....see gobe na, my dear do what you feel is right huh
Since u are actually considering it then u shld let her go, u don't deserve her, u bitch of a man!
Zeus
Pls take the money and let her go instead of wasting her time. U obviously don't love her enough plus u are not ready to get married
Are u kidding me?...
The truth is you have made up your mind to take that money, don't use u want ur Gf to be happy and gatting married would; as an excuse.....u leave her or u don't,its still her decision who she wants.she might end up not choosing the other guy...so try nd discover what she wants
SINCE YOU ARE NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN LEAVE HER BUT DONT TAKE THE MONY COS THAT WILL MAKE YOU LOOK SO CHEAP.
Lol! U don't love her jor!...plsss let her go, don't waste her tym
U dont love her ,u buffoon!here's whats gonna happen.she's gonna find out u "sold her off " to another guy .she'll hate the guy and hate u too.theen she'll end up being miserable and unhappy . Then she'll swear for u and u'll end up bin raped by four alhajis .pretty picture abi ?
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri
if u really want her happy nd u arent ready for marriage as tht will make her happy,tell her point blnk,nd dnt go collectin tht money cos trust me its not tht much,let d babe go if u 2 arent on d same page,500k will finish nd life they say goes on,its a sum u will or can still dash out nd u ll look back to a day like ths nd smile.... Shallom!
How I wish I knew d gal would tell her 2leave u fast.u ar not ready 2marry y tie her down.
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy. Folish
don't sell your soul. cherish what you have....True love, loyal and honest girl is hard to find
don't sell your soul. cherish what you have....True love, loyal and honest girl is hard to find
don't sell your soul. cherish what you have....True love, loyal and honest girl is hard to find
Smh you are a kinda guy we ladies should never pray to meet at all. 500k is a lot of money?really?such a low life.Hiss
My anger apart,dont ever sell your love even if its 5billion naira.you are not ready to marry this girl,okay leave her to choose between americana and you.If she loves you and if its God's will,she will wait till you are ready,what is chasing her?by the way what is americana feeling like?coming back after how many years and he wants to use $3086 to get his woman.and to think the girl gave him your number to call you and offer you money.The 3 of you need to be caged,i don't think you people are normal.Back to my lunch.Katikati
If you leave your girlfriend that you love because of 500,000.00, you may be selling your happiness for 500,000.00, cus you may never find love again.
Hungry dude.
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
UNBELIEVABLE!!! I had to read this post again to be sure I didn't see 50m... I am sorry to say but If u are wiling to throw away a relationship of 2years for a gurl u like den U actually never liked her and She doesn't deserve u either... I pity ur future wife cos U wld def. give her out for a million naira after 4yrs... SMH FOR SOME GUYS SHA!!!!
No my broda u r nt a bad person
U are a very money minded person.now that money is included as an offer u are more than 90% ready to leave yr galfreind.anyways in all indications it shows that you are not ready to settle down.i will advice you to let da gal go without collecting the money if you really love her.
Na God go punish u sha....its doesn't change the price of garri sha, do what u like yimu
if u ask me...
live is so short, so dnt mess with the girls hrt... let her go!!!
think of something gud to do with the ..... so 1 day u can as well paid some1 off...:)
The fact that you are even considering taking the money means you don't deserve her. Be a man and walk away . . . leave her to marry the guy (if she wants). Please don't take the money now and incur curses for yourself in the future.
You alredy know the answer to that question.. You are just looking for supporters..
Do what you gotta do bruv and stop wasting the girl's time. Since u are not interested in getting married to her you might as well get paid for doing the noble thing.
Look at it form this perspective; option 1 continue lying to her and keep her in a r/ship that's headed nowhere soon. Option 2 dump her at a time there's someone around to pick her up, wipe her tears and give her her heart's desire(marriage). U can as well get paid for doing the right thing.
Ika,oponu akinrada.You're a greedy man and sure don't deserve her.You're ready to sell your 2yr relationship?Yes,it makes you a bad person.I'm sure you're Igbo.
Must you collect the money??? You can do her a favour by leaving her and not taking the money.
Guy, you dont want to marry this lady,let her go whether or not you collect 500 grand.Collecting the money is left to ur conscience,but pls let her GO,STOP WASTING HER TIME.
How are you so sure that the Lady is referring to you. Your POVERTY LEVEL is too low. Ole, Barawo, Alumajiri. Because of N500k. Poor Boy, Foolish Boy
FYI..the lady will marry that man whether u accept d money or not...so Mister..go ahead, take the money and skip! U hear? *DD
My broad, no collect ani moni u hear mi? Moni no b everytin. Again, since u don confess say u NEVA READY to mariiiii, den free ds babe .
