Singer Yemi Alade this afternoon took to her Instagram page to slam Internet trolls who have been mocking Olajumoke's husband for being photographed carrying their child while she enjoys the spotlight. Yemi feels this is not a good development and must be addressed. What she wrote after the cut...
"What rubbish is this? Is a woman's place on d side carrying A child ? Did she nt carry the child for 9 months already,endure labour alone? So after all this ,the husband decides to ASSIST his wife and carry their child he Is referred to as a WIFE like it's a thing of shame? What I see is a modern family with normal day to day responsilities and a child to feed but have decided to NEVER GO BACK TO WHERE THEY ARE COMING FROM! PS ;
For any man to carry this kid the way he does she must b a REAL woman in his home".
152 comments:
YEMI ALADE I believe whatever you say because you are the perfect definition of a BAE.
Can u imagine..
Piple can be clueless i swear..
Enugu's second shoe designer
I'd rather the husband stay in the background jeje to avoid insults and derogatory insinuations. by the way, must he appear in every of Jumoke's shoot and events? Definitely NO. #myopinion
Nice piece
I just pray this fame dosent enter her head & she will start misbehaving...all this sugar daddies waiting to snatch her from her husband...hmmm I just sit one corner they observe.. Ada neni
Hahaha...!
Yemi live that gist. This man is in soup already. He will be dumped soon
Don't mind them. They have no work to do.
Yemi haba you know yoruba women cheat a lot so it's better she dumps him now cos soon she will be all over the world eating good D***k
I support Yemi Alade,some people are just plane stupid, all they do is to haunt for pix and think of sick caption to use, yeye people with no ioter of sense in them.
okay Aunty we have heard you....
NIGERIANS SOME OF US JUST KNOW HOW TO SPOIL THINGS OOOO,WHY THIS STATEMENT NOW.NA WAOOOO
OMONSAYSSO
Nigerians are so wicked and inarrow minded, you cheer a woman to stardom, soon as she makes it to the top you badly want her down. Smh. All sorts of things have being said about this lady and the husband recently, like seriously do you know how dey were living their lives before,why do u assume d man just started carrying d baby shebi those times she goes out to sell bread na una mama dey baby sit d pikin ni?
abegi park well,must the man always follow her about?
Yemi Alade. You have just informed the whole like where your head lies and what type of wife you will make. #HML.
No mind them, ajada people.
Nigerians have problem with their mouths and thinking. They everything is a joke and they open mouth no wonder they can save their dying economy with their heads... Am sorry sorry oooo....sorry for nigerians
People must always come out with something, only Africa that it happens ,but if it's the white people they will celebrate them, leave our people na them get their mouth let them talk, na their MB, na their phone battery, many of them wish it could be them ,
Awon Aye! Linda take note!
The caption "make money... " got me lol
True talk dear
I don't see anyfin wrong....just afraid of wah the man may go through in future cos show biz comes with so many things....
Look at what jealousy use to curse...Nigerians should leave them alone abeg...is d child not his own,pple should pls learn how to mind their business
Nigeria MENTALITY!!!!
Always talking rubbish of other people success , just to bring them down.
Yemi go sit down for one place jhoor.....if she's too busy to carry her child they should get a nanny
Wateva Yemi
Seeking attention ryt??
Cuz I dunno hw it concerns you...
Seems ur musik haznt been keepn you busy....
Miss Freeborn!!
Too many stupid people around.
True talk..... A man should assist in taking care of d kids ND carrying out chores....
Gud
Mrs. Yemi Alade, your husband will be too disappointed in you for such comment. If that man is your brother will you be happy? That's trash ma. That's not our culture,thats westerners culture. I feel sorry for the man and I pray for the marriage to last because is now that the man will see the real woman he married. Rubbish
And you say this Yemi thinking it will stop the rubbish mentality of certain Nigerians? We still gat a long way to go. They think taking care of children is only a woman's job..smh.
Nigerians!!! Haba! A man carrying his baby isn't a crime? Where is it written in any book that its the woman's sole responsibility? The pride n ego of men is something Men should constantly check! Abeg stop beefing this family.. Cos Bible say, man wey find wife find good thing and don get favor from God..
