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Monday 1 April 2013

"I will never be faithful to a woman. Never ever!' - Femi Kuti says

"Femi Kuti tells Yes! International magazine:
"I will never get married again. I don't think I will ever be able to trust anybody. I will never be able to give any woman that chance. First, I will never be faithful. Never ever! I will not even try to be faithful. I won't! Because first of all, I don't even believe a woman would be faithful to me. And why does she want to be faithful to me? First, I think it's very unnatural and I can not even imagine standing somewhere and one man will say 'I pronounce you man and wife. Who are you to pronounce me man and wife? Okay, I pronounce myself man and wife. There's a girl who lives with me now. She's not as jealous as most of my other girlfriends.. She knows I like women, so we understand each other. She doesn't question me, I don't question her. She takes cares of our child, no wahala. But the minute she starts being over-jealous, we are going to start to fight. She's the kind of person that I will say, that girl is fine o, and she will say, should I chase her for you? And I will say don't worry, I can do it myself. 
He said a lot more. Continue...



It's about freedom expression, freedom of the mind, freedom of being able to live and if that institution can not give me that, why should I go into an institution that is about restriction? It doesn't mean that I'm somebody that wants to sleep around, I just don't like 'don't, don't, don't! I don't need an institution to tell me that.

I don't want anybody to question me. Who are you to question my life? Have you heard any of my song questioning anybody? And every time I've tried to love, they have broken my heart. From day one - either because I'm Fela's son. I hear the parents say 'oh, you want to marry Fela's son? God forbid. Even Funk that I married, when her mother found out I was Fela's son, she scream no o! God forbid. Funke had to runaway to get pregnant o! And we ran away to get married. So, by the time she and her mother made up, of course, the marriage collapsed.

So you see, I try to be straight forward. Why should I lie? I'm popular and I now want to be sneaking from house to house or lie to my girlfriend? There's no way they won't catch me so it's better you're truthful. So I don't start a relationship with 'you are my one and only, bla bla bla. No! I like you very much but the possibility of liking someone else is there. I tell them. Even my wife Funke, I made this very clear to her. I don't start my relationship based on you are the only one, I want to marry you, you're the apple of my eyes. I start by being very truthful.

233 comments:

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Anonymous said...

Like father like son .

medals said...

dats wat i call a faithful man.a true son of his father.

Anonymous said...

Very useless, unreliable, irresponsible man...no home training obviously..
Good looking for nothing...what a waste of space

Anonymous said...

First to comment.hehehehe Like father like son ,God help u

Anonymous said...

ok we don hear

Anonymous said...

Eheh Femi?are u serious? Mtschew

Anonymous said...

God bless u sir

@segunsd said...

Hilarious. Well this what people experience. Before you judge him sha many women have said the same. It is a mind set. A lot people go through stuff and find it hard to let go and move.

I can also figure out he said so because many women are deceptive nowadays.

Can you believe that Ghanaian secondary school students are rushing for fake buttocks like mad. I read it on
naijaPOSE whata deceptive world this is turning to!

Anonymous said...

Beta learn to be faithful to a woman bfr u strt regreting your life @old age

Anonymous said...

Issokai

Anonymous said...

Balderdash! Gues ure high! U'v jst lost all d respect I had for u femi!

Anonymous said...

Like father like son. Not surprise anyway!!!

Anonymous said...

God bless u sir

Anonymous said...

Oh sod d fcuk off Femi..u no absolutely nothing.

Anonymous said...

Oh lord have mercy o 4 some of dis unbelievers, show dem ur way lord

Anonymous said...

What is he blabing about. He is trying to be weird like his father but he should look at what happened at the End. STDS are still very real.

Anonymous said...

This man is clearly suffering from a broken heart and that is why he is trying to normalize his promiscuous lifestyle. He needs help. What he is suggesting is not okay and the woman he is with right now really needs to evaluate how the relationship benefits her and her child.

Olumide Samuel said...

This man is overblunt lol. Alright, best of luck in ur single life

kingsworldwide said...

He is indeed the son of his father. waiting for him to declare his own 23 cocubines.

Anonymous said...

It's cool that he has spoken the truth. Not many man are man enough to speak honestly the way Femi has spoken. Cowards. However, Femi's lifestyle is different to anyone else's. He is one in a million, literally. Regular men should NOT seek to emulate this kind of lifestyle otherwise, you will get slapped. If you are not the son of Fela, you better sit you ass down and stay faithful to your woman and she better be your one and only. or else. . . (you know wetin juju be?)

Anonymous said...

Like father like son n his son will grow up wiv d same thinking 'very bad way of reasoning

Decent Adora said...

