Popular LIB reader, Onyx Godwin writes heartfelt article about his feminine stature and mannerism and how he deals with people's negative reaction to him. Read below...
Growing up, I always hear people call me "woman wrapper", people told me I behaved like a girl. I was just a kid in primary school then, I didn't know how a guy or girl behaves, so I was confused, shy, angry and depressed for a long time. The constant mockery in school and even in the church I used to attend, I always got and still get three basic reactions - the baffled and astonished, the indifferent and the one's that are out-rightly disgusted by me. I will take my time to explain this three set of people, just patiently read on...
1. The baffled and astonished; this set of people are
shocked and surprised at my effeminacy, they feel amused seeing a guy
who behaves more like a girl than girls, they are not irritated or angry
at you,they try being your friend and having you around because of your
rare and unique nature.
2.The indifferent; this set of people don't care,they feel
less concerned and don't give any thought to your effeminacy,they simply
move on with their lives!
3.The irritated; this set of people are disgusted by your
sight,they mock you in public,bully you,call you " homo" or gay at any
given chance,they will gladly kill you and feel no remorse.
This three set of people shaped who i am today,i grew up
to be very strong and bold,i had series of depression,i was rejected
and laughed at.i remember finishing high school in 2012, admission was
taking my time and i decided to work,the guys in the interview room were
laughing and asked -u go sabi work so? See as u dey behave like woman
and thin join.lol,guess what?most of them didn't get the job,i did! I
ended up working there for over a year,even got promoted!
Many guys refuse hanging out with you,being friends with
you or even walking with you because they will be labelled gay,EVEN GAYS
THEMSELVES DISCRIMINATE ON EFFEMINATE GUYS TOO! PATHETIC
Yes we are effeminate, we behave like girls, we aren't
men enough,we sway our hips,swirl our eyes and hands,belly dance,twerk
and so much more, but does that make us less human than you lot? Does
that mean we should get mocked ? Laughed at? Embarrassed?
I have major problems with Jonathan signing the anti-gay
bill because it directly incriminate and endanger we effeminate guys,the
society has already labelled us gays, the law sinply back them up and
give them the liberty to brutalize us and get away with it!
Yes i am effeminate,i didn't choose to be like this,i did not create myself,i did not choose to sway my hips,bat my eyelashes,draw my words knowing damn well the world we live in.
Yes i am effeminate,i didn't choose to be like this,i did not create myself,i did not choose to sway my hips,bat my eyelashes,draw my words knowing damn well the world we live in.
You igbos know how it felt when kunle afolayan came for the yoruba
weeks back?you all know how it feels to look for a job and not getting
the employment because you are from a certain tribe, you all know how it
feels when you are mocked for being short, dark,ugly, big nose,big eyes
and all the naija usual yabbing,you all complain about racism even
though the people that complain more haven't even left their state.if
all this mentioned is not ok and degrading, why do you think it is ok to
mock and degrade a guy because nature made him a "woman wrapper"?
Written by - Onyx Godwin
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ALL YOU BULLIES CRITICIZING THIS BRILLIANT/SMART BOY SHOULD GET A LIFE... YES GET A DAMN LIFE!!!! WE ALL HAVE ISSUES WE ARE DEALING WITH, BOY CHOSE TO COME OUT AND SOME FRUSTRATED CREATURES ARE CALLING HIM OUT... FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE, LIVE AND LET LIVE, LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO DRINK PANADOL SOMEONE ELSE'S HEADACHE. ONYX DEAR DON'T MIND THEM.. GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH.. STAY FAITHFUL... YOU HAVE LEFT A LEGACY
FIRST TIME HERE
LIB BLOGGERS HAVE NO CHILL, LOL.
Stupid, stupid, stupid gay
Akuku timo pe iwo ti ya were n tie! Oloriburuku, mashanfani eda! Can't u be remorseful for once...*sigh*
You are doom! AbokiDaWereBoy
Lolz no be small Agama lizard..well onyx since u have found out that people laugh at you ,call u gay, etc cuz of ur nature, I will simply tell u dat ur overdoing things just to get noticed..don't u have a family that should advice u on the way u dress?, and other little things that u do to attract attention? ..well I hope that one day u will not come out and say that u want to transform urself to a woman..my advice is that u do something reasonable with ur life and stop this pathetic life that u want to live..I know of a guy who behaves like a woman , buh he read architecture and he is a graduate now ..so get a life
This tout called aboki, its not funny. I pity your parent I swear and that's if you have one. Damn! Illiterates will come on here just to comment instead of reading and understanding. Silly dirty thing
Today,nah today. Can't wait to see the usual traffic. Lol
Today,nah today. Can't wait to see the usual traffic. Lol
OK.
Linda's Onyx,na so u dey?
Onyx, I have been through this road... Its your choice!
I found myself there and for some reason, I thought about this on my way to work THIS MORNING, hence why I'm posting this comment.