-Blisss
na wa o....d girl never teee una don dey dey'll troll
na wa o....d girl never teee una don dey troll
I see nothing wrong in him carrying the child, which I have seen olajumoke carries the child as well. Kenya west carries their child as well
people will always talk, no matter what you do.
It is not a bad thing for the man to assist his wife, but let her get a maid that will be taking care of her child to avoid problems with her husband later on.
Truth be told men are unpredictable. If he is not getting attention the way he wants, it MAY pose a problem for her.
people can so talk-talk all their life without any good thought,Oljumoke should stay focus on her career to avoid distraction from people.
And wat is bad abt him carring their baby
Pls must he follow her around. pls let him get himself busy with other things. Enroll the baby in crèche or whether and pick her later in the day. let him get busy Mheen
People can so talk-talk all their life,better for her to stay focus and don't allow distraction-#Ominiknowest.
People can so talk-talk all their life,better for her to stay focus and don't allow distraction-#Ominiknowest.
I never carry my baby when we go out,my hubby does the carrying,and it has never been an issue btwn us.
i see nothing wrong.
I won't be suprised if Nigerians will put evil thoughts in the heart of this man and he will begin to hate his wife and see her as an enemy.. God please protect this family u brought out of poverty...
Nigerians n deir mouths
...merited happiness
True talk yemi
Is man complaining?
Ndi mmadu sef
WTF is wrong with a man carrying is daugther. no be both of them born am together?
Gbam gbamest
Abi ooooo
Olajumoke continue with ur success.....let them say.
I do not understand what these people problems are? It's their life and they have the right to do what is good for them. When we had little children, it is I (the husband) who normally carry my children while my wife will hold the bag containing their diapers, clothes etc and that did not change me to the wife and vice versa. You actually have to treat your wife well because it is however you "used" her that you will meet her. There's nothing wrong, infact I advocate it for a man to help the wife with whatever is the most difficult task at the moment. That's what I see as being manly and not being a bully.
sis U know wat these pple are just jealous. they cant even go far in life. Jumoke jare carry on and dont be proud u got a man in that man.
all these self righteous proud nierians go yab yemi alade well for here. especially the men. you people finally given this overrated yemi girl a rest. after overhyping her music. na why she con vex for una. loool wetin happen? troublein paradise
ahn an the man is now yoruba.it will get to him. hope he wont start beating her or stopping her hustle. onl yoruba men / and some dumb women can make such a dumb statement of calling him wife.
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chai abomination
yemi yaf vex o. oya buy her music nowwww please? u people arent hyping her again?? ki lo sele
Thanks yemi alade,you are a wise strong woman.true talk from u ma.these losers on d web being led by a bigger fool called kemi olunloyo will rather her go back to making 500H a day.Yemi God bless your kind thOts.olajumoke,me and millions of Nigerians are rooting for u.go on girl,shine on !!!!!
Help me Tell those myopic idiots......mtcheeeeeew
i am a real man. i always carry my child at any occasion. it is absolutely pleasing!
your wife is not your slave.
I saw those comments too and for the love of God its not ok .Can you npot tell that the picture was taken as part of the publ;city for that garment factory that made her an ambassador ,Besides ,what wrong with a Husband helping his wife.My Hubby helps me all the time ,cos my job is way more demanding than hios .But he is my Oga at the top and has never felt inferior or different for helping with his child.We dont know what goes on behind close doors .Besides my take is that even though the guy has little education ,he is a wise and very sure Man ,with his self esteem intact .If not He wont allow her come to lagos in the first place.Abeg MY brother and sister ,dont mind bad belle people .
Yemi alade future husband take note!😂😂😂😂😁
If the guy supports wife, trouble. He doesn't, trouble!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
Bitch pls.
Whoever said such is single and will or might end up being a lost husband.......when she took that shot accidentally that brought her to fame....who was taking care of the kids at home, I am a proud husband and I bath, care for my children and to add more I also carry my wife's hand bag before she got pregnant, when she got pregnant and now sef that is has given birth.......The Head can not stand without the neck.....make una sha live the man..love his courage and he is real and a real MAN. shikana
People are sick in the head ... When she was hulking on the streets wasn't she contributing to the family ? People hate good things way up Olajumoke
thank u Yemi alade, Please tell them. Linda see to that case
They all just bin envious. Whosoever chooses to carry the child should be nobody's business but theirs. Na una born d pikin ni? Nigerians will never mind their Business, trying to raise dust in a grassy field.