Like father like son, abeg mak we hear word...

★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★ said...

Men get frustrated because they don’t understand how women think. Women get frustrated because they understand how men think.

Girl Next Door - Virus Detected! said...

Orisirisi

ijjjoy said...

Ha, ha, this is serious ohhhh.(My lips are sealed)

Anonymous said...

hey Femi Kuti don kill me o.Why will he say he will not be faithful to any woman.Even GOD said we should! Nawa o nothing wey i no go hear

Anonymous said...

Well....hmmm!
@d end of d day, hz sha saying d truth,
Rada dan sneaking about na
But i won't marry a man like tht oh, bt hz being straight 4wad nd truthful, i like

Anonymous said...

Obviously,the girl na side chic....she only wants your money. Do me I do you, 50/50.

Anonymous said...

Femi who wants to faithful to u.
Who even wan marry u?
Abeg pack urself inside one corner tho.
Amanda R

Anonymous said...

Haaaaaa lmao.. I like dis man. @ least he's sincere

Anonymous said...

Aids is real oooooo.

Anonymous said...

And that is the reason your father died of AIDS and is roasting in Hell. You cannot destroy the family background and unit by jumping from one woman to the other.How can you build a home like that, children everwhere like 2Face, and think u are wise. That is great stupidity if u do not know. I am highly disappointed in u Femi Kuti, to hell with u and your corrupt ideologies.

Anonymous said...

See this old fool

Anonymous said...

Linda, I've sent you more than five mails today
but you choose to ignore all. That's not fair. Its not the right way to treat a fan.

Anonymous said...

wow u will die just lyk ur father.

Anonymous said...

First to commemt D. This is crazy. Femi you are confused and you should have a rethink about your ways of life. You will have to answer one day before the LORD for all your deeds.

Anonymous said...

GENERATIONAL CURSES!!!..THE APPLE DOESNT FALL FAR FROM THE TREE...LIKE FATHER LIKE SON...AIDS KILLED YOUR DAD BE CAREFUL...AND STOP SELLING YOUR SOUL TO THE DEVIL..

RNC said...

This Femi is just a funny man.... Don't worry, a woman that's not jealous about your promiscuity is probably promiscuous herself. At least she's doing a great job taking care of your child. LOL

Anonymous said...

Who is this guy , Sheesh !

Anonymous said...

Whatever rocks ur boat man...whatever rocks ur boat

Anonymous said...

a messed up life,its about discipline,not about restrictions,she wanna help you chase other women,she does nt love and is capable of destroying u,whats wrong with all dis fela sons self,wreckless life doesn't pay,u were heart broken once,we get it,we all go thru dat once in a while,why give up and become promiscuous,deep within,i know he knows his life is messed up,common,al dis weak men trying to be strong,kip up with it,its ur life

Unknown said...

*yawns*....Next pls

Anonymous said...

What a silly old man

♚KVNG ZINNY♚ said...

Hian O___O

Anonymous said...

femi you be correct olodo! I pray you don't get aids

Anonymous said...

Whatever works for You man!good thing u don't lie to any of the ladies, so whoever get into a rlship with u is knows wat she's gettin into....

Liz said...

This man is a clown, he's activism is on another level, but the fact that he is truthful I respect, @least it best u cheat n ur open bout it, dan u pretend to be a saint n ur worse dan femi kuti

Anonymous said...

All this grammar,what is dat on his head?,abi en go grind cassava?,white hair...old man come out plain and tell us u need a girlfriend.

Deuces said...

Mr femi u re just a confused someborry

Anonymous said...

LIKE FATHER LIKE SON.ON THE OTHER HAND,I COMMEND YOUR SINCERITY.SOME MEN PROFESS RIGHTEOUSNESS BUT DO WORSE THINGS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS.
HOWEVER,TRY AND TREAT YOUR GIRLFRIEND(THAT IS, THE ONE LIVING WITH YOU) WITH MORE RESPECT AND BE CAREFUL NOT TO INFECT HER.IF YOU DONT TAKE WOMEN SERIOUS,THEY MAY NOT TAKE YOU SERIOUS ALSO. GOOD LUCK
ANDY

Ibitee said...

Words from a wise man..If we live according to Femi Kuti..there would be no heart aches and marital issues...we all need some freedom at some time or the other

Kelly F. Baby said...

Am i surprised?? u b fela pikin now!! u sure didnt learn a lesson from ur fathers death! (HIV)

don bookey said...

Nice one bro, da legend on earth !! Hailings from DonBookey #

Anonymous said...

Marry me, nothing like jealous in my own dictionary, I will giv u d freedom u wnt.

Anonymous said...