As a young boy with this sort of disorder (Yes it is). I made conscious effort to change the way I walk, talk, and do things. Over time, I changed and it changed everything about me. Why did I think about this process this morning ( I had issues making up my mind and making conscious effort to improve some part of my life, and GOD reminded me how I changed the feminine side of me when I was young. )
Its your choice, You are where you are as a result of what you have ALLOWED in your life. Own up to it and stop explaining to the world why you have been defeated about your own choices.
You can still make a change Yes! All it takes is some conscious effort.
I see you follow all sort of people on social media , Yes I checked you out after few minutes of reading this post but Im sure you're doing more harm than good to yourself..
I'll stop here ! Enough said.
very soon , you'll be explaining why you're gay and why you were MADE this way...
Linda you better stop whatever it is you are doing 4 Onyx.
This young man should focus on his mind and looks, think more like a man ,dress more manly and quit those girlish postures! His physical look will improve has he grows!
Onyx the Agama Lizard
People help themselves - to become better
But NO. You decide to worsen ur matter
Just look at Yourself..look at You...look well
Don't you look sick to u?
You love the attention ur supposed look is giving you!
OK, so what is effeminate??
You walking naked on d street and tell us u ain't mad,you just lost ur brain lol
Aboki your delusions of persecution are a telltale sign of early stage paranoid schizophrenia. Please get a life and leave others, sweetie.
Chai...chinekee!!!
Umunmuo na high life #smh
A.K.A LIB'ier
This is how all the gay guys started, flaunting body like ladies, I know of one I Schooled with in Mkd. Pls Onyx discover urself in God, b4 it gets out of hand. @AbokiDaWarriBoy, pls stop insulting him, he needs our counseling at this time.
Umunmuo na high life #smh
A.K.A LIB'ier
Onyx, don't let nature define you. I know some guys that talk and act like women growing up. With time they changed. Some people are born that way but u have to personally train your self to behave more like a man. And please Bv's don't make your comments push him to suicide, well good enough he has survived the back lashes from people. You guys should learn to speak with love in correction that's is what will help onyx and not calling him names please. Onyx you can learn to act like a man its never late. Talk to God about it. There is nothing impossible. Meanwhile these your pose can get you and international modelling contract if Linda can assist you with that. The same people here insulting will be the same ones that will want to associate with you. But please don't homo even when you eventually join the modelling industry cos I see you going far.
Linda u need 2 grow up o, u lack ideas dis days, u dnt knw matured minded pple read ur blog, u wil jst cme n post 1 rubbish. Ur readers u won't celebrate dem, na so so death news plus onyx tins. Mtsheew
My dear don't mind them o, am not saying you are not gay or that you are, you have female hormones. It's your nature, some poeple with same nature I know are not gay.
Didirin ara yaba!!! I knw u will confess one day...
All in d name of "king of blog" u use davido's driver as your id(u call that a life?) Seriously! Am sure u are way older than him! And ...All in d name of top *carpenter* u dine and whine on linda's blog...
You are doom! #Davido'sdriver
so my guy from this are you saying you are or aren't gay?
Anyway like i always say DON'T HATE WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW.... i had a friend Ose Emmanuel ( God rest his soul in peace) he was like you say EFFEMINATE... ILOOOOOOOVED having him around he was sooooo funny and very artistic a brilliant dancer, yeah we also thought he was gay till we met his VERY HOOOOOOT CHIK
CASE CLOSED!
Chaai sorry dear dnt let words get to u. Be a good guy n rest your case on God.
Bruce Jenner in d making... See you in 30 years time.
Your stupidity is epic!
Lol....i don tire for Onyx matter,he's gay period..
Choi...dis guy u wicked o. lmao
Nawa o, pple shd pls free dis dude n let him b abeg
"i didn't choose to be like this". No, no, no! If you're truly a man, then dress well like a man and stop posing in pictures or making-up like a woman. You do that one, not nature or God. (You can also keep your moustache/beards if you like).
Like I said, there's nothing smart in this article except he's intentionally doing this for some ulterior motive.
*** mynameisSkelewu
wow...but onyix u can adjust na...even if wen u want to snap a pix..n ur hips wants to pose like a lady...just say no n stand like a man...I have a claxmate dat way...n u only see him in d company of females ..We all love him..If he comes to d female hostel everyone wil b calling on him...but at least he doesn't wine his hips...He doesn't pose like a gurl...i tink some should be controlled to some extent.
You look like a gay and I guess you most be a gay bcos you're acting to you nature
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@AbokiDaWarriBoy, I wil suggest u shut ur trap of a gutter mouth if u don't hav anytin meaningful to say. Indeed u r a clown, and a boy stil growing up.
pls can you stop putting this guy on ur blog. u are making him more popular by the day and they are kids reading ur blog
lmaooooo....d posters above me are damn hilarious! linda, you should have a like button where people can like comments.....