They all just bin envious. Whosoever chooses to carry the child should be nobody's business but theirs. Na una born d pikin ni? Nigerians will never mind their Business, trying to raise dust in a grassy field.
People Will never mind their business .she is his daughter .let him carry her
For me it shows that Jumoke's husband is a real man by being supportive
Gbam
My thoughts exactly!Thanks yemi q
Have the idiots also forgotten that some babies especially baby girls prefer their 'Daddy' carrying them, baby girls are closer to daddy, trolls be real jor
If I be that man, as long as say the money dey come via my wife favor from God, I no go mind to carry that pikin any day anytime!
Linda na me talk am !!!!
I dnt even carry my son wen my husband is there.
Nicely said.
#LIB ADDICT#
First things first, the picture looks odd for the fact that if you are doing a photo shoot featuring her family why would you not prep the whole family for the shoot and make it look good instead of only focusing on Olajumoke and letting the rest of her family appear unhappy? This is exactly why this shot is producing negative comments.
Haters will always hate. What is their business
Kaiiiii....naija and their wahala sef
Well said Yemi
Tell them Yemi. Some Nigerians mentality is terrible. They are only just beginning and people want to give the man a reason to have issues when there are no issues. So many couples can go far but they insist on being silly and backwards. The team works when you work together. Not when you let what others will think define you. Work together and grow, insist on being backwards in life and stay behind, simple.
Nsighieeeeeeh! I never see ooooooh, Kai! Ndi ire nma agha!
Nice one Yemi alade, shallow minded pple. Rubbish
Gbam! I love u more Yemi
People are so mean
Only children will make these type of memes
Na u sabi....
#FINEST
A Rose by any other name...Whoever is taking the pictures need to either make sure he is not in them or make sure he is well dressed when he is in them. They don't match.
She is now a glamour chic
MZ EUEU
Jobless people. Linda observe!
Thank you,how sweet.
Gbam, ijiya nwannem
i dont see any big deal in him carrying the baby, my baby feels more comfortable in my arms that his mum, and i enjoy carrying him too... sometimes my wife gets jealous...
OK
Well,still money change everything,dey alright tho,so it aint no probs,the man aint complaning he is alright!
Jus do ur thing nd dnt listen to haters
Some Nigerians are beyond stupid. Very egocentric with nothing to show other than big belly, rubbish talks, 2mins sex. I knew it was only a matter of time before one retarded person voices their unsolicited remark about this picture and true to the asshole that they are, they never disappoint. Nigeria wants change but wants to cherry pick which change they want, is that how it works?
Tell them Yemi!
How to care for your natural hair in a protective style
Your hair isn't growing? What you can do about it
Yes o!
If I tell you I understood anything this girl said, I'm a liar
Is the hubby complaining?? What's wrong with all dis jobless ppl.....anyhoozle, didn't know she's married though.
Word!
Baby mama
People shaa
I concur
Okooo if only Africans reason that way
Gbam busy body people they must talk
She said it all..
Ndi obi ojoo
Love the last quote and please yemi look at
That picture and be honest....that's what it potrays lik his her slave...it's better he isn't in the pic at all....
OK.seen.
Kanye West carry his daughter too. Nothing is wrong with that.
Hmmmm
If I am with my husband he carries the children, he is stronger, doesn't wear heels and it is just the right thing to do. So you want to be the type of wife that will carry handbag, diaper bag, baby, wear heels and endanger the life of your child. The man should lift the child. In my case I had a CS there is a stage the child is too heavy for the mother to carry. Meanwhile he is not complaining. When she was selling the bread he was carrying the child so that has not changed.
Pls tall them Africa with their mentality
I pray she doesnt wake up one day and say..."i'm too good for this man....i cant take this again"....
PR professionals hooping on this Olajumoke Brand......please save her marriage and work on the husband too....
True talk, kudos to yemi alade for that beautiful piece.
Ur thinking is backwards sir........na ur type dey beat woman bcos she's more successful
He's just being a supportive husband.......Jay z carries ivy blue, kanye carries north west..........so why shud jumokes hubby be criticized?