Second tin b say, ur conscience no go eva let u rest lia lia......I tell u!
Abeg free d babe n God no go give u anoda man wife ni oruko Jesu. Amiiiiiiin.
you forgot to add that you will be doing your selfish and greedy self a favor not her from what I just read you don't love her cos if you do even 500 million would not make you sacrifice your love for anybody money is not love and don't forget this might be the biggest mistake of your life YOU AIN'T EVEN KNOW IT
My broad, no collect ani moni u hear mi? Moni no b everytin. Again, since u don confess say u NEVA READY to mariiiii, den free ds babe .
Second tin b say, ur conscience no go eva let u rest lia lia......I tell u!
Abeg free d babe n God no go give u anoda man wife ni oruko Jesu. Amiiiiiiin.
Only children want to eat their cake and have it. You do not love this lady, rather you are using her probably for sex until you are financially stable to find the 'right' kind of woman to settle down with.
How can you say you are not ready for marriage yet you do not wish to leave her and even tempted to settle for ordinary N500,000? Are you sure if the need for a ritual that will fetch you ordinary N10million arise, you will not use her for it?
Stop using women. Grow up first before getting involved in a relationship because your mom, sister and future daughter are women. If you insist on "eating you cake and having it", be sure Karma measures to all as you measure to others.
At 29 years? Do not spoil her chances because by the time you are ready to settle down, you will say "she is too old for you"...Selah
Kiki
I think you should leave her for her own good. Leave the money behind too, when you're ready to settle down you will find a good person to do so with.
That you even considered it shows that you dont love her well enough. Abeg free the girl make she go to who value am pass!!!!
U have to follow ur sub conscious mind. I had a similar challage early dis year but I let my girl go with no pay off. Am not ready 4 marriage and I can't collect anda man's sweat for no reason. Bros today am doing good, maybe that cash cld hv been my down fall. Wish her well! Ladies tym they pass than guys. Gudluck
DUDE 500K IS SO F*ING SMALL..but im guessin u are having an affair with poverty so go and get your cash biko...
OLE....OLE, u don't luv her, if u do u won't even think about collecting the moni at all
First time ever to comment on LIB......its obvious you don't like the lady at all, talk more of loving her. Let her be cos she is not getting any younger.
I wish ur gf will see this and like go of such an idiot like u... 500k wey u go blow jst nw. If u collect the money I bet u won't do anything good wit it.
mate. d fact that uve thought of taking the money u might as well just take it. uve already registered d fact dat she is worth 500k in ur head so d offence has already been committed. am not gonna slander u cos i dont knw ur financial situation but dats pretty low for someone u claim u luv. she ought too be priceless in ur eyez. so grab d dutch before she does nigga.
Pls bro don't let her go, and don't take the money. More blessing are still coming ur way.
My dear young man,
There are two thing involve.
1)Its either its a test to see what really matters to you, or
2)He sees something in her you have found, and being wise, he wants it for himself.
So you can either
1)Sell her for 500,000 divided by the two years you'hv known her, plus all the expenses you made. Then sit back and ask if you did the right thing, or
2)Suck it up, put a bloody ring on her freaking finger and tell mr janded lover boy, you have been doing just fine before you knew he existed.
lindhoney post me comment, am asking nicely with strawberry cupcakes on top or....
Neither of you deserve her. Free her from both your shady clutches.
Free the babe. You clearly don't deserve her. For you to even consider taking money for someone you claim you like, I feel sorry for the babe you do marry as she might end up as offering to Obatala or whatever devil people worship to get money.
Shame.
get him to add 2 more zeros in front. dude your girl should be worth a lot more!
Pls don't take the money bro. More blessing are still coming ur way, and if u do, u can't get a girl like that again.
So you want advise? Here is some. The fact that you even gave the offer a second thought means you will make a horrible husband. The fact that you have thrown the decision to bloggers , oh just makes me weep for the girl. Please, please take the money. You are the type that use their loved ones for rituals. It is evident you don't Love this girl. You don't understand the meaning of it. Please go and sort out your problems. They are many and marriage isn't one of them.
Can you just stop fooling yourself that you love the lady? If you really love her as you claimed, you will never think of accepting the money. And I will warn you to be careful, cos it might be a set-up to get you into jail to get rid of you.
Be wise about it. You don't need his money, you're just being greedy.
Looooool, Nigerians are brutal chai. Cant stop laffing
Ask for 5 million naira
Bros ask for atleast 800k, I blive that shud be the last price.