Say what you know. I have seen little boys that act exactly like girls. No Matter how much you try to correct them, they still behave feminine. They might be gay, but not homosexual. There is difference in being gay and homosexual.
Can't stop laughing.....i understand him n I feel for him#Linda's gal
lol.....Everybody should really face their own.
Lmao..dis guy is a gay...so dis is ur means 4 dem to legalise it wunt wrk 4 u....I swear if I b gay I no Miggle wif u..ah ah u too slimm..lol
With your language as a deaconess, you are not better than gays. You are very ignorant.
Just live your life my dear...u don't need to make people happy
Nobody likes you too
If you not gay, it means transgender.
It takes boldness and courage to accept your feminine side. i sincerely hope it takes you to unimaginable places. Wish you well.
Whatever he hoped to achieve with this article.. It failed! try to live your life and avoid sympathy, cos u won't get none here..
who is he???? trying to make himself relevant, get a job it pays. not advertising your status, no one cares whether you are gay or not,.....so mind your business
Cos u are acting dat way does dat make u gay, na wah for people o if dem b tomboy they say they are lesbians and if otherwise dey claim gay abeg. U act that way mayb cos u grew up with plenty sisters. But abeg stop claiming gay it is becoming so annoying. Everybody don b gay lolz i cant laugh. My opinion na personality conflict dey worry u no b gay
I have a friend like that and he is not gay, he like woman pass. OnyiX don't mind what u read here on comment section because that will not define who you are beside guys like you are the bff anybody can ask for.
And wots ur business if he wana b a celeb by force, did he stopped u from being a celeb,u guys shud leave him alone Atimes pple like u dnt understand wot odas r passing thru.#Linda'sgal
The one thing I like about Onyx is he's courage. You are a courageous boy and it shows. As for being effeminate I honestly have nothing to say. I wish you well.
I agree with ONYX. He didn't ask to be created this way and we should respect him and not throw insults at him. Nice one ONYX, one day you will look back and laugh at all these. You will deinitely be great! Don't allow cluesless souls bring you down.
I agree with ONYX. He didn't ask to be created this way and we should respect him and not throw insults at him. Nice one ONYX, one day you will look back and laugh at all these. You will deinitely be great! Don't allow cluesless souls bring you down.
linda ...gay enabler
Guy my advise for you is that you should start Gym....so you can grow some Muscle.
post a free classified advert
Hahaha! Una nr go kill me for dis blog ohhh
Lmfaooo na wa o, acting up like I'm against his write up!?!?! Some people are very sick in d brain thu, I only shaded his looks just like he does to odas. E.g celebs, Onyx deep down my heart, I'm not against you in anyway, do whatever makes u happy, I believe only God can judge.
Lmfaooo na wa o, acting up like I'm against his write up!?!?! Some people are very sick in d brain thu, I only shaded his looks just like he does to odas. E.g celebs, Onyx deep down my heart, I'm not against you in anyway, do whatever makes u happy, I believe only God can judge.
Truth b told,U r who u r,but trust me no 1 taught u,bt u c u can outgrow ur effimacy,life is in stages growth is 2,u choose,ur an adolescent so ur still growin,Just a question,wuld u still wanna be lyk dis in d next 20yrs,or consiously change ur mind set n become d man,u were meant 2 b,God made u a man 4 a purpose,n if ur effiminate,ur takin d role of a lady,myt b hard 2 digest,bt check within ur soul,n dnt play d guilt card,bt ask ursef Wot U really,n Who U rEally wAnt 2 B
I second u
This fool be hiding under the umbrella of anonymous.. Coward why not comment with your id showing
A thousand LIKES for this truth dear!
I really don't understand why people complain about the way he poses or dresses. IT IS HIS LIFE AND BODY. My God! Are we that jobless?? It is not his fault that he is effeminate..ONYX dear, Please keep doing your thing.Please you all should let him be. For the fools calling him agama lizard,please be bold and post you pictures..
I Cant even understand a little gay ass niga advertising yourself on the internet,When you know the activities of gay is a criminal offence in the Nigerian Justice System,I hope you know when your caught your finished already,And i hope you live in a sophisticated Area Because you might be mobbed or lynched,You just disgust me as a human,Just think if your parents where gay ,if you will ever be given birth to,Nasty Thing!
Useless faggot,u r so disgusting. Pls get a life,asshole. Ewwwwwwww
One form what you have said I can tell you mean you are a gay but you know that you are a male why don't you just control your self to be a male control your mind don't let your mind control you dress like a guy act like a guy befor you know it you will be the guy you are suppose to be In other words believe believe believe believe @oyinx @oyinx @oyinx @oyinx @oyinx @oyinx @oyinx @oyinx @oyinx
Linda I guess u are gay too for promoting all this,This boy is still small and u are helping in destroying his life by making him feel he is doing the right thing.