He's right. I dey feel u brotha.thankz

Anonymous said...

He is broken hearted. feel so sorry 4 him.

Anonymous said...

Well said,I think I prefer his kind of personality.He has spoken his mind and is either u r in or out. Some men will make you feel special and do worse things behind you. So now that you know, you would stay away and avoid heart break rather than being with a dishonest person who claims to be saint.I hate dishonest men cos they can poison you.

Anonymous said...

Is this april fool?, wat kind of nonsense talk is this now? mscheeeewww

Anonymous said...

Hi, but I thot you were sleeping today?

Anonymous said...

This man sef, how can you be this callous towards women? anyway na women wey no get respect for their womanhood.

Anonymous said...

Like father like son

Anonymous said...

Buhahahhahahhaahhahahhahahhahahahhahahhahahhahahaha!!!!!! True son of Fela Kuti!!!...wetin snake born no fit dey short joor...kalakuta marriage...

Kelly F. Baby said...

and u think its natural for a woman to be asking u can i chase her for u??

women, stop doing all these silly thing just to make ur man happy cos truth is it wouldnt last. God aint silly to create one man to a woman

Anonymous said...

Mr "i can't be faithful" hope u are using protection?cos AIDS is as real as f**k.

Mr Ben said...

This is Femi Anikulapo Kuti. We can live differently. Some tend to move from traditions. Fela is an iconoclast. U must be a true son. Have meaningful living. Simple. No thanks!

Kelly F. Baby said...

and u think its natural for a woman to be asking u can i chase her for u??

women, stop doing all these silly thing just to make ur man happy cos truth is it wouldnt last. God aint silly to create one man to a woman

@dacarterhimself said...

Real talk. Thats the mind of a real man. #sameThangHere

Nadreb said...

I dont know why women think they can change a man. Is father was a big cheat as well, and married too many women. Its obvious dat his sons will follow on the same footsteps. Women dat know they cant handle bad boys should go with someone that suits them. D man has said his own.

Ibitee said...

Words from a wise man...If you cant live by the laws of the institution called marriage then dont go into it cos others are doing it..the bal is in our court..be wise..take your own decisions and please pple dont condemn other because of their believes and way of life..

Ibitee said...

Every man has a right to his/her opinion..do not crucify him...nobody holy pass

Anonymous said...

OMG I LOVE FEMI KUTI for this truth that he has spoken. As a Man from same place that he is from, I feel exactly the same way and I just don't have the balls to tell my parents that this is how i feel about women so i just do it behind my wife's back. 99% of men are unfaithful in their marriage yet we all lie just to show face. I am nearing the point where i will tell my wife the truth and just enjoy this short life that we have.

Long LIVE the ABAMI EDA and all his Children

Anonymous said...

Stop confusing womanizing with truthfulness

Queen said...

Femi ur choice is ​Ǥõõϑ 4u but, remember what shall it profit a man to gain d whole world to himself n Lost his soul in a lake of fire wt brimestone.

Anonymous said...

He's just so principled and blunt.I respect his opinion anyway.

Anonymous said...

Wareva iz personal bizness nd nt mine..... Nxt gist...

Chimka Melvis said...

I'm not surprise.

Anonymous said...

And so who cares.... you can do whatever your stupid mind tells you. Olodo!

Anonymous said...

What a pity. He's obviously broken. God will heal your heart and make you whole and you will testify. Shesays? should I chase her for you??? I really think women are the truly evil ones. If we didnt allow shit like this where wilm Femi find such women to condone this rubbish?

Anonymous said...

Linda you skipped the part where he said APRIL FOOL. Stupid man, never liked him anyway.

Anonymous said...

U can neva b half as useful as femi is,NEVA!lol,didn't u read d part where d man said he tried loving?funke cheated,wat type of mindset do u expect him2av afta dat?hissss!u girls prefer men dat lie2u

Anonymous said...

U all just castigating him.....u don't knw wat he's been tru....I knw its a little out of place for a guy ta say finz lyke diz buh sumfin must av happened u all shldnt insult him....wat abt beyonce en oda popular peepz dat support gay marriage aren't u guyz still dier fanz don't u still luv em..so just stop

Reimen said...

Cut the judgemental crap people! The only difference between femi kuti and the average Nigerian man is that he has openly and honestly admitted his actions. Show me a faithful man in Naija & I'll show u a liar. Everyone has a right to make their choices. Let God be the judge!!!!!

manymen said...

*yawns* no comment.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Lolz@ the girl is fineoo,should I chase her for u.
Dats the type of woman I need,u cheat-I cheat everybody stays happy.
But if I catch u in four legs and one blanket mode.hmmmm

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Nelly the Weight loss blogger said...

hmmmm... deep

Anonymous said...