They all just bin envious. Whosoever chooses to carry the child should be nobody's business but theirs. Na una born d pikin ni? Nigerians will never mind their Business, trying to raise dust in a grassy field.
If they work on him too, if he begins to chop money, he will leave her for Rukky Sanda.
HATERS, Pls get a Life
Yemi come and take this kiss please!!!
"People must talk" no matter what you do right or wrong, they must talk! That's life for you
Nigerians sha we are good at discussing people that are making their dough. please Oga don't mind them. if you don't assist her they will talk after all the world is a free world.
Oh wahala dey o!
Just 3 comments? Linda linda Linda listen. How many times did I call u
Husband are supposed to carry baby in social outing if you really want your wife to be classic.
Evil minded people look at you all you know is dup are husband
Evil minded people look at you all you know is dup are husband
Nigerian people haa
Jumoke's husband is a real man,he's not fake like most husband's of nowadays. God bless him jare.
#Linda'spal
Thank you... God bless you a million folds. We need more men like you in Nigeria and in Africa. Our mentality has to change. It's a thing of pride and joy and even glory for a man to treat his woman as his queen and not a thing of shame and insult. God bless you once again.
Na wa o! He is not helping his wife carry their child! He is carrying his own child period!
Haters wl always complain,Weder dem lk am or not jumoke n her husband don turn celeb who wan talk go talk rest
**************Ma bae of life Yemi********** tnkx a massive lot for dat ********dont mind oll dos retarded backward fools********** who awaz relegate women to d kitchen********** I sure say na igbo men esp Anambra men go champion dos trolls *********** Ndi ara puru eke ***********
I support you. The fin here is really for her sponsors to work on her husband also. I dnt see anyfin in him carrying his daughter.
Na naija mentality. Whenever I go out with my hubby, he carries the baby while I carry my handbag and diaper bag. He is stronger and our baby getting heavier for me to carry, so he carried her and even when we use stroller, he pushes it . He never complains and so it willingly. He changes diapers and feeds too but I suspect though that my hubby would not like to carry handbag which is the other alternative lol.
My hubby is super busy yet he spends more time with our daughter than I can manage. Does that make him my wife or me a bad mother? Notice all the negative comments about this are coming from non parents. A parent understands this situation clearly.
Hahhahhahahha I swear brother
yemi alade should shut the fuck up,what does she know about marriage? and what the shit is modern marriage? rubbish,all these small neophyte minds that feel they know shit cos they enjoy small fame,these marriage will take the grace of GOD to survive, what the sponsors should start doing now is to at least upgrade the status of the man so as to at least measure up to the woman,stupid mumu comments from mumu minds all over the page here.
i do that all the time ...and i love doing it .
The man supports his wife, silly vain Nigerians are insulting him, tomorrow a man limits his wife and you would open your mouth to say rubbish. this is one reason why some cultures don't allow their women work or get a career, imagine the nonsense. Soon they would say he is not good rep for her and ruin their marriage, spoiling God's blessings with their petty views. Jumoke please honor your man as you always have and God will continue to favour you
Me too,lol seriously (aunty linda post it)
U just spoke my mind. Oga respect itself n get sth to do before tide turns again o.
Nice one from yemi
@taiwo akin wht is culture... does culture forbids u nt to carry ur own baby. May lord deliver u frm evry spirit of culture.
Iota
Sincerely, I feel that this husband opened himself up to all the snide remarks, comments, and criticism he is receiving!!!
He had no business posing with his wife in such a manner as this!
In the Nigerian setting, this picture says a lot!!! Just compare his appearance with that of his wife! The posture, demeanour, the carriage..come on! The husband looks like the wife's house boy!!! (No offence meant.)
Even if he was invited, he should have politely but firmly declined.
Sincerely, I feel that this husband opened himself up to all the snide remarks, comments, and criticism he is receiving!!!
He had no business posing with his wife in such a manner as this!
In the Nigerian setting, this picture says a lot!!! Just compare his appearance with that of his wife! The posture, demeanour, the carriage..come on! The husband looks like the wife's house boy!!! (No offence meant.)
Even if he was invited, he should have politely but firmly declined.
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