Discrimination is one of the major problem we have........No one created him/herself.....
Its high time we accept pple for who they are......
Onyx has taken his time to explain his nature....
I hope everyone reads, understand and digest.....and stop bullying/insulting him around...
Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....
My own is why did he add Igbo people inside his life story kwa? Wetin concern Igbo and Kunle Afolayan inside this akuko?
someone said same as tomboys... well, for u tomboys, u no really get problem like that sha.
una just need the constant reminder say una period dey com again.
Wow you read these comments and it makes you scared to imagine what it would be like to bring a child into this world filled with so much hate. Whatever happened to live and let live???
Am not moved by his post; my reason: This is how homosexuals start by saying they are effeminate or so till it transcends to been homosexuals full time, you know you behave like a girl @ Onyx, den you know you have an identity or character crisis that your environment do not accept wholeheartedly, I have a family member who was a tom boy but she has changed, you know you act feminine then works towards changing it, the pics you post regularly is not just effeminate, its gayish, i have 2 friends who behaves like ladies but they don't snap pics wit their T-shirt up, they dnt bend their waist like you do, they do not push their lips out wen taking pics, once again, am not moved by your long, emotional post, get your acts together.....
Even ladies dont behave or pose the way u do. It would have been nice if it even suits u but seriously its irritating
Even ladies dont behave or pose the way u do. It would have been nice if it even suits u but seriously its irritating
No human being on earth has the right to discriminate against any other human being, no matter how they present. You kill a person psychologically when you discriminate against him/her. There are better ways to make people know you do not approve their character. You do not have to like everything people do or their way of life, but do not discriminate against them. It is very bad.
he should be arrested and killed...
We dont want guy in Nja
According to the scholar and hadith collector An-Nawawi:
A mukhannath(effeminate) is the one ("male") who carries in his movements, in his appearance and in his language the characteristics of a woman. There are two types; the first is the one in whom these characteristics are innate, he did not put them on by himself, and therein is no guilt, no blame and no shame, as long as he does not perform any (illicit) act or exploit it for money (prostitution etc.). The second type acts like a woman out of immoral purposes and he is the sinner and blameworthy.[3]
Furthermore there is the observation of Ibn Abd Al-Barr who was a contemporary of An-Nawawi:
The mukhannath(effeminate) is not only the one who is known to be promiscuous. The mukhannath(effeminate) is (also?) the one who looks so much like a woman physically that he resembles women in his softness, speech, appearance, accent and thinking. If he is like this, he would have no desire for women and he would not notice anything about them. This is one of those who have no interest in women who were permitted to enter upon women. Linda post this!
onyx my real nigga... Pele.. u know d kinda society we live in so be careful,its 14yrs+ . Linda no go fit bale u o
Fool stop posting your comments over and over for replies.
people should stop bullyin this guy please. we also have tomboys and they are not bullied
According to the scholar and hadith collector An-Nawawi:
A mukhannath(effeminate) is the one ("male") who carries in his movements, in his appearance and in his language the characteristics of a woman. There are two types; the first is the one in whom these characteristics are innate, he did not put them on by himself, and therein is no guilt, no blame and no shame, as long as he does not perform any (illicit) act or exploit it for money (prostitution etc.). The second type acts like a woman out of immoral purposes and he is the sinner and blameworthy.[3]
Furthermore there is the observation of Ibn Abd Al-Barr who was a contemporary of An-Nawawi:
The mukhannath(effeminate) is not only the one who is known to be promiscuous. The mukhannath(effeminate) is (also?) the one who looks so much like a woman physically that he resembles women in his softness, speech, appearance, accent and thinking. If he is like this, he would have no desire for women and he would not notice anything about them. This is one of those who have no interest in women who were permitted to enter upon women.
Fool stop posting your comments over and over again
According to the scholar and hadith collector An-Nawawi:
A mukhannath(effeminate) is the one ("male") who carries in his movements, in his appearance and in his language the characteristics of a woman. There are two types; the first is the one in whom these characteristics are innate, he did not put them on by himself, and therein is no guilt, no blame and no shame, as long as he does not perform any (illicit) act or exploit it for money (prostitution etc.). The second type acts like a woman out of immoral purposes and he is the sinner and blameworthy.[3]
Furthermore there is the observation of Ibn Abd Al-Barr who was a contemporary of An-Nawawi:
The mukhannath(effeminate) is not only the one who is known to be promiscuous. The mukhannath(effeminate) is (also?) the one who looks so much like a woman physically that he resembles women in his softness, speech, appearance, accent and thinking. If he is like this, he would have no desire for women and he would not notice anything about them. This is one of those who have no interest in women who were permitted to enter upon women. Linda, You should Post this..
hhhh..i c wat u did there
U sick! U need help. For real
What's the meaning of ordinary igbo boy? Ewuu yoruba
I cld hardly be bothered,i never cared then,i never will. It's ur life to live. Glad uv developed a thick skin.