Ask for 5 million naira
500,000 and you're considering dumping her? How poor are you? Both physically and mentally?
It seems you don't really love her.
this gist doesn't seem real to me,500,000 when de man can marry de lady without giving any reason to do so,unless the gurl in question wants to know how committed u re. so do not be stupid.
Miscreants like this are the reason this present society is going downhill in the area of relationships! What a shameless NASTY person you are. Why don't you reveal your name so this unfortunate girl who has wasted her affections on you, can happily move on?!! The sad fact is that there are many relationships just like this. Ladies, shine your eyes, if a guy tells you he is not ready, pocket your emotions and ZAP!!
Lol@ bride price
THIS IS A TRAP. TRUST ME YOUR GIRL KNOWS THAT THIS OFFER HAS BEEN MADE TO YOU AND SHE'S WAITING TO SEE WHAT YOU WILL DO.
IF YOU SAY YES, YOU WON'T SEE A DIME..YOU WILL LOOSE BOTH THE MONEY AND THE GIRL.
BE WISE, BE GUIDED
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I love ur comment.kai!
Nigerians...who's this one bringing tribe into this matter again? Anyway dude, it's quite obvious u don't love her. If u did, u wouldn't be thinking of taking the offer....however she's 29 n too old for games if ure not headed anywhere, let her go. But please, taking the money's not ideal I mean ur reputation's at stake(if u care about it) and she'll probably find out later on.....c'mon someone u were able to date 4 2years should be worth more than 500k now...haba!
So u think d 500k wil get u a beta life? Den u r very stupid
You are a bastard!
Omg
U don't love ha, and u have no intention of marryin ha
Jesus christ! Men are evil,
Women beware, dem fit sell u lyk dat o!
Mad boi, just tek di moni cos u don't even luv dat woman judging from what i read, you've already made up ur mind, so my broda, help yourself wit di moni cos it seems u really need it since u call it big money,and you'll also be helping dat young lady who will be in better hands.
Linda next plzzz
I usually don't comment on LIB, but this is about the funniest comment I've ever read on this blog. Lol
Guy, if someone offers the girl 500K to leave you she will probably dump your poor azz! For sanity sake just collect the 500k and go start your runs, that is if the offer is genuine. She wants to get married and start a family and you are not ready yet. Take the money!!!!
Dude are this cheap and for real?? If he talking 2mill thats when i might to consider.500k is just way too small....ThirstNiggahOfLife get a job alrdy!! Smh*
Oloriburuku, pls take the money and disappear. Its obvious you dont love her since ordinary 500k is shacking your proverty ridden arse. Sounds like she is too good for you. Pls move on and go get a village girl that you deserve. Alainin kan she.
Gbam!!!
Ur so turf, lmao
Guy,na setup...money is spiritual, trust me..I won't go into further details. Drop the girl,let the dude know you're not interested and watch film from sidelines..in a few years 500K will be nothing to you.
So na only Igbo people like money? Well if you want to remain poor as you are now, God go assist you. People wey dey sound like you if someone offer them 500k dem go sell all their family members and every teeth wey dey your mouth. Tribalistic retard!!!
If you really love her as you claim, just let her go. Don't take any money since you're not ready to "settle down" now.
fool! that's what you are. 500k to do what? it would buy you nothing. in fact, your girlfriend is cheap.
if you love her she should be priceless. if otherwise 500k is too small, tell him 5m will do.
Love no dey bring food for table, collect the money and just do a runner. In future she will understand that marriage is not a guarantee to happiness.
Ti omolomo ba se epe fun e ni sin, it would be as if. Ole. Collect the money and leave ur miserable life in pieces.
Hia... its loose oo!! Olodo.com! *Thank me later..*
Niggers, chai! I dont know why for you guys everything has to be a game. For a girl you claim you really love and you are considering collecting money in place of her?? To sad to think of it. I think you should break up with her cos this has shown that you dont have her intrest at heart @ all.
The lady doesn't love you anymore , how did you think the man got your number. They've discussed it and the girl is all out to rid herself of you.
You take the money , you'll never have self respect for yourself even if you find yourself in on mars.
You'll for ever live as a ......sucker .Tell the girl or whatever her name is that since she finds it appropriate to suggest it , tell him to pay the money into the girls account and bid both of them fair well
You all should shut up!!!!! Because it is a man involved,you all are saying this.. What if it was a woman? You peeps would say God has buttered her bread.. Bro collect your money and leave
why using all sorts of words on the man? cos it is a man involved? now, what if it was a lady? what will you dude say? Guy dnt mind anyone oo.. collect the money and leave
Funny enough, this could actually be a point that her ex-boyfriend is trying to make to her in an effort to win her back. So if this useless boyfriend agrees to take the money, he would lose his girlfriend and probably not even get the measly 500K. She needs to just keep praying and the Lord will bring her correct husband, maybe the ex from yankee or someone else. As for this one...SMH.