This man is just an Ass, WTF obviously u nid help,trash
*val*

Unknown said...

Do whatever you wish with your life.....

Makeover by T.E.J.U said...

Femi Kuti has so much Pain and hurt with Funke leaving him...Same way Olufemi Lite couldnt just stay faithful to Funke Tobs...ha, wat an irony, all ds. Femi's tho... I feel for them.. God made love, marriage , Adam and Eve only, they just get it all wrong....God forgive him, i feel hes blaspheming the institution of marriage tho.

Anonymous said...

Learner jatijati, bloody latecomer

Anonymous said...

I guess he's made it very clear, FOOLs can therefore go ahead and fall in love with him

Anonymous said...

YOU ARE JUST A BIG FOOL

Anonymous said...

Jose Mo will do anything for a woman "like a Crazy Man" he sings

Unknown said...

show me a human being who has never cheated or lied to someone and i will definitly show u a liar..the fact remains that a world with 100% honesty would be boring

APPLE said...

Like father like son. I know one of the reasons he is like that is because his EX wife FUNKE was DUCKED properly by deferent men, and you know men they find it hard to forgive and forget once that happens. THE THING DEY PAIN THEM WELL-WELL. :)

Xxx said...

Na waoh kmt!!

Unknown said...

show me a human being who has never cheated or lied to someone and i will definitely show u a liar..the fact remains that a world with 100% honesty would be boring

Chichi Taichi Okere said...

I agree with him as far as not lying about being faithful when u're not but always be open n receptive to love cos it does find u and when it does,grab it with both hands n nurture it for its glow lights up ur entire life.

Anonymous said...

I thought he had sense. This is d issue with the world today, everyone thinking they shud be free to live however they choose!!! What does God have to say about such ignorance? Yes GOD!! He's still Our Creator. You better recognise!!

--Teeteelahyo--

Anonymous said...

Couples cheat on themselves even without knowing it. You, the man that cheats on the wife ,dont be surprised that your wife is already a sugar mummy or a mistress to a cool and rich married man outside. That is the latest now. Many women believe that all men cheat ,which is not true and that there is no point being faithful to their husbands. Marriage is no longer sacred to some people. For the anonymous that said that 99% of men cheat on their wives, you better get your facts well. There are more than 10% of faithful men out there. Play man will always talk like one.This is terrible. As for Femi, his side chick is solely interested in his pocket. She too enjoys her life with guys outside and i guess he is aware of that. That is why is good to have fear of God because we will all give account one day, on how we lived our lives on earth. Happy new month ada ikeji.

Anonymous said...

Yeah like d Idibia's relationship

yvonne said...

See as femi oil himself bring out 4 all these linda ikeji blog readers wey thr mouths dey 4 thr hands....him own don finish today.una go tell am accient nd modern.lmao @kalakuta marriage.

Unknown said...

All these holier than thou critics blabbing about Femi's position should remove the speck from their eyes first. If I may ask, How many of you have kept to the Biblical injunctions about FORNICATION? How many over 21 yrs old girls or boys that are still virgins? How many married couples are shunning ADULTERY ? The guy is stating the obvious and people should respect his position.

Unknown said...

All these holier than thou critics blabbing about Femi's position should remove the speck from their eyes first. If I may ask, How many of you have kept to the Biblical injunctions about FORNICATION? How many over 21 yrs old girls or boys that are still virgins? How many married couples are shunning ADULTERY ? The guy is stating the obvious and people should respect his position.

Anonymous said...

What an unholy talk .u better give ur life to christ don't follow ur father reckless life

Anonymous said...

It runs in deir blood...........not suprice. Nxt

Anonymous said...

At the end of the day,,,,this is the life of 95 percent of Nigerian men.. especially the married ones..God help us .. but on the other hand Femi lives with a woman who is not his wife so technically his single and is just being honest about the way he mingles. And his live-in girlfriend accepts such lifestyle...sad. The men produced by Fela all seem damaged...look at Seun Kuti aka weed head...they witnessed the lifestyle of Fela UPFRONT so it is hard for them to be faithful or live a normal life. I bet anyone will turn out broken if they came out of that background. @ Femi grow up...u sound disgusting.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Femi for been open minded. How many men aint cheating on their galfriends or wivies? No lies, so any woman who wants to be with you does it @ her own peril. Sincerity and lack of communication is wat lacks in most relationship. If you find happiness in this sort of lifestyle, then by all means live it.

Ikunkun Babbles said...