If u like be gay or effeminate,it non of my biz and neither should it be any bodies.
Live ur life the way u deem fit,who cares what haters or jesters think??? They are just bunch of pained mofos.
U guys should expect more from this dude
Okay! As long as u sleep well @ nyt
My friend stop wearing tight clothes and act like a guy jare. Stop craving for attention. effeminate ko, effeminate ni.
Ohhh pls shutup ode deaconess
Ass? Drill? Nd u a deaconess
My dear God av mercy on ur soul silly hypocrite
My frnd short up. Wen they are talking of regular commenter so u count urself among. It's not by commenting regularly but reasonably. There are hundred and one good commenter's here if I can name I can go about it... Juliet Iwuno(linda take note) tho she is annoying with dat her logo but she comments reasonably, Bishop Dammy, BONARIO NNAGS ,Eze or so, one other guy that bears a bini name, ed DREAMZ , wilheminna moses, Toronto Finest, white berry, Olumide David, APPLE, christie benjamin ,OGUNDIRAN OYINDAMOLA, ASAMPOKOTO and I can go on and on, you wouldn't even get to numba 100 so u and ur desperate groups ROYAL PRIESTHOOD, AbokiDaWarriBoy, @lwkmd_naija , Davido's driver should take a several seat. I hardly comment on this blog but very good at reading comments so I know exactly what am saying. You and your groups are nothing for a big nuisance on this blog.
Aboki you need help!!
Is he d Nigerian Bruce Kris?
* * * Linda's 1st Daughter * * *
@ Divido's driver message for u on ur useless comment on onyx post. My frnd short up. Wen they are talking of regular commenter so u count urself among. It's not by commenting regularly but reasonably. There are hundred and one good commenter's here if I can name I can go about it... Juliet Iwuno(linda take note) tho she is annoying with dat her logo but she comments reasonably, Bishop Dammy, BONARIO NNAGS ,Eze or so, one other guy that bears a bini name, ed DREAMZ , wilheminna moses, Toronto Finest, white berry, Olumide David, APPLE, christie benjamin ,OGUNDIRAN OYINDAMOLA, ASAMPOKOTO and I can go on and on, you wouldn't even get to numba 100 so u and ur desperate groups ROYAL PRIESTHOOD, AbokiDaWarriBoy, @lwkmd_naija , Davido's driver should take a several seat. I hardly comment on this blog but very good at reading comments so I know exactly what am saying. You and your groups are nothing for a big nuisance on this blog.
If I scroll down and see your comments on this post again I will look for you and make sure onyx rapes you.
Gay talk being hyped by Linda! Bring ur ass to delta ! Let's burn u alive for being gay!
So Linda Ikeji you don't have stories to publish again??? What an annoying write-up! Gosh!!! I feel like puking on you and Onyx.
Bastard! No sense.god punish u there
Nigga you're gay when I see you I'm going to kick your stupid Ass stop acting like bitch you're a man
Your gay partner abi? We have lost it in Africa! We too dey copy whitey for everything ! Them go burn u and onyx alive ! Bastards
Onyx I feel ur pain,,i have 3 male friends that aren't gay but are labelled gays simply because they behave like girls.. It's just sickening and annoying cuz I know them well and know they aren't gay, that's just how God made them. People should learn how to stop lashing out on people..
Linda is either fucking him or doesn't have any gist !
you didnt know how men and women behaved? na lie.were you blind?my friend dont say you didnt choose to behave this way you did.when the feelings started you didnt resist them.bible says resist the devil and he will flee.its your choice.period.
Double standard idiot !
Being gay and effeminate are two different things. If you are both, sorry for you. Being effeminate is no reason to dress up in a clearly feminine manner. Indulge your masculine aspect more.
Hmmmmm u're suppose to be born a woman.
Ur two faced@royal priesthood. More like a pretender,a really bad one...A rili rili bad one.
God didn't create u to sway ur hips wen walkin u learnt dat ursef....even if u claim nt to be gay...ur whole essence I screaming gay
Kings of this blog. Lmaoo.... You are like a nuisance here if you ask me... You desperately seek for attention this much? And I'm sure you are not truly davido's driver.... Btw, the comments I read here are alarming. Im amazed of what this our generation has turned out to be...
You father ! If I catch u for real life ,I will stil bully u .gay supporter
He didn't even debunk the gay rumours. ..guess he's gay. Dint feel anything while reading d writeup. I tnk it's his enviroment or where he grew up. It'l b better if he gets rid of the behaviour...its plain irritating serzly.
How did Igbo people come into this conversation? Hilarious
Aboki u r just a fool...even if he's gay he's sha better and smarter than u will ever be. Jobless idiot
Hey Onyx I've never met u before but you're my friend on IG and you're very cool. I understand you and I know what you feel But I love your courage. Keep it up.
