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Friday 3 February 2017

Nigerian woman who gave her husband money to pay her bride price seeks divorce from him for lying about his employment status

A Nigerian woman, Faith Ogu, has asked a Jikwoyi Customary Court in Abuja to dissolve her marriage to Joseph Ogu because he deceived her about his job status. As Faith told the court, Joseph told her that he works with a bank and owns a business in Lagos that generates millions in income. He also lied about owning a house in Lugbe. Believing these, she loaned him money to pay her bride price and she also sponsored their wedding.
As Vanguard reported, after tying the knot, Faith, who is a civil servant, discovered her husband was completely jobless and she tried to encourage him to get a job, but he allegedly made no effort. She followed up by reporting the issue to her husband's sister yet there was no improvement.

While presenting her case before the judge, Mr. Everyman Eleanya, Faith said;

“He is lazy and does not want to do anything for a living; I have been lending him money, hoping he would pay back. I sponsored our wedding and even lent him money to pay my bride price.”
Faith pleaded with the court to grant her request so that she can move on with her life.
“I beg this court to dissolve my marriage so that I can be free; I am tired of feeding, clothing and paying medical bills for my husband”
A judgement could not be reached because Joseph Ogu has not been in court since the case started, so Mr. Everyman Eleanya adjourned the case to February 9th.

32 comments:

Ike Louisa said...

If has job initially, he wouldn't have asked you to pay for your bride price. Lazy fool.

igboboy said...

Na lie you must continue with the marriage it's for worse for worse

Hrm Paul said...

Bad market bad sharp guy.Him just guy d woman chop her moni chop her choco useless man

Anonymous said...

Faith nawoa na real wow. He has a business and a house yet he's begging you 4 money odiegwu any man that asked me for money will automatically becomes my enemy

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Choi! I feel for the woman, what sort of man is that, that's what many men out there do to trap successful women. Their union can't stand on lies, I hope she gets her demand.


. ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Unknown said...

Proper fuck boy! No apologies!

Unknown said...

Proper fuck boy! No apologies!!

Unknown said...

Proper fuck boy! No apologies!

Unknown said...

Proper fuck boy! No apologies!

Don Helen said...

I wonder how ladies think sometimes, if he can't pay ur bride price, he is not man enough, ladies pls be wise

DAMOLA said...

lazy man,mumu wife,gave him money to pay 4ur bride price

Unknown said...

she doesn't have sense. if he's working, why would you lend him money for your bride price and still sponsor the wedding?

Unknown said...

choii bad market...

Unknown said...

The man na 419 guy useless and stagnant illitrate

empress ojukwu said...

Haba what kind of nonsense is that most Abuja guys are good at that looking for a woman that will cater for them...Get him out of the house

mma said...

Choi! That is what happens to gold diggers. Y will u be borrowing money to a man that works in a bank n has houses? Even to d extent of lending him ur Bride price (aru!). Good for you ( in my daughter's voice)

Unknown said...

HAHA SHE NEVER START!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

okay u married him because of he told u that he has heaven and earth is not for love. u are mad stupid woman.

Unknown said...

This woman is very foolish, how can a man told you that he has a job and business bringing him millions and you lend him money to marry you.you are the biggest fool of the year.

Anonymous said...

Shut up. Is marriage by force

Chizzy Liz said...

*********************Choi******cee nyash opening ******some men eeern*******dia own laziness get odour*****untop ur money sef dem go dey yan submission*********Tueh*******

Anonymous said...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAA EWOOH ODIEGWU HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Afy said...

Complete arrant nonsense.

Anonymous said...

@igboboy you are very stupid

Anonymous said...

She is not alone in this as lots of Nigerian ladies are guilty of this.

So many so called @ big girls@ out of desperation paid their bride price by themselves and even go as far as paying their husbands monthly salaries just to be married to them.

These women are the first to find out the marital status of single ladies who prefer to stand strong alone until the real man shows up. They are the ones who are quick to gossip the single or those bold enough to divorce their husbands.

Lots of these girls in oil & gas, banking and well paying jobs marry out of shame/ need for an ordinary circle round their finger and the most annoying thing is all they get out of the marriage/ man is just SEX, GIGOLO STYLE. How can I pay a man salary up to N100,000, buy him a car, fuel it daily and maintain the car, take care of his immediate family etc just to be married, see myself through ante-natal and raise my child while living with a "man?"

The funny thing, these men have their ways with these kind of women and usually at the onset, people warn them not to marry the man but they would adamantly go ahead with it, then turn around to scream "murder".

Divorce ko, @till death do they part ni@, mtcheeeeeews.

Anonymous said...

Greedy Woman

Anonymous said...

Most of the abuja guys are like that looking for a wealth woman to fot their bills lazy man

Unknown said...

Ds woman is d biggest fool in d world... If u av been lending him money 4 buz or oda tinx is n nt bad@all but u go ahead lending him 4 wedding n pride prize which means u ar d husband n he is d wife(I mean housewife) n u knw wot housewife does nothing bt homework.... I wish I am d judge I will adjourned d case til death do u 2 apart.

Unknown said...

Some women love men who lie to make them feel good even when it is obvious. If the guy had come clean from the start, she probably would not have paid him any attention.Be a little careful next time and I hope you win your freedom because the guy will not make it easy for you to obtain a divoorce, he will keep skipping the court until the judge runs out of patience and grant your wish in his abscence. Goodluck

Unknown said...

She's dumb... Period!

Anonymous said...

The judge should allow the marriage to continue. Was the marriage conaunmated in a beer parlour? The lady should finish what she started. I advice both to reason together and see what the guy can start doing.

Anonymous said...

Finish it how?

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