I don't see how you can read the entire post and not feel sorry for him.
He raised issues that shows he has been cheated on and how he can't find true love because he is Felas son, I can imagine how hard that would be!(can't imagine taking Felas grandchild to my mum, not to talk of his first son).... I feel bad for him sha! He seems to have genuinely loved that his ex...see how he used style style to still talk about her.
I hope his heart heals in time for him to find that special someone....(before he contracts HIV, esp from that akunakuna he's living with).
Everybody should quit being judgmental, most of the men in naija have worse lifestyles...all the chicks coming here to show gragzz should go and manage the lying cheating partners.

Anonymous said...

NYC 1 Jare..........@ least e doesn't lie 2 babes 2 date dem

Anonymous said...

God bless you! He's a mad man..

Anonymous said...

guy u are my biggest g.i like ur idea.fuck marriage.why stay with one babe wen there are thousands/millions out there.

Mr Polygamist said...

Those who are condemning Femi for having the courage to come out to say who he is are a bunch of fools and hypocrites.
I can bet 99% of you dogs are not faithful to your partners.
He has told us his problems and now we know.
Why abuse his father for being a poligamist?
I bet many of you cannot even take care of one ugly goat you married not to talk of taking care of numerous pretty ladies.
Thank God Femi is not a bastard like you guys.
Pretender! Animals! Bastards.

Anonymous said...

Messed and fucked up life.. Tryn to be one smart idiot, axe your father,awon iyen aids lo pa won..

Anonymous said...

#GBAM#WELL SAID,THE LIKES OF 7BABA!HMMMMMMM GOD SAVE US FROM PPLE LIKE THEM.HELL FIRE IS REAL.THIS WORLD IS JUST A SHORT PASSAGE!YOU LITTER KIDS AROUND NOT MINDING THE CONSEQUENCES.BADT BADT LIFE!#RASTA MAN SAYS DAT#

Unknown said...

at least hes keeping it real unlike most men. its good to stand for what you believe. well said femi

Anonymous said...

You don't have a life, #gba.. Messed and fucked up life.. Tryn to be one smart idiot, axe your father,awon iyen aids lo pa won..

Unknown said...

Chai dis world is rily coming to an end! Linda pls giv us d next gist,no one actually cares abt Femi. 'Most' people know him bcos of his father and he is here claiming mr popular...telling us he is living wit a girl....mcheeew

Anonymous said...

HIV/Aids lo ma pa won gbeyin, tell him to sit his aass down and think of what killed his father.. Una no dey learn? Rubbiiish!

badoo said...

He is sayn d truth cos he fears no 1..hw many married men r faithfull to dere wives..he doesn't care wt u guyz or anybody thinks#tonguesout#

Anonymous said...

True talk @ medals. I'd rather have a man like dis dat will tell d truth straight to my face dan have a devil in disguise. I knw most of u won't agree wt dis but guess wat? Its my opinion deal wt it.

Anonymous said...

This man is obviously confused he thinks saying what he feels make it cool, as old as you are, you can't tell, what is wrong from right and you come out to influence other guys with your nonsensical ideas becos a you're a public figure, you must think yourself smarter than God, I pray you reap all the things you're sowing in pples heart n homes

Unknown said...

Na him sabi...

Anonymous said...

Lo bere lowo awon daddy e, HIV/Aids lo pa won.. Don't change oo, dem no dey tell person.. Oshisko..foolish talk,and that girl wey won helep you chase another girl, I pity you as your STDs package go carry weight gan..

Anonymous said...

You don't have a life, #gba.. Messed and fucked up life.. Tryn to be one smart idiot, axe your father,awon iyen aids lo pa won..

Anonymous said...

Many people hate the truth. is it not better to shun marriage and have whoever you want, or be locked in marriage and cheat.

Anonymous said...

Mr Femi, pls its best u stay faithful 2 1 woman 4 God's sake...LIBers pls stop insulting him ||Lisa||

Matt said...

Shut the fuck up hoes and bitches calling him names...How many of you have truly been faithful to your Bfs and Husband? And i don't mean not having sex alone? And for any man who comes here and tries to score cheap morality by castigating Femi, i pity your stupidity and foolishness. Truth is, yes it is ideal by societal standard and religion to be faithful to one partner, but how many men and women are truly and can be faithful nowadays? Pls how many?

Anonymous said...

I don't blame dis on his father. In my humble opinion,he's a die hard romantic who's scared to fall in love for fear of being taken for granted.

success said...