Wait wait, abeg na who be dis spirit?
U r a fool...ur mates r making millions per month and u r here dragging for who comments most on a blog, u r a very big disappointment and a fool
Well said Onyx...
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.NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..
Linda stop encouraging bad things,this is how it all started and at the end they will got confused.....if people call you names just because the way you walk,dress or talk then you too have to change your way and be smart,not other way round by trying to be gay or faggot...am not judging,only God can judge but let change our way "THE ONLY THING THAT IS CONSTANT IS CHANGE"
I was speaking to someone some days back that I wasn't too sure again if technology had done more harm than good. Did I read here that this boy finished from high school in 2012? That kind of courage he has that translates into blatant rudeness. My boy go and study hard to get into university and stop all these unnecessary publicity stunt!
He failed to make us understand if he is actually gay or not. He ought to have clear the assumptions.
You really have no brain.do u think at all before uttering the words that come from your mouth? I guess not
Did you just compare yourself to the igbo tribe. Just take a seat, trying to mooch off Linda Ikeji. Pointless explanation and a waste. Don't think you're all that. No one cares. Yea everyone is the way God created them, don't make yourself feel too special cos you're not. Gay or no Gay, no one really gives a fuck. Keep attracting unwanted attention to yourself. You'll only have yourself to blame.
Mtcheww, guess am the "indifferent '.
nigga please...u aint even man enough to be called gay, you're a gay's bitch, and we accept you as you are okay. Now quit bitching
Lmao. Brutal
And of course you're so sure he's gay cos...wait..no ure not God. Stop acting like u know all
Live* not leave. Mr Bona
Dis tyranny/hermaphrodite beign . U r irritating. *pukes* shuy d hell up already. Srzly endtime oh.
Thank you very much. You said it.
And you're an ignorant, obnoxious idiot with no sense of direction.
She is really forcing this boy on us. Mtcheww
I've got one advice for you dear, live your life and damn the opinions of others. We are all created in His likeness and you're no exception. Not everyone will love you as you deserve..even Jess wasn't and isn't loved by all...Take care!
*Jesus
Onyx ur problem lies with u, first see ur self as a normal person, cos the truth is no one rly cares whether u are effeminate or not!
Lolz! Nwanne na by force to admit???
Onyx , boy you are confused. Who diagnosed you as effeminate? So you have looked up a word to best suit your copied bad habit. Cmon boy you can't be serious. Who are u trying to deceive? You need to get serious with your life, you are a man, stop all this bullshit. Grow the fuck up.
Abi ooo, did nature tell him that, or to bend like that? Make him go sidun for dere
So when are you going to do begi begi for the money to do the sex change? Cos I know there is a Bruce Jenner waiting to burst out of you! Gay boy!
I belong to the second category. None of my business. Ur life,ur rules. Do what suits u dude or babe. Don't even know which one to call u
Child please!!!!! Bye
So dear Onyx, are you heterosexual? Do you have a penis? Who do you think of when you feel sexy -males or females. You don't exactly make a case here unless you answer these questions in your write up. I was a tomboy when I lived in Nigeria. I bought men's jeans and shirts to wear at onitsha market. bossybody called me gay. They joked about me being a boy but that was jokes Nigeria style -you know the same way you laughed at Jonathan and mocked him with impunity. Same way you have sent sniper comments the way of Murray Bruce. Shop my dear, as a society until we stop laughing at people and stop perpetuating abuse under the camouflage of anonymity on social media and until we stop being forced to accept behavior we don't want, you will continue to feel this way. Stop taking those girly pictures too. Get hormone treatments if you have low testosterone because you are at risk for autoimmune disease as male with low testosterone. If you are a hermaphrodite, get a sex change
Lol.. I can see Bruce Jenner is inspiring a lot of effeminate/ Trangender people here. Well done Onyx, wen u finish coming out fully as gay let us know okay, we are patiently waitng for you. #14years..
#truestory
Dem dey talk A , smurf dey talk B ...wats all dis for ...jux let him be ...we all aint a saint or cleab...save urself d silly talks ...have a good life smurf and onyx...its ur life u choosse how u wanna live it ....
Smile boy, u look good,
If you choose to be a woman in a man's body, that is called choice not nature!
If you are gay admit it and move on. if you aren't then stop acting and taking pictures like like a girl, try to be a man.
Onyx u are very brilliant. Your expression is okay for the mature minds. It's only the petty Libers that will abuse u. You are who u are and you are what you are. And I love you the way you are. You have a lot to give to this world. Keep ur head high and walk on the heads of Linda ikeji blogs bullies to ur desired empire.
What a sad society we live in. It is well Onyx .
Eeya sorry onyx I feel your pain, @aboki you are a big fool, you don't have to comment if you don't know what to say, just read and pass haba LIB bully mtewww!!!
