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Thursday, May 31, 2007

Relationship Question!

If your partner threatens to kill you if you ever left them, what would you do?

Share your thoughts.

11 comments:

SET said...

LEAVE JUST WHEN HE OR SHE SAYS IT, BY THEN IT MAY STILL BE LIGHT AND THEY ARE NOT UPSET AT THE TIME. IF YOU STAY AND LET THAT UTTERANCE OCCUR WHEN THEY ARE FIRED UP THAN IT IS DEEP AND COULD BE LIFE THREATENING FOR REAL. LEAVE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

Nyemoni said...

Leave him and call the police!!!

Anonymous said...

Its only men that would say this kind of thing. Its not because they love you...its fear of rejection. WHen they say they will kill you, they mean it. They will kill you. But in that kind of relationship, you must have seen the warning signs...he feels he owns you, he is too jealous, he verbally and physically abuses you, he cuts your ties with your family and friends. You are basically his slave. And when he knows you have no self esteem left, he tells you what to do, when to do and how to do it. It could be as trivial as how to even set your hair. Hey...he owns you so he can do whatever. But in every human being, there's an inner fighter. and for predetors like abusive men, they see when the fighter is coming out. So they kill the will to live for you by threatening you. They look you dead in the eye and they say "If you ever leave me, I will kill you".
This is a very touchy subject, but the time to leave this kind of relationship is during the warning signs...before he says "I will kill you". May God protect women from this kind of horrid men. May God protect their children cos they are also victims and may He also give them the strenght to recover from an abusive relationship.

Mrs2cute

ExcitedJade said...

i'll let my family know immediately, incase of a sudden death.... ha.. will defiitely leave him..

Tayo said...

I'll threaten to kill her too!!! LOL

naya said...

i support tayo 100%.threaten me i threaten u.finito

I can't beleive my eyes! said...

Get a piece of hot lead and call the police.

Anonymous said...

ur partner threatens to kill if u leave?ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun!noooooooooooow!

chidi said...

emmm....i would leave them still. If they thried to kill me, it won't work or my spirit will hunt them forever. the person must be even mad to tell me such rubbish

Overwhelmed Naija Babe said...

lol... someone told me they'd stalk me if we ever broke up... and they did... it's like Maya angelou once said 'if somebody tells you who they are... believe them'... so get the fuck out as fast as you can... lol i love tayo's response.. hes funny

wienna said...

It's easy to say u'll leave when they threaten u. Believe u me, these men r very dangerous. I've heard of cases where women have been threatened like dis and when they report to d police, they don't take it seriously. By then it's too late, and they get killed.