You obviously are not "IN LOVE" with your girlfriend and probably still dating her for some kind of gain, i personally believe financial. Maybe your gf is financially more stable than you are, hence why her ex bf's offer is appealing to you or maybe your just plain greedy!
I believe this is a wake up call for your relationship. You don't even love her enough to find it insulting or belittling that some next guy want to try to buy your gf off you.
This is someones life you are playing with, stop playing with her and be man. I guess you don't know what being a real man consist of, because by now should have cut off your losses with her.
STUPID BOY! 500 K INDEED! LET HIM PAY n5MILL DEN WE CAN DISCUSS!!! ;-)
Lol! Well said.
Lili pls sometimes upload d pictures of pple like dis Dude asking dis stupid question here cos person suppose jam dis dude 4 road nd give am better holyghost slap. Choi! imagine! d imbecile. yea u may hav a dick bt u aint a man silly.
Dish her? She be soup?
The new guy must have observed that he badly needs money and that's why he's even offering. In such cases, guys resort to threatening or taking drastic measures. He knows he won't reject the offer.
GBAM! Win Win
Gbam!
Yes. Just let her go. Resist the urge to collect that money. Hmmmmm! A word is enof...
Propose fire! My guy is a broke ass nigga.
Forget the money and let her go in peace.
N500,000 Only. Cheap ass.
That amount can not even afford you something tangible. Whatever you use that money for will be a waste. Please just let the woman go. The fact that you considered letting her go for such a trivial amount proves 2 things: i) you are broke ii) she deserves better.
Dare i say that you leave her for free if it is out of love [for her] and knowing you are not ready to give her what she wants now. Let the guy keep his money and if she goes to him she should also know that he was willing to pay you off to get her. No money needs to be exchanged. Free yourself for free and watch what happens.
Too noble?
dude! just take the damn money and accept that you're a greedy person.
if you really loved her, you wouldn't even be considering the offer. psh
puhleeeze! miss me with that fake concern boo boo
and another thing how do you know she won't be happy with you. as broke as you are.
there's a reason that former relationship ended. olodo
My guy, its clear you are not ready for marriage. So talk to your girl friend, especially on that point of fact. Reach an amicable agreement on let go...Take your money and free her for the man that's ready to marry her...
follow your heart...
Let's analyze this case.
1. For u to consider 500,000 naira a lot of money, it means u re a broke ass nigga. U aint ready to get married, and u won't even be ready in the next 6 years. And by then, she'll be 35. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks with a broke nigga like u.
2. For u to even consider taking the money, it means u are a good for nothing mother fucker. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks to an ass wipe like you.
3. Have u considered the fact that maybe the ex is trying to get her back, and he has told her that if he offers u money, u'll let her go, and this is all a test??? I know u didn't think about that. Meaning u are a irrepentant block head. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't realize and still sticks with you.
4. I hope she sees this comment and dumps u, bitch. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't.
Let's analyze this case.
1. For u to consider 500,000 naira a lot of money, it means u re a broke ass nigga. U aint ready to get married, and u won't even be ready in the next 6 years. And by then, she'll be 35. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks with a broke nigga like u.
2. For u to even consider taking the money, it means u are a good for nothing mother fucker. I pity her sorry ass if she sticks to an ass wipe like you.
3. Have u considered the fact that maybe the ex is trying to get her back, and he has told her that if he offers u money, u'll let her go, and this is all a test??? I know u didn't think about that. Meaning u are a irrepentant block head. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't realize and still sticks with you.
4. I hope she sees this comment and dumps u, bitch. I pity her sorry ass if she doesn't.
wait bro u are not ready to settle down, and u see 500k a big money. bro u are broke, leave that girl and take the money.
it makes you a bad person actually don't try and justify it by saying you need the money and she wants to get married if you guys actually love each other you guys need to talk about this tell her you are just not ready to get married and if she doesn't listen your lady is yet to come I don't think you should take the money it seems wrong like you are selling her away I don't think you want to be sold but again it depends on how badly you need the money and if you're just trying to make ends meet that's not a good reason God will provide but if you sell her away that's the end forever just think about it if I fully knew you're situation I would tell you what to do
Love from Miami
Since u sound like a monkey...