You the best commneter ever!!!!!!
onyx came out to express himself and the next thing is judgement on him. These are the words that will make a human being commit suicide. if we say we are xtians or muslims i think we should be careful with words.. all d best onyx. Thumps up.
How many times do you want to post this comment....... jobless asshole. . Mtscheeeewww
STOP ALL THIS RUBBISH YARNS AND ENTER GYM AND HELP YOURSELF LOOK MORE MASCULINE JOOR. ABI YOU BE GAY TRUE TRUE?
Onyx just live ur life and try to be happy always. Tongue must wag.
Listen dude! You are who you are by choice and not Automatically by God. God created you to be a person who fufils purpose, what you do with dat is tyotally your decision to make. If you decide to stop all this nonsense or not...it all boils down to choice!!! So don't blame your foolishness or wisdom on God
Its not even about your sexuality but more about your defeat to the choices you have made. We all have challenges in life and I am not criticising you for anything other than
PLEASE NEVER GIVE FILTHY EXCUSES to cover up for your issues. Own it up/
Did you just say
EVEN GAYS THEMSELVES DISCRIMINATE ON EFFEMINATE GUYS TOO!
How on freaking earth did you know this if you are not in the community.
Onyx, I am so sad you've allowed too much of exposure to turn you into what God has not made you. You are young, creative and vibrant, Please channel that energy into making the changes that you desire and not give us all excuses. yes this article sounds intelligent and well worded but its worded in a wrong direction because every sensible human being will recognise that DEFEAT is written all over your article...
Al I can read here is a coward, young man given up on making himself a better person.
Quit wearing skinny jeans, Eat well...(Linda gave you 100k last year..lol.. you for use am chop..(on a lighter note)).
Help your self and stop all this shebang!
Well Onyx your poses in some of your pictures suggests something fishy. Try and reduce them. I'm not against anyone's sexual preference though.
So is the next step to become a woman? Are you unleashing your inner Bruce?
Thank you for your candid advice Bonario, this piece from Onyx shldnt have been posted on LIB considering the type of kids we have in here, very childish and in exposed set of people.
Hopefully Onyx won't get turned off by their comments. I wish he looks beyond the comments and see the bigger picture in his self.
Thank you for your candid advice Bonario, this piece from Onyx shldnt have been posted on LIB considering the type of kids we have in here, very childish and in exposed set of people.
Hopefully Onyx won't get turned off by their comments. I wish he looks beyond the comments and see the bigger picture in his self.
FooooooooooooooooooooooLLLLL!!!!
Onyxx dont mind dm joor. Wot makes u unique makes u beautiful. Wow, never knw there were mny sad folks on dis blog who derive pleasure in ensuring someone else is more miserable dn they are. Y'all wanna drive a n*ggur to suicide? There is absolutely nothing wrong wit u, jus face God first, work hard n errtin will fall into place. Ur comments here don't evn make tins better, cos u also shade odr pple dats y peeps aint taking u serious.
Billy left his house this morning with 12 fucks!! He came back home later with a dozen fucks!!! How many fucks did he give that day?? You do the maths boy!!
You are missing the point Linda, this thing is terribly ugly and disgusting.
Abeg go and hide your silly self.
Lol
Pls take several seats! Ur post and ur previous comments on several posts on dis blog do not tally! U tryna get famous right? There u hav it! Enjoy!!!! I
Bruce Jenner has come to Naija
Hello onyx, I can't begin to imagine how u feel but God is your strength. You didnt choose to be like that as u said. I know of boy too in owerri who walks and laughs like a girl. I used to think he does it on purpose but then i found out that d way he has always been. I didn't hate him or anything like that instead I used to be amazed that a boy can behave like a girl. I think I fit in the 1st category u mentioned. I never criticized him or mock him. It is well.
Onyx you are just another attention seeking disgusting faggot! next thing you will be on your way to thailand and return as girl.tueh.... i spit on u
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind... 1 Corinthians 6:9
Feel your pain but maybe you could help yourself by dressing like a man that you are some times. And eye barting! Are you for real? Help yourself please linda's son.
How can u call somebody an ugly swine? Pls it's not right.
Onyx, I have some advice for you....
1. No mountain is too high for you to climb, all you have to do is have some climbing faith. You are effeminate and you CAN help it. You CAN change it if you will.
2. Your pictures don't help matters, You CAN stop swaying your hips, batting your eyelash and all other girlie stuffs. That is if you want to..............
To all LIB readers,
Abokidaworriboy, Davido driver, and the anononymous
1. Life is not a bed of roses, nd people have challenges..........This is onyx challenge, you should not make jest of him
2. Let's ASSUME Onyx is gay, Who are you to judge him? Who the hell are you to say with courage what should be done to him? Are you GOD?