I Don't really think an issue ℓike dis cud be fairly debated by some of us that haven't be there before .I am sure Mr femi mightnt have ds believe while growing up....some of us are expected to be spectators on an issue like this ,to be realistic some of us are not qualified in all standards to adjudicate on a sensitive issue ℓIke dis.I guess d sweetness of life cud only be best described by those that have tested a cup of betterness in d past ...ds topic is not just gud enf 4 any1 one to discuss expecially some of us with only text books / films experiences...who no like Romeo n Juliet stuff....love cud be so wicked atimes

Unknown said...

Dis is hw every man thinks but we re no bold enough to say it 2face almost embark on d journey but lata yielded to family pla to get married

sQo said...

Brother, why so angry?

sQo said...

F.A.I.L

Unknown said...

I so much like that..u av to give ya man da freedom and space to do his thing..bein over protective isn't da best..that hez married to u doesn't mean he can't have eyes outside or can't like any other gurl..if u're da jealous type just cut it a bit and try nd understand ya man..let him feel free..

Unknown said...

He is being truthful and honest, something women find hard in a man.STDs are real, so on this note, don't overdo.

Viano said...

Does that mean the woman can also date other men while with him? And when she get pregnant for who knows who will the father be, he will gladly accept? Or why would you think it is okay to date as many women as you like and your partner is supposed to be happy and ask no questions? Is she a piece of rock with no emotions? And what legacy are you leaving for your daughters? That they can be used as toys/play things by men? RUBBISH!!!

Unknown said...

Exactly. Like father like son. I wonder what else a married man can possibly seek outside when he has the same thing under his roof.

Anonymous said...

Glad to know that he tells the women he mess with the truth about him. All you who judge him; mind ya own bizness. He is not you or f*ing you, so what's your own. His women are not complain. I don't care for his lifestyle. I dey face my own.

Belinda said...

Femi Kuti is my man becs I will so cheat on him!we ought to be togethr darlin.I luv a man so fuckin blunt...u play ur card n I play mine no issues.lili abeg let him knw hw I feel..x0

Jungle Justice said...

Absolutely! The ranting of a broken hearted man. I pray he finds healing and soon too. This is no way to live, life is way too short.(My opinion btw)

Aymii said...

Yes oooo! Whenever u hear any man talking like this, Babe somwhere don break d man heart!!!! Asin do the man "Strong Tin"!.................Men are always painted as villains...but the truth iz, wen e reach heart matters....They get hit the most!.......................Av played around quite a lot, but the last gurl I choose 2 really love....after a year indi relationship woke up one morning and said it was ova!!! No reasons Nothing! Jus like that!..................For months I was heartbroken....I jus got to find out some weeks ago vat ha Ex boifrend(whom she told me she broke up with).....wasn't indi Country!!..He jus got back and prolly found out about me, So she had to break me and her!....The babe bin just dey cheat on the guy wiv me oooo!!And there I was introducing ha to all and sundry as my woman! .Funny but not so funny!................................. So y'all give femi kuti some space abeg!!..Certain experiences make people talk in certain ways.

ujunwa said...

U better zip up to avoid HIV

Anonymous said...

Useless man, Aids is real.

Anonymous said...

This isn't good at all, au can a man not ave control? Getting down with everything in skirt? I tell u its the quickest way to death. Mr kuti, pls watch it, it does not pay in the long run!

Anonymous said...

This isn't good at all, au can a man not ave control? Getting down with everything in skirt? I tell u its the quickest way to death. Mr kuti, pls watch it, it does not pay in the long run!

loladivae said...

ooooops!!!
Someone is angry
datz gud buh 'm a female so i cnt watch ma man chase other girls
never!

Anonymous said...

This isn't good at all, au can a man not ave control? Getting down with everything in skirt? I tell u its the quickest way to death. Mr kuti, pls watch it, it does not pay in the long run!

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmm femi Ūя̲̅ looking for ways to continue t̲̣̣̥O̶̲̥̅̊ enjoy several women,tell me the present gf Ɣ☺ΰ have in Ūя̲̅ house,if Ɣ☺ΰ ever see her wit anoda man Ɣ☺ΰ will be calm abt it regardless of dis agreement Ūя̲̅ stating Ɣ☺ΰ both HΛ√Ǝ,no man will eva want t̲̣̣̥O̶̲̥̅̊ share is property period.

Anonymous said...

That kind of relationship is called an open relationship. The woman does not mind at all because she is doing the same thing and is benefiting from the unfaithfulness of their marriage.If she sees a man she likes, she can hook up with him.Ppple like me in a faithful marriage, when I see a man I like I appreciate him in my mind and thank God for taking time to create him but that's it I move on. Cheating on ur partner is not worth it. Trust me, it takes you nowhere but to your doom.

Unique said...

History has a way of repeating itself. Femi, remember what killed ur father. A word is enough for d wise.

chamilah said...