1 advice..Negotiate for 1M, and plant the money..Bcos for ppl like u...U r shallow minded.
#ViewFrom10ThFloor.
Lol@e don do. But ur so on point. Gbam Gbam
@Abiola Kadiri, i am sure u are typing with your anus.
#ViewFrom10ThFloor.
Gbamest
Hay! Mr chairman wise up..she don tell u abt d man b4? If not, na set up u dey ooo. Dats anoda movie title..she mait wnt to knw if u really worth d wait...tink "2"wise...
foolish! you obviously do not love her....u even used the erm "like" after 2 years into a relationship...your not that into her...pls place yourself in the background....no one cares abt u kmt
Y una dey answer d mumu sef,pls just leave d grl nd let her meet som1 wu rily loves her. Broke ass nigga. 500k. Lazy man
U sound so irritating, gush! U re not worth d stress
Gbam!! Me agree with you.
take the money and let her go. you are just one of those stupid mongrel
Hahahahaha
see me this one... you date a girl for 2 years and you "LIKE" her not love! be a man, let her go and if u r sooo broke to let go for 500000 take teh money n go n hide urself
Its called terminal benefit,so make sure he pays cash now its not about love or crap you guys don't have a future together so you have urself a leaving bonus... Take it and set ur life up don't waste it dating another gal find a gal you can marry and get a job
Wow shocking!!! The fact that you are actually considering taking the money shows how less of a man you are portraying yourself to be.
As the saying goes if you think the devil has come to steal, lie and destroy then you haven't meant 'MOST' naija men and this applies in this situation.
Its called terminal benefit,so make sure he pays cash now its not about love or crap you guys don't have a future together so you have urself a leaving bonus... Take it and set ur life up don't waste it dating another gal find a gal you can marry and get a job
Hahahahahaha nice 1!!!!
LMAO! She's going to end up leaving you sooner than later if you won't marry her. Her ex is back in the picture, ready to marry her, has money, and will likely take her on trips to yankee.
This is a win-loose situation. Use your head.
Everybody with their palava, all i see it that the lady has nothing to loose.
@CU your head is there f***k it.lol
What makes u tink dat d ex boyfriend is nt testin u? Use ur head bush man!
Gbam!
Why is it paining you. Allow the guy and his relationship
Thank God for LIB, I am leaving you for good, do not bother calling my number again, it's over btw us. I know you sent this. I won't go back to my ex! True love will find me, thanks all.
You are a selfish idiot and may u remain single forever...500k...Only? And you are confused? U go build house with it or buy car? Nna?...
Please let her go...u are a very immature man...and you don't deserve her...
I hope she reads Linda blog and able to decipher that it is her...so she runs fast from u!
Dude don't use ur own hands and place a curse on urself...if u don't intend 2 marry her just tell d truth,collecting money 4rm d guy 2 break up wit her is wrong,u neva knw she might bring goodluck 2 u in future,loosing a nice girl 4 500k is insane,if a girl can be wit u 4 2yrs don't throw it away 4 500k...u are a man u can mak more dan dat in future not by selling ur girl 2 her ex...
Nnamdi @get2nnamdi
Please just leave her cos she means nothing to u. Let her go and be happy cos u even thinking about this shows u have no respect for her and you are not ready to settle down. Collect the money and leave her. Its for her own benefit. She is worth more than a useless dude like u! FYI - This is a guy commenting!
A gigolo is wht u are...biko no waste d poor girl's time...creamsy.
Everybody with their palava, all i see is that the lady has nothing to loose.
the truth is she doesn't like and care about you anymore. y is the TRUth so hard to chew and swallow by you? #deywillbefriendsthatsall
Dude you are not holding onto her in the first place. Lemme advice you, g to twirra dem go rush your 500k, not a\hungry geh
funny story, she might just end up being friends with both of them.
Hahahahahaha...I'd TAKE IT!!!...500k for someone that is not family, someone I don't give a fuck about...someone I DON'T LOVE!!, if this payment was for human trafficking then shit, I wouldn't but this ex-nigger loves her enough to pay 500k...wouldn't be a stupid motherfucker to stand in the way of true love plus I'll get 500k for paving the way for their love...TAKE IT! TAKE IT! TAKE IT!!!...You're super lucky dude.
SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND, SO LEAVE HER ALONE. GIRLFRIEND? YOU MUST BE IN PLUTO, THIS GUY IS FRAUD.
I DON'T LIKE YOU, BUT GUESS WHAT YOUR FAMILY DOES. SO WHO CARES??? NOT ME. BYE
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