3. I don't have much knowledge of the Holy Books(Koran or Bible), Nd I cannot say for sure if being homo is/isn't a sin. But, Lets pretend its a sin. There is only one place for all sinners, the reward for Stealing lying or taking the life of another is hellfire. And one thing I know is that there is no degree of sin. All you who criticize this boy(who is also blood and flesh as you are), Tell me you have Never sinned against God. Am sure you all have............So why make gayness seem more grievous than stealing or telling lies? Why?
4. Onyx looks gay. Gay is a term that primarily refers to a homosexual person or the TRAIT of being homosexual. TRAIT(from parent or ancestors), maybe he cant control being gay, So why hate him for what he cant change?(He may not like it too)
Lets assume he likes it, Its his LIFE, You cant hate him for being bold enough to accept his fate and live his life like these things never happened to him.
Please, HE is HUMAN, YOU are HUMAN.......... Nobody is perfect
#Liveandletslive
Please don't say that. Thou shall not kill. 5th commandment! You did not give him life. Why would u want to take it? If you don't like his ways of behaving, u give him some advice or perhaps put him in prayers for him to change.
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Onyx,been gay can be detrimental to your health in the farthest or nearest future, the bible spoke against it and laid curses to people who practice such. He even destroyed sodum and Gomorah(pardon me I can't remember the spellings). It's ok to be who you are, but it's tough out here and you have to fight to fit into the acceptable norms of where you belong to. Our culture forbade this and still does. I used to know two guys of your kind back in school but mhen!!! It will annoy most nigga to see their kind acting like a girl cause we ain't girls so why should a nigga act like them(if you get the context of my write up). You can work on ya self. It's takes sacrifice,patience and determination. No matter how we choose to live,live will make us drop some acts and pick up new ones and now that's growing and the only ever constant thing is #CHANGE and that's the Era Nigeria just preceded into
Nice writeup. But are you effeminate or gay? U didnt clear the air.
So as an effeminate... Who are u sexually attracted to. Nigga hush u gay
Well, dis shld ve stopped bothering u a long time ago dear. Ppl will alwz talk so enjoy ursef n do wat mks u happy
Hmm! Well summary, Your gay, u wish to be with men but sad your in a country that kick against it so bad and we will always kick against it strongly Brother
You said it all. Okwu agwuna nwanne mu ooo
If any of homophobic bigots can create anoda Onyx, Pls come forward n I will let u do away wif dis innocent guy. But if u can't den shut up n shove ur ideologies up where I don't hv to mention.
D God who made dis young man has no expressed his regret over creating him, y shld u now do God's work. A**holes.
I feel ur pain onyxxx buh is it God dat made u take pictures like a fool and pose d way u do?. It's ur making my brother and its just simply irritating.
Hey bro... I feel your pain but you can prove us wrong when you show us your gf. I think your a gay cuz of your comments on gay related issues. Well, I'm not going to discriminate you for who u are but....
So people can be born with deformities but they can't be born gay? I weep for your level ignorance you probably need to read other books than the bible #smh
God in heaven forbid homo, read your bible and see what happen to the Sodom and Gomorra. God created you as a man not woman so get that right and be normal. Peace
Humanity will only thrive when hateful people like you are vanquished from the surface of the earth! Whether you like it or not one day humans will be extinct get that into your ignorant daft hating brain.
Killing him won't make u any less daft than you already are, and it won't stop you from going to that hell that your are already destined for
Be Kind
Why do u want him to include the part where he takes in his ass? Foolish pervert!!! Its your type that will watch gay porn in their bedroom and come out to claim straight
ONYX GODWIN THUMBS UP FOR YOUR LOVELY WRITE-UP. MOST HATERS ON THIS FORUM CAN'T EVEN WRITE A CORRECT SENTENCE. A WORD OF ADVICE THO; IT'S ONE THING TO LOOK EFFEMINATE AND ANOTHER THING TO POSE LIKE A FEMALE. TONE DOWN YOUR FEMININE POSES AS IT ISN'T NATURE RELATED SO AS NOT TO GIVE A WRONG IMPRESSION. AS FOR THE HATERS AMONGST THE LIBERS: TRY TO RESPECT THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS FOR ONCE, TAKE A CHILL PILL. PEARL SAYS SO.
You're either gay and you don't want to admit it or you wannna be transgender so bad. Effeminate still depicts the word gay or trans.
Ok.
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This nigga got jokes yo. I really don't care if you're gay or not. What I have a problem with is you blaming the way you are based on your thin physique. I have friends that are thin like you and no way sway their hips or take poses like you do. And they sure don't twerk. C'mon son, you lost me when you send twerk, no fucking straight guy fucking twerks. Just do you tho, n o need to explain yourself.
Don't be a moron hommie pick up a book and read today. Don't come here and be forming pro over something that you are ignorant of.
Whoever dis is ,I love u!! Best comment so far
GUY! you so gay n you dont even recognise it. but its ok to hide under the 'effeminate'thing. lol
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