I must say he's handsome,legsome,Facesome,bluntsome but he lack Respect and I think its all as a result of humilation he has faced in d hands of women..... But its not all women that act like the bitches in ur past Femi and not all parent will judge you for being Fela's Son. BTW Fela was a Legend and everyone has got Flaws.

Anonymous said...

At least he is honest, majority of Nigerian men will never be faithful and the only difference is they keep lying. Obviously he has had his heart broken and has trust issues. I really like him and hope he's happy.

Anonymous said...

Fan ke? She don become ya personal celeb?

Anonymous said...

Mehn this is me , I love you.

tomilola said...

The way some of these so called role models reason is totally unfathomable and if one is not careful they tend to make abnormal things to look so normal that u begin to think you are the abnormal one. They don't deserve to be called rolemodels,we really have to be careful so we don't get influenced

Anonymous said...

Fyn guy...looks so much lyk my father in law...me dey trip fr d old man..waiting fr d day he wl do me...sure he wl b good lyk his son,my hubby

Unknown said...

I tell you.... What kind of life is he living? He can't be faithful! #Eish!

Anonymous said...

Linda pls help the young once by publishing educative things,fact abt life etc ,they use the social network more than the adult.thank u

kowalski said...

i totally agree with u sir....

Anonymous said...

Exactly PC!! So true

AMMY said...

Femi,go back 2 Funke,she is d only one u can truly love.All ds jumping about wt ur numerous helpers won't help u,instead u will end up destroying urself.I know deep down u want a woman 2 call ur own but u can't swallow ur pride.Rmba,he who finds a wife finds a good thing.It does not say women or girlfriends.A word is enuf 4 d wise.So u don't regret in ur old age.

Anonymous said...

She does that a lot...she forgets one drop makes a mighty ocean..linda every fan is important..

Anonymous said...

At least he doesnt mind her being unfaithful, no questions asked, now it is different if he is a cheat but wants a faithful woman... He doesnt care what they do behind each others backs, so it works for them! If she is fairhful n u question her life but u r a cheat then u deserve to

Anonymous said...

Anon 4:02 PM and Anon 4:03 PM. You are children of cowards. Fela is greater than your families and extended families put together.

Anonymous said...

My mother once told me that 'some birds arent meant to be caged', celebrities go through hell and bk finding the right companion and settling down. u've not lived how he lived nor been through wht hes being through so y make all those foul comments? As for those throwing harsh words about his dad dying of std and all, I'm guessing yall belong in my generation, all active n hyper about the'swag' thing and passive on proper education! Fela fought for this country ppl, Lost his mother in the process, yet continues to fight; and this is what he gets really????.secondly, theres no reliable source tht states that he died of Aids, ever considered the possibility that he might have been killed? It breaks my heart 2 see Nigerians talk like this! some of u are so backward!. In a country where a large number of Its male citizens are: violent, unfaithful,and abusive, and d women? freeloading,liars, vicious and competitive! At least he had d balls to say what he wants and he has a woman who respects it! wetin come be una own!?we can never grow when we spit on our heros, oppress our ppl and Play God when someone seem 'odd'! ppls personal 'life' chioces should b respected,its thier impact on the public tht counts. pick your words carefully ppl, its hard to loose a loved one irrespective of hw they died. Fool, rot in hell, std e.t.c WoW..ppl still talk like this? make una grow up, and perhaps our country might start to earn some respect. life is bigger than nigeria!,so think rationally!

AMMY said...

Useless man,I pray ur wife is also cheating on u,nd u will soon find out dat ur kids were fathered by oda men.Foolish womanizer.

Anonymous said...

Sounds like he is still in love with his ex wife Funke.........

AMMY said...

Femi,go back 2 Funke,she is d only one u can truly love.All ds jumping about wt ur numerous helpers won't help u,instead u will end up destroying urself.I know deep down u want a woman 2 call ur own but u can't swallow ur pride.Rmba,he who finds a wife finds a good thing.It does not say women or girlfriends.A word is enuf 4 d wise.So u don't regret in ur old age.

Olu said...

"So, by the time she and her mother made up, of course, the marriage collapsed." --Femi Kuti referring to his ill fated marriage.

So, is Femi inferring that his mother-in-law broke his marriage?
Even if your mother-in-law broke your marriage, is this enough reason to just discard being monogamous?

Well, the benefits of being monogamous outweigh that of being polygamous, that is if one is lucky to have a properly trained and faithful woman as a wife.

I think people like Femi Kuti are misguided and that is the problem. He was not brought up right and so people should not expect any thing better from him.
The parents of those he dated, who were against him marrying their daughters were right about his character. This is why ladies need to listen to their parents when it comes to choosing a partner.

From my own observation, Femi is just rationalizing.
The reason why the Femi Kutis of this world cannot be monogamous is because they like to 'sample' pussies of various ladies. 'Them too like pussies too much'. That is the truth. It is because of people like them that we cannot control STDs in this world. They are like DOGS. They just want to do every body without thinking of the effect of their actions on the society at large.
Good luck to you Femi. Keep on putting your precious prick into all sorts of pussies because of 5min enjoyment. So gbo ( you hear ). What befell your father is definitely waiting for you inside those pussies( this na fact and no be curse I dey curse you o).

Anonymous said...

Indeed, his fathers son http://wp.me/2GS7W

XL avenue said...

Not for the public. I have bin following urban blog for quite some time and I think u should have a contact me section so ur blog followers can send u gist. The explosion in Abuja was not a bomb blast rather a gas explosion
http://xlavenue.blogspot.com/2013/04/easter-monday-explosion-in-abuja.html
Cheers

Lana wine said...

Word

Ella said...

he has just got life all wrong, this is part of poor upbringing.

Anonymous said...

sharrrap there ode.

Chikaka said...

Funke broke his heart!

Anonymous said...

I just hope he's practising safe sex. If he is then it's cool as long as his partner(s) is (are) okay with it. I'm female just in case that's important. At least he's not being a bloody hypocrite, going to church and professing love and fidelity and then turning around after marriage to sleep around and say it is not natural for men to be faithful, even as he calls God and quotes the bible.

Anonymous said...

Mr Kardashian!!

Anonymous said...

It is so obvious dt femi still likes funke a lot

Anonymous said...

Jst shut d eff up biko & face ur marriage.*rme*.U b fela pikin?.All fingers r nt equal oooo.If u hve stayed dis long in ur marriage,u better hang in ther & better nt open dat ur salmonella species infested mouth & hurt dat wman who bore ur beautiful kids 4 u & probli helpd & encouragd u in achieving all u hve & will ever hve.He-goat of life!.Mtcheeeeeew

Anonymous said...

What are wrong concept of freedom Femi has. Of course we are free to do whatever we like, but doing the right thing is the only way to ensure ones happiness as well as that of others.

Unknown said...

hmm! dts all

shity biz said...

Femi has just proven the parents that did not allow him to marry their daughters right just becuz he is fela's son with his actions. It is true that there is no how we cook shit that wont smell shit. Lesson to young ones....listen to elders.....

Anonymous said...

This must be some April fools joke. I'll be disappointed if this was true cos I sort of respect this guy.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, nd all. His mistresses nd wife will be unfaithful too. Hmm see how hiv is spreading despite the awareness. God help us

chioma said...

FELA DIED OF AIDS ohh. okay a word (or in this case, an experience) is enough for the wise. follow your dad's footsteps okay mumu.

ify,,, said...

K bro! That girl na real definition of onuku! Mumu man!

Mr Santa said...

Since there is no place to click Like, I will just type it instead "LIKE"

Anonymous said...

Femi,who cares abt hw u live ur life,go and get a therapist

nene said...

Warefz man! Linda next biko!

Anonymous said...

Linda I also sent u a mail on ur gmail as per an enquiry,I vnt seen any reply oooo. Am still waiting ooo.

Anonymous said...

Ye$$ Bo$$. This man are you for Real. Last to comment lol.

Anonymous said...

Is this what is called freedom? i rather think he is in bondage. Even Eagle birds are so disciplined they dont change partners until one is dead. so what are you talking about. Well, all the best to you, as you shop for HIV and also probably spread it round.

Raylah said...

Hmmmm, ok o! Ur life, ur choice buh dnt 4get how ur dad ended up.

Anonymous said...

Some men are simply annoying,imagine! @ his old age,he's still jumping from pillar to post. Na wa o,women don suffer,where is the love?

Anonymous said...

I look at u b4 as a wise man I never know u are a bigest fool ever. Any way am dissapointed in u, u just brought ur self down

ify,,, said...

K bro! That girl na real definition of onuku! Mumu man!

Anonymous said...

OLU; read again. How could the mother in law have broken the marriage when she and Funke were not talking?

(So, is Femi inferring that his mother-in-law broke his marriage?) She had nothing to do with the break up.

Anonymous said...

You forgot young 'twice' and 'thrice' too. Lollll

Blogtoto said...

Lobatan!!Keeping it in d family lmao!

Anonymous said...

For ur mind u 2 handsome abi? U can't be faithful to any women. abeg go die abeg

Chidoh Evulobi said...

like father like son,so, this man at his age is not reasonable stable when it comes to relationship and family